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BigSnips/r/askTRP23/11/15 07:35 PM
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I’ve kept a lot of jobs by just being the guy everyone likes and every once in a while, when specifically asked, being extraordinarily effective.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 02:46 PM
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You are making excuses... kind of... Realistically you’re not going to see a girl on the street corner and just get her number before the light turns green. Chicks dig bikers because of the attitude that a biker has as opposed the bike in and of itself. You’re dangerous, carefree, and you live life one mile at time (lol). So realistically you will have a better chance at getting girls by adopting the attitude of a biker. I had a similar experience last summer when I grew a mullet. Girls hate a m…
/r/seduction11/05/21 04:40 PM
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Read Sex God Method. Dominance, Emotion, Variance, Immersion. Sex, like most other things, is a skill. Meaning you can get better at it with intentional practise and effort. Eating pussy is always good. Like it’s been mentioned here some girls “don’t like it” but in my experience that is always rooted in self consciousness. As a man it’s your job to make her feel comfortable and confident in the bedroom.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:09 PM
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It’s way too heavy. First dates should be fun, flirty, and not taken seriously.
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:19 PM
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Bad bot
/r/seduction12/02/21 06:08 PM
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Book of Pook: Teaches you that game is about you and what you want out of life. You are the prize, treat women like little girls, go to the gym... all the good stuff. How to be a 3% Man: Teaches you about the nature of women and the “why” to a lot of problems you’ll have. Flakiness, being left on read, why women fight. Corey Wayne: Same guy that wrote 3% man but essentially his YouTube is just case story after case study about why his book is like the bible for understanding women. RSD: This one…
/r/seduction12/02/21 02:36 PM
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The Book of Pook How to be a 3% Man Corey Wayne on YouTube RSD James Marshall and Liam Mccrae old stuff
/r/seduction12/02/21 02:31 PM
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The podcast series he did with Geoffrey Miller was great as well. Helping Joe is another series he did that I can’t recommend enough. Both are on Mating Grounds (Tuckers website)
/r/seduction21/12/20 02:56 PM
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Exactly. Questions and follow-up questions. She will think you’re a good listener and that you’re interested in her. Women will talk about themselves the entire night and think you guys have a great connection. Not sharing too much about yourself will also make you more of a mystery. You’ve just got to be careful about interview mode.
/r/seduction08/09/20 01:34 PM
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You’ve got to rely on dating apps mostly in the burbs. Depending on the size of your town the bar play can be pretty good. I live in a string of different small cities outside a major NA city and usually if we go a couple towns in either direction there will be new girls to step to. The other way would be to find friends that live in the city and party with them or just find a job there and move there yourself.
/r/seduction26/08/20 01:52 PM
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You don’t understand women.
/r/seduction24/08/20 01:39 AM
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If you don’t want to then don’t. But you’re going to get oneitis and choke. I know because it’s happened to me.
/r/seduction09/08/20 06:29 PM
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I honestly do. Whose problem would it be?
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:19 PM
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No worries. Invest 3-4 years and hit the dating game hardcore and it will pay dividends for the rest of your life. Also don’t listen to people saying you should get married and have kids young so you can “be a young dad and play with them” Take care of yourself and you’ll be young forever. That’s my plan anyway....
/r/seduction09/08/20 02:54 PM
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All this. At 28 you’re not even in your prime yet. I would also add that you have to work towards true abundance. Not abundance mentality, actually real abundance. Read Corey Wayne’s How to be a 3% man and actually read it 10-15 times like he suggests. If you can’t date multiple women in this day and age then it’s a problem with you. And the great thing about you problems is that they are completely within your control to change them. That’s where lifting, investing in yourself etc comes in.
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:15 PM
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Book of Pook and How to be a 3% Man were two of the most important books I’ve read. Both almost immediately had a direct impact on my day-to-day life.
/r/seduction08/05/20 01:32 AM
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How do you have a crush on a girl you haven’t talked to or seen for at least a month?
