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That’s just not true. Some people actually have moral convictions and their politics reflect that. You’re projecting so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:49 AM
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Holy shit what a likable guy. I never seen him not acting but he seems much more down to earth than big actors typically are. I understand the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:32 PM
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He can’t say “penguin”? Hah what a fucking idiot!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:49 PM
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Can you observe people’s DNA? Did you even read the comment? And we go back again to zetetic astronomy. Senses aren’t reliable when we’re talking about natural law. Also “studies are not science” is another great one. You’re just full of gems. We’re talking about scientific studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:26 PM
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“You can make studies support anything easily” is hilarious. If that’s how you think about science then you’re beyond reason. Studies contradict their own hypothesis all the time. I would urge you to try to construct an experiment that proves gravity is fake. Or since we’re on the topic of genetics, design a population study that shows that 100% of people have blue eye genes. Well-supported theories are the closest thing to facts we have. Direct observations have been very wrong since the beginn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:53 PM
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What race would you classify the Tajik people? Kazakhs? Eastern Russians? Libyans? Also the whole “observation > science” is the literal foundation of zetetic pseudoscience. The school of thought that gave us such gems as flat-earth theory. You’re arguing that because you feel something is real, or that your senses confirm it, that its scientifically irrelevant. Sorry but facts don’t care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:49 AM
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Yeah you’re definitely correct but as the joke goes it’s hard to explain the difference without sounding like a pedophile lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:47 AM
2

