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| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsWtf are you talking about dumbass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:11 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsWomens physical standards are so high that they filter out almost every single man immediately though. A woman being with a man who is below her physical standards is still a 7/10 chadlite. The men you think do not reach your standards are literally well above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:56 AM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsAgain, you're literally just lying. Download a dating app, use their photos, and watch the applications for dates flood in. Better yet, don't even use their photos. Men will still match with women on dating apps and offer to take you out on dates, even with no photos, so it doesn't even matter if you're so disgustingly morbidly obese that you can't even get out of bed anymore. There is no such thing as a femcel. There is no such thing as women being lonely or struggling with dating. It's not rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:22 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsAs a guy you have to be at least an 8/10 on the PSL scale to get with a chick that isn't fat, if you live in America. And since fat women are disgusting, it's pretty much over for the vast majority of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:14 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsSo you don't enjoy sex? You just don't like having sex with men? Why not just be a lesbian? Or are you a lesbian? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:10 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsThere is no such thing as a femcel. There is no such thing as women being lonely or struggling with dating. Women in this very sub are just blatantly lying about this like they think we're fucking retarded or something. This sub is a psy-op. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:10 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsEven with a massive deformity and obesity she will still have tons of options. There are literally no women who struggle to find dates, it's not a real thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:08 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsthere are women out there who also struggle with dating Saying that there are women out there who "struggle with dating", is like the same thing as saying that there are skinny, underweight and underfed women who "struggle with eating". But being a skinny woman who "struggles with eating" while she's sitting in a buffet and refusing to eat any of the fucking food, is not the same as being a dude who is stranded out on a remote island, or out in the middle of the desert, with no food to eat. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:07 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different things99% of women's so-called "red flags" are things that suddenly stop being red flags when the guy passes through the looks filter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 09:52 PM |
| – | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsThat's just a blatant bull shit fucking lie, but allllllright LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 09:51 PM |
| – | Where does this myth that men age like fine wine come from?[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:06 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADUnless you're just using the term to describe any woman who has long hair and isn't overweight, then sure, I guess? What do you think it means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 02:35 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm confused. What do you think a "Stacy" is? Do you think that's a term of endearment or something? "Stacy" basically means you're like those girls who show up on the Fresh and Fit show. High maintencance gold-digging hos plastered in way too much makeup, plastic surgery, long nails like a witch, and no brains, selling their virtual asshole on Onlyfans and sleeping around with every guy that has clout or money for them to leech off of. My ex is nothing like that. At all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo, because she's not a Stacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 01:19 AM |
| 0 | The women saying “Youre alone because your personality is terrible” are NOT the women actively dating terrible men.The only thing that matters is looks and height if youre a guy. If you look good, things will just work out for you, and if you dont, they wont. Timing or luck or whatever else it is that you try and factor into it is just a distraction from the bottom line. If you are attractive, women will want to fuck you, period. If youre not attractive, all of this bs about confidence and putting yourself out there will not change anything about the way that women view you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 09:01 PM |
| – | Guys seem to be very chill about being around people they dont like or generally unlikable people.Women only care about looks and height, everything else is irrelevent. If youre not tall or good looking then theyll let you pay to have them put up with you. They are all like this and there are no exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 08:56 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf shes a stacy shes a pump and dump anyways. Why would you ever believe a woman about her fuck count? Theyre all liars lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Doesnt matter if youre not a chad. You could string fifty billion thoughts together and it really wont matter because women will still swipe right on 1000 mentally retarded chads before you and then they will still complain about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.That doesnt matter though. The number of women who arent fat is so low that your only chance of ever getting one are to be a high tier chad. You either settle for fat women, stay single, or passport. Those are your three options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | If you’re a man and can’t find a partner, it’s just natural selectionMen who dont approach women and dont have confidence with women, are like that because they know that they do not measure up to womens standards and they get rejected every time they try. Acting like its their fault or their problem is pointless. If the average guy could get girls, he just would. The majority of men are looked at like they are a disgusting pile of shit on the ground by the average women though, and men learn this through being rejected harshly and having their egos stomped into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 05:21 PM |