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:06 AM
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Breaking rapport
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:20 PM
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I don't think there is any such thing as a unicorn. But. If she's a 6, her behaviour makes sense just based on OP being a higher SMV.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 01:03 AM
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You defined her as an “HB6.” How is she a unicorn ?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 03:01 PM
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Watch the video of him at the Vegas summit panel discussion from like 2015/2016? He's the real deal.
/r/seduction05/06/19 02:49 PM
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Ya potentially. Obviously some people you'll hit it off and make some sweet love right away. Or they will want to see you very quickly after the first couple dates. Either way, hopefully you're dating multiple people and supplementing dates with gals you meet at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 03:46 PM
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Coffee or drinks for first dates. Gives you (or her) the flexibility to leave very quickly or stick around. Second dates you can start to make more of a "plan" to spend some significant time together. A good rule is to not put too much emotional effort into anything until you've had sex. Date 1: Coffee - Date 2: Mini putt and drinks - Date 3: Love making (lol) - Date 4: whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 01:45 PM
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Gaps between first and second dates are tough. Sounds like you're handling it well by just letting conversations die out. Shows you're not too invested. When it does die out, let her reinitiate. There is no formula for how often to be in contact but in general I follow the Corey Wayne method: since you've got a date already set up, when she reaches out, exchange some pleasantries, then break it off. Bottom line is that if she is into you it is basically your job to not fuck it up by texting too …
/r/seduction13/05/19 02:05 AM
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Why so long between dates?
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:14 AM
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If you’re using this as an excuse to NOT "move fast" with a girl then yes: 100% of women will lose attraction... Instead of trying to rationalize "reasons" (read as excuses) to not do something, take a good hard look in the mirror and be honest with yourself. What are you afraid of?
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:44 PM
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Old, yes, out of date, yes, but I wouldn't say obsolete. Amog is still a thing, negs still work, DHV etc. Canned lines and fake stories are lame but what the lines and stories do/convey still work.
/r/seduction23/04/19 02:32 PM
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Read both. Practise both. Decide for yourself.
/r/seduction23/04/19 02:26 PM
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To be interesting, be interested.
/r/seduction16/04/19 02:10 AM
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Rule #1: Rejection is better than regret. - The Book of Pook
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:52 PM
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Long term vs. short term dating is a completely different "skill set". Rules for dating also change over almost a decade. Keep in mind OP was 19. It's probably safe to assume that he is reasonably good looking and sociable. I imagine it happened pretty naturally and she chose him. And this isn't a slight, the same thing happened to me. Being dropped in to the dating scene after being in a long term relationship is shocking. EDIT: didn't read the comments below
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:17 PM
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u/geeered's Tinder point exactly. Women have fantasies about meeting someone organically - and I'm sure OP would agree. The issue is thinking that "approaching" makes it inorganic... It doesn't. Especially not for her. A woman wants a guy who gets what he wants. Ie. If he wants her, he will go get her. Usually by talking to her. It doesn't matter where or how. The word "approach" gets a bad wrap from PUA autists that think 1000 approaches = 100 numbers = 10 dates = 1 lay. The magic about practis…
/r/seduction11/03/19 02:37 PM
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Because you're conquering yourself.
/r/seduction08/03/19 05:13 PM
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Beautiful. To be interesting, be interested.
/r/seduction22/02/19 06:09 PM
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to genuinely make someone feel good... But I think if you're honest with yourself and own your intentions you will find that you probably want to bang her. And you'll also probably discover that you're using the massage and the crawling to disguise your intentions. You might fool her, and you might fool yourself, but you're not fooling me.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:21 AM
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Drop the weird like back crawling and massage bullshit. I know a girl whose BF did that everytime to initiate sex to the point that it made her cringe when he would touch her... They broke up. If you want to go further with her just kiss her. If she pulls away you know she doesn't like you and then you can move on. Although I haven't been friendzoned in many years (I'm not some Casanova I just have girls that I'm trying to fuck that are not my friends and girls that are my friends that I'm not t…
/r/seduction14/02/19 07:38 PM
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If you haven't kissed/banged/"dated" then 'how to make things official' isn't the question. Once take her out, kiss her, make sweet sweet love to her, date her for a while she will start dropping hints about wanting to be your girlfriend. "Have you ever had a GIRLFRIEND meet your parents?" "Id only ever do that with my boyfriend" "I'd love to do blah blah blah but im not even your GIRLFRIEND!" Once she starts dropping hints you can be smooth cool guy or play off the cute nerd guy. Cute nerd guy …
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:14 AM
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Are you interested in what you do and are you fulfilled?
