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DebateBigMoistTwonkie/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:42 AM
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It's not fiction. Women literally admit these things very openly themselves. Why do you think that there are so many apps and groups where women try and find out which other women their boyfriends are sleeping with? Why do you think there are double the number of single men in their 20's compared to women? Why do you think that women reject the same group of men consistently until all of a sudden in their mid to late 30's they're willing to give them a chance once they're ready to "settle down"?…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:21 PM
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Most women are sleeping with the same small group of men, hoping they will "choose her" and dump the rest of their harem to be monogomous with them. Most men are sexless until their 30's when they get beta-buxed. It's not some conspiracy theory, we know now that this is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:01 PM
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Are you a part of some religion or something? What do you mean by "purified"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:36 AM
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Topical minoxidil doesn't do anything for you if you don't have the genetics to grow hair in certain areas. It can help your hair if you begin to go bald or thin in certain areas if you already had hair there, but if you just don't have hair follicles in certain areas, it won't magically make you grow a beard. Not to mention, that stuff has some gnarly side effects, and only works so long as you keep taking it so it's a lifetime commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:51 PM
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Are you Mexican? Do you live in Mexico? Because I'm not Mexican, and I don't live in Mexico, I've never been to Mexico, and I don't plan on going to Mexico any time soon to study the average height of the Mexicans there. Where I come from, which is mostly white and black people, I actually do not in fact see 5'5" men almost anywhere, because the average height is at the very least five inches taller than that, and men that short are exceptionally rare. As for what I've seen in real life, pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:27 PM
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Alright you're on the int-list then, bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:29 PM
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There I edited the first sentence out, are you capable of reading it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:27 PM
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What is the point of being on a debate sub if you cannot even subject yourself to differing opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:27 PM
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Saying that women just want a man "taller than them" is like saying that people generally just want a car that goes "faster than they can run". If you can run at 28mph, you're not going to think, "wow this new car I just bought can go up to 30mph!". If a car could only go 30mph you'd think something was wrong or deficient with it, you wouldn't buy it. You want a car that can go at least triple what you can run at top speed or else it's useless, even if it can technically get you around faster th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:22 PM
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Ascribing men's qualities to women, does not help the world make "more sense". Sexuality and reproduction amongst people only makes sense when you analyze real behavior, and look for the incentives that drive that behavior. Women are not incentivized to couple with men based on some made-up sense of morality that our particular society follows. That's not how we evolved over millions of years. People try to rationalize this, or alternatively, people like you reject these notions entirely, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:15 PM
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That "black pill" would basically state that looks are the defining factor in your success in dating, that it is more important than any other factor, and that looks create a fundamental filter which utterly negate a significant portion of men from ever being seen as attractive to any women because of height, penis size, and bone structure requirements that are genetically hardwired into women's minds. It is the theory that essentially demonstrates that there are completely and utterly different…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:09 PM
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Was she some sort of far-leftie bimbo bitch or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:47 PM
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People are perceived as more visually attractive when there is familiarity and knowledge of who they are, regardless of the traits that are ascribed to them. Positive or negative. This also doesn't work both ways between men and women. Men care about women's personalities and morals much more than women do. There's actually a fair degree of evidence that psychopathic traits in men make women much more attracted to you, not the opposite. If you can't take that at face value just based off of all …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:45 PM
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This is the "women are wonderful" effect on full display. No context, no argument, just shitting on men and ascribing positive traits to women. If women on here would just come out, and say, "I hate men", it would save the men here a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:38 PM
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Dude, they were hitting on you. Did you miss that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:16 PM
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That's not true at all, this is one of the dumbest feel-good things I have read on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:14 PM
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That's a load of rubbish mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:12 PM
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Confidence and charisma come downstream from being attractive, as a result of positive social interactions. Confidence isn't something you gain, it's only something that you can lose, over time. Everybody as children start out with confidence, and those who are not given positive reinforcement lose confidence over time through rejection, bullying, or ostracism. Confidence and humor do nothing for you, if you are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:10 PM
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This post is going to be taken down for sub rules, but honestly I completely agree. The way this sub works though is that any posts that discuss the real nature of human attraction and sexuality based on looks, which is what attraction is primarily based on, get removed because they're scared if they don't that the sub will be taken down for being too "black pilled".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:08 PM
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Yeah, most guys don't want to just "use women for sex". Honestly this idea that most men are interested in "using women" for sex, as if it's not something that men and women do together as a pair, doesn't really make much sense at all. If men are using women for sex, then women are also using men for sex. The entire way it's phrased is just another way of demonizing male sexuality, which is not surprising given what sub we're on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:06 PM
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approach first, take all the initiative in the beginning, pay for the first date etc. then this will typically filter out men who just want an easy lay. Women really think that guys putting in effort = not getting used for sex? I don't believe this, it honestly just seems like another gaslighting post. Effort has absolutely nothing to do with it. Men have already made it abundantly clear through prostitution that they are more than willing to fork over however much money it takes to get sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:58 PM
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The thing about the "6666" rule is that often times, it isn't that women want all of those things at the same exact time in one person, but that most women will have at least one of those things as a requirement and even one of those things is enough to write off large swaths of otherwise good men. Most men are not six feet tall. It is less than 15% of men who are that height or taller. Most men are not earning six figures. It is somewhere in the ballpark of 21-25%. Most men are not in good enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:13 PM
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I never said anyone is "ruined" if they gain weight, but you're not going to be as attractive as you otherwise could have been, if you had made healthy lifestyle choices and stayed in peak physical condition, obviously. It's the same thing as someone who takes drugs. If someone is on meth and crack for 10 years, if they quit then they will definitely start to become more attractive, but you've likely done some amount of permanent damage to yourself at that point that will only become partially h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:32 PM
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Losing weight only fails in most cases, if you literally do not stop shoveling food in your mouth. Also, you will not have sagging skin or stretch marks if you... never become obese in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:34 PM
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That's not true at all, most men do not even find women who have ruined themselves with plastic surgery to be attractive. Plastic surgery almost always looks incredibly gross and inhuman. Women for some reason are deluded into believing that what most men find attractive is the "Miami Bimbo" look, which is just not true at all. Lip injections, big booty BBL, long witch nails, spray tans, it all honestly just looks very ridiculous and offputting. What most men want is a woman with long hair, who …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:30 PM
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For me absolutely not. However, there are plenty of red pill men who wouldn't care at all, because they don't actually care about the woman at all. There are plenty of men willing to simp and be manipulated, knowingly, who don't have any sense of pride, dignity, or self respect. Most of these men view all of the relationships in their life as fundamentally transactional anyways, and only see the woman for what she gives to him, and all these men really want is the social validation of having a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:14 PM
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Well, first of all, the rates of inceldom and virginity in young men is rising. Second point, there are opportunities for guys to have one night stands or freebies where women will choose them just because the guy is in the right place at the right time, or the girl has some ulterior motive. She might be trying to make her ex jealous, she might be rebounding from a breakup, she might be drunk as hell, she might sleep with him out of pity or because his or her friends put her up to it. There's lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:44 PM
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Actually that happened to me, that's how I got my first girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:38 PM
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Some people just like high stakes, so, what better way to raise the stakes, then to give yourself less time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:34 PM
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That's only if you're a bitch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:28 PM
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more successful men have more of the "asshole" archetype while the less successful ones have more of the "nice guy" archetype. Yeah this is pretty much the most accurate way you could view things. Most people aren't 100% on either end of the spectrum, but everybody falls onto one side of the spectrum or the other, and that determines a lot about how your life goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:13 PM
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Most likely explanation is that the wife is also a big bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:11 PM
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The difference is that "anti-social" men typically flock together, and do anti-social things together. It's like you said, many of them either join gangs, or they just hang around with other anti-social types without being a part of an official gang organization. And these people might have friends who walk away from them, but they still have friends coming in and out of their lives all the time because they're socially dominant and attractive initially, either because they're fun, funny, or jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:51 PM
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Most people who are young nowadays aren't even getting married. A lot of us aren't even moving out of our parents houses until our late 20's. The only people I personally knew who got married at 25 or younger were either people who dropped out of college because they either couldn't focus, or because they got knocked up. And if not that, they were the people who dropped out of highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:41 PM
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There's a difference between "antisocial" and "social reject". Those aren't the same thing, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:34 PM
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If she's your friend, how would you not know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:24 AM
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You people are not "asking each other out" anymore, this isn't a thing, it's 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:00 AM
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Doesn't apply to below average women. Yes it does. Below average women get approached all the time, they are lying. The only exception is if they are fat. I feel like I've seen below average men with 10/10 hot looking genuine caring girls. No you haven't. You did not see this, this is why you just "feel" like you've seen it. Schizophrenic people "feel" like they see shit that doesn't exist all of the time. You did not see this, it does not happen in the real world. You might have seen it in a dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:27 AM
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"This isn't settling this is called being a normal rational human being who wants normal rational things." This is literally settling. "Settling" is a normal, and highly rational behavior that women do, and have done, forever. The entire point of the redpill and MGTOW movements, from their inception, were to point men in the right direction, in order to lead them to the understanding of the way women truly view the average men that they settle for, in long term relationships, and in marriages. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:14 AM
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This is all completely false. All of these points are just nonsensical lies that women tell themselves to feel as though they are rational actors with reasonable and "socially acceptable" standards. They say things like this because they do not want to feel as though they are superficial, and that their wants and true sexual desires are very much superficial, far beyond that which men themselves hold. Women's true sexual desires are primal, irrational, illogical, based on genetic incentives, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:07 AM
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Let me fix this for you. Women do not care if you are an asshole or not. In fact, women are much, much more likely to date you and be attracted to you if you are an asshole. This is a fact. Women do not date men who they find unattractive under any circumstances. No women are attracted to any man they perceive as being a 5/10. You do not have to be competent at anything in order to get women to be attracted to you. The only thing that matters is looks. Money doesn't even matter as much as people…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:50 AM
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Men commit the majority of crime, but the majority of men do not commit crimes. Some women also commit more crime than the average man. Women are often the ones taking care of children and the elderly, but men are often the ones providing them with the structure, resources, and safety to do so. There are also plenty of men who take care of children or the elderly directly. Some men are attracted to very young women, but most men are in relationships with a woman who is within three years of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:50 PM
