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I've always known of her as the cool girl. She loves sports and hanging with the guys, never complains or gets mad. She will defend her mans bad behavior. He could be five hours late to their anniversary dinner and she will easily forgive him. She likely has low self esteem and will completely uproot her life to please a man. These girls try very hard to act like no they're cool with it while their man abuses them and treats them like shit. I mean ppd men basically complain about this woman all …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:25 AM
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Yeah I also live in the area of California with the biggest wealth disparity in the world and housing prices are just insane. Send me a postcard from wherever you're finding a nice home in a big metro area for under a million 😂 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:54 PM
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I mean low key if a man offered to completely provide for me I would be down for marriage, but in this economy it's rare for men my age not to be living with their parents. As is with boyfriends and how much weight they pull I see no point legally and financially binding myself to them. I can date plenty but marriage and family never have felt possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:50 PM
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Oh yeah blame video games! Not the corporations with record profits every year who pay off our government (it's legal and called lobbying) to keep things in their favor and further the wealth gap between the rich and the other 99% of people. My grandfather supported a wife and nine children and bought a house on a forestry job. But oh yeah I just play too much animal crossing to be bothered to buy a house??? It's literally my dream to have a nice home with a yard and I will never achieve it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:20 PM
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Did you know other attractive women exist besides the Instagram thots you follow? Ffs this subreddit is so ridiculous, men here follow onlyfans models and then think all women are posting tits and ass. Just such a huge red flag that you've never known a woman besides the porn you watch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:28 PM
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Bro missed the point completely. women are interested in LESS attention. Lmao imagining these girls being sexually harassed are just hoping the creep will say something nice??? Nah man they're hoping he'll disappear and let them walk in peace. Sucks you have such shitty women in your life to think that way, maybe you should pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:26 PM
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It's really not the same. Even you said only certain boys get noticed early. Meanwhile basically every single woman has experienced being hit on at 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:22 PM
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Ohh so you think a few shallow women on tinder represent all of us okay I see now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:06 PM
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Meanwhile the only guy I've met irl who ever complained about gold digger women coming for his money was a dude living with his mom and driving a $600 car
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:53 PM
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Wow so sweet I'm sure their family loves you. "mom he finally upgraded me from an object! I think this is the real deal!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:11 PM
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You know TikTok is different for everyone right? Mine is literally just funny animal videos how are y'all ending up with such unhinged takes being recommended to you? Sounds like a personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:04 PM
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That's because their mommies told them they deserve love no matter how they look or act because they're special. You try to give advice to these men on how to present better and they go "I shouldn't have to change myself to find love I am a special boy mommy told me so"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:00 PM
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9/10 that is not a short height lol who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:58 PM
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You think men wanting to sleep with as many women as possible is controversial?? Sounds like you might live in a Christian bubble because poly noncommittal men in the dating sphere are bountiful along all levels of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:20 AM
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Idk it doesn't really sound objective or quantifiable except that it's hella judgmental. You're trying to define a person with weird old timey sayings? Maybe stop looking at human beings like they're black and white sim characters where "smarts" is on a simple slider bar. Next time you think someone is lesser than you open your eyes and see that this very thought actually makes you the lesser one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:18 AM
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I think once again OP has mistaken a few women thirsty for attention that he follows on Instagram as every woman ever. He probably thinks his coworkers are just tired when they don't wear makeup one day. Kinda like that dude from some huge city in Brazil who would just post how all women only want to go clubbing meanwhile he's going to clubs to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:39 AM
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Honestly if someone is dumb but willing to learn and listen I'd go for it. If someone is dumb and stubborn then it's useless long term no matter how scathing hot they are. Also how do you even define intelligence as one thing? There are many types including emotional intelligence which is displayed by your example of a "not bright" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:29 AM
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Literally a dude posted here once asking for dating advice, got a bunch of good and varied advice, basically said "no I don't want to change myself" then deleted the whole post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:07 AM
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Young men whose mom said they would be loved no matter who they are because they're special absolutely were done wrong and have a hard lesson to learn about life. However at a certain point when someone has the internet and lives away from parents, you've been exposed to the world and should be learning or at least beginning to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:04 AM
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Yeah I mean I definitely don't envy anyone who has to open up to men. Majority of men just say "please stop crying" in a pained way. They think it's sweet to say but it's actually completely invalidating that I feel the need to cry right then. My dad is an exception but most men can't just be empathetic and say "I'm sorry that sucks" they just launch into why am I crying what did it how do I fix it please anything to make these horrible emotions go away they make me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:28 PM
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You're not gonna find any Instagram influencers here you might wanna ask that question in a different forum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:44 PM
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The difference is before the death grip the man could come easily during sex. Only like 30% of women can come easily during piv sex. The clitoris needs to be stimulated. Vibrators make it a lot easier and yet men would rather feel bad about themselves or make up weird death grip theories about women than just bring a toy into the bedroom. Probably because men tie their dick to their self worth and take typical women existence as a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:42 PM
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Maybe if you guys stopped painting female privilege as "princess treatment" then they wouldn't be confused when they don't receive a generous inheritance and income without working and no wealthy princes are courting them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:39 PM
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Jealousy and envy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:37 PM
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I always take my birth control loudly in front of everyone then I scream "ANYONE WANT TO CUM INSIDE ME BECAUSE THEY COULD" cmon man get with the times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:37 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:34 PM
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Actually you must be lying because ppd told me all fat women get to fuck chads and no average or below average people get to date please check your facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:33 PM
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I'm so tired of the "women get to express all their emotions" bullshit. It's like no one remembers how relentlessly women are called overly emotional??? It's constant in the mainstream that women are scolded for expressing their feelings, called crazy, or laughed at with a "gee someone's on the rag" yet here on ppd somehow women live this blessed life where all their emotions are respected and coddled??? Such fake weird bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:31 PM
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I think raising your standards is always a sign of security. Insecure people take what they can get. Dating based on income is pretty shallow imo tho my mom's main advice to me was marry rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:40 PM
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That's all? Apparently the bar is in hell for princess treatment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:09 PM
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How can you split the cost of a pregnancy? Can you create a human being inside your body? How do you 50 50 when the woman is doing work you are incapable of?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:04 PM
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Did you just start a post about facing mental health problems and then basically end it by saying "don't you think you should pick better?" Ugh this is like all the people responding to clinical depression with "go outside" or "think positive"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:00 PM
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Majority of women on this forum are like 130lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:49 PM
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You fell right into her trigger trap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:50 PM
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Somebody already forgot the ppd survey results lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:48 PM
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Excuse me I'm a woman where's my princess treatment??? For some reason I have to work full time and pay my own bills 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:48 PM
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Uhh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:27 PM
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I'm not really trying to do anything lol I just think it's really fucked up to imagine a creator who is supposed to be good and all powerful created so much suffering and evil 🙈 but ooh lalala no starving children deserved it because they didn't perform the 1 2 step for God?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:33 PM
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No, but environmental factors while growing up can influence taste and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:31 PM
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As with all nature vs nurture arguments, the answer is it's always a bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:41 PM
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Imagine needing to be guilted into being a good person!! How unfortunate that people are so inherently evil they need someone to shame them from being evil. Being good is the reward bud I don't need a God to threaten me into being good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:36 PM
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Okay so you agree that God is not all good then. He is vindictive and punishes those who don't suck his dick enough. He is the creator of all suffering and pain. Praise God
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:34 PM
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Yeah that's why science doesn't see data from one survey as proof. There is no sense to be made of random and incomplete data
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:12 PM
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I'm 32 now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:56 PM
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This is why in science it takes more than one survey to prove something. You need more data, more studies, and more scientists cross reviewing each other's studies before you can actually find sense or the truth of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:55 PM
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The survey cuts off at age 29. You think it doesn't make sense that late 20s women are more likely dating early 30s men?...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:54 PM
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As a smart woman I learned very very early that men do not like it when a woman is smarter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:51 PM
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It's actually natural that not everyone gets to reproduce. If every organism successfully passed on their genetics evolution would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:48 PM
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I was a fat girl and I agree. I convinced myself that I was just too ugly to be dateable. Accidentally lost weight while treating my depression and suddenly dates were jumping out everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:46 PM
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Shhhh don't interrupt an artist at work he's gonna post the full fanfic soon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:42 PM
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The one in his fanfic about relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:42 PM
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The blue pill, duh. I was told I would be loved no matter who I am because I'm special. You new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:41 PM
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Therapy sucks (for most people) and there's still lots of failure to be found outside. I think at its core it means you can't just sit inside and research your way out of this kind of problem. Social skills just take practice which means just going out and starting somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:37 PM
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With muscle in men, less is more. When his muscles are rounder than my tits and he has more curves than me... That's a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:35 PM
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What television shows do you actually find exciting and inspiring then? That would be much more useful to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:33 PM
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Dragons. Don't overthink it, it's a TV show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:33 PM
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I thought incel just meant involuntarily celibate but apparently now it means woman hating school shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:29 PM
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Next time you're being made a meal incorrectly rip the bacon from their hands and scream "WHY DO YOU PEOPLE INSIST ON COOKING BACON WRONG YOU WORTHLESS IDIOTS" problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:26 PM
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Actually I can complain as much as I want, sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:25 PM
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Being an attractive woman*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:24 PM
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What's nice about God is you can blame all your problems on him too since he is all powerful anything that happens is his choice, including all world wars, genocide, murder, rape, and every bit of suffering ever existed. It's literally impossible for a God to exist who is both all powerful and all good. Either he's good but not all powerful, or he's powerful and not all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:23 PM
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There is a lot of emotional and actual work that women do once in a relationship. My boyfriend is entertaining and attractive and funny but most days asks for my help in finding something around the house. Most of the time these items are where he left them for the record so it's not like I'm organizing his stuff. Yes he initiated the relationship but now that we live together he does not initiate romantic or affectionate acts. I do most errands and shopping. I work more hours at my job as well …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:19 PM
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Why did you ask then seems like you already know everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:38 PM
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Perfect population to sample for this issue as most ppd participants do not go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:34 PM
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Oops. Maybe y'all could shed some intelligence onto all the 19 year old men here desperate to get married asap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:32 PM
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Easiest way to get me to cancel plans and keep swiping on tinder is to ask me to clean my house for casual sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:29 PM
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Easy, just become a girl then you can be the rude asshole you've always dreamed of being
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:28 PM
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Lay off the Disney movies. Nobody gets unconditional love. Even children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:27 PM
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I have also found that abusers very commonly say "all my exes are crazy" because it sounds better than "my exes called me abusive and dumped me" so people who say that aren't always the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:59 PM
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You are spiraling but this is not realistic. I have yet to talk to an AI that gives me even a fifth of the satisfaction that talking to my boyfriend or my human friends does. Really sad to think you view human interaction so poorly that you think men are going to lose to a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ww26dg/hypergamy_exists_and_it_will_get_worse/ Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:28 PM
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Weird I guess I must be a man then because I've been banned multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:47 PM
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Omg the c word lmao I got banned for that too it really blindsided me. No warning just 24 hours. We really gotta protect these people from c-wording with reality! Keep em in an incel bubble where none of their problems are ever their faults
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:39 PM
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Yes I frequently report stuff but honestly I have just been staying away from this subreddit a lot more in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:33 PM
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Cmv this subreddit is only to allow incel and red pill men be completely misogynistic and uncivil towards women while anyone who shows even the slightest bit of rudeness back is banned. How is it civil to call someone feeble minded? Ffs just call it r/patsontheback4incels
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:51 PM
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Tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:43 PM
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Yeah this post is essentially "cmv these half dozen suburban women I met represent all women in the world"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:57 PM
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It's also pretty selfish to force a woman not to have a child because you find being responsible an inconvenience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:25 PM
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Why are chubby men in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:44 AM
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Hmmm you mostly sound jealous you can't just pay less on haircuts and also get hotter and more attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:42 AM
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Gay is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:40 AM
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Yes I look at all asses and I'm a woman in love with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:38 AM
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Bad. My idea of marriage is two people who forced themselves to stay together after one cheated, deeply resent each other and constantly fight. It turned me off of marriage and having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:37 AM
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Still definitely men who are more obsessed with looks. I mean you wrote a whole essay about looks over some half ass comment I left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:51 PM
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Hey at least you don't have to automatically become ugly no matter what at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:48 PM
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Quit virtue signaling nobody cares that you'll always be down to get your dick wet dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:41 PM
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I love how men are like so brain broken that women like hot people. Meanwhile women have known from a very young age that their main value was looks. Awww first time being objectified sweetie??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:39 PM
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For someone who supposedly cares about women you sure do look down on them like they're idiots. Men have been pick up artists for decades before the term was coined, if this kind of shit working is news to you then you're the naive one unaware of what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:19 PM
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No we live in Capitalism times. If a business can't profit it will never live. If you're suggesting government mandated and controlled dating apps then that's communism (OMG AHHHHH SCARY)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:02 PM
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Lmao for real op thinks no one went to the gym or was masculine before Andrew Tate? I agree that women shouldn't be dating these men, they're so obsessed with some random bald dude they've lost sight of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:53 PM
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Wrong. It is still uncommon that a drunk hook up will press charges. This is a scare media tactic pushed and it's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:49 PM
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Why don't ppd users understand that posts have to make sense to make an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:20 PM
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If men's arguments started with "For women in their 20s that are slim pretty" they might actually make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:23 PM
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I've seen way more women complaining about ppd men and their posts than women complaining about the chads...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:36 PM
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Awwwww nobody told men that "every man gets a supermodel wife" only happens in movies? I'm sorry that must be so hard for you 🎻 I'm still waiting for my letter from Hogwarts that I'm a wizard I know how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:05 PM
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Why do men constantly bitch and whine about bimbos while pining after them?* Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:03 PM
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God damn just take a compliment or go flay yourself like you really want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:01 PM
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Except they're not actually the women these men are interested in because they can't stop bitching about what whores they are or "bimbos" like you called them. The actual kinkiest sexually open women aren't posting thirst traps on Instagram, because the only result that comes from that is to get followers or likes. The open women are out in the world making friends and having real sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:57 PM
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Huh? The reversal really doesn't work on ppd lmao... Maybe if we were on tinder... We all know men on here aren't 6 foot chads bruh or else they'd have nothing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:51 PM
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Considering how many dick pics are out there then it must be proof that women are kinder and better people that there's so little male revenge porn out there. Just by your own logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:27 PM
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It's just a ridiculous clown show to watch men on here write a whole thread about "women" when really they're clearly writing a thread about an Instagram thot, a woman on onlyfans, or a sugar baby type. You probably don't notice the normal women on Instagram because they have 50 followers and post pictures of their dog and flowers and sunsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:20 PM
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Omg a voice of reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:58 PM
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Hmm weird I thought women had the privilege of being able to vent about vulnerabilities with no repurcussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:56 PM
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Yes, saying the bar is in hell means the standards are low. Bruh YOU were the one who made the post saying that it's men who have the low bar in hell more than women. Keep dodging the real arguments with derailments though. I had to do severe mental gymnastics to even understand how this comment is related to your "argument" at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:51 PM
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And that's thread everybody okay let's wrap it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:41 PM
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Op won't reply to this because it clearly owns his whole point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:26 PM
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And when a few commenters have made excellent points that the bar for women is where it is because of men's desperation you're oddly quiet. Yeah just keep attacking the easy points and ignore the ones that completely dissolve your ability to be the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:25 PM
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Imagine if abortions and contraception were made illegal. You couldn't fuck a man without being ready to bear his children which he would have rights to. You couldn't fuck a man you don't want to spend 18+ years with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:41 AM
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Well a nice boy is a people pleaser and a bad boy is a self pleaser. This means when a bad boy likes you it feels more special and genuine. When a nice guy likes me I am paralyzed by wondering if he even likes me or he's just nice to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:01 PM
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I mean as long as you don't give her money sounds like the least you could get out of it is a trip to England.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:59 PM
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Yeah home owning is something only investors do now, sorry. How do you become an investor? Be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:55 PM
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Jokes on you when your wife dies from her planned pregnancy due to a bad miscarriage that could've been prevented with the medical treatment of abortion. Sorry your wife died quit crying that's just equality!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:53 PM
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Why would I approach a man when I have dozens jumping into my lap on their own? If you had hot women approaching you all the time don't you think you'd probably stop approaching since you don't need to? This shit is just basic cause and effect man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:23 PM
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Congrats! You've won biggest victim! .... Now what? Maybe men could actually do something for these victims like how women have fought tooth and nail to have rights at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:21 PM
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This whole sub is just men trying to prove theyre the biggest victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:45 PM
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Cool! Bye!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:43 PM
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Men: id literally fuck any woman that approached me even if I didn't like her or thought she was crazy Women: I'm looking for a genuine connection with a man who is really into me and not just down to fuck because I'm a woman Men: why don't more women approach???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:40 PM
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Make sure when dealing with others to try to take away their power because that's how you win. What do you mean that's why I don't have any friends? I'm powerful!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:37 PM
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How dare you disrespect such a pinnacle of masculinity. Our short king says his wife is very dry I think he knows a thing or two about pleasing a woman!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:30 PM
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If it's not using a woman to only be interested in her for sex then it's not using a man to only be interested in him for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:39 PM
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How can we change his view if we can't even tell what it is? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:57 PM
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I'm a woman and I don't give a fuck about any of that shit. Do what you want. Maybe if this info makes women mad take out the statements like "western women are trash" which is what is the actual target of their anger if anything. Nobody cares who you pay to fuck Buddy get over yourself!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:25 PM
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You forget about the blue pill bro? Cmon why are we even here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:53 AM
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I agree, I'm also referencing this users posts in the past. He repeatedly posts about issues we all know very well that could be simply answered with logic like yours. Unfortunately that's not really what he's looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:21 PM
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You new here? Majority of this guys posts get deleted for ranting or incl content
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:07 PM
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No no no you were supposed to say "bitches are dumb amirite?? Poor Johnny he's a blameless victim in a shallow cruel world!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:28 PM
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No no no no you were supposed to say "aw man yeah it really sucks to be an ugly man! Guess that means you're completely blameless in your failures johnny autism because women are just shallow bitches always raising the goalposts and you'll always be ugly so you're completely free of fault and a total downtrodden victim! Poor Johnny!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:25 PM
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Mental illness. Depression and anxiety ruined my life for years and made me a miserable fuck that even desperate men didn't want. It made me feel lonely all the time, even in crowds. It ruined my friendships and made me self isolate. Mental illness is a huge issue in modern society that both men and women struggle with. I wish we would talk more about this than "she is just sad she couldn't get Chad" like sexy dick is the only thing in life that can make a woman happy or make her sad when she do…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:20 PM
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Majority of men would madly love a bad bitch who handled everything. I'd even argue most marriages the woman is dominant and has the final say. As they say happy wife happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:48 AM
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Then stop using dating apps lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:38 AM
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Welcome to 99% of dating as a woman 👍 we are basically entirely picked on looks. I can never be certain a man loves me for more. You can never be certain why a woman likes you either, so stop worrying about things you can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:36 AM
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My female breadwinner mother cheated on my dad. Then they even stayed together. I really don't think income is why people cheat. Correlation does not equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:31 PM
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I am a woman and I don't say that hombre. Sorry you associate with such horrible women. Maybe pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:55 PM
2

Bruh anyone filming strangers and putting it on TikTok IS a basic bitch attention seeking type. Nobody chill or cool is doing that dumb ass shit. Why don't you call them out in the comments that they're being rude and self centered? Definitely will do more than discussing it here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:09 PM
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Men: this is how women are Also men: women to me are 18 to 23 year old girls who heavily use social media
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:58 PM
1

Most men would absolutely settle for an ugly woman who was kind, cooked, and cleaned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:55 PM
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It takes only 2 female brain cells to realize wearing clothes like that makes most of the men stare at your body. Most women "complaining" about being hit on or looked at is barely veiled bragging. Makes sense that people who film themselves for fun would smash this easy content button of "man looked at me" like no shit it happens millions of times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:53 PM
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There's not much you can do aside from helping them find help like a doctor or counseling. You're already better than the average person by not judging them or giving shit platitudes like "just think positive" or "go outside" as if it were so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:48 PM
10

Bruh society fucking sucks I hate it I have no argument
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:51 PM
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So you're not just calling me a liar but you're calling me a rude as fuck bitch too? I would never laugh at or shame a man shooting his shot. Wtf man do you hate yourself?? Because you've already been rude to me and you didn't even ask me out first or anything nice like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:50 PM
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My man the whole comment you replied to explains why that's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:25 PM
1