| 3 | You can’t be doing everything you’re supposed to do if you’re not actually listening to the instructions.No it's literally just all women. Even the ugly fat ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:17 AM |
| 6 | You can’t be doing everything you’re supposed to do if you’re not actually listening to the instructions.Because every single time guys talk about this fact, women respond with some bullshit about how the reason theyre not choosing them is because of some made up laundry list of nonsense like "treating women like people" or "going to therapy". When the reality is that all women really care about is looks and status, thats it. They are literally superficial to the core, and on top of it, theyre liars. Theres nothing more to it than that. They are basically evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 06:30 PM |
| 24 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Well yeah. The whole "bar is in hell" thing was always a complete lie. Every guy who isnt completely cooked knows this. The bar is in hell line is basically just women complaining that there isnt a massive supply of 6/6/6/6 men who are ready and willing to settle for them. If you dont meet this standard, which almost no men do, then they consider you "below the bar". The bar is set far above average though, not in hell, but women do not view average men as real men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 04:27 PM |
| 13 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeResults in online dating apps and clubs are the same for men, its all just rule 1 rule 2 end of story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:42 PM |
| 2 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseNone of this affects me, and you don't know me. Quit it with the passive aggressiveness, will you? Just because you can't relate to this, and just because you choose to view life through a different lens (as a woman) doesn't mean that anything in my mindset is "unhealthy" or that anything I said is even wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 09:57 PM |
| 2 | A lot of male self-improvement advice is useless because it still keeps women at the centre.In a biological sense, it isn't really. Human beings survive, fundamentally so that we can reproduce. Not being able to attract any women, basically means you are a genetic dead end that will never father children, never have a family of your own. It's not just about the women or the pleasurable feeling that having sex gives you in the moment, it's much more than that. Telling people that want to be parents and want to have families that they're pathetic and just falling into a "mental trap" isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 09:53 PM |
| 3 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseSome of the men I know are married and others aren't. Marriage is a social contract designed to chain women to one specific man, and in exchange for his resources, she gives him access to her womb. Women for the most part are not genuinely attracted to their husbands. Most married men are just beta-bux jesters who are "good enough" to settle with later in life, but were never "good enough" to be genuinely desired when they were at their peak. Most men know this, but they'll take the beta-bux lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menWomen can not be "used" for sex. Women engaging in sex with men is a mutual act. Unless the implication here is that the woman is only "giving away" her body to the man in exchange for something else, like his money in a long-term arrangement or sexual exclusivity with him to boost her status. If either of those are the case, then the woman is basically allowing herself to be used, knowingly, and therefor, has no real right to be mad unless there was some explicit agreement put in place. Like, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Refusing to work on social skills is a sign of laziness.Working on social skills isn't really something that you can even "do". Social skills aren't "skills" in the same way that knowing how to fix a broken car engine is a "skill". If you didn't learn how to socialize growing up in school, then you're probably screwed. You had 18 to 22 years to figure it out. If you didn't learn how to talk to people by then, you're probably never going to, it's the hard truth. Regardless, "social skills" matter very little in the grand scheme of things, if we're jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 12:47 AM |
| 6 | A lot of male self-improvement advice is useless because it still keeps women at the centre.That's all fine and good, but at the end of the day, if you're a guy, you have to think of this from the perspective of the average man who never gets even a single drop of affection from women in his entire life. It's easy to realize that self-improvement is a reward in and of itself if you've had positive sexual encounters or relationships with women throughout your younger, prime years. Average guys never get this though, they never even get a "prime", and their sexual desires basically go un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Red pill causes are a bigger threat than the worst of feminists causesFeminism is literally all about gender. It's a gender-focused ideology, literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Red pill causes are a bigger threat than the worst of feminists causesNo, the most "extreme" feminist cause is to deliberately and intentionally groom young boys into taking female hormones and rejecting their own masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 10:54 PM |
| – | The problem isn't women. The problem isn't men. The problem is unhealthy enneagram 3sAre you on something right now broski? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 10:46 PM |
| 4 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseThey can get sex more easily because men are testosterone-pumped horndogs. Exactly my point. You really think conventionally attractive men are going for conventionally average women? Absolutely. Men do not really care all that much about what you look like as long as you meet a certain minimum level of standards. Past that point, the woman's personality, vibe, and presentation matter a lot more to most men then their physical looks do. The only three real requirements that most men have are to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 10:45 PM |