He seems like he’s an “ackshually it’s ephebebebe” kinda guy. Aka a real deal pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:14 AM
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Calls you irrational with zero counterargument after you site scientific studies. Absolutely priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:11 AM
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There’s no point in mentioning it I just genuinely love women and I’m into astrology (I love eating pussy btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:13 AM
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I’m a man here and I hate men (I’m 6’2” btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:46 PM
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Ok Goldilocks xD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:35 PM
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Unironically is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:33 PM
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Holy shit that’s a lot of “not too hot not too cold but just right” shit. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:31 PM
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I would imagine a lot of mgtow just rage quit dating because they were having a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:31 AM
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Well you know it takes a real alpha to exploit vulnerable children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:29 AM
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Never heard of alpha-con but just by the name it sounds immensely cringe lmao. Sounds like it would attract an absolute cesspool of self-aggrandized losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:27 AM
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I look at myself in the mirror while I squat and deadlift for form. I wear gym shorts and normal fitting t shirts. I have mirrors in my home if I want to check myself out. The gym is a weird place to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:06 AM
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You’re definitely right about the selfie part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:03 AM
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Doesn’t make me uncomfortable. I mean I am a bit of a perv so I’d be lying if I said I didn’t appreciate the sight on occasion. But usually I actually feel exactly like you do, it’s a little bit annoying and clearly not practical or necessary. It does seem vain and like some sort of weird mating display or something. I feel the same way about guys who wear those tiny string tanks and so forth. I get perfect mobility in my gym shorts and t shirt. I’ll wear a regular tank if I’m really working har…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:17 AM
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Tropes. Life is a movie therefore the popular jocks and cheerleaders are dumb bullies and the unattractive nerds are really smart good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:58 PM
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No I got that. I was just messing with you. Makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:36 PM
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Brave of you to say you don’t want to fuck black guys. Jk. But I do wonder which is worse. Fetishizing black guys or saying you wouldn’t want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:09 PM
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Because racist cucks see them as not human, making the sex more degrading for the woman. Same reason nazis are obsessed with interracial porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:35 PM
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Hmm that’s interesting. Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:53 PM
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Conversely the women won’t find a guy who worships them unless they date “down”. It’s painfully common to hear girls complaining about their partner who takes them for granted or treats them like second priority. It’s because they worked so hard to date up and the guy they found feels like he’s dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:37 AM
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100% with the right brainwashing techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:34 AM
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Lol how do they think you managed to stay a virgin? By fucking every guy you know after a week? They gotta be delusional if they think they’re so special that you’d change your entire sexual behavior for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:01 AM
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Yeah exactly. How are you going to slut shame every woman who has more than 1 body then get mad that it’s hard to find sex? Or equally absurd, calling women who won’t fuck you sluts and whores. It’s psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:58 PM
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I’m curious though. Why do you think women think about gay guys so much? Like as in what motivates that supposed fixation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:44 PM
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I think the notion that women constantly think about gay men is a pretty wild one. I seriously doubt gay guys take up very much more of a woman’s mental space than lesbians do of mine (which is not much).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:30 PM
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Bro you’re doing a fallacy lmao. You can’t just say something wild and then say “and they will try to deny it”. Then when someone denies your wild claim you say “see! See! She’s denying it!” That’s not how proof works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:19 PM
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Nah I think they definitely do. I’m pretty smart. Not in a book smart way, I haven’t done much education and I don’t work a job like the ones you listed. But more in terms of critical thinking, wittiness, that sort of thing. One of the most common compliments I hear from girls who are interested in me is “you strike me as really smart”/“I can tell you’re a very deep thinker”. This is of course anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:12 PM
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Facts. I also like the variation “if everyone you meet smells like dogshit, you probably stepped in dogshit”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:04 AM
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Oh believe me I know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:46 AM
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I like chubby girls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:30 AM
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Reminds me of the time one of those right wing podcast idiots said “the problem isn’t me, it’s gotta be everyone else” unironically when explaining why he was still single in his 30s. Pro tip, if you EVER catch yourself saying “everyone else is the problem” you need to do some immediate self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:54 AM
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Ok my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:21 PM
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Yeah come on guys, they use trucks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:09 PM
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I’m not denying that a sex bot would be a popular thing. I’m saying it will never fully replace the human desire for real sex. Women have 10 inch 3-pronged vibrating golden dildos and an infinite supply of porn too and they still have sex with guys, and don’t even cum most of the time. Very very few people who watch porn think “this is enough for me, because of this porn I no longer need to find a real relationship”. They all still desire that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:02 AM