Yeah I'm 32 but a bit of a late bloomer so mentally I'm probably still in my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:22 PM
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The lowest I've gone is trailer trash lol. Low key though I've seen some homeless men with very handsome faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:03 PM
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Nah I may be above average but I think if I was ridiculously beautiful I'd know by now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:57 PM
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I literally get downvoted when as a woman I say the best way is to approach women irl. Nobody realizes that the "ew creepy" women are just a highly online minority. Most women irl take it as a compliment to be approached even if they're not into the guy. Most approaches by men are not creepy. The men who catcalled me badly or followed me or were actually creepy were almost always men 40 years older or homeless men with no shoes. Meanwhile men my age act like they're scared to even look at me. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:24 PM
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Everyone man should fucking delete their dating apps if they're not working. If you're not getting girls irl from it, stop supporting the app with your time. All the app owners see in these desperate men is $$$. Tinder would rather you be lonely and trying on their app until you're so desperate you pay for their premium.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:14 PM
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Woah almost like not all women are the same??? Hmm no way not possible let's just call me a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:16 PM
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I'm not scared and I always use light touch when I flirt with my dates. I'm sorry I'm not into sexually passive men, maybe some women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:22 AM
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A man who does not overcome those fears is not attractive to me. I am not interested in dominating a male starfish. I want him to pin me up against a wall. Congrats on your excuses though I'm sure if you just explain that to women they'll get wet and suddenly no longer have reactive sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:20 AM
2

Lol u think I'm innocent that's cute ty bb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:17 AM
1

Ppd men shame male sexuality more than the women do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:06 PM
1

Look at it this way, a woman is told all her life that men are obsessed with sex and it's almost all they think about. If I really internalized that and then went on 4 dates where a man doesn't show sexual interest I would think I must not be sexy enough for him. Men need to stop being ashamed of their sexuality. It is so much hotter to feel like he can't keep his hands off of me than to feel like he's scared to touch me. If you're scared to touch me when I'm literally on a date where the intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:02 PM
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Because they don't give a shit about your manosphere brainwash opinions. Unlike you they mind their own business and do what they want instead of writing long judgy posts online about essentially strangers you're stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:44 PM
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That's what you sound like bro. Complaining about a select few douchebags. How does your own medicine taste? Like bullshit huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:42 PM
1

Meh. I've seen men brag about fucking 2 different girls in the same day. I've seen men brag about tricking multiple girls into believing he's their boyfriend while he sleeps with multiple other girls. Whatever women are doing is just a small attempt to reclaim what men have already invented and owned for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:13 PM
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No beard, ideally some lean muscles or just a thin guy. At least 5'6". Dominant but respectful. Handsome face. There's also just a mystery chemistry element I can't quantify, idk for sure if I'm into the guy until I meet him irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:04 AM
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I've known a small handful of girls who would actually vocally shame people for repeating outfits too much. I almost wear the same thing everyday like a cartoon character and I haven't been bullied for it since high school
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:11 AM
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Get into a trade like plumbing, electrician, welding, etc. Make your own money and your own hours and actually be good at something too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:23 PM
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If women are also guaranteed access to abortions then sure idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:21 PM
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You think I would choose to ignore a man doing all the initiating? What???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:21 PM
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Lately with online dating there has been a lot less "monkey dancing" done by men. If I'm not actively asking questions and participating, the convo dies. If I'm not pissing myself laughing at his jokes and sending hearts all the time, the convo dies. If I'm not interested in meeting up asap, the convo dies. Men don't plan the dates they ask me what I want to plan and it's pretty common that we split payment or do free dates. Maybe you're dating in the religious Midwest and we just have different…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:54 PM
0

It's not a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:50 PM
1

Since most men on here seem very interested in settling down with a good woman, why even ask this question? Better yet why ask women what men get out of relationships? Y'all barely believe it when women say what they want and now you want women to say what men want??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:49 PM
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Bro if you can't see how negative and toxic this whole sub is I'm sorry for you. No one here is debating or proving fucking anything it's just rage bait and anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:40 AM
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Yeah this forum is too fucking exhausting. Ya'll men cry about not being spoon fed proof but when someone does feed you you spit it out like a dumb baby and cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:17 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:08 AM
1

Almost all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:44 PM
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I was a lot like you in my 20s and honestly over time my perspective changed and now the idea of open relationships and poly stuff doesn't break my heart like it used to. I actually find it to be more exciting and agree with everything this commenter said about it making you all the more sure of when you find the right person to be with for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:35 PM
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Because to priveleged people, equality feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:30 PM
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Well it sounds like you have everything figured out and can speak for all men! Good thing all men are the same, a monolith. Have fun being the same as a murderer and a rapist!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:23 PM
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People are too retarded to know what the word means so I don't use it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:07 PM
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Men totally date up, all men would if they could. Just because you are only friends with men who struggle to date doesn't negate the existence of fat/ugly men with beautiful young models because the man is rich or has power. I don't think settling for an ugly man who is rich counts as dating up. It's a compromise on the woman's part. Also how dumb are you to say that dating an older woman would be a man dating up? I thought old women were valueless hags. Hello what forum are we on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:55 PM
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Yeah it's definitely more compatibility. You're unique to be compatible across such an age gap, but it's not impossible. It's also way easier to find a romantic connection when you have a platonic way to bond first like working together. Lots of women (especially low experience ones) will need to get to know you and grow attraction over time. If you asked that woman on a date the first day you saw her she might have rejected you. Instead, after getting to know you, she asked you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:55 AM
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Everyone dates up. How do ya'll literally take the same shit you do (lots of casual sex, cheating, dating up, etc) and then go ohhh women bad for doing that!! I'm so tired of "women like sexy men" being omg groundbreaking wtf!!! Of course. It's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:43 AM
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Yes, it's bad advice. According to your other comments, your 22yrold (and also autistic) girlfriend approached you after working with you. This is so so different from if you were cold approaching whatever 22 year old looked hot. Lots of 22 year olds are also very experienced and lots of older women are virgin. Lots of women will respond negatively to autistic men "trying" for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:33 AM
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Sounds like she just wasn't super interested. Sometimes if a guy makes it easy for me I'll go along with it when I otherwise am not really into him. The guys who win me over are usually the ones who don't give up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:43 PM
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If your friend saying "I will never have sex with you" means your friendship with her is over, then I would say at most he was an orbiter... Not a true friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:06 PM
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Cool I regret talking to you this has been a horrible experience. Your people skills really need work :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:51 PM
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Congrats on your inner peace bro. You still really don't understand how criticism and judgments can make someone upset? Just because you read some Stoic quotes means you forget what it's like to be hurt by insults? Pretty sure you know exactly why people get upset. I thought you were playing the smart guy, why play dumb about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:22 PM
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When the rain stops it will be fires next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:08 PM
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You're right! Also you're a filthy whore with a gross used up squished penis because you've had more sex than I believe appropriate. This means you're a lesser person and nothing you can say will change my mind! Don't worry these rude comments are just my opposing thought and opinion, as you'll know what to work on, giving you insight into something you probably never even thought of before! Wow such a productive conversation here!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:06 PM
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My opinions aren't based on what ppd men care about thankfully. I'm directly addressing your core point. If you want someone to tell you what you want to hear don't waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:00 PM
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Yeah it's like when someone describes hypergamy without calling women whores riding a dick carousel, the idea actually makes sense for anyone to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:26 PM
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No one is saying looks don't matter. It's just men confusing things because they want to see it all black and white. Very frequently in this sub I will discuss how important personality, charisma, non verbal communication and more are in attraction. How there's more to being attractive than just looks. How a hot guy could turn me off if he said things that showed an ugly personality. How an ugly guy could change my mind if he made me laugh and made me feel good. You know what response I get EVER…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:04 PM
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Just explained why women prefer hypergamy 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:42 PM
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Damn if you're so all knowing why you wasting time chatting on Reddit? Go buy some stocks or something with that 100% guarantee. Me: please stop assuming everyone's relationships are like yours You: okay but when I had a female friend she was a fucking sociopath so they're all like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:13 PM
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How does this work when it's the men who find sex demeaning and they call women who have sex freely whores? You think that mentality was something women chose to create? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:49 PM
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He has a friend that goes outside. Outside is where you can meet other people, including women you can use to get your dick wet (since clearly all other human relationships/emotions are not worth it to you)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:45 PM
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He's still doing better than men alone in their mom's basement (who are all in the comments screeching about self respect lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:35 PM
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Somebody is trying to trigger men like you with this story and it's working: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/11ojdy1/my_friendwho_i_love_told_me_that_she_wishes_she/ If someone loves their friend apparently this means they have no self respect. Anyone saying platonic love is okay and normal is being heavily downvoted despite OP agreeing with them. Hey guys can you stop projecting how Stacey used you onto the friendships of mature adults? Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:28 PM
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Relationship pro tip, you can never make people change. If you can't accept them as they are, then they are not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:27 AM
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Female attention is so rare? Weird, I'm giving it to you right now, all you had to do was write your random ideas on a small subreddit. I'm guessing you're the type to also consider his mother or sisters to not be women because all you're actually thinking/talking about is fuckable females which (GROUNDBREAKING) is not all females.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:00 PM
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I've been called an 8 by others. I don't believe in number scales for looks, but I'm not putting my pic on Reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:38 PM
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This is only true if you also use your male eyes as well to determine men's attractiveness. Women will disagree as women all have different tastes, and they will be downvoted/ignored by the majority of men here making more shit up about what women think. Once again men are running their whole worldview based on how a small percentage of highly attractive women behave on dating apps. I find the man on the right who you say is feminine/ugly to be good looking. I would say yes to a date with him, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:35 PM
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It's just another way people in the past infantilized women. I mean they used to not let women play certain sports or ride in fast vehicles; they were so concerned her womb would fly out of her body violently or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:47 PM
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What? Bro all the women in here are saying no it's not creepy and/or they don't even think about him or how they prefer men with less sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:22 PM
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Don't be ridiculous. I had dreams of being a bus driver or the guy who rides on the back of the garbage truck all the time as a kid!! Until my mom laughed in my face and said that was not a job for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:41 AM
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True, also the only men I ever look at or speak to are men I would fuck. I can't get my car repaired because when I go into the shop I see no one. I tried to take the bus but there was no driver! So weird why can I only see women and Chris Hemsworth??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:57 PM
1

At least not until they open their mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:54 PM
1

If you agree there's ugly people then you can't challenge them on their excuse "I'm too ugly" so they don't have to face their real problems or the actual complexity of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:52 PM
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I think it's disappointing that they focus so much on the lack of sex/women instead of focusing on the 9 other areas of their life they are unfulfilled or struggling. When my mental health was at its worst I struggled the most to date and I also was the most desperate for it. When I worked on my mental health and felt fulfilled in my life I found relationships flourished naturally. More importantly, I didn't need them anymore anyways, they're just a nice add on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:41 AM
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Seriously!! I will be making arguments about how there's more to being attractive as a man than being good looking. But it's like they're brainwashed so hard about appearance they think I'm still talking about physical appearance. I will list examples about charm and personality and voice and smell and they're just like "you can't say looks don't matter! You're so wrong looks matter" and I never said looks didn't matter. Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:37 AM
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He's gonna say how first world countries are struggling with population, Japan for example is not increasing in population and has a large elderly population. Literally capitalism did this to itself. Anyways, it's probably because he's scared of immigwation 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:30 AM
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You think all women just spontaneously changed their habits for no reason? Not gonna acknowledge that the advance of technology/internet has changed society a lot? Just gonna blame women huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:22 AM
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Disagree, I am very interested if red pill men even like women. So far, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:37 PM
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Meanwhile red pill is also making agreement comments oof... I have seen a small handful of comments actually contesting the cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:36 PM
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You really never seen a red pill man say how much he dislikes or even hates women? It's a daily thing in the chat thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:34 PM
1

If this post is so untrue then why can't you disprove it? Is it so hard for a red pill man to just say "I like women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:31 PM
1

Excellent comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:29 PM
2

Once again housework and childcare are completely invisible. You have no idea what a stay at home wife does or what? Just inconsiderate or is this the first time someone told you the coffee table doesn't clean itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:17 PM
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What about the physical and emotional toll of having a kid? Why aren't you concerned about if they birth a child and don't want it? Don't you worry that if she has a child too young she will realize she doesn't want it or she still wants to try other dick? What if she turns out to be a horrible person but you didn't know because you're in your early 20s and haven't fully developed? Don't you worry about the impact a bad mother would have on a child? What if you regret having children when you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:56 AM
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Yeah I don't buy that he's concerned about the risks of giving birth older... People are so obsessed with breeding they totally miss how rude it is to be like "don't you worry you'll regret not having kids??" Imagine if I asked someone "don't you worry you'll regret having kids??" they would be chasing me with pitchforks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:52 AM
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If men and women hate each other then why are they together so often? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:48 AM
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Well when I saw your comment my first thought was oh he's talking about how ppd men hate women. So I guess it's mutual. I for one remember most women in this subreddit replying strong no to the question "why don't you just create a society without men" because they love and enjoy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:44 AM
6

You seriously think women don't want men?? Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:25 AM
2

Huh? Does he expect a wife to break into his home?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:42 PM
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Ok but they can only select from men they meet. If he's staying inside and relying on dating apps he is going to be seen by very few women (who have too many options).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:33 PM
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Yeah I'd say there's some truth to each of them, but also I feel like a lot of topics just can't be confined to objectives. It's not black and white, a lot of things just depend on the individual and their perspective/preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:28 PM
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I've always understood it to mean that your death is something only you will experience. Even if someone is sitting next to you and holding your hand, you are the only one dying. It is yours alone to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:54 PM
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That's an interesting point. Kind of reflects poorly on marriage in general still... Women must also have heard men complain about marriage being a burden/trap a lot and that's why it was also in those shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:52 PM
7

Hmm I thought the average woman was 170 lbs. Looks like ppd women are thinner than average!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:20 PM
1

But then there's the 60s of drugs and peace and love and sex and acceptance? Honestly just seems like the pendulum continues to swing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:05 PM
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Good riddens
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:05 PM
2

I see it like the argument of nature vs nurture. When you ask which is the truth, it's usually a little of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:03 PM
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It's also really sad to watch the multitude of sitcoms where the husband is fat, lazy, and bitching about how his wife nags him and she's a ball and chain and how he wishes he could fuck someone else. Meanwhile his wife is a hot thin babe with a great body, always dressed well with good makeup, doing all the chores and saying "yes sweetie". One show like this is literally called Love & Marriage. My boyfriend thinks it's funny and I think it's just too depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:50 PM
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A huge percentage of communication is nonverbal. You will never be able to fake the body language. A nervous man can look creepy in the right situation because of that body language. Your brain recognizes he's scared but there's no threat you see and so you're weirded out. It's all subconscious so it's a hard skill to fake. Real confidence comes from being actually self assured. If you believe and know all the way to your bones that you deserve to be here and are worthy of love, it will show in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:19 PM
1

I love Taylor!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:13 PM
1

It helps if you love them. Living with my parents or roommates sucked. Living with my boyfriend is great. What's even more great is he cares about my needs and would give me space if I needed and vice versa. Sometimes I twitch in my sleep and I go sleep separately so I don't wake him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:18 AM
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Why doesn't anyone talk about the actual best okcupid study: Women were offered 3 men of otherwise equal attractiveness. A) openly likes her B) openly dislikes her C) unclear whether he likes her or not Majority of women liked C the most, then A and lastly B.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:15 AM
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That my looks were why I failed at dating. Being overweight was part of it but mostly it was horrible self esteem. I was very eager to doom myself after a few years of trying/failing, I was convinced I would be forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:12 AM
2

You're saying there's something wrong with having preferences in who I date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:59 AM
3

That post was so funny like wtf? Nobody told him if you consent it's not rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:35 AM
1

Eat hot chip and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:34 AM
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If the women in here had pics of themselves on their profile ya'll would be totally simping there would be no debate just "haha omg you're soooo right I love your insights wanna hang out later?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:32 AM
0

Like I always say, there's usually more variation within a group than between groups. The average man and woman are more similar than different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:06 AM
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Hottest guy I ever banged was 5'6". People just cherry pick a few size queens and go "women ☕"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:04 AM
0

My ads seem to think I'm a gay man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:54 AM
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That's the feeling some men have. That's fine ya'll can fuck whoever you want to! I don't care about that. It's when you start putting moral judgments on me, saying I'm dirty/used up, calling me a whore, etc that makes me mad. Many men on this subreddit slip quickly from "it's my preference" to "she's fucking gross and soiled and a bad person" and you'll have to forgive me if I get defensive. However, I'm looking more for a guy who'd be open to an orgy or threesome. So we're just not compatible …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:00 AM
9

Somewhere between 30 and 50 I'd guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:28 PM
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When I was young I assumed I would have a husband and kids. When I actually got into relationships with men and tried to imagine adding dependents, I just can't. As is, life is just work. I work most days, come home to chores, get a little r&r if I can then sleep and straight to work again next morning. I couldn't afford to not work. I couldn't afford much additional expenses. Unless I want to raise them in a trailer park on food stamps I don't see kids ever fitting into this fucked up life we A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:14 PM
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I don't remember and if someone asked I would be honest about it. If a man seriously interested in dating me asked I think I would leave him. I've learned from here, men who are preoccupied with the other dick I've had in the past are likely to have a multitude of other psychological issues. If he's concerned about my n count, we're not compatible because I don't see sex as demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:11 PM
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It works through low self esteem or hating yourself. If you 100% think you're disgustingly ugly and unattractive, what would you think of a person who said "I like you and I think you're hot"? Either they're blind or stupid right? Maybe they're desperate because they're a psycho? There are tons of men and women sabotaging themselves because they have issues with self esteem, which is basically untreated mental illness that severely distorts how they perceive reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:58 PM
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When you're getting dozens of new messages a day the "hi how are you" ones really all start to blur together. So when a guy says something different I will be more interested because he seems creative. A good joke about something in my profile, a unique question, or even something like "would you rather fight 1 horse sized duck or 100 duck sized horses" is way way more engaging then another dude who's never met me before pretending he cares how I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:50 PM
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Ok then don't! OH wait what would you complain about without it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:20 PM
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Idek what that is so why have I gotten spam texts about it / 10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:16 PM
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He's less likely to leave me for a hotter girl 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:15 PM
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Hmm maybe because men can't stop bitching about all the single mothers in the dating scene. I'm pretty sure pregnancy always causes higher risk of stroke and heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:13 PM
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Then how come women don't need laws or violence to be extremely picky and intensely shame simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:28 AM
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Eh, not always. I would say 4 is actually important but there's also kindness in doing something you don't like for someone else. However if you're changing your entire self to please someone else... Just feels like I might as well date a robot. I like people for their individuality. Otherwise though I'd say in my experience 1-3 are indifferent to me. I mean haven't you heard the fun life hack where asking someone to do a favor makes them like you more? I've had boyfriends on either end of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:59 AM
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Damn for someone triggered by downvotes you sure do get a lot :/ sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:18 PM
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Ugh another validation craving troll... Keep ignoring the main points I made. You don't even have an argument. Just happy to talk to a girl huh? Well guess what she's hating the experience. It's dumb shit like this why men are crying about being blocked. LEARN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING ATTRACTIVE AND BEING GOOD LOOKING. READ THE COMMENTS YOU REPLY TO. No point debating with someone who can't read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:07 PM
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I'd say like half of the men in my age range I see irl pass the looks test. Really hard to say I'm actually attracted at first glance alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:05 PM
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For men* because they're shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:53 AM
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Aww you missed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:30 AM
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I think too often the word attractive is confused with good looking. The amount of men that make me go "damn he looks hot" from a picture alone is very small. The amount of men in my age range that make me go "damn he's hot" after getting to know them is a lot more. Men are so focused on the lack of appreciation for their pure looks, maybe because it's what they value the most in women. To be a hot manly man used to have so much more to do with character, now it's just jawlines and inches and ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:39 AM
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Eh I've also noticed I like face types that are kind of different from my own. My boyfriend really likes face types of girls that to me look ugly, and then I realize I look like them too lol However siblings or dating from just a pic is also a very very hard game
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:20 AM
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It would just allow them to further gatekeep the ability to say what's true about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:35 PM
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AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:33 PM
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I would feel like this dude is a clown with horrible ideas. Makes it more worth it? Wtf? The logic is so weird here idk what's happening but I do not like it. The only tension blowjobs are creating is jaw pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:31 PM
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Aww can't read?? Looks like you skipped my comment since you saw the easy to attack celebrity argument. "Men are absolutely allowed to look like that and I have found many men close to my height extremely physically attractive."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:33 PM
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I wish men would stop trying to tell me what I'm attracted to, but guess what women's opinions also don't count. So I think the whole discourse is a load of bullshit. Go talk to some men and pat each other on the back while you confirm your biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:11 PM
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Ok then just complain you seem to enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:30 AM
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If you want a highly transactional relationship, ok sure, I really don't care as long as it's consenting adults. Kinda funny after the passport bros defending that they're not buying a whore... Yall drop a mail order bride thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:30 AM
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Ya'll need to realize there's so much more to being attractive than hot/tall/ripped
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:26 AM
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He's negging you. Do not hesitate say "okay well I won't mention the inches you're missing"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:19 AM
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Just dance it's gonna be okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:17 AM
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Who cares what people think? Have you seen the other stuff people think? People are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:14 AM
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1) be attractive 2) make a few jokes, invite for drinks near home, bang her, say bye in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:11 AM
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Sam. Ultimately though I don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:45 PM
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https://youtu.be/_Shl5Se_AQw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:15 AM
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I'm sorry man sounds like you're really trying. It's rough out there. I will say when I got into relationships with "ugly" guys (I didn't find them ugly but my "friends" would talk shit) it was because we hung out regularly at work or school and I talked to them and got to know them and then was very attracted due to their personality and charisma. Low key they were in the friend zone and won me over in a sense. Usually took several weeks of talking before I felt attracted but because it was bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:12 PM
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He didn't even purchase Twitter he was forced to lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:39 PM
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Did you know the more college education one gets the more liberal they become? Almost like once you're educated you learn something.... Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:39 PM
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Hey men, if dating apps are so horrible for you and causing women to be exceptionally shallow, maybe you could do something about it and stop using them. Boycott them. Stop wasting your precious hours of life swiping on sex bots. Learn how to have casual conversations in public without performing assault. A woman calling you creepy is not proof of a crime, learn to brush that shit off and move on. Learn from your grandpappy r/seduction you need to approach irl if you want to meet real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:36 PM
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Do you meet women any way besides dating apps? There's a huge percentage of women that don't use them and honestly the way the odds are against men on them, men should frankly be protesting dating apps. You don't have to pay to play. Lots of women are hoping for their meet cute in a grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:33 PM
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I get that celebrities would experience that and that girls with lots of Instagram followers may seem plentiful (especially if you follow many of them) but like how common is that phenomenon actually in women overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:06 PM
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Never? Tons of hot celebrities like Tom Cruise are super short men with small frames. Men are absolutely allowed to look like that and I have found many men close to my height extremely physically attractive. Quit overvaluing the opinions of some shallow women on Tinder!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:24 AM
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Idk how anyone does long distance that shit is super hard. Could make a normal person crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:58 PM
2

