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Y'all need to free your minds and become swingers or poly or enm or something. If life sucks act or accept
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:42 AM
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I love a guys happy trail that one gets me going. Also forearms and hands that are veiny 👌 a good smile and laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:39 AM
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Idk I've always liked kinda opposite of my features. Then again I was self conscious for a super long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:36 AM
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Omg for real I used to know a guy who was fat that insisted he was just big boned and he could never be smaller. Well things changed in his life he got healthier and he did get smaller. The fat denial is very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:34 AM
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NAH any dingus who thinks a strong jawline means a "fake" woman is a bullet dodged!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:30 AM
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I've always known of her as the cool girl. She loves sports and hanging with the guys, never complains or gets mad. She will defend her mans bad behavior. He could be five hours late to their anniversary dinner and she will easily forgive him. She likely has low self esteem and will completely uproot her life to please a man. These girls try very hard to act like no they're cool with it while their man abuses them and treats them like shit. I mean ppd men basically complain about this woman all …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:25 AM
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Yeah I also live in the area of California with the biggest wealth disparity in the world and housing prices are just insane. Send me a postcard from wherever you're finding a nice home in a big metro area for under a million 😂 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:54 PM
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I mean low key if a man offered to completely provide for me I would be down for marriage, but in this economy it's rare for men my age not to be living with their parents. As is with boyfriends and how much weight they pull I see no point legally and financially binding myself to them. I can date plenty but marriage and family never have felt possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:50 PM
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Oh yeah blame video games! Not the corporations with record profits every year who pay off our government (it's legal and called lobbying) to keep things in their favor and further the wealth gap between the rich and the other 99% of people. My grandfather supported a wife and nine children and bought a house on a forestry job. But oh yeah I just play too much animal crossing to be bothered to buy a house??? It's literally my dream to have a nice home with a yard and I will never achieve it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:20 PM
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Lol you thought that one was real?? You gotta stop taking reddit so seriously it's a bunch of fanfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:22 PM
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Did you know other attractive women exist besides the Instagram thots you follow? Ffs this subreddit is so ridiculous, men here follow onlyfans models and then think all women are posting tits and ass. Just such a huge red flag that you've never known a woman besides the porn you watch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:28 PM
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Bro missed the point completely. women are interested in LESS attention. Lmao imagining these girls being sexually harassed are just hoping the creep will say something nice??? Nah man they're hoping he'll disappear and let them walk in peace. Sucks you have such shitty women in your life to think that way, maybe you should pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:26 PM
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It's really not the same. Even you said only certain boys get noticed early. Meanwhile basically every single woman has experienced being hit on at 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:22 PM
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Complaining about how other people can't just travel at the drop of a whim is elite rich people problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:32 AM
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Serious brain trauma probably. Maybe some shrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:58 PM
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If it's so easy then just be a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:58 PM
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Maybe ask your daddy if he'll pay for your friends expenses too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:57 PM
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Aww not such a tough top g after all? Damn you let a girl just wreck your frame like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:21 PM
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If you really felt that way why comment? Omg everybody look this guy doesn't care!!n wow so cool!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:34 PM
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Whatever man keep downvoting tho that's real ppd spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:58 PM
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Ohh so you think a few shallow women on tinder represent all of us okay I see now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:06 PM
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Meanwhile the only guy I've met irl who ever complained about gold digger women coming for his money was a dude living with his mom and driving a $600 car
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:53 PM
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Wow so sweet I'm sure their family loves you. "mom he finally upgraded me from an object! I think this is the real deal!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:11 PM
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You know TikTok is different for everyone right? Mine is literally just funny animal videos how are y'all ending up with such unhinged takes being recommended to you? Sounds like a personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:04 PM
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That's because their mommies told them they deserve love no matter how they look or act because they're special. You try to give advice to these men on how to present better and they go "I shouldn't have to change myself to find love I am a special boy mommy told me so"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:00 PM
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9/10 that is not a short height lol who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:58 PM
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You think men wanting to sleep with as many women as possible is controversial?? Sounds like you might live in a Christian bubble because poly noncommittal men in the dating sphere are bountiful along all levels of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:20 AM
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Idk it doesn't really sound objective or quantifiable except that it's hella judgmental. You're trying to define a person with weird old timey sayings? Maybe stop looking at human beings like they're black and white sim characters where "smarts" is on a simple slider bar. Next time you think someone is lesser than you open your eyes and see that this very thought actually makes you the lesser one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:18 AM
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I think once again OP has mistaken a few women thirsty for attention that he follows on Instagram as every woman ever. He probably thinks his coworkers are just tired when they don't wear makeup one day. Kinda like that dude from some huge city in Brazil who would just post how all women only want to go clubbing meanwhile he's going to clubs to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:39 AM
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Honestly if someone is dumb but willing to learn and listen I'd go for it. If someone is dumb and stubborn then it's useless long term no matter how scathing hot they are. Also how do you even define intelligence as one thing? There are many types including emotional intelligence which is displayed by your example of a "not bright" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:29 AM
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Literally a dude posted here once asking for dating advice, got a bunch of good and varied advice, basically said "no I don't want to change myself" then deleted the whole post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:07 AM
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Young men whose mom said they would be loved no matter who they are because they're special absolutely were done wrong and have a hard lesson to learn about life. However at a certain point when someone has the internet and lives away from parents, you've been exposed to the world and should be learning or at least beginning to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:04 AM
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Omg I'm first??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:01 AM
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Right. I agree emotions should be accepted. I have tons of feelings in common with dudes here such as struggling with social stuff and getting rejected and being single a lot, but anytime I voice it a man here calls me a liar or says it's not true because all women have access to 6thousand chads
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:46 PM
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Yeah I mean I definitely don't envy anyone who has to open up to men. Majority of men just say "please stop crying" in a pained way. They think it's sweet to say but it's actually completely invalidating that I feel the need to cry right then. My dad is an exception but most men can't just be empathetic and say "I'm sorry that sucks" they just launch into why am I crying what did it how do I fix it please anything to make these horrible emotions go away they make me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:28 PM
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Why are you always dating such gross women bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:05 PM
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This guys favorite thing to do is air out his dating drama, he literally would prefer the trash because it's a better story where he can shit on women more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:04 PM
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You're not gonna find any Instagram influencers here you might wanna ask that question in a different forum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:44 PM
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The difference is before the death grip the man could come easily during sex. Only like 30% of women can come easily during piv sex. The clitoris needs to be stimulated. Vibrators make it a lot easier and yet men would rather feel bad about themselves or make up weird death grip theories about women than just bring a toy into the bedroom. Probably because men tie their dick to their self worth and take typical women existence as a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:42 PM
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Maybe if you guys stopped painting female privilege as "princess treatment" then they wouldn't be confused when they don't receive a generous inheritance and income without working and no wealthy princes are courting them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:39 PM
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Jealousy and envy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:37 PM
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I always take my birth control loudly in front of everyone then I scream "ANYONE WANT TO CUM INSIDE ME BECAUSE THEY COULD" cmon man get with the times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:37 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:34 PM
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Actually you must be lying because ppd told me all fat women get to fuck chads and no average or below average people get to date please check your facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:33 PM
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I'm so tired of the "women get to express all their emotions" bullshit. It's like no one remembers how relentlessly women are called overly emotional??? It's constant in the mainstream that women are scolded for expressing their feelings, called crazy, or laughed at with a "gee someone's on the rag" yet here on ppd somehow women live this blessed life where all their emotions are respected and coddled??? Such fake weird bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:31 PM
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I think raising your standards is always a sign of security. Insecure people take what they can get. Dating based on income is pretty shallow imo tho my mom's main advice to me was marry rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:40 PM
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Turns out gambling on a brand new type of money is risky lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:37 PM
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They are just another version of the "Actually" guy. Even if you agree with them they have to be contrarion or somehow correct what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:36 PM
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Only if the man is not egotistical or fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:35 PM
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Because in most people's minds marriage for women is doing all his chores and mental work and bearing his children and marriage for men is getting a bangmaid for life if you can afford to feed and house her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:33 PM
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That's all? Apparently the bar is in hell for princess treatment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:09 PM
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How can you split the cost of a pregnancy? Can you create a human being inside your body? How do you 50 50 when the woman is doing work you are incapable of?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:04 PM
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Did you just start a post about facing mental health problems and then basically end it by saying "don't you think you should pick better?" Ugh this is like all the people responding to clinical depression with "go outside" or "think positive"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:00 PM
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Majority of women on this forum are like 130lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:49 PM
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You fell right into her trigger trap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:50 PM
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Somebody already forgot the ppd survey results lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:48 PM
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Excuse me I'm a woman where's my princess treatment??? For some reason I have to work full time and pay my own bills 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:48 PM
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Uhh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:27 PM
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I'm not really trying to do anything lol I just think it's really fucked up to imagine a creator who is supposed to be good and all powerful created so much suffering and evil 🙈 but ooh lalala no starving children deserved it because they didn't perform the 1 2 step for God?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:33 PM
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No, but environmental factors while growing up can influence taste and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:31 PM
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As with all nature vs nurture arguments, the answer is it's always a bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:41 PM
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Imagine needing to be guilted into being a good person!! How unfortunate that people are so inherently evil they need someone to shame them from being evil. Being good is the reward bud I don't need a God to threaten me into being good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:36 PM
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Okay so you agree that God is not all good then. He is vindictive and punishes those who don't suck his dick enough. He is the creator of all suffering and pain. Praise God
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:34 PM
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Yeah that's why science doesn't see data from one survey as proof. There is no sense to be made of random and incomplete data
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:12 PM
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I'm 32 now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:56 PM
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This is why in science it takes more than one survey to prove something. You need more data, more studies, and more scientists cross reviewing each other's studies before you can actually find sense or the truth of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:55 PM
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The survey cuts off at age 29. You think it doesn't make sense that late 20s women are more likely dating early 30s men?...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:54 PM
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As a smart woman I learned very very early that men do not like it when a woman is smarter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:51 PM
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It's actually natural that not everyone gets to reproduce. If every organism successfully passed on their genetics evolution would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:48 PM
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I was a fat girl and I agree. I convinced myself that I was just too ugly to be dateable. Accidentally lost weight while treating my depression and suddenly dates were jumping out everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:46 PM
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Shhhh don't interrupt an artist at work he's gonna post the full fanfic soon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:42 PM
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The one in his fanfic about relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:42 PM
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The blue pill, duh. I was told I would be loved no matter who I am because I'm special. You new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:41 PM
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Therapy sucks (for most people) and there's still lots of failure to be found outside. I think at its core it means you can't just sit inside and research your way out of this kind of problem. Social skills just take practice which means just going out and starting somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:37 PM
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With muscle in men, less is more. When his muscles are rounder than my tits and he has more curves than me... That's a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:35 PM
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What television shows do you actually find exciting and inspiring then? That would be much more useful to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:33 PM
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Dragons. Don't overthink it, it's a TV show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:33 PM
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I thought incel just meant involuntarily celibate but apparently now it means woman hating school shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:29 PM
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Next time you're being made a meal incorrectly rip the bacon from their hands and scream "WHY DO YOU PEOPLE INSIST ON COOKING BACON WRONG YOU WORTHLESS IDIOTS" problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:26 PM
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Actually I can complain as much as I want, sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:25 PM
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Being an attractive woman*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:24 PM
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What's nice about God is you can blame all your problems on him too since he is all powerful anything that happens is his choice, including all world wars, genocide, murder, rape, and every bit of suffering ever existed. It's literally impossible for a God to exist who is both all powerful and all good. Either he's good but not all powerful, or he's powerful and not all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:23 PM
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There is a lot of emotional and actual work that women do once in a relationship. My boyfriend is entertaining and attractive and funny but most days asks for my help in finding something around the house. Most of the time these items are where he left them for the record so it's not like I'm organizing his stuff. Yes he initiated the relationship but now that we live together he does not initiate romantic or affectionate acts. I do most errands and shopping. I work more hours at my job as well …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:19 PM
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Why did you ask then seems like you already know everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:38 PM
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Perfect population to sample for this issue as most ppd participants do not go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:34 PM
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Oops. Maybe y'all could shed some intelligence onto all the 19 year old men here desperate to get married asap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:32 PM
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Easiest way to get me to cancel plans and keep swiping on tinder is to ask me to clean my house for casual sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:29 PM
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Easy, just become a girl then you can be the rude asshole you've always dreamed of being
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:28 PM
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Lay off the Disney movies. Nobody gets unconditional love. Even children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:27 PM
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I have also found that abusers very commonly say "all my exes are crazy" because it sounds better than "my exes called me abusive and dumped me" so people who say that aren't always the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:59 PM
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You are spiraling but this is not realistic. I have yet to talk to an AI that gives me even a fifth of the satisfaction that talking to my boyfriend or my human friends does. Really sad to think you view human interaction so poorly that you think men are going to lose to a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:37 PM
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I mean yeah I don't see the point of punishing myself in order to be "successful" like who cares everything will be dust and no one will remember me? Why not just enjoy the experience instead of chasing some arbitrary goals with work or number of dollars in my bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:24 PM
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Don't productivity shame me! Lol I am very proud to do absolutely nothing with my life fuck success
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:19 PM
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Having your own preferences regarding sex and dating is fine. Shaming or criticizing others for their preferences is not fine. I appreciate the rant tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:08 PM
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That's fair I am assuming that they mean settling down is marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:07 PM
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I'm serious. Young marriages rarely last. You haven't even figured out who you are or what you want until like mid 20s or even 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:47 PM
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Cmv any criticism of women sleeping around or calling women sluts is just jealousy. Every single man would choose ease of access to sex and they'd consider their high n count to be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:46 PM
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Um excuse me don't you know attractiveness is objective?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:42 PM
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Yeah it's called r/futuredivorcedmen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:41 PM
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Men are just jealous they can't be sluts and so they shame and judge women for enjoying life. I'm sorry your life is so boring that you have to reply to 3 month old ppd comments. I'm happy to be a slut. Jealousy isn't cute tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ww26dg/hypergamy_exists_and_it_will_get_worse/ Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:28 PM
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Weird I guess I must be a man then because I've been banned multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:47 PM
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Omg the c word lmao I got banned for that too it really blindsided me. No warning just 24 hours. We really gotta protect these people from c-wording with reality! Keep em in an incel bubble where none of their problems are ever their faults
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:39 PM
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Yes I frequently report stuff but honestly I have just been staying away from this subreddit a lot more in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:33 PM
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Cmv this subreddit is only to allow incel and red pill men be completely misogynistic and uncivil towards women while anyone who shows even the slightest bit of rudeness back is banned. How is it civil to call someone feeble minded? Ffs just call it r/patsontheback4incels
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:51 PM
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Tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:43 PM
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Yeah this post is essentially "cmv these half dozen suburban women I met represent all women in the world"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:57 PM
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Men can have sex whenever they want I don't care.. unfortunately there is such a thing as cause and effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:20 AM
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It's also pretty selfish to force a woman not to have a child because you find being responsible an inconvenience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:25 PM
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The paternity test cmv thread is just a circlejerk if anyone wants a handjob get in there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:06 AM
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Why are chubby men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:44 AM
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Hmmm you mostly sound jealous you can't just pay less on haircuts and also get hotter and more attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:42 AM
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Gay is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:40 AM
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Yes I look at all asses and I'm a woman in love with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:38 AM
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Bad. My idea of marriage is two people who forced themselves to stay together after one cheated, deeply resent each other and constantly fight. It turned me off of marriage and having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:37 AM
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I still feel love and love my boyfriend we're just open. If the right person wanted to be monogamous I would have no problem with it. Most men are very very happy with the idea they could still fuck other women. I used to sleep around more but I've been pretty content not to bother lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:33 AM
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Still definitely men who are more obsessed with looks. I mean you wrote a whole essay about looks over some half ass comment I left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:51 PM
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Hey at least you don't have to automatically become ugly no matter what at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:48 PM
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The real risk is when she finds out how little you actually think of her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:47 PM
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Yeah as someone born in California, please, if you hate it just LEAVE WE WONT MISS YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:44 PM
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Quit virtue signaling nobody cares that you'll always be down to get your dick wet dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:41 PM
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I love how men are like so brain broken that women like hot people. Meanwhile women have known from a very young age that their main value was looks. Awww first time being objectified sweetie??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:39 PM
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Because it's not possible for more women than men to be in exclusive relationships. No point when your take can't even acknowledge basic math or what a relationship really means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:35 PM
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Nope I'm in open relationships and tell men I date I'm not monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:17 PM
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Lol true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:55 PM
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I've been making this point repeatedly on this subreddit and men just say I'm a liar or an outlier 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:49 PM
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I used to be very monogamous. Then I realized men are always just waiting for a younger or hotter woman and there's no point being loyal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:46 PM
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He can't because then you'd see his argument is full of holes sorry :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:44 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:42 PM
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Anyone else seriously think this guy is a bot? He never replies to his spam and I constantly see him in these daily chat threads. Actually bots are more coherent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:39 PM
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It's like someone gave an AI bot all the random daily chats of an autistic red pill dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:38 PM
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They learned from those who started the practice: men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:06 PM
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If criticism or "minimizing language" could control or shut down men then this subreddit wouldn't exist. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:05 PM
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For someone who supposedly cares about women you sure do look down on them like they're idiots. Men have been pick up artists for decades before the term was coined, if this kind of shit working is news to you then you're the naive one unaware of what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:19 PM
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Um actually the red pill told me women are the more shallow ones and they care about looks more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:06 PM
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No we live in Capitalism times. If a business can't profit it will never live. If you're suggesting government mandated and controlled dating apps then that's communism (OMG AHHHHH SCARY)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:02 PM
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Lmao for real op thinks no one went to the gym or was masculine before Andrew Tate? I agree that women shouldn't be dating these men, they're so obsessed with some random bald dude they've lost sight of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:53 PM
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Wrong. It is still uncommon that a drunk hook up will press charges. This is a scare media tactic pushed and it's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:49 PM
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Why don't ppd users understand that posts have to make sense to make an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:20 PM
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Omg you poor victim!! Someone call the police this man needs help and can't make a basic argument because he's short!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:11 PM
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Men invented shallow lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:09 PM
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Women hate me! I say a lot of really rude and weird stuff but no no they definitely hate me because I'm short!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:48 PM
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Short men are very hot, but go ahead believe whatever helps you sleep at night Hun. Lmk when you want to face the nuance of reality like a real man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:48 PM
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Women: I have a preference in dating for tall men Men on ppd: WOMEN WANT TO GENOCIDE ALL SHORT MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:37 PM
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No no no short men are facing genocide! You can't disprove it, how will cliffpr deal with how much he hates himself otherwise :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:36 PM
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Emotional intelligence is being smart with people and emotions. For example I'd say people with autism are lower emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:28 PM
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If men's arguments started with "For women in their 20s that are slim pretty" they might actually make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:23 PM
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I've seen way more women complaining about ppd men and their posts than women complaining about the chads...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:36 PM
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Lmao I mean you understand that your fear gives it it's power but most boys get got by this scam
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:10 PM
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Awwwww nobody told men that "every man gets a supermodel wife" only happens in movies? I'm sorry that must be so hard for you 🎻 I'm still waiting for my letter from Hogwarts that I'm a wizard I know how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:05 PM
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Why do men constantly bitch and whine about bimbos while pining after them?* Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:03 PM
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God damn just take a compliment or go flay yourself like you really want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:01 PM
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Why is it possible then to scam men into jerking off on camera and then get their money by threatening to release the footage to family and friends? Hmm seems like some men do care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:00 PM
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Except they're not actually the women these men are interested in because they can't stop bitching about what whores they are or "bimbos" like you called them. The actual kinkiest sexually open women aren't posting thirst traps on Instagram, because the only result that comes from that is to get followers or likes. The open women are out in the world making friends and having real sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:57 PM
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Huh? The reversal really doesn't work on ppd lmao... Maybe if we were on tinder... We all know men on here aren't 6 foot chads bruh or else they'd have nothing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:51 PM
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https://youtu.be/_Shl5Se_AQw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:44 PM
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Dude they literally don't have bras for thin women with big boobs. The staff suggest just getting a bigger band size. I'm not fucking fat though so the bra just rides up and pinches my tits. It was so so hard to find any 30" band bras except in fucking A cup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:40 PM
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Victoria's secret almost has never stocked sizes that fit me. I have a large cup size but a small band size. They suggested I just go up in band size and down in cup size (aka wear a bra that doesn't fit at all) so I could purchase something at their store. I walked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:37 PM
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Wait there's men who don't blame the victim???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:33 PM
2