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Pet is still a mutual relationship. There are things you have to do in order to maintain a relationship with a pet, though I admit they are less involved than a human relationship. A sex bot required nothing be put into it (besides your cock) and that will not create the same sense of fulfillment as a pet, friendship, or romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:59 AM
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With likes it’s because you know there is a real person on the other end and you’re receiving validation from that real person. Even when people buy fake bot likes on Instagram it’s because they think it will make their account more appealing to real people. Video games provide validation because there is a challenge and process involved. You’re still forced to “win” something. You don’t have to “win over” a sex bot. If you did have to, then what would be the point? Your last point makes sense. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:54 AM
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No beauty is too subjective. There are already women who prefer Michael Cera to Michael B Jordan. Any “11/10” man you find might not even beat you or me in the eyes of every single woman on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:22 AM
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Tech can’t meet the need of validation. Relationships aren’t just about the physical sensation of sex or the sharing of resources. We all want to feel wanted. You will never get that from a robot no matter how life-like it is as long as you know it’s programmed to “love” you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:19 AM
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“Spinning plates”. That’s literally about being a promiscuous male. And the exact type of behavior they criticize in women. Don’t get me wrong I think banging multiple hot women at a time is very cool. I don’t think it should degrade a woman’s “value” to do the same. Without sluts I can’t be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:17 AM
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If you offer first she should offer to split if she’s a good person. The defensiveness is jumping to the conclusion that I’m saying the burden should fall on the man to pay. Gender roles like that are stupid. I was addressing the post which asked about the dumbass redpill logic of never pay for her or whatever. One should offer to, don’t be a dick. And yeah I’m going to assume that as a man if you don’t offer, you’re not a good person AND you don’t have your life together. Stop trying to pin me …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:10 AM
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I just said you should offer. She should offer too. Why are you so defensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:35 AM
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Isn’t redpill about learning how to bang whores?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:55 AM
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I’m not Christian do it doesn’t really matter to me. Sex is a human desire. If you’re not dating someone seriously it’s still natural to want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:04 AM
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It’s lame. Always offer to pay, just be a good person. If the girl is a good person with her life together she’ll offer to split. If I’m on a date with a girl with a better job than me she may counter offer to pay in full. You can even insist on paying and she’ll see that as a really sweet gesture. Don’t follow rules, just be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:49 AM
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Why does having sex with multiple men in the past degrade a woman’s value?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:38 AM
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You notice that “civilized nations” haven’t banned the sale of goods produced with child labor? It’s not illegal as long as it’s outsourced. Also prostitution is illegal so it can’t be regulated like other industries. The reason domestic child labor is even able to be banned is because those industries are legal and regulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:46 PM
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“Or need the money to survive” congratulations you’ve stumbled upon the realization that all work is coercive in a capitalist system.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:02 AM
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And I’m saying it’s more important. People who say it’s not are lying to seem like better people. I’ll grant you that there may be the rare individual who genuinely doesn’t care about looks as much (or equally) but that’s an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:09 AM
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Lmao this dude is seething and ranting at you, but you’re the one “losing your mind”. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:06 AM
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Bro women have only entered the work force on a large scale in the last few decades what are you talking about? Of course men “built” society. Women couldn’t vote or own land or even voice their opinions in the home for the longest time. And if you’re American, and you want to talk about who “built” the country, maybe take a look at the massive unpaid labor force that produce the vast majority of our economic growth for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:04 AM
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True I think looks are usually a lot more important to men than women. BUT looks are also much more important to women than they like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:57 AM
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I simply don’t believe you. No one wants to date an ugly person even if they check all the other boxes. That’s the point of the post. People are afraid to admit it but I’ll be honest. I’d date a walking red flag if she’s my physical type but not an ugly woman with a great personality. I seriously doubt you would act differently despite what you say about it being a “50/50 split” or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:53 AM
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Absolutely. I shower 5 hours a day and I’m the most absurdly confident person you will ever meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:26 AM
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I think it more has to do with pickiness. I guess what you’re saying is a type of pickiness though. Also if a girl likes someone she might build up some ideal image of him in her head. It doesn’t take a lot to tear that image down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:33 PM
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Yeah that’s exactly how I feel. It’s pretty insane
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:09 PM
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Lol meanwhile there are entire Internet forums for MGTOW full of men who’s entire personality is being independent and they’re the same ones ragging on cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:06 AM
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I think it means she feels the need to travel internationally to have sex for some reason. Which is weird since sex probably exists in her home country but hey different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:04 AM
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I don’t think many women feel undeserving of any type of man. It’s kind of a cliche that your girlfriends constantly tell you “you can get any man you want, never settle for less”. But maybe on a subconscious level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:08 PM