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That's a really stupid, self serving mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:27 AM
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You said, I don't want to change anyone who doesn't want to change. But you also said, In the past boys used to dream of becoming men. I would like to see that happen again. Masculinity was celebrated in the past and should be celebrated again today. It really does seem like you do, in fact, want men to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:01 AM
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I understand wanting to become physically and mentally strong, sure, that's fine and good. In general though, the entire idea of the phrase "be a man" is basically just a tool used to pressure men into self-sacrifice, that's it. We could literally just come up with some real world examples of how the phrase "be a man" has been used to fool men, time and time again, into ruining their own lives. Don't want to get into a fight? BE A MAN! Then, worst case scenario you get knocked out and bonk your …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:56 AM
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It's not nonsense. You just don't want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:41 AM
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This isn't true for men. For women, sure, but for men, dating is not "action based".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:11 AM
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Yeah but it's rare. Most women make enough money that they're not going to settle for a guy they don't actually like just for money. And most of these so-called "betas" don't even make enough money to attract the types of gold diggers they're so scared of anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:13 PM
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Dudes on this sub will finally get a girl to like them, then proceed to fuck it all up because they think "sHe tHiNkS i'M jUsT A bEtA bUxX" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:11 PM
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I hate this whole "table" thing, whether it's applied to men OR to women. You're basically just asking the men on this sub to glaze themselves by writing you a long laundry list of all of the things that they think are "good" about themselves. At the end of the day, so many of the things that people end up writing when they try to put "everything out on the table" are really just superficial, second-order things that are nice to have, but don't ultimately matter in terms of creating a healthy, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:32 PM
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I think OP most likely: Lives in the hood. Has a lot of gang bangers and felons around him. It's really that simple. You never hear white / east Asian, middle-to-upper class people talk about how the women around them only want "thugs and felons". This is what I like to call "poor people problems" aka gas station behavior. The women on this sub who are saying things like, "eww, I would never date a thug", are more than likely: White women. Both parents are still married and have never been in tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:37 PM
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I mean, it depends on what you mean by "genuinely good". If we're talking about traits that make men attractive, then yes, attractive men are "out of the dating market" whenever they choose to be so, because if there are women attracted to them, then at any point in time they can enter a relationship with one of them, if they choose. Of course nobody is forcing them to do that, it's their choice, and they can stay in that zone indefinitely until they're too old and another group of young men com…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:37 PM
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There are ways to change your personality, but it only comes through changing other aspects about yourself and your worldview. Also, you can only change it so much from your starting position. It's like pulling on a slinky, a spring, or a rubber band. The further you pull it, the more resistance it has. For instance, you can teach someone who's super unconfident how to stand up for themselves and how to be more assertive, but it'll be difficult to teach them how to be dominant or even mean, if n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:19 PM
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If you want me to give you a more specific breakdown of what this actually means, rather than this other person's terrible explanation of it, I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:14 PM
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With that mindset then you literally "pay" for everything that you do at every point in time. I don't see being together with someone else as "paying them with my time", that's a really shit mindset to have. When I hang out with my family I'm not "paying them" with my time, when I hang out with my friends I'm not "paying them" either. Even if that were the case, they're spending just as much time and energy as I am, so it's an even exchange. Nobody is "taking" more or less from anybody. It's pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:01 PM
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The only social media I use is YouTube and Reddit. I don't use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tiktok, Tumblr, or anything else like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:33 AM
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No, we met in college and have been seeing each other for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:47 AM
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A lot of women who call themselves feminists are very much concerned with this idea of the existence of a "patriarchy", where men make more money than women, men are paid more money for working the same jobs as women, and men own the majority of capital and assets in society as a consequence of them being the only ones who were allowed to for over 200 years. Therefor, a lot of women who claim feminism will very forthrightly state that men should have to pay for and support women, as they're the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:45 AM
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I mean, yeah. Men being used for money in exchange for a fake relationship where the woman feels nothing for him, sucks. This is why as a man, you can not lead with money or simp for women. It's the only real way to know if she likes you for you, or if she's just in it for the benefits. You'll find out really quick which women just want you for your money, for dinner dates, and for gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:17 AM
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That's not true at all lmao. The last time I hooked up with a girl last week, she paid for our movie tickets and our hotel, the only thing I paid for was the gas in my car to come see her and the condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:13 AM
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A lot of women who claim to be feminists don't believe this at all, if anything they believe the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:11 AM
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What do you have against guys who play music, dance, or own a boat? I feel like most people would view all of those things as being somewhat positive, if not just neutral. It also seems kind of strange that smoking and drugs are a dealbreaker, but not drinking alcohol is also a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:04 AM
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I literally had a friend like this. Highschool dropout pushing 24 years old, no job, out of shape, plays video games and vapes gas-station weed carts all day. Collects unemployment and money from mommy while his wife works full time and goes to college. Can't do basic math, has a ton of made up health problems, beats his puppy for peeing on the floor and ripping things up, and talks tons of shit about his wife behind her back. But he was 6'5" and she was obese, so when he hit her up off tinder s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:52 AM
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She said 5'10" and below, that's not tall, that's average height to short.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:37 AM
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To be fair in 2017 I was a highschool senior / freshman in college so I guess I missed a lot of the drama there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:30 AM
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She asked for rice and he threatened to kick her out of the car and make her walk home if she didn’t eat pizza too. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:12 AM
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That's the thing though, it's always been an internet-centric discussion. People talk about it on twitter, on reddit, and on other social media platforms, but it's not something that's ever come up in discussion in real life, at least for me, either with men or with women. I don't think most men in the real world are concerned about this type of thing because most men aren't the types of guys who would actually sexually harass women, and most men don't really care about celebrity news or gossip …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:07 AM
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I don't really see how "metoo" has anything to do with normal people. Wasn't the entire movement based around exposing sexual exploitation amongst Hollywood celebrities and movie producers? I never took it as something that normal, average, everyday people concerned themselves with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:51 AM
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It's kind of hard to hide being a human turd, they're just as obvious about their mindset as blackpillers or the people who worship Andrew Tate and Myron Gaines. I don't even think they try to hide it honestly, most of them are incredibly vindicated in their own opinions, despite being single in their mid 30's and beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:45 AM
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Yeah I'd say that this is fair and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:42 AM
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Without the /s though LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:35 AM
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There are plenty of men with little to no money who are in relationships constantly. Money means almost nothing when it comes to any type of relationships, unless you are literally so broke that you can't afford to put gas in your car or you're homeless or something. Neurodiversity and health issues definitely check out, I'd add being smelly or dressing like a total dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:33 AM
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At what level of income would you consider a man to be "broke"? At what level of income would you consider a man to be "average"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:31 AM
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At what level of income would you personally consider a man to be "destitute" or "impoverished"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:30 AM
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This is very true. It's really sickening, but it does seem to be the case that in America, and I'm sure a lot of other developed first world countries, that if you're a man who isn't affluent to some degree, there's a sentiment that you're not worthy of any sort of dignity of respect. It's an attitude mostly held up by women. Most men, outside of a contingent of the very wealthy upper class, to some degree will have a level of respect for other men based not on how much money that have, but what…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:30 AM
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Most of the women on this sub are strays from FDS (female dating strategy) which is basically the equivalent of the extremes of the redpill, but the women's version. It's well known for basically being a feminist echo chamber for women who are manipulative and misandrist, who basically write guides on things like: How to get men to simp for you. How to use men for their money (dinner dates / gifts / vacations etc.) How to emotionally manipulate men by shaming and emasculating them. How to emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:24 AM
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If you're a man who's paying for women who you are not in any type committed relationship with, ie. boyfriend and girlfriend or married, you are a simp, end of story. Shaming and emasculating FDS tactics like this are how men get used, day in and day out lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:14 AM
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This advice is actually quite based and is going to fall on deaf ears here. In college, the first girlfriend I got was actually the result of me getting into a friend group with multiple women who I didn't make any moves on, who then set me up on a date with one of their friends. People on reddit will never listen to this though because: Any advice that suggests that they may be insufficient in some way other than just pure physical looks will be written off as "feminist nonsense" or "blue pill"…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:34 PM
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There's a lot of overlap that needs to be addressed here. There are unattractive guys who are creepy. There are unattractive guys who are not creepy. There are attractive guys who are creepy. There are attractive guys who are not creepy. The halo effect makes people less likely to view creepy behaviors in attractive men as being as creepy as they actually are, depending on how creepy the behavior actually is. I think it'd be helpful for a lot of guys here to understand what it actually means to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:00 PM
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Think Shrek, but just not green.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:50 PM
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It's because people want what they can't have. If a woman sees you with another woman, she thinks, subconsciously, "this guy is attractive to women, and he's chosen this woman when he could have chosen me instead... could I potentially make him choose me over her?". It's the same reason why men report so often that women become way more attracted to them after they're married and they go around wearing a ring on their finger. It's a concept called pre-selection and it's been noted in the manosph…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:24 PM
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I didn't say it's impossible. I said that it's not likely. Less than 20% of people make more than 100K per year, and that's across all ages. People in their 20's and 30's are far more likely to be making less than people in their 40's, 50's, and 60's, which is an important detail because this is the age where people are actually partnering up and starting families. Also, if you're citing sources from LA, that's obviously going to be inflated, which I did mention in my comment (high earners tend …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:57 PM
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That's not the point though. Most people in life choose their career based on a number of factors, such as: What they have a natural aptitude at, what they're good at. What they find meaning in, how they want to affect the world. What their level of intelligence is, what they're actually capable of doing. What opportunities they have, what options are actually realistically available to them. What level of stress they're capable of dealing with, how much responsibility they want. There are so, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:24 PM
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I don't really even believe in this idea that there are so many guys out there with "no options". Like, yeah, some guys definitely have a harder time finding women willing to date them for various reasons, and some guys are much less socially outgoing and engaged in social groups (therefor meeting less women across time), but in general, just about anyone can find a partner of some kind if they put themselves in the right situations, take part in social groups, and take care of themselves physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:50 PM
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I think he's projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:48 PM