Embrace Satan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:30 PM
2

For real it's pretty clear the only thing men care about in women is how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:29 PM
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Considering how many dick pics are out there then it must be proof that women are kinder and better people that there's so little male revenge porn out there. Just by your own logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:27 PM
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It's just a ridiculous clown show to watch men on here write a whole thread about "women" when really they're clearly writing a thread about an Instagram thot, a woman on onlyfans, or a sugar baby type. You probably don't notice the normal women on Instagram because they have 50 followers and post pictures of their dog and flowers and sunsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:20 PM
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Omg a voice of reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:58 PM
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Hmm weird I thought women had the privilege of being able to vent about vulnerabilities with no repurcussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:56 PM
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Ppd men in a nutshell: I want to rag on you but if you're hot I'll simp for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:53 PM
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If you think blowjobs are equal to chewing meat I feel bad for your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:55 PM
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It's just one of my many faces. God, are you purposely incredibly rude and sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:54 PM
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Yes, saying the bar is in hell means the standards are low. Bruh YOU were the one who made the post saying that it's men who have the low bar in hell more than women. Keep dodging the real arguments with derailments though. I had to do severe mental gymnastics to even understand how this comment is related to your "argument" at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:51 PM
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And that's thread everybody okay let's wrap it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:41 PM
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That's what op wanted, strawmen to attack. He conveniently is silent when many commenters made the excellent argument that the bar is set by the collective choices of men. If men really wanted to stop enabling shitty ugly women then they also need to stop dating them and paying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:37 PM
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Yes. Also men remember, if you sleep with multiple women your dick will become squished down by your slutty behavior. We all know slut men get tiny thin dicks after fucking too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:31 PM
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Op won't reply to this because it clearly owns his whole point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:26 PM
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And when a few commenters have made excellent points that the bar for women is where it is because of men's desperation you're oddly quiet. Yeah just keep attacking the easy points and ignore the ones that completely dissolve your ability to be the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:25 PM
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Imagine if abortions and contraception were made illegal. You couldn't fuck a man without being ready to bear his children which he would have rights to. You couldn't fuck a man you don't want to spend 18+ years with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:41 AM
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Yeah I've definitely heard stories where the "girl" will want you to come visit then she says she needs money to come pick you up from the airport or something and then the dude pays and she never shows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:51 AM
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Well a nice boy is a people pleaser and a bad boy is a self pleaser. This means when a bad boy likes you it feels more special and genuine. When a nice guy likes me I am paralyzed by wondering if he even likes me or he's just nice to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:01 PM
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I mean as long as you don't give her money sounds like the least you could get out of it is a trip to England.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:59 PM
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Yeah home owning is something only investors do now, sorry. How do you become an investor? Be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:55 PM
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Jokes on you when your wife dies from her planned pregnancy due to a bad miscarriage that could've been prevented with the medical treatment of abortion. Sorry your wife died quit crying that's just equality!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:53 PM
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Why would I approach a man when I have dozens jumping into my lap on their own? If you had hot women approaching you all the time don't you think you'd probably stop approaching since you don't need to? This shit is just basic cause and effect man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:23 PM
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Congrats! You've won biggest victim! .... Now what? Maybe men could actually do something for these victims like how women have fought tooth and nail to have rights at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:21 PM
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This whole sub is just men trying to prove theyre the biggest victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:45 PM
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Cool! Bye!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:43 PM
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Men: id literally fuck any woman that approached me even if I didn't like her or thought she was crazy Women: I'm looking for a genuine connection with a man who is really into me and not just down to fuck because I'm a woman Men: why don't more women approach???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:40 PM
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Make sure when dealing with others to try to take away their power because that's how you win. What do you mean that's why I don't have any friends? I'm powerful!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:37 PM
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How dare you disrespect such a pinnacle of masculinity. Our short king says his wife is very dry I think he knows a thing or two about pleasing a woman!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:30 PM
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If it's not using a woman to only be interested in her for sex then it's not using a man to only be interested in him for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:39 PM
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How can we change his view if we can't even tell what it is? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:57 PM
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The internet fosters reactionary and outrage culture. Reddit and those in power benefit greatly when you blame your problems on women or men or red or blue instead of realizing almost all problems come from the huge disparity of wealth and crappy social systems caused by those in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:08 PM
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Nothing screams I live with mommy(or a girlfriend) more than renting a hotel room for a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:50 AM
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Oh yeah jam those words down my throat baby I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:48 AM
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Shhh don't say that they close those down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:55 PM
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Expecting sex is taboo?? Lol no it's just trashy bro. Not a single woman was ever surprised that a man expected to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:54 PM
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If it's a deal breaker then by definition it breaks the deal. If you're gonna make up a reason why wait? I don't see the point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:53 PM
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Yeah she's definitely got more going for her than your hotel room offer. I bet plenty of men offer to take her on real dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:51 PM
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No I would include that under bad mental health plus modern society being isolating and most people having less friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:03 PM
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Young people are more sexually conservative now lol. To hear young men talk about having kids in their early 20s as ideal is so crazy. Ten years ago I don't know if you could find any men that age wanting to settle down and start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:58 PM
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I mean it's essentially another form of wanting a partner that makes you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:54 PM
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You don't have to worry, he knows everything and can predict the future! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:52 PM
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Nobody wants to talk about how race affects dating here but that plus being overweight is honestly enough to turn off most men. You will see men here refute this because they're desperate for any kind of woman and would literally fuck anything. I'm white but when I was overweight with short hair and mental health issues I couldn't get a single date and most men didn't even glance at me when I walked in a room. Now that I'm thin and healthy I can feel the eyes on me and know most men would hit it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:49 PM
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I'm a woman and I don't give a fuck about any of that shit. Do what you want. Maybe if this info makes women mad take out the statements like "western women are trash" which is what is the actual target of their anger if anything. Nobody cares who you pay to fuck Buddy get over yourself!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:25 PM
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You forget about the blue pill bro? Cmon why are we even here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:53 AM
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Here goes the boy crying wolf again lol aren't y'all bored yet of posting this and being wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:25 PM
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Spoken like someone who's never experienced the deep apathy and zero motivation that comes with depression. Telling them to "just do a professional sport" when their legs are basically broken because they're sick and need real help. But yeah just tell them to think positive and get over it!! Haven't you tried just not being depressed?? Jesus Christ dude and y'all wonder why men struggle with loneliness and mental health when this is the kind of "support" the manosphere provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:23 PM
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Stupid priorities then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:38 PM
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Approach with a smile and say something small and nice or maybe a funny observation about how the sun gets in your eyes on that treadmill or whatever. Talk more if she does but if she says little to nothing just walk away. Gym or class you have to remember is an opportunity to try again so it's better to do small positive interactions not about dating and leave before she can feel bored or bothered. If at any point she seems bored or bothered you need to leave or do less. Slowly slip in more tid…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:31 PM
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Huh? You can't fathom the possibility that stupid men exist and are having sex? You know if a woman complains about a man (not you) she had sex with who ignored her communication and calls him stupid, she's not calling you stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:26 PM
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I agree, I'm also referencing this users posts in the past. He repeatedly posts about issues we all know very well that could be simply answered with logic like yours. Unfortunately that's not really what he's looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:21 PM
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You new here? Majority of this guys posts get deleted for ranting or incl content
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:07 PM
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No no no you were supposed to say "bitches are dumb amirite?? Poor Johnny he's a blameless victim in a shallow cruel world!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:28 PM
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No no no no you were supposed to say "aw man yeah it really sucks to be an ugly man! Guess that means you're completely blameless in your failures johnny autism because women are just shallow bitches always raising the goalposts and you'll always be ugly so you're completely free of fault and a total downtrodden victim! Poor Johnny!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:25 PM
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Mental illness. Depression and anxiety ruined my life for years and made me a miserable fuck that even desperate men didn't want. It made me feel lonely all the time, even in crowds. It ruined my friendships and made me self isolate. Mental illness is a huge issue in modern society that both men and women struggle with. I wish we would talk more about this than "she is just sad she couldn't get Chad" like sexy dick is the only thing in life that can make a woman happy or make her sad when she do…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:20 PM
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Majority of men would madly love a bad bitch who handled everything. I'd even argue most marriages the woman is dominant and has the final say. As they say happy wife happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:48 AM
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Then stop using dating apps lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:38 AM
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Welcome to 99% of dating as a woman 👍 we are basically entirely picked on looks. I can never be certain a man loves me for more. You can never be certain why a woman likes you either, so stop worrying about things you can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:36 AM
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My female breadwinner mother cheated on my dad. Then they even stayed together. I really don't think income is why people cheat. Correlation does not equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:31 PM
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I am a woman and I don't say that hombre. Sorry you associate with such horrible women. Maybe pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:55 PM
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Bruh anyone filming strangers and putting it on TikTok IS a basic bitch attention seeking type. Nobody chill or cool is doing that dumb ass shit. Why don't you call them out in the comments that they're being rude and self centered? Definitely will do more than discussing it here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:09 PM
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Men: this is how women are Also men: women to me are 18 to 23 year old girls who heavily use social media
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:58 PM
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Most men would absolutely settle for an ugly woman who was kind, cooked, and cleaned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:55 PM
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It takes only 2 female brain cells to realize wearing clothes like that makes most of the men stare at your body. Most women "complaining" about being hit on or looked at is barely veiled bragging. Makes sense that people who film themselves for fun would smash this easy content button of "man looked at me" like no shit it happens millions of times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:53 PM
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There's not much you can do aside from helping them find help like a doctor or counseling. You're already better than the average person by not judging them or giving shit platitudes like "just think positive" or "go outside" as if it were so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:48 PM
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Guitar or piano, drawing or sculpting, even photography if they're actually good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:44 PM
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Bruh society fucking sucks I hate it I have no argument
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:51 PM
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So you're not just calling me a liar but you're calling me a rude as fuck bitch too? I would never laugh at or shame a man shooting his shot. Wtf man do you hate yourself?? Because you've already been rude to me and you didn't even ask me out first or anything nice like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:50 PM
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Uh oh is there a number we can call? This old man is lost in public and doesn't remember where he lives, just keeps talking about how he's a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:37 PM
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Any physical prowess adds at least 30 points. Also attractive are artistic and musical prowess. Basically any man who is good at something adds points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:36 PM
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You for real still let other people embarrass you? Bro that's a red flag. I got over feeling bad about the way other people are acting when I was like 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:31 PM
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My man the whole comment you replied to explains why that's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:25 PM
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Yeah I'm 32 but a bit of a late bloomer so mentally I'm probably still in my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:22 PM
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The lowest I've gone is trailer trash lol. Low key though I've seen some homeless men with very handsome faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:03 PM
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Nah I may be above average but I think if I was ridiculously beautiful I'd know by now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:57 PM
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I literally get downvoted when as a woman I say the best way is to approach women irl. Nobody realizes that the "ew creepy" women are just a highly online minority. Most women irl take it as a compliment to be approached even if they're not into the guy. Most approaches by men are not creepy. The men who catcalled me badly or followed me or were actually creepy were almost always men 40 years older or homeless men with no shoes. Meanwhile men my age act like they're scared to even look at me. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:24 PM
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Everyone man should fucking delete their dating apps if they're not working. If you're not getting girls irl from it, stop supporting the app with your time. All the app owners see in these desperate men is $$$. Tinder would rather you be lonely and trying on their app until you're so desperate you pay for their premium.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:14 PM
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Men on here constantly crying about how they wish women would "just be honest" about dating, then I go an be honest and they're crying how it goes against what other women have said. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:18 PM
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Woah almost like not all women are the same??? Hmm no way not possible let's just call me a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:16 PM
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I'm not scared and I always use light touch when I flirt with my dates. I'm sorry I'm not into sexually passive men, maybe some women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:22 AM
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A man who does not overcome those fears is not attractive to me. I am not interested in dominating a male starfish. I want him to pin me up against a wall. Congrats on your excuses though I'm sure if you just explain that to women they'll get wet and suddenly no longer have reactive sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:20 AM
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Lol u think I'm innocent that's cute ty bb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:17 AM
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Ppd men shame male sexuality more than the women do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:06 PM
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Look at it this way, a woman is told all her life that men are obsessed with sex and it's almost all they think about. If I really internalized that and then went on 4 dates where a man doesn't show sexual interest I would think I must not be sexy enough for him. Men need to stop being ashamed of their sexuality. It is so much hotter to feel like he can't keep his hands off of me than to feel like he's scared to touch me. If you're scared to touch me when I'm literally on a date where the intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:02 PM
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Omg look everybody this janitor just solved our impossible math equation! We tried to give him a scholarship to MIT and he said I don't want to why does this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:47 PM
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Nobody cares if you say no sex before marriage. People care when you call them liars or say they're sluts for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:42 PM
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Because they don't give a shit about your manosphere brainwash opinions. Unlike you they mind their own business and do what they want instead of writing long judgy posts online about essentially strangers you're stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:44 PM
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Should you leave your husband if he starts spewing manosphere bullshit? Yes, at that point he has proven he has no individuality and it just going to barf up whatever random theories some 21 year old on tik tok comes up with next so he's beyond hope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:23 PM
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Whoo yeah!! Women are lying whores and men are wholesome truth speakers!!! High five amirite buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:07 PM
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That's what you sound like bro. Complaining about a select few douchebags. How does your own medicine taste? Like bullshit huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:42 PM
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Hormones make you crazy. I'm not kidding strong hormones can feel like you got dosed with a mind altering substance. My pms was so bad at times it altered my personality. The right birth control pill helped me mellow out a lot. The wrong birth control pill gave me insane panic attacks and mood swings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:28 PM
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Abstinence only education and overly strict parents
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:24 PM
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My tinder profile says fuckboys only
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:24 PM
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Holy overthinking batman. Just tell girls you don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:22 PM
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Aww baby's first time learning how bmi works
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:20 PM
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Just go see how many twoxchromosomes posts pass the bechdel test
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:15 PM
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Both important parts of the biological cycle 👍 wow such a wholesome take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:14 PM
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Meh. I've seen men brag about fucking 2 different girls in the same day. I've seen men brag about tricking multiple girls into believing he's their boyfriend while he sleeps with multiple other girls. Whatever women are doing is just a small attempt to reclaim what men have already invented and owned for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:13 PM
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No beard, ideally some lean muscles or just a thin guy. At least 5'6". Dominant but respectful. Handsome face. There's also just a mystery chemistry element I can't quantify, idk for sure if I'm into the guy until I meet him irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:04 AM
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I've known a small handful of girls who would actually vocally shame people for repeating outfits too much. I almost wear the same thing everyday like a cartoon character and I haven't been bullied for it since high school
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:11 AM
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Get into a trade like plumbing, electrician, welding, etc. Make your own money and your own hours and actually be good at something too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:23 PM
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If women are also guaranteed access to abortions then sure idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:21 PM
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Wtf is a bugbear. The point is these women made their own space only to basically be npcs bitching about men all the time. There is no positive shit on there unless it's about how they left a man. Meanwhile if a woman tries to voice a unique opinion there she is downvoted and shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:09 PM
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If you ever want a good laugh go see how many TwoXChromosomes posts fail the Bechdel test.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:45 PM
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Seems like just another small percentage that would be easy to avoid. I can't tell if you're calling these women dumb or trying to say demisexuality is a farce
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:05 PM
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You think I would choose to ignore a man doing all the initiating? What???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:21 PM
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Lol I'm a woman but you can call me dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:02 PM
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Dear men, if you find yourself trying to date women who want you to pay for everything, initiate everything, and be 6' tall maybe you should pick better women. Stop chasing shallow women who are essentially gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:57 PM
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Lately with online dating there has been a lot less "monkey dancing" done by men. If I'm not actively asking questions and participating, the convo dies. If I'm not pissing myself laughing at his jokes and sending hearts all the time, the convo dies. If I'm not interested in meeting up asap, the convo dies. Men don't plan the dates they ask me what I want to plan and it's pretty common that we split payment or do free dates. Maybe you're dating in the religious Midwest and we just have different…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:54 PM
0