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I just highly doubt it plays out like this in real life. I think the only thing this post proves is that what women say they want is completely disconnected from the reality of what they go for. And to an extent, some of the men in this comment section are being just as dishonest. I see how people behave in the real world and people are a lot more shallow than they’re letting on here. Almost everyone male or female would go for the more attractive partner bottom line. Nothing wrong with that it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:51 PM
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This is so interesting. With the women compared, one is more attractive but less “successful” and the other is the opposite (ie both have strengths and weaknesses). But with the men compared it’s clear that man #1 is both more attractive and more “successful”. Despite that the women in the comments are saying man #2 is the partner they’d rather have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:29 PM
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I think you’re probably right about earnings being correlated with beauty but I think it’s probably more about perceived intelligence. That good looking people are perceived as slightly more intelligent because of the halo effect. I doubt there’s much more than a weak correlation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:04 PM
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I had a lot less casual sex. It was really good for me. More time to focus on my career and fitness. It’s helped me get to the point where I’m ok being alone and I actually have women approaching me. Virtuous cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:13 PM
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Seconding a lot of these. Most social problems go back to economic factors. When the middle class is prosperous we fuck and start families. We have more time for meaningful relationships. When the middle class is weak we go into survival mode. Social media also has replaced some people’s desire for intimacy. Why go have boring sex with some mediocre dude when you can make $5000 and 100 thirsty simps by posting a slutty pic on Instagram/Onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:59 AM
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No. No amount of casual sex fills the void. But that’s something you need to learn for yourself. Sometimes it takes going from a depressed virgin to a depressed player with 50 bodies to finally realize that sex isn’t what you’re missing. But as long as you’re sexless you will be utterly convinced it’s the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:21 PM
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Yeah if the dildo wasn’t too hard I’d take a good pounding for my dream girl. Bonus if I cum from the prostate tickle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:10 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting to live according to traditional gender roles. What’s wrong is trying to enforce/expect them of others. People can live their lives how they want (as long as it doesn’t hurt others of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:39 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. It’s just not “by definition unattractive” for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:45 PM
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Some guys do like chubby girls. Some slightly to moderately overweight women are extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:39 PM
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I mean work isn’t what I’d most want to do with my time. But financial independence is great and I live in a nice place and I’m able to treat myself to fun stuff pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:13 PM
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Of course dude I know exactly how you feel, it’s such a hopeless feeling but no feeling is permanent. Just make it to tomorrow. Then one week. Then a month. Before you know it you’ll be at a 3 or 4 and able to start taking steps towards that 10 all on your own. Stay strong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:45 AM
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Sorry you’re struggling so much man. But try to think about everything in your life. EVERYTHING. Your family, your pets, hobbies, favorite show, what you had for dinner, your comfiest pillow. Is one single person really over 90% of that? Such that their presence or lack of can take you from a 10 to a 1 and back to a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:27 AM
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1 to 10 like an 8-8.5. I like my work (as much as you can like work), I feel content and motivated most days, depression and anxiety are disappearing, I exercise regularly, have fulfilling relationships platonic and sexual. I’m overcoming a lot of my insecurities and actually stepping into adulthood with more material comfort than I thought I’d ever have. Male unhappiness in my opinion comes from material conditions. Work-life balance for working class guys is nonexistent, we are increasingly ec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:07 AM
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If you don’t have difficulty fucking women you don’t go to the internet for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:49 AM
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I mean without making any moral judgements it’s a community based around dudes who have a hard time getting pussy right? Seems pretty obvious that at least a good chunk of them are virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:20 AM
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Most of redpill lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:15 AM
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I know how you feel. That’s how I felt as a teenager and I got into a lot of the manosphere shit as a result. There was some good that came from it in terms of the things I listed. But ultimately I absolutely promise you, women don’t hate ugly guys. They hate creeps. They can literally smell the redpill/incel/mgtow/whatever on you. The energy radiates from your pores. It sounds crazy but I promise you it’s true. Of course they want a tall, strong man with a good face who dresses well and has a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:10 AM
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Well which one is it am I jumping to conclusions? Or is he allowed to be bitter? I’m just trying to help you guys out. Manosphere/redpill mentality is repellent to women. They can smell your deep seething resentment. Take the good (gym, confidence, abundance) and leave the bad which is basically everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:48 PM
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Well we’re in a pandemic that certainly affects things. But if you’re struggling I don’t know what to tell you bro. Only thing would be women can smell bitterness. Manosphere shit is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:05 PM
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Literally 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:46 PM
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How do you mean? Feel like since it was quarantined it’s only grown more hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:41 PM
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You sound bitter because you can’t get laid. It really shouldn’t be that hard. Even with next to 0 effort. Again I don’t know what’s wrong with your face/personality but I’m a pretty average guy and I have random women ask for my number/DM me out of the blue all the time. If you’re chasing that’s a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:11 PM