Lmao I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:57 PM
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I'm sorry I hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:52 PM
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Baby face is hot cmv when that dude is 50 he will look 30
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:50 PM
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Yes they are different. They are the only circumstances you could love a being that didn't come from your jizz apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:44 PM
1

Are you saying Nihilism is mental illness? You been to college yet bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:29 PM
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I hear that. Thankfully for my show experience I never got around to playing the game although I probably will eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:17 PM
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I am so tired of this "ugly girl getting the hottest guy" myth ya'll believe.. A slutty guy may occasionally slip "down" / fuck a fat girl while drunk but overall there's a reason ugly girls are called ugly. They are not beautiful. Men prioritize beauty over all. No one says proudly "let me introduce my ugly wife Jane". Men may use or mess around with ugly girls, but they do not want them. You say you know what it is to be unwanted and yet you can't believe women can experience the same thing?? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:12 PM
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Ya'll need to watch Last of Us on HBO. Men, it's okay to love and care for a child that is not biologically yours. It's okay to have feelings and struggle. Men you are better than being obsessed with gEnEtIcS
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:59 PM
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Yep!! Not all men are assholes, but all men can be assholes. Also second the time wasting and fatigue with online dating. It's great to get matches and all but how am I supposed to find the time to chat with and vet hundreds of people?? After enough bad matches/dates you get jaded and then the men even start to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:29 PM
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Prius drivers are always either driving slow af/lost/confused/unable to merge or unhinged 105mph in the right lane with a tail light out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:19 PM
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I think you're giving them too much credit, fast food chains literally don't have to do anything but exist to make hella money. Just because most people are fat in the US doesn't mean everything is about them. What about ultra skinny girls? Girls with no tits or ass? They don't want to love their bodies too? Body positivity is about more than obese people if you open your eyes a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:49 PM
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In this sub this kind of comment needs a trigger warning! Make up haters inbound
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:08 PM
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From the article you posted a professor who studies masculinity says: Young men “are watching a lot of social media, they’re watching a lot of porn, and I think they’re getting a lot of their needs met without having to go out. And I think that’s starting to be a habit.” I'd say it's a combination of isolation fucking with men's social skills, chads cheating on multiple girlfriends, and women generally being okay dating older. Add that 25% LGBT group and I think it all adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:59 PM
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Damn that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:49 PM
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Big Ed goals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:16 PM
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As a society we're becoming so increasingly isolated, people are feeding you a false sense of reality through dating tik toks and other shit. That tik tok where a fat guy says a thin woman is unattractive is just ridiculous. The woman is clearly playing a dumb character on purpose but how many kids watched that and surmised that women are all just bimbos who talk like retarded children and wear slutty clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:35 PM
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Men, rise up. Fight the war machine itself. Refuse to be puppets for the rich fighting over land and oil. Fuck war and fuck the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:26 PM
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Yes, when romantic love dies and disappears it will then be as kinky as the busty nurse giving you a blowjob... Because they both are never going to happen. Rip Also fwiw this kind of ltr and wedding night porn already exists. You'll find it in the romance section of your local library. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:06 AM
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Omg yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:01 AM
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🔥💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:59 AM
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Ladies, if you didn't finish you don't have to add him to your body count!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:05 PM
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"Just ask" oh cool I was actually not looking for a boyfriend but to conduct an interview where you give one word answers!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:01 PM
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No. I also find it weird when platonic friends text me a selfie. Like... Why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:56 PM
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They want social proof that their idea is right because ohh look the majority agrees!! It will never work because most people driven to the red pill have unique circumstances and have not had a typical dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:55 PM
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Also known as the cool girl. She never talks back! She's always happy to do your chores! She likes sports and hanging with the guys! She's cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:53 PM
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Pro tip the more judgmental you are the more you are literally causing your own suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:49 PM
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Wrong. Inner game in a man has absolutely overcome my lack of physical attraction before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:17 AM
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Dude go anywhere, anytime, people are predicting the world to end. People said it when fiction novels were first mass printed, that it would decay young minds and ruin humanity. If you look at real statistics things are generally getting better with time. Same as it ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:21 PM
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My dick = adds value Other dick = ruins women Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:16 PM
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You don't know the c word gets you an insta 1 day ban?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:13 PM
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Huh? Sounds like if a woman shows interest you find her unattractive? Low self esteem or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:12 PM
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Eh idk. Literally don't care about breeders
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:07 PM
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Don't worry I got the idea from China. They killed so many baby girls that none of their men can find a woman to jizz their name onto
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:01 PM
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I thought you were gonna link "if we ever broke up I'd never be sad". That song didn't catch me in 6 seconds it's probably gonna fail
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:59 PM
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Ugh ew so gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:56 PM
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If a man breaks up with his long term girlfriend who wants kids he should pay her for the reproductive time lost to her pointless endeavor with him then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:54 PM
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The first time I just got tired of being lectured. It was my first relationship I had always been so desperate for a boyfriend. Unfortunately I realized he only drained me and never once complimented me or anything, might as well be alone really. The second time people were literally asking me why the fuck I was with him. Much hotter men kept hitting me up. I was told by multiple people to stop dating down and that I deserved better. I still think my standards are too low if you could really see…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:04 AM
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Seriously so true. I live in a city where the obesity rate is very low and I'm so confused by all this talk about only 20% being attractive because I'd say (within my age range) I find like 60% of dudes are a smash for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:52 PM
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There's nothing you can do. The term incel was literally invented by a woman and I've had men insist it's impossible that I was an incel for a while. Emo used to be a specific music genre (think taking back Sunday) and then the world found the word and started using it to just mean sad or someone wearing black. I used to rage about it and fight for it. People are gonna do what they want and the English language is always changing words. If you look up literally in the dictionary it also means fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:37 PM
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It's usually not debate it's just arguing. In an actual debate situation people are often assigned to debate for ideas they don't actually agree with and there's standards for what constitutes evidence for an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:23 PM
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Why don’t women just be honest with themselves and the men they choose and only accept offers from men that turn them on by sight alone? It only takes doing this with a few bad apples to make you realize good looks doesn't make a good person. Sure he's fun when you're drunk at the bar and he's sexy, so you get closer and spend more time with him. Then you start to see how he actually lives his day to day life. It doesn't matter how hot he is, when he starts acting like an incompetent spoiled chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah when the hot man throws a temper tantrum because cooking a grilled cheese was taking too long and flings the food and pan across the kitchen and walks out... Suddenly he's not very hot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:24 PM
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That's great and you seem cool, I know it's not all men but as a woman who approaches a lot I've had some weird reactions. Including guys who would later come to chase me after rejecting me initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:16 AM
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They usually don't say it, but many men deep down don't believe they deserve love and so when a woman shows interest they think she must be an idiot or desperate or have some secret flaw. If you're a pretty boy you probably have never been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:11 AM
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Sure I'd be down. If it meant men would stop harassing women I would take the workload of approaching. I mean as is I've been the initiator in majority of my relationships. However, men would also have to stop stigmatizing it or assuming there must be something wrong with her if she's so "desperate" to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:05 AM
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He was condescending as hell, full on know it all with an ego to match. The first 2 years together I think how enamored I was/just happy to be in my first real relationship obscured that he actually really clashed with me (I'm also a know it all) and when my honeymoon heart eyes faded I realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:09 AM
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Omg every time I mention appearance... I NEVER SAID LOOKS DO NOT MATTER.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:38 PM
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Most women do prioritize other traits like personality when it comes to long term relationships. I was often told while young that looks aren't everything when it comes to a long term relationship. Men in this subreddit are the ones touting the super shallow women stereotype so maybe you should ask them, after all they know the truth and women are just liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:14 PM
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Preface: SAYING THAT LOOKS ARE NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING DOES NOT MEAN I'M SAYING THAT LOOKS DON'T MATTER AT ALL please try to understand my point before jumping to the easiest to attack conclusion All the men blabbing about looks are missing so hard. Let's be real, who honestly expects the Chad to settle down and raise kids?? No way. At best he's paying for nannies of the women he knocked up but he's not gonna be a good father, he's always gonna be waiting for the next hot chick to bang. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:03 PM
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OP is so close yet so far, he says at one point "The thinking is extremely one dimensional and lacking critical thought" like he's almost got it cmon realize there's nuance in life cmon please ya'll
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:21 PM
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It depends on who it's better for. Most men have negative empathy for the issue but rejecting someone sucks and it's hard because usually they didn't do anything that bad. I hate having to tell someone who was otherwise nice that I'm just not attracted, and I've dated guys I didn't like way longer than I should out of straight up guilt or thinking maybe I'll become attracted with time... Then there's always the chance that a guy will start insulting you after you've rejected him, which hurts. Fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:38 PM
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Using twox is a strawman. I literally posted its fine I don't care about Leo like last week here bro lots of women agreed that consenting adults are free to be, you new here? Open your eyes reasonable normal woman exist, stop letting some psycho separatist feminists represent all women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:30 PM
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For real they're like "all western women are fucking demons" and then they're like surprised Pikachu face oh no why are women mad at me??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:27 PM
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I look at it a different way. People irl seem so much nicer and reasonable after being here. I'll bring up dating issues irl and everyone is so kind open and understanding compared to the negative shit on here. Ppd is like a bad dream, when you wake up life seems kinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:08 PM
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Being nice is gay duh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:05 PM
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Damn I thought guys didn't like starfish girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:51 PM
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You missed the part where girls go gaga for emotional intelligence in men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:39 PM
2

Sneakers go squeak squeak
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:38 PM
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Bruh chads don't let you call them boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:29 PM
2

The surveyor was a hot woman and suddenly many more men were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:29 PM
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Neon hair colors. Heavy make up. They can't stop bitching about that shit even when NOBODY ASKED lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:24 PM
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Men: I want a low n count woman only Women: okay, that's fi- Men: it's because women who sleep around are damaged goods, they have mental health issues and are probably drug addicted. Women: wtf no Men: OMG WHYYY do women attack me for me preferences???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:23 PM
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The confirmation bias is strong in this one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:01 PM
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I'm surprised the amount of 18-29 men being single is so high! Like every guy I know is fucking at least 3 girls if he's not taken! Sound familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:39 PM
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No, I don't care about that. I wasn't joking when I said I'm interested in adopting. If I did fall in that 10% I'd consider the kid lucky enough for not getting my mental illness genes. If you were in a committed relationship with a woman for years, get pregnant, then ask for a paternity test, don't you see you're literally accusing her of cheating and saying you don't believe the word of the woman you're about to have raise your children?? Guess what, most women I've seen confronted this way ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:37 PM
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Every girl you know is taken?? Sounds like you have ugly girl blinders on or all your "friends" are Instagram thots you follow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:24 PM
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Isn't it funny how random people online seem to think that they know the "rules" and only their version of the rules is correct? Isn't it funny how one dude can walk around thinking his beliefs of the day (he read on a niche community being banned half the places it shows up online) are universal rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:21 PM
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There was no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:16 PM
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Ok this is the chat thread why is everyone so sensitive? Jeez lil snowflakes can't handle good points huh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:15 PM
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I would never knock up a woman if there was any reason to doubt her fidelity. Try picking better 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:14 PM
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No that's not ok. But that's also pretty rare. I understand it's trending, the article ya'll read must have been really scary!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:30 AM
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Idk I'd rather adopt anyways what's so bad about raising a kid that's not theirs? Obsessed with yourself much? :p
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:29 AM
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I'm probably gonna forget what day it is and do nothing. My brain goes Monday - Sunday and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:24 AM
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I will say I have actually known men that were truly Nice. Good with mothers, sweet, thoughtful, and passionate about your body lumps and hairs and all... Unfortunately if you hear someone has to say "... , but I'm a nice guy" idk they could just be an asshole..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:23 AM
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Yeah if Netflix kicks me off my parents account I'm not paying for it!! Literally would miss nothing since they lost so much good shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:19 AM
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Hey man don't feel too down. Statistics is hard maybe someone fucked up those numbers, did anyone double check their math?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:15 AM
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Ok girl bye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:13 AM
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This just in men, embrace the feminine, love your companions friends and all. May you find fulfillment in life through simpler things than a perfect woman for your ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:13 AM
1

I'm just upset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:10 AM
1

I was vegetarian for 9 years then I changed my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:09 AM
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Yes also we should universally log all male DNA and then paternity test all children and automatically deduct child care payments from their bank accounts 👍 Edit: this would also mean we could DNA test crime scenes and lock up all male criminals 👍😎 all problems solved checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:08 AM
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Look I personally don't think what Leo is doing is wrong. I'd argue that even younger ages of consent are okay like 17, they're naive but still pretty much able to make decisions for themselves. Maybe not the best ones but even old people fumble that ball. However, imagine he was just your uncle. Yeah Uncle Leo is plenty nice and always sends money on Xmas but every few years he just dates another younger girl. Eventually you would hear people talking shit that it's creepy and judging him for it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:22 AM
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Uhh I am a girl so we don't grind each other??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:46 PM
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Idk how to grind lol but I'd guess just let the girl do the work...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:48 PM
2