| – | The problem isn't women. The problem isn't men. The problem is unhealthy enneagram 3sWhat "problem" are you even talking about? You never mentioned anything about any "problem" in your post, you just rambled about Andrew Bustamante and Dr. Phil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men have a victim mentality when it comes to romance and dating?It feels like so many men on Reddit and in my generation have a victim mentality when it comes to dating and socializing where they just get bitter and withdraw and I don't understand why. Because more men than ever before, at least going back to our parents and grandparents generations, are starting to realize that success in heterosexual relationships as a man looking for women is essentially rigged. Just put yourself out there more. Attend more social events, approach more women, develop more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 10:20 PM |
| 18 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseYou think it's delusional to believe that the majority of women could have sex with multiple attractive men if they wanted to? You think it's delusional to believe that the majority of women can get free money, either directly or indirectly, from simp-type men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:43 PM |
| 7 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseSo what you are saying is that you think that it is normal for men to be predatory? Also, if you don't mind me asking, what do you personally mean when you say that these men were "predatory"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:42 PM |
| 25 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually choose...if you look through women's subreddits, I feel like there are a plethora of posts from women saying the exact same thing about men -- that if you are unattractive as a woman, then you may as well not exist in the eyes of men at all. Femcels do not exist. These women reject the attention of men constantly. Women learn from a young age that if you are not hot, or if you don't put effort into your appearance, then men will not respect you as much or treat you as an equal. The same exact thing ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:41 PM |
| 10 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseBlack pill and red bill are not responses to anything, they're just people sharing opinions about what they believe is the most important factor when it comes to attracting women. Sure there are grifters and people using those identifications to sell people shit online, but the majority of people in these communities (just like the people on this subreddit) are just participants who don't gain anything tangible from any of this. Also, older gens definitely understand black pill ideology, but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:35 PM |
| 13 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseI don't think the average guy believes that the average woman is like Bonny Blue having sex with over a thousand dudes. Obviously I get that you're exaggerating with that number, but I don't think it's unrealistic for most GenZ men to assume that the majority of women their own age are at the very least dating either a top dude, or a handful of dudes who are all above average at any given time, especially if she's at least moderately attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:31 PM |
| 10 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseThat's not true. Most men are swiping on literally every profile on every dating app and still getting no matches, even with some of the most unattractive people who are on there. Men are far less picky than women when it comes to physical looks. For most men, the only two requirements to be considered beautiful is to literally just not be obese, and don't cut your hair like a dude. If you can literally just manage to do those two things you are already way ahead of a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:29 PM |
| 12 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseI don't think that every woman does that, but the majority of women could if they wanted to. Most women don't want to do that though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:27 PM |
| 13 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseDamn that's unlucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 08:25 PM |
| 18 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseTrue. As another commenter pointed out, this is called Apex Fallacy, it's a real phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 08:25 PM |
| 1 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.What is punktified? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menCan you elaborate on what you mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menWho needs a roster, when you've got ya' a good ole' rooster? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?Porn addiction is real, but casual pornography use is not on its own inherently bad. Just like not all people that play poker are gambling addicts, and not all people who play video games are video game addicts. There are some people who can become addicted to these things though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?Very well said. It really goes to show that people's attitudes change drastically, depending on who they are talking to. People view coupled people who have "dead bedrooms" as a sort of tragic and upsetting problem that needs to be solved. There's never any push back about entitlement or "needs" or what have you. Then when a single person complains about not having any sex, oftentimes not by choice and not by any fault of their own, people tell them not to be entitled, that sex is "not a need", … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?When you say "actual social repercussions", I think it's important to note that most men aren't afraid of the things that red-pillers whine about online, like getting kicked out of a bar, or arrested, or being put on blast on social media. It's the social aspect and the possibility of "poisoning the well" that men are afraid of. Maybe there's a girl in your peripheral friend group that you like, and you've known her for a few weeks or maybe even a few months, and you want to take a shot at her, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:30 AM |
| 128 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseThis is because most men are invisible to women. The only men who are not invisible to women are the top percentile of men that all of the women actually desire, and the bottom percentile of men who are predatory. All of the men who are in the middle may as well not exist in their mind. They do not even register. However, to a lot of women (particularly the feminist types who post on forums like these), any man who is in that middle chunk is a "potential predator", until proven otherwise. Likewi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:23 AM |
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