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You said men were not oppressed though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:37 PM
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So the "Nice Guys" were correct that being nice to a woman will make her want to fuck you? Women actually are vending machines that you put nice tokens into and get sex as a reward?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:35 PM
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So what did I say in that comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:25 PM
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Oh I see you're just a bitter hateful asshole. Have fun with that repellant personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:21 PM
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I did and it showed that 99% of men were also oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:27 AM
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Go back and read my second comment to ms engineering I'm not repeating myself for people who refuse to read
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:39 AM
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That is quite literally what she said and she refused to elaborate on her point in any way whatsoever. So what do you think is better, responding to what people say or making up your narratives about things people didn't say and responding to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:39 AM
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And when I asked for clarification about if that's all they're talking about, they refused to elaborate. So the only logical conclusion is that, that is what they think it takes to be a good lover. So I'm a fucking champion out here with all the extra shit I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:37 AM
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They quite explicitly said it is sufficient for being a good lover. They literally said that like two comments ago, try reading then get back to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:16 PM
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Do you understand that because I kiss women on the neck and touch their nipples it means I'm a great lover? I mean you said it so why are you confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:56 PM
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Ok then I'm the best lover in the world because I always kiss their necks and touch their nipples. I am God's gift to women I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:51 PM
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No it doesn't stop being disingenuous and answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:39 PM
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Red pill myth So TwoXChromosomes is a red pill subreddit pushing red pill myths as fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:19 PM
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So if I kiss a woman's neck and touch her nipples does that make me a good sexual partner? Is that all it takes for the sex to be good?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:17 PM
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Then I hope you've never told a man to "just be himself" and "treat women like people" when he asked for dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:04 PM
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It's parents and pretty much everyone in liberal society. How many times have you seen "just treat her like a person and talk to her" as the go to dating advice on this subreddit? Personally I see it multiple times in any post about men's issues with dating and it's always massively upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:03 PM
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No that's just not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:54 PM
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Good thing I'm already working on it big dog. No need to jump in just to be an asshole, deal with your own shit and leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:52 PM
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Sure that's something, although the Clintons are not exactly clean regarding sexual assault and they do know a very large number of people who have personally wronged them and soon after committed suicide. Quite interesting to know at least 5 who committed suicide, let alone dozens who have wronged you personally then shot themselves in the back of the head multiple times or stabbed themselves 20 times with a pen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:51 AM
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Your questions are meaningless because they are not what determine attraction. But I'm 6 feet tall and I'm living in LA. Here's the thing, body fat percentage matters way more than height does
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:49 AM
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Ok but the Clintons were more connected to Epstein than Trump so maybe pick a different metric to compare them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:26 AM
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So your point is that Trump is equivalent to Clinton? Ok cool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:31 AM
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Sure, but have you watched a lot of 80s action movies? I say that because their oiled bodies and over-muscled frames are really designed to appeal to MEN rather than women If being a roided out professional bodybuilder is what you think simply being in shape is then you have some issues to work through. I never said this is what being in shape is, so idk why you ran with this assumption. Being in shape to be normally attractive is having like 18% body fat with some moderate muscle built on top. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:31 AM
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But that's a proxy for having social skills and being smart, right? To a very extreme degree that most people will never reach. Something that is also boosted by being physically attractive. Listen dude, it's just so much easier to get in shape than it is to develop the charisma of a professional actor or comedian or something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:04 AM
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Looks matter I agree, but lots of normal looking dudes have shit taste, shit pictures, shit text and generally no idea what they are doing. I completely disagree with this. Men are not somehow inherently worse at creating online dating profiles, I just think that men are held to a much higher standard with this stuff. Like women will come on the internet and complain about men having sparse profiles that are copies of every other guy, but women have the same exact issue it just matters less when…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:03 AM