Yeah I'm a fucking horrible dancer too.. I used to think I hated dancing but really what I hated was how self conscious I was. When I listen to music home alone I love to dance it's fun! Also, when someone likes you they just think it's cute that you're dorky at worst, most likely they don't even notice. If you are enjoying the music no one is going to care if you're bad. If you're clearly trying super hard to dance "good" or do certain moves when you suck, sure that can be cringe. If you just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:28 PM
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Lmao you don't give a shit about babies. There's literally children right now being abused in a foster home because some girl who got raped put them up for adoption but nobody wanted her rape baby. So sad you let the government make you into their little propaganda pawn, grow a pair already
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:00 PM
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He's really just a party pooper who wouldn't dance with a hot babe at a party lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:58 PM
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Go meet girls in a book club if you're such a stick in the mud you're not gonna shine at parties man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:57 PM
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Sounds like she was just upset you didn't go dance with her bro. Have a few drinks and loosen up I used to be very "ahem no I do not dance" but then I realized it's dumb and fun and who cares what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:53 PM
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No one should have that power dude it's a medical procedure that saves lives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:50 AM
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Okay that person is blatantly wrong, but low key if they're a repeat casual sex partner you can just fucking trick them into loving you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:51 PM
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Literally millions of series of biological accidents over the eons. 👍 Don't overthink it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:48 PM
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The most I've ever wanted is the boy kids meal at McDonald's man. You can keep the power it only turns ya evil
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:47 PM
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Well, for example, if a woman didn't need you to provide income/get a better citizenship, then you'd know since there's no need she probably is around because she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:38 PM
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Men out here: western women are trash! Western women: woah fuck you buddy Men out here: OMG WHY do u always make this about u geeezzz I only talked about how much I hate western women for half the post!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:31 PM
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Yes, studies have shown that given a trait like gender there is always more variation within the group than between groups overall. Very controversial take here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:27 PM
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It's even worse than you think. Less and less women are forced to settle or even feel pressured to settle. More and more women no longer fit the superficial money driven trope you think is "women." The men who settled for a woman that only liked him for his money have since lost it in divorce court and are now brainwashing young men to hate women and swear them off entirely. As romantic relationships slowly die, men online screech about dating overseas like it's a threat when we all wish you wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:12 PM
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If you feel tricked, watch a few makeup tutorial videos. Once you understand it you can instantly notice it on people. It's very obvious especially when you're familiar with the process and effects before and after.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:53 AM
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My boyfriend actually hates makeup on women because he doesn't like the look. He is very vocal about it when a woman has too much lipstick or eye make up. When the make up comes off he will always find the woman prettier. That's his preference. Men, if you feel let down when she takes the make up off, doesn't that mean you actually liked how she looked better with it on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:51 AM
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Yeah it literally is the biggest cock block to have low self esteem. If you don't think you have value how are you gonna believe/take seriously a woman saying she likes you? It's just like if you look lost people will ask you why you're there but if you're carrying a clipboard and walking with purpose nobody questions you. Inner game ya'll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:45 AM
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Look, I know for a fact that a robot could be trained to be the perfect girlfriend easily. I don't think we're far from ai beings that are very realistic and even better because they don't have personal problems or bad moods. Would it really be enough though just wondering? I've seen other men here say that part of what's great about snagging a live woman is that a real woman actually likes you, in other words the human validation...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:31 AM
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Some men with a baby face actually do look more attractive when they're a bit older, I'd say 35 is probably peak. I do agree that majority look hottest in their 20s but for the guys who still look 16 when they're 24, aging actually does benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:43 PM
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Ooh you're so close. Yes dating "down" is a dumb idea because all people have different ideas of what "up" is and all people bring different perks to the table. The problem with the West is media feeds off of engagement and turns everything it can into man vs woman, blue vs red, rich vs poor, because it pisses people off and they click and comment and fight each other while the few in power laugh and count their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:30 PM
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Hey I'm very aware that my sex puppet maid men only clean my house and do all my chores only because that means they've earned sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:07 AM
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Look, Western countries suck especially for certain types of people. The US is priveleged but also still deeply flawed. There will be pros and cons to moving to another country and it would be hard.. There will be things about women there you may be surprised by, good or bad.. Idk man. A lot of women will date down to get to a "good" country like the US... it's literally made into reality TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:00 AM
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I'm sorry but there seems to be very few women left on the app?... Many use Hinge bc they're not looking for hookups and men on here are constantly saying how they never get matches except for sex bots. There are tons of real women in the world who want to meet a man but just don't enjoy the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:33 AM
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Hey man depending on the guy it could work. Best tip I can give is don't make it a date right away, if a girl is into you she'll be even more into you if she's unsure if you really like her. Just ask them to hang out and if they bring friends be chill, meet people and eventually you can find someone you actually like too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:27 AM
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Are we really letting Tinder define ugly now? It's literally just an app made by a company who only wants to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:38 AM
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Yep! Different people have different preferences. Idk why that's such a controversial take on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:05 AM
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Bro that is literally extremely obvious. Aside from warning others of actually violent/dangerous criminals/scam artists your whole "rate this guy" website idea is pretty horrible and will only attract horrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:00 AM
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Decent guys hurt women's feelings unintentionally all the time. Dating is not an objective act, you could act the same and have one woman love it while another fucking hates it and writes a nasty review.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:13 PM
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Yeah I actually have to take breaks from cpmmenting in here because of the overwhelming negativity :/ for all the relationship talk there isn't a lot of love going around...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:05 PM
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Because I am not the only woman. I constantly read what they write and listen to what they say!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:29 AM
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Believe it or not, I love men. I say let them go and build their town, hope it's nice, but I am happy to work with and live with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:27 AM
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Ty for the breath of fresh air! I literally love so many men. Why would I want to cut out like half the people in my life??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:24 AM
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Who the fuck is vacuuming the curtains every day? That's literally pointless and would waste so much time. Sounds like just an easy scapegoat to prove your point. As a messy bitch I choose to live with men who don't care that I'm messy. A lot of these men actually refuse to do ANY chores ever and will blatantly say "I don't clean". They'd rather pay a cleaning lady to do it all. I'm saying I'm a total slob and I don't fucking care if they don't clean. It's still true most men expect women to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:08 PM
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Bro you seem confused good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:02 PM
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That's not necessarily true. Just that most men expect women to do the majority of chores
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:56 PM
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It's so annoying that every time I mention pathetic babies people think I'm personally attacking them or all men....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:54 PM
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As horrible as FDS is and I agree that humans of all kinds can be horrible, I am personally much more haunted by things like that AskReddit thread where men confessed to casually raping dozens of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:03 PM
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"I agree" "well fuck you you're wrong"....?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:48 PM
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Nowadays as a woman on the internet, I have learned more disgusting and horrible opinions and ideas that men have than I ever wished. I imagine before the internet I would have had more optimism about men. Now when I meet men irl I wonder what depraved shit he's into online where no one knows his name. High value men never existed we just didn't know how fucked up they were on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:46 PM
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How can you expect women to want more children when their boyfriend has already become a child in need of constant care?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:39 PM
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Yes when men succeed they must always push women down and walk on them. What the fuck is that what you actually think? All men just want to oppress and control women? WHY would you possibly think women would ever like men if that were true?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:37 PM
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If they can't imply some sort of arbitrary category to maleness like alpha or beta trp don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:07 AM
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Yeah they just wanted a name for how much they think about the other men in women's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:06 AM
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It's wordmaxxing bro don't be beta
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:58 AM
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The best shit test is life, no manipulation required. How does he react when he gets a flat tire? If I have something urgent come up and have to cancel a date how does he react? These moments of stress can tell you a lot about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:03 PM
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What if you can't remember how many 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:48 PM
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I mean if the boy always cries wolf... You right except women will probably know. I have just learned to assume all men who don't have pictures of them towering over others are short. I don't really care if he's short I've met many very attractive little guys (think Michael Reeves) but when he obviously lied about it by saying he's 5'8" when he's 5'5"... Idk I just think the deception/lying is kind of ugly behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:46 PM
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As a woman who's been in that craze: do both of ya'll a favor and cut her off. Tell her you never want to be friends or get back together very directly. Then block her and go no contact. Nothing else will stop it... Unless you like having a girl crazy clingy begging to talk it out over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:39 PM
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Oh sorry I forgot to act in line with the monolith. I guess not all women are like that huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:36 PM
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"The women are destroying the west!" he screamed from his comfortable bedroom with full amenities, lots of food, and ample entertainment to chose from. Meanwhile in the "east" and other countries people starve and die of preventable diseases. But yeah it's the west who is really struggling :( poor you and first world problems
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:23 PM
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To conquer the people they must be divided. It is much easier for those in power if men and women blame/fight each other while the fat cats sit on billions and men and women blame each other for the problems actually caused by how fucked unregulated capitalism has left society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:09 PM
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If women are stupid children and they're responsible enough to take care of men's every need then where does that leave men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:43 PM
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I thought women didn't like nice guys? Why would they want someone genuine and honest? Heavy make up types of women are usually into dudes who get into fights and shit if we're just wildly generalizing here. They don't fucking care if he's honest they care if he's a tough strong man or whatever bs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:03 AM
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Gonna add I've only ever dated men who approached me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:19 PM
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You are the reason for your own suffering! Your illogical and incorrect beliefs are causing your own pain. Congrats your problems are fixable but I'm sorry your attitude seems beyond changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:18 PM
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Remember: never try just take the blackpill and wait for death! Great advice /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:17 PM
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Seriously theyre like well I missed the first attempt better give up forever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:16 PM
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How about stop letting random women remove you of your agency. Just because some 21 year old at the club said ew to you once, you're going to let her speak for all women??? Just because a Stacy whined men are gonna lock themselves inside and never try again? Cmon you can't let any random persons shit opinion change your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:13 PM
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I think purging misogynistic and hateful spaces online is a great thing. Who is purging male spaces? Are you saying a few incel subreddits are all that makes up male space?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:24 AM
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Very true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:37 PM
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Q4M: if you wish you were tall, then don't you wish your dad was tall? Then don't you understand why women would chose tall mates? Blame your mom for your shortness because she needed to pIcK bEtTeR
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:02 PM
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Good luck with that idea. This subreddit believes only men can be different. Men are not all murderers but women are a monolith of whores with perfect easy lives. There's literally no point trying to argue that humans are individuals with different perspectives on this subreddit unless you want downvotes (also against subreddit rules so thanks again ppd boys).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:54 PM
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And of course, men are not responsible for being horrible men. They are victims because the women picked them. This is how you sound bud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:46 PM
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Don't paint all women with the same brush your dumb friend uses sheesh. It's not all women's fault you have shit taste in friends apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:12 AM
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No no no if you're not just opening your legs in the street and let whatever man fuck you you're voluntarily celibate even if you really want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:10 AM
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Meanwhile she's fucking a sneaker male
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:44 PM
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Bro if you can't understand it there's literally no point talking to you it's like shouting at an annoying wall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:24 PM
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If you're asking in the context of being attractive they're probably equal, but I think rock climbing is more social so ultimately better. The rock climbing gyms in urban areas can be poppin with young people as well as rock climbing areas outdoors too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:44 AM
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It makes sense the vocal minority of women alone would be most prominent online and on Reddit..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:18 AM
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Rock climbing is attractive and good exercise and a great way to meet babes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:14 AM
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I think there are two things going on. One being how society in general now isolates people and the other being mental illness often distorts how an individual perceives reality. At my worst depression I was certain I would be forever alone because I was hideously ugly. Turns out I was wrong and mostly just overweight and depressed (it made me very bitter and antisocial).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:06 AM
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Ahh ok I thought you were saying the apps were 1:1 my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:20 AM
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You new here?? Lol I'm too lazy to Google it for you but there's tons of evidence out recently that dating apps are huge huge huge majority men. Saying shit like "oh no the ratios are even" is misleading and may make young men think it's easier than it is. So congrats you're contributing to male suicide rates!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:39 PM
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They're also invisible to op still lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:23 PM
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Bruh did you even read the comment?? Any woman can get a man to use her for the hole in her legs. That is not love or a relationship or even necessarily a nice thing for the woman. So she's still not "getting" a man, she's just getting his penis for a few minutes. Get it??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:20 PM
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Men irl = understand anyone can have trouble dating even women The woman who invented the term incel =....... Men online = Femcels aren't real, women never tell the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:16 PM
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Did you know the term incel was created by a "female" woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:14 PM
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How is an app with 9 men per 1 woman a foot in the door? Seems more like a line to maybe get to the door. I know meeting people in this society really sucks but even though I've had tons of flings from tinder my long term relationships have only ever been people I met irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:19 PM
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It's because even in their desire to raise another human life it is ultimately a selfish pursuit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:19 PM
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What women are holding out for Mr perfect? I've seen way more women say they're just not dating because the effort is not worth it. I've seen way more women say they're just happy alone and enjoying their life as is not waiting for a man to make them happy. There is no Mr perfect no sane adult woman would fucking say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:17 PM
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I bet if I said "I dumped him because I met a taller man" you would have had NO DOUBT I was being completely honest even though I would be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:05 PM
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1) I'm not your ex 2) sounds like because of one woman you now can't believe what any other woman says?? If somehow women can't ever know or speak the truth why speak to them at all??? Honestly no offense but I find this sentiment on here really common and incredibly disrespectful. I am a human taking time to respond to you, I am being honest. If you don't believe me go circlejerk with some blackpill boys don't waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:17 PM
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Because you all got suckered into Western beauty ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:57 AM
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Does anyone understand the last paragraph/sentence? Where are the low N women seething? Wouldn't they be happy that men are calling promiscuous women whores unworthy of their oh so valuable dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:53 AM
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Yeah I honestly feel like despite technology being cool and all there's something very isolating about modern society.. It sucks but women can feel it too. I've struggled to date in the past and still struggle to this day to find good friends and people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:37 AM
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Just certain flaws he had really clashed with me after living with him for a while. It was hard because he was great in so many ways, but ultimately his know it all condescending matter really began to grate at me (I am also kind of an ass/know it all juat saying) and it just was no longer working. The event that drove me was he flaked on a family trip that was really important to me and just said he "forgot to take a day off work"... He wasn't a doctor or anything he could have just called out.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:23 AM
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Dude there's been a few incel school shooters I see where I'm like.... How is he an incel who killed himself out of loneliness if he's low key kinda sexy?? If that dude approached me at a party and had a bare minimum of social skills I would have fucked his brains out. However, if that dude believes he's ugly there's no helping him and if I hit on him he'd think it was a prank or turn it around and assume something must be wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:49 PM
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Just like how I find it hard to believe that these men are actually "walled off" from women like they complain. I believe that is just a symptom of their untreated mental illness; they are not seeing reality clearly which also makes them extremely difficult to convince otherwise or even have a discussion with about dating (see: most blackpill men). At my worst mental health I literally had the same thoughts - that I was forever ugly and forever doomed to be alone. I deeply believed it. Turns out…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:46 PM
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I will discuss what I want in general (fling vs long term etc) but I will not discuss what traits I like in a man. I want to date someone I genuinely like as he is. If someone has to change themselves to appeal to me (or thinks that they do) then it's not going to be a good match. Going to a ballet once a year because I like ballet is NOT what I mean that's totally fine and nice. I want to date an independent human who feels comfortable enough to disagree with me, not a simp constantly going "wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:30 PM
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I have met tons of young men who were plenty handsome to me, then they open their mouth about how everyone hates them and thinks they're ugly. For the record this is VERY UNATTRACTIVE. if I'm gonna constantly have to cheerleader you out of your mental health issues my pussy dries up. Sorry. This advice for confidence is for those men. Men have imposed ridiculously high standards of appearance in this subreddit as truth for themselves, which is unfortunate because many women compromise on appeara…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:19 PM
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If you're in sf I can introduce you to my ex I dated for 2 years who was overweight and frequently mistaken for a homeless man trying to butt in when brought to my friends gatherings. I spent 2 years of people shaming me for not "doing better" and asking what the fuck I saw in him. Maybe if society wants girls to date down more they should all stop going "omg how did he get you??? What do you see in him???" over casual conversation. I loved him a lot and found him very attractive and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:50 PM
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I just wish we could call it r/purplepillscreeching since there's not much legitimate debating happening except by a few level headed individuals. In a debate class I once took people frequently had to make arguments they didn't agree with. Most of the time it seems like "debating" as done here only entrenches people further in their beliefs and most here are not actually questioning or opening their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:55 PM
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"just ask" oh cool I was looking for an interview subject! Another personal fave is "no drama"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:52 AM
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How are men oppressed into homelessness exactly? Wtf stats showing general trends don't prove anything, meanwhile you just attack anyone who uses your own method (just your words no proof) going "see they have no proof!" while you also have no proof. Pretty useless post. I'm still really struggling to see how men are actually oppressed? These issues like having preferences shamed just don't feel unique to men at all. Does anyone actually have proof for male oppression or just weird statistics th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:37 PM
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Pandas are from China but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:48 AM
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Is the blue pill a straw man? Since it's seen as the negative choice in the Matrix where you choose to believe actual lies, why would anyone arguing against the red pill call themselves blue pill? Isnt that just admitting that being against trp is the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:43 AM
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That's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:39 PM
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It's kinda arrogant how many men openly say on here they know women/dating very well, and yet they post shit like this which is clearly just a thinly veiled rant on how much you personally despise women despite desperately craving the hole between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:03 PM
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No no no it's because a few chads are stealing all the women!! Women are just like men because I'm a man and that's my only experience so it must also be everyone else's,!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:36 PM
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All the women having casual sex you mean. Which is a small percent. But go ahead and keep telling yourself a few chads are fucking the entire population lmao sounds hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:33 PM
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Dude that's just sad :/ how is a girl supposed to enjoy your presence in her life if you can barely finish to her once because she's not a rotating orgy of porn stars???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:30 PM
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Most men don't understand that the women sleeping around casually is a very small percent of women sleeping with many other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:27 PM
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Yeah I agree you should chill out a little, no need to be so smug.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:58 PM
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Metabolism slowing down with age is more or less a myth. It's a very small amount, like 5% that happens only due to age. Most middle aged weight gain is due to loss of muscle mass and the American diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:09 PM
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Nice straw woman she could actually be made of straws 10/10 for shit head predictably accurate worthless response
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:10 AM
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Seriously according to the men on here I'm literally lying when I say I've been attracted to obese and short men before. They just call me fat and a liar. A) I'm not fat and B) I thought fat girls were too busy fucking ripped 6'0" handsome men?? Ppd men pick an argument plz
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:01 PM
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Then you agree with me that average and unattractive men can get laid since women do enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:20 PM
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Ok BRB applying for ceo of Twitter ima let you know how it goes also can I borrow 44 billion thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:03 PM
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If sex is a need, men need to find an outlet besides women. Ultimately I think that's what the power difference is - men on here constantly say sex with a human woman is a need. I don't find it to be the same for women. It creates all the power in dating that women have, simply because women more often than men will not settle and will wait for someone who is actually attractive and interesting. I think the real truth is there's generalizations and then there's reality where lots of unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:17 PM
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What are we gonna do about Big Feminism controlling society??? You know how 95% of top earning ceos are men right? Yep that's actually because Big Feminism is ruling the world!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:55 PM
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Ah yes big feminism is ruling society!! LMAO CLOWN ON DUM DUM
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:53 PM
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You know me makes me unhappy? (What's that?) When brothas make babies And leave a young mother to be a pappy (oh, yeah, yeah, yeah) And since we all came from a woman Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman (yeah, yeah) I wonder why we take from our women Why we rape our women, do we hate our women? (Why? Why?) I think it's time to kill for our women (why? Why? Why? Why?) Time to heal our women, be real to our women And if we don't we'll have a race of babies That will hate the ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:50 AM
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You know me makes me unhappy? (What's that?) When brothas make babies And leave a young mother to be a pappy (oh, yeah, yeah, yeah) And since we all came from a woman Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman (yeah, yeah) I wonder why we take from our women Why we rape our women, do we hate our women? (Why? Why?) I think it's time to kill for our women (why? Why? Why? Why?) Time to heal our women, be real to our women And if we don't we'll have a race of babies That will hate the ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:48 AM
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Woah, almost like there's more to attraction than these generic standards about height and looks. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:26 AM
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Right?? Men low key admitting they are using women when they call them used up for dating men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:15 AM
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Fr I have NEVER been refused for first date sex lmao where are these men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:13 AM
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Weak men don't know what a real strong man looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:15 PM
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So are all the men who say sex with a woman is a NEED also made of straw? Because they have Reddit accounts and won't shut up about how much they need a woman not even to be happy but as a base need to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:59 PM
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It's in this chat thread someone crying about Kanye being censored. God forbid the megalomaniac doesn't have someone to listen to his retard ravings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:04 PM
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YouTube is not where free speech happens you fucking retard it's a business
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:02 PM
1

Yeah, it is really sad how stupid humanity is has gotten they can't understand what free speech means. Good thing you're fighting for the little guy, Kanye. oh wait he IS ONE OF THE BILLIONAIRES aiming to enslave us you fucking clown retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:01 PM
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Love this subreddit, where people feel like expressing their Nazi desires for mass genocide of a race is "free speech." sure, you can freely speak your retarded ideas about what's right behind bars you fucking psychopaths. Fuck this subreddit someone ban me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:50 PM
1

Found the Nazi!! What do I win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:48 PM
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I'm sorry but the whole video is already online. What censorship? I've watched the whole thing already and I didn't even have to go to wherever Alex Jones posts them. You think you can just make something go away on the internet??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah, I find that creepy that a man could marry a woman, say he loves her, then just turn cold and abandon her because she's sick and needs more help than ever. It gives me the creeps to imagine I can never know for sure if a man means it when he says I love you and I'll stay with you. Idk how you can't understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:00 PM
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But more men do it. It's a significant finding I've seen in multiple journals. Why are you trying to sweep truth under the rug? You only ally yourself with those creeps by defending them. Why even waste time talking to an idiot woman like me who knows nothing? Just abandon me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:51 PM
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Based on your broken English I'm going to assume you're just not in a western country, but here in western countries women can work and make their own money. My mother would have lost money in a divorce due to being the breadwinner. Women aren't just jobless housewives in modern countries fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:42 PM
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Cool feelings, but this is a debate forum. More men abandon their gf/wife when she gets sick than vice versa. How is that accountability???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:18 PM
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Lol ya'll would simp so hard if you knew me irl but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:49 PM
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Awww did I trigger you? Haha that makes me happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:25 PM
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Any bitch can buy any of those. Raise your standards bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:24 PM
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I don't give a shit about my last name, as a woman if it were important to my husband I'd lose it. It's really not a big deal. Who cares? Oh wait, you do. Kind of unattractive sorry. Men who are uncompromising on such a trivial concept aren't worth marrying either. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:21 PM
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Oh yeah that's right women don't ever kill themselves or suffer mental illness! Ha ha we are so lucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:16 PM
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They exist. The obsession with "success" and having 6 PhDs and 3 mansions and being a ceo with 67 hobbies who also constantly travels and has 237892 friends is so gross to me. I just wanna chill at home. I am very happy with my unambitious man. Don't let anyone tell you you have to be some fucking success obsessed work horse. There is so much more to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:03 PM
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If you're not gonna believe it when women say "this happened to me multiple times" why the fuck would I believe there's any point trying to change your view. Pointless thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:58 PM
3

Yes, cold approaching and directly asking is bad game. It's like hey random person, ready to decide on our dating future by your first impression based only on my looks and this one sentence I said to you in which I ask you out? It's human nature to be weirded out by a stranger whose first question to you is essentially "can we be together" like woah woah slow down don't you want to get to know me first? Haven't you seen that video where a stunning hot woman asks random men on the street to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:54 PM
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Spoiler his sample size is probably under half a dozen. I'm so tired of people trying to draw conclusions about dating as a whole from a small handful of experiences they had in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:28 PM
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Because he's a man you've decided he's worth nothing. Wtf flip the genders idiot see how evil you sound. No shit I don't need a man, but I want one. Unlike you, I like people for more than just their genitalia. Men are humans they have value. Fuck off you piece of shit bigot burn in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:16 PM
1

Holy sexism Batman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:31 PM
1

You've got a pretty bad logical fallacy going there. If 95 percent of plane crashes are due to planes, why would anyone use planes? Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:47 PM
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There's mean idiots who insult each other of all genders. This subreddit has a problem with it. I don't like that op even mentioned she was a woman because it instantly makes most of this subreddit discredit everything she says, you as case in point. If this was a post by a man about women throwing insults, you'd probably be clapping and saying how it really is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:05 PM
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Sure, but the reality is women who say they don't like tall men are just called liars. I'm all for people liking what they like. Just don't try to tell me what I like, it's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:00 PM
1