It's not a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:50 PM
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Since most men on here seem very interested in settling down with a good woman, why even ask this question? Better yet why ask women what men get out of relationships? Y'all barely believe it when women say what they want and now you want women to say what men want??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:49 PM
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You know the type, men who think even 300lb girls are fucking tall hot men with abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:58 PM
1

Oh fuck that's a stunlock
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:57 PM
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To all those who say mental health issues aren't a negative for women seeking relationships, imagine this: she's a 10 but if you don't text her for a few hours she calls you 59 times scream crying and having a panic attack. You have a fight with her after she goes through your phone and finds texts to women from before you were dating but accuses you of cheating. You break up with her and block her only to have her call your landlord and employer and everyone you know saying you're an abusive pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:53 PM
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The second group of men are in my mind ironically extremely blue pilled. They believed their mommy when she said he was special and handsome. They believe that there's a woman for everyone, that someone is gonna come along eventually and find his bo and basement dwelling quirky and cute. I've seen these men in threads here and when you suggest they improve themselves they go "okay but I want someone who loves me for myself" they're too entitled to realize they wouldn't want to date a highly flaw…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:48 PM
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Can you please state your gender so I can decide whether or not to believe your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:24 PM
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I'm sorry you live in the Midwest or South but there are babes everywhere in most large cities. The only thing about me people call fat are my titties and ass 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:15 PM
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I agree, there is a limit to what trends can influence you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:13 PM
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As someone attracted to men it is hot to watch men make out, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:10 PM
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Easy then if that's true, socially condition/market for ugly fat men. Problem solved women are just programmable npcs. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:06 AM
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Q4M: for reasons outside your control you are locked in prison for the rest of your life with only men. There is no way out and no women. Would you have gay sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:04 AM
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Bro if you can't see how negative and toxic this whole sub is I'm sorry for you. No one here is debating or proving fucking anything it's just rage bait and anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:40 AM
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Yeah this forum is too fucking exhausting. Ya'll men cry about not being spoon fed proof but when someone does feed you you spit it out like a dumb baby and cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:17 AM
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Did I say they still had privilege? No, if you read my comment maybe you'd understand my point. This is equality. Young people of all genders want to kill themselves it's how fucked society is. Women experience discrimination too. But go ahead play the oppressed victim when we all are going through this fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:15 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:08 AM
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Almost all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:44 PM
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I was a lot like you in my 20s and honestly over time my perspective changed and now the idea of open relationships and poly stuff doesn't break my heart like it used to. I actually find it to be more exciting and agree with everything this commenter said about it making you all the more sure of when you find the right person to be with for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:35 PM
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Men who complain that the new age and feminism are affecting men negatively reveal their privilege. To those with privilege, equality feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:31 PM
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Because to priveleged people, equality feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:30 PM
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It's not about women being murdered. We know men get murdered too. It's about men committing 99% of murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:25 PM
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Well it sounds like you have everything figured out and can speak for all men! Good thing all men are the same, a monolith. Have fun being the same as a murderer and a rapist!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:23 PM
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Yes I agree and have basically said that before. Women who are mad are reacting to being called whores not the preferences lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:30 PM
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/u/scwizard if you've got this guy agreeing with a twox post you've drank too much purple tea please we're worried about you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:25 PM
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Brother you drank too much purple tea I think your mind is going
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:23 PM
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Fr they just act like miserable sad sacks until the woman does the work (like usual by force due to male incompetence) and files for divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:23 PM
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Sorry ur mommy wasn't there for you :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:21 PM
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Hmm rough joke needs work definitely didn't laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:19 PM
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Imagine being like a man and giving shit about claiming a human with a name.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:12 PM
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No no no everyone has a disorder these days. Adhd, autism, redefine it all to include you so you can be guilt free in your failures!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11sk33u/do_you_think_theres_anything_wrong_with_men_to/ I don't want to ever hear some whiny man on here again going "women get soooo mad when I have preferences for a low n count woman!! Women hate me for it because I'm a man and I can't have preferences!" NO. That was never it. Nobody cares if you have preferences. This woman who hates your preferences is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:09 PM
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People are too retarded to know what the word means so I don't use it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:07 PM
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Yes, men and women are exactly the same, they only date hot people and they all want to date someone hotter than themselves, glad we're in agreement 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:03 PM
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Men totally date up, all men would if they could. Just because you are only friends with men who struggle to date doesn't negate the existence of fat/ugly men with beautiful young models because the man is rich or has power. I don't think settling for an ugly man who is rich counts as dating up. It's a compromise on the woman's part. Also how dumb are you to say that dating an older woman would be a man dating up? I thought old women were valueless hags. Hello what forum are we on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:55 PM
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Woaah hot people are hot??? That's crazy I've never heard that do you have any sources??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:47 PM
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Yeah it's definitely more compatibility. You're unique to be compatible across such an age gap, but it's not impossible. It's also way easier to find a romantic connection when you have a platonic way to bond first like working together. Lots of women (especially low experience ones) will need to get to know you and grow attraction over time. If you asked that woman on a date the first day you saw her she might have rejected you. Instead, after getting to know you, she asked you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:55 AM
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Well he's been getting leaner. He's been leaner before he was like xxx 11/10 in his early 20s. Doesn't matter he got chubby for a minute he's hot af because he's smart and funny and he yells at idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:51 AM
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Everyone dates up. How do ya'll literally take the same shit you do (lots of casual sex, cheating, dating up, etc) and then go ohhh women bad for doing that!! I'm so tired of "women like sexy men" being omg groundbreaking wtf!!! Of course. It's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:43 AM
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Yes, it's bad advice. According to your other comments, your 22yrold (and also autistic) girlfriend approached you after working with you. This is so so different from if you were cold approaching whatever 22 year old looked hot. Lots of 22 year olds are also very experienced and lots of older women are virgin. Lots of women will respond negatively to autistic men "trying" for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:33 AM
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She might already know or just not want to know. That's tough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:32 AM
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Ehhh you can totally like her more and just not be overly affectionate/clingy and achieve the same effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:58 AM
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Yeah it's ridiculous to me but I live in urban US, my mom is the breadwinner and my dad does lots of chores. Sometimes I wonder if Texas or other states that are more rural/conservative actually has these trad types as I never see it. Most couples both work and help out at home. I can even understand loving someone so much you'll do what they ask. However the more patriarchal relationships I have seen like my grandparents were riddled with abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:55 AM
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Hasan Piker 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:50 AM
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Sounds like she just wasn't super interested. Sometimes if a guy makes it easy for me I'll go along with it when I otherwise am not really into him. The guys who win me over are usually the ones who don't give up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:43 PM
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Sure, if you use the male model where casual sex is the most desired outcome. You can be up to your eyeballs in men wanting to stick their dick in you while also still being incredibly unloved and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:20 PM
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If your friend saying "I will never have sex with you" means your friendship with her is over, then I would say at most he was an orbiter... Not a true friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:06 PM
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Cool I regret talking to you this has been a horrible experience. Your people skills really need work :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:51 PM
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Congrats on your inner peace bro. You still really don't understand how criticism and judgments can make someone upset? Just because you read some Stoic quotes means you forget what it's like to be hurt by insults? Pretty sure you know exactly why people get upset. I thought you were playing the smart guy, why play dumb about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:22 PM
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When the rain stops it will be fires next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:08 PM
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You're right! Also you're a filthy whore with a gross used up squished penis because you've had more sex than I believe appropriate. This means you're a lesser person and nothing you can say will change my mind! Don't worry these rude comments are just my opposing thought and opinion, as you'll know what to work on, giving you insight into something you probably never even thought of before! Wow such a productive conversation here!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:06 PM
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My opinions aren't based on what ppd men care about thankfully. I'm directly addressing your core point. If you want someone to tell you what you want to hear don't waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:00 PM
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Yeah it's like when someone describes hypergamy without calling women whores riding a dick carousel, the idea actually makes sense for anyone to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:26 PM
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No one is saying looks don't matter. It's just men confusing things because they want to see it all black and white. Very frequently in this sub I will discuss how important personality, charisma, non verbal communication and more are in attraction. How there's more to being attractive than just looks. How a hot guy could turn me off if he said things that showed an ugly personality. How an ugly guy could change my mind if he made me laugh and made me feel good. You know what response I get EVER…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:04 PM
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I think they can probably do better than me since they follow 27694 sexier women than me on insta and that they probably would fuck the first one that gave him the chance. I've basically given up on hoping that a man would be happy with me. Dating is something I could only barely manage at my most mentally healthy. If any depression or insecurities or paranoias rise up, the men run for the hills. I have become jaded about dating now and rarely find the energy to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:58 PM
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Just explained why women prefer hypergamy 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:42 PM
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Damn if you're so all knowing why you wasting time chatting on Reddit? Go buy some stocks or something with that 100% guarantee. Me: please stop assuming everyone's relationships are like yours You: okay but when I had a female friend she was a fucking sociopath so they're all like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:13 PM
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How does this work when it's the men who find sex demeaning and they call women who have sex freely whores? You think that mentality was something women chose to create? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:49 PM
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He has a friend that goes outside. Outside is where you can meet other people, including women you can use to get your dick wet (since clearly all other human relationships/emotions are not worth it to you)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:45 PM
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He's still doing better than men alone in their mom's basement (who are all in the comments screeching about self respect lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:35 PM
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Huh? Weird words to put in my mouth. Never heard of white privilege? Even non white people benefit from being American as this makes them more appealing as a passport bro. I'm saying most incels spend so much time pitying themselves they don't even see what things about them are actually attractive. Haven't you seen how often incel content gets deleted on here because it's just woe is me bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:32 PM
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Somebody is trying to trigger men like you with this story and it's working: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/11ojdy1/my_friendwho_i_love_told_me_that_she_wishes_she/ If someone loves their friend apparently this means they have no self respect. Anyone saying platonic love is okay and normal is being heavily downvoted despite OP agreeing with them. Hey guys can you stop projecting how Stacey used you onto the friendships of mature adults? Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:28 PM
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White men being entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:58 AM
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Uh oh you know we can't talk about race, it would expose the large privilege/advantage all the crybaby white incels have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:11 AM
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Yes can u clean my room too it's so messy but I'm really busy thanks mommy goes back to gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:38 PM
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Hmm almost like they don't give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:37 PM
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Relationship pro tip, you can never make people change. If you can't accept them as they are, then they are not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:27 AM
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Female attention is so rare? Weird, I'm giving it to you right now, all you had to do was write your random ideas on a small subreddit. I'm guessing you're the type to also consider his mother or sisters to not be women because all you're actually thinking/talking about is fuckable females which (GROUNDBREAKING) is not all females.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:00 PM
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I've been called an 8 by others. I don't believe in number scales for looks, but I'm not putting my pic on Reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:38 PM
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It honestly works better as a metaphor for being trans. It would explain a lot too, most of the bitter writing by men about women's privileges and what makes men sexy just reads like jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:25 PM
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Ok but the term incel was also invented by a woman and they love that one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:23 PM
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There's more to attraction than looks. Not every woman's type is the same. That they are only counting the preferences of the hottest top 20% of women using online dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:21 PM
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Awwww how cute he's virtue signalling!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:51 PM
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No need to cut him off. Keep him as a secret until you find the relationship you're looking for. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:50 PM
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Men with true confidence are most arousing. Oh sure he might act tough on ppd but he's still doing the very feminine activity of discussing dating ideas. I'm looking for real men so I'll be at home depot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:49 PM
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Why would I bother giving a man any kind of dating advice? I'm tired of being called a liar when I'm being honest and trying to help
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:40 PM
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This is only true if you also use your male eyes as well to determine men's attractiveness. Women will disagree as women all have different tastes, and they will be downvoted/ignored by the majority of men here making more shit up about what women think. Once again men are running their whole worldview based on how a small percentage of highly attractive women behave on dating apps. I find the man on the right who you say is feminine/ugly to be good looking. I would say yes to a date with him, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:35 PM
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It's just another way people in the past infantilized women. I mean they used to not let women play certain sports or ride in fast vehicles; they were so concerned her womb would fly out of her body violently or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:47 PM
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"I'll just marry someone from overseas" only works if you have good friends. I know a guy trying to marry a Philippine woman but because no one has ever met her or seen more than a few photos no one can vouch it isn't a scam for citizenship and he is finding he can't bring her back to the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:19 PM
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All the men here telling women to date unattractive men who are rich because they have decided what women prioritize in relationships. I'd take a broke and dirty but sexy man over a rich fat man every single time. Sorry though I know I'm wrong about my own preferences please tell me how I feel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:42 PM
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So you're admitting ugly men can and do regularly get bombshells. Damn turns out all I had to do was be a man when I said that and people would lap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:20 PM
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Why do people without kids think they know everything about being a parent? Why are people that stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:18 PM
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Your comments have passed the wall they are not attractive or interesting, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:16 PM
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I'm sorry your parents neglected you that sucks ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:26 PM
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What? Bro all the women in here are saying no it's not creepy and/or they don't even think about him or how they prefer men with less sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:22 PM
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Dude wtf stop. Ya'll screech when we're dirty whores and ya'll screech when we're prudes and then ya'll just screech that we're liars for saying either one. Maybe we're just sick of the screeching
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:08 PM
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And then he goes "omg why do they hide it?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:06 PM
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Don't be ridiculous. I had dreams of being a bus driver or the guy who rides on the back of the garbage truck all the time as a kid!! Until my mom laughed in my face and said that was not a job for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:41 AM
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Apparently it's only true if a man says it. I don't want to ruin your point as a woman by agreeing with it, then no one will agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:58 PM
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I will never fuck a man with my brother or fathers name
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:50 PM
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Well if you're hot muscle man then please, we need more of it in porn. So tired of the dude being barely in the porn or an old fat man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:02 PM
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True, also the only men I ever look at or speak to are men I would fuck. I can't get my car repaired because when I go into the shop I see no one. I tried to take the bus but there was no driver! So weird why can I only see women and Chris Hemsworth??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:57 PM
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At least not until they open their mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:54 PM
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If you agree there's ugly people then you can't challenge them on their excuse "I'm too ugly" so they don't have to face their real problems or the actual complexity of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:52 PM
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You think it's doable? How long have you stayed hard without cumming (while fucking a 10)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:48 PM
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What's worse is the powers that be have convinced people to fight each other, that it's the fault of blue/red or men/women. If the country is on the brink of civil war they won't notice the fat cats taking everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:42 PM
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Yeah you're right it's pretty fucked up that the patriarchy also trivializes assault on men. It's also awful that a majority of men go "haha nice" or "damn he's lucky" when they hear about a man getting raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:39 PM
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I don't care. Sounds like you should mind your own fucking business though! Unless she's your wife it has nothing to do with you, find a more productive thing to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:35 PM
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You're right, some men here really do wake up and try to make all of men look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:34 PM
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That's because they have embraced socialist policies. If it's a capitalist society it inherently creates poor people to function. When your standard is "profits always increasing" eventually you're gonna start cutting costs anywhere you possibly can. Workers take minimum wage so that the ceos can get huge bonuses for profit margins always rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah but passing the looks test is a way lower bar then men here realize because their only sample size is dating apps where looks are basically the only thing women can see. I'd say over 60% of men my age look good enough, but whether I'm interested in dating them will depend on other factors. Do they make me feel good, laugh, act kind, show intelligence/stability, that they have a similar lifestyle and preferences to me, plus more. It's true that to be attractive ONLY based on looks you'll nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:10 PM
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I think it's disappointing that they focus so much on the lack of sex/women instead of focusing on the 9 other areas of their life they are unfulfilled or struggling. When my mental health was at its worst I struggled the most to date and I also was the most desperate for it. When I worked on my mental health and felt fulfilled in my life I found relationships flourished naturally. More importantly, I didn't need them anymore anyways, they're just a nice add on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:41 AM
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Seriously!! I will be making arguments about how there's more to being attractive as a man than being good looking. But it's like they're brainwashed so hard about appearance they think I'm still talking about physical appearance. I will list examples about charm and personality and voice and smell and they're just like "you can't say looks don't matter! You're so wrong looks matter" and I never said looks didn't matter. Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:37 AM
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He's gonna say how first world countries are struggling with population, Japan for example is not increasing in population and has a large elderly population. Literally capitalism did this to itself. Anyways, it's probably because he's scared of immigwation 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:30 AM
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You think all women just spontaneously changed their habits for no reason? Not gonna acknowledge that the advance of technology/internet has changed society a lot? Just gonna blame women huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:22 AM
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Disagree, I am very interested if red pill men even like women. So far, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:37 PM
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Meanwhile red pill is also making agreement comments oof... I have seen a small handful of comments actually contesting the cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:36 PM
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You really never seen a red pill man say how much he dislikes or even hates women? It's a daily thing in the chat thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:34 PM
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If this post is so untrue then why can't you disprove it? Is it so hard for a red pill man to just say "I like women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:31 PM
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Excellent comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:29 PM
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Once again housework and childcare are completely invisible. You have no idea what a stay at home wife does or what? Just inconsiderate or is this the first time someone told you the coffee table doesn't clean itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:17 PM
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What about the physical and emotional toll of having a kid? Why aren't you concerned about if they birth a child and don't want it? Don't you worry that if she has a child too young she will realize she doesn't want it or she still wants to try other dick? What if she turns out to be a horrible person but you didn't know because you're in your early 20s and haven't fully developed? Don't you worry about the impact a bad mother would have on a child? What if you regret having children when you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:56 AM
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Yeah I don't buy that he's concerned about the risks of giving birth older... People are so obsessed with breeding they totally miss how rude it is to be like "don't you worry you'll regret not having kids??" Imagine if I asked someone "don't you worry you'll regret having kids??" they would be chasing me with pitchforks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:52 AM
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If men and women hate each other then why are they together so often? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:48 AM
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Well when I saw your comment my first thought was oh he's talking about how ppd men hate women. So I guess it's mutual. I for one remember most women in this subreddit replying strong no to the question "why don't you just create a society without men" because they love and enjoy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:44 AM
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You seriously think women don't want men?? Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:25 AM
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Huh? Does he expect a wife to break into his home?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:42 PM
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Ok but they can only select from men they meet. If he's staying inside and relying on dating apps he is going to be seen by very few women (who have too many options).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:33 PM
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Yeah I'd say there's some truth to each of them, but also I feel like a lot of topics just can't be confined to objectives. It's not black and white, a lot of things just depend on the individual and their perspective/preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:28 PM
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I've always understood it to mean that your death is something only you will experience. Even if someone is sitting next to you and holding your hand, you are the only one dying. It is yours alone to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:54 PM
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That's an interesting point. Kind of reflects poorly on marriage in general still... Women must also have heard men complain about marriage being a burden/trap a lot and that's why it was also in those shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:52 PM
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Hmm I thought the average woman was 170 lbs. Looks like ppd women are thinner than average!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:20 PM
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But then there's the 60s of drugs and peace and love and sex and acceptance? Honestly just seems like the pendulum continues to swing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:05 PM
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Good riddens
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:05 PM
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I see it like the argument of nature vs nurture. When you ask which is the truth, it's usually a little of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:03 PM
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It's also really sad to watch the multitude of sitcoms where the husband is fat, lazy, and bitching about how his wife nags him and she's a ball and chain and how he wishes he could fuck someone else. Meanwhile his wife is a hot thin babe with a great body, always dressed well with good makeup, doing all the chores and saying "yes sweetie". One show like this is literally called Love & Marriage. My boyfriend thinks it's funny and I think it's just too depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:50 PM
2