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It's really just that they ignore the whole being physically attractive part of the equation. That's really all it is, for the vast majority of people who struggle with dating they just aren't attractive. Most of them are probably fat, I know I've got about 20 lbs left to lose, and if they just stopped being fat they'd start having success. It's very straight forward and simple for the vast majority of people, idk why so many people come here just to complicate things to an extreme degree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:57 AM
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People did not know these things back in 2016 though. I'm begging you, please remember what happened 8 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:51 AM
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With how many women get with absolute bums just because he's hot and/or charismatic it's pretty clear that they are not really vetting for a guy having his shit together, nor his lifestyle that you can't even understand from a dating app profile. Safety is also not something you can know in a stranger who only showed you some pictures and a 100 word bio they wrote themselves. Let's just be honest bro, people want to fuck cool hot people. Men and women want this and it's the primary driving force…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:51 AM
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Damn I follow all your advice and don't get matches frequently at all. What unstated part of your advice am I missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:25 PM
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I've had women give input on my online dating profiles plenty of times, didn't impact my success in really any way things were kinda the same. Often you just don't look good, and the answer is not to obsess over every little detail of your profile, it's just to change yourself so you look good. This is all just you trying to maintain this idea that women are inherently better than men when at the end of the day women are just as shallow, especially online, dehumanize men just as much as the reve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:22 PM
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I'm showing you why Clinton was unpopular, please try to pay attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:32 PM
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The ACA that was a Mitt Romney healthcare plan? Yeah big win for the Dems, adopting a Republican policy and acting like it's some huge leftist revolutionary act. And come on you gotta know that Harris is openly opposed to Medicare For All right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:12 AM
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Ok and Ghislaine Maxwell was a front row VIP at Chelsea Clinton's wedding and Bill Clinton was the most frequent flier on the lolita express. Face it, Hillary is just a uniquely horrible candidate that practically nobody likes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:10 AM
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I think feeling like someone’s mom, therapist or emotional punching bag, taking on the majority of emotional labor, and other such complaints are very different from the women who leave because you cried over your moms death They're not, they're the same people. Notice how they never explicitly say what they were doing to "be his mommy" or "be his therapist". If someone doesn't explain their actions and relies on vague buzzwords, then they are hiding the truth from you to appear better in your e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:09 AM
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Junior year in college. Me too, so how did you forget everything that happened that year? For the leader of the US military? Fuck, no. The man played varsity tennis throughout college after claiming he was too disabled to serve. Fraud and a liar. So you think the American military is a force of good, especially in the Vietnam war? Stared at the sun on August 21, 2017. Ok and did 2017 happen before or after 2016? July 30, 2016, Trump criticized the mother of a soldier who was mourning his death "…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:02 PM
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Dodging the draft was good actually, or do you think America was on the good side of the Vietnam war? He also never really talked about Putin, didn't stare into the sun yet, only ridiculed McCain specifically, and didn't talk to any gold star families. Where were you? Where is your sense of time at all? You are confusing the year 2016 with 2020, stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:39 PM
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This reads like a chatgpt response
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:35 PM
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Sure but Trump today is different from 2016 Trump. Trump was known as an entertaining national celebrity who ran as an anti-war anti-corruption outsider candidate, which is coincidentally everything politically associated with Hillary Clinton. Like the Clinton brand of politics is what killed manufacturing in Michigan and lead to the poisoning of Flint's water supply, and Hillary didn't even do one campaign stop in the entire state. No wonder the people in Michigan hate her and chose Bernie and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:33 PM
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Democrats didn't do anything when they had majority control of the executive, legislative, and judicial branches of the federal government. The democrats do not want to do things, the republicans "stopping" them is just a convenient excuse to keep their dumb voters in line
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:30 PM
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Well when these guys were raised in a culture that constantly blasted them with messaging about how terrible and useless men are and how men are the natural predators of women and how every problem is always a man's fault and men are naturally worse than women in every single way, how can you expect them to have any self confidence or positive reasons why a woman should date them? When everything a man is or does is "the bare minimum" and deserves scorn at best what do you expect these guys to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:25 PM
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Yeah this woman is just a notorious troll and is changing "a man being sad once" into "a man constantly bitching and whining about everything in his life". I recommend just ignoring this person in the future. If we all just ignore these trolls they'll go away eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:20 PM
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I would imagine most women like this don't tell others that they left their partner when he cried about his mom dying. They'd hide it in language of being forced into doing too much emotional labor, feeling too much like his mother, being made into his therapist, etc. It is incredible how a person can understand what they think and do is at the very least extremely unpopular and thought of as a horrible thing to do and the response is to hide what they do rather than change what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:18 PM