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This is an incredibly stupid way to think of it, but alrighty. Might as well just say "learn to code". That phrase is a meme for a reason. Not everybody in life is capable of achieving a 100K a year job. Less than 20% of people, man or woman, ever will in the US. It's a classist attitude that's rampant on reddit, not just on this sub, but all across the website in general. It's not surprising though because it seems like at least 80% of the people on this website are either computer programmers …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:28 PM
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Outside of doctors, very successful lawyers, and the very top of computer programmers, who the hell even makes 300K without either being a celebrity / influencer, or a business owner? Wouldn't 300K a year be like, way into the top 1-2% of income?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:10 PM
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I mean, yeah, that's kind of the system we're all living in right now. The vast majority of working people cannot afford to be a "provider", man or woman, the economy just doesn't support that. Most of the essential jobs that people work don't break the 100K mark. The median income is like what, 65K? And that's also factoring in people who are past 40 who have already gone through their careers and met their earning potential. Outside of tech, medicine, law, and other jobs we'd consider to be "S…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:08 PM
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Whatever the male version of this girl is or really any man on earth did interpretative dances like this it would be just ridiculously mocked by most all people. Well, yeah. Men acting like women is typically laughed at by most people, what would you expect? There’s also super basic choreography dances of Sophie Rain that made 42 million on OF last year. It's not the dances that are making her all that money, it's simp men who get a kick out of sending money to girls online. Guys have a signific…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:49 PM
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I prefer women thicc with two c's, with a big bouncy ass, so not skinny and lean, but definetly not fat either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:52 PM
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I can speak to this, because I have actually felt like this in the past, and it cost me multiple relationships that I sabotaged because of that mindset. In highschool it kept me from talking to girls after my first breakup, in college it lead to me pushing my second girlfriend away, and it cost me another relationship with a girl about a year or so after I graduated college too. It's a symptom of neurosis. You shouldn't try to analyze yourself or judge your own value when you're in a negative or…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:42 PM
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This is 100% true. Social isolation, atomization, technology addiction, and a lack of social hobbies, is very bad, and it's something that people need to solve way before they worry about getting a date, or a girlfriend, or a wife. When it comes to poor social skills, that's a very tough one to solve because it's not necessarily always rooted in a few bad behaviors that someone can just get over. Sometimes there are people with personality disorders, autism, or some other thing that's seriously …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:05 PM
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No, I don't think that anybody should give up on that. As for what you should do about it, I really can't say. There are plenty of reasons why that could be the case, and some of those reasons are probably solvable, and some of them might not be solvable. Like, if some guy told me they were a virgin because they were born with no penis and no balls, then that's probably an unfixable scenario. I can't grow you a new PP, unfortunately. But if someone else said they are a virgin at 30 because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:56 PM
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I agree with this, of course. The vast majority of people are filtered out for various reasons. We don't consider family members for romantic relationships. Likewise, people who are either too old, too young, or people who don't speak the same language are also filtered out. You also have to consider that a lot of women will not consider someone as an option because they're already in a committed relationship with someone else. On top of that, social context definetly does matter, as you pointed…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:26 PM
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Well, if you're a virgin, it's because you haven't had sex. Sex generally happens when women are attracted to you. So, if you haven't had sex, it logically follows that women, in general, are therefor probably not attracted to you. Especially if you make it past your early 20s and not a single one has ever shown any interest in you at all. As to why that is, well, there could be a multitude of reasons. It could have something to do with your looks, or your hygiene. It could also have something t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:47 PM
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Honestly, it's hard to think of any that I've heard of in real life and not on the internet. I did notice that the kids in highschool who wore cat ears and fox tails around school ended up together though, so maybe if that's their preference, that would probably qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:01 PM
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I can get preferring to cook, but what's the big deal if he cooks something? Like, if you were asleep and your man got up to go cook some steak and eggs for breakfast, would that piss you off?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:59 PM
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They don't call it cardboard crack for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:53 PM
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People who grow up in those environments tend to have that imprinted on them growing up. It is what it is, but I wouldn't say it's weird, it's pretty understandable why hood women would be attracted to hood dudes, that's the reality they live in. Now, if some wealthy suburban girl is going after hood dudes, that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:50 PM
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Stay far away from anyone who is into astrology, man or woman, they're all fucking nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:47 PM
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I'd say that's true for first or maybe even second generation immigrants, for sure. It's not necessarily tied to race though, just wanted to make that clear. Most of the Asians I've met throughout my life have just been pretty normal run of the mill Americans. I'm relatively young though, so the Asians I've been around aren't immigrants, however a lot of their parents or grandparents are, and I've heard from them how different their viewpoints and life experiences are compared to a lot of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:21 PM
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The whole point that I'm trying to make is that when people talk about women liking "assholes", being an asshole means something totally different in that context then what we would generally consider some "random asshole" to be. Women loving "assholes" generally means things like knowing how to tease her in a way that isn't offensive (flirting), knowing how to appropriately tell a joke that might come off as offensive (humor), knowing how to stand up for yourself and push back against women whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:14 PM
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Handing a woman a hankerchief is nuclear levels of cringe. Holy fucking shit lmao. Might as well tip your fedora while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:40 PM
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My boomer mom told me the same thing in highschool. She literally told me that I need to "go to church and get you a nice fat Christian girl", like wtf? Im not religious and Im not into fat women. It's such corny advice, boomers are truly fried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:39 PM
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I was going to say this as well but you beat me to it. Expecting men from cultures where men and womens relations are highly patriarchal and regulated by families, to understand the nuanced social reality of people who were raised in more individualistic societies, isn't very fair. Those people live in an entirely different reality than us, and many of their cultural practices are influenced by religious belief and the laws of their particular part of the world. None of that really applies well …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:36 PM
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I've only had this happen to me one time. And if I remember correctly, it was in middle school, by a girl who I ended up sleeping with many years later when I was in college. She lied to me about needing money to buy our mutual friend a birthday present, when the reality is that she probably just wanted to buy drinks or some weed to go party with her friends. When my mom found out that I gave her something like 40 dollars (which was of course money that my mom gave me, since I was too young to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:16 PM
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I dont think when people say that "women love assholes", they're referring to the type of guy who would approach a random girl and call her a "roastie" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:47 PM
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Well, if the guy is an obvious asshole from the start, then I'd tend to agree. There are plenty of mentally ill, shallow, asshole women to go around for the men that deserve them. I don't think that the majority of men who are huge assholes are like that from the jump though. Some men will be so hopelessly stupid and trashy that they can't hide it, but there's a percentage of men who are massively sick in the head, who are incredibly good at hiding that fact under a mask of kindness and generosi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:43 PM
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I don't think that there's anything necessarily wrong with the story you linked to. The issues, as he put it, really stem from multiple key details which are for the most part understandable, even if they're not necessarily justified upon further analysis. 1) The woman in the story apparently LIED to him about being in contact with her ex boyfriend, not to mention, she's sharing their messages (weird), and also discussing their relationship (also weird). This will obviously raise some suspicion …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:44 AM
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Well, it all depends on a lot of factors that have to do with the individual. The most important piece of the puzzle here is that if people want to find a partner, they have to be appealing to the person they want. Of course, being more social is a huge part of meeting new people and opening yourself up to more romantic opportunities, through the formation of social connections and social circles, but at the end of the day, if you actually want to be accepted by the type of people you want to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:58 AM
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Whatever issues you think the "dating climate" has, will not be fixed by people losing weight, by and at large. If fat people lose weight, they become more attractive, and are thus seen as options to healthy-weight people who wouldn't have considered them an option before. All this does is raise the overall number of people in the dating scene that already attractive people are willing to date, but it doesn't fix any of the societal issues that are actually affecting people's dating lives, like:…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:42 AM
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Literally every cell in our bodies is "genetic", this is a non-argument. You cannot just appeal to biology over and over again to write off immoral behavior as being acceptable. If you do that, then you're literally nothing more than a wild animal. Human beings are supposed to be better than that, and if you can't manage that, then you're critically lacking in whatever "genetic" trait makes human beings moral and social beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:29 AM
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If you make a commitment to someone not to do something, and you both mutually agree to that arrangement, and nothing about that commitment to one another changes, then you actually are entitled to their sexual fidelity. Monogamy is literally a social contract made between two people that they both want to have a sexually exclusive partner, and the promise that's implicit in that is that neither one of them will cheat on each other. The entire point is that both partners are entitled to the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:16 AM
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As someone who has been cheated on once in the past, this is so, so, so wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:11 AM
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There are plenty of things that people desire, which are not good for them, and are not moral. For instance, I have very deeply seeded antisocial thought patterns. I think about harming people, seriously, all the time. However, I've never assaulted, injured, or killed anyone, because I know it's wrong, it wouldn't be good for me, and it wouldn't be good for the world at large. I fantasize about it all the time, but I just won't do it. It is an endorsement of betrayal, you are literally saying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:07 AM
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I made a whole post about this a few weeks ago and got absolutely cooked for it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:35 PM
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I actually did include gaming in my list. Also, sci-fi and anime would fall under the umbrella of movies / TV shows / books.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:56 PM
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I still don't really get what you're on about. I don't "only attract women by going to the gym". It's kind of weird that you even bring that up, given that you don't know me. I have a career, I have hobbies, my partner and I have a similar sense of humor and we make each other laugh all the time. There's a lot more to my life than just lifting weights, that's something I only do for a few hours a week. It's just one quality about myself, and quite frankly, I'm not even the most ripped guy. I'm i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:40 PM
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I think my diet is reasonably healthy. I cook a lot of my own food, don't eat fast food, etc. I think diet is important but it's not really relevant to what this post was about so it didn't cross my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:28 PM
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You're not willing to engage with anything here at all, you literally just come to this sub to cry about the fact that women won't date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:25 PM
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What are you on about lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:23 PM
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Well, yeah, if they're not attracted to you, then being interesting, or having money, or whatever else doesn't matter. That's kind of self-evident. The point though, is that being more interesting and doing more interesting things makes you more attractive, and multiplies your opportunities, depending on what you decide to peruse in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:13 AM
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That's an interesting perspective. I'm still in my mid 20's, so maybe I'll understand this more as I get older. You sound like a true sigma male. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:11 AM
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What is that even supposed to mean? You're sorry that I'm in good shape and that my partner appreciates that I'm in shape? It sounds like you're trying to throw shade but you just unintentionally complimented me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:07 AM
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There could be a ton of reasons that people are in loveless, sexless marriages. Marrying the wrong partner, first and foremost. Hormonal issues from the food we eat and the drugs we take. Unresolved personal issues in the relationship that need to be addressed. Pornography addiction, from either partner, but mostly from men. Extreme stress from work, depending on what you do for a living. Extreme financial stress from the economy, depending on where you live and what country you are in. Naturall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:04 AM