A huge percentage of communication is nonverbal. You will never be able to fake the body language. A nervous man can look creepy in the right situation because of that body language. Your brain recognizes he's scared but there's no threat you see and so you're weirded out. It's all subconscious so it's a hard skill to fake. Real confidence comes from being actually self assured. If you believe and know all the way to your bones that you deserve to be here and are worthy of love, it will show in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:19 PM
1

I love Taylor!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:13 PM
1

It helps if you love them. Living with my parents or roommates sucked. Living with my boyfriend is great. What's even more great is he cares about my needs and would give me space if I needed and vice versa. Sometimes I twitch in my sleep and I go sleep separately so I don't wake him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:18 AM
1

Why doesn't anyone talk about the actual best okcupid study: Women were offered 3 men of otherwise equal attractiveness. A) openly likes her B) openly dislikes her C) unclear whether he likes her or not Majority of women liked C the most, then A and lastly B.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:15 AM
2

That my looks were why I failed at dating. Being overweight was part of it but mostly it was horrible self esteem. I was very eager to doom myself after a few years of trying/failing, I was convinced I would be forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:12 AM
2

You're saying there's something wrong with having preferences in who I date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:59 AM
3

That post was so funny like wtf? Nobody told him if you consent it's not rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:35 AM
1

Eat hot chip and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:34 AM
1

If the women in here had pics of themselves on their profile ya'll would be totally simping there would be no debate just "haha omg you're soooo right I love your insights wanna hang out later?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:32 AM
2

Don't do lizards dirty like that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:28 AM
1

Nah, I'd say most people are. I used to get scolded by teachers for using Wikipedia as a source since it wasn't a legitimate journal or publishing.. Jump forward ten years and my aunt is informing me of conspiracies like they're fact and she only saw a picture of words on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:26 AM
0

Like I always say, there's usually more variation within a group than between groups. The average man and woman are more similar than different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:06 AM
2

Hottest guy I ever banged was 5'6". People just cherry pick a few size queens and go "women ☕"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:04 AM
0

My ads seem to think I'm a gay man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:54 AM
8

That's the feeling some men have. That's fine ya'll can fuck whoever you want to! I don't care about that. It's when you start putting moral judgments on me, saying I'm dirty/used up, calling me a whore, etc that makes me mad. Many men on this subreddit slip quickly from "it's my preference" to "she's fucking gross and soiled and a bad person" and you'll have to forgive me if I get defensive. However, I'm looking more for a guy who'd be open to an orgy or threesome. So we're just not compatible …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:00 AM
1

Yes. Social pressure is used because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:53 AM
1

I don't think it's easy for anyone. Men need to be very socially skilled or very very good looking to get dates easily. Cmon this is ppd I'm not gonna say men have it easy I can read
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:52 AM
1

Short to me would be under 5'4"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:49 AM
2

Oh shit okay. Weird. He looks so little in photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:43 PM
3

Nah he's all yours!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:32 PM
9

Somewhere between 30 and 50 I'd guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:28 PM
5

Andrew Tate is actually proof looks don't matter. He has no chin, he has no jawline, he's under 6' and he's balding. Edit: okay I was wrong about his height he's not short. Still many women agree that face comes before height and nobody found his jaw or chin or hair yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:23 PM
3

Things I was told as a woman that (in another life) would have led me down that path: "Women should be responsible for the housework. Men have a different role." "Abortion is you murdering a child." "Being a good mother means making sacrifices for your children." "Being a good woman means being a mother." "If you don't have kids by 35 your babies will be malformed or disordered." "If you only have one kid it will be lonely/spoiled."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:28 PM
3

crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:22 PM
1

Where did you find this astrology.com?? Such stupid bs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:21 PM
1

They're all attractive, before and after, because they're not overweight. Literally the bar is just don't be fat. Any woman who would discriminate some of these is likely very attractive and only dating similarly very attractive dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:20 PM
4

When I was young I assumed I would have a husband and kids. When I actually got into relationships with men and tried to imagine adding dependents, I just can't. As is, life is just work. I work most days, come home to chores, get a little r&r if I can then sleep and straight to work again next morning. I couldn't afford to not work. I couldn't afford much additional expenses. Unless I want to raise them in a trailer park on food stamps I don't see kids ever fitting into this fucked up life we A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:14 PM
16

I don't remember and if someone asked I would be honest about it. If a man seriously interested in dating me asked I think I would leave him. I've learned from here, men who are preoccupied with the other dick I've had in the past are likely to have a multitude of other psychological issues. If he's concerned about my n count, we're not compatible because I don't see sex as demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:11 PM
1

It works through low self esteem or hating yourself. If you 100% think you're disgustingly ugly and unattractive, what would you think of a person who said "I like you and I think you're hot"? Either they're blind or stupid right? Maybe they're desperate because they're a psycho? There are tons of men and women sabotaging themselves because they have issues with self esteem, which is basically untreated mental illness that severely distorts how they perceive reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:58 PM
2

When you're getting dozens of new messages a day the "hi how are you" ones really all start to blur together. So when a guy says something different I will be more interested because he seems creative. A good joke about something in my profile, a unique question, or even something like "would you rather fight 1 horse sized duck or 100 duck sized horses" is way way more engaging then another dude who's never met me before pretending he cares how I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:50 PM
1

It's always face > height no contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:44 PM
2

Donate at a sperm bank
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:50 PM
1

High fructose corn syrup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:46 PM
1

Dude don't be mean he finally found someone with something in common
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:45 PM
3

I was just trying to find a source the red pill would respect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:11 PM
1

So does George Bush get one for bombing women and children or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:03 PM
5

If war actually protected anyone I would. Except it's just rich people playing money chess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:43 PM
5

Ah yes what all young women want a super jaded bitter virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:18 PM
0

Shooting guns is though 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:17 PM
2

They aired a segment on the 80/20 rule on a major news outlet. Most people have heard of Andrew tate and have learned about it from that. The red pill may be small but it's talking points are spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:16 PM
0

Okay? That doesn't disagree with my point. If you look closely I said it's "kind of like" not "exactly the same thing in every way"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:15 PM
5

Excerpt from NRA article: A while back, our sister publication NRA Family asked a 27-year Army marksmanship instructor for his thoughts. His reply was: “As a military logistician, my units had around 20 percent female personnel in both officer and enlisted ranks. All the women fired Expert their first day, but less than a third of the men did so. Several men had to re-train and repeat the course to qualify. This pattern continued when the 9mm replaced the .45 in 1985, until I retired in 1997. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:12 PM
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What's even more sad is men thinking they can never open up when there's plenty of women who would be supportive and non judgmental, but men's deep insecurities about being vulnerable make the one bad story each dude has seem so much more powerful. Kind of like how women face the risk of being murdered by their partner. It's actually not a huge risk but it looms huge in their minds because it's scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:08 PM
4

All this talk about the 60% of young men being single and no talk about how red pill ideologies could easily make a man hate/resent women to the point of not dating and also definitely shames women for dating (either they're a slut or they're picking wrong).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:05 PM
1

No, it's my fault for being a bad woman because I should just cum instantly when I want to during a 2 minute bout of only vaginal sex duh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:56 PM
1

All men are like that duh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:37 PM
1

Good! Then if you're stepping out of the dating arena maybe you can stop bitching about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:29 PM
1

Ok then don't! OH wait what would you complain about without it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:20 PM
1

Idek what that is so why have I gotten spam texts about it / 10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:16 PM
2

He's less likely to leave me for a hotter girl 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:15 PM
2

Hmm maybe because men can't stop bitching about all the single mothers in the dating scene. I'm pretty sure pregnancy always causes higher risk of stroke and heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:13 PM
1

Ok then do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:09 PM
1

The natural order of things is Sex at Dawn. Women need multiple men in bed because men tire after just one orgasm. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:06 PM
3

For real it's like men who push for a ffm threesome (especially with straight women). My man you struggle not to come in a few minutes and can barely satisfy one woman, wtf you gonna do with two??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:04 PM
1

Then how come women don't need laws or violence to be extremely picky and intensely shame simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:28 AM
0

Eh, not always. I would say 4 is actually important but there's also kindness in doing something you don't like for someone else. However if you're changing your entire self to please someone else... Just feels like I might as well date a robot. I like people for their individuality. Otherwise though I'd say in my experience 1-3 are indifferent to me. I mean haven't you heard the fun life hack where asking someone to do a favor makes them like you more? I've had boyfriends on either end of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:59 AM
1

I live near San Francisco fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:43 AM
1

This isn't news I talk about this shit openly all the time ama. I was fat and depressed as fuck men ran for the hills when they saw me staring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:39 AM
1

I don't remember exactly how many, probably a few dozen. Most of it happened in my teens and early 20s when I was a fat awkward depressed virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:35 AM
1

Most of those Starbucks workers have liberal arts degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:01 PM
2

Why did those guys I asked out say "no" and walk away then? they still want me? You're suggesting I blow up their phones and go to their house because they're just shy and always wanted me??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:59 PM
5

It's some twisted form of virtue signalling, which they also constantly bitch about women doing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:53 PM
2

Oh sorry did you want me to treat you how you treated me? It's hilarious how being insulted for your looks hurts your feelings!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:39 PM
1

Idk how Andrew tate is famous he literally sounds (and is) so dumb when he speaks. Hasan Piker kicked his ass (verbally) and the man has never recovered. Low bar for male role models I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:00 PM
3

They do da inch worm crawl which is objectively cute
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:59 PM
1

Nice yeah fuck feelings!!! Lol women ☕🤮 amirite!!!1
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:58 PM
1

Well (insert your gender) are fucking sluts and liars!!! Welcome in 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:27 PM
3

It's hard taking an* argument serious when the man clearly just hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:06 PM
1

You're right. This was an actual attempt at an argument by a man, but they are different points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:34 PM
2

The real best love story in the office is Michael and Holly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:30 PM
5

That's not a nice thing to call men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:30 PM
7

Women: actually there's a lot more to attraction than looks Men: NO ITS WOMEN WHO ARE SHALLOW BECAUSE I WOULD FUCK ANY WOMAN WITH A HOLE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:25 PM
1

Damn for someone triggered by downvotes you sure do get a lot :/ sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:18 PM
6

Ugh another validation craving troll... Keep ignoring the main points I made. You don't even have an argument. Just happy to talk to a girl huh? Well guess what she's hating the experience. It's dumb shit like this why men are crying about being blocked. LEARN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING ATTRACTIVE AND BEING GOOD LOOKING. READ THE COMMENTS YOU REPLY TO. No point debating with someone who can't read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:07 PM
3

I'd say like half of the men in my age range I see irl pass the looks test. Really hard to say I'm actually attracted at first glance alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:05 PM
3

For men* because they're shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:53 AM
5

Aww you missed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:30 AM
51

I think too often the word attractive is confused with good looking. The amount of men that make me go "damn he looks hot" from a picture alone is very small. The amount of men in my age range that make me go "damn he's hot" after getting to know them is a lot more. Men are so focused on the lack of appreciation for their pure looks, maybe because it's what they value the most in women. To be a hot manly man used to have so much more to do with character, now it's just jawlines and inches and ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:39 AM
1

He'd have to make me laugh a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:27 AM
1

Eh I've also noticed I like face types that are kind of different from my own. My boyfriend really likes face types of girls that to me look ugly, and then I realize I look like them too lol However siblings or dating from just a pic is also a very very hard game
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:20 AM
1

Omg One dude: I think we should ban people in relationships from ppd (which are mostly women) they don't have tinder ptsd like I do Girl replies: I'm single but generally feel silenced and like I can't share my opinion here Soooo basically the women you can't bully out you would like banned. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:43 PM
3

It would just allow them to further gatekeep the ability to say what's true about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:35 PM
1

AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:33 PM
1

I'm so spoiled by yt music. we use Spotify at work and it's so horrible in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:52 PM
23

I would feel like this dude is a clown with horrible ideas. Makes it more worth it? Wtf? The logic is so weird here idk what's happening but I do not like it. The only tension blowjobs are creating is jaw pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:31 PM
1

Aww can't read?? Looks like you skipped my comment since you saw the easy to attack celebrity argument. "Men are absolutely allowed to look like that and I have found many men close to my height extremely physically attractive."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:33 PM
1

I wish men would stop trying to tell me what I'm attracted to, but guess what women's opinions also don't count. So I think the whole discourse is a load of bullshit. Go talk to some men and pat each other on the back while you confirm your biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:11 PM
–

Ok then just complain you seem to enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:30 AM
3

If you want a highly transactional relationship, ok sure, I really don't care as long as it's consenting adults. Kinda funny after the passport bros defending that they're not buying a whore... Yall drop a mail order bride thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:30 AM
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Ya'll need to realize there's so much more to being attractive than hot/tall/ripped
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:26 AM
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He's negging you. Do not hesitate say "okay well I won't mention the inches you're missing"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:19 AM
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Just dance it's gonna be okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:17 AM
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Who cares what people think? Have you seen the other stuff people think? People are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:14 AM
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1) be attractive 2) make a few jokes, invite for drinks near home, bang her, say bye in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:11 AM
1

Sam. Ultimately though I don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:45 PM
1

https://youtu.be/_Shl5Se_AQw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:15 AM
1

I'm sorry man sounds like you're really trying. It's rough out there. I will say when I got into relationships with "ugly" guys (I didn't find them ugly but my "friends" would talk shit) it was because we hung out regularly at work or school and I talked to them and got to know them and then was very attracted due to their personality and charisma. Low key they were in the friend zone and won me over in a sense. Usually took several weeks of talking before I felt attracted but because it was bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:12 PM
1

Twox is mostly outrage masturbation fanfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:45 PM
2

Thank you. Twox is like some highly online angry woman's fanfic. So ironic how all their posts are about men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:43 PM
2

What do you provide besides money? Trad marriage is awesome for men because their wife is basically their fucking house elf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:41 PM
1

He didn't even purchase Twitter he was forced to lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:39 PM
1

Did you know the more college education one gets the more liberal they become? Almost like once you're educated you learn something.... Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:39 PM
3

Hey men, if dating apps are so horrible for you and causing women to be exceptionally shallow, maybe you could do something about it and stop using them. Boycott them. Stop wasting your precious hours of life swiping on sex bots. Learn how to have casual conversations in public without performing assault. A woman calling you creepy is not proof of a crime, learn to brush that shit off and move on. Learn from your grandpappy r/seduction you need to approach irl if you want to meet real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:36 PM
2

Do you meet women any way besides dating apps? There's a huge percentage of women that don't use them and honestly the way the odds are against men on them, men should frankly be protesting dating apps. You don't have to pay to play. Lots of women are hoping for their meet cute in a grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:33 PM
3

I get that celebrities would experience that and that girls with lots of Instagram followers may seem plentiful (especially if you follow many of them) but like how common is that phenomenon actually in women overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:06 PM
4

I mean if you do a handstand in loose shirt and pants it's gonna just fall down and they'll see way more. I might as well not wear a shirt to yoga if it's not going to be form gripping. I personally prefer overly large t shirts for running and non yoga stuff. Hasn't stopped men from commenting on my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:31 AM
0

Never? Tons of hot celebrities like Tom Cruise are super short men with small frames. Men are absolutely allowed to look like that and I have found many men close to my height extremely physically attractive. Quit overvaluing the opinions of some shallow women on Tinder!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:24 AM
2

Idk how anyone does long distance that shit is super hard. Could make a normal person crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:58 PM
2

Lmao I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:57 PM
1

I'm sorry I hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:52 PM
2

Baby face is hot cmv when that dude is 50 he will look 30
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:50 PM
1

Yes they are different. They are the only circumstances you could love a being that didn't come from your jizz apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:44 PM
1

Are you saying Nihilism is mental illness? You been to college yet bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:29 PM
1

I hear that. Thankfully for my show experience I never got around to playing the game although I probably will eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:17 PM
7

I am so tired of this "ugly girl getting the hottest guy" myth ya'll believe.. A slutty guy may occasionally slip "down" / fuck a fat girl while drunk but overall there's a reason ugly girls are called ugly. They are not beautiful. Men prioritize beauty over all. No one says proudly "let me introduce my ugly wife Jane". Men may use or mess around with ugly girls, but they do not want them. You say you know what it is to be unwanted and yet you can't believe women can experience the same thing?? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:12 PM
1

Okay thanks! Enjoy your confirmation bias!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:01 PM
4

Ya'll need to watch Last of Us on HBO. Men, it's okay to love and care for a child that is not biologically yours. It's okay to have feelings and struggle. Men you are better than being obsessed with gEnEtIcS
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:59 PM
5

At least you've finally identified the real enemy in dating as a man: other men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:56 PM
1

A man who shames other men for not being able to buy a home and provide for a family of 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:55 PM
1

Good thing you have Todd he really helped you get that girl. Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:22 PM
1

Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:12 PM
2

I mean sounds kinda fun to be a runaway bride
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:12 PM
1

Aw thanks for the concern sweetheart, no need to project your bitterness, I'm very happy! My boyfriend is a tall chad and has a large penis! 😊 Good luck finding a home tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:54 PM
4

Bro you literally said young pussy is better 2 comments later. How you gonna stay together forever with someone with that priority? You know all women age right? My actual advice is drop the Disney dream. Very rare that people actually fine "the one" and stay with them their whole lives. How about appreciate what you have rather than pine after some imaginary happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:57 PM
0