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You are probably dealing with a cluster B personality disorder. Then seemingly many if not most young women have a cluster B personality disorder. I feel like all this focus on getting men to stop being sexist only empowered women to keep empowering these feelings in themselves and get frankly much more sexist than men have been in my lifetime at least. I guess bigotry is like a mental illness and can exist in a person without them really noticing either. Scary shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:15 PM
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No you're not using my logic, you just don't understand what my logic is. You are constantly responding to things people never said. What are you even trying to do here? What is your end goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:41 PM
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Ah the old Richard Spencer argument. Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:13 AM
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I think you're confused about what post you're commenting on right now. Nobody was talking about a group chat at all. This is about talking to and flirting with women in public
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:04 PM
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You actually are entitled to polite treatment in public. It's basic decency and some of us actually are decent people. You seem like you aren't but that's your problem to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:54 PM
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All of those women date men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:52 PM
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Girl you need to learn how to read. You're just not even responding to anything I've said, you're just making shit up to rage at. Do better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:52 PM
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So you think it's wrong to talk to someone in a public place that's designed for social interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:58 AM
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So it's now rude to talk to someone in public in a place that is designed for socializing? Come on this troll job is so bad at this point. Get better material girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:57 AM
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Lol nice fantasy kid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:53 AM
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My old coworker Steve
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:51 AM
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She's also a pathological liar, you can post a comment she made and quote what she said and she'll still deny saying it. Like all trolls just ignore her and eventually she'll go away
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:14 AM
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No because you'll just keep lying like you always do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:34 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fq68xy/were_you_more_physically_attracted_to_your/lp3g7bz/ Now will you apologize and admit to being wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:58 PM
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I've been reading your comments, you just have memory problems or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:22 PM
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What excuses? You're the one saying women will want to have sex with a man right away if he's honest, now you say they won't? Girl make up your mind, decide on a position and stick to it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:12 PM
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But you're not a man, gender dynamics make things different. If you ever left your house even one time you would know this already
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:05 PM
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Well you're not a man who dates women so you wouldn't know. I am so let me tell you, a man opening up with asking a woman to have sex with him is never gonna work. Being very blunt later in the conversation and flirting that you want to have sex with her has like a 99% chance of failure, even if she is thinking about having sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:01 PM
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So what's your problem with men here then if you think this is fine behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:52 PM
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Women already assume that any male person above the age of 10 is a murdering rapist who's actively trying to assault her specifically. If we can deal with a lifetime of this hatred and suspicion then you can deal with the hypothetical of this one test
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:43 PM
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Ok so do the one time test and we're even But if your partner freaked the fuck out on you and instantly divorced you at the mere idea that he might possibly have cheated at some point, doesn't that reaction just confirm that he cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:41 PM
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That's it? Just that she needs to do some explaining? No emotion or judgement or anything? A guy who wants a paternity test deserves to die in hell for eternity but a woman who does the paternity fraud is just an innocent silly girl who just has to do some explaining? Yeah sounds like you just like having the power of faking paternity and don't want to give it up for any reason ever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:40 PM
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Ok but every man who's ever been a victim of paternity fraud trusted their partner, did that trust protect them from a lifetime responsibility for some other man's bastard kid with the threat of imprisonment if he fails or refuses to provide for that child? What do you think those victims should have done to protect themselves from this terrible evil fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:38 PM
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You find the real dad and make him responsible for the life he created. It's really fucking simple why don't you understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:36 PM
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Well most men don't do this and isn't it bad when men do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:35 PM
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Ok check one time and then we're even
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:33 PM