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Neither of us are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:53 AM
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Anyone who denies this is insane to me. How do men not get this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:53 AM
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Having a nice body, toned muscles, higher testosterone, lower body fat, and a visible jawline are LITERALLY some of the most attractive things you can do for yourself. It's not the end all be all, of course style and grooming and money are pieces of the puzzle too, but if you're a man and you're fat or if you're super skinny, you are losing in life, sorry. Being physically strong and athletic is by far one of the most important qualities to have as a man, if you're not pushing yourself physicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:52 AM
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Hey, buddy, I hate to break it to you, but if those things do not personally apply to you, then you shouldn't feel ashamed of them. I certainly don't, because I'm not a fucking drug addict, I don't pay for prostitutes, I don't pay girls on onlyfans, and I don't sit around bitching about women on the internet all day like some weird fucking degenerate. If you do these things then I think you really should "do better" and so should all of the men who do these things. Women might actually fuck some…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:48 AM
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The problem with this logic is that by the time women start to find you interesting, you are no longer interested in them. Uhh, based? What's the point in going on a date if you already have a satisfying lifestyle? I'd rather go to the gym and lift some weights with the lads or play a video game. Getting into an LTR would interfere with your hobbies and bring nothing but drama and extra chores. Well, for one, your boys aren't gonna fuck you or go to bed with you so I think that's the point, at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:42 AM
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Plenty of women are also disinteresting yet they don’t have a shortage of men interested in dating them. Men struggle because their drive for sex and relationships are higher than women’s. I agree with this. I think that one of the biggest problems in the modern landscape of dating and relationships is men's lack of standards for women, and men's lack of standards for themselves. Onlyfans exists for that very reason, same with virtual girlfriends, prostitution, and a whole lot of other things th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:37 AM
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If you say so. Out of curiosity, how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:35 AM
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Do you try to push things forward? Do you ask women on dates? Have you tried online dating? A lot of guys I think are good enough to get into a relationship or at least go on some dates, but they're not actually pushing their interactions with the women they're interested in forward. Do you get rejected a lot, or do you just not make any moves and then assume the women aren't into you? Even if a woman is very obviously into you, they will almost never, ever actually ask you out themselves. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:31 AM
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I'm going to just be concise here and tell you that you should have just said guys need to find women whose interests are in line with theirs. Exactly, but to do that, you have to have interests, and the more interests you have, the better of a chance you'll meet a woman who shares interests with you. If you're boring, ie. you have no interests, and by extension, no life, then you can't find a woman to share anything with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:28 AM
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This is literally what women think of the absolute majority of men, because there are so many men who literally are that. Women on OF wouldn't be getting rich if men weren't such massive simps who willingly pay for it. Big pharma and the cartels wouldn't be getting rich if men weren't shooting drugs up their butthole all day and all night. Women wouldn't be getting human trafficked if men refused to sleep with prostitutes. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:25 AM
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I don't understand what you're getting at. I'm not trying to assign "fault" to anyone here, I'm literally just discussing the dating dynamics as they apply to men, because I relate to men as a man. Reading your replies on all of the comments you post from your profile, you seem like the exact type of guy who would ignore everything that I wrote, without critically engaging with any of it, to continue hating women and crying about them online. The funniest part of this is that I've posted multipl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:13 AM
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Some of the most interesting people at a party have had most of the traits in your bad list, lazy, uneducated, unemployed, never reads, watches slop, can’t play an instrument, can’t make art, speaks one language poorly, no political opinions, etc. I'd say those types of people are entertaining, they're not interesting. Being an interesting person has almost nothing to do with majority of your ‘interesting’ traits, if that were the case then geeks/nerds would be the most interesting people around…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:08 AM
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See, and that's the thing too, living a more interesting life doesn't mean you have to go out and do some extravagant thing like joining a metal band or trying to become a pro athlete. Just being more social makes your life more interesting. Just developing a sense of style makes you more interesting. There are so many little things that add up to make a person more interesting, it's not like it's just one big thing, it's dozens of small details that carve out a less generic person and a less ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:01 AM
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I'd agree with that. As Day9 said way back when, "There's nothing cooler than be unapologetically into the things that you like".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:59 AM
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The women who have babies with salad-dressing IQ men are also salad-dressing IQ themselves. If we're talking about the dating dynamics between thugs and their baby mamas who are in "the hood" or "the trailer park", things get very trashy and fucked up very quickly for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:58 AM
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The average woman on dating apps aren't necessarily a good representative of the average woman in the world. The most interesting women typically aren't on dating apps, because they find partners when they are actually out living their lives and doing interesting things. I'd say the woman I'm with now is pretty interesting. She's a graphic designer in FAANG, she makes her own clothes and her own bags, she has strong political opinions that we go back and forth on together, she has a good taste i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:55 AM
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It’s not the what that should be interesting but the why. If someone said all they do is work a debt and job and watch shitty TV because they like a peaceful life because they had a difficult childhood, that would be interesting. I think that's a good way to look at it, for sure. I'm not saying that people have to got out and do things that are super extravagant to be interesting. A lot of what makes people interesting comes not from what they do, but the way that they think, the way that they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:50 AM
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That's a really great way to frame it, differentiating yourself and carving a unique identity as a human being. There are a lot of red-pill adjacent guys who will use words and terms like "bots / NPCs / agents of the matrix", when the ironic thing about all of those terms is that they're basically used to describe a generic person who isn't a fully actualized human being with unique thoughts, emotions, perspectives, and lives. They're just clones, carbon copies of one another. And there are mill…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:30 AM
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Fair enough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:25 AM
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You do these things for yourself and only yourself cause most people believe it or not dont really give a shit. I'm serious so its best to explore that curiosity for your benefit which in itself ends up being a rewarding feeling. I agree with this 100%. I think that men need to put themselves first and try to enrich their own life before they ever worry about what women think about it or anything like that. Pursuing the things that you're interested in and becoming excited about life really is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:24 AM
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Most boring people seek out interesting people to entertain them. Almost all interesting people seek out other interesting people because they can't stand boring people and certainly wouldn't partner with one. There are a subset of boring people who are lazy and want to meet other lazy, boring people, but they tend to not put much effort into dating so it's harder for them to meet people in general, though they'll work when they do meet. I'd say that's an accurate depiction of how it is. I agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:20 AM
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Jordan Peterson's gotta be seething to this day over this picture, oh my god lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:10 AM
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If a guy is bound by his looks tier regardless then much of the time he'd rather just stay boring and date a boring woman. Just because a man or a woman aren't great looking, doesn't mean that they have to be boring, those are separate qualities. In reality, most of the time, very good looking people can be quite boring, and very odd looking people can be quite interesting. I've actually observed that moreso in my life than I realized before I started writing this. Most of the most interesting p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:09 AM
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Why do you think people would people lie on a survey? I understand lying to other dudes to save face, but on a scientific survey, there's not really much of a point of trying to come across as something you're not, just to skew the data one way, when your name isn't even going to be put out there. Also, what percentage of men do you think are or are not sexually active, if not based on what we can gleam from studies on such things?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:00 AM
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I agree with this, times a million. The typical guy on these types of forums likes to pretend like the "average guy" is like Aristotle, lifting weights and reading books in the library to enrich his life. When the reality is that the average guy is a chubby to obese gooner who's hooked on pills and doesn't think that there's anything ethically wrong with paying human-trafficked prostitutes to have sex with them. I think a lot of guys don't understand how creepy they come across as, or they just …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:57 AM
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If you're reasonably decent looking and you can hold a conversation without coming off as weird, as long as you have an opening to meet these women, I wouldn't say those odds are too far off. At least to get a date, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:51 AM
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Everyone is interesting, everyone has an infinitely complex life Eh, I don't know about that. There are a lot of people who really do just live very boring, uneventful lives. Sure, in the cosmic sense of things, everybody's life is unique and special and all that, but some people are definitely more interesting than others, let's say. the problem is that many men don't feel comfortable sharing these things, because they're more worried about not offending women than they are to attracting the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:50 AM
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Vibes, game, and techniques like negging would moreso fall under the veil of charisma, charm, or conversational skills, not necessarily being interesting. But I could write a whole post about that stuff as well, they're two sides of the same coin. Being fun to interact with is just as if not more important than being interesting. I think a lot of women would choose a funny, charismatic guy who's boring, over a guy who's interesting and has a full life, but who's not fun to talk to and can't make…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:46 AM
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Who ever said that you had to date a woman who listens to Taylor Swift and watches reality shows all the time? I mean sure, if you want to date some sorority party girl or some Miami bimbo, then you can, but nobody's forcing you to. There are plenty of women with differing interests. Most of the women I've dated have been pretty different in how they spend their time and what they're into in terms of music, activities, career, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:43 AM
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Why do you think that is? You sound like a pretty well put together guy, it seems like at least some women would be into you, just based on your brief description of yourself. Do you think it's something to do with your looks? Are you a good conversationalist? There's more to it than just being interesting, don't get me wrong, but if you have all of that going for you, you're way way way ahead of the vast majority of dudes on these foreveralone forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:41 AM
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OP wasted ultragigabytes of text to say men should conform to toxic masculinity ("adventurous and daring") and mainstream bullshit and if it makes them sick, then they need to mask and fake it. I didn't say that at all. What are you on about? Sure, being adventurous or being daring are two traits that will make a person generally more interesting, I'm not saying that anyone who doesn't want to should force themselves to embody those traits if it doesn't sit right with them, and I also don't see …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:19 AM
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I'd agree with that assessment. I think it is gender neutral as well. I've met very boring, self absorbed women who only talked about what dudes were hitting on them, and were constantly on their cell phones 24/7. Women can also be very boring and uninteresting, just like men. I've also met very interesting women who were educated, politically thoughtful, well-read, and career driven. There's so many different types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:11 AM
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That's true. I didn't mean to come off as saying that every guy has to force themselves to become good at everything that could possibly be considered interesting in order to maximize their chances of a woman finding them interesting. It should be a genuine effort and process of trying new things and seeing what you truly enjoy doing with your life. Like attracts like, so you're right, women are typically going to be more interested in men who share similar interests, especially in regards to po…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:07 AM
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I think that most men, if they groom themselves well, go to the gym to get in shape, dress well, and put some real time, effort, and attention into their appearance, can get to the point where at least some women will find them attractive. Granted they might not be models, but nonetheless, there are very few men who are truly too short, or too facially ugly, or too bald, to get a girlfriend at some point in their lives. Most men don't even work on their physical appearance at all, so by just not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:04 AM
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Unfortunately lots of women think the tea/gossip in their friend group is interesting when it isn’t. Women are generally just more gossipy than men, it is what it is haha. I've never met a woman who wasn't like that at least to some degree. You have to put up with it, just like women have to put up with men talking about their sick car mods or their custom built gaming PC. To be interesting you have to sell yourself. You have to volunteer special information and cool things about yourself otherw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:57 AM