Sorry but if your preference is to insult/deny rather than debate points with logical/persuasive arguments, it's cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:12 PM
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Ultimately it's just really sad. I've also been called an "extreme outlier" for saying things like I love men and I value men. Like holy shit my dudes, who hurt you so much that your self esteem is so low you don't even think you deserve love???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:05 PM
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Omg you're literally proving her point, taking a general comment and turning it into a personal attack. Even if she did say something like that about men, why do you care? Because you're taking it personally. She didn't say YOU are a lil boy, did she? But you're taking it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:02 PM
1

??? Negative visualization is very helpful for gratitude and being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:19 PM
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Gotta love how men can be the victim while also being the perpetrators and yet you still just hate women. Men will beat your ass in the street for a few dollars and you'll be screeching through your bloodied teeth about how women have it easier. Don't you realize we also get attention from the same evil men if not more so? Idk what criminal circle you run in that is sparing women, here's some pats on the back for how cool and kind wow, but it sounds like a bunch of bullshit. Why did my mom and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:16 PM
1

Basically everyone quit except people who would lose their US visa without the job...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:17 AM
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Seriously that man is oppressing himself with that wall of text no one's gonna read that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:14 AM
1

Don't worry bro some girl is gonna love watching you nut one day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:11 AM
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Yep it works both ways too. Things got way easier when I just remember that every man who can is likely sleeping with every woman he can, and many act very sweet to make up for it. Just life things. Makes the ones who actually stick around you a pleasant surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:09 AM
3

My man did you reply to the wrong thread here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:08 AM
0

You know women get mugged just for their money like men all the time right??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:31 AM
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Most were never poly, they were just looking for open relationships. Now that the term "ethically non monogamous" has taken off I almost never see people say they're poly anymore. I do think monogamy is outdated and mostly limiting. I probably just have shitty people in my life but I can't think of one married couple that is happy. They might act nice around their kids but deep down you can see they're just sick of each other. :/ I never want someone to feel like even though they hate me now the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:14 PM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:07 PM
1

Omg that's my favorite one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:07 PM
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Downvoting is against this subreddit rules... Maybe read them if you can!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:06 PM
3

More evident for go outside and touch grass ya'll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:46 PM
1

Yeah that's literally how capitalism works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:45 PM
3

Yeah in college a kid I knew got raped while drunk and everyone just laughed and high five him. Fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:44 PM
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Who in this subreddit is downvoting me for talking about diet soda?? Like wtf how can that even trigger someone who cares. Get a life ya'll people have free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:42 PM
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She's a 10 but she's addicted to diet soda. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:45 AM
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So fuckin true! The men who think they can math themselves into being attractive are really missing out. I've been attracted to some weird ass dudes for some very hard to identify reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:39 PM
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Healthcare and basic human rights would be cool tho. I'm not asking for much. Idk why people argue with me on these points, like you realize you're just siding with the billionaires, the fascists, the slave drivers right? Have fun in college while you still have v little responsibilities bb! So cute I didn't realize I was talking to an actual baby. Call me when your dreams die then we can have an actual discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:24 PM
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Why can't you have even an ounce of sympathy?? Can you stop being a debate lord and try to be a human for a fucking minute? My point is the American dream is a fucking joke. If it's real then why aren't you a billionaire already?? Where's your capital??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:16 PM
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Because I live here. Sure this country has been great... To my grandpa's generation. He supported a wife and 9 kids and bought a house to fit all of them on one entry level income. I got a college degree, tons of debt, will never be able to afford a home, and definitely can't afford kids. I can't even imagine how much worse I'd have it if I were black or brown or actually impoverished. My grandpa didn't work harder he just got luckier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:07 PM
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Your lack of outrage as to what fools have done to the word literally is pretty disappointing ngl. Idk why you're simping so hard for the US, unless you're a billionaire they don't give a shit about you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:54 PM
2

Aww can't use Google bb? Here u go INFORMAL used for emphasis or to express strong feeling while not being literally true. "I was literally blown away by the response I got"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah who needs voting! Fascism all the way!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:45 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:41 PM
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Literally can mean figuratively though so I'm confused at your point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:41 PM
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You'd be simping if you knew me irl lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:40 PM
3

Hey ppd is this u https://youtu.be/TjKoGrJ-FuY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:39 PM
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The United States is not a country, it's a few corporations in a trenchcoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:36 PM
3

Mutually assured destruction won't make much money. Better to keep selling small arms and fighting normal little wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:35 PM
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Who cares we don't need any of them there's literally billions of humans already festering over this planet fighting for resources. Gotta love all the "pro life" clowns who ignore the living breathing children suffering in the foster system right now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:48 AM
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There's literally a thread today about things that are supposed to to be attractive that they don't find attractive... Heavy muscle guys and strong square jawline was on there. Also women aren't as superficial as trp screeches, it's just a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:38 AM
0

Any man can be a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:41 PM
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Why is everybody so obsessed with trivial shit like abortion is preventing so many babies from living. You know what's really killing future babies?? The economy. It's so fucking expensive just to exist, how am I gonna pay for a whole second person's existence??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:38 PM
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Biggest family destroying policy is definitely nothing to do with dumb pill dating rhetoric. If you wanna know why families are in decline, you gotta ask why 1 man can't afford to buy a house and support a stay at home wife and 9 kids on a single entry level income (like my grandpa did). THAT'S WHY. If the average man could support me like that I'd likely already be 6 kids deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:34 PM
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Then crucify me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:23 PM
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That's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:52 PM
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So you're saying asexual people can't thrive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:51 PM
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Just giving the kids a taste of their own medicine. If you care so much go adopt a child from the foster system and be their perfect dad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:01 AM
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It's really not even different from what people say here about men. If you're attractive you can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:51 AM
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Sex with a person isn't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:32 AM
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Men wouldn't understand being drowned in it. Both things kill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:13 AM
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Honestly it's also low key why you should be just as careful of male friendships. A lot of "good guys" walk around with "good friends" that are rapists or worse. Hell, even a serial killer can be friendly and if that's your only standard for friend you never know what kind of psycho or piece of shit you are "good" with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:08 AM
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You have an accent fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:04 AM
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The guys in the Sopranos weren't bad boys because they paid hookers, it was just one part
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:03 AM
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The odds that any 2 women are bi is definitely like 5% or less... So yeah that story just seems like revenge porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:14 AM
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An old fuckbuddy of mine had a ton of really dumb ideas, that included. He lived with his mom and barely had this old Honda civic to drive around. Once said how women were just trying to use him for his money. I'm guessing they just asked him to buy them McDonald's once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:13 AM
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I thought attractive men could do no wrong and that women prefer bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:10 AM
2

Woman pedo = good! Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:44 AM
5

Doesn't even scratch the surface compared to the bitterness men here hold towards fat/unattractive women dating hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:07 AM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:05 PM
1

No. A hat or a mask in every single picture is more sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:05 PM
1

Show them your Reddit history
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:03 PM
1

My youth seriously sucked compared to me 30s. I have no clue. I think it's just a loud minority of losers who peaked in high school screaming "best years of ur life!1"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:02 PM
1

Actually hilarious you used that water metaphor, almost like you subconsciously see my point. You know water can be very cloudy too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:01 PM
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If it makes you happy to pigeonhole men and yourself based on a few traits that are subjective, ok man go ahead. Just saying isn't the point of this subreddit to question your view rather than just go "this is how it is. Anyways bye"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:57 PM
1

I just don't understand this. If a woman is hot at 20 she'll be hot at 40. Her dating pool is aging with her. The amount of men who always date 20 year olds is so small. When old women date they are not competing with college girls ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:55 PM
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Commitment minded is literally your only correct point about how a women's preferences might change. Keep telling yourself women have no options after 30 lol whatever helps you cope. Also nice assumption that all women want to breed. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:48 PM
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Men are not a dichotomy of alpha vs beta. I mean the whole alpha beta omega concept was bullshit from a mistaken study of wolves in the first place. Studies have shown in any 2 groups, there is more variation within groups than between. Many alpha men show beta traits and vice versa. It's not black and white, and thinking it is means you're putting a stick through your own bike spokes if you know that meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:46 PM
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Why would a woman ever settle if she's drowning in options and can support herself financially and meet her own social life needs?? The logic is weak here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:12 PM
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If you only use black and white paint you're never gonna see (literally the study on this post) the grey. Edit: read the rules ya'll downvoting is not allowed. Sorry I triggered you with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:10 PM
1

Still horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:01 AM
2

Everytime you waste energy shitting on the opposing political party, your corporate overlords rub their hands together and laugh, "yes, fight, while we make even more money and call it inflation!" It's tragic how easily the US has been divided and conquered. Then again considering this nation was already stolen from a whole population of natives, the US fucking deserves it. The whole continent is a cursed Indian burial ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:53 AM
2

Yeah who needs taxes? Next time your house is on fire just save tax money and put it out yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:49 AM
3

You don't have to lie to avoid the truth. Just make a deflecting joke about it and move on. If someone is grilling about your virginity, unless they are also a virgin, I say just get the fuck out of there. Treating every woman like she's your only chance on earth for pussy will NOT make you attractive or get you very far.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:00 AM
1

I'm Vulpix first. Close second is Charizard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:56 AM
3

If you're serious you can actually get better. I used to be very squeamish, but went into school for Biology and basically was forced to get over it through exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:55 AM
2

Any excuse to stare at Hasan Piker I will take!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:53 AM
2

Evolution is messy, it's not a creator with a design it's a series of successful accidents. The genes for romantic love may be to increase reproduction and child survival, but they don't just stop existing because the person got old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:49 AM
2

Almost like it's men who let down the modern young man this whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:50 AM
1

Yep. Settling never works. The 50th time I got asked why I was with him, I asked myself that too...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:43 AM
3

I'd rather work at work and relax at home than live at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:41 AM
3

Seriously! It's literally just a pity party meets a woman witch hunt in here. Just men over and over repeating the same 2 dumb facts why it's okay to hate and blame women for all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:35 AM
1

I bet male makeup as a product would fail due to the stigma men have against makeup. It is seen as girly and they don't fully understand how subtle makeup can be done. That proposal would die in the room with the male investors laughing. Edit: also... They can just buy womens makeup it's already everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:26 AM
1

Let's put anyone who says something offensive in jail with the death penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:59 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:58 PM
1

You seem unaware of how many gamers casually used that word for years. Also you realize hella white people are racist as fuck and use that word themselves and high five their friends who also do? Bad example to argue with try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:55 PM
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If he was black who cares?? There's literally multiple youtube/twitch personalities that have said horrible shit and everyone loves them and forgives them because they're humans who made mistakes. I'm sorry you guys can't believe someone could be understanding or forgiving of human nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:43 PM
1

I mean most of the men on here struggle to be friendly to women. It's not that uncommon unfortunately. That's why women say the bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:24 AM
1

Nah ain’t gonna lie that would get me to leave. That’s a crazy ass statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:17 AM
5

Wtf are you even talking about that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:01 AM
1

Good for you! Hope nobody ever judges your whole character on one statement you made, it's a pretty shitty way to treat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:00 AM
2

Wouldn't fwb imply that the man's requisite tradeoff is to be a friend? For some men that's still a lot of effort / they complain about having to put in such "work". I've had plenty of fuckbuddies literally ignore me asking how their day was or say shit like "I don't wanna be friends" if I am not ready to fuck the instant I text them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:52 AM
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You're pretty judgmental for someone who calls themselves a good guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:48 AM
1

He has to be the best and the worst because he's also the only one they've ever had lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:47 AM
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I don't think they're missing out on a good guy if he's saying shit like that about women. So yeah, just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:46 AM
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People read way too much into what one bitch says. Myself included. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:36 AM
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"A man's tinder profile completely represents how attractive he is" Just things that shouldn't be said. You've clearly never seen how horrible men make their own damn profiles only to be extremely handsome irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:39 PM
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She still might not be settling. If anything this is proof that there's so much more to attraction than "would she swipe right on tinder" because tinder is a hellhole where women don't behave normally and can't even tell if they like the dude. Not enough info and an overwhelming number of "options"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:07 PM
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Tinder data will never allow you to make statements about women. Since matches are based on looks, unattractive people basically don't get to participate. The actions you're paying attention to are basically the subset of women hot enough to attract through pictures alone looking for casual sex. This is a small subset of the population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:04 PM
5

I agree with you but also... I paid for a gym membership a whole year and could only make myself go like 3 times. What's wrong with meeee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:53 AM
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I don't think the vase guy is okay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:35 AM
4

Age is relative. When you're 50 yeah 18 can seem like a child. I'm 31 and I wouldn't touch any man under 21 personally it would feel wrong. Nothing wrong with being 18, people are just jealous that you're further from death and will try to bring you down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:26 AM
1

I wrote that one but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:09 AM
2

A study done by okcupid found that of equivalent appearance, if the women were not sure whether he liked them or not, they found him the most attractive. Second was interested and least attractive was not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:52 AM
1

I mean photoshop a thin waist and some tits on Donald... He lookin dummy thicc Edit: as a woman tho, dogman seems nice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:49 AM
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A stereotype I've had men tell me is all redheads are horny sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:30 AM
1

Not all women have these amazing female friendships, what, do you think life is always perfect like a movie? I've literally seen female friends ditch each other when one is too butt hurt about being rejected by a guy. I've had female friends bully me for the kind of underwear and clothing I chose. It's not all butterflies and rainbows and unconditional love. They'll seem nice if your issues are sympathetic, they may have more empathy and emotional intelligence in general, but if you're actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:57 PM
3

Classic FDS, giving a bad name to all women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:43 PM
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Yeah, it sucks. Men do it to women all the time. It's nice to hear that at least we're not alone in this struggle. The amount of men older than my father who have hit on me with lines implying that they know I want to bang them because I have red hair or smiled once. I'm like... Why would I ever?? Have you even looked at yourself old man? It's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:33 PM
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It doesn't work that way for everyone. Some girls can carry their weight well, but not me. When I was overweight I couldn't get anyone to date me; I carried it in my stomach and face a lot and even though I wasn't technically obese I was very unattractive. Also, I had tons of friends literally feed me lies about how I wasn't fat and I was a 7/10 and I was gonna find someone great!! Friends would literally accuse me of having body dismorphia if I complained that I was chubby. Got rejected a lot a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:29 PM
1

Me either. People are like "do you think this guy is hot?" and show me a picture and I'm like "idk yet I'd have to talk to him"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:13 PM
1

Lol so true. Also never has anyone's view actually changed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:09 PM
1

Omg rip her arms that photoshop of her body is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:57 PM
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Why post a thread in a debate forum if your responses are just gonna be "no ur wrong" over and over? Lmao cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:34 PM
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You're delusional about a woman's experience then. We are constantly under the expectation to be sweet, friendly, upbeat, smiling and positive. Any complaining women do is nagging. Men are extremely offended if I am negative. I was constantly told to "tune into my tone" at work because if customers could hear even a drop of my general dissatisfaction with work/life they would take it personally and think I was a shrewd bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:18 PM
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Then what is nagging? Why did I lose so many friends when I was depressed and just wanted someone to listen to my complaints?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:16 PM
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How are you so so smart but can't get women?? Must be one of those "truths" is actually a lie. Intelligence is never a limiting factor. Arrogance and extremely low emotional intelligence sound like your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:13 PM
1

See boys don't even know what gaslighting is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:08 PM
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100% agree. Most men have barely enough stamina for one woman, what's he gonna do with the second? Unless both women are into women its gonna be a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:04 PM
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Nah everyone loves that song. Plus if a dude says he likes a different body type than me you know what happens? I consider us incompatible and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:00 PM
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Forget guys for a second. There is little sympathy for people who are bitter, complain, or have negativity in general. Even as a woman I was ostracized for the bitterness caused by my depression. Sorry but life isn't fair, people have shitty opinions, and there's nothing you can do about it. If you're cynical about women, do you really think this post will do diddly squat??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:10 PM
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When were we talking about women he doesn't know? OP is talking about splitting a household, when did men start moving in with strangers? Weird strawman, we don't even disagree but you can fight the person you imagine I am if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:38 PM
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I was just arguing trying to use the points men on here often make. I personally don't date men for wealth and how much a man makes means very little in my attraction to him. Since I can support myself I can actually date for love. Pay equity is good for men too idk why you would want a woman who only married you because she had to to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:54 PM
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If part of a man's romantic value is his wealth, then he shouldn't be stingy about sharing it. Having any sort of mandated split of finances is petty and feels cheap. If I wanted to get nickel and dimed I would date my landlord. Edit: men on ppd - "women only like wealthy men" also men on ppd - "why do these women want my wealth"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:28 PM
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So true. Aren't we always talking on here about how the main thing besides a woman picks for is wealth?? Why would a woman pick a man because of wealth and then be cool with not getting any wealth? Meanwhile both posts ignore the reality that many people aren't counting and don't care about wealth and splits beyond them being able to take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:49 PM
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Welcome viewers, here in the wild we will witness confirmation bias in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:21 PM
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I thought that men used the term gaslighting incorrectly a lot, but on ppd they do it all the time! Even when the term literally does not apply!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:21 PM
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My old neighbor was a visa bro, married just for citizenship, then skipped town on her and is dating random babes all over. He was not unattractive physically, just his personality was shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:16 PM
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I disagree that settling down is the best dating strategy, especially when done in your 20s or 30s. It is rare that couples last long term monogamy (beyond the years it would take to raise some kids together) and the ones that do seem to, do it in spite of a loss of attraction and the "work" it takes. This will only continue to drop the less women need men to survive, relationships will have to actually provide more value, no one will be forced to settle. Everyone here touts marriage and monogam…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:10 PM
2

Yeah man chill I'm just gonna scream that you're a pedo in public it's just a roast~
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:39 PM
2

Bi guys are super hot. Anyone attracted to men should enjoy watching men make out. Sorry people are just homophobic and assholes :( someone is gonna love your bi ass one day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:33 PM
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How would 2 even work? Why would I marry someone for imaginary potential? I pick 1. I write a fake name on the marriage certificate and disappear into the night when he falls off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:45 PM
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Read Sex at Dawn. Open your mind to perspectives and experiences that aren't your own. For older individuals psychedelics have been shown to help undo brain crystallization if you're feeling too set in your ways! Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:39 PM
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You asked what guy would be into this stuff. Most are. The men here are a loud minority that want commitment. Getting commitment in the normal dating world is the hardest thing for women. People are allowed to be polyamorous right? If you don't like that, don't date them. Idek what your debate is?.. Seems like you're just making issues out of nothing. Same as if I came here complaining about how men want virgins. It's not everyone and if you don't like it that's fine, it's not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:36 PM
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Oh have you seen an uptick recently in women? Because probably every 4th profile of men I saw the past few years said nonmonogamous, enm, poly or something like that. Men "in their right mind" are literally proposing this constantly and have been for many years. It is much much easier to get a guy to be with you when he can still fuck around. It's pretty hateful for you to say someone with different sexual preferences has no balls, why not just say you hate men? Or you're jealous? I don't get it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:14 PM
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I really want to know where the average 15 year old boy is encountering man hating rhetoric? I thought they were watching Andrew taint and the like is he doing man hating stuff now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:07 PM
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I think he's trying to prove... Something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:00 PM
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You said it yourself, less men on ppd are in relationships than women. Having been both, it's always easier to say "I don't need it" when you're in a relationship. It's a blind spot to a lot of women, especially those who are serial monogamists or never single. A lot of my security likely comes from the companionship I have with my partner. When permasingle prior, I remember being very sad and yearning for a man. It tortured me but I also had never experienced it, I missed something I'd never ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:03 AM
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Ugh cringe can't even read it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:48 PM
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It's totally fine for men to have preferences, nice strawman though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:44 PM
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People aren't here to understand others viewpoints only attack them. Case in point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:40 PM
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Some of ya'll are argumentative only for contrarions sake and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:31 PM
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Ok Jordan Peterson no need to cry I was just asking op questions not making some grand statement that no man has ever helped a woman Jesus assume much?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:30 PM
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You wish
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:28 PM
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You wish
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:27 PM
0