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To have the same level of certainty that the mother gets. Why would you instantly freak the fuck and divorce your partner at the very thought of possibly getting a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:32 PM
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To have the same level of certainty that the mother gets. Why would you instantly freak the fuck and divorce your partner at the very thought of possibly getting a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:32 PM
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When did I say it was? Why you gotta do this what about-ism bullshit? We're not talking about men, stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:31 PM
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It's vetting. I understand that, but you don't vet the men you dislike who you have sex with immediately. Why don't those guys need to be vetted? After all, even safe sex can end in pregnancy and then what? Y'all say it all the time relationship and sex is different. The relationship person you tend to hold to a higher standard because they meet your standards you want to keep them you want to invest in them Who is "y'all"? Talk to me as an individual not the stereotype you made up in your head.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:24 AM
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How many kids have you adopted? Do you also think women should be forced to birth and raise children that were conceived by rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:18 AM
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Because we care and favor the companionship of relationship guy. We want to be with relationship guy Ok so have sex with him then, I really don't understand this weird puritanical behavior and wild 180 in treatment of the people you date or hookup with. If you're so horny just have sex with guys you like instead of guys you dislike or even hate. Why is that just impossible for you? Doing this is bad for you, forget the guys. It's just not a good thing to be doing to yourself and a recipe for dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:34 AM
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That's true, and a few of my family members were conceived from safe sex. The only guarantee is to not have sex, nature has a habit of finding a way when you do have sex. If you are not in the place for a relationship. But want physical intimacy or an experience with someone why limit yourself Because you could just masturbate instead of having shitty sex with someone you don't even like. The way you describe casual sex makes it sound flat out unenjoyable, you're fucking people you don't even li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:22 AM
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How about you don't say "nobody" does something that people clearly do. What do you gain from that? How is the conversation improved by doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:07 AM
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It disproves the point that "nobody" says it though. Women do say this and that's why men think women act like this. Because women act like this and then tell men that they act like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:57 AM
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Casual sex guy was in the right place at the right time. There isn't much to it. You don't really care about that person. There isn't rapport or anything. This is the main issue though. You're treating mr casual sex who you don't even like much better than you're treating mr right who you want a future with. Can you understand why that's weird for men and why a man would rather be mr casual sex? After all, both guys want to have sex with you, only one has to actually work for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:56 AM
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So you'd risk having a kid with someone you don't know and don't even like at all over someone you do actually like and could see a future with? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:55 AM
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Or it's that women like you say you have very different standards for hookups and relationships. Here you are saying that below in this very comment thread, did you forget posting this already? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fq68xy/were_you_more_physically_attracted_to_your/lp3g7bz/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:53 AM
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You're being condescending, and you're inherently butt hurt, evident by your excessive down voting, which presents with as mentioned, a condescending but also a petty undertone. I am not downvoting you, I guess other people are seeing this idk. My comments are getting at least one upvote so someone is watching this. Either way don't cry about downvotes it doesn't matter Step 1. Find and participate in a hobby Step 2. Incorporate social activities in that hobby Step 3. Purse said hobby passionate…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:24 PM
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Why are you being so disrespectful right now? You're not even addressing the comments I'm making, this is just ridiculous. I have addressed both of those points, sorry that you didn't understand it I guess but that's not my problem. But it's obvious you're just here to troll mentally ill men and boys, I suggest doing anything else with your time and giving up your moderator position on a subreddit you clearly hate. This is not healthy for you, I suggest you do literally anything else at this poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:48 PM
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No men on this sub don’t focus on the bolded. But they do, I see it every day. You've been here for 10 years and you expect me to believe that you really never see this? Come on, you're here way more than I am and yet I'm seeing what you're missing You completely skipped over it and pretended as though I only said this: Ok well now you're just lying because I did just address your bolded point. Can you please just be an honest good faith participant of the subreddit that you volunteer to moderat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:09 PM
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So tell me what I'm missing, no need to be scared dude I'm trying to just have a conversation. No need to be so weird and combative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:06 PM
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Ok so I've been going to this boxing gym for a year now and none of the women want to fuck me. What have I been doing wrong because I'm doing everything you say I should. Maybe there's some other aspects you are neglecting to mention and that's why I'm asking you to provide some more details. Because I'm currently following your advice and it's not working
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:39 PM