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:39 AM
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/r/seduction01/02/19 06:11 PM
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Of course we can. But productive discussion becomes dick measuring really fast.
/r/seduction01/02/19 04:04 PM
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"I consider a friend this" "I don't like that word" "OP is ad hominem" A nuanced post is always going to confuse, frustrate, and become an endless debate. Overall good content.
/r/seduction01/02/19 03:10 PM
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If you're meeting at a party a tinder girl isn't going to come alone. So! Don't meet her at a party, take her on a date. I know Uni/high school is different now-a-days so if you "have" to meet her at a party with a friend you basically have to entertain the troops to win over the friend. Be friendly, talk directly to the friends while touching your girl flirtatiously, be fun and easy going, make the friend want your girl to hook up with you. When the friend decides she wants to leave she will le…
/r/seduction26/01/19 09:54 PM
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How old are you and how many longer term relationships were you in before her?
/r/seduction24/01/19 08:36 PM
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https://www.google.ca/search?q=the+manual&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-ca&client=safari
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:44 PM
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You follow the wise advise of Corey Wayne and you say "Hey I like you, you're a fun gal (etc.) But I'm not really interested in playing second fiddle." Then you don't talk to her ever again unless she reaches out to you. You carry on dating other women. What will happen in the back ground is she will get zero attention from you and get all the attention from the other fellow. In turn, you value sky rockets because you've become a scarce resource, the other guy talks himself out of banging her, a…
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:36 PM
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You said it yourself, you want something serious or nothing. "Needing time" just means she is going to wait to see if the other dude wants to date and if not then she will date you. In the infamous words of Ariana Grande - thank you, next.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:26 PM
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If you don't want to be friend-zoned don't act like her friend, act like the dude she fucks. I won't go into the details of that here. More practically, if she's in her 30s she has been around the block a few times so you probably should have kissed her (at least) on the first date. Going forward, change your second date from going out to dinner to making her dinner at your place. Tell her to bring a bottle of wine. Make sure your place is clean and your room is dimly lit. Be a good host. Take h…
/r/seduction13/01/19 05:50 PM
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You obviously haven't read the book 10-15 times ;) Corey Wayne's advice is to wait until she reaches out and then set up a date. She will never text you explicitly to set a date but she will text you with BS like "heyyy" or "omg what was that thing we were talking about!?" At that point it's up to you to initiate setting the date. It's also Corey Wayne's advice to reach out to her after 3-4 days to set the date of you haven't heard from her. If she is hesitant you use the "ok let me know when yo…
/r/seduction12/01/19 08:05 PM
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Big Dick Energy
/r/seduction22/12/18 08:04 PM
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Compliance is passive while IOI's are active. Both are good.
/r/seduction15/06/18 03:26 PM
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"Rejection is better than regret" - the Pook man
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 10:16 PM
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This just sounds to me like a proper relationship dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:11 PM
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How excited do you get when you score with a girl? I've got buddies that have identified with PUA so when they score they get this unbelievable high but when they fail they fall to pieces. It's because theyve attached an identity and self worth to their success with women. It's a disaster. Women are accessories.
/r/seduction05/01/18 03:31 AM
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It's going to be hard to lay a really solid foundation in a group setting. Focus on being/having fun. Use the night as a step towards getting her out on a date.