So why haven't men done that yet? Men who don't participate in abuse or sexism often still turn a blind eye to other men. Why do you think no single population of men has tried to stand up to the mistreatment of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:51 AM
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Things I regret: sitting at the wrong table at a restaurant with a total group of strangers, saying that mean thing to my friend, not being more outgoing in college, never learning a second language.. Things I don't regret: fucking lots of hot men with no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:45 AM
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How is a woman with an onlyfans the same as a scammer? She offers a service at a set price through a platform that can even perform refunds. A scammer says she needs money to drive to your date and then ghosts you. Seems like you painted the women's side way worse because that's your bias. Ultimately, why does it need to be a contest? Must we always measure dicks and cry about who has it worse? What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:40 AM
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That's good 👍 power to you I liked your post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:48 AM
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Ok honestly I misread and change to option 2 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:47 AM
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Option 1. I don't even want kids? Why would I sacrifice everything else to breed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:26 AM
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In some animals there's entire groups of non reproductive individuals. Also, a huge majority of animal species have homosexual encounters. Ducks, rams, dolphins, monkeys, lizards, to name just a few. People need to open their minds. Instead of yearning for what you don't have, value and enjoy what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:21 AM
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Women are just more likely to talk about their feelings and encouraged to get healthcare. Many men see therapy as weak and call it dumb or pointless, it literally gets posted in the community chat thread so much. I think many men are suffering from depression and can't even recognize it. Ultimately, depression is a first world problem. If you really want to understand why I think that's at its core, but I don't think there has been any proven single cause of depression. Probably better subreddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:05 AM
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Yep. That and the economy being horrible (my grandpa bought a home and supported a family of 9 on a foresters salary) how am I supposed to feel comfortable creating a human life who may barely have a future??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:00 AM
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Well he edited his comment to say modern glorification instead of just "sex work is going to bring down the west" so I guess my excellent take scared him into revising his statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:17 PM
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People have always been selling bodies? This is not new or different except that women have more authority over it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:43 PM
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Yeah I'd call that young. I thought I knew what I wanted at that age but I really had no clue in hindsight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:41 PM
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Gottman is a God
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:30 PM
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If you want your relationship to succeed you have to talk to each other positively and respond when the other asks for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:29 PM
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It's not unfair to be upset. Poor girl sounds really confused or young, she probably isn't ready for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:28 PM
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Lol nope! It was because I was fat. I could literally spit on men now that I'm not and they'd ask what I was doing later
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:31 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:29 PM
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People don't really care. I lost many friends in my worst depression because they just couldn't handle being there for me when I was like that. It's sad and unforgiving but many see your mental health issues as not their problem or responsibility, and even just listening to someone rant will "hurt" them and they have to "protect" themselves. This whole western culture is really selfish essentially, makes people feel entitled to abandon loved ones in their worst moments to "protect themselves".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:38 PM
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Because you think it's that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:34 PM
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How come when I was unattractive I didn't get approached then? I even got rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:28 PM
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Ruin your fun* because you're a sad person who can only feel joy by stepping on others. What is it about yourself that causes you to lash out at beautiful women enjoying their bodies? Jealous? Hyper religious? I really don't want to know and will be blocking you. Your comment history is shameful calling people names and shit you should be banned from this sub. I'm guessing by the age of your account you already have been multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:03 PM
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Excellent point 10/10. OP's tiny response to you means you win the debate congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:51 PM
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This just in: dear hot women, marry me for the betterment of our species! I'm a doctor who looks down on kindergarten teachers! Hmm no takers? Maybe you should just look more into seduction tactics if you want to date up rather than trying to debate the concrete fact that in biology reproduction is a huge risk for women and that thousands of years of women dying in childbirth has affected their gene pool to the current selective woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:50 PM
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Aww did someone else's personal choices with their body effect you? Oh wait that's not possible. Although you do sound like quite the expert on ruining fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:33 PM
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When you wanna say men do x and women do y, you're going to realize that also some men do y and some women do x. Of course if you make a generalization the people who don't fit come screeching out of the woodwork. Also be aware, probably the biggest reason is most people come here and post solely to be contrarion. I frequently have my opinion changed but I still run into commenters who say "I'm not even gonna bother explaining why you're wrong because you clearly wouldn't ever change your mind" …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:15 AM
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Why would they have to tho? The average woman in the US is 5'4". Also men will not die/be unable to date if they are not seen as tall so why would they mass exodus? Seems more like you're trying to put words in my mouth because I triggered you with my good point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:08 AM
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Sounds like a cop out because you know there's no objective tall and short. There's no answer you can give me is there? Also downvoting is not allowed on his subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:04 AM
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Uhh what? No why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:01 AM
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If someone is the average height doesn't that mean they can't be short? They're literally the average. If they can be short because "oh it's relative" then they can also be tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:13 AM
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Yep, also men calling women used up. Just makes me wonder how horribly they must treat women during sex to consider them used up afterwards...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:11 AM
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Where is the Law that dictates the definition of tall and short? What height is tall and what height is not? If I am so wrong then enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:09 AM
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Go cry to your priest about it maybe he cares
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:08 AM
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Halloween sucks as an adult I'm ready for Thanksgiving. I've never cared to dress up and mostly just enjoyed the candy. Nowadays I can buy candy any day of the year so who cares. Loving all the freaks slut shaming women having fun on Halloween though! Ya'll need to take a chill pill and mind your own business, maybe work on yourself a little more so that other women flaunting their looks doesn't crush your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:01 AM
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Ok but what about funny ones like slutty Nemo? I'm all for more elaborate and actually scary costumes but sometimes you just have to laugh at how dumb people are using Halloween as a socially acceptable excuse to dress much sluttier than you normally would. Also who cares what you think? They don't, their costume and Halloween is for them, not you. Girls CAN wear cute fun stuff and they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:58 PM
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Wait who is banning Twitter? People forget this is capitalism and these "spaces" are owned and profited on by a single "person" aka a corporation. It is a business. You are actually not entitled to free speech there, just like how a store can kick you out for not wearing shoes. Social media will persist for all even if Twitter goes away, chop off one head and two grow back. The internet will always allow for people to talk and hear each other, you just have to use different sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:55 PM
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Honestly most men I feel I can read like a book. I can tell they're constantly trying to impress me or say something I'll like. I know they would let me walk all over them and do what I want. It's powerful but ultimately unattractive. I want to date an equal. Someone who will actually disagree with me when he does, someone who knows what he wants and wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:49 PM
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Depends how it changes whether it will help. Do you think 4chan helps public conversation for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:44 PM
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Lmao you're not even short! Damn the hoops ya'll jump through to feel bad for yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:37 PM
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She got face surgery and denies it. I used to love her crazy ass :/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:35 PM
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I'm telling you why I'm bitter not what you did. I'm not dictating preferences I literally don't care what you think and was never talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:40 PM
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Preferences are fine. Calling women who enjoy sex "used up" is not a preference it's a gross judgment. Men don't have to sleep with women who enjoy sex that's fine, that's your preference, so leave them alone and stop talking shit about them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:33 PM
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Do it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:53 AM
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I read a bio if I'm on the fence about his looks. Honestly the best is a witty one liner. Long winded bios low key turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:42 AM
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Some of the hottest men I've been with were under 5'8"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:31 AM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:24 AM
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Stranded? Your feet don't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:12 AM
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Ew yikes. Wtf are you doing to women during sex?? Normal sex doesn't use anything but a little energy. Like I don't understand how are you using them up??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:11 AM
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Is there an echo in here? Huh, seems like nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:07 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:06 AM
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Nah after watching my parents marriages I'm good on that. Why would I want to be called a ball and chain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:58 PM
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A used up woman??? Wtf is wrong with you bro yikes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:32 PM
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Don't worry no reason to feel bad for me! Once I lost it I fucked them both 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:31 PM
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If you are upset by something it is due to your thoughts about it which you can remove at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:05 PM
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JuSt pIcK bEtTeR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:04 PM
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If it makes you feel better I did manage to lose my virginity and dating in my late 20s and 30s has been poppin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:03 PM
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Yes. I have been rejected enough that it's not torture. Instead of pining for things I don't have, I focus on enjoying and valuing whatever I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:27 PM
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There was an okcupid study that showed 7s with a "flaw" (something that makes others think they get approached less) get approached way more than 7s who are classically cute. Everyone thinks the classically cute are drowning in approaches and that they don't have a chance. It's ironically the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:25 PM
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What are you gonna do then never talk to another attractive woman again? You know being at the whim of your feelings isn't the only option right? Women are forced to learn emotional regulation skills from a young age and they're very useful. I've had lots of male friends I had crushes on, but did I let not getting to be with them destroy my experiences? No. I accept that not everyone will love me and I push those feelings away. I might sound like a stupid bitch to you but you should check out St…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:21 PM
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At least they were actual friends to you and not just pretending to be friends until you can get the dick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:09 PM
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These guys act like they invented wanting a virgin, meanwhile the church is like "ok ok they don't say they're religious anymore but we're still managing to brainwash them with our values! Yess"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:05 PM
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You haven't lived until you've played with Khajit night vision!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:04 PM
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Wait did you really think I was a man talking about how men only want male virgins?? Love it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:01 PM
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If sex lowers a woman's value then how do you feel doing that to her? How can you do that to someone you love if you see sex as demeaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:59 PM
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Really skeptical that there's even that many men who actually want virgins, it's just a very loud very small minority. I was a virgin until 24 and it was a BURDEN I would get made fun of by peers, people would be shocked and judge me for it, and MEN WOULD REJECT ME because of it over and over. All I wanted was to have a serious relationship with another virgin and there was nobody. Guys are so full of shit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:20 PM
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That's it. The virgin shit is just a remnant of religion. Men try to defend their "standards" but they really need to accept they are still brainwashed by the church and need to go to church to find this pure wifey ideal they've created in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:15 PM
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Some guys also find sex demeaning. Honestly as a human who cares about human rights, if a man finds promiscuity gross that's a huge red flag. These beliefs are remnants of religion in our thinking designed to shame anyone doing anything besides marrying underneath God. If you're brainwashed by religion still in 2022 you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:12 PM
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They are both problematic why do you always have to make this into a fight? Rich men can be bad partners just like virgins can be. What's even worse is these young men are ready to marry and lay down their whole life for a "virgin" but just because she didn't have piv says nothing about if she will be a good wife, a good match, or even actually not a whore like the original commenter mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:10 PM
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Oh that's interesting I didn't know it was on there. Thanks for being the only coherent argument and not just calling me names
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:24 AM
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Sorry you died from not having sex :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:50 PM
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Are you saying we could turn incels into communists?? I'm interested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:09 PM
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Jokes on them, public health and housing are in the fucking shitter and those in power couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:08 PM
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Gay guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:06 PM
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Ok but biology has never been "all organisms get to spread their genes" or else evolution would never happen. I understand the drive may be so strong it feels like a need and that is biology trying to get you to spread your seed, but it's not a need. It's a desired outcome at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:00 PM
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I know about the monkeys given a wire mommy suffering. I don't think not having sex is the same as not having human companionship and touch. There are plenty of platonic ways to be nurtured. So how does this prove sex is a need?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:58 PM
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How can you call it a need? Food and water are needs. Sex is a want. If you don't have sex, do you die? How long does it take? How would incels still even be alive? Edit: and the award goes to DreJ-x for actually answering my question instead of just calling me names! Didn't know it was on Maslow hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:46 PM
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Yeah that was my experience with sleeping around too honestly. I do think a lot of people on this subreddit when they say high N count mean totally different things. You saying 40 is like so much more realistic, it's easy to sleep around a lot for a few years when you're young and I honestly lost count/couldn't be bothered to count. Eventually it grows old though and I crave a connection and a person I love more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:29 AM
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I almost mentioned this in my comment. Literally never irl talking to average people have I heard man or woman complain about body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:28 PM
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Fat doesn't always mean ugly. Someone probably found that man attractive. Just because you're extremely judgmental about looks doesn't mean everyone thinks that dude is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:54 PM
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Women have to be more forgiving of high body count if they want an attractive man because the vast majority of men that are attractive enough to, will. A lot of the men who claim they actually prefer not to sleep around are just giving themselves reasons to cope with actually not being hot enough. That or maybe religious reasons (not that those stop priests).. The only hot man I ever met with a low body count had a micropenis and a huge insecurity about it (I literally was still asking to hook u…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:34 PM
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Nah, if anything there's less options when you're older just because many are already shacked up. I would still consider a man I'm not attracted to asking me out politely as not creepy but a nice compliment! In fact this happened the other day at work. but go ahead and assume things about me because I'm a woman, you're gonna love this subreddit. I'm surprised you even bother to listen to me speak since women are just idiots who are always wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:27 PM
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I ultimately agree that it should just be legalized. However, do you really want to see how capitalism acts upon sex work? It's bad enough that capitalism fuels undercutting normal laborers, what happens when the human body becomes the goods??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:50 PM
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So, no proof? breaks skateboard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:50 PM
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Nope there's lots of studies to prove biology! Unfortunately you don't have any. Clearly only engage with comments you can make a quick gotcha on lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:50 PM
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With peace and love, most of the opinions on this subreddit are the edge case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:25 PM
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What about the men who don't give a fuck? Are they biologically broken? Missing hard wiring? Have any studies to support that "hardwiring" claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:24 AM
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Suggesting women just sleep with men they're unattracted to is the same thing as suggesting men just sleep with men. Sure a woman can get casual sex on demand, if she's willing to fuck a fat old dirty man. Attractive men are not just going to fuck anyone, this is a huge myth on ppd that fat chicks are all getting pleasure served up by chads with abs. Posts like this are basically the same as if I said "When will men see they have the privelege of access to sex whenever they want? They are able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:15 PM
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I imagine Tate would be a miserable lay. Demanding me to only do certain positions, ignoring what I want and my pleasure, and then unable to finish because his brain and dick are all porn broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:35 PM
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Why won't a man build me a sand pentagram :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:23 PM
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It reminds them of how bad daddy treated them. Do you not know that trauma/abuse can cause victims to seek out similar treatment in the future? Women are not a perfectly healthy mature right minded monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:21 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:19 PM
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Wait really?? signs out and throws computers out window
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:19 PM
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I'd still rather fuck Ethan
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:18 PM
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A lot of women who describe men as boring are also the type who end up in the same abusive relationships over and over. Dating is about finding a good match and it'll take you years. Don't let the shit bad matches fling at you stick in your eyes, it'll prevent you from seeing the good match when she comes by.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:14 PM
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It's true and it's turning me into a sarcastic troll someone send help
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:49 AM
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Hey did you guys know OP HAD SEX??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:47 AM
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When I was obese I was convinced I was extremely ugly, would die a virgin, and that I had no hope at love. Thinking about the hot men and love I would never have made me want to fucking kill myself. Haha but yeah actually I totally expected a Chad!1!! 11 hahaha just girly things don't ya'll love glitter and unicorns?? Teehee1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:44 AM
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Damn that went right over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:39 AM
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Well, PPD men generally make huge generalizations and assumptions based on a person's sex so their arguments are irrelevant anyways. Quit letting one internet weirdo make you think women are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:36 AM
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What about choosing to move to a country where women are still property and any man can get a wife because women can't survive in society without a male owner? Men have that "privelege" in many countries to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:42 AM
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Yep. Always remember folks, some men just fucking hate women and need help but if you try to extrapolate their values to all of mankind you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:32 PM
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Yeah I'd be fucking shot to death by now if I was black. Fuck the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:24 PM
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When I was single I would approach any man I felt like. I'm pretty introverted and don't go out much so it wasn't that many, maybe a couple a month at most and a few times a year at least. Usually it's not a blatant "hey wanna fuck" but just casual conversation that ends with me asking to hang out or exchange info if they don't mention a gf in our conversation. I've found if I'm too direct it freaks guys out, you kinda have to seduce them a bit. However just like being friendly can be mistaken f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:34 PM
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Sure, it shouldn't, but how do you think anyone gets good at sex if their partner is just mute the whole time then afterwards says "you don't know what you're doing" and you could have just told them what to do?? It doesn't have to be a fucking tutorial. You can make it sexy.. If you're good in bed that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:42 PM
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Any chance I can gush about Diego Maradona's thighs is time well spent. Oh well you got me ya damn troll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:39 PM
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A few fat girls using a fun phrase to try to not hate themselves has really triggered you. No one is encouraged to be overweight. I promise most fat people live knowing how unliked they are for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:28 PM
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I'd die for Diego Maradona's thick thighs!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:27 PM
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Why are you so bitter? Hmm... Do only fat women approach you? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:26 PM
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Well then I will find and execute anyone who thinks thick thighs are exclusive to the obese. :) I'd die to save Diego Maradona's thick thighs any day and I dare you to say he's unhealthy because he's one of the greatest athletes in the world ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:23 PM
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Too late for that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:19 PM
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Bro we are constantly quantifying confidence on here. Do you read comments in this subreddit or anytime it's a woman you just discount what she says? For anyone who is the latter, why bother talking then? If you don't believe half the population just go stick your head in the sand and don't waste our time pretending you're engaging in discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:18 PM
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If a guy seems low confidence or needy then approaching him is a much greater risk. It's kind of like how guys sleeping around don't want to fuck a virgin - you think she'll catch feelings right away and be clingy and need you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:08 PM
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You'd think, but when men have low self esteem like an incel, approaching always backfires. They think you're trying to scam them for money, or it's a prank, or you're just drunk. If they can rule those things out they start to assume worse. Imagine this - you think someone is the ugliest and then a woman approaches them and your next thought is wtf is wrong with that woman? If men don't think they have anything to offer, they won't even believe the women saying they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:05 PM
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Bruh we already are second class citizens lmao having to sit back and wait/hope to be chosen is NOT the easier way. Acting like women actually have the option of approaching without seeming weird or desperate is delusional. Every time a man says "I would love it if a woman approached me!!" it's because he's imagining being approached by the hottest woman he can imagine. Women approach and are rejected constantly. If you can't see that you should go outside more hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:01 PM
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Actually do something. Change your life. If you can't get a job, volunteer. Take a college class just to practice beating your social anxiety. YES ALL OF THESE THINGS WILL HELP WITH A RELATIONSHIP ISN'T THAT WHY YOU ASKED?? STOP trying to "think" your way out of unhappiness and fucking do something!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:47 PM
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Yeah most men are meh in bed too. However I don't sit here and blame men, I bring an extra vibrator and try to communicate how to be a better lover. Just because someone hasn't learned what you like doesn't make them hopeless, jeez. What does make them hopeless is when they don't want to listen/cooperate towards pleasure or say "you shouldn't need a vibrator my dick is enough."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:25 PM
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I don't think you'll find a healthy woman who is actually upset to lose sex appeal naturally with age. It is a bit dumb to draw arbitrary lines in the sand at 30 or 40, everyone is different. I don't miss how much creepy attention I got when I was 13 so how would the next age leap be any different lol. It's not going to cause less suitors just less creepers 👍 what's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:47 AM
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I've gotten out of traffic tickets by bursting into tears. One time I actually evaded police lmao and the officer said he likes a game of cat and mouse. Not even a speeding ticket just a wave goodbye. I don't have much else to add except that some women can be straight up evil just like anyone can. I had some mean bullies in school growing up and they were always girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:42 AM
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Yep ok 👍 I have no protest. Honestly women should know that basically all men are just in to hit it and quit it. I always have that expectation and I'm never disappointed! Only pleasantly surprised when the guy I like sticks around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:35 AM
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Ya know I've known some guys who looked very baby until they were like 30 and then they were total foxes. Js you never know..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:33 AM
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Good thing then that women are more drawn in long term by personality, humor, charm, passion, strength, confidence, and goodness. These are some values I would want my children to have. I've loved many ugly boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:31 AM
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Having dinner paid for by the guy and then changing your mind about wanting to see them again is cool then too right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:27 AM
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Totally fair and true. It's definitely possible to live with your parents and not be a mommas boy though. Some cultures/families have a more invasive parent relationship, a couple can even be expected to house and care for their in laws. For me that would be kind of a lot. I'm pretty independent and I prefer it that way, I love my parents but since I'm an adult they stay out of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:15 AM
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Yep the bay area babies are real. Giant adult people but babies on the inside. Had a dude in a fight with me crying call his mom and put her on FaceTime with me about how I was breaking up with him. So fucking awkward bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:09 AM
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Sugar and spice makes everything nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:00 AM
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Girl she just wrote you the most awesome insightful confidence booster comment and your reply was more insecurity. You might benefit from some therapy or at least some positive affirmations with peace and love Jesus!! because your low self esteem is preventing you from having a good time in life I promise. It sabotages so much you can't even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:52 AM
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Those delusions will make them blind to real opportunities and even self sabotage whether they realize it or not, because they are so convinced that a girl taller would never want them. When a girl does they won't even see/believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:45 AM
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These people lash out online because it's the only place they can. Socially people who display aggression, lying, manipulation and other evils will eventually become isolated. As to why they seem to have no interest in being a good person, it makes me sad but I have no good ideas aside from my personal experiences... One could guess upbringing or trauma? Being a good person is the true meaning of life so anyone who isn't trying or can't see that likely feels like shit. At my worst depression I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:30 AM
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I mean you're like the only comment op replied to so I think you really hit the nail on the head!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:11 PM
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Because his entire self worth is based on being fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:08 PM
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Can you keep your screeching down? Gonna scare away the hot chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:01 PM
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Older women: I know what I want and I am just living and enjoying life as it comes OP: A woman I see as lesser rejected me, my entire ego and self worth has been destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:00 PM
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Seriously why is he screeching
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:59 PM
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Luckily for older women their whole ego isn't built on being fuckable like yours is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:58 PM
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No no no don't you know all women are a hivemind and identical? Men can be unique individuals with preferences though. Sarcasm aside I am ALWAYS saying in this subreddit how variation on almost anything is greater within groups than between groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:11 PM
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Aren't jokes supposed to be funny? Oh because it's about cum! Hahahahahahahhahahaha cum!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:06 PM
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Ok lol so that's my point :) idk why anyone cares but I mention enjoying sex and the men here start screeching
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:29 PM
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No I never meant that or even mentioned anything close. Not even sure how what you said it relevant at all lol. Did you read my comment? First time debating hun?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:26 PM
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Wow, sounds like you've got it all figured out! Maybe if you're so secure and smart you can stop harassing women and calling them sluts for enjoying sex, it makes you seem really insecure and like you're just jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:36 PM
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Nope baby this is really me. Sorry if my normal life is so offensive you find me a troll? Sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:35 PM
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Post the pics public first. Assert dominance. It's cool now Britney Spears did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:17 PM
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Trigger warning: I, a woman who is not a 10, enjoy frequent sex with hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:17 PM
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You fucking wish I'd swallow for you lmao. Every time women mention enjoying the sex they have with hot men, certain men on ppd crawl out of their holes and lose their minds and devolve into insult screaming finger pointing chanting and screeching chimps "slut! Slut! Rape her! She wants to be a prostitute!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:15 PM
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Nah I only fuck Chads who don't have to pay ;) but you can go let the fat sweaty desperate unshowered Johns fuck you for money if you want! Men can be prostitutes too, a hole is a hole right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:13 PM
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Because of psycho men who would take it as an invitation to rape me or murder me. There is nothing wrong with it. It's also none of anyone's fucking business lmao!! Why would I be owed random people I talk to all my life secrets??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:11 PM
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No, you don't find substance in being a slut. I found lots of substance in being a slut. You're allowed to have preferences, not tell me what has value in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:10 AM
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Posts that invalidate your argument make you go on personal attacks?? Super cute
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:07 PM
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That is.. Weird. Maybe it's generational, maybe it's where you live, maybe it's Maybelline but most of my casual sex the dudes have had only positive words for me being a horny girl. Never had anyone freak out that I brought a mini vibe or was extra wet. If I had to guess maybe your location is more rural/religious leaning? Even if the guys you date don't believe in God the "sex is demeaning" belief can linger in groups in religious areas or if they have religious family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:40 AM
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I don't disagree with the whole post, I think it is important to be relaxed and just focus on improving their life!! Excellent advice across the board. I'm just laughing because I've been with the hot guy who is out of my league physically. You really think a hot guy can say ANYTHING huh??? Well, he seemed sweet at first but after only a couple of weeks he was an emotional wreck bc he went through my phone and saw I had texted other men before I met him, pops a benzo and starts chugging booze so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:26 AM
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Please please look up the rat palace study in regards to addiction. I only have approximate knowledge of all things, but it was essentially that rats in a bare cage suffered from chronic addiction when offered drugs while rats in a rat palace with lots of toys, food, and other rats (to fuck) they did not get addicted to the drugs. People with addiction are usually isolated or lacking stimulation. For whatever reason their life basically sucks. You just gotta find that rat palace ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:13 AM
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Congrats on being awesome and so true about the addicts feeding off each other... I went to a few 12 step meetings and literally was worse after because of the "you will ALWAYS BE an addict it is your LIFE CURSE and you can do NOTHING!!" Like holy shit hopeless much?? My very good friend is a past opiate addict and often uses marijuana as a way to get high. I've seen it be an excellent replacement for him with much less harm and cost. Plus it's legal and impossible to OD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:11 AM
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One time a guy said let's go to the beach for our first date. I show up expecting a walk at most and he had a blanket, food and wine and flowers... It was very sweet and I absolutely adored him for many months after. He knew I loved the beach and put in a little effort it was very touching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:00 AM
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😍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:48 AM
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It's hardly even a problem or that deep, mostly just feeling watched makes me uncomfortable. I'm hyper aware of it now. Like didn't anyone tell these men it's rude to stare? I don't know if they can't tell I can totally see them or if they just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:23 AM
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Definitely being attractive is better having experienced both, but I do understand where women who'd rather be ugly come from. It does kind of suck sometimes when I wear a nice dress and men just openly gawk and make repeated comments about my nice dress. I appreciate a compliment or 2 but to be constantly conscious of my body and looks can kind of ruin going out. Frequently I make small choices like not wearing yoga pants in public because I'm tired of all the staring at my legs and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:49 PM
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I was overweight and it made me ugly for a lot of high school and college. I was frequently told by "friends" that I wasn't fat and to just go for the guys I liked! I even thought I had body dysmorphia... No, I was just fat and did NOT carry it cute (mostly belly upper body and face)... Well, I got rejected many times. By college I had given up, resigned myself as "ugly" and just went on living life as a "forever alone" virgin. I lost the weight in my mid 20s and my whole life changed. Not only …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:26 PM
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Game is not manipulating a woman anymore than being nice to someone is manipulation. I'm a woman and I think you're really missing the point about what game is. A lot of women get really hung up on "manipulation" men do but it's rarely actually that. I mean can you name any "game" tactics that manipulates women?? Are you saying negging works on you? do you really get "tricked" by these men and how???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:12 PM
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Yeah, be like chimps! Did you know female chimps often have sex with almost all the male chimps in the troop to keep her babies from being murdered? Makes sense why men always talk about chimps and never about Bonobos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:04 PM
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Idk about chemistry but we are also 99% related to Bonobos which are peaceful, matriarchal, casual sex having monkies. I'd rather be a Bonobo but I know most men see more appeal in the Chimp lifestyle - dominate other males physically, females allow all males to mate with them to avoid infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:02 PM
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Men's rage is their biological clock ticking to die in a war. This is a quote from a meme but it made me think, men (the ones left alive) must have had it a lot easier dating when huge world wars were happening and (probably handsome) young men were the ones drafted and killed... :( Crazy ideas aside, really I think it's just that anger is the only "acceptable" emotion for men to express. Everyone is struggling with mental health but at least women can cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:19 AM
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Uhh nope I got hit on most when I was 12. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:11 AM
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No peace. Only fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:45 PM
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I'm aware it's a prejudice and I've actually mostly moved past it at this point, just trying to use my weird personal shit as an example against op saying women can't do wrong in each other's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:08 PM
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There is in general with people lately a lot of tribalism and groups fighting. Liberals vs conservatives is the obvious one, but I've also seen increased man vs woman rhetoric from both sides. I think this has less to do with innate differences in men and women and more to do with the divide and conquer lord of the flies shit happening online and in the world... I've seen some posts on women subreddits that I found extreme and unfair to men... Further a ton of the posts in these women subreddits…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:28 AM
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Can you keep down your screeching?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:03 AM
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If you think they're even thinking about you you've already overestimated how far you are from their radar...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:59 AM
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At midnight we turn into pumpkins. Still dtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:56 AM
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Okay so it'd be cool if a woman with a high n count refused to date anyone but a virgin? It's a free world bud don't worry, but they're still gonna get called a hypocrite if they blatantly are one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:50 AM
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Lmao yeah he writes these things called books?? Idk what that is anyway back to tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:43 AM
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Maybe? He did say he can predict whether a couple will stay together or get divorced after watching them talk for 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:42 AM
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John Gottman is an excellent relationship expert for anyone looking for studied and helpful information.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:25 AM
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You must live somewhere rural! I'm kind of sad I don't see many fish pics, I get a lot more just car pics in an urban area lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:04 PM
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Haha yes I too love that hugely popular TV show we have so much in common!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:57 PM
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You are over compartmentalizing social situations. If you're good with people it doesn't matter the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:30 PM
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Yeah ironically the women (who worked for him) likely made more than he did with his momentary grift.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:33 AM
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Seriously. Idk why op is trying to act like working on social skills doesn't count as trying to improve yourself. Usually when I tell a bro to work on himself the social skills part is the MAIN thing I'm hoping hell work on. Being able to get along with other humans and have a social life is a huge part of being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:45 PM
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Isolation, and the internet allows for weird niche thinkers to find each other and snowball into bigger things. I love the internet but anonymity + being able to find someone who agrees with you no matter what is kind of making weird people. When you have some people hyping you up, even virtual, it may make them ignore more relevant and real advice/feedback that people in their lives closer to the real issues have..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:55 AM
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It's what humans do, notice patterns and extrapolate from them. You can cry your whole life away about people over generalizing or stereotyping or just making assumptions. Or you can prove them wrong and just remember that most peoples behavior is based on THEM and not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:47 PM
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You're pardoned
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:04 PM
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Ha yeah! Everyone knows you're supposed to call your husband Lord Master!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:58 PM
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Wait wait wait wait women like hot men? Omg who knew
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:50 PM
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I haven't downloaded Photoshop yet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:48 PM
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Who you fightin
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:46 PM
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Red pill men think they have completely figured out attraction and that all humans can be objectively rated on a scale of 1 to 10. What's funny is they can't agree on the specifics and then screech about how "she's a 5 when he's an 8!! Women need to looksmatch!!" meanwhile her boyfriend thinks she's a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:08 PM
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Op, this comment is why. People think some women "should" settle because they're trying to quantify and give numbers to attraction which is essentially arbitrary and in the eye of the beholder. So while one man is screeching that "she's a 5 dating an 8!" her boyfriend thinks she's a 10 and they're happy, while the one man is single and lonely screeching about how you can simplify a human into one number.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:06 PM
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Omg I'm dying 😂 he literally does exactly what you say and then tries to argue how you're still wrong. It's crazy on here. I'll be in agreement with men that I don't understand their experience and I know it's much much harder for them or that I understand how important looks are, and they literally reply to my comment how I "hate men" and "have no clue what we go through" and "who hurt you" passive aggressive attacks and shit. It's really sad I'm literally trying to have a discussion and agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:04 PM
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Battle of the sweeping generalizations. Battle of the know it alls. Imagine having one experience and dictating This Is How It Is For Everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:01 PM
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Yeahhhh for real.. I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:49 AM
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Weird where did I say men and women have it the same?? I know how lucky I am
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:02 AM
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I'm trying to make a point. My comment about how all men are rapists because some men have raped is THE SAME as you saying all women like bulging biceps because some women do. You are GENERALIZING and thus not in touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:05 PM
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When I was fat and ugly it was NOT easy even on the apps, but yeah now that I'm thin and not ugly I only need to swipe for a few days before I have dozens of offers to meet up from decent guys. I honestly couldn't be on the app for long just because I didn't have time to meet 36 people a week!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:03 PM
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Where are you going, grocery stores and the dmv? Are you the type that thinks a girl wearing a tank top is a whore? Very puzzling comment there bud
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:00 PM
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Lmao I lost my virginity on okcupid that shit is old old
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:56 PM
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So funny you say marketing because really these apps are just businesses marketing themselves too. If you're not a Chad they can use to lure girls into the app, they use hot girls to lure you into paying for more likes. My male friend once demonstrated how after his last like Tinder always shows him a stunning babe and oops he has to pay for likes now!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:55 PM
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So true!! Dating apps are businesses ya'll and you're just a customer! If you found your best match right away well that wouldn't benefit their business would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:51 PM
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People are so obsessed with the "more women initiate divorce" shit but I'm pretty sure that comes down to women being more likely to do chores. Men are more likely to just leave - stay married on paper but move to another house and be with anotner woman and think nothing more of it because it's too much work or something. Meanwhile the woman has to be the responsible adult and file the paperwork. If the man left, didn't he really initiate the divorce? Just because he didn't give a shit about fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:10 PM
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You never even made a point just tried to argue semantics lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:04 PM
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Men will never say stuff like "women have individual preferences and aren't a monolith" because it makes them look BETA AF they just act out their true instincts instead. They all want to control a woman by trapping her in his home and raping her at will. In the past some men have been mass murderers so that means secretly they all are. Surely you should be aware of this and turn yourself into jail immediately as there is no such thing as a human unique from their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:52 PM
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Images? The dew on the side of a glass of ice soda. Sunglasses. People with tattoos. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:23 AM
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Til I'm a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:21 AM
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Not really giga Chad types... Usually they are good looking but nothing I'd risk my life for!! Don't know who is reinforcing these guys or maybe they get so little women agreeing they just proposition anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:19 AM
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So why is it a surprise that anyone is hypergamous? By its definition I know many men would count as hypergamous. Why wouldn't anyone "date up" if they could?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:09 PM
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It's sad to think women get so little out of sex. I've been ghosted after sex but hey at least I had sex! Not a big deal, I used him too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:24 PM
1