Jeez salty much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:51 AM
-1

Whadya mean lots of south american people are tiny too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:32 AM
17

Yep!! Not all men are assholes, but all men can be assholes. Also second the time wasting and fatigue with online dating. It's great to get matches and all but how am I supposed to find the time to chat with and vet hundreds of people?? After enough bad matches/dates you get jaded and then the men even start to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:29 PM
0

I'm not a psycho okay, but if people say women have to stay indoors and barefoot and not allowed to drive or own property or vote I'm going to be offended. You want me to sit back and be like oh it's cool that these men see me as subhuman /a slave?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:25 PM
1

You right, I was larping a little there for laughs. I totally respect people who need massage as a sort of health care and stuff I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:22 PM
4

Prius drivers are always either driving slow af/lost/confused/unable to merge or unhinged 105mph in the right lane with a tail light out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:19 PM
7

For real I feel like I'm being so mean and then they're like writing in their diary "omg I talked to a girl today! She was fiery and we had a great back and forth"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:47 PM
1

You have no idea how depressed I was. Consider yourself lucky you've never been so mentally ill that everyone hates to be around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:42 PM
3

God forbid you have to give the love of your life a massage!! Too much work! Have my assistant hire a masseuse I need to go fuck my secretary!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:41 PM
1

True but I think there's wiggle room. I'm 32 but if I told everyone I was 26 I could easily pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:35 PM
2

What punishes misogyny more? A) directly express disgust and shame the misogynist B) ignore/block the misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:34 PM
1

Sure, except from 20 - 35 most people look pretty similar in age or at least it's hard to guess their age. People always think I'm way younger until they talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:31 PM
2

Men never lie it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:29 PM
6

I mean cmv basically means rant. There have been no deltas awarded here ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:27 PM
1

Huh? When did I say it was a dichotomy? Sucks you have to make up shit I said to attack since obviously there is nothing wrong with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:23 PM
0

Being a fat and mentally ill woman in my 20s. There were no chads. Couldn't even get ugly dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:38 PM
0

I would actually see this as a plus. I am very very into good hair on men, so I would be appreciative that my man was making an effort to remain attractive to me. Probably better to have a toupee than those hair growing pills that make men unable to get hard anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:36 PM
1

They are. Definitely just keep your head in the sand though only focus on men's problems never believe women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:17 PM
3

Manual 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:16 PM
1

Even outgoing cities have kind of died after Covid. Seattle does suck but also may not be unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:16 PM
7

Men are the same way. Can't tell you how many dates I went on where I asked him a lot of questions and actively listened to him talk about himself the whole time, then at the end he goes "I feel so connected to you!" but the dude didn't learn/ask a single thing about me and I'm laughing on the inside over how clueless this dude is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:14 PM
4

... As someone with all the bad traits you described, nah, I'm good. Keep your view. Go hang with the women who love your money more. You can just leave us uppity feminists alone please!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:12 PM
3

For real. I'm proud to be a bad woman in this man's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:10 PM
2

Ok but low key 5'9" is the favorite fake height of men under 5'6"... I've met multiple men who were actually my height like 5'4" who had lied and added inches. What's funny is if a dude is hot he's hot i don't care about height. But I do care about liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:08 PM
3

Almost like cheating is cheating. Woah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:05 PM
2

I think you're giving them too much credit, fast food chains literally don't have to do anything but exist to make hella money. Just because most people are fat in the US doesn't mean everything is about them. What about ultra skinny girls? Girls with no tits or ass? They don't want to love their bodies too? Body positivity is about more than obese people if you open your eyes a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:49 PM
5

In this sub this kind of comment needs a trigger warning! Make up haters inbound
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:08 PM
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From the article you posted a professor who studies masculinity says: Young men “are watching a lot of social media, they’re watching a lot of porn, and I think they’re getting a lot of their needs met without having to go out. And I think that’s starting to be a habit.” I'd say it's a combination of isolation fucking with men's social skills, chads cheating on multiple girlfriends, and women generally being okay dating older. Add that 25% LGBT group and I think it all adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:59 PM
2

Damn that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:49 PM
2

Big Ed goals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:16 PM
1

Nah I'm not interested in your confirmation bias single study from over a decade ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:36 PM
3

As a society we're becoming so increasingly isolated, people are feeding you a false sense of reality through dating tik toks and other shit. That tik tok where a fat guy says a thin woman is unattractive is just ridiculous. The woman is clearly playing a dumb character on purpose but how many kids watched that and surmised that women are all just bimbos who talk like retarded children and wear slutty clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:35 PM
3

Probably depression. Kills motivation too. If I was depressed and someone said "just learn the guitar it'll solve everything!" I'd tell them to fuck off and also "why don't you just become a billionaire bud? It'll solve everything!" When you're depressed, just basic hygiene seems pointless. Nothing matters. Why would they try to improve anything when there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:31 PM
0

Men, rise up. Fight the war machine itself. Refuse to be puppets for the rich fighting over land and oil. Fuck war and fuck the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:26 PM
1

Aladdin was a criminal too. Despite what Boomers told you its not so cut and dry as crime = bad person. You think all the men in jail for decades after being caught smoking weed in conservative states are evil people? I hope you're not using the US judicial system as a guide for your morals...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:35 PM
2

All your sperm and variety isn't gonna do shit if women won't have your baby. No reproduction if you can't cooperate. Try remembering we're humans and not just cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:06 AM
2

Yes, when romantic love dies and disappears it will then be as kinky as the busty nurse giving you a blowjob... Because they both are never going to happen. Rip Also fwiw this kind of ltr and wedding night porn already exists. You'll find it in the romance section of your local library. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:06 AM
1

Omg yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:01 AM
2

🔥💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:59 AM
5

Ladies, if you didn't finish you don't have to add him to your body count!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:05 PM
4

"Just ask" oh cool I was actually not looking for a boyfriend but to conduct an interview where you give one word answers!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:01 PM
1

No. I also find it weird when platonic friends text me a selfie. Like... Why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:56 PM
2

They want social proof that their idea is right because ohh look the majority agrees!! It will never work because most people driven to the red pill have unique circumstances and have not had a typical dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:55 PM
2

Also known as the cool girl. She never talks back! She's always happy to do your chores! She likes sports and hanging with the guys! She's cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:53 PM
5

Pro tip the more judgmental you are the more you are literally causing your own suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:49 PM
1

Hmmm it wasn't very clear if I didn't interpret it that way though is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:41 PM
2

10/10 OH wait did you mean the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:55 PM
4

That's so cute. I work in aquariums and I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:53 PM
-1

Honestly it's closer to 69 but hey if imagining I'm like you helps then go off
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:50 PM
-1

Yeah it's so unfortunate that I have a life I enjoy and I'm not obsessively trying to quantify and compare my dating record to others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:49 PM
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I'm messing around but what I said is true. Just glad I live in a country where women aren't murdered in the streets for my pastimes anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:47 PM
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I don't remember my n count so I put 69 on the survey 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:48 PM
1

That's just a symptom of a greater problem. If both partners look the same still then why did they lose physical attraction? Maybe there's a bigger issue causing it all? Hmm no, let's not think about nuance or the truth let's just attack a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:46 PM
3

Look, I think anyone trying to have a moment alone in a public place is already gonna have a bad time. But You really can't sympathize with wanting to be alone and then someone is trying to talk to you? Whereas I would be direct with someone like this, "I'm trying to have some time alone sorry I don't want to talk" if he just sat 3 feet away from me and lingered I would be annoyed and my alone time would be tainted. EVEN if it was a woman or an attractive person. Dating has nothing to do with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:39 PM
1

I was thinking I'd upgrade to a new kind of man. Then, Kevin asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:33 PM
3

Wrong. Inner game in a man has absolutely overcome my lack of physical attraction before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:17 AM
1

What's funny is the men who got laid, had kids, married and are now dealing with divorce say the same thing. What a waste. Appreciate what you have, stop pining over the idealized story you have in your head about how it could be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:27 PM
1

Good job not murdering anyone today!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:24 PM
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Don't forget the part where they pretend to have a question for women but just respond with the same dead end bad "argument" and are essentially looking for rage bait attention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:21 PM
1

Hey, if you're not there, it sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:18 PM
7

Yes I would instantly leave my man and date the hobo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:02 AM
1

Damn judgmental much? Way to shame my preferences ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:40 AM
2

I wish I was born in Norway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:36 PM
2

Extroverts. People who are curious about everything. People who listen and then will crack jokes. People who aren't too long winded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:34 PM
2

Dude go anywhere, anytime, people are predicting the world to end. People said it when fiction novels were first mass printed, that it would decay young minds and ruin humanity. If you look at real statistics things are generally getting better with time. Same as it ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:21 PM
3

I'd rather be stupid than with a man who sees sex as demeaning 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:27 PM
11

My dick = adds value Other dick = ruins women Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:16 PM
1

So funny he posts this then struggles to debate his point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:15 PM
1

You don't know the c word gets you an insta 1 day ban?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:13 PM
5

Huh? Sounds like if a woman shows interest you find her unattractive? Low self esteem or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:12 PM
0

Eh idk. Literally don't care about breeders
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:07 PM
1

Don't worry I got the idea from China. They killed so many baby girls that none of their men can find a woman to jizz their name onto
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:01 PM
1

I thought you were gonna link "if we ever broke up I'd never be sad". That song didn't catch me in 6 seconds it's probably gonna fail
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:59 PM
3

Ugh ew so gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:56 PM
2

If a man breaks up with his long term girlfriend who wants kids he should pay her for the reproductive time lost to her pointless endeavor with him then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:54 PM
2

Yeah, post a dumb chat on ppd not thinking much about it only to get called stupid and downvoted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:53 PM
0

Very slim. There's like hundreds of people playing if I remember right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:38 AM
0

I guess you can enter whenever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:37 AM
1

The first time I just got tired of being lectured. It was my first relationship I had always been so desperate for a boyfriend. Unfortunately I realized he only drained me and never once complimented me or anything, might as well be alone really. The second time people were literally asking me why the fuck I was with him. Much hotter men kept hitting me up. I was told by multiple people to stop dating down and that I deserved better. I still think my standards are too low if you could really see…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:04 AM
0

Q4M: if you could enter a squid games type competition where the winner gets to be in the top 10% of attractive men, would you? If you lose you die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:55 AM
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Most people don't care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:35 AM
2

Yeah exactly. I have no judgment on preference. I understand it's easier to twist it that way to win an argument. It's when men start saying that women with a high n count are used up, dirty, and lesser that I judge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:34 AM
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I'm not, I'm trying to get you to say that so I can say oh you mean like how men judge women with a high n count???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:17 AM
2

Yeah I'm pretty proud of this one actually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:37 PM
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There is more variation within groups than between groups. If men and women are truly different why the fuck do you have nipples? You can't nurse, you're not a woman, why do you have them? Some men sleep around a lot and some don't. I don't shame them for either choice. Maybe take a page out of my book and learn to be more accepting and less judgmental of other people's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:36 PM
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Literally no hot man has ever cared about my body count 👍😎 I'm laughing my ass off all the way to the Chad store for dick #34869 get triggered sad sex negative snowflakes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:33 PM
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I don't have a Twitter but cool story bro. If it's okay for men to fuck around but not okay for women to fuck around that's a double standard. Why is this so hard for ya'll to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:27 PM
4

All firefighters are chads
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:26 PM
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Sounds like you can win hearts and minds but make bad in person first impressions. You said in another comment that you're autistic and it's probably women misreading that. I think to be successful you need to find some activity irl where you have the chance to converse with women without any romantic pressures first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:24 PM
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Women care about whether you're sex positive or not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:16 PM
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Seriously so true. I live in a city where the obesity rate is very low and I'm so confused by all this talk about only 20% being attractive because I'd say (within my age range) I find like 60% of dudes are a smash for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:52 PM
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There's nothing you can do. The term incel was literally invented by a woman and I've had men insist it's impossible that I was an incel for a while. Emo used to be a specific music genre (think taking back Sunday) and then the world found the word and started using it to just mean sad or someone wearing black. I used to rage about it and fight for it. People are gonna do what they want and the English language is always changing words. If you look up literally in the dictionary it also means fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:37 PM
1

It's usually not debate it's just arguing. In an actual debate situation people are often assigned to debate for ideas they don't actually agree with and there's standards for what constitutes evidence for an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:23 PM
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Why don’t women just be honest with themselves and the men they choose and only accept offers from men that turn them on by sight alone? It only takes doing this with a few bad apples to make you realize good looks doesn't make a good person. Sure he's fun when you're drunk at the bar and he's sexy, so you get closer and spend more time with him. Then you start to see how he actually lives his day to day life. It doesn't matter how hot he is, when he starts acting like an incompetent spoiled chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:33 PM
2

Yeah when the hot man throws a temper tantrum because cooking a grilled cheese was taking too long and flings the food and pan across the kitchen and walks out... Suddenly he's not very hot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:24 PM
2

Found the ESTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:31 AM
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The only actual problem high n count causes is the screeching of judgmental men. Your post should really include a trigger warning for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:29 AM
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He programmed it in that his tweets are always front page material. All hail Supreme leader Elon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:26 AM
1

Oh? That's interesting til
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:41 AM
3

The more mad they are the more you know you owned them 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:20 AM
1

Very true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:17 AM
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That's great and you seem cool, I know it's not all men but as a woman who approaches a lot I've had some weird reactions. Including guys who would later come to chase me after rejecting me initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:16 AM
2

For real. I actually work in aquariums and people kill betta fish too 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:14 AM
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They usually don't say it, but many men deep down don't believe they deserve love and so when a woman shows interest they think she must be an idiot or desperate or have some secret flaw. If you're a pretty boy you probably have never been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:11 AM
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Sure I'd be down. If it meant men would stop harassing women I would take the workload of approaching. I mean as is I've been the initiator in majority of my relationships. However, men would also have to stop stigmatizing it or assuming there must be something wrong with her if she's so "desperate" to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:05 AM
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So by your logic then it is misogynistic that these same men would definitely spay their female dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:59 AM
1

Weird old people would still be out there leaving kibble for feral cats you could never stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:57 AM
1

No actual puppy dogs. It started in this daily chat someone was talking about how twox said they don't like when people don't neuter their dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:56 AM
2

Most insane take I've seen in this subreddit yet: all dogs should be banned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:24 AM
1

I mean if he only buys you flowers on valentines day it kinda doesn't even count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:22 AM
1

Lol nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:21 AM
2

Excuse me I will have you know I am not pessimistic about the future!... I am pessimistic about everything. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:20 AM
2

I saw a womans comment mention being 60 and single and happy recently. They're around but they make small nice comments mostly lol easy to miss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:19 AM
2

Of all the babies in the world to worry about... That one? Kinda cringe bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:12 AM
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He was condescending as hell, full on know it all with an ego to match. The first 2 years together I think how enamored I was/just happy to be in my first real relationship obscured that he actually really clashed with me (I'm also a know it all) and when my honeymoon heart eyes faded I realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:09 AM
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How come every single time I mention that women may prioritize traits other than good looks some Argument Andy writes me a 6 page essay about why women actually do like attractive men. Like ok bud don't know who you're fighting with because I agree but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:45 PM
2

Omg every time I mention appearance... I NEVER SAID LOOKS DO NOT MATTER.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:38 PM
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Sounds like he thinks he's better than other people to me! Except he's soiling himself by getting all used up fucking women eww gross
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:32 PM
5

The majority of catcalling and random adult men hitting on me happened when I was 12-16. I was so desperate for attention from boys my age and it was nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:21 PM
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Most women do prioritize other traits like personality when it comes to long term relationships. I was often told while young that looks aren't everything when it comes to a long term relationship. Men in this subreddit are the ones touting the super shallow women stereotype so maybe you should ask them, after all they know the truth and women are just liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:14 PM
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Preface: SAYING THAT LOOKS ARE NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING DOES NOT MEAN I'M SAYING THAT LOOKS DON'T MATTER AT ALL please try to understand my point before jumping to the easiest to attack conclusion All the men blabbing about looks are missing so hard. Let's be real, who honestly expects the Chad to settle down and raise kids?? No way. At best he's paying for nannies of the women he knocked up but he's not gonna be a good father, he's always gonna be waiting for the next hot chick to bang. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:03 PM
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OP is so close yet so far, he says at one point "The thinking is extremely one dimensional and lacking critical thought" like he's almost got it cmon realize there's nuance in life cmon please ya'll
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:21 PM
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It depends on who it's better for. Most men have negative empathy for the issue but rejecting someone sucks and it's hard because usually they didn't do anything that bad. I hate having to tell someone who was otherwise nice that I'm just not attracted, and I've dated guys I didn't like way longer than I should out of straight up guilt or thinking maybe I'll become attracted with time... Then there's always the chance that a guy will start insulting you after you've rejected him, which hurts. Fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:38 PM
2

Using twox is a strawman. I literally posted its fine I don't care about Leo like last week here bro lots of women agreed that consenting adults are free to be, you new here? Open your eyes reasonable normal woman exist, stop letting some psycho separatist feminists represent all women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:30 PM
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For real they're like "all western women are fucking demons" and then they're like surprised Pikachu face oh no why are women mad at me??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:27 PM
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I look at it a different way. People irl seem so much nicer and reasonable after being here. I'll bring up dating issues irl and everyone is so kind open and understanding compared to the negative shit on here. Ppd is like a bad dream, when you wake up life seems kinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:08 PM
3

Being nice is gay duh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:05 PM
1

Damn I thought guys didn't like starfish girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:51 PM
2

You missed the part where girls go gaga for emotional intelligence in men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:39 PM
2

Sneakers go squeak squeak
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:38 PM
1

Bruh chads don't let you call them boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:29 PM
2

The surveyor was a hot woman and suddenly many more men were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:29 PM
6

Neon hair colors. Heavy make up. They can't stop bitching about that shit even when NOBODY ASKED lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:24 PM
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Men: I want a low n count woman only Women: okay, that's fi- Men: it's because women who sleep around are damaged goods, they have mental health issues and are probably drug addicted. Women: wtf no Men: OMG WHYYY do women attack me for me preferences???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:23 PM
1