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Sorry to say but maybe you’re just not very attractive. Or something else off-putting about you. I work two jobs and I’m super busy outside of work and it’s really not that hard to meet women. Actually I’d say having a busy, fulfilling life only helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:58 PM
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Woah it is! Good catch you’re learning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:42 AM
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It’s not an argument when you blatantly disregard my entire point lmao. Also pointing out that an insult isn’t an argument is equally not an argument. Dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:10 AM
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Man take that shit on Facebook auntie it’s an assault on my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:52 AM
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It’s actually pretty funny how blatantly you people miss the point. It’s either gotta be intentional or you’re barely functioning upstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:51 AM
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By pointing to things I didn’t say lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:51 AM
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You’re putting a lot of words in my mouth, and also literally doing what my original comment was about confusing the term “toxic masculinity” with me saying all masculine role models are toxic. I think you’re actually just too stupid to get it. Also I didn’t say a damn thing about men’s movements lmao what? Men face a ton of problems that need addressing. Suicide, homelessness, loneliness, socialization, violence, it goes on. I honestly have no idea what you’re talking about you’re jumping all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:59 AM
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My beliefs of what is “positive”? Well yes by definition a positive role model should conform to what I consider positive. I can’t wrap my head around what stupid point you’re trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:33 AM
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Describe inferior femininity then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:25 AM
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posts tweet by terminally online radfem psycho with 24 likes “This is how it’s used by actual people”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:19 AM
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Holy shit. No one is saying masculinity as a whole is toxic. “Toxic masculinity” is like saying “rotten apple”. You’re not calling ALL apples rotten, there’s a TYPE of apple that has BECOME rotten. You’re willful ignorance of how adjectives work is insane. Now I actually agree with the sentiment of the post, it is sadly acceptable to be horrible towards men in the mainstream, but it’s hard to look past it when you sound like such a moron in the very first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:15 AM
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Holy ellipses Batman!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:29 PM
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Nobody “deserves” anything (beyond basic needs and civil rights). That language is textbook entitlement which is fundamentally what FDS is about. I agree with your third paragraph. Imo traditional gender roles are stupid. But it’s straight up incompatible with your fourth paragraph. “Natural masculinity”? Stfu lmao. You can’t uphold traditional gender roles in one breath and reject them in another. You literally only want whatever serves you, which again goes back to the entitlement thing. Yeah …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:15 PM
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I think both can be pretty hateful/adversarial places towards the opposite gender. Don’t get me wrong I’m no TRP advocate. BUT fundamentally RP is geared around taking responsibility for your situation and at least working toward something. FDS is about doing absolutely nothing for yourself, waiting for the perfect man to come along and complaining. I’ve said this before but it’s really much more like an incel community than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:04 PM
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You’re spitting facts. Literally anyone can get therapy. If you work a busy job and you’re just a little on edge when you come home that’s grounds for therapy. You can go to therapy for minor social anxiety. Nobody is so perfect they couldn’t benefit from a little therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:12 AM
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There are two genders scrotes and foids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:04 AM
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My experience is very similar. I mean, there is a very slight sense of entitlement I get from redpill circles but that usually boils down to individual attitudes. While I disagree with many aspects of the redpill philosophy, it does ultimately come down to taking responsibility for your own life and own self. FDS ideology is fundamentally about entitlement. Taking personal responsibility is actively discouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:02 AM
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Yes that’s an even better analogy. It’s those “incels” with absurd beauty standards who won’t even look at their own “looksmatch” (to borrow their language)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:54 AM
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FDS is all about finding a literally flawless man and bitching about men who don’t live up to their fabricated ideal. They want someone who doesn’t need therapy because they naturally have perfect mental health which is just an absurd fantasy. In the real world there are men who need therapy and don’t get it, and men who need therapy and do get it. The ones who do are obviously a better choice for a stable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:13 PM
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People have compared FDS to redpill. I understand the analogy but I think they’re more like incels as far as the level of psychotic hatred they have for the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:09 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. Man 522 is big.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:39 PM
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Sorry I’m already reading a book I don’t have time for another right now. Any more discussion is pointless speculation until we know what the original commenter means by “weight loss surgery” and how heavy she was before. I honestly don’t even care that much about it because I love chubby girls. More power to y’all queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:57 AM
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That’s literally exactly my point. If you don’t have the discipline to lose weight without surgery you’re gonna gain it back because you probably still eat like shit and don’t exercise. I don’t get how any of what you’re saying has to do with anything it feels like you’re just grasping at straws to protect some positive narrative you have. u/purplish_possum can you maybe clarify what you mean by weight loss surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:59 AM
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Do you think she lost the weight through exercise then got surgery for the loose skin? No that’s not “weight loss surgery”. She got surgery to lose weight probably either gastric bypass or lipo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:56 AM
14