Has she updated the software regularly? Because if so it's trash. you know they plan obsolescence for their devices right? You pay extra for iPhones in the beginning because they only work brand new
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:23 PM
2

Must be nice to have rich parents. Fuck the rich. I just want to be able to afford a home and these fools out here getting $20k titties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:21 PM
2

You love it. May be the only time women come for you 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:17 PM
1

So men don't have to be exclusive? Your woman who you were supposed to die for was raped and murdered in her home while you were out fucking another woman. Would you like to play again?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:16 PM
1

It's not what you say it's how you say it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:14 PM
1

Stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:12 PM
3

You can't know he's not the one, but you also can't know that he will be. Hope is great but expectations will ruin everything. A lot of the guys I've let my excitement out for in the past have later broken it off or ghosted me, called me clingy or suddenly didn't want a relationship anymore. My current boyfriend could leave me or die in a car accident any day. I try not to think so much about the future but instead to enjoy the present moments I do get to share with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:10 PM
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Seriously. Maybe if OP argued "teen girls today" felt this way I could say well idk I'm not a teen and not in touch so maybe that's the male experience. However, OP said "women here" which has been shown on average to be women in their 30s. Plus all the women in the comments here saying that these bodies are not unattractive. Finally, I don't think I have EVER seen a single post here written by a woman shaming men for not having 0 body fat and washboard abs??? Like OP where are women body shamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:02 PM
2

Ok, but if a girl asked you to meet in public first what would you say? These guys literally say no. No sympathy for how attraction works or the risk of meeting a complete stranger from the internet. Both men and women can be taken advantage of in these situations. I hope these men who can't understand that never have to leave their house! I don't want to meet them!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:55 PM
6

Who cares are you here to argue about semantics? If saying "come over" counts as a suggestion more than a demand doesn't change or challenge my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:51 PM
9

The 80/20 rule is actually men projecting how they view dating onto women. The very study you pull the "rule" from actually shows that 2/3rds of men are going for the top hottest 1/3 of women and that ultimately men value appearance much more than women. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:05 PM
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Seriously!! Soooo many men demanded I just go to their house the first night. A stranger I've never met and don't even know if he's the person in his pictures. All I ask is to meet in public first too, I'm still down to fuck on a first date but holy shit buy me 1 drink first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:03 PM
13

Somehow even worse lmao. How did they know all women were cloned in a factory to be identical? Our cover has been blown. All women, abort. Planet b.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:56 PM
1

If you have met the bachelors on here then yes. They do not seem to love life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:57 PM
1

What about the ones you've met on here? You'd say they're loving life? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:34 PM
5

80/20 rule has been exposed as mythology. Eat my shorts. Find another excuse to pity yourself with peace and love :) https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xpacxf/comment/iq3q7fw/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:31 PM
6

It's ridiculous to think there's leagues, no one can even agree on an objective scale rating attractiveness. There's preferences at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:14 PM
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Fuck the wall I burned it down it doesn't exist. Idek what acronym that is - all women are loser thots? Just guessing based on how ya'll view women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:11 PM
2

They hate us cause they ain't us 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:04 AM
1

The Ring is my favorite. It's not gory or bloody really but there is some gross imagery in it so it might be a bit much... Very scary though!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:03 AM
1

B. I'm a woman I wish my boyfriend would get in less fights lmao!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:01 AM
2

Imagine it like water off a ducks back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:59 AM
2

Tummy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:58 AM
1

🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:56 AM
3

The fact is he crossed a line and society shamed him for it. Being excluded from the tribe is the worst punishment for homo sapiens. Authoritatian shit is usually about the government - but social media is just companies a part of capitalism... These mega companies actually rule everything whether they buy off government officials or just create monopolistic social media platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:49 AM
1

I don't want to get sent a bunch of dick pics on Reddit lmao so I will say it has to be consensual. Usually someone I'm dating. I hate taking and sending selfies of any kind but when a guy I'm seeing is into it, it's been hot a couple of times. I generally find it hot when the guy I'm into is turned on idk?? It's not that weird when you trust them and are consenting to it. I think there's a lot of unfair dick hate out there personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:45 AM
1

Don't worry, Andrew Taint may be gone but the amount of money that can be made "telling men the truth" is huge there are already plenty of men doing that just remember to buy into their pyramid scheme for best truth!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:42 PM
6

Yes where is this magical place where men don't complain about women's standards or the men women pick? I can count on one hand the secure men and women I've met who will say "oh well people like what they like nothing you can do" instead of crying about their rejections or "society". You certainly can't say that's how it is at ppd. I'm not sexist, I'm saying both sides complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:38 PM
1

Don't hurt yourself overthinking this it's a comment about a meme ya'll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:22 PM
1

They are that sensitive : https://qph.cf2.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-7923275e8ee899b09bb2e072a787b44b.webp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:14 PM
1

Celery with peanut butter. Homemade popcorn with just a little salt or nutritional yeast. High protein and high fiber meals and drinking plenty water will make it easier to go between meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:10 PM
5

Saw an excellent meme that reminds me of all the restless and depressed virgins on this subreddit that said "My male biological clock is ticking. I need to die in a war." Maybe next time you want to die because you can't get laid, remember you're lucky to be alive at all. If you enjoy anything in your life even if it's just playing Tetris in your comfy bed, you should just appreciate what good you do get to experience. Past generations men had it "easy" dating because a huge percentage DID NOT b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:08 PM
2

🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:02 PM
10

That's pretty insulting to men to say that women/mating is the only thing holding their fragile ego together. You're actually lying to yourself so much you're suffering more in imagination than reality. You are the author of your own suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:02 PM
10

Exactly. If you're posting on here "men have a fragile identity that is only held together by the pursuit of women and mating" you've already lost and you are the author of your own suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:00 PM
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Totally cute with the right outfit! Very fall and cuddly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:04 AM
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I mean you've trapped their thirst, use it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:00 AM
10

Option C: I burst through the emergency exit back door and escape my captors into the wilderness where I survive on berries and build a secret cabin deep in the woods to live out my days
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:58 AM
2

Meh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:55 PM
5

Refuse to sit on a public toilet seat because it's "gross" so instead they hover and pee all over the toilet seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:31 PM
1

Any woman who can make herself orgasm it's possible for. We don't have a refractory period.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:22 PM
1

Intermittent fasting and treating my binge eating problem really helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:43 AM
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Eh yeah I agree therapists were very hit or miss for me and mostly miss. Sometimes when life gets bad though it's nice to just vent to someone who isn't gonna ghost you for putting your weird mental health bs on them. There were times it was worth paying out of pocket for me to do. Honestly though cognitive behavior therapy can be learned at home and done on worksheets, plus I've found exercise and personal philosophy to be way more vital to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:42 AM
1

Yeah it's better if you don't think about how we can have multiple sequential orgasms that don't decline in pleasure. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:36 AM
5

Ummm what about how only this century in some countries women got human rights like voting and owning property?? There's still countries today where women are property, and we're just a handmaid's tale away from becoming slaves again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:15 AM
2

