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This sub is just people who aren’t high value demanding cheat codes… me, I am people.
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:41 PM
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If you’re insecure about how you look fix that. Exercise, haircut and outfit are usually the main ones for guys. Haircut and style can be whatever you feel like personally as long as it’s well kept and well put together and exercise can be anything you enjoy, that way you don’t feel like you’re changing yourself but just improving. If you’re insecure about your social skills fix that. Spend more time with people. Speak to a wide variety of different people in different settings. Learn some human…
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:35 PM
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Could literally be any of these reasons along with countless others. Life is complex, resist the urge to oversimplify. Use context to help you determine a cause if you’re so inclined but there’s no universal rule.
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:40 PM
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Going to try to be quick because I don’t have a ton of time but also I didn’t want to leave this thread hanging. My situation was basically one parent was physically abusive and the other became mentally unstable and emotionally abusive as a result. As you can imagine that had an impact on my psychological development and I was a quiet kid even to start with. The big problem for me has always been the natural aspect of social interaction, it’s as if everyone else has something I don’t. I often g…
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:01 PM
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I feel that and don’t disagree with anything you said. Just don’t thing glorifying a bad situation is the way. That’s coming from someone who’s also been there and had these same thoughts and is now in a better place.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:34 PM
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I mean you say that but you posted in r/seduction, posted stats and were talking about day game so I don’t know I’m just saying what I see. I totally relate to you about the social skills and friendship stuff, I was the same as a result of abuse. I think “of course my conversion rate was going to be extremely low” is a false assumption. You’re not condemned to perform badly.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:31 PM
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People hyping up 0.2% conversion is literal insanity. That is bad. Maybe better than what it was but still abysmal. Stop gaslighting this guy and let him see it for what it is. He may feel better mentally but his game clearly hasn’t improved.
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:55 PM
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You already have reacted to it. What you should do about it on the other hand? Keep watching the tiktok and use that information to the best of your ability. Also don’t say anything dumb in case it gets posted. She has a million followers so the odds are stacked against you but this tiktok business is only a positive for you.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:47 PM
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This is usually the sort of post where I would just scroll because it seems super obvious but I’m procrastinating cleaning so here goes. When do we typically say aww? To something cute, to an animal, to something we feel sympathy for, to a child trying it’s best at something etc. This is how she sees you. What you do next should directly relate to this fact. You can try and get a real answer like some of the other guys have suggested but to be honest I don’t see it going well because she already…
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:57 AM
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I’ve never tried it but I’ll do some research, thanks for the tip 👍🏼
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:14 PM
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Exercise: I walk to and from work everyday, swim and lift weights. Nutrition: I eat a whole foods diet and take some supplements. Style: I’m now deliberate about what I wear and have my own sense of style and enjoy pairing different things together. Social Life: I try to say yes to as many different experiences as I can. If someone asks me if I wanna do something and it isn’t interfering with anything else in my life then I dive into it. As for the stuff I’m still useless at… my job is pretty cr…
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:00 AM
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This isn’t even that bad, given your mood you would’ve probably fucked it up anyway. Now you’ve avoided putting her off and know how she feels so you can ask her round to your place.
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:39 PM
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Just me who thinks she sent it to 6 dudes out of boredom?
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:49 PM
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I’m not of that mindset at all I don’t even have this problem. What I’m saying is this. Incels delude themselves that everything is against them and they can’t possibly get a girl no matter what they do. This post encourages the reader to delude them-self into believing that even the smallest of all odds are better than nothing regardless of all the time lost, which to me is also a delusion. Whether a positive or negative delusion, both are bad because they’re not based in reality. You shouldn’t…
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:43 PM
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We’re out here counting the amount of times we so much as speak to a female… and complaining about incels? Don’t know that that’s any better. Also doesn’t make those percentages any more appealing.
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:28 PM
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“those .5% that meet up with you make it really worth it”… hard disagree. There’s no pussy out there that’s worth that much wasted time. Thankfully I’m not that bad but if I was doing anything in life with a 0.5% success rate that required any effort on my behalf at all I’d switch it up immediately and if it continued I’d have to give up the endeavour. I can’t blame any guy who’s given up after consistently only meeting up with 0.5% of the woman he’s asked out. This mindset of forcing yourself t…
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:51 AM
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Makes sense 👍🏼
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:42 PM
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I get you so it’s more proof that people don’t actively avoid you? The bar really is on the floor but not for no reason. Those guys are out there.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:39 PM
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So I understand just about this much however I’m still stuck on why it can’t be hypothetical. Like if a girl sees a guy alone walking down the street she has no idea if he’s single, in a relationship or has an entire harem waiting for him at home. All she knows is he’s alone at that moment. Likewise if she sees a guy with a girl it could just as likely be his sister. Yet still they tend to be more attracted to you regardless if you’re with a woman. I don’t notice the same behaviour in myself or …
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:41 AM
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Why are you white knighting so hard? Some people simply don’t want to be with someone who’s been with everybody. It’s not always a double standard either. For me it’s just about being important. I wanna mean something to that person not be 1 in 1000 and that’s as much my choice as it is a woman’s choice to sleep with as many guys as she likes. We all make our own decisions about who we get involved with and we aren’t obligated to wanna wife the hoes.
