BigPurple5284 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	I think I've reached my breaking point: I've become addicted to female validation and I can't stop. Has anyone else gone through this? You are, fundamentally, seeking relationship advice This sub - a PUA sub for the terminally online - is not a good resource for the answers you seek	/r/seduction	10/06/26 03:00 AM
11	How to successfully get woman of any age? First of all, game isnt a fucking one-size-fits-all hat. Approaching college girls is fundamentally different than approaching women with a mortgage. The only ageless advice is the generic sidebar fundamentals - holding frame, how to handle shit tests, etc Second of all, age is a correlating factor, not a defining one. The real considerations are maturity & direction; they often correlate with age, but they aren't strictly tied to it. I've met aimless & broke 30+ women who fit the college girl p…	/r/seduction	04/06/26 01:43 PM
3	Can you be misogynist and successful with women at the same time? /thread	/r/seduction	04/06/26 12:05 PM
8	I hear dating is hard now? Why is that? Idk I think people are just antisocial Dating is really just being social. Meeting a stranger. Having a conversation. Getting to know someone. Learning something new. Sharing your perspective It isn't hard. If you do it right, it's pretty damn fun. And that's assuming outcome independence here. Whether or not you get a second date, or a wife, or a lay, doesn't matter. Talking to a new person should be FUN. We are supposed to be social creatures! But no. At least in my circles, that terrifies mos…	/r/seduction	28/05/26 02:33 AM
14	This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it. I mean, to be fair, a lot of posts in this sub these days are absolute nonsense, written by either teenagers or "gurus" selling a Patreon subscription My perception is somewhat aligned with yours. I think (1) the crowd who can leisurely browse on reddit during the day, and (2) the cultures where seduction & hookups are commonplace absolutely tend to skew (a) western, and (b) above a certain income level. But people can only really speak from their own experience & worldview. I wouldn't know how …	/r/seduction	26/05/26 06:45 PM
1	Is the life of promiscuity worth it? There are some earthly pleasures that can only be satisfied by running game There are others that are mutually exclusive against that lifestyle It all depends what you need at this point in your life	/r/seduction	13/04/26 02:35 AM
7	To men who work remote: I generally think it's a bad idea to hit on coworkers, so teleworking shouldn't make any impact. Just cold approach wherever you go in your personal time: stores, venues, parks, etc etc etc	/r/seduction	23/02/26 01:11 PM
9	Have you noticed a prejudice against you based on nationality in seduction? I think about this somewhat often Love/sex/dating seems to be the only remaining sphere where abject racism is still universally normalized. Folks can announce "I'll only/never date {insert race/nationality/ethnic group}", nobody bats an eye. If the same person says the same thing in the context of employment, they face litigation I have no conclusions or judgments to offer from this observation, it's just a really interesting facet of the human condition imo. OP is certainly not hallucinating, …	/r/seduction	19/02/26 02:06 PM
0	Yes i went to work and I got off early enough to spend V-Day with my FWB . We're all happy that you're happy, cheers Small piece of unsolicited advice, reevaluate your frame. You sound as though you're annoyed that your responsibilities almost prevented you from drooling over this girl. Instead, approach it as: your responsibilities as a man always come first, this chick is lucky you could still fit her in, {insert joke about fitting in her} Clearly did just fine tonight, but small framing shit like this will make an impact on future targets, scarcity mindset or someth…	/r/seduction	15/02/26 07:53 AM
8	Dating advice for submissive guys Gentlemen: never ask a gazelle how it wants the lion to act	/r/seduction	07/02/26 07:45 PM
4	How to build confidence for wanting to start dating when you still live at home? This is the way. OP's clear insecurity over living at home will be a far greater handicap than the actual fact. Have a growth plan, feel confident in it, work towards it, own your current situation. Some woman may still be uninterested, forget them. The rest are fair game - act like a man, own your life with a smile, profit	/r/seduction	01/02/26 09:54 PM
9	Girls giving me dirty looks at parties, is it my fault? This is not a business meeting. A smile and a collective 'hey' is plenty. Even your explanation here sounds like you're super invested in what each person thinks of a simple greeting. Not very cool or nonchalant At best, you're giving 'nice guy' vibes. I'm sure you are just being polite & considerate, but 'nice guys' tend to watch the hot blonde leave the party with a... less nice guy	/r/seduction	30/01/26 05:00 AM
17	Girls giving me dirty looks at parties, is it my fault? A) shit test. You've failed. If you are still dwelling on these micro interactions long after the fact, I guarantee you do not play it off nonchalantly in-the-moment. Hold frame, act confident, don't let insignificant bullshit get under your skin, it'll make a difference B) for whatever reason, these girls were genuinely disgusted by you. It happens. Don't dwell on things beyond your control The bit about working around the circle to individually shake four girls' hands is a little weird, don't …	/r/seduction	30/01/26 04:41 AM