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These are things YOU find interesting. There are plenty of other things that people can find interesting or not interesting. Everyone is unique in that way. Some people will find the things you find interesting incredibly cool, and others will think they're totally lame. There are so many different types of people, we're not bound to mesh well or want to be friends with everyone. People typically connect and form relationships over some degree of shared interests. Is this another men have to pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:53 AM
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I'd agree with that. A lot of women aren't interested themselves in guy-stuff like fishing and basketball, but the fact that you do these things makes you an interesting man. On top of that, you also run a company, that also makes you interesting. Being interesting as a person is somewhat of an observed characteristic. Chances are, if you didn't do any of these things, you'd probably not be getting as much attention, although you may be able to make it up by being a very good conversationalist. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:44 AM
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When you say sub-mid women, are you referring just to them in terms of looks? I think the two are disconnected. Interesting people want to date other interesting people. Physically attractive people want to date other physically attractive people. Most people end up with someone who is roughly close to their physical looks, but whether or not women find you boring or interesting is a secondary characteristic, just like being funny, or being charismatic, or being successful financially. Being int…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:37 AM
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We're all trying to work on it. I myself am trying to work on it. It's not easy, the internet and online games, especially for men, is such an easy rabbit hole to get sucked into. Good luck to you, sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:32 AM
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Funny is also very important, and it's adjacent to being interesting, but not necessarily the same thing. Both are contingent on your intelligence to some degree. Being interesting is more about intellectual intelligence, whereas being funny is more about social intelligence. If you can be both funny and interesting, you're like 90% of the way there. Being attractive, physically, fills up the last 10% or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:31 AM
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Thanks for your input. I agree with basically everything you said. I think that men as a whole need to break the curse of doomerism if anything in our culture as a whole is going to change, and that starts by pursuing things in the real world instead of gaming, gooning, and getting high all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:29 AM
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it is yet more gyno-speak/feminist apologia This post has nothing to do with "feminism". attempting to excuse/rationalize western women's insanely disconnected from reality (narcissistic) and delusionaly mass-inflated standards. If your point is that being an interesting person who isn't boring is too high of a standard in your eyes, then hey, we can agree to disagree. I don't think that women should have to lower their standards to date men who they find incredibly boring though, just because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:25 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:07 AM
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I don't necessarily disagree entirely, but you don't have to be "super good looking" to get a girl to be into you. If you're not super attractive physically, you're never going to be swimming through dozens of options at a time like you're living in some harem anime, but for the vast majority of men, and I mean probably above 90%, your looks are not the limiting factor in dating, so long as you've actually put a decent amount of effort into getting in shape, dressing well, grooming well, and tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:06 AM
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I think a large part of it has to do with the way that the human mind perceives numbers. For instance, when you're listening to a radio or the TV, most people will put it either on an even number (10, 12, 14, etc.) or they'll put it on a number in-between some set point (10, 15, 20, 25, etc.) The obsession with "six feet tall" has a lot to do with the fact that in the imperial system of measurement, being exactly 72 inches sounds like "six foot", and that just sounds better than "five foot nine"…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:58 AM
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People think that they can reverse engineer the behavior of a person who's successful, without actually embodying the traits that make them successful. It's like someone shadowboxing all day, trying to emulate a pro MMA fighter's moves, and then getting in the cage and realizing they don't actually know how to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:50 AM
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I mean, that's really not aligned with being "interesting". Being interesting is an entirely different set of characteristics that all have to do with your actual lived experiences, in a number of different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:06 PM
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What standards are you even basing this on? What behavior do you think "alpha chads" get away with that "average guys" don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:13 PM
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You can't really compare people with autism to regular people, they're different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:04 PM
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The people who mind don't matter, and the people who matter don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:02 PM
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I think that if a woman is working and the man is also working, then they should have an even split of household responsibilities, assuming they're both working the same amount of hours. If the guy in the relationship refuses to pick up after himself, clean up his own messes, and contribute to the household like an adult, then that's a red flag. I've met guys like this, who have that very "macho" mindset that "laundry is for women, the kitchen is for women", etc. etc. They were guys who came fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:59 PM
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Being interesting is a very important trait as a person, though. Why would women want to date someone who is not at all interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:15 PM
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The fact that you got downvoted for stating this, basically sums up the mindset of this sub. The men on here are lames, and they know it, but they don't want to admit it, and that makes them very upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:14 PM
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A few idiot juice heads acting like clowns isn't representative of "gym culture", those are online freaks who are on the internet purely for entertainment purposes and getting clicks through rage baiting. For every one guy online who acts like that there are like 100 other guys just doing normal gym stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:41 PM
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A lot of the times, these women's instagrams, tiktoks, youtube channels, twitters, twitch streams, and other social medias are all just funnels to their OF account. It's extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:38 PM
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Yeah, honestly that's what I see more often. That's a given, since women initiate most divorces, but even then, most of the rhetoric I see online is about how women are always looking for the next guy because they're hypergamous and they just want to run off with the kids and all of their husbands money... It doesn't really work the other way around. I think that most people would assume that if a guy wants to leave his wife, he's probably in the right, because most men don't want to get divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:15 PM
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"Society unfairly force men to stay in sexually unsatisfactory relationship." How so? I don't get it, maybe I'm not around the same crowds of people you guys are but I've never heard of men being "shamed" for wanting to get a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:13 PM
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They did the exact same thing to Destiny. When he was married to his wife, the redpill never cared about him and actually respected him for the most part, then after he started talking shit about a lot of what they claim to be the truth, learned that he was bisexual, and got divorced from his wife, all of the sudden everyone in that space started calling him a cuck and were constantly bashing him over the head with it, and still are. The people who call themselves red pill like to wear this vene…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:37 AM
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This is what I've been saying on here, but if you actually write any of this down, guys will go FUCKING BALLISTIC on you, and downvote you to hell. Men on here, for some reason, cannot divorce their own personal failings and internal issues, whether they be issues related to a lack of achievement, dating failures, or any sort of mental health issues, from societal failings or issues of policy. For some reason, it's all women's fault that men aren't graduating from college. It's feminisms fault t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:28 AM
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being the victim of nonsexual violent crimes The vast majority of the perpetrators of those crimes, against both men and women, are literally other men. You guys always talk about "society" not giving a fuck about men, when it is LITERALLY MEN who are doing these things. Men run the government, men are the CEOs of almost all businesses, men make up 99.99% of gang members and criminals. Society is literally just a massive collection of men, and women, and by and at large, it's not women who are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:24 AM
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The bar is in hell for everyone. Half of the people that you see around are fat, on drugs, have no postsecondary education, are broke, in debt, and are in the double-digits for IQ, have trashy tattoos, kids out of wedlock, and are just general losers. That includes men. The fact of the matter is that "the bar" is only wherever a person personally sets it. If you have no standards, everyone is above the bar. If you have high standards, most people don't like up to that. That's just how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:38 PM
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I mean, getting in shape and dressing better or being more attractive in general when it comes to looks are obviously good things to do, I don't exactly know why people take that and ascribe it as being "red pill". Most of the other shit that's pushed by the red pill and the influencers who claim that it's incredibly beneficial is total garbage though. Spinning plates, leading with money, pushing yourself to sleep with some arbitrary number of women to feel like you've "gotten enough experience"…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:28 PM
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What is even the argument here? That you voted for Donald Trump because you think life is too hard for men? Why do you think men are failing so hard in the past couple of years? Is it because women have rights? Is it because you think the illegal immigrant down the road stole your job washing dishes and you want it back? What exactly about democrats is "misandrist"? Over 60 million people voted for Kamala and a very good portion of those were men. You sound like a crybaby incel fuck up dude, lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:43 AM
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If you off yourself, that is your own fault. If you don't peruse an education or fail to graduate from college, that is your own fault. We need to stop pretending like self deletion and failure to achieve the completion of a degree is somehow the fault of women, the government, or anybody else. I've been suicidal, didn't do it. I went through college and had a semester where I failed and dropped ALL of my classes, while also working and taking on over $30,000 in debt, still graduated. Stop whini…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:20 AM
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No, some people definitely CAN have it all, this is just total cope. Granted, to have "it all", you do have to get lucky in a lot of ways, but it's not unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:18 AM
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You could say the exact same thing about women. This is the exact polar opposite of the talking points that red-pill men make about women and how they hit "the wall". Man to man, please listen to what I have to say here. Fuckbois get the prize in the end, despite what women would like you to believe, because they're attractive, so they'll always have someone after them, and they'll always get what they want, even if that means they settle down with a beautiful woman in their 30's or 40's after t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:14 AM
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Thinking it's okay if you're an asshole bc you're anonymous so there are no consequences is wild. That's not a wild take. That's the entire history of the internet, the entire history of online gaming, the entire history of this website even. That doesn't mean you should be an asshole for the sake of being an asshole, though, because in that case you're just a troll. I would definitely say things to people online that I wouldn't say at work, or at a party, if someone asked me the same question, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:24 PM
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That's the typical behavior of keyboard warriors, not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:04 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:03 PM
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It's incredible that you put quotes around something that I didn't say, as if that's a quote coming directly from me... jesus fucking christ. What the fuck are you even on about, calculating women's egg counts? Are you on drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:03 PM
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Are you talking about in real life, or on the internet? I don't see why anybody should have to censor themselves on the internet and speak in casual niceities. We're all anonymous here. The internet, reddit in particular, exists for us to express our thoughts in the most raw, unfiltered way possible (within reason, of course). I don't believe that you've ever heard anybody say any of that cringe shit in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:38 PM
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Lots of interesting conclusions we could pull from here but only 0.2% of people who are members of the sub actually participated here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:24 PM
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The number is being skewed by a gay asian guy who's been fucked by 200 dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:21 PM
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Because it's incredibly likely they will leave me for someone who is more intelligent and educated than me. Because it's incredibly likely they will leave me for someone who makes more money than me. Because it's incredibly likely they will leave me for someone who is taller, more ambitious, and more accomplished than me. Women only want men who are better than them, in pretty much every way. They want a guy who is taller than them, stronger than them, at least as good looking as them (physicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:34 PM
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I mean, that all depends on how you define "treat her well" or "mistreat her", right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:24 PM
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If you ever mention this on a forum with red-pillers or black-pillers on them, you're going to get brigaded. The majority of these types of men want to believe that the average guy is like Aristotle, sitting in his library all day reading books and lifting weights to enrich his life, and that "women's standards are too high", but the reality is that a lot of men nowadays are complete and utter degenerates. There isn't enough talk about this kind of thing though, especially on this sub because al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:46 PM