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Men on this sub admit that all the time, it's generally women and some blue pill flaired men who claim it's all about personality and you're just a piece of shit domestic terrorist if you struggle with dating. Like the entire core concept of the red pill is that looks matter above all else and men should solely focus on that, so how are men not admitting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:37 PM
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No I don't need pics, just tell me what you did to get pussy. Should be easy right? What are you afraid of? Don't be scared homie just tell us what you did to get pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:36 PM
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She’s sure the baby’s yours. If there’s no proof of sleeping with other men, what’s the problem? Ok so what's the problem with getting the test if we both know I'm the father? Why would you freak the fuck out and break up the relationship instantly at the very idea of possibly getting a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:35 PM
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Because of what you said. Otherwise, why are you so upset about a woman wanting to make sure her man isnt cheating? When did I say I was upset by this? Women already do this shit with their partners all the time. My issue is your complete ignorance of what makes a decent analogy. A paternity test is a one time test, the equivalent would be a one time cheating test. Not a lifetime of imprisonment with a deranged paranoid partner constantly monitoring your every move for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:34 PM
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Y'all do you. I've seen busted dudes do this exact thing and get women. I've never seen this happen even one time in my entire life. Sounds like you're just lying since ugly men are by definition not drowning in pussy. If they are, then by definition they are not ugly. I'm sorry but words have meanings and you need to understand the meaning of the words you use. Y'all boring, full of excuses, and anti-social and just comfortable living under a rock. Again none of this is true for me. I have a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:32 PM
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Do you think there are multiple paternity tests done on one person? Or is it a one time test?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:28 PM
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Does a man get multiple paternity tests on the same kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:28 PM
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Spark means attraction, simple as that. The issue is that being proactive and escalating when she's not attracted to you is sexual assault. Things have gotten very high risk these days when they really shouldn't be But at least you can acknowledge the lack of physical attraction even if it takes some coaxing. I just wish people would be honest about this from the start and stop acting like it's all personality and you're a shitty domestic terrorist if you don't have success with dating women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:25 PM
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The problem comes in your third paragraph though. Men who struggle with dating are still people who go out and do things and have friends, they're just not attractive enough (based on looks and/or personality) to spark any interest in women. Like I'm not even a full on incel and none of the women I've ever been with in any way have been from meeting a single woman at something I'm doing in public or from being introduced to someone's friend. This is just another example of naturally attractive p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:49 AM
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Hey man I hope you've calmed down and can take this constructive criticism, but you're really bad at giving advice on this topic, and maybe you shouldn't do it in the future. Your advice is to go out and do things and socialize while you do those things. If that was all it took, there would be no men having any problems with dating. Every man would be dying from drowning in pussy. The fact is most guys who aren't getting pussy are doing those things already, the women they interact with just don…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:44 AM
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I'd say probably to just be as sure as the woman is in the situation. For me personally I might want it to make the tribal affiliation of my future kids a lot easier since my family moved away from our tribal land when I was like 1 year old and I'm living so far away now so I imagine a document proving they're my kid and therefore part of the tribe would make things easier I guess, idk. I'm not exactly planning to do it but I'm not opposed to it either, I just wouldn't say anything and do it on …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:32 AM
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When did I say I was paranoid about anything? When did I say I was offended by anything? You really need to learn how to read and how to troll better, you're very bad at this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:28 AM
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Do you think there are multiple paternity tests done on one person? Or is it a one time test?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:42 PM
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But you're never gonna stop being paranoid about men so it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:42 PM
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Right so she can do it ONCE just like paternity tests. Try not being so full of rage and actually use your brain for once
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:47 PM
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You do know that a paternity test is a one time thing right? A lifetime of paranoid invasion of a man's privacy is not equivalent. Checking ONE TIME would be equivalent. How do you not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:49 PM
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I got laid by not listening to the advice though. Doing the opposite of what I was told made me attractive enough to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:31 PM
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Brother, look at the website you're posting on. There is no way you are all of those things and posting in this fucking subreddit about not getting pussy. You gotta be more than just somewhat awkward, hey maybe you're straight up insane idk. But something ain't adding up in your story and especially with the demographics of reddit, and this subreddit specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:17 AM
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Yes we are but you're just a liar I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:33 PM