I’m not redpill today. I’ve grown past the need for it. But I went through an important redpill phase that I think allowed me to gain sexual confidence, self-respect and evolve past my bitchmade simp self. Before that I used to cuddle with this girl damn near everyday and she never wanted to smash, then she would kick me out of her place when she had a dick appointment. Also I had a “girlfriend” who I would basically just let go out and cheat on me when we had a fight. She’d start some shit, tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:02 AM
6

Should have told her to get off her ass and exercise. But don’t worry my man, if she doesn’t have the discipline to lose the weight without surgery she’ll get fat again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:57 PM
11

Careful FDS is gonna call you a low value male if you don’t continue to enable that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:54 PM
5

Plus the past wasn’t some glorious Norman Rockwell painting for every family. The source of our massive economic stimulation was a gruesome bloody war, there was legal segregation, women didn’t have certain civil liberties, and there were white working men who were still fucking poor! These guys think they’d be the happy ones, not everyone would actually be living the life that they imagine they would if they were transported back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:17 AM
0

You said underage AND barely legal. First of all there’s a huge difference in that both legally and morally. So if you’re grouping them together to make a point, it’s a stupid one. And I believe the person was saying men under 30 having sex with “barely legal” women isn’t pedophilia, not minors, based on their other replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:26 PM
1

You’re probably right that I’m getting hung up on the gross connotation of “conquest”. There may be less disagreement than I’m feeling, but that said haven’t really felt like I’ve truly “chased” a girl since I was like 16. Usually when relations happen it feels more mutual than that like magnets coming together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:21 AM
6

Long journey? Think we may just have different cultures or perspectives. Usually if I know a girl I want to fuck I ask her out or just try to fuck her and if she wants to fuck me we fuck and if not it’s no big deal. In my mind women aren’t prizes to be won. They’re human beings who want good sex just as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:51 AM
4

Obviously. I’m just saying that framing it as a “conquest” makes it seem more like a struggle than a pleasurable activity. I genuinely don’t know if guys who do that actually enjoy the act of having sex or if for them the pay off is afterwards when they tell their buddies they pounded some chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:15 AM
5

Well plus isn’t sex supposed to be like, fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:41 PM
12

As soon as someone refers to sex as a “conquest” I basically zone them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:58 PM
2

Major disagree. I’d date a milf so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:48 PM
1

Reddit has a massive bias on this. My experience is a huge majority of redditors have a weird thing about age gaps and deny the existence of mutual attraction there. Growing up a lot of girls I knew always dated much older guys even when it was illegal or highly inappropriate. I’m in my early 20s and this doesn’t seem to be changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:46 PM
5

It’s not porn it’s art
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:44 PM
6

Impressive you’ve been able to save that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:57 AM
3

I still think that’s stupid. For me it doesn’t matter if I see her as promiscuous or not. I can separate loyalty and promiscuity in my head. Loyalty is what’s important. I’d actually rather her want to fuck me immediately because that shows strong attraction which more correlates to loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:17 PM
7

Pump up your cock so it hangs all red and juicy. Swing it around like a helicopter while beating your chest. Wear hulk gloves to make your hands appear larger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:43 PM
13

No. The men are losers who want to get laid like crazy but can’t. The women want men who could get laid like crazy but don’t want to. Those are very different things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:43 PM
7

Virgin redpill men ecstatic by the comments in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:15 PM
4

Add another. Whores make the world go round. I’m a horny motherfucker. I’d be in trouble if there weren’t other sluts out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:10 PM
1

I’ve never met a woman into that wtf there’s no way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:52 AM
2

Right exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:51 PM
4

Fisting? And to answer. When I started having sex it was really vanilla but after a lot of relationships and hookups where a girl wanted to be choked and pounded and shit you just kind of adapt. I think it goes both ways and these guys may be conditioned to believe they should have sex this way but they will be open to vanilla sex if you make it known that you prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:45 PM
4

Not black but also minority with tattoos and muscles. Don’t fuck with white women because they’re 90% fetishists. But they’re pretty easy to spot if you’re just horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:53 PM
2

Plus tinder impacts real life. A huge chunk of single people in their 20s are on it so even if you try to meet people irl, their decisions will be guided by what options present themselves on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:59 PM
6

If she sees a 5’5 man and thinks he’s under 5 feet that’s the problem is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:22 AM
1

We’re in the same boat bro. I think it might just be a combination of being young and my environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:13 PM
1

I like chubby lightskins with tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:06 PM
2

Quite possible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:32 AM
2

Every single woman I’ve been with has a story or multiple stories of abusive ex’s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:14 AM
15

You’re right that the absolute ideal is a kind AND strong man. The issue comes from the fact that when kindness and strength are compared in isolation, strength comes out on top. Leading many* women to prefer an awful man who is strong to a genuinely kind weak man. Men don’t know how to square this, so they incorrectly conclude that women love assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:08 AM
1

It ain’t trickin if you got it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:46 PM
2

More chubby girls to fuck 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:09 PM
1

I banged 50 women the 2 years I was a redpiller but I’m happier being a purple pill feminist cuck. It works great if you hate women and want to bang them. There are some kernels of truth to the redpill that I still believe. I just had to find out the hard way that no amount of sex will make me happy. And also that women are full human beings deserving of respect (crazy I know).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:23 PM
14