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Yeah, I just read this guy's comment and he is yapping up a storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:36 PM
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What the hell subs do you guys go on where women even talk about shit like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:07 PM
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A stranger is doing a benchpress with a bit too much weight than they can handle. The bar falls on them, and they're in need of someone to help out. I'd probably help them regardless of whoever it was, if I saw it. A stranger is running towards you hoping to catch the elevator that is closing with you inside. I'd probably help them regardless of whoever it was, if I saw it. A stranger is dealing with a flat tire on the side of the road and is waving for someone to help who has a better idea of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:44 PM
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This sub is becoming more and more deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:34 PM
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Where the fuck are you, that you are finding grown adult people going around calling themselves "size queens" and talking about how they need a big dick? If a woman goes around saying she's a size queen, then she is praised for being so brave... Like seriously, what the ACTUAL FUCK did I just read? I swear this sub is so cooked bro, you people are AI generated, you live on a different planet than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:33 PM
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Imagine reading a post that was titled, "If you don't have any money, it's not because you don't have a job". This post might as well be the same thing. This sub really is clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:22 PM
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I don't have any "issue", I'm just genuinely trying to understand the perspective of people who comment on posts here, and challenge them, as well as myself, to think differently about their worldviews. You do know this is a debate sub, right? It's called purple pill "debate". If you don't want to answer my questions though, you can just say so and we can stop the discussion here. I'm not mad at your preferences, like I said, I'm "baffled" by them. The definition of baffled is "totally bewildere…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:53 PM
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Are you just committed to misunderstanding me for the sake of arguing here? What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:29 PM
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I don't disagree with any of that (although masturbation doesn't make me feel pathetic, because I'm too cool to feel pathetic even if I'm stroking my shit - I stroke my shit wherever I want and I am proud). I'm just saying that if I had to choose between masturbating, or taking literal libido-killing chemicals to lower my sex drive, I'd choose my hand over some weird ass drugs every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:26 PM
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There are levels to unattractiveness, just like there are levels to attractiveness. It's all on a scale. A fat attractive guy is still more attractive then a fat unattractive guy, even though they're both generally unattractive, because they are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:23 PM
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Honestly, I don't buy it. This all smells like a roundabout way of justifying filtering out men who have enough of a spine to not waste their money on a relationship prospect that might just be a foodie date. That, or you're actively filtering for men who have enough money that it just doesn't matter to them either way, and using this "low / high effort" dichotomy as a way to justify the decisions you're making, without having to view it as a subtle form of gold-digging. It seems very convenient…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:22 PM
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I mean, in terms of genetics, not just a raw 1-10 scale measurement. Think about it like this, if some hot Hollywood actor like Henry Cavill got super fat, then sure, he wouldn't be attractive anymore, but he still has an "attractive" base to work with (bone structure, eyes, voice, hair, facial symmetry, height, etc.). Just being out of shape doesn't immediately eliminate all other attractive features about a person, it just minimizes them because being in shape is sort of like the baseline for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:01 PM
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Did you just read that one study and make your mind up on this? That's not how science works. I guarantee you that if you went on Google Scholar right now, or any other science-based search engine, and searched for studies that demonstrate the opposite of your claim, you'd find some. That's a single study, over about 100 college-aged men. It's not conclusive enough that you can use it to totally ignore counterevidence, and of course, you still have to acknowledge the relation between T-levels an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:57 PM
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Being unattractive and being out of shape aren't necessarily the same thing. Attractive people can be out of shape. It'll make you less attractive than what you actually should be. He probably could have worded that more clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:35 PM
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if you are successful with mating, finding a girlfriend, and sleeping with lots of women the correlation is you have high testosterone I'd add on here that there is basically no difference in men between having low testosterone and being unattractive, because low-testosterone produces almost all of the traits in men that are generally considered to be unattractive. The 2nd reason you're not successful with women is being out of shape, no girl no matter how unhealthy she is wants to date a fat gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:34 PM
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I'm always hostile because I'm slamming 5,000 liters of pure anabolic testosterone up my dick, and at the same time, I'm also slaying hoards of level 1 slimes on forums like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:20 PM
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If "vetting for effort" means that the guy is paying for things for you or paying for dates, then that's a pretty shit plan. It doesn't even prove anything about the man, it just means that you're willing to get used in the exact same way sexually by a man, so long as he has enough money to make it worth your while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:16 PM
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Do you believe that men wanting to go 50/50 on dates constitutes the man being low-effort? Likewise, do you believe that men paying for everything constitutes high-effort? First of all, what even is your working definition of "effort" in this context? The word "effort" means "a vigorous or determined attempt" - what exactly are you trying to get the man to prove here? That your time is worth so much more than his that he should have to literally pay money to be in your presence? I think I'm star…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:14 PM
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Red Pill podcasts and media like Fresh and Fit, Rollo Tomassi and other sources... If you listen to any of these clowns and take what they say seriously, especially Rollo "Big Idiot" Tomassi, then you are going to have a functioning brain for about two more weeks. These guys are unhinged, seriously. They will always want sex with other people while being committed and would if the opportunity presents itself enough If you don't want to engage in committed, traditional / religious monogamy, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:07 PM
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So I guess we'll just go with: which do you think more men prefer: Aggressive women who pursue what they want, make all the plans, ask out men, fuck on the first date, pay for dates, speak their mind directly, and when they arent' interested in dating you, they'll openly call you ugly and short. Or submissive, agreeable women who follow, are soft and feminine and look to her man for direction, and when they aren't interested, they try to gently decline while avoid hurting your feelings. We can g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:41 PM
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That's not really true though. Most men want both, or at least some form of relationship or lifestyle that emulates both, without having to necessitate cheating on a partner they've made a monogamous commitment with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:26 PM
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Assuming that the men who are insistent on paying for 100% of the expenses incurred on initial dates are the ones who are "interested enough" (I suppose for serious commitment) is a really bad idea. It doesn't map onto reality well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:12 PM
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men need to find pharmaceuticals that will lower their sex drive to the level of a woman’s where they can make demands like a woman if they have a problem with the current status quo You can just masturbate, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:08 PM
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This all entirely depends on the woman you are dating. None of the women I've been in relationships with to any extent have ever expected me to pay for them, on the contrary they've told me they would prefer to pay for themselves (on dates, food, hotel stays, etc.) even after I've insisted to pay 100%. I know that there are dudes out there who either won't believe me or who think that these women didn't really like me, but that just isn't the case. Women who are college educated, have jobs, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:02 PM
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there’s guys who dont understand the difference between being vulnerable and being whiny, in a constant state of self pity, trauma dumping, and treating people like free therapists. I think the crux of the issue, really, is that any type of vulnerability from men (ie. speaking about events in their past that hurt them, "traumatized" them, or made them feel less than or worse about themselves or their life) in almost any context can be written off as "whining, self-pitying, trauma dumping", etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:25 PM
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I've read people's comments in other places who have outright said they'd want that to be the case, if it were possible. Among other insane things. Again, that's probably not representative of most incel men, but the bottom one percent of the bottom one percent is absolutely and irredeemably fried.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:25 PM
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Dudes on PPD gonna be asking for their almighty overlord and holy father Elon Musk for those Tesla sex robots asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:21 PM
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You date someone you're not attracted to and not happy with because it would have been "wrong" to reject them? Who would even want to date someone choosing them out of obligation? This is basically the black-pill pipedream. "Government assignment of looks-matched girlfriends for chronically rejected men".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:13 PM
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Yeah, you know I've only been on this sub for a few days as an actual commenter, and I've already had to start my own personal "idiot list" so that I don't forget who I'm talking to / responding to on here. I've got to do that so that next time these people respond to my comments, I can tell, "oh yeah, this is the guy who thinks that women only want chad", or, "oh look here, this is the guy who thinks that every woman on earth wants to get divorced".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:07 PM
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I'd agree with that. What I see more often though is that blackpillers tend to focus on aspects of looks that can't be changed, like race, height, facial features, bone structure, baldness, voice, etc. Redpillers on the other hand tend to focus on aspects of looks that you can change, like weight, musculature, hairstyle, skin, teeth, clothing, accessories, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:05 PM
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The majority end in divorce. This is only true is you are completely ignoring a large number of secondary factors that predict divorce rates. For some couples, the likelihood of divorce is much higher compared to others, and for other couples, the likelihood of divorce is much lower. You came right out of the gate and assumed that this guy falls into the former camp, without knowing anything about him. I don't feel like you're basing your opinions based on any actual studies on this, you're just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:01 PM
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Bald + glasses is a terrible combo, not gonna lie... unless you can grow a really think beard then it can still work for you. But if you are FAT + BALD + GLASSES, that's an L bozo look.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:00 AM
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No, I think that's definetly more of a woman thing. I've never once cared about whether or not any other dude thought that the women that I found attractive were attractive to them. I've actually talked with other guys about what women we found hot, and very often, I'd find out that guys I was friends with were into totally different types of women than I am. Nobody cares though, it was always something like, "Whaaat? You don't think she's hot? You're crazy man!!!!!" ...and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:58 PM
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I mean, I'm a full grown man and I've been milking my own tits for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:55 PM
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I mean, if you're a full grown man and other men still look at you and think "wow that guy looks like a geek", then you fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:53 PM
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Honestly, he just sounds like a bitch for even putting up with all that, and a sucker for getting into a relationship with a women who treats him like that. That's a massive L. Also, why is he fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:38 PM
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Why do you say "inevitable divorce" like it's inevitable that all married couples will eventually get divorced? You don't even know anything about his relationship, what is wrong with you lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:34 PM
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I mean fun when you're actually going out on the date, obviously if you're a guy who no woman wants you're not going to have fun on online dating apps when everyone is rejecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:31 PM
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Looksmaxing only works if you have an above average base to work with. You can't looksmax your way out of being 5'7" or not having great jawline/eyes. Yeah, if you're short or you have weird looking eyes then there's not much you can do there, but having a jawline is very much dependent on being in good shape and having low body fat percentage. Dudes will talk about how they "don't have a good jawline" and, they will literally be fat. Hitting the gym only works if you are on the extreme end of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:31 PM
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Yeah, that'd probably make the blackpillers mad though, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:18 PM
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Eh, depends on what you mean by "garbage". There are definitely guys who have really, really unlucky features like being shorter than 5'9", having a very ugly face, having a super high-pitched voice, being bald, or being a racial minority. But all of the time, I see blackpillers who have a decent "base" and they're just delusional. And they'd rather engage in their delusion and feel bad about themselves than actually put in the work to Blackpillers say stupid shit like "the base is garbage for 8…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:17 PM