Having a preference for women who have a similar sexual lifestyle to you will never be shamed. Nobody cares what kind of woman you want, go for it, hope you are successful, I literally don't care what you like in women. However, you went from that to attacking any woman who enjoys sex saying she must be crazy or drug addicted. THATS the part where you're being totally rude and actually judging others for their own preferences (the thing you complained about originally). I mean it's pretty clear …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:21 PM
3

I thought we already got over the whole "ew sex icky" stuff when we moved away from religion. If you as a man are soiling a woman to fuck her, how can you fuck someone you love?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:56 AM
2

Hey man thats fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:08 PM
2

Smart people like being around other smart people. It's more fulfilling to be intellectually stimulated as well as socially. Beware those who say "I want a stupid girl" because they're often the type to step on others to raise themselves up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:36 PM
2

Jesus was a dirty commie after all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:01 PM
2

I'll say this as a woman it ain't all it's cracked up to be. It also has a limit. Women were very supportive when I had to dump a bad boyfriend or vent about a bad day. But if you get clinically depressed or have repeat emotional problems, these "friends" will start to vanish. My main emotional support I can rely on is my mom and men all have one of those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:59 PM
1

Yeah I think they don't like being called out that they're just reactionaries. Most men never thought about it until they recently heard about or read the article about that one dude who raised kids that weren't his own. I haven't read it but it must be horribly sad or scary, it has triggered a lot of men recently and now suddenly everyone is chirping about paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:55 PM
3

Men supporting men I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:51 PM
1

I keep hearing about men who have been severely mentally altered by an article about a man who raised children not his own... But that might be last weeks news idk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:50 PM
5

Easy to over idealize what you've never had
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:41 PM
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I wish I could see an extremist blue pill person that sounds wild, are there any on here? I think on this subreddit it may feel like blue vs red just being 2 extremes, but irl blue pill is the standard/what most average people believed and it's way way more prevalent. This subreddit is such a weird lil pipe dream I've literally never seen so many comfortably unhinged opinions. Can you say a side is extreme if it's the majority and mostly uncontested in mainstream places?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:34 PM
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Mostly just confirmation bias seekers. I have had a few people admit I made a good point, only "purple" pill people though. Black and red pill almost no point arguing with those people unless you enjoy screaming at a wall (which sometimes I do)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:40 PM
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If you have to verify that your partner is not cheating, how can you say that you also trust them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:31 PM
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The confirmation bias is strong in this one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:01 PM
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It's normal for both partners to get tested when going exclusive or deciding to stop using condoms. After that, if you're an exclusive couple, asking for another std test would also imply there had to be cheating. I would only go get an std test in an exclusive relationship if I was having some sort of symptoms or if I thought my man was cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:59 PM
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A lot of women do have those standards. It's pretty gauche and looks bad to talk about though, men could learn from shallow women to mask their superficial desires better. For a long term relationship though compatibility is way way more important. I was often told as a woman about how looks fade and he'll lose the abs, when everything goes will you still enjoy just talking to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:53 PM
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Nothing is wrong with being fragile, it's hot for a man to have depth like that. It is pretty funny to watch the party labeling others "snowflakes" get all bent out of shape about things that have nothing to do with them like drag shows. Those men are fragile in an ugly way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:48 PM
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If you don't want your woman to leave you when you ask for a paternity test, let her know before you get pregnant that you will do that. Otherwise you are literally accusing her of cheating. Relationships don't really work when you can't even trust each other to fulfill the basic relationship contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:44 PM
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I'm surprised the amount of 18-29 men being single is so high! Like every guy I know is fucking at least 3 girls if he's not taken! Sound familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:39 PM
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No, I don't care about that. I wasn't joking when I said I'm interested in adopting. If I did fall in that 10% I'd consider the kid lucky enough for not getting my mental illness genes. If you were in a committed relationship with a woman for years, get pregnant, then ask for a paternity test, don't you see you're literally accusing her of cheating and saying you don't believe the word of the woman you're about to have raise your children?? Guess what, most women I've seen confronted this way ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:37 PM
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Every girl you know is taken?? Sounds like you have ugly girl blinders on or all your "friends" are Instagram thots you follow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:24 PM
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Isn't it funny how random people online seem to think that they know the "rules" and only their version of the rules is correct? Isn't it funny how one dude can walk around thinking his beliefs of the day (he read on a niche community being banned half the places it shows up online) are universal rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:21 PM
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There was no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:16 PM
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Ok this is the chat thread why is everyone so sensitive? Jeez lil snowflakes can't handle good points huh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:15 PM
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I would never knock up a woman if there was any reason to doubt her fidelity. Try picking better 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:14 PM
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No that's not ok. But that's also pretty rare. I understand it's trending, the article ya'll read must have been really scary!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:30 AM
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Idk I'd rather adopt anyways what's so bad about raising a kid that's not theirs? Obsessed with yourself much? :p
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:29 AM
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I'm probably gonna forget what day it is and do nothing. My brain goes Monday - Sunday and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:24 AM
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I will say I have actually known men that were truly Nice. Good with mothers, sweet, thoughtful, and passionate about your body lumps and hairs and all... Unfortunately if you hear someone has to say "... , but I'm a nice guy" idk they could just be an asshole..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:23 AM
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Yeah if Netflix kicks me off my parents account I'm not paying for it!! Literally would miss nothing since they lost so much good shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:19 AM
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Hey man don't feel too down. Statistics is hard maybe someone fucked up those numbers, did anyone double check their math?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:15 AM
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Ok girl bye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:13 AM
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This just in men, embrace the feminine, love your companions friends and all. May you find fulfillment in life through simpler things than a perfect woman for your ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:13 AM
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I'm just upset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:10 AM
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I was vegetarian for 9 years then I changed my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:09 AM
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Yes also we should universally log all male DNA and then paternity test all children and automatically deduct child care payments from their bank accounts 👍 Edit: this would also mean we could DNA test crime scenes and lock up all male criminals 👍😎 all problems solved checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:08 AM
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Yes! Very much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:00 PM
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Fr like ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:59 PM
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I think he does as best he can for someone who never cries and tends to see depression as just self pity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:58 PM
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"Women have it better because they all have lots of friends and emotional support!!" Me, a woman: I may have a boyfriend but I have no friends or emotional support
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:53 PM
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Look I personally don't think what Leo is doing is wrong. I'd argue that even younger ages of consent are okay like 17, they're naive but still pretty much able to make decisions for themselves. Maybe not the best ones but even old people fumble that ball. However, imagine he was just your uncle. Yeah Uncle Leo is plenty nice and always sends money on Xmas but every few years he just dates another younger girl. Eventually you would hear people talking shit that it's creepy and judging him for it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:22 AM
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Idk usually let him take the lead, tho I'm not into grinding or go places that people do... I'm a fucking nerd but I still think it's fun to dance to good music.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:44 PM
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Uhh I am a girl so we don't grind each other??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:46 PM
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Damn that's pretty fucked up that women would say that! Weird because I've never seen any woman say that. Where have you seen it? Care to share anything besides your weird mental role play with the class?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:13 PM
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Idk how to grind lol but I'd guess just let the girl do the work...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:48 PM
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Yeah nice just focus on that one sentence I mentioned movies definitely ignore the rest of my comment and the comment thread and the whole post linked where people mention that they see this irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:46 PM
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Nobody said it was a norm jeez. It's just more common than ugly girl with beautiful guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:45 PM
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Be careful the last ppd poster who said value was subjective got banned!! All humans can be rated 1 - 10 duh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:41 PM
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Literally had so many guys act like I turned into a butterfly and act all surprised I've got a rockin bod when I actually wear a dress compared to my normal boy clothes. Even women who are above average can become invisible to these men if they're not wearing booby shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:39 PM
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I think this is mostly thanks to social media pushing algorithms for engagement. If something is good I will like it or upvote. If something is bad and pisses me off I will write 25 comments and click on 6 more posts by the person who pissed me off. Furthermore it's easier to control the masses if they're too busy blaming each other to see you taking all the profit. Red vs blue used to be enough but with younger generations seems like they're trying to make it man vs woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:33 PM
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Yeah I'm a fucking horrible dancer too.. I used to think I hated dancing but really what I hated was how self conscious I was. When I listen to music home alone I love to dance it's fun! Also, when someone likes you they just think it's cute that you're dorky at worst, most likely they don't even notice. If you are enjoying the music no one is going to care if you're bad. If you're clearly trying super hard to dance "good" or do certain moves when you suck, sure that can be cringe. If you just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:28 PM
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At this point boring and predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:48 PM
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Then why are you talking about her so much and bragging about it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:40 PM
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My favorite comment is "Everyone has seen some beautiful girl in relationship with some not so good looking guy. You can be him." Checkmate ppd. If the roles were reversed I think the comments would basically be the same except that one. Ugly guy with hot girl is everywhere and in every sitcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:39 PM
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Lmao you don't give a shit about babies. There's literally children right now being abused in a foster home because some girl who got raped put them up for adoption but nobody wanted her rape baby. So sad you let the government make you into their little propaganda pawn, grow a pair already
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:00 PM
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He's really just a party pooper who wouldn't dance with a hot babe at a party lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:58 PM
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Go meet girls in a book club if you're such a stick in the mud you're not gonna shine at parties man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:57 PM
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Sounds like she was just upset you didn't go dance with her bro. Have a few drinks and loosen up I used to be very "ahem no I do not dance" but then I realized it's dumb and fun and who cares what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:53 PM
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No one should have that power dude it's a medical procedure that saves lives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:50 AM
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If you're not financially supporting her you're basically safe. Women can get sperm donors if they want kids and women don't have to settle, as cited here frequently many women are just as content to be single if they can't meet someone who is a plus in their life. I've only ever heard men refer to sex as a biological need. Most women would call it a want or craving at most, not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:31 AM
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Okay that person is blatantly wrong, but low key if they're a repeat casual sex partner you can just fucking trick them into loving you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:51 PM
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Literally millions of series of biological accidents over the eons. 👍 Don't overthink it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:48 PM
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The most I've ever wanted is the boy kids meal at McDonald's man. You can keep the power it only turns ya evil
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:47 PM
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Well, for example, if a woman didn't need you to provide income/get a better citizenship, then you'd know since there's no need she probably is around because she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:38 PM
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There's a clear divide between fair advice and taking what happened to you and saying THAT'S JUST ALWAYS HOW IT IS FOR EVERYONE! Yes divorce court sucks but some marriages last and some divorces even are favorable to the man. I'd consider it brainwashing when they gaslight anyone who tries to say they've had a different experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:35 PM
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Men out here: western women are trash! Western women: woah fuck you buddy Men out here: OMG WHY do u always make this about u geeezzz I only talked about how much I hate western women for half the post!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:31 PM
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Yes, studies have shown that given a trait like gender there is always more variation within the group than between groups overall. Very controversial take here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:27 PM
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It's even worse than you think. Less and less women are forced to settle or even feel pressured to settle. More and more women no longer fit the superficial money driven trope you think is "women." The men who settled for a woman that only liked him for his money have since lost it in divorce court and are now brainwashing young men to hate women and swear them off entirely. As romantic relationships slowly die, men online screech about dating overseas like it's a threat when we all wish you wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:12 PM
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It's also fucking sad how women talk about a lack of dating responses and men don't believe them too. The term incel was actually created by a woman and many women are incels today too. Somehow male incels are real and female incels get called liars or told to fuck a bum from the street. Why don't male incels just pay an old lady crackhead for sex?? Checkmate it's not involuntary then is it???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:25 PM
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Lmao forbidden word!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:08 PM
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Omg... My first comment was a joke damn are you 9 or just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:24 PM
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Why isn't this just good relationship advice in general? Maybe because you'd like women to think less if their man deserves it because what man deserves it? You can't think of one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:18 PM
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Very true. Also LOVE that you posted the take "value is subjective" I was screaming yes finally!!! Except the post was locked and you got banned?? Lmao can we just call this subreddit r/redpillsimpin already
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:16 PM
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When the red pill brain is so warped you can't even tell what they mean anymore.. I'm so confused is he mad now that women are celebrating no make up? I thought that's what they wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:15 PM
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Damn you for real read one story about a woman lmao wow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:14 PM
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Women please don't take this advice lol thx bye
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:13 PM
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The saddest part of most blackpill men is that a lot of them pass the appearance test. Then you try to talk to them and they can't stop saying cringe shit about how they are ugly or have a small penis or hate themselves. It's fucking sad, and the worst part is it's a few extremely ugly/online men breaking the brains of the majority average dudes who would have probably met a girl by now if they weren't convinced it was impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:12 PM
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If you call people with trauma broken you are the broken human and there is no fix, sorry. So funny how the men on here project like "actually it's the women who are fucked in the head beyond repair haha anyways definitely not me haha I'm perfect just having a though time meeting people due to covid haha definitely not because of anything like me being a broken husk of a man who mostly writes angry comments on the only red pill platform not banned haha"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:01 PM
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If you feel tricked, watch a few makeup tutorial videos. Once you understand it you can instantly notice it on people. It's very obvious especially when you're familiar with the process and effects before and after.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:53 AM
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My boyfriend actually hates makeup on women because he doesn't like the look. He is very vocal about it when a woman has too much lipstick or eye make up. When the make up comes off he will always find the woman prettier. That's his preference. Men, if you feel let down when she takes the make up off, doesn't that mean you actually liked how she looked better with it on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:51 AM
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Yeah it literally is the biggest cock block to have low self esteem. If you don't think you have value how are you gonna believe/take seriously a woman saying she likes you? It's just like if you look lost people will ask you why you're there but if you're carrying a clipboard and walking with purpose nobody questions you. Inner game ya'll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:45 AM
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Look, I know for a fact that a robot could be trained to be the perfect girlfriend easily. I don't think we're far from ai beings that are very realistic and even better because they don't have personal problems or bad moods. Would it really be enough though just wondering? I've seen other men here say that part of what's great about snagging a live woman is that a real woman actually likes you, in other words the human validation...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:31 AM
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You right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:13 PM
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Some men with a baby face actually do look more attractive when they're a bit older, I'd say 35 is probably peak. I do agree that majority look hottest in their 20s but for the guys who still look 16 when they're 24, aging actually does benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:43 PM
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Of course. I was also fighting in the "why don't women move away from men" thread how much I love men and I hate what a lot of them think feminism is.. Like only psychos are saying we should oppress men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:01 PM
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A woman that says most women are hypergamous would be put on a pedestal and worshipped even though she would definitely be lying/ignorant. Ya'll are not calling out liars you're calling out people who don't agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:29 PM
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Nice communication attempt try English next time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:00 PM
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Bro have you been here before? The amount of ridiculous generalizations is absolutely insane. No, you want women to say the truth you've already decided for them. Here's some truth: all women can have different preferences and different opinions. Now just wait for a man to call me a liar (although now he won't because he would be proving me right here)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:57 PM
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I'm so tired of men demonizing women on here, saying how "omg all women are complaining about this" when it's some freak opinion only a few weirdos would have. They paint women bad and then whine about how they don't like their ugly picture :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:22 PM
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Ooh you're so close. Yes dating "down" is a dumb idea because all people have different ideas of what "up" is and all people bring different perks to the table. The problem with the West is media feeds off of engagement and turns everything it can into man vs woman, blue vs red, rich vs poor, because it pisses people off and they click and comment and fight each other while the few in power laugh and count their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:30 PM
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Hey I'm very aware that my sex puppet maid men only clean my house and do all my chores only because that means they've earned sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:07 AM
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Look, Western countries suck especially for certain types of people. The US is priveleged but also still deeply flawed. There will be pros and cons to moving to another country and it would be hard.. There will be things about women there you may be surprised by, good or bad.. Idk man. A lot of women will date down to get to a "good" country like the US... it's literally made into reality TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:00 AM
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Young women have been going to college to find a husband for decades lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:51 AM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:49 AM
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Omg men. I'm pretty sure only dumb celebrity women bought nfts or crypto correct me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:46 AM
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I'm sorry but there seems to be very few women left on the app?... Many use Hinge bc they're not looking for hookups and men on here are constantly saying how they never get matches except for sex bots. There are tons of real women in the world who want to meet a man but just don't enjoy the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:33 AM
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Hey man depending on the guy it could work. Best tip I can give is don't make it a date right away, if a girl is into you she'll be even more into you if she's unsure if you really like her. Just ask them to hang out and if they bring friends be chill, meet people and eventually you can find someone you actually like too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:27 AM
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It's actually insane how often the mean things people say about others are the mean things they want to say to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:37 AM
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Are we really letting Tinder define ugly now? It's literally just an app made by a company who only wants to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:38 AM
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Yep! Different people have different preferences. Idk why that's such a controversial take on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:05 AM
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Bro that is literally extremely obvious. Aside from warning others of actually violent/dangerous criminals/scam artists your whole "rate this guy" website idea is pretty horrible and will only attract horrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:00 AM
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Decent guys hurt women's feelings unintentionally all the time. Dating is not an objective act, you could act the same and have one woman love it while another fucking hates it and writes a nasty review.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:13 PM
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Yeah I actually have to take breaks from cpmmenting in here because of the overwhelming negativity :/ for all the relationship talk there isn't a lot of love going around...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:05 PM
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Because I am not the only woman. I constantly read what they write and listen to what they say!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:29 AM
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Believe it or not, I love men. I say let them go and build their town, hope it's nice, but I am happy to work with and live with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:27 AM
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Ty for the breath of fresh air! I literally love so many men. Why would I want to cut out like half the people in my life??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:24 AM
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Who the fuck is vacuuming the curtains every day? That's literally pointless and would waste so much time. Sounds like just an easy scapegoat to prove your point. As a messy bitch I choose to live with men who don't care that I'm messy. A lot of these men actually refuse to do ANY chores ever and will blatantly say "I don't clean". They'd rather pay a cleaning lady to do it all. I'm saying I'm a total slob and I don't fucking care if they don't clean. It's still true most men expect women to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:08 PM
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Bro you seem confused good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:02 PM
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That's not necessarily true. Just that most men expect women to do the majority of chores
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:56 PM
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It's so annoying that every time I mention pathetic babies people think I'm personally attacking them or all men....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:54 PM
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As horrible as FDS is and I agree that humans of all kinds can be horrible, I am personally much more haunted by things like that AskReddit thread where men confessed to casually raping dozens of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:03 PM
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If you want the women to leave just tell her these thoughts she'll be no more than a fart in the wind and you can go cum on some photos instead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:50 PM
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"I agree" "well fuck you you're wrong"....?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:48 PM
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Nowadays as a woman on the internet, I have learned more disgusting and horrible opinions and ideas that men have than I ever wished. I imagine before the internet I would have had more optimism about men. Now when I meet men irl I wonder what depraved shit he's into online where no one knows his name. High value men never existed we just didn't know how fucked up they were on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:46 PM
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Amazing how fast all men lose their value when I have to listen to the gross inner thoughts of a few sad fucks online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:43 PM
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How can you expect women to want more children when their boyfriend has already become a child in need of constant care?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:39 PM
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Yes when men succeed they must always push women down and walk on them. What the fuck is that what you actually think? All men just want to oppress and control women? WHY would you possibly think women would ever like men if that were true?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:37 PM
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If they can't imply some sort of arbitrary category to maleness like alpha or beta trp don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:07 AM
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Yeah they just wanted a name for how much they think about the other men in women's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:06 AM
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It's wordmaxxing bro don't be beta
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:58 AM
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The best shit test is life, no manipulation required. How does he react when he gets a flat tire? If I have something urgent come up and have to cancel a date how does he react? These moments of stress can tell you a lot about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:03 PM
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What if you can't remember how many 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:48 PM
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I mean if the boy always cries wolf... You right except women will probably know. I have just learned to assume all men who don't have pictures of them towering over others are short. I don't really care if he's short I've met many very attractive little guys (think Michael Reeves) but when he obviously lied about it by saying he's 5'8" when he's 5'5"... Idk I just think the deception/lying is kind of ugly behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:46 PM
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As a woman who's been in that craze: do both of ya'll a favor and cut her off. Tell her you never want to be friends or get back together very directly. Then block her and go no contact. Nothing else will stop it... Unless you like having a girl crazy clingy begging to talk it out over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:39 PM
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Oh sorry I forgot to act in line with the monolith. I guess not all women are like that huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:36 PM
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"The women are destroying the west!" he screamed from his comfortable bedroom with full amenities, lots of food, and ample entertainment to chose from. Meanwhile in the "east" and other countries people starve and die of preventable diseases. But yeah it's the west who is really struggling :( poor you and first world problems
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:23 PM
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To conquer the people they must be divided. It is much easier for those in power if men and women blame/fight each other while the fat cats sit on billions and men and women blame each other for the problems actually caused by how fucked unregulated capitalism has left society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:09 PM
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If women are stupid children and they're responsible enough to take care of men's every need then where does that leave men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:43 PM
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I thought women didn't like nice guys? Why would they want someone genuine and honest? Heavy make up types of women are usually into dudes who get into fights and shit if we're just wildly generalizing here. They don't fucking care if he's honest they care if he's a tough strong man or whatever bs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:03 AM
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Where does it say that everyone is guaranteed a relationship? If every animal reproduced successfully natural selection wouldn't exist and we'd still be amoeba. I wish I could slap myself in my 20s how badly I wanted a boyfriend when really I needed to better myself and have more fun with friends and shit. Plus having a boyfriend was never anything like love stories I read and obsessed about as a kid. I don't think humans are even truly monogamous. I can't think of one long term marriage where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:56 AM
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I doubt someone attractive enough to sell pictures of their body for money will struggle to find a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:52 AM
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Gonna add I've only ever dated men who approached me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:19 PM
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You are the reason for your own suffering! Your illogical and incorrect beliefs are causing your own pain. Congrats your problems are fixable but I'm sorry your attitude seems beyond changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:18 PM
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Remember: never try just take the blackpill and wait for death! Great advice /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:17 PM
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Seriously theyre like well I missed the first attempt better give up forever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:16 PM
1

