BigStudley01 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? I reckon that’s true. When he find the magical path of completely free sex, I hope he can come back and share the secrets.	/r/seduction	09/11/25 03:38 PM
-1	How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates? If you don’t want to put in the effort for dates, you can go the route of paying a provider directly. There are options all over the world for that. Either way, you’re paying something.	/r/seduction	09/11/25 02:59 PM
7	I'm not needy yet I still get 0 hoes They don’t necessarily want nonchalant men…they want confident men. You’ll get rejected anyway but if you’re not confident about yourself why should they be?	/r/seduction	21/07/24 02:16 AM
0	Does rejection therapy works? if yes is it worth it Failure is the greatest teacher. So is rejection. Get rejected. Fail. Suffer. All lead to growth and clarity.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:53 PM
3	Getting jaded from so much rejection Being rejected is a gift. If they’re not interested in you, you definitely shouldn’t be messing around with them anyway.	/r/seduction	26/04/24 06:27 PM
2	Feel somewhat emasculated Plus people are different and like different things. One size does not fit all.	/r/seduction	24/04/24 06:34 PM
1	How do I figure what I want in terms of boundaries. Change the word “want” to “need” and ask yourself the question again.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 02:55 AM
4	Dont act needy they said. Welp now I am in a relationship and it backfired. One cannot simply “not act needy..” In order to achieve non-neediness, one must deal with that part of themself that is and always will be needy.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 02:12 PM
2	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? You are not wrong.	/r/seduction	18/02/24 02:52 AM
4	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? Sorry. American bias.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 11:10 PM
3	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? I don’t disagree.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 05:25 PM
1	Can't stop thinking about this girl. Please help understand why she ghosted me so I can improve my game! Why would you want someone who ghosted you to come back? It sounds like you need to adopt some principles of self worth.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 05:18 PM
2	Can't stop thinking about this girl. Please help understand why she ghosted me so I can improve my game! Again, you cannot make people do anything directly or indirectly. Only yourself. You cannot make anyone want you and you cannot make anyone stay or come back.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 05:02 PM
3	Can't stop thinking about this girl. Please help understand why she ghosted me so I can improve my game! I didn’t read it either, but the bottom line is you can’t make people feel or think a certain way about you. Trying to control someone’s perception of you only leads to regret and resentment. You cannot control them. You’ve got to focus on yourself, move on and try again.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 04:18 PM
6	Mortified at my sheer lack of game. You’re just out of practice. Practice makes a lot the anxiety go away.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 04:16 PM
7	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? Self confidence is what they want to see. They don’t want to have to be your mother.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 03:25 PM
9	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? Seems like younger women really like their men from mid 30s to early 40s. It seems that’s when we learn to stop being pedantic little shits and start being more like mature men.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 03:24 PM
3	Girl only texts me when she wants but got pissed when I did the same? Why take her bullshit so personally?	/r/seduction	16/02/24 04:56 AM
3	Girl only texts me when she wants but got pissed when I did the same? Whatever her problem is, it’s her problem. Don’t waste any second of your life taking her bullshit personally. Clearly it’s who she is at this point in her life.	/r/seduction	16/02/24 04:54 AM
25	Girl only texts me when she wants but got pissed when I did the same? Just $40 bucks? Maybe that’s not quite enough money to call her a bitch.	/r/seduction	15/02/24 06:08 PM
2	Why are so many people afraid to make a move? A serious lacking of self confidence and boys who haven’t yet had the proper opportunity to become men. Also, a lot self-sabotage and doubt created by all the Information streams that keep trying to teach us that women don’t want to be bothered by us, or that those feelings and impulses we have are inherently bad. We basically sabotage our own DNA.	/r/seduction	13/02/24 03:21 AM
3	Do things work for 40 year olds? Seems like you have your head screwed on straight. You’re only as good as your practices.	/r/seduction	27/01/24 04:26 AM
2	Being rejected messes me up The more it happens the less it will hurt.	/r/seduction	29/05/22 06:24 PM
6	What’s going on here? If I could upvote more than once, I most certainly would, especially after reading OPs response to this.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 09:15 PM
3	How do I (20M) get my FWB (24M) to give me more head without me asking Communication is Lubrication!	/r/seduction	28/04/22 02:58 AM
2	I have mastered basic flirting now how can escalate ? Answered your own question.	/r/seduction	23/02/22 01:31 AM
23	Sometimes I wish I was not autistic. I know that sounds bad but it's how I feel in these types of circumstances. Here’s the thing about our “diagnoses.” It doesn’t matter - it will be an obstacle because you make it an obstacle to your own psyche. ASD, ADHD and so many other things that “are wrong” with us are not defects…they’re features. Adaptations for human survivability. Don’t number yourself some average weak ass number… you are a King…the scale is broken…you don’t even need to rate yourself. It doesn’t really matter if you are ASD or missing an arm….in human sexuality, confidence in yourself is the …	/r/seduction	24/10/21 12:54 PM
2	Is it hot for a man to be shy, insecure and vulnerable? I don’t actually disagree. I think this is 100% spot on, actually.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 02:41 PM
2	Is it hot for a man to be shy, insecure and vulnerable? We can’t assume it’s isn’t someone’s “jam”…people are weird and some have very different ideas perceptions and likes than the norm.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 12:13 PM