Don’t get me wrong I think some women get away with a lot of shit. But if you genuinely believe that the dying middle class is because of dumb women and not anti-worker economic policies then you’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:52 PM
14

Right because it couldn’t be our economic model that allows wealth to accumulate at the top. It must be the wahhmen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:28 PM
2

Finally someone with taste. Not “fat” per say but short and thick/chubby with big titties and ass is sexy. Soft tummy. Idk maybe some of these psycho incels would call that type fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:48 PM
1

These people are psychotic about weight. Give me a pretty chubby chick any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:19 PM
5

Hey you’re me except I still don’t have money. But being a brown kid in a rich white area really takes a toll on your psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:38 PM
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I really don’t know. Idiots like that commenter 2 above me think the Democratic Party is far left.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:48 PM
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“Charisma, or other factors”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:58 AM
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Because those average looking men may be exceptions because of their wealth, charisma or other factors. Doesn’t mean every average looking guy should have the same expectation of getting with attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:49 PM
1

Anecdotally I’ve been to a lot of college dorm rooms as a non student on tinder and have consistently been told “I don’t fuck with college dudes”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:56 PM
4

Ok so female college students are fucking non students (presumably men with careers) and male students aren’t. Doesn’t that mean something similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:15 PM
4

But isn’t it a little odd that the rates are 66% and 53% for men and women respectively? That 13% discrepancy has to be explained by more women having sex with a smaller pool of men correct? And we don’t know if even within the pool of men who ARE having sex, if there is a similar distribution where 20% are having most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:30 PM
1

I didn’t say they weren’t. I’m literally saying it depends on the person what are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:08 PM
12

Probably on average I can agree early 20s are hotter. Though some will look really good at 19 and go down from there for whatever reason. Some won’t look great in their 20s but will become milfs at 40. Kind of hard to define a universal “peak”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:53 PM
1

They’re actually not wrong. What they consider the far left (neoliberals) is somewhat right wing. It’s funny when people who have no idea about politics start throwing around the term “far left” though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:26 PM
24

29 is still “young” imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:53 PM
17

LOL a Nazi tattoo isn’t related to Nazis. This is mind blowing stuff. Wonder if she would have swiped right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:06 PM
1

Yep. Anecdotally, all the guys I know of any race are open to dating all races of women. Women I know on the other hand, including (especially) black and Asian women, are specifically and admittedly drawn to white men. It’s a myth that brown men are obsessed with white women and brown women are loyal to brown men. It’s the exact opposite in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:46 PM
15

They really are though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:21 PM
1

Adult women as opposed to what? Am I to presume you like little girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:22 PM
1

For real like how’d this bitch age 50 years from getting dick? That’s straight up incel pseudoscience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:51 AM
1

Money can do a lot these days. How do you grow your cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:42 PM
15

You’re mistaken if you think a thirsty idiot wouldn’t commit to a walking red flag of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:07 PM
1

Is your cock green?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:50 PM
1

*Loose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:40 PM
4

Lol ruthless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:03 PM
2

Because they aren’t married to the guys they want to fuck. Or guys who want to fuck them. Porn is also a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:01 PM
1

It’s called mate copying and it’s more prevalent in young women than any other group
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:55 AM
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First of all, that’s creepy and cringe. Second of all, women’s libidos are high. A lot of women have higher libidos then a lot of men. They just only want to fuck a very specific type of man. Because they don’t want to fuck you, you think they must not be constantly horny. Breaking news girls are perverts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:47 AM
1

Sometimes work hard? From what I’ve seen being an idol is one of the hardest jobs in the developed world. The labels work them like slaves and they collapse from exhaustion/commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:29 AM
1

He’s also in a long term committed relationship. Which is the most attractive thing a man can be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:26 AM
2

I’d probably agree with you if you told me that abuse is often a 2 way thing like in codependent toxic relationships. But that’s unrelated to the point. I don’t know why you’re so resistant to that reality when basically everyone knows a few people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:13 AM
0

No “niceguys” are totally a real thing and they are simultaneously doormats and manipulative. I would know since I used to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:11 AM
5