How about stop letting random women remove you of your agency. Just because some 21 year old at the club said ew to you once, you're going to let her speak for all women??? Just because a Stacy whined men are gonna lock themselves inside and never try again? Cmon you can't let any random persons shit opinion change your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:13 PM
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I think purging misogynistic and hateful spaces online is a great thing. Who is purging male spaces? Are you saying a few incel subreddits are all that makes up male space?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:24 AM
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Very true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:37 PM
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Q4M: if you wish you were tall, then don't you wish your dad was tall? Then don't you understand why women would chose tall mates? Blame your mom for your shortness because she needed to pIcK bEtTeR
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:02 PM
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Good luck with that idea. This subreddit believes only men can be different. Men are not all murderers but women are a monolith of whores with perfect easy lives. There's literally no point trying to argue that humans are individuals with different perspectives on this subreddit unless you want downvotes (also against subreddit rules so thanks again ppd boys).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:54 PM
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And of course, men are not responsible for being horrible men. They are victims because the women picked them. This is how you sound bud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:46 PM
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Don't paint all women with the same brush your dumb friend uses sheesh. It's not all women's fault you have shit taste in friends apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:12 AM
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No no no if you're not just opening your legs in the street and let whatever man fuck you you're voluntarily celibate even if you really want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:10 AM
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Meanwhile she's fucking a sneaker male
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:44 PM
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Bro if you can't understand it there's literally no point talking to you it's like shouting at an annoying wall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:24 PM
1

If you're asking in the context of being attractive they're probably equal, but I think rock climbing is more social so ultimately better. The rock climbing gyms in urban areas can be poppin with young people as well as rock climbing areas outdoors too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:44 AM
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It makes sense the vocal minority of women alone would be most prominent online and on Reddit..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:18 AM
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Rock climbing is attractive and good exercise and a great way to meet babes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:14 AM
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I think there are two things going on. One being how society in general now isolates people and the other being mental illness often distorts how an individual perceives reality. At my worst depression I was certain I would be forever alone because I was hideously ugly. Turns out I was wrong and mostly just overweight and depressed (it made me very bitter and antisocial).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:06 AM
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Eh it's really not a big deal. Hell it's probably my fault for being a bad communicator or something. I'm not super good at sex myself lol so what the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:27 AM
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Ahh ok I thought you were saying the apps were 1:1 my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:20 AM
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You new here?? Lol I'm too lazy to Google it for you but there's tons of evidence out recently that dating apps are huge huge huge majority men. Saying shit like "oh no the ratios are even" is misleading and may make young men think it's easier than it is. So congrats you're contributing to male suicide rates!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:39 PM
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Why would I think that's the norm when it's literally never happened for me? Weird conclusion you drew there. My assessment of men's sex skills is it's in the fucking dirt and I've been with "chads" and fat desperate dudes alike. On top of that most men simply take personal offense when I try to teach them how to make me cum. Porn has ruined a lot of male brains but no let's talk about how female sex toys are the villain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:36 PM
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Sure I'd teach anyone who asked but a lot of times the men just get flustered when I correct them, or insist that I'm actually going to like what they plan to do much better. One dude I tried to advise how to touch me and he got mad and indignant and said in a frustrated tone "you don't like what I do??" So usually I don't bother anymore and just hand them my mini vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:32 PM
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They're also invisible to op still lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:23 PM
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Bruh did you even read the comment?? Any woman can get a man to use her for the hole in her legs. That is not love or a relationship or even necessarily a nice thing for the woman. So she's still not "getting" a man, she's just getting his penis for a few minutes. Get it??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:20 PM
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Men irl = understand anyone can have trouble dating even women The woman who invented the term incel =....... Men online = Femcels aren't real, women never tell the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:16 PM
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Did you know the term incel was created by a "female" woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:14 PM
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I use one finger to come in a couple minutes and men still can't figure that out. Doesn't sound like the woman's problem. When I bring my vibrator to bed both parties win, he gets to actually see/feel me orgasm multiple times when that literally has never happened with a man. Maybe I just haven't slept with skilled partners but I've tried many.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:08 PM
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Wait wait wait you're telling me people in relationships enjoy each other's company?? throws phone and breaks skateboard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:03 PM
3

Don't worry Big Feminism has total control of the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:01 PM
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But what about Big Feminism? Why wouldn't they just use their power of Sex to overtake the government and kill all incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:59 PM
2

Wow you guys this Reddit user also uses Twitter (by looking at r/blackpeopletwitter)! Wow he's so knowledgeable and wise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:59 PM
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Teehee don't worry officer I was just talking shit when I murdered her because she said no to my perfect date offer!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:57 PM
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Yeah fuck them and fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:56 PM
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If people on here were talking about black people the same way they talked about women it would be an actual hate crime. Wish they would actually go their own way into the woods and never come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:35 PM
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How is an app with 9 men per 1 woman a foot in the door? Seems more like a line to maybe get to the door. I know meeting people in this society really sucks but even though I've had tons of flings from tinder my long term relationships have only ever been people I met irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:19 PM
2

Laugh or obviously stonewall them. I prefer laughing while pointing at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:44 AM
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Yes, this is what made Aladdin hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:42 AM
1

A broken clock is right twice a day. Wouldn't use that clock to tell time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:41 AM
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Lol ok then all men are the same too. You're a rapist and a murderer congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:37 AM
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There is no shortage of men who would be the partner to stay at home. Having a man housewife who will clean the house for you?? Hahahaha you're right it will never happen. At least when women live alone they're not shooting up elementary schools over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:01 PM
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I thought sex was always easy for women? That's not a big win that's the bare minimum. Guaranteed like 85% of my male coworkers would fuck me if I asked. Not an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:57 PM
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Don't forget trauma or past abuse! Many people unknowingly replicate the relationships with family they had while young if they're not getting therapy or working on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:56 PM
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I was before I was a pothead and it was torture. That's why I had to smoke a shit ton of weed, to tolerate the extremely slow normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:51 PM
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Omg... Progress! Almost like women are just an assortment of unique individuals all with their own problems, perceptions, habits, trauma, illness, flaws and preferences!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:50 PM
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I'm 5 4 so yes. When it comes to old that's where the hottest chads lie - 5 6 to 5 10. Once they hit 6 foot on tinder they start to think everything they touch turns to gold and their huge ego takes them right back to ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:42 PM
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Cunts may view
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:38 PM
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It's because even in their desire to raise another human life it is ultimately a selfish pursuit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:19 PM
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What women are holding out for Mr perfect? I've seen way more women say they're just not dating because the effort is not worth it. I've seen way more women say they're just happy alone and enjoying their life as is not waiting for a man to make them happy. There is no Mr perfect no sane adult woman would fucking say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:17 PM
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I bet if I said "I dumped him because I met a taller man" you would have had NO DOUBT I was being completely honest even though I would be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:05 PM
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1) I'm not your ex 2) sounds like because of one woman you now can't believe what any other woman says?? If somehow women can't ever know or speak the truth why speak to them at all??? Honestly no offense but I find this sentiment on here really common and incredibly disrespectful. I am a human taking time to respond to you, I am being honest. If you don't believe me go circlejerk with some blackpill boys don't waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:17 PM
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Because you all got suckered into Western beauty ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:57 AM
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Does anyone understand the last paragraph/sentence? Where are the low N women seething? Wouldn't they be happy that men are calling promiscuous women whores unworthy of their oh so valuable dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:53 AM
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Yeah I honestly feel like despite technology being cool and all there's something very isolating about modern society.. It sucks but women can feel it too. I've struggled to date in the past and still struggle to this day to find good friends and people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:37 AM
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Just certain flaws he had really clashed with me after living with him for a while. It was hard because he was great in so many ways, but ultimately his know it all condescending matter really began to grate at me (I am also kind of an ass/know it all juat saying) and it just was no longer working. The event that drove me was he flaked on a family trip that was really important to me and just said he "forgot to take a day off work"... He wasn't a doctor or anything he could have just called out.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:23 AM
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Dude there's been a few incel school shooters I see where I'm like.... How is he an incel who killed himself out of loneliness if he's low key kinda sexy?? If that dude approached me at a party and had a bare minimum of social skills I would have fucked his brains out. However, if that dude believes he's ugly there's no helping him and if I hit on him he'd think it was a prank or turn it around and assume something must be wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:49 PM
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Just like how I find it hard to believe that these men are actually "walled off" from women like they complain. I believe that is just a symptom of their untreated mental illness; they are not seeing reality clearly which also makes them extremely difficult to convince otherwise or even have a discussion with about dating (see: most blackpill men). At my worst mental health I literally had the same thoughts - that I was forever ugly and forever doomed to be alone. I deeply believed it. Turns out…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:46 PM
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I will discuss what I want in general (fling vs long term etc) but I will not discuss what traits I like in a man. I want to date someone I genuinely like as he is. If someone has to change themselves to appeal to me (or thinks that they do) then it's not going to be a good match. Going to a ballet once a year because I like ballet is NOT what I mean that's totally fine and nice. I want to date an independent human who feels comfortable enough to disagree with me, not a simp constantly going "wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:30 PM
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I have met tons of young men who were plenty handsome to me, then they open their mouth about how everyone hates them and thinks they're ugly. For the record this is VERY UNATTRACTIVE. if I'm gonna constantly have to cheerleader you out of your mental health issues my pussy dries up. Sorry. This advice for confidence is for those men. Men have imposed ridiculously high standards of appearance in this subreddit as truth for themselves, which is unfortunate because many women compromise on appeara…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:19 PM
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If you're in sf I can introduce you to my ex I dated for 2 years who was overweight and frequently mistaken for a homeless man trying to butt in when brought to my friends gatherings. I spent 2 years of people shaming me for not "doing better" and asking what the fuck I saw in him. Maybe if society wants girls to date down more they should all stop going "omg how did he get you??? What do you see in him???" over casual conversation. I loved him a lot and found him very attractive and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:50 PM
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I just wish we could call it r/purplepillscreeching since there's not much legitimate debating happening except by a few level headed individuals. In a debate class I once took people frequently had to make arguments they didn't agree with. Most of the time it seems like "debating" as done here only entrenches people further in their beliefs and most here are not actually questioning or opening their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:55 PM
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"just ask" oh cool I was looking for an interview subject! Another personal fave is "no drama"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:52 AM
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Almost like since women don't need a man to survive they have to actually like a man as a person to want him around. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:16 PM
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How are men oppressed into homelessness exactly? Wtf stats showing general trends don't prove anything, meanwhile you just attack anyone who uses your own method (just your words no proof) going "see they have no proof!" while you also have no proof. Pretty useless post. I'm still really struggling to see how men are actually oppressed? These issues like having preferences shamed just don't feel unique to men at all. Does anyone actually have proof for male oppression or just weird statistics th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:37 PM
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Pandas are from China but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:48 AM
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Is the blue pill a straw man? Since it's seen as the negative choice in the Matrix where you choose to believe actual lies, why would anyone arguing against the red pill call themselves blue pill? Isnt that just admitting that being against trp is the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:43 AM
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That's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:39 PM
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It's kinda arrogant how many men openly say on here they know women/dating very well, and yet they post shit like this which is clearly just a thinly veiled rant on how much you personally despise women despite desperately craving the hole between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:03 PM
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Just weird there's all these average men walking around with women, I didn't know so much prostitution was happening in grocery stores and at Disneyland the prostitutes even bring their kids and take "family" photos with their Johns haha anyways so weird they all must be paid because the entire female population is too busy fucking the top 5% and nothing else!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:56 PM
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Oh are you "Men"?? Wow they are a monolith afterall
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:32 PM
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That if you didn't want to stick your dick in her you literally would have no reason to talk to her. Men are so obvious when that's all they want. Very few women are interested in solely dick, for me it was a very brief phase. If a man doesn't like who I am as a human or have some sort of appeal besides having a hard penis, that's not a match in my eyes, even for casual sex the chemistry will be shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:14 PM
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Maybe you should have mentioned that's specifically what you were talking about rather than acting like you're dumb! If you're trying to show a woman you like her but she feels the need to ask you not to use her like an object you might need to work on not being so obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:05 PM
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Til that even though I'm not, apparently me, my mom, the obese woman next door, and your grandma all get to fuck the top 5% of hottest men! Damn it's so nice to fuck chads all the time. Wow. I'm so glad I learned that all women are fucking the top 5% of men. Thanks ppd! I'll never settle again!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:47 PM
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When I say treat women like people I mean let them have autonomy, own property, vote, have a job, human rights... What are you crying about jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:44 PM
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Idk how you've lived so long without meeting a woman with low self esteem. I used to be so desperate for validation from men bro you're missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:41 PM
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No no no it's because a few chads are stealing all the women!! Women are just like men because I'm a man and that's my only experience so it must also be everyone else's,!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:36 PM
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All the women having casual sex you mean. Which is a small percent. But go ahead and keep telling yourself a few chads are fucking the entire population lmao sounds hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:33 PM
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Dude that's just sad :/ how is a girl supposed to enjoy your presence in her life if you can barely finish to her once because she's not a rotating orgy of porn stars???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:30 PM
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Most men don't understand that the women sleeping around casually is a very small percent of women sleeping with many other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:27 PM
0

Yeah I agree you should chill out a little, no need to be so smug.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:58 PM
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Metabolism slowing down with age is more or less a myth. It's a very small amount, like 5% that happens only due to age. Most middle aged weight gain is due to loss of muscle mass and the American diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:09 PM
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Nice straw woman she could actually be made of straws 10/10 for shit head predictably accurate worthless response
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:10 AM
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Seriously according to the men on here I'm literally lying when I say I've been attracted to obese and short men before. They just call me fat and a liar. A) I'm not fat and B) I thought fat girls were too busy fucking ripped 6'0" handsome men?? Ppd men pick an argument plz
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 PM
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Then you agree with me that average and unattractive men can get laid since women do enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:20 PM
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Ok BRB applying for ceo of Twitter ima let you know how it goes also can I borrow 44 billion thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:03 PM
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If sex is a need, men need to find an outlet besides women. Ultimately I think that's what the power difference is - men on here constantly say sex with a human woman is a need. I don't find it to be the same for women. It creates all the power in dating that women have, simply because women more often than men will not settle and will wait for someone who is actually attractive and interesting. I think the real truth is there's generalizations and then there's reality where lots of unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:17 PM
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What are we gonna do about Big Feminism controlling society??? You know how 95% of top earning ceos are men right? Yep that's actually because Big Feminism is ruling the world!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:55 PM
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Ah yes big feminism is ruling society!! LMAO CLOWN ON DUM DUM
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:53 PM
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You know me makes me unhappy? (What's that?) When brothas make babies And leave a young mother to be a pappy (oh, yeah, yeah, yeah) And since we all came from a woman Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman (yeah, yeah) I wonder why we take from our women Why we rape our women, do we hate our women? (Why? Why?) I think it's time to kill for our women (why? Why? Why? Why?) Time to heal our women, be real to our women And if we don't we'll have a race of babies That will hate the ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:50 AM
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You know me makes me unhappy? (What's that?) When brothas make babies And leave a young mother to be a pappy (oh, yeah, yeah, yeah) And since we all came from a woman Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman (yeah, yeah) I wonder why we take from our women Why we rape our women, do we hate our women? (Why? Why?) I think it's time to kill for our women (why? Why? Why? Why?) Time to heal our women, be real to our women And if we don't we'll have a race of babies That will hate the ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:48 AM
4