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Yes and you need to stop lying about what happens on this subreddit too. Blue pill flairs are constantly that looks don't matter and if you're lonely it's because you're a piece of shit who deserves it. All I'm saying is to be honest with people and stop downplaying how much appearance obviously matters in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:20 PM
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It is societies fault for the gaslighting in the first place. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:52 PM
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Sure, doesn't change what I'm talking about though. There's millions of naive late bloomers who did fall victim to this mass gaslighting. Why do you act like we don't exist and therefore don't matter at all? Again, I was serious btw, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:38 PM
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Nah dude don't have this doomer defeated attitude at the first sign of any pushback. It's not healthy, and it's not attractive to women either. Let's be real, you're probably fat and awkward, don't worry so am I. The good news is that being fat would be the main problem and it is the most straight forward problem to solve. Focus on that and then focus on dating. You will very much struggle on dating apps if you are not conventionally attractive while also not having a 1 in a million type of char…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:35 PM
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Did you just never pay attention to popular culture from like 2015-2018 or something? These were not just new york times op-eds, it was also direct quotes from tons of young women from all over the country just lying about what they like. How old are you, honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:14 PM
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Right and I'm saying give that advice about physical attraction before the advice about having female friends. Because as we both know, having female friends will not improve an unattractive man's dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:13 PM
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Well when the entire country is telling me women love fat guys or dad bods and the only ones telling anyone otherwise are red pill freaks what message do you think that sends to a guy like me who was struggling hard? It tells me that my belly wasn't the problem it's just my approach, I just needed to go out more and treat women like people and just be myself and women will love me for it. And sure they loved me as a friend but they didn't want to date me or even hook up. Weird that it took me ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:15 AM
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Yes but physically looking good is much much much more attractive to women than sociability. You need to be attractive first, and then your sociability matters. I swear everyone here giving this bullshit advice is naturally attractive in some way and completely blind to how that impacts their life. I have been incredibly social for years of my life, especially in college. Still took me to 22 to finally find a woman who wanted to have sex with me. Took me the whole year to find a second one. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:05 AM
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What can I say, I'm a messy bitch who loves drama But my point is that you need to be actually attractive, like above average, to get this reaction from women. For pretty much all of my life I've been physically unattractive, and after high school it was really just from being overweight. I have always been pretty well liked, people think I'm very funny irl, many people have told me how uplifting my presence can be and how good of a friend I can be, and I've always made friends pretty easily wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:01 AM
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Maybe, I'm in America so could be the cultural difference Or that I'm dating while openly saying I'm already in a relationship and looking for casual sex so I get women that are happy living alone. Yeah this is also a huge difference too that you should mention
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:55 AM
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Simply being social doesn't make you attractive, what a stupid thing to say. You are likely naturally attractive in some way so for you being around people is enough. I am not like you, simply being social has never lead to me getting a single date in my entire life. It always a lot more dedicated effort to get a few dates in a year. We're not the same and you should stop giving advice to unattractive or super awkward men because you don't know what guys like me need to change and fix to get to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:53 AM
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Getting in shape. Not at my goal yet but things are going better lately so it's a good start. The real shit that neither side wants to admit is it's also not the most work to get an attractive body as a man either. Being like 5'10" and around 155-170 lbs and lean is probably enough to be hot. You don't need steroids and you don't need to spend hours every day killing yourself in the gym. I'm getting here with 3 sessions of an exercise focused boxing and kickboxing classes and eating clean. For s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:49 AM
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Do you hook up with your male friends too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:10 PM
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Right and he's clearly responding to the common meme advice here of "just be friends with women" given to men who are struggling with dating. Come on you have to understand this, nobody is honestly this autistic and naive right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:09 PM
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The one piece of advice is to become physically fit with a good amount of lean muscle mass and low body fat. Men are also following this advice and having success because go figure, more people conventionally attractive people than want to date those who are not conventionally attractive. Why do you guys constantly act like attraction doesn't matter at all and that dating success is somehow a perfect measure of a man's worth as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:07 PM
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Never did for me, wonder why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:05 PM
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Oh hey that's me, somehow this has never been a green flag irl though. Weird almost like you come onto the internet just to lie and give bad advice to men and mostly boys on the autism spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:04 PM