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I didn't say that. I said "lots of men", not all men. YMMV. It all depends on your genetic base. If you're: White (In USA for context). Average height (5'9" or taller). Not going bald (full head of hair). Decent face (5/10 or higher). Deep voice (or at least don't sound like spongebob). ...then you will probably get a lot out of hitting the gym, dressing cooler, styling your hair better, and so forth. If you're 5'4" then that's just pretty unfortunate, that would put you in the bottom 5% of heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:13 PM
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That depends on where you live in the USA, what race you are, what country you're planning to move to, and what area of the new country you're in. There are plenty of people who are fat all across the developed world now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:06 PM
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Yeah, but just because they have 1, and don't have 2, doesn't mean they can't get 2 if they already have 1. A lot of the reason why men don't get 2 is because they don't hit the gym, they eat like shit, they drink alcohol and do other drugs, they sleep like 3-6 hours per night, they dress like dorks, their haircut is whack, they don't take care of their skin, etc. Basically, lots of men aren't lusted after because they don't looksmax at all, in any capacity, whatsoever. Having 2 without having 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:14 PM
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That's exactly what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:24 PM
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It's practically a cliche that women try to turn the hot, bad boy into a family man. That's more than a cliché, it's literally an archetypal story. Ever hear of "Beauty and the Beast"? That's basically what that story represents, alongside the vast majority of women's erotic literature where the main female lead character is having sex with vampires, werewolves, and pirates or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:07 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:53 PM
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Isn't spending time together at someone's house, and going out to get dinner, something you would consider to be fun? Were you just not having fun while this was going on or something? Is that why he's your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:51 PM
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Yeah, that's obvious, the entire point of dating is to find a person, go out with them, and see if you like them enough to be their partner. Obviously. When I think of dating women, I think of going on walks through town, going and visiting some coffee place, going and grabbing food at a restaurant we've never been to, going on a hike together, going to mini-golf, going and watching a movie we've both been interested in seeing, and all sorts of other possibilities. What exactly do you do when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:44 PM
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So, what is dating then? Is it some sort of business arrangement, or... what exactly? Do you not try to have fun when you go on dates? This is such a strange mindset to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:38 PM
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Absolutely without a doubt option 1. Keep in mind, option 1 doesn't mean she doesn't see you being sexually attractive. In fact, I'd say that typically, if a woman values your well being, your future, and feels a deep romantic emotional connection with you, it's very much in part because she finds you sexually attractive in the first place. Option 2 just sounds like basic, casual sex with a woman who finds you attractive and nothing more. Sure, that feels good, but only for as long as she's havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:30 PM
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As a pregnant man, I'm looking forward to childbirth honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:23 PM
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You are smoking high-grade copium dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:17 PM
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I agree with the sentiment in your post somewhat, but I don't think the redpill has anything to do with "revenge against women", or making sure that they can't "have their cake and eat it too". At least, it shouldn't be motivated by revenge against women that you perceive as having wronged you for not sleeping with you when you were younger, in highschool or college or whatever. Like yeah, there are some guys who do think like that on the more bitter end of the spectrum, but first and foremost, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:17 PM
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Not young and dumb. Just dumb, like, in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:07 PM
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To comment on your point about the gym and fat girls, I think the problem nowadays is that average for men and women means this: The average guy is under six feet tall, facially "normal", and is trying to make up for that by going to the gym to get the ripped, hyper-athletic body that women see in super hero movies, like all of the fitness influencers they lust over, and like all of the athletes who got all of the girls attention in highschool and college. The average woman is literally a fat, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:23 PM
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You're right, that's why it was the first thing that came to mind. Technology has warped society, massively, in ways that I don't think people fully understand yet. Do people even generally remember what life was like before people had cell phones? It seems like it wasn't that long ago, but nowadays, it seems pretty much impossible to even imagine what it would be like to not be able to have access to call people, text people, and access the internet at any point in time. Before cell phones, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:59 PM
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Nope, the issue is that "dating advice" is tailored towards creating beta bux since they're the ones society need to keep docile in order to not crumble down. I mean, you're partially right, but men are still going to do beta-bux regardless of whether you give them the advice to do so or not to do so, because that's all they know. That's also all they're capable of. They're not going to give up on women and the prospect of having sex once they find out that they're beta and that women don't actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:29 PM
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I don't think that any of this matters at all. I don't care about "messaging from major social institutions", I don't care about "dating advice", I don't care about the school, the church, the media... honestly, none of this has anything to do with what is actually happening. The problems with relationships in the first world nowadays do not have anything to do with "being given the wrong advice". All of our problems stem from much more foundational level issues that are impossible to fix, like:…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:24 PM
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Well the people who say that also call themselves feminists, that's what I was getting at. Nowadays, there are both right-leaning women and left-leaning women who both call themselves feminists, who are on totally opposite sides of the political isle and agree on almost nothing. A lot of the people who talk about the "empowerment" that come from sex work are literally just women who work in the sex industry. Mostly women who do production-level pornography, onlyfans, or women who do specific kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:15 PM
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I mean, depending on what culture they come from, they could still be considered right-leaning, at least culturally and socially, by our American standards, wouldn't they? I like to draw the difference because there are eastern / middle eastern cultures that would be considered "non-western" that are still very much different in their values. Think Afghanistan vs. China vs. Japan / Korea (although I'm not sure if you would consider Japan or Korea "western" necessarily).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:06 PM
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Why are we CONSTANTLY talking about sexless dating I've never heard of in my life. Well, there seem to be a lot of right-leaning red-pill adjacent conservative men and women on this sub. Surprisingly, I've seen more women on this sub say they're waiting for marriage before they lose their virginity, than men actually looking for the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:53 PM
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What if it were legal? There are places in the world where it is legal, would your stance change then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:51 PM
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Just out of curiosity, what do you consider casual sex? Is it just sex that's derived from sex work (escorts / porn) or one-night stands from parties / bars / nightclubs? Would you consider men who have sex with women who they've been dating for a few weeks / a few months to be "casual sex"? Or is any sex before the commitment stage of a relationship considered casual (ie. we are boyfriend and girlfriend and we are exclusive)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:48 PM
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I think the assumption here when people say stay at home parent means that they're not working a job, or making money for the family. If you have some sort of remote-job where you can work from home, or you have some other form of revenue that you've been able to generate passive income with, that's a different story, but that's probably a single-digit percentage of stay at home parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:27 PM
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That's kind of like saying you support drug dealers, but don't support addicts. That's a little sussy, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:46 PM
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You did call them desperate though, so it does seem that at least in this case, yes, you do see men who use sex workers as "less than". Which I think is totally fair, by the way. I think the same about the whole issue, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:45 PM
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I do not have any children, no. I'm 26 years old, for reference. Maybe my viewpoint will change one day, but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:25 PM
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Fair enough. I was asking genuinely. I feel like both men and women have the same mindset there. It's more of a conservative vs. progressive thing than a man vs. woman thing, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:25 PM
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Good for them in terms of whether or not it's contributing to their lives in a positive way that isn't degrading to the woman or man's sense of self. Obviously, the women are profiting off of it and the men are losing money (willingly), so you could in some sense think of sex work as the exploitation of men by women, by that view. It's like drug dealers. They profit off of the addict's addiction / lack of ability to stay clean. Women who are sex workers profit off of the men's loneliness / lack …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:22 PM
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sorry, I read that wrong, I meant to say that women like it when men are clear that they want something serious. It's not always "pretend" Makes more sense. you understood that correctly. It's not about ncounts, it's about being socially awkward or horrible person. The correct phrase would be "women don't like socially awkward men" Yeah, that also makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:16 PM
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I have no clue. There's weird divide between women who claim feminism. On one side, the progressive side, some of them say that sex work is "real work" and that it's empowering, good for both men and women, and shouldn't be taboo or shamed in any way. On the other side, the conservative side, most of them say that sex work is "exploitation", that it's fueled by the patriarchy, that it's all for the male gaze and male pleasure, and that it's the most vile exploitation of women under capitalism. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:12 PM
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There's a big difference between women who are working as escorts out of their own home vs. women who are working in brothels, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:05 PM
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Eh, I don't think that you can describe having sex with men for money as "a profession like any other", it's clearly not. It's still seen as socially taboo even in the most progressive places in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:04 PM
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I think when he says, "Any ensuing mess that is a result of paternity fraud coming to light...", means family drama, divorce, the child losing connection with the man who he thought was his father, etc. And I'd agree. If all of that happens, it IS all the mother's fault. Her dishonesty put them in that position. Full stop. The fact that she was even cheating in the first place, by definition, makes all of this her fault. He's not saying the man has the right to break everything in the house and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:50 PM
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Do you not lounge around? EDIT: Triggered a few the privileged, yuppie, lazy stay-at-home moms who think that being a stay-at-home parent is harder than being from the working class and having all of the same responsibilities as a woman who actually has to work for their family. You are privileged, get over it. Being a stay at home parent is easy. It is not "a job", it is not "work". You do all of the same things as a mother who has to work, without having to hold a job. This is coming from a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:48 PM
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Who do you think defined those rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:38 PM
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So what is your point? This is the pot calling the kettle black, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:29 PM
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I'd never feel comfortable being a stay-at-home dad under any circumstances. I need to make my own money and I'd never trust that a woman would be OK with financially supporting me just so that I could lounge around the house, cook food, do laundry, and run errands. Especially in the case that we break up, what am I going to do then if I didn't build a steady career for myself? I think most men don't want to be stay at home dads, because of the same exact reasons that most women don't want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:28 PM
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average people hookup all the time (yes, they do, if you've ever worked in any office with a lot of people you'll know people have sex with each other) Where the heck do you work? I figure this might often be the case at level-1 slime jobs, but where I work, everyone is very career oriented, mostly married, and don't mingle that often. Women don't like dating men who pretend to be serious to get in their pants... "I don't know where you got this from but it's not true." Really? Your arguing that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:24 PM
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That's surprising, I thought most women are vehemently against sex-work, and seem to think that the women who engage in it are objectified victims being taken advantage of, and the men who engage in it are scumbags and losers. That's how I tend to think of it for the most part at least. Do you really think that sex work is good for women? Do you think that it is good for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:18 PM
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There's a big difference between a dad who willingly adopted a child and wanted that to be the case, and a "dad" who is unintentionally raising a child that isn't his, when he thought it was his own genetic offspring. Especially if the woman knows who the real father is, and is keeping it a secret from him. It's literally the chad-fucks beta-bux nightmare come to life. A dude not wanting to care for a kid that’s not his is sad if he’s been the kid’s dad it’s whole life... I completely agree with…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:54 PM
