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ConversationBigOlBums/r/seduction24/10/22 10:53 PM
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I mean you’re wrong, but I can see why you’d think that.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:54 AM
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I have never approached a girl on the street, it feels too weird for me and my self esteem couldn’t handle the rejection, I’d feel shitty lol. I have met girls in bars which is pretty fun, when you go and mingle in the smoking area and you start a conversation then go from there. Otherwise it’s a case of talking to as many matches as I can and try and arrange dates from that.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:48 AM
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The ‘fall into a deep depression’ part is something you should be careful of. Take care of yourself mentally, it’s important. Do you have anything that excites you except from sex? That you could give energy and be passionate about?
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:45 AM
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People who work from home/hybrid working
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:40 AM
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Become someone people want to spend time with
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:38 AM
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An absolutely ridiculous amount yeah. I’m trying to counter this by getting a better paid job. I spend maybe 500-1000 a month on dates
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:34 AM
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For some context, I get 2 or 3 matches a day on hinge, bumble 2, and tinder maybe 3? Out of all those I might arrange 1 date. over the course of a week I could maybe arrange 3 dates if I am really trying. And out of those 3 dates that week I might sleep with 2.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:28 AM
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I mean, there’s no trick to it. Be mildly attractive and then if you make it your life’s goal, you try and arrange dates with as many girls as you can on dating apps eventually you’ll sleep with someone.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:24 AM
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I am very vague, that I give hints that I might want more, but never actually saying it. This normally results in the woman either becoming disinterested fast, or becoming more interested. When they become more interested I normally end it. Soon as someone tries to put a label on it I bounce.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:22 AM
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I got laid last night and I could have got laid again by the same girl tonight, but I chose to stay home and jerk off a bunch of times and see her tomorrow instead.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:16 AM
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I work in TV, but not high up. I am persistent, and arrange as many dates as I can with the matches I get. Not all succeed, but it’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:15 AM
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I work from home
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:52 PM
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Practise mate
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:50 PM
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I spend money on dating apps, and I have been thinking of hiring a professional dominatrix, I won’t get to fuck her, but I want to experience being treated like a piece of dirt
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:50 PM
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8 is a ball park figure, sometimes it’s 4 sometimes it’s 6. Today I’m on 5? And I’m still gagging for it.
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:49 PM
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Hahah nahhhh, but I have been thinking about hiring a professional dominatrix because I’ve only really slept with one or two girls who were dominant leaning and I would love to experience a professionals take, not even for sex which I won’t get from her anyway, but its something new and exciting lol
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:44 PM
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Absolutely, I think I’m a good looking guy but very insecure lol I need validation from girls as often as possible to feel any self worth
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:40 PM
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I would never harm or force sex on anyone who wasn’t willing, part of the excitement is knowing they like me and want to sleep with me, I enjoy the post sex cuddling as much if not more than the sex itself. If someone isn’t into me I’m polite about it and just go home feel sad for a bit lol
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:33 PM
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I was the opposite I never really got laid in my early 20s I did obviously but maybe 3 a year maybe. Then I hit 26 and boom it’s all I wanted. I have a good career, don’t make much a whole lot of money yet enough to live alone, but I will do in the next couple years.
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:31 PM
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Yeah that dude is fucking mental, I would never force sex on anyone, everyone has been willing and if they aren’t I just go home and feel sad lol. I love the thrill of chasing it and when I get it legitimately then that’s the high man
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:29 PM
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It makes me question whether I see women as the the wonderful people they are, or if I’m just chasing sex. I have sexual thoughts in my head constantly. And all it takes is to see an attractive woman in public that makes me want to go home and furiously jerk off (not over her but over porn)
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:27 PM
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Fair lol
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:24 PM
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Normally at that point I start cuddling them, and to me that is just as much sought after as is the fucking. I love women, I love being around them, and there’s no better feeling than sleeping with someone and holding eachother afterwards. Then after about 25 minutes we go again.
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:23 PM
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Nah it’s me, and I think it’s pathetic, I am dishonest, I lie and lead women on, I’m not banging supermodels I’m banging anyone willing to bang me. I’ve pissed people off and I just wonder if it’s a real addiction, or if I’m just a dickhead
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:22 PM
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What do you mean by a little off sorry?
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:11 PM
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It’s just such a thrill man, I am obsessed with meeting someone new, dating them working out if they like me or not, hanging out, bonding, doing cute things like visiting museums, then fucking, then cuddling while we stroke each others body/hair. It’s the greatest high, then ending it, and repeating.
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:05 PM
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Nah I’m not too good at that, I mean I have slept with women I’ve met on nights out, but it’s vastly outnumbered by dating apps, I prefer matching, conversing and then going on a date.
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:01 PM
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Hinge, bumble, tinder, feeld, fetlife etc
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:56 PM
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