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Oh hey once again I'm reminded that apparently I don't exist. Throughout my life dating has always been very difficult, even when I've had tons of friends (men and women) and went out at least once a week every week. Being social does not make you attractive, and it's people like you giving this kind of advice that held me back for so long and stopped me from actually fixing my problems and having a good dating life that makes me happy, which I could have done years ago if not for people like yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:03 PM
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Weird I date the same kind of women and all but like 2 have refused to pay for the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:39 PM
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Weird, I'm willing to date women just like me, they don't feel the same way. Maybe the world isn't some perfect system where everyone gets exactly what they deserve. Maybe dating success isn't some perfect measurement of your value as a person. Maybe as a woman you don't know what it's like to be a man and should instead talk less and listen more in these conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:37 PM
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But if you're happy being single there would be no reason to ever date. Maybe this is just bad advice for lonely men if even the people who give the advice don't do what they think the lonely men should do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:01 PM
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Sounds like you can't take your own advice then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:23 PM
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So you're gonna be single for the rest of your life right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:34 PM
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The answer to dating isn't just to be asexual lol. People aren't actually happy being single forever, given that nobody who gives your advice chooses to be single forever it shows that what you're saying isn't even true. Sorry to burst your bubble but male sexuality isn't bad and it isn't bad for a man to want a romantic relationship. You're just being ridiculous and demanding men live up to inhuman standards that you do not live up to yourself. Stop it, get some help
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:28 PM
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Oh sorry I don't talk to children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:21 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:14 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:57 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:38 PM
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I'm still brighter than you kid. Honestly how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:38 PM
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So a woman riding you makes you a submissive bitch? Lol ok dude have fun being such a fucking weird loser who can't ever relax for 2 seconds. Remember Andrew Tate is horribly unhappy, emulating him will only ruin your life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:34 PM
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I am a man and I was expected to do those things at age 12 to keep myself safe. Most men do these things. But culturally women are not valid targets for violence, men are. Criminals are raised with this mindset and most will keep it as an adult and choose to target men. A man in America is like 7 times more likely to be murdered than a woman is. Hell 95% of people killed by the cops in America are men. Women are incredibly safe in American and other western 1st world societies, just look at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:44 AM
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Oh come on you have to know that the vast majority of men are wiped from the face of history. Yes you know Einstein, but from what you know of history can you tell me the name a male banker at the bank he used? Could you tell the name of any Native American man before the year 1492? Could you tell me the name of any blacksmith that made the weapons for the Roman army? You being a woman isn't the reason you're gonna be lost to history, it's because you're just a regular person that will have no m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:38 AM
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Honestly no I do struggle with the subtle flirting in the early stages. Like it feels like a bit much to just walk up and call a woman beautiful ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:30 PM
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Ok but like, what was one compliment? You have no memory of what he said at all in any way? Shit I remember compliments from years ago and I thought I had a bad memory. Maybe it ain't so bad after all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:08 PM
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Ok that's fine. I am curious though, would you be able to remember the last time a man casually flirted with in a way that you liked or appreciated? Would you be able to remember what he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:57 PM
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Sure but maybe this is me finally realizing I'm kinda autistic but it should still be very easy to tell a man what kind of lines you use to casually flirt with someone. Idk if it's me learning how to play music and improvise by copying great artists until I found my own sound, but it feels like this is just how people learn how to do anything. You copy what successful people do until you can adapt everything into your own style
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:45 PM
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If you’re expecting someone on the internet to give the exact words they say to women, then maybe you should ask your friends and ppl that know you in real life. Well people irl don't do that either, plus it's quite embarrassing to tell people you don't know how to flirt. Much easier to do it with the anonymity of the internet. Either way that's the advice people are looking for and I feel like it shouldn't be too hard to give some example lines that someone used last time they flirted with a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:31 PM
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It's pretty simple, these men are asking for actionable advice on things like how to flirt, how to make moves on women, how to escalate when on a date, and yes how to be physically attractive. It's just that the advice given is so obviously bad and not true, most men don't read books at all but most men seem to be in relationships so clearly being well-read is not the be all end all in dating. Most men have insecurities and most men are in relationships, so ridding yourself of all insecurities i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:02 PM
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Answer the question. Why did you say that looks don't matter if you don't believe that? Why did you lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:07 PM