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:22 AM
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To everyone saying it indicates value, how come men aren’t the same? I’m perfectly capable of imagining the value a woman could bring without literally seeing another man benefiting from it.
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:15 AM
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As a 6ft white guy with average looks I believe this is true but will have a variable success rate. It really feels like girls standards for looks in 2022 are crazy high. A 6 wouldn’t even breathe the same air as another 6. I think it stems from the fact that a guy will sleep with pretty much anyone. These girls pull these top tier physical specimens for one night and take it as an accomplishment then expect that in the future. Problem is when it comes to girls, the guys you pull aren’t necessar…
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:51 AM
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If you aren’t seeing a girl right now I really don’t understand how the two weeks would be different. Like whether or not you plan on getting into a relationship in the future, surely you’ll just be going about your business in accordance with your beliefs and goals. Even if the relationship is considered a goal in one of the weeks, it’s not a lot of time to see a big change in behaviour.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:57 PM
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Hang out and if she doesn’t let you hit, learn from your mistakes. Toxic vibes all 2022.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:47 AM
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Drop them bitches. Unless in fact you are a creep. In that case, don’t be.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:02 AM
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It is self doubt and it’s a learned behaviour probably based off past experiences. The good thing is doing exactly what you did and getting out there is how you change it.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:54 PM
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It all depends on how you say it. You’re asking questions on this sub so the big money is on you failing to pull it off. If you’re charming/creative and confident you’ll be fine but if you were you’d probably know that instinctively. If you do decide to go ahead with it please don’t go too extreme. Strangers are naturally more wary of each other and grand displays set off red flags, keep it relaxed. Also don’t linger get her number and boost, you don’t look desperate and it gives her an escape i…
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:05 PM
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She meant you’re stupid implying that you didn’t know she was into you. If you didn’t know then yeah you are a little stupid since no stranger would spend that amount of time with you if they weren’t. As for getting laid you don’t have to pretend that’s your end goal whenever you talk to people if it isn’t. Seems like you had a great time. As for your friend, you’re not obligated to tell anyone anything if you know she’s gonna be like that just don’t talk about it.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:46 PM
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This isn’t why you shouldn’t shit where you eat, this is why you shouldn’t simp… anywhere. Speaking from someone who’s been in a similar situation. Let’s be really clear here. You knew that she wasn’t into you anymore when the flirting stopped and she said she just wants to live her life and you knew that the other stuff she said was very likely said to soften the blow/make her feel less awkward. We choose to deny this because it lets us cling to hope. Hope is easier but truth is better. If she …
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:59 AM
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I find it really hard to believe that you’re well built, have a good career, strong finances, dress well, and are becoming confident and are having continuous negative experiences with girls. I know that sounds really mean and I truly don’t mean it like that but I’ve never seen a case like this. There’s always something the guy isn’t aware of that’s putting the girls off.
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:33 PM
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I’m going to be a little controversial and go against the prevailing advice. I wouldn’t advise watching stand up as a way to improve you’re ability to be funny in conversation because even comedians often say they are completely different things. Standup has a lot more that goes into it you write the jokes, have to stand up in front of the audience, what’s your delivery like? How much physical movement do you incorporate? In a conversation you want to avoid thoughts like that because if you don’…
/r/seduction23/01/22 05:06 PM
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You are the first and last time your particular mix of genes will ever muddle together in this way to form a being. You’re not boring. My real advice, only change yourself to be a better version of you. Don’t change you’re overall style just improve how you put it together. Don’t change your hobbies just be more open and enthusiastic about them. People love passion even if they have no idea about the subject matter. Embrace your uniqueness and be accepting of other people’s uniqueness and you’ll…
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:27 AM
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With a single girl? One if it’s the kind you received. With multiple girls? As many as it takes for you to get it right.
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:47 PM
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It’s not that being kind is bad it’s probably that you aren’t exciting. Exciting can have whatever moral quality you want to bestow upon it but she needs to be interested in you as a person and exciting stuff needs to happen while you’re around.
/r/seduction01/01/22 04:17 AM
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I think your mistake is you’re trying to make it make sense. There’s no hidden law or set of rules that make some texts okay and others not. A lot of girls are swiping simply for validation and quick dopamine, source- I know some of them and they’ve spoke openly about it. Also girls are all different with different preferences for how someone speaks to them and since supply is so high (billions of desperate guys out there) they can afford to be extremely picky. A side note since I know you didn’…
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:45 PM
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I disagree. A healthy person will usually recognise the abnormal behaviour regardless of if they know the theory behind it or not. With an insecure person it’s not even that they don’t notice it’s more like an unconscious denial because they would rather feel loved than recognise the problem.
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:03 PM
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Works if the victim is insecure
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:53 PM
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Why go through all that effort for an online dating profile? Putting myself in a certain mood to then take a picture that may or may not be shit wearing certain clothes with a certain backdrop just to get a girl. Seems mental. Not to mention the minute she meets me she’s gonna know that was all bullshit and I probably won’t like her anyway because she’d be the type of girl who requires all those things.
/r/seduction02/08/21 10:16 PM
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Sounds like you had a good night, love to see it 👍🏼
/r/seduction09/07/21 11:27 AM
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