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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	10 things that cold approaching thaught me.	Fundamentals	BigOrangeTank	/r/seduction	25/04/22 08:01 PM

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1	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. That is awesome man! How many approaches are you doing in a month more or less? It seems like your success rates are very nice	/r/seduction	26/04/22 06:13 PM
1	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. Tnx bro. I see you are a also a cold approach warrior. It is nice to see other guys who are also following this very hard path	/r/seduction	26/04/22 02:00 PM
2	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. My main goal is to get rid of AA for good. I think if I am able to do 50 approaches a month (specially daygame) I'll be able to get rid of it soon. I felt major improvements already. consistency is key I guess. Right now I try to go out every day to do 5 approaches.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 01:07 PM
2	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. First of all, the main goal is just to approach. If you approached you won. But if things are going well, that depends on the setting: For night game: The goal would be to isolate her from her friends to get a drink and kiss her. After that (even if you did not make out with her) set the idea of having a date with her during the next couple of days and get her number. If things are going REALLY well, try getting her to another venue, another bar or a place to get something to eat. If she likes y…	/r/seduction	26/04/22 04:12 AM
1	Encountering a situation and want to see what y’all think Yep, I do the same. Girls saying stuff like that are classic shit tests to see how confident you are. If you try to deny or explain yourself you just lost her. Just agree with them, and exaggerate in a jokingly way, maybe something like "yep, you are right, when are you free for a drink?"	/r/seduction	25/04/22 11:03 PM
3	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. I feel you bro! I hate approching girls with masks on! But Most girls do not seem to care, even if you are not wearing a mask too.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 10:42 PM
2	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. Thank you so much dude! In my opinion "feeling like I am bothering people" is just your anxiety talking. You know what, maybe you will be bothering them, is that a crime? No. Some girls will look at you disgusted and some will say that "you brightened their day". You will only get over this feeling once you do enough approaches (even just warmups) and see that people don't care about that as much as you think. Until then, you won't be able to believe even if everyone tells you it is fine. About …	/r/seduction	25/04/22 10:41 PM
4	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. Great age to start my dude! But I disagree with you with the "I just need to think of it as me doing them a favor by getting the opportunity to meet me" mindset. In my experience, no amount of rationalization will be enough to force you to approach. I have awful approach anxiety, and no frame or line of thought ever helped me with that. What helps me are small steps. All you have to think is "I want to meet girls" and take the smallest step your brain is courageous enough to do, like asking for …	/r/seduction	25/04/22 10:36 PM
4	10 things that cold approaching thaught me. Well, I had a few lays from cold approach from night game. This one on the post was a pretty girl I met in a club. Approached her and her friends by just saying "Hi" and the conversation went on. Eventually I kissed her, got her number, and after one date in the following week we ended up in bed. I rarely had one-night stands, I think girls often feel "slutty" and avoid doing that, specially when she is with her friends. I think it is pretty rare to go to bed with a girl straight from the cold a…	/r/seduction	25/04/22 10:31 PM