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Answer the question. Why did you say that looks don't matter if you don't believe that? Why did you lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:01 PM
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Someone never heard of lurking on reddit before. You know you don't have to make an account to see what is posted, right? Also answer my question. Why did you say that looks don't matter if you don't believe that? Why did you lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:55 PM
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I am calm, you are just the most prolific liar and troll on this subreddit and I'm tired of it. You said that looks don't matter. Address that. Tell me why you did that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:44 PM
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Right but you also said that looks don't matter in the other comments I linked. You keep bouncing back and forth day to day. Why do you that constantly and then lie about it? Why are you so mad all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:35 PM
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Why did you ignore the other comments I linked that also proved you wrong? Do you understand that online dating is one of the most popular ways for people to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:16 PM
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I am tough thank you for noticing, I worked really hard for a really long time to get to where I am. But you don't seem to understand the concept of having different behaviors for different situations, maybe you should work on this extremely childish and naive mentality that you have
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:15 PM
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Oh and look at this, the day right before those comments you post this where you say the exact opposite https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1f8sez4/comment/lli7kuk/ Looks like I've proved that you are a liar, will you admit this and change your ways or will you stay stuck in this pit of never ending rage, constantly changing your beliefs just fuel your rage?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:11 AM
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Actually never mind, this comment right here you say that nothing matters except for the rapport you build with someone https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fae9d5/comment/llslolj/ And you say it in this one too https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fae9d5/comment/llshww2/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:10 AM
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You post like 100 comments every single day, I'm not going through all that. How about this, show me a comment outside of this thread where you say looks are so important, can you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:01 AM
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nah you do it constantly stop lying your comments are public
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:09 PM
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But what do you say to me, someone who can end a man's life with his bare hands pretty easily but also sometimes wants his partner to take charge in the bedroom? Those two situations are completely unrelated and have absolutely nothing to do with each other at all. You need to go outside and get some perspective on life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:20 PM
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No stop lying, you really need to stop lying. You constantly say both things actually. You constantly lie and flip flop your opinions on a daily basis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:19 PM
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Cite your source first
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:18 PM
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Ah yes the oh so evil and terrible "overly submissive" and childlike behavior of wanting your partner to even once make you feel sexually desired by taking the lead even one time ever in your entire life. Wow how could a man be so stupid and evil to expect his partner to ever make him feel sexually desired in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:18 PM
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You say that attraction doesn't matter to women in this subreddit all the time. Why do you constantly lie about everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:05 PM
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Women have killed men for rejecting them too. Women rape and murder men every day too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:04 PM
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As a woman, any rando can escalate a rejection into a confrontation or violence without warning. You need therapy for your severe mental health issues. You are not in danger, you are very safe and a man is not going to attack in the middle of a bar for saying no to him. You need to let go of your extreme anxiety and delusional thinking. Better yet, learn how to protect yourself and you won't have this fear. But you probably won't do that because you're not actually afraid, you're just lying for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:04 PM
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nah dude don't take this advice, you aren't gonna be getting anyone by playing captain save a ho at every party you go to. You're gonna come across as very weird, annoying, and self righteous if you try to act like this, especially if it's just to get some pussy. As a counter point to their anecdote, I've never met one couple that met because the guy swooped in to save her from an awkward social situation with a different guy hitting on her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:00 PM
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Well yeah of course they are because this a conversation explicitly about dating or hooking up, not about making friends. If your advice is only to make platonic friends then it's irrelevant and unhelpful to this conversation and the people in it. Yes she felt good that those guys just wanted to have a pleasant little chat with her at a party, but the guys asking this kind of question aren't looking for that. Come on this is extremely basic social knowledge, how is this confusing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:58 PM
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nah this dude is a maniac who doesn't go outside. Being poly is incredibly niche and the vast majority of people would never do it themselves. Even if people don't hate people in poly relationships they themselves still don't want to be in poly relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:47 PM
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Ok so how is any of this different when it's a man initiating things with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:46 PM
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