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I don't mean less in terms of rights in a societal sense. I mean less in terms of the leeway that is given to them in terms of a lot of other social aspects. There are so many examples of this kind of thing that I could think of off the top of my head where women have advantages and privileges in society that men just don't have, and any sort of discussion about this gets you called a "bitter red-piller". I'm not even a red-pill guy, but so much of this is blatantly, clearly the case and it's mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:48 PM
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"Be honest dude, how can the average guy that works in Walmart have a gf?" - implying that all things equal, that we should assume that they shouldn't be able to have girlfriends because they work at that particular store? Why even bring up Walmart if that wasn't the case? This line makes it sound like you're implying that guys who work at Walmart, and perhaps other supermarkets, are scum lmao. It reads like very subtle classism. Do you not get that? Reddit is full of that kind of rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:40 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:35 PM
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I think you're right about your theory of social games, but at the same time, objective physical attraction and status-related "game theory" elements comes into play in our interactions with women, regardless of how much you make personality a priority, and regardless of whether you like it or not. Especially if you're a man. The things you mentioned make sense if you're a guy, because we don't base our relationships on whether or not we can get a girl who is "hotter" or "richer" or "better" tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:33 PM
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Your "proof" is a youtube video with less than 250 views from a dude named "Duerf Legacy" who nobody knows, who is uploading ragebait videos about "dark redpill truths". This is not how science works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:22 PM
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PUA doesn't work unless you're extremely attractive. It never did and it never will. Even then, it still probably doesn't work that often. The entire "Men's dating coach" selling PUA to men is just as much of a scam as every other online grift that's trying to exploit losers for profit. Men selling poor men courses on how to get rich because they're broke (and the coach is a scam artist selling shitcoins, NFT's, and promoting pyramid schemes). Men selling skinny men courses on how to get fit bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:19 PM
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Exactly. People get the cause and effect reversed in a lot of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:11 PM
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Hey, I used to work at Walmart. The employees there are pretty cool, for the most part. Don't talk down on the blue-vest bandits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:09 PM
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I mean, SpongeBob got that THANG on him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:08 PM
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Even if he's being hyperbolous, he still has a point. Lots of people, especially on this subreddit, will reference that "one guy they know" who is shorter than 5'7", doesn't have a great job, and isn't particularly good looking, who still apparently cleans up with women because he's "super funny" and "really kind to women", but in my experience, I've never once met a guy like that who didn't struggle to date and find relationships. Sure, guys like that can get girlfriends, but this idea that cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:08 PM
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I don't think that women take shit from men they aren't attracted to. I didn't say that they did. On the comment I wrote on this post, I actually implied the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:49 PM
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All of that is true though. All of those things really do happen, all the time, every day. It doesn't mean men should try and emulate those behaviors and traits if they're not like that though, because the guys who are like that are garbage, and the women who are drawn towards them are probably mentally unwell in some sense. But a lot of guys would trade their lives for that because they think it's a hell of a lot better than being some bitter, forever-alone kissless virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:43 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:37 PM
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I've always thought this and it's weird that a lot of men don't seem to get it. In life, it's important that people understand the nature of cause and effect, because sometimes people get the effect of things and the cause of them reversed, and then they're confused. They start to think that it works both ways, or at least can work both ways, when things rarely operate like that in life. We all know that in some relationships, an attractive man can act like an ass, cheat on her, offend her, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:37 PM
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It's cope. However, the age difference does matter. When guys talk about "women in their 20's dating older men", there's a big difference between a 20 year old woman dating a 40 year old man, vs a 23-29 year old woman dating a 30-39 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:22 PM
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Just wanted to come in and say that I appreciate the effort you put into this comment and I'm sorry that happened to you. As much as I can't stand Myron Gaines and most of what he stands for, I will say, the one thing I think he's said before that I agree with full stop is that women deserve less. I think he even wrote a book about it, haven't read it though. After realizing how little women actually care for, love, or appreciate men who are not in the top X-% of their cohort in looks, money, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:03 PM
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Exactly. Women will say that they "love dad bods", but only when it's on a guy who is the same age as them and isn't a father. What women don't say is, "Gosh darn I'm just so attractive to that old man with gray hair, a beer belly, and wrinkles, he's such a daddy!". This sub is such a clown fiesta, I love every second of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:46 PM
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Red pill men hate women that sleep around because they don't fall into their virgin tradcon wife fantasy. Everybody already knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:44 PM
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I don't think women hate other women who are slutty, it's just an insult that they know will get the most reaction out of someone whether they engage in that same behavior, or not. It's the same as people insulting men by calling them "incels", even if they're not. The logic here is that the worst thing a man can be is so unattractive that no women will fuck him, and the worst thing a woman can be, on the other hand, is someone who has sex with a lot of different men. I think the attitudes need …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:42 PM
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If I feel like I'm being emotionally abused or disrespected by a woman I'm in relationship with, I'm shutting that shit down in 0.2 seconds and if it keeps going, it's over. I'm dumping her, end of story. I feel like if a guy is putting up with that to the point that he needs to "plan an escape and prepare his go-bag" then he's probably let things move way too far with an emotionally unstable and abusive woman. Are we operating under the assumption that they live together in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:33 PM
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Did you even read what I wrote past the first paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:27 PM
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Why would I be giving them advice? Are they even asking for our advice? Would they even listen to our advice? In my experience, women don't want advice from men and when they get it they're either offended or dismiss it as "mansplaining". You're basically just throwing it out on the table what everybody already thinks is going to happen, "Hey, I appreciated you when you earned less than me, but now that I earn more than you, I think you're a broke loser and I can't be attracted to a broke loser,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:23 PM
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I didn't say that the men aren't physically attracted to their partners either. I'm saying that even to assume that men are only motivated by physical attraction is wrong and that men are only interested in younger women is misandrist. Who are you to say otherwise? Again, speak for yourself. There are plenty of men who have been in a relationship with their wives for many years and still feel very sexually attracted to them. It's also a known phenomenon that as people age, particularly men, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:07 PM
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Speak for yourself. There are many men who are still attracted to their partners as they age. Attraction for men, past the honeymoon phase, is very much based on connection with the person, shared history, appreciation of their personality and what they bring to their life, and all of the other little details that go beneath the surface of just "yOuNg TiGhT bOdY aNd FeRtiLiTy". The idea that every man who's with a women who's past 30, 35, or 40 years old is cheating on them behind their back wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:55 PM
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That's not true at all. Men find older women attractive, in fact they find them attractive more often than than young women find older men attractive, by a pretty substantial margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:50 PM
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I'd agree with that, but of course, there are two different meanings behind what the word "picked" could actually mean. Even if she enjoys having sex with you and likes hanging out with you, that doesn't mean she doesn't also enjoy having sex with other men more and like hanging out with other men more. I think if your woman ever feels like that, it means that she's settling for you. It basically means that she'd rather be with someone else. That doesn't mean that any particular woman will alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:31 PM
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I don't understand what you're getting at, can you clarify what your point is here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:25 PM
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I think that this completely and utterly depends on what kind of pornography you're talking about. There is porn that is produced in a completely amateur way, shot on a horrible recording device and filmed between two people who are not at all involved in the industry. They're having real sex and are not "performing" at all. There is porn that is produced in a slightly less amateur way, shot on better recording devices, by people who again, are not "involved in the industry" in any way, but are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:47 AM
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I'd transform to look like your dream girl, come find you, lure you in, and then right when I'm about to let you eat me out, I'd shoot a big disgusting wet fart in your face. Right when you react, I'd pull up this post on my phone, say, "I'M A DUDE BRAH", and then I'd show you a picture of what I really look like to make you super uncomfortable with the whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:07 AM
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I'd never be with someone who on any level feels that they are "settling" for me. I'm confident in the work that I've put into myself and my life, and I feel that as I get older I will only feel more secure in that, as I continue to get stronger in the gym, become more financially secure, and delve further into my interests. If someone feels that they're "settling" for me because they think I don't have a nice enough face, or I'm not tall enough, or I'm not rich enough, then they can go have fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:36 AM
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I mean, in the sense that I wish it were easier to get sex, then sure. But I'm not sure it'd be worth it to have to put up with the massive amount of awful shit that women have to put up with in the meantime, though. As a guy who considers myself relatively normal, sometimes I have to remind myself of how mentally deranged a lot of men are, and that women's experiences are often tainted with a lot of terrible, freakish nonsense that I'd hate to put up with. I've had ex-girlfriends who had their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:29 AM
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I think in today's day and age, men's testosterone in general is lower than ever, so I'd say it's probably about even at this point, honestly. I think the whole 80/20 rule, or 95/5 rule is largely due to the fact that modern men's health has been so destroyed by a lack of exercise, bad diets, bad sleep, drugs, and other substances like microplastics and chemicals in our food and self-care products which disrupt the endocrine system, that general testosterone levels and sperm-count levels have go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:21 AM
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Women might think that their signals are incredibly obvious, but trust me, they are not obvious, even if you think they are obvious. The problem with assuming that these signals are obvious is that the guy actually has to be deluded in his mind enough to think that the woman actually finds him attractive, and most men are so unattractive or inexperienced that they assume otherwise in pretty much every case. I knew I definitely did and probably still do. If you're a 9/10 or 10/10 guy who has wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:11 AM
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Oh no, don't get me wrong, I don't give a single shit about what you think about me at all, LMAO. It's more of a personal, ego-driven thing. Buying a sex robot to replace having sex with a real woman, it'd feel like throwing in the towel. In a sense, resigning one's self to just having sex with a robot, it's really no different than just giving up on real women all together to masturbating to pornography. There are multiple levels to that, of course. Right now, the most bottom-level of that is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:08 AM
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On a more serious note, I don't think I'd be comfortable having a robotic human around me in general. Just seems dangerous, and uncanny. I mean, sure, "having sex" with one of them might feel more stimulating than just masturbating using my hand, but I'd honestly feel like such a loser if I bought one of those things that I'd never be able to get over it. Having a fake human to have sex with is like, one level above paying for prostitutes in terms of how cringe it is. I don't think they should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:53 AM
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Honestly, great thoughts. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'll take ten sex robots please. And make sure they're all "barely 18 10's" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:03 AM
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This isn't fair or reasonable at all. Aside from the small contingent of men who have parents who come from an upper class background, pretty much all men start life off being "broke", and for the majority of them, they will always be "broke" because that's the system we live in. The vast majority of the people who are doing important work in our society, like delivering mail, taking out trash, fixing our roads, and stocking shelves at the grocery store are "broke". However, people do not by def…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:01 AM
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I don't think that anybody with a reasonable mind is going to disagree with you here. If you did not create the child, you should not have to raise or provide for them, it's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:57 PM
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It isn't that men care about women wanting to "fuck serial killers", it's just the hypocrisy that men recognize when taking this fact into account bothers them. Men will often be told that if they can't get a woman to have a one night stand with them, or be their girlfriend, or their wife, that it must be because they're "entitled, bitter, misogynistic ", and all sorts of other nonsense. However, this is basically disproven by the fact that men who are incredibly evil and disgusting as people wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:52 PM
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