Woah, almost like there's more to attraction than these generic standards about height and looks. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:26 AM
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Right?? Men low key admitting they are using women when they call them used up for dating men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:15 AM
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Fr I have NEVER been refused for first date sex lmao where are these men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:13 AM
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Weak men don't know what a real strong man looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:15 PM
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So are all the men who say sex with a woman is a NEED also made of straw? Because they have Reddit accounts and won't shut up about how much they need a woman not even to be happy but as a base need to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:59 PM
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It's in this chat thread someone crying about Kanye being censored. God forbid the megalomaniac doesn't have someone to listen to his retard ravings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:04 PM
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YouTube is not where free speech happens you fucking retard it's a business
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:02 PM
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Yeah, it is really sad how stupid humanity is has gotten they can't understand what free speech means. Good thing you're fighting for the little guy, Kanye. oh wait he IS ONE OF THE BILLIONAIRES aiming to enslave us you fucking clown retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:01 PM
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Love this subreddit, where people feel like expressing their Nazi desires for mass genocide of a race is "free speech." sure, you can freely speak your retarded ideas about what's right behind bars you fucking psychopaths. Fuck this subreddit someone ban me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:50 PM
1

Found the Nazi!! What do I win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:48 PM
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I'm sorry but the whole video is already online. What censorship? I've watched the whole thing already and I didn't even have to go to wherever Alex Jones posts them. You think you can just make something go away on the internet??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah, I find that creepy that a man could marry a woman, say he loves her, then just turn cold and abandon her because she's sick and needs more help than ever. It gives me the creeps to imagine I can never know for sure if a man means it when he says I love you and I'll stay with you. Idk how you can't understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:00 PM
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But more men do it. It's a significant finding I've seen in multiple journals. Why are you trying to sweep truth under the rug? You only ally yourself with those creeps by defending them. Why even waste time talking to an idiot woman like me who knows nothing? Just abandon me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:51 PM
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Based on your broken English I'm going to assume you're just not in a western country, but here in western countries women can work and make their own money. My mother would have lost money in a divorce due to being the breadwinner. Women aren't just jobless housewives in modern countries fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:42 PM
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Cool feelings, but this is a debate forum. More men abandon their gf/wife when she gets sick than vice versa. How is that accountability???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:18 PM
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Lol ya'll would simp so hard if you knew me irl but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:49 PM
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Awww did I trigger you? Haha that makes me happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:25 PM
1

Any bitch can buy any of those. Raise your standards bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:24 PM
1

I don't give a shit about my last name, as a woman if it were important to my husband I'd lose it. It's really not a big deal. Who cares? Oh wait, you do. Kind of unattractive sorry. Men who are uncompromising on such a trivial concept aren't worth marrying either. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:21 PM
1

Oh yeah that's right women don't ever kill themselves or suffer mental illness! Ha ha we are so lucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:16 PM
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They exist. The obsession with "success" and having 6 PhDs and 3 mansions and being a ceo with 67 hobbies who also constantly travels and has 237892 friends is so gross to me. I just wanna chill at home. I am very happy with my unambitious man. Don't let anyone tell you you have to be some fucking success obsessed work horse. There is so much more to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:03 PM
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If you're not gonna believe it when women say "this happened to me multiple times" why the fuck would I believe there's any point trying to change your view. Pointless thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:58 PM
3

Yes, cold approaching and directly asking is bad game. It's like hey random person, ready to decide on our dating future by your first impression based only on my looks and this one sentence I said to you in which I ask you out? It's human nature to be weirded out by a stranger whose first question to you is essentially "can we be together" like woah woah slow down don't you want to get to know me first? Haven't you seen that video where a stunning hot woman asks random men on the street to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:54 PM
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Spoiler his sample size is probably under half a dozen. I'm so tired of people trying to draw conclusions about dating as a whole from a small handful of experiences they had in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:28 PM
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Because he's a man you've decided he's worth nothing. Wtf flip the genders idiot see how evil you sound. No shit I don't need a man, but I want one. Unlike you, I like people for more than just their genitalia. Men are humans they have value. Fuck off you piece of shit bigot burn in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:16 PM
1

Holy sexism Batman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:31 PM
1

You've got a pretty bad logical fallacy going there. If 95 percent of plane crashes are due to planes, why would anyone use planes? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:47 PM
2

There's mean idiots who insult each other of all genders. This subreddit has a problem with it. I don't like that op even mentioned she was a woman because it instantly makes most of this subreddit discredit everything she says, you as case in point. If this was a post by a man about women throwing insults, you'd probably be clapping and saying how it really is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:05 PM
2

Sure, but the reality is women who say they don't like tall men are just called liars. I'm all for people liking what they like. Just don't try to tell me what I like, it's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:00 PM
1

Sorry but if your preference is to insult/deny rather than debate points with logical/persuasive arguments, it's cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:12 PM
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Ultimately it's just really sad. I've also been called an "extreme outlier" for saying things like I love men and I value men. Like holy shit my dudes, who hurt you so much that your self esteem is so low you don't even think you deserve love???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:05 PM
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Omg you're literally proving her point, taking a general comment and turning it into a personal attack. Even if she did say something like that about men, why do you care? Because you're taking it personally. She didn't say YOU are a lil boy, did she? But you're taking it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:02 PM
1

??? Negative visualization is very helpful for gratitude and being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:19 PM
2

Gotta love how men can be the victim while also being the perpetrators and yet you still just hate women. Men will beat your ass in the street for a few dollars and you'll be screeching through your bloodied teeth about how women have it easier. Don't you realize we also get attention from the same evil men if not more so? Idk what criminal circle you run in that is sparing women, here's some pats on the back for how cool and kind wow, but it sounds like a bunch of bullshit. Why did my mom and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:16 PM
1

Basically everyone quit except people who would lose their US visa without the job...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:17 AM
3

Seriously that man is oppressing himself with that wall of text no one's gonna read that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:14 AM
1

Don't worry bro some girl is gonna love watching you nut one day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:11 AM
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Yep it works both ways too. Things got way easier when I just remember that every man who can is likely sleeping with every woman he can, and many act very sweet to make up for it. Just life things. Makes the ones who actually stick around you a pleasant surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:09 AM
3

My man did you reply to the wrong thread here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:08 AM
0

You know women get mugged just for their money like men all the time right??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:31 AM
1

Most were never poly, they were just looking for open relationships. Now that the term "ethically non monogamous" has taken off I almost never see people say they're poly anymore. I do think monogamy is outdated and mostly limiting. I probably just have shitty people in my life but I can't think of one married couple that is happy. They might act nice around their kids but deep down you can see they're just sick of each other. :/ I never want someone to feel like even though they hate me now the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:14 PM
2

Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:07 PM
1

Omg that's my favorite one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:07 PM
1

Downvoting is against this subreddit rules... Maybe read them if you can!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:06 PM
3

More evident for go outside and touch grass ya'll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:46 PM
1

Yeah that's literally how capitalism works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:45 PM
3

Yeah in college a kid I knew got raped while drunk and everyone just laughed and high five him. Fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:44 PM
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Who in this subreddit is downvoting me for talking about diet soda?? Like wtf how can that even trigger someone who cares. Get a life ya'll people have free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:42 PM
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She's a 10 but she's addicted to diet soda. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:45 AM
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So fuckin true! The men who think they can math themselves into being attractive are really missing out. I've been attracted to some weird ass dudes for some very hard to identify reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:39 PM
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Healthcare and basic human rights would be cool tho. I'm not asking for much. Idk why people argue with me on these points, like you realize you're just siding with the billionaires, the fascists, the slave drivers right? Have fun in college while you still have v little responsibilities bb! So cute I didn't realize I was talking to an actual baby. Call me when your dreams die then we can have an actual discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:24 PM
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Why can't you have even an ounce of sympathy?? Can you stop being a debate lord and try to be a human for a fucking minute? My point is the American dream is a fucking joke. If it's real then why aren't you a billionaire already?? Where's your capital??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:16 PM
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Because I live here. Sure this country has been great... To my grandpa's generation. He supported a wife and 9 kids and bought a house to fit all of them on one entry level income. I got a college degree, tons of debt, will never be able to afford a home, and definitely can't afford kids. I can't even imagine how much worse I'd have it if I were black or brown or actually impoverished. My grandpa didn't work harder he just got luckier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:07 PM
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Your lack of outrage as to what fools have done to the word literally is pretty disappointing ngl. Idk why you're simping so hard for the US, unless you're a billionaire they don't give a shit about you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:54 PM
2

Aww can't use Google bb? Here u go INFORMAL used for emphasis or to express strong feeling while not being literally true. "I was literally blown away by the response I got"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah who needs voting! Fascism all the way!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:45 PM
4

LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:41 PM
3

Literally can mean figuratively though so I'm confused at your point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:41 PM
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You'd be simping if you knew me irl lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:40 PM
3

Hey ppd is this u https://youtu.be/TjKoGrJ-FuY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:39 PM
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The United States is not a country, it's a few corporations in a trenchcoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:36 PM
3

Mutually assured destruction won't make much money. Better to keep selling small arms and fighting normal little wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:35 PM
1

Who cares we don't need any of them there's literally billions of humans already festering over this planet fighting for resources. Gotta love all the "pro life" clowns who ignore the living breathing children suffering in the foster system right now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:48 AM
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There's literally a thread today about things that are supposed to to be attractive that they don't find attractive... Heavy muscle guys and strong square jawline was on there. Also women aren't as superficial as trp screeches, it's just a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:38 AM
0

Any man can be a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:41 PM
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Why is everybody so obsessed with trivial shit like abortion is preventing so many babies from living. You know what's really killing future babies?? The economy. It's so fucking expensive just to exist, how am I gonna pay for a whole second person's existence??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:38 PM
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Biggest family destroying policy is definitely nothing to do with dumb pill dating rhetoric. If you wanna know why families are in decline, you gotta ask why 1 man can't afford to buy a house and support a stay at home wife and 9 kids on a single entry level income (like my grandpa did). THAT'S WHY. If the average man could support me like that I'd likely already be 6 kids deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:34 PM
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Then crucify me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:23 PM
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That's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:52 PM
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So you're saying asexual people can't thrive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:51 PM
0

Just giving the kids a taste of their own medicine. If you care so much go adopt a child from the foster system and be their perfect dad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:01 AM
0

It's really not even different from what people say here about men. If you're attractive you can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:51 AM
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Sex with a person isn't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:32 AM
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Men wouldn't understand being drowned in it. Both things kill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:13 AM
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Honestly it's also low key why you should be just as careful of male friendships. A lot of "good guys" walk around with "good friends" that are rapists or worse. Hell, even a serial killer can be friendly and if that's your only standard for friend you never know what kind of psycho or piece of shit you are "good" with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:08 AM
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You have an accent fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:04 AM
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The guys in the Sopranos weren't bad boys because they paid hookers, it was just one part
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:03 AM
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The odds that any 2 women are bi is definitely like 5% or less... So yeah that story just seems like revenge porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:14 AM
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An old fuckbuddy of mine had a ton of really dumb ideas, that included. He lived with his mom and barely had this old Honda civic to drive around. Once said how women were just trying to use him for his money. I'm guessing they just asked him to buy them McDonald's once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:13 AM
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I thought attractive men could do no wrong and that women prefer bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:10 AM
2

Woman pedo = good! Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:44 AM
5

Doesn't even scratch the surface compared to the bitterness men here hold towards fat/unattractive women dating hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:07 AM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:05 PM
1

No. A hat or a mask in every single picture is more sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:05 PM
1

Show them your Reddit history
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:03 PM
1

My youth seriously sucked compared to me 30s. I have no clue. I think it's just a loud minority of losers who peaked in high school screaming "best years of ur life!1"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:02 PM
1

Actually hilarious you used that water metaphor, almost like you subconsciously see my point. You know water can be very cloudy too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:01 PM
1

If it makes you happy to pigeonhole men and yourself based on a few traits that are subjective, ok man go ahead. Just saying isn't the point of this subreddit to question your view rather than just go "this is how it is. Anyways bye"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:57 PM
1

I just don't understand this. If a woman is hot at 20 she'll be hot at 40. Her dating pool is aging with her. The amount of men who always date 20 year olds is so small. When old women date they are not competing with college girls ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:55 PM
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Commitment minded is literally your only correct point about how a women's preferences might change. Keep telling yourself women have no options after 30 lol whatever helps you cope. Also nice assumption that all women want to breed. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:48 PM
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Men are not a dichotomy of alpha vs beta. I mean the whole alpha beta omega concept was bullshit from a mistaken study of wolves in the first place. Studies have shown in any 2 groups, there is more variation within groups than between. Many alpha men show beta traits and vice versa. It's not black and white, and thinking it is means you're putting a stick through your own bike spokes if you know that meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:46 PM
1

Why would a woman ever settle if she's drowning in options and can support herself financially and meet her own social life needs?? The logic is weak here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:12 PM
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If you only use black and white paint you're never gonna see (literally the study on this post) the grey. Edit: read the rules ya'll downvoting is not allowed. Sorry I triggered you with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:10 PM
1

Still horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:01 AM
2

Everytime you waste energy shitting on the opposing political party, your corporate overlords rub their hands together and laugh, "yes, fight, while we make even more money and call it inflation!" It's tragic how easily the US has been divided and conquered. Then again considering this nation was already stolen from a whole population of natives, the US fucking deserves it. The whole continent is a cursed Indian burial ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:53 AM
2

Yeah who needs taxes? Next time your house is on fire just save tax money and put it out yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:49 AM
3

You don't have to lie to avoid the truth. Just make a deflecting joke about it and move on. If someone is grilling about your virginity, unless they are also a virgin, I say just get the fuck out of there. Treating every woman like she's your only chance on earth for pussy will NOT make you attractive or get you very far.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:00 AM
1

I'm Vulpix first. Close second is Charizard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:56 AM
3

If you're serious you can actually get better. I used to be very squeamish, but went into school for Biology and basically was forced to get over it through exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:55 AM
2

Any excuse to stare at Hasan Piker I will take!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:53 AM
2

Evolution is messy, it's not a creator with a design it's a series of successful accidents. The genes for romantic love may be to increase reproduction and child survival, but they don't just stop existing because the person got old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:49 AM
2

Almost like it's men who let down the modern young man this whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:50 AM
1

Yep. Settling never works. The 50th time I got asked why I was with him, I asked myself that too...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:43 AM
3

I'd rather work at work and relax at home than live at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:41 AM
3

Seriously! It's literally just a pity party meets a woman witch hunt in here. Just men over and over repeating the same 2 dumb facts why it's okay to hate and blame women for all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:35 AM
1

I bet male makeup as a product would fail due to the stigma men have against makeup. It is seen as girly and they don't fully understand how subtle makeup can be done. That proposal would die in the room with the male investors laughing. Edit: also... They can just buy womens makeup it's already everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:26 AM
1

Let's put anyone who says something offensive in jail with the death penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:59 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:58 PM
1

You seem unaware of how many gamers casually used that word for years. Also you realize hella white people are racist as fuck and use that word themselves and high five their friends who also do? Bad example to argue with try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:55 PM
1

If he was black who cares?? There's literally multiple youtube/twitch personalities that have said horrible shit and everyone loves them and forgives them because they're humans who made mistakes. I'm sorry you guys can't believe someone could be understanding or forgiving of human nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:43 PM
1

I mean most of the men on here struggle to be friendly to women. It's not that uncommon unfortunately. That's why women say the bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:24 AM
1

Nah ain’t gonna lie that would get me to leave. That’s a crazy ass statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:17 AM
5

Wtf are you even talking about that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:01 AM
1

Good for you! Hope nobody ever judges your whole character on one statement you made, it's a pretty shitty way to treat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:00 AM
2

Wouldn't fwb imply that the man's requisite tradeoff is to be a friend? For some men that's still a lot of effort / they complain about having to put in such "work". I've had plenty of fuckbuddies literally ignore me asking how their day was or say shit like "I don't wanna be friends" if I am not ready to fuck the instant I text them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:52 AM
3

You're pretty judgmental for someone who calls themselves a good guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:48 AM
1

He has to be the best and the worst because he's also the only one they've ever had lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:47 AM
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I don't think they're missing out on a good guy if he's saying shit like that about women. So yeah, just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:46 AM
1

People read way too much into what one bitch says. Myself included. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:36 AM
4

"A man's tinder profile completely represents how attractive he is" Just things that shouldn't be said. You've clearly never seen how horrible men make their own damn profiles only to be extremely handsome irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:39 PM
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She still might not be settling. If anything this is proof that there's so much more to attraction than "would she swipe right on tinder" because tinder is a hellhole where women don't behave normally and can't even tell if they like the dude. Not enough info and an overwhelming number of "options"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:07 PM
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Tinder data will never allow you to make statements about women. Since matches are based on looks, unattractive people basically don't get to participate. The actions you're paying attention to are basically the subset of women hot enough to attract through pictures alone looking for casual sex. This is a small subset of the population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:04 PM
5

I agree with you but also... I paid for a gym membership a whole year and could only make myself go like 3 times. What's wrong with meeee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:53 AM
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I don't think the vase guy is okay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:35 AM
4

Age is relative. When you're 50 yeah 18 can seem like a child. I'm 31 and I wouldn't touch any man under 21 personally it would feel wrong. Nothing wrong with being 18, people are just jealous that you're further from death and will try to bring you down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:26 AM
1

I wrote that one but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:09 AM
2

A study done by okcupid found that of equivalent appearance, if the women were not sure whether he liked them or not, they found him the most attractive. Second was interested and least attractive was not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:52 AM
1

I mean photoshop a thin waist and some tits on Donald... He lookin dummy thicc Edit: as a woman tho, dogman seems nice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:49 AM
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A stereotype I've had men tell me is all redheads are horny sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:30 AM
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