/r/seduction05/01/18 03:01 AM
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Shit tests are what makes it fun
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:54 AM
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Open -> hook -> emotional connection -> physical connection -> close Hooking is just getting them to the point where they would rather stay than leave. Often times, unless you have an instant connection, getting to the hook point takes a bit of "plowing," meaning you are basically doing 90% of the talking. Interview mode is ok while you're trying to hook. You guys are strangers so there will be a bit of getting to know eachother. Listen to her while she talks, ask follow up questions, find out w…
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:39 AM
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Reading isn't going to keep your heart from leaping out of your chest when you start approaching women, only action.
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:04 AM
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Rejection is better than regret - Pook
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:02 AM
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Sounds like you've "started." You need to go out and start talking to women IRL. It's the only way. It's not easy but it's worth it.
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:32 PM
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It just put me in my head more. Less confident, took longer to get in the mood, stuff like that. What was kind of scary at that time was how much better alcohol made me feel. I am in no way advocating drinking to get over your problems (lol) but more a cautionary tale of how slippery of a slope it can be. Alcoholism/drug abuse is pretty common in my family so I've grown up aware of it.
/r/seduction04/01/18 03:31 AM
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Ya of course. Socially, having feelings of not being good enough or that everyone is watching. But I've always had these types of feelings. A few years ago I started having panic attacks randomly, or at least what had seemed random. And I developed an irrational fear of getting food poisoning. There was a lot of reasons that all added up to get me to that point but what kind of started the spiral for me was stress from work. As my stress levels rise I start getting more and more anxious so I've …
/r/seduction03/01/18 07:32 PM
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Ya I did the free trial like 3 times and ended up buying it for a year. Life changer.
/r/seduction03/01/18 01:25 PM
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It's totally natural to feel nervous, man. Bars and clubs are fucked up places on a biological level but... They offer copious amounts of intercourse for those willing to test their mettle. I was intimidated growing up too. The noise, the "douche bags," the girls (especially lol). The only thing that helped was repetition. You've got to go out a lot. You sound like an intelligent young man that can learn quickly. Going out 2-3 times a week for 6 months (and approaching girls) should get you pret…
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:29 AM
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Send her a pic of that looooong dick
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:06 AM
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Tell her you'd rather see it for real
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:06 AM
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There is nothing wrong with not wanting to shit where you eat. But if you want to deal with the social anxiety I would suggest learning to meditate and practise mindfulness. Download the app Headspace on your phone and go to town. It's amazing. Honestly it changed my life. If that isn't quite doing the trick I'd try talk therapy. I've never gone personally but I've heard only good things. You're the only one that has to live with you 100% of the time. Mental health is extremely important. Good l…
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:04 AM
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Sign up for group stuff that you like to do. Coed sports, toast masters, book club, movie club, stand up comedy, improv, chess club, Dungeons and Dragons (not actually). Speed dating wouldn't be a bad time either. Read the book Mate by Tucker Max (and another doctor guy). It goes deep into answering your question and a whole whack of other stuff.
/r/seduction03/01/18 03:48 AM
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Looks matter, sure, but they matter a lot less than we speculate. Men are lucky because we don't have to depend on looks alone to attract a mate. Undoubtedly they help, but a man can be wildly successful with women when he masters witty repartee and physical dominance. I think a lot of guys also confuse "good looking" as having an aesthetically perfect face. Good looking for most girls means dressing in stylish clothing that fit, carrying yourself with a bit of respect, and being hygienic. Usual…
/r/seduction03/01/18 03:37 AM
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The chick likes you enough to bang but is probably turned off that you're pursuing her so hard. Don't text her for a while and see how she reacts. If she never ever texts you again then she wasn't that into you anyways. If she hits you up (which I imagine she will), set up a date and bang her again. And break up with your GF while you're at it.