It was mind blowing. I had a lot of casual sex and was super surprised to actually be able to hook up with hot guys. I was chubby when younger and struggled to date but with my weight loss + tinder I slayed. After a while though it gets repetitive and ironically though I met most men through old 100% of my boyfriends have been people I met irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:56 PM
1

Just kind of abrupt and got in my personal space real fast. One time he was like "can I take a pic of your sweater" and I didn't even say yes he just did it. Just little stuff, ended up being charming later but I can be slow to warm up to people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:56 PM
2

Hahaha aww
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:59 PM
2

Literally so true. My current boyfriend is probably the most attractive to me of any man I've dated, but when I first met him I thought he was rude and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:54 PM
2

It would be fine if people posted here saying "some women don't know what they want" because that's certainly true. I've even seen similar posts from women talking about how men will be married for 12 years and can't name 3 things they love about their wife and then someone says "men don't care about women". In reality the sexist posts are more like "women don't know anything about dating" and "women's opinions don't matter" or even just "all women are that way and this is why" regardless of OP'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:53 PM
2

Yes Stoicism literally saved my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:47 PM
2

I would probably try to take him to the hospital first. My ideal male body type is skinny as fuck so actually if my boyfriend decides to bulk like this one day I would probably lose my lady boner for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:45 PM
2

I'm a woman and I don't want to die alone, I'm saying everyone fucking does even if you have 6 wives your death is only your own. Memento mori.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:41 PM
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With peace and love, I know this subreddit is about dating but some of ya'll need to live a little more life and not put dating on a pedestal or see it as a life goal. The world is changing and weird and tense. It took me almost a decade but I found happiness alone by just improving my life, my mental health and my inner philosophy. I am content to die alone if that's how it goes because I am fulfilling myself as a human in many other ways. There's more to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:35 PM
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Bruh op ain't here to debate only to derail your point. I tried too..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:28 PM
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Ultimately I agree with your point, but the lines you draw in the sand will only cause you suffering. People who toe average in appearance (if they don't lock themselves inside the first time the get called ugly) will find that beauty is really in the eye of the beholder. Also real life attraction needs more than just looks - it is also built on chemistry, emotional connections, humor, and lots of other things that vary based on the individual. If you count "she didn't like her first impressions…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:23 PM
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My point was too good huh, stun locked 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:00 PM
1

I think you should expand your bubble, they are out there, hi hello I am one right here trying to tell you that!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:48 PM
9

So you're only into rape or what? If a woman says "ooh yes daddy fuck me" you say "ugh your opinions are irrelevant" and your penis goes soft?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:47 PM
7

Oh yeah 100%. I was really shy/awkward and had a hard time with eye contact and a lot of social stuff. It made dating so hard I was essentially involuntarily celibate until I was 24! Although in this context it might make more sense to say ignorantly celibate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:45 PM
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Bruh you gotta stop acting like a few crazies represent me just because we have the same genitals. Fuck FDS and fuck sexism on both sides. Of course if humans were individuals with personal differences not based entirely on sex then you couldn't make such easy ultimatums and have such inflammatory arguments. Ugh you'd have to say "some women" instead of just women?? Too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:40 PM
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Excuse me they found a post on Twitter with 30k likes I think they know what they're talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:30 PM
3

Actually it's true, also that's why some men have small penises because they had so much sex the woman's vagina squished it down much smaller and wore it out. Love turning those guys logic back on them every time lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:30 PM
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You're lucky you haven't had to deal with guys like that. Once had to explain to a grown man that large labia were not because she got fucked a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:27 PM
3

Ok well then women still win?? If "not all of them" doesn't count then men are rapists and mass murderers. Not a good argument to try as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:26 PM
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No one is forcing you to rot (unless you're actually on Reddit in prison??) but go ahead be the victim. Move to Iran where the women are forced to rot instead and then you can stop victimizing yourself. Your logic is some people have a better experience than me so I might as well have no experience at all? You may find a lot of benefit talking to a professional about some cognitive behavioral therapy, with peace and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:19 PM
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I'm trying to imagine a relationship where a woman would be attracted to a man who thinks her opinions don't matter... Maybe a woman who already hates herself...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:08 PM
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What about women whose opinions are that you're sexy and they want to fuck you? Pretty sure that matters to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:07 PM
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I did fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:59 PM
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When I was young I was always told how many men would pursue me that I'd have to beat them away like flies and lots of popular media supports the "just exist" female dating strategy... Then when I was ready to date: the sound of crickets. Through my 20s I was asked out in public by a stranger maybe 3 times. It is pretty rare unless you're an extremely hot (like top 15%) woman to be cold approached. I had huge success once I actually got a social life and made online dating profiles. Online datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:36 PM
1

This guy is not okay. One time I owned him in a comment and he went through my post history and insulted my dumb hobbies. He just resorts to personal attacks but the mods don't care if he does it for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:53 PM
8

Well men are raping women. Men are killing women. Oh not all men you say? Yeah well not all women. I demand you approach me in public or at work. I will make the first move if I have to tho. :p If you're upset with women maybe evaluate the insane over generalizations you're making. You're literally suffering based on your imagination lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:55 PM
12

Seriously. These apps you have to look at like a casino. They don't want you to win, they want you to keep gambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:49 PM
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I'm sure they count my account too even though I've basically stopped dating but randomly open the app thinking I'll start once in a while. I know I'm blessed as a woman to have lots of options but somehow it makes them all feel less real. There's so much more romantic power meeting someone irl imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:47 PM
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As a woman I prefer this too. So hard to find a human man to be attracted to in a sea of weird selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:45 PM
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Yes I am struggling to maintain friendships. Your words are hurtful, why did I trigger you so hard??? Sheesh you don't have to attack a loser like me ok I've been bullied my whole life lmao. Hope stepping on me at least made you feel a little better bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:18 PM
5

My up votes 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:35 PM
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The amount of good looking young men socially crippled by anxiety/autism is absolutely rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:12 PM
5

Cue the response post tomorrow "not everyone is looking for casual sex I'm tired of seeing you guys say this stuff blah blah blah"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:09 PM
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I don't think you're gonna like the consequences of that line of reasoning, that what a few women do reflects on all women. When a man shoots up a school does that make all men look bad? Should all men feel bad because some men are psychopath mass murderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:45 PM
2

I said the same thing. Had them 12 years after first being recommended to have them removed. Everything was fine until one just flipped. I had crazy tooth pain and couldn't open my jaw all the way. Had to get them out and paid thousands plus the jaw pain lasted many months after they were gone too. Wish I had just done it when my parents were paying for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:52 AM
1

Chicks can be crazy evil and I say this as one. I may have never gotten physically attacked but I was relentlessly bullied by a lot of girls who were supposed to be friends growing up. Girls can be so so cruel :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:31 AM
2

We could say your scenario is a strawman too. You're talking about some perfect woman who hates herself but somehow believes it when a man doesn't and wants to date her? That's not how low self esteem works in the real world. Most women's low self esteem manifests negatively too, and men with choice when it comes to dating will always choose the woman who isn't too self conscious to be seen naked or always accusing them of cheating. Of course you'll see men gobbling up your opinion on here - one…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:16 AM
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I agree women with low self esteem can just as easily externalitize it and be like the man in this description - jealous and hypercritical women are definitely also a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:03 AM
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So funny how when it works in their favor people on this subreddit suddenly are saying "actually women say they do this for another reason and we should believe them." Where are the men who think women don't know their own opinions/desires now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:27 AM
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I mean to be shallow, hot and cold is way more passionate and kind of addicting.. I also think you can do it without being mean to her. Being a little selfish can be good for you. It's nice to be loving too, but after many years of being with someone you'll see the sexiness in taking what you need for yourself. If there's no occasional dark it can be hard to keep noticing the light
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:42 AM
0

Does it suck to always feel bad for yourself or do you actually kind of like it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:41 AM
1

Omg that's beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:16 AM
0

Ok while I have you here since you know everything any tips on getting men to believe me instead of call me a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:13 AM
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Here's the thing. If the guy is hot he can be nice. I've been treated classically "nice" and romantically by men I was attracted to and I loved it. If the guy is not physically attractive, he can still win me over if he has good game, personality, humor, or charisma. A big part of seeming confident is acting like you have high value. Someone with high value doesn't compromise, doesn't play nice just to please people, thinks his ideas are right, and ultimately cares more about himself. A lot of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:17 PM
1

Seriously I'm 30 how can I even answer a question like this without making random guesses as to what dating was like 20 years ago? I was literally playing Pokémon dude I don't know wtf men and women were doing. I guess it is posed as "what do you think" but still. How bored can you be lol at least let's talk about something concrete not "um maybe it's this!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:48 PM
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Only saw one. I don't recommend doing any gambling with your bets
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:05 PM
1

As lucky as I am to have planned parenthood I do not think birth control is free worldwide lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:59 PM
3

What western countries rely on immigration? I think the US is probably the only one I can name that has benefited from it, but our last president basically said immigrants are dirty criminals so I don't really see the US as pro immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:27 PM
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So how would you feel if I wrote a long ass thread detailing how men behave that was clearly not accurate? How would you feel if I said "I'm just trying to educate" while saying all men are shallow and dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:24 PM
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Um actually he's had a few crushes on girls so he actually does know everything about women and what every single woman wants in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:19 PM
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Where are all the men who were in my thread saying there's no way a woman could understand a man's experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:17 PM
4

No no no you see he has had crushes on a few girls so actually he knows everything about how all women operate and think! Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:16 PM
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What gives you the right to speak for women?? You'll never understand a woman's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:15 PM
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Alert everyone! This man had crushes on a few girls and now he knows what women want and how all women in the world think/act!! We did it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:14 PM
2

They could just allow immigration but they don't want brown babies now do they :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:05 PM
1

That's literally what the people in power want. We won't fight the man when we're focused on red vs blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:04 PM
6

True, there's basically 2 populations breeding. Those who can afford it and those who can't afford/access birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:03 PM
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I think a lot of it is because of men being the only ones allowed to own property in the recent past. Women only got a lot of their rights within the last 100 years so I think the philosophies they fueled live on. Since men owned the property they wanted to make sure their kids were really theirs considering the man was providing for them and also letting them inherit his property. Essentially women can always know the child they give birth to is theirs. Men can't really know easily if a child i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:58 AM
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People don't get married and have kids but they do move in together and get a dog. If society moved to more community based and multi family homes, I could see amount of people having kids increasing. Ultimately though who/why is anyone so concerned about human kind not reproducing? We'd be cool to chill on it a little the way the planets kind of burning
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:48 AM
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Seriously. My grandpa bought a home and had 9 kids on essentially an entry level job. Nobody wants to have kids when they can barely afford their 1br cardboard apartment. Who would want to bring a child into this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:11 AM
2

Yep. Huge. The variation within groups is greater than variation between groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:13 PM
3

Yes I definitely agree with this! the very online and undersocialized young man is an intense subculture. Most people who just go outside and talk to humans enough will naturally find connections or at least learn how to make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:36 PM
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I'm a young man who got rejected by the only crush I approached in high school so now I KNOW that women are all hypergamous sluts only looking for tall rich chads! After one experience and reading some blogs I am an expert on dating and how women work. The only reason I can never get laid is the hypergamous sluts are too shallow!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:32 PM
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LMAO IF you think the overwhelming shit response to my CMV post has made me feel better!!! Ahahahahaha that's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:19 PM
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Failed to change my view, misses my point completely. I never said ugly men don't exist or have a great life. I said most men who consider themselves ugly looking are actually not. As displayed in these comments I was wrong, they probably all look fine but it is their personality/attitude/constantly victimizing themselves when no one was even attacking them that makes them ugly. So ok fine guys you're all ugly is that what you wanted??? Ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:44 PM
2

I agree with you. I find it way way easier to be attracted to someone irl than over an app... Honestly I would say I'm sorry life sucks... I read a lot of Stoic works so I have a kind of "harsh" philosophy and sometimes it comes off wrong. I believe a relationship is not mandatory for a happy/successful life. There are certainly people who fail to ever attract someone. There is not "someone" for everyone, in biology not all organisms necessarily get to reproduce and that's just life. You get wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:06 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:58 PM
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Exactly, excellent point. I believe there's so much to gain from working on providing young people mental healthcare and helping young men... At the end of the day he was a murderer but before that he was probably just a kid in need of more care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:56 PM
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I'm just saying if you smell shit everywhere you go, it might be on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:51 PM
2

I didn't say being ugly was worse for women. I'm saying a lot of men think they're ugly when they're not actually bad looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:49 PM
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Actually when I was unattractive and sought approval of others I did get disgust, smirks, annoyance, and pity!! I literally was approaching boys and men I had crushes on and being rejected. I'm not even trying to say that I had it worse than men. You got me so wrong sheesh, kind of feel like I'm just shouting into a void..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:47 PM
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Intensely brave
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:48 PM
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I'm really sorry if my comment offended you or seems to be against all men. I adore most men and know many honorable, amazing men that I admire. That's why it's especially disheartening to encounter some men who are not honorable. Men are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:47 PM
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No. I love them. :( I really do. I wouldn't be here arguing about them if I didn't deeply care and feel for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:45 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:40 PM
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Me. My dad used to say "you'll have to fight all the men off with a bat!" and much to my dismay all I had to do was ask them out and they ran for the hills lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:39 PM
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You sure like that word gaslight huh?? Haha Women telling you their unique personal preferences (for example I've always fallen hard for broke boys, the golden heart no money Aladdin type) does not mean they are saying you're lying. I understand some women want rich men. I am personally grossed out by wealth (eat the rich) and find that all power corrupts - including the power of being rich. I have a lot more fondness for the poor underdog, the guy who commits crimes to steal bread for the hungr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:37 PM
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100 years ago a woman likely wouldn't live in a single family home so yes she would have it easier when it comes to taking care of the kids. Childcare is much much easier when you have spare grandparents aunts uncles and cousins around to help out here and there. They weren't kidding when they said it takes a village.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:25 PM
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Yes it's the new normal!! My friend suffered severe depression and would talk openly about it and one guy gave her a hard time a out it. A few years later... Said guy comes up to her "I've been going through depression and you're totally right I was an asshole." The normies are getting it now too. I think it is a first world problem for a reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:23 PM
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If it's a dumb/cliche tattoo it can be unattractive. I agree that they're almost always +++sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:21 PM
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Today I learned that men on this sub aren't mad because they're struggling to date, men are mad that they're not top 20% hot because hot men get to treat women like shit and still get laid. So they basically just wish they could treat women like shit and get away with it. Sometimes you learn things you'd rather have not. :/ cheers to any of the decent kind men out there I know you're not all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:17 PM
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The world is not just
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:13 PM
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That's it. Men aren't sad about being ugly they're just sad they can't treat women like shit. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:12 PM
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Even if that were true, fine then, don't pursue young shallow white women! Women are not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:11 PM
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Wtf I literally said I've fallen for ugly men. Also the whole point of my post in case you didn't read it is that most men who struggle to get laid vastly underestimate their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:09 PM
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No, my whole point is it's men that don't know how to rate men. Men, if you're not attracted to men, stop pretending you know what's attractive. If you find men attractive then we can talk. Really really sad to see a decent looking guy getting ripped down for being "ugly" by other male incels. They do it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:07 PM
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I guess it's possible. Everyone here will send you that study that showed women with more partners were more likely to divorce... In reality I found that sleeping around taught me the grass is actually greener where you water it. If I hadn't personally slept around to see how shitty it was, I probably wouldn't be as content now with my boyfriend. I used to imagine there would be some man I'd find who was amazing at sex that would blow me away, but in truth sleeping around just blurs together aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:04 PM
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It depends on the people you sleep with. Sex can be very good if people connect and communicate well. Some men can be good teachers while others will just say "meh the virgin was bad."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:59 PM
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I hear you on that. I really think this has more to do with the overwhelming number of men on dating apps. If it's 1 woman for every 4 men, of course the women in that situation are going to be able to choose more attractive men because the numbers are just in their favor. That doesn't mean online dating and the "studies" done of it are representative of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:45 PM
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The goal post moved to sleeping with many women now? My original point is that the majority incels are not undateable due to their looks, but they blame it as an easy excuse to not do any hard work. Yes social skills are hard to learn, but you'd think with how important men claim that sex with women is, if someone said "here's a solution" why wouldn't they try??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:42 PM
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Aw thanks for saying I'm an expert! That's nice but odd because I never claimed to be an expert so thanks for the compliment. As far as men in my age bracket yes at least 50% are good looking enough to be an option for me. If you look around irl, if you actually know people outside of Reddit, there's millions of average people dating each other. This world where women all date chads is a ridiculous fairy tale men tell themselves so they aren't sad a 9/10 doesn't worship them. Ask yourself how ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:39 PM
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You think all women in the world are blond 20 year old above average looks white women in evening gowns with heavy foundation and makeup?? You think women just walk around with a big red X button and hit it anytime they see a bald man? Lmao it's just ridiculous to even try to use some shitty game show as an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:26 PM
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I don't see how this even contests the CMV point I made. Most men who blame looks are actually not below average. Who said I was enlightened? Lol I'm definitely just a dumb human like anyone else. I do not contest that men have dating harder or that looks aren't important. I am very aware how my looks (and the chores I do for them) are almost the only thing that most men care about from me. I could make the same argument you made about me being fat about men having bad social skills. They're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:20 PM
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How could I miss it? It is the only supporting evidence you have because it's probably erroneous. Online dating is not real life. You all also know the huge disparity of amount of men and women in OLD, don't you think that would affect any data taken from the few women who do online dating??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:13 PM
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I totally get that. When I went from being fat to being thin, I realized I had never been truly treated well. It's sad to think that average men get treated even marginally like how I was treated when I was fat. I went from being completely invisible to feeling like all eyes were on me, especially if I wear yoga pants or a nice dress or something. Even customer service and making friends is better. I do think women have a lot of fear about men in public. I know even when I see an attractive guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:00 PM
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Is that how you talk to women? Bud, I don't think your looks are the problem. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:55 PM
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Excuse my French but fuck those shallow bitches. They do not represent my sex frankly I'm disgusted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:50 PM
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I hear you it's all good, I love being a devil's advocate haha. I appreciate your discourse as well. I really disagree with that 80% bit. I know it's from a study cited here a lot but I think something is wrong with that data, most women I know irl rate more on a bell curve and above the halfway point it gets real contentious as far as is he exceptionally hot or not, but we can all agree that at least 50% of men in our age range are above average in appearance. Data pulled from online dating is …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:47 PM
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Men are selective too. I have been rejected many times and I am not an ugly woman. I understand dating is hard and I have way more empathy for the struggle than people assume, I'm just trying to point out a lot of men are basically shooting themselves in the foot and giving up by believing they're so ugly no one would ever like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:28 PM
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They don't though. Looks open a door but if the personality/humor isn't there I will shut it. I have fallen for plenty of ugly men as a woman for the record. Not that you'd ever believe women when they repeatedly say looks don't matter the most my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:21 PM
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Yikes that's the most insulting thing I think you could have said to me. Eat. The. Rich. If standards are really all rising, how do all women get to have a hot man? The math just doesn't add up. How do you explain the millions of average men married?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:17 PM
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This post is to change my view and you have failed. You are welcome to base your whole life on some okcupid studies (dead app much??) while the pot belly men with wives walk right past you at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:13 PM
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I actually believe that a relationship is not a mandatory part of a happy life, but I also have a ton of empathy for people who struggle due to things outside of their control. Usually though, some of the stuff is actually something they can work on... Even looks can be improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:11 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:09 PM
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He probably then went on to complain about the "cruelty of all women" in a ppd thread lmao. Don't get me started on how vehemently men believe their smiles are ugly!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:09 PM
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This sounds like it's only in the context of cold approaching strangers, so it sounds like the second point I make where you're painting all women with the brush one bitch handed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:07 PM
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Uhh as far as I use the word it means "involuntarily celibate" and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:06 PM
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I'm not talking about online dating I'm talking about real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:05 PM
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That's totally fine, I may never truly understand. I do know what it's like to be an incel, trying to date for 8 years with no success so I'm really sorry for all those who struggle. No offense to you but you may look to improve yourself in ways besides your looks, ask a close friend for insight maybe or just do research more into better social skills, being charming, and making people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:36 PM
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Yes, you're right people constantly blame outside forces for things they control. That's why it's an easy out. Facing/understanding the truth is a lot harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:31 PM
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