There are plenty of people who date one abusive or generally shitty partner after another. If that isn’t a preference I don’t know what is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:21 PM
4

She probably chose guys that seemed normal and they became abusive later on. Not always her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:04 PM
6

Both can be true. Many women do genuinely prefer abusive assholes but that doesn’t change the fact that most guys who call themselves “niceguys” are just as cowardly and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:51 PM
11

Yep. And unless you’re a model you’ve probably been that guy at one point. I’m not that ugly but not attractive and I’ve definitely gotten it because I’m socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:14 PM
13

Then they shouldn’t have OnlyFans
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:07 PM
5

You’ll what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:06 PM
3

Bingo. Every time these conversations take place it devolves into criticizing women without acknowledging that it’s countless men who enable and actively promote this kind of bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:57 PM
2

You as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:50 PM
1

True also. Maybe a chicken and egg in terms of what causes what. Since like I had said, it certainly doesn’t help. If those guys don’t care to escape the cycle then by all means keep being addicted to fantasy land. We can agree to disagree. I think porn is bad for everyone on both sides of the screen except in rare cases. I don’t think that perspective will change
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:00 PM
1

I don’t think vibrators are good either. They desensitize and make sex less fulfilling. I don’t know about rom coms though. That’s a bit of a stretch for me seems like harmless fun. I think the way porn attacks your brain with pleasure and shame is just incredibly destructive. And lonely men who jerk off all day aren’t doing themselves any favors. Especially if they resort to OnlyFans to fill their lonely void which just contributes to the issue of sex being commodified eg why less people are ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:47 AM
1

It can be filmed sneakily from behind. The person being filmed could be drunk or on drugs. Or underage in some cases. It can be uploaded after a breakup. It’s impossible to be sure so I find it safer to steer clear of porn altogether imo. Also like I said I think porn is bad for your brain and I feel like most people are addicted to it, myself included. I don’t think anything is wrong with bdsm or degrading sex IRL though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:58 AM
0

No 99% of porn is immoral. Big studios are exploitative and a lot of amateur porn is uploaded or even filmed without consent. Not to mention how damaging porn consumption is on people’s psyches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:12 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:00 PM
1

Naturally. The thing is I know several girls who are cute but not models or anything. They have desperate men on the internet pay for so many things. It’s just the reality in 2021. Sex and human bodies are just commodities now. Why do you see Venmo’s and Amazon wishlists in peoples social bios? It’s because they actually get something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:43 PM
2

Average girls have plenty of simps and make plenty of money on Onlyfans. Even below average girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:37 AM
1

Ok so how do you know who’s taking it seriously and who isn’t? Do you distinguish between when the older partner initiates the relationship and when the younger one does? How is an outsider looking at a relationship supposed to tell all of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:19 PM
1

What’s your secret? Need me a milf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:11 AM
0

Some people just like older people. Older men and women appear strong and wise. If a middle aged woman finds me attractive, well I’m a grown man too. What’s a “red flag” about two adults who find eachother attractive being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:09 AM
4

That’s it. Personally I don’t even crave the feeling of sex very often at all. More so I feel obligated to seek it every once in a while in order for people to know I’m a big boy who means business. I know that’s not healthy but going back to the OP, our society is obsessed with sex, who’s having it, who can get it, etc. The pressure is very real, and totally unhealthy. I think the incel problem would be a lot less serious if that pressure didn’t exist. While it sucks to never have intimacy or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:37 AM
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So you didn’t notice him? Ok? I really don’t understand what that has to do with anything. He’s still a super tall athletic white guy. That’s not really sending the message to average guys you want it to, regardless of if you say you noticed him or not. The point is the reason you were receptive to him was his attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:39 AM
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You’re right. That’s why I said it’s disingenuous and leads to more confusion. The confusion is ultimately resolved by a guy getting fed up and swinging way to the other direction (radicalized to redpill/blackpill stuff) I think the way women act is certainly to blame in a general sense. However I’ve seen how poorly some men handle rejection and in some cases it is literally a matter of safety for women to let men down “easy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:44 AM
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The reason the men get this idea is because women will often says something like “I really like you, buuut I don’t want to date right now”. Like OP said it’s an issue of women being ambiguous/disingenuous in order to spare men’s feelings (and sometimes even for self preservation) that creates a misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:02 PM
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