/r/seduction02/01/18 08:51 PM
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The helping Joe podcast on Mating Grounds
/r/seduction02/01/18 08:42 PM
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Curiosity. Be curious when you're talking to someone, ask a lot of questions, ask even more follow up questions, make very open ended statements that might be easy for her to add onto. Actually listening is extremely important. Not only will it help you create a conversation "thread" but being a good listener is engaging and attractive. Boom. When you do speak, make sure you do it concisely. Overall, you are young. It takes a long time to develop a lot these skills. The important thing is that y…
/r/seduction02/01/18 08:37 PM
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Absolutely. As long as you're "owning" it and functioning within the boundaries of social acceptance.
/r/seduction02/01/18 04:03 AM
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Being weird is bad when you don't own it. You sound like a younger dude, but when you get more into your young adult life authenticity starts to be really attractive. You've got to buy what you're selling though.
/r/seduction02/01/18 03:39 AM
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Having a good haircut signals a bunch of attractive stuff but.... It's probably the confidence you have with the haircut that is attractive, not the haircut itself.
/r/seduction02/01/18 03:36 AM
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You're already sitting close to her and basically touching. Kissing is the next step. If you really (reallyreallyreally) can't kiss her then I'd say just get more "cuddly." Put your arm around her. Lay down on the couch together. If she wants a kiss it will become glaringly obvious: she will look at you, she will put her face closer to yours, she will talk too much etc.
/r/seduction02/01/18 03:32 AM
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Top notch
/r/seduction01/01/18 11:55 PM
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You're not right! I'm also question guy and I've had multiple women comment on how we have "such a good connection" when I have felt pretty meh about them. When you get them talking about themselves and when they can tell you're listening they are going to feel more connected to you. (I'm pretty sure there is actual science to back that up) If you listen to women talk about bad dates they've had a lot of the time its because the dude talked about himself the whole time. Stay curious.
/r/seduction01/01/18 11:54 PM
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Small dick big heart
/r/seduction30/12/17 04:06 PM
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Lol so many down votes!!? Reading back I can kiiiiind of see how this would be "cringeworthy" to someone who plays so much Rainbow 6 but in all honesty I've had a lot of success with this type of humour. Depends on the audience of course but if a girl doesn't know I'm making a joke she won't be a good match no matter what.
/r/seduction26/12/17 03:27 AM
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Tell her where/when you’re going to pick her up/meet her. “Cool. I’ll pick you up at 7pm. Make sure you’re not wearing underwear.” “I’ll meet you at the corner of X and Y at 7:30. I’ll be the guy in the clown suit.”
/r/seduction25/12/17 02:48 AM
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I recommend reading the entire "Book of Pook" Simple Google search will give you the PDF Easy and fun to read and great content
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:43 PM
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Pook's rule #1 (maybe): Rejection is better than regret.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 02:21 PM
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Men shit test other men. Good CEO's and CFO's are looking to build the strongest team possible. If they see an ounce of potential in you they are going to push your buttons to see how much you can take. If you aren't tough enough to take a shot at your height, how are you supposed to lead a company through a recession.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 04:18 PM
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Diminishing returns is exactly what this is. One day a switch just flips and you don't care anymore. knowing that it will never happen though, for the same reasons it hasn't happened so far. Come on.... Do something different then? This is the exact cop-out bullshit attitude that is holding you back from succeeding with women and likely trickle down into the rest of your life.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 04:23 PM
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That's exactly what I was thinking. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 03:20 PM
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Does MGTOW claim to embrace all facets of TRP (ie. lift, read books, be 'alpha' etc.) except the getting pussy part?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 06:53 PM
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Hard to say if a girl would react that negatively to something as simple as mistaking her for the other girl - you are strangers after all. If you were belligerently drunk, that could have been a turn off for her but if you're saying you weren't then it could have been the vibe you were giving off. Whatever that vibe may be is impossible to tell from a subreddit post. The environment makes night game hard. You can't really talk about anything really juicy until you're squared up with her which u…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:25 PM
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All making out with a chick is doing is validating your existence. There is nothing wrong with validation in small doses, but that's why you like making out with girls. It is positively reinforcing the good things you feel about yourself with respect to being attractive to women. What did you say to the friend to make her so mad?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 07:54 PM
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