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That’s what I’m saying like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:15 PM
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Are you…. Suggesting having sex with women without consent? Are you literally just a rapist???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:15 PM
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Yes he was wrong about a lot of things unfortunately he slayed with this theory 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:31 PM
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So you agree the wage gap exists
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:22 PM
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And why are those standards different? If it’s because the women you fuck are “easier” or less dating material bc they are more sexual oe promiscuous, and the women you want to date are more “pure”….. then that’s literally what I’m talking about Lmao. You are trying to argue with me but then describing the exact same thing I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:30 PM
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That’s literally what I’m talking about though…. That’s the very simplified version of Madonna whore complex, a woman is either a whore (who you want to have sex with but don’t respect) or a Madonna, a more “pure” woman who you respect but don’t neccesarily desire in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:44 PM
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I mean the whole problem is that women are multi dimensional human beings and these roles are not something we choose but are cast upon us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:27 PM
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That’s not really what the Madonna Whore complex is though it’s not saying that they don’t wanna have sex with their wives just that they don’t see their wives as sexual beings or that the desirability they have isn’t the main quality they look for, whereas they also are attracted to women they don’t respect bc those women are sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:14 PM
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hmmm I can see what you mean I guess I’m just looking at it from the angle of how men seem to look at some women as acceptable for fucking and casual sex but then they would never commit to her, but they want their life partner to be someone who is the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:13 PM
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I’m also ADHD so I feel you. I feel like conventionally attractive people who are more normie tend to be boring to me bc I can’t personally relate to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:35 AM
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I don’t think there’s really a correlation tbh. Some of the most interesting people I know are also attractive, but also some less attractive people are also boring. This might just be a you thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:31 AM
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How do you define femininity then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:30 AM
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Yah lmao I know that there are critiques against women that are valid but OPs criticisms of women are literally OF and makeup I didn’t pull this out of my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:14 AM
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Op I think you’re taking the piss lmao. You genuinely believe women aren’t hurt by cheating? Or that it’s all slander? I literally think you are joking and if so good job being a troll is fun sometimes but be fr obviously women get hurt by cheaters and like if it keeps happening to a lot of women maybe the problem is men, but if women decided to never date again bc we are scared of picking a bad man you’d complain that we never pick the Good Guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:33 AM
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I feel like you’re trolling at this point. Do you think men should be able to cheat in peace and never get caught? Or is it somehow women’s fault that men cheat. Should we be single forever so we never have to slander another man again if he does something bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:32 AM
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“Neither gender nor education level were consistent moderators of age differences in the Big Five.” also I’m not really a scientist and not sure how the second link fits in at all lmao, and it definerlt doesn’t say anything about pair-bonding. I agree older women probably have less tolerance for bullshit and less patience, but I feel like they are still more likely to be open to an inexperienced man. When I was in my early 20’s or younger I absolutely would not have gone for an inexperienced old…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:39 PM
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Who are these “most women” bc I would say most women don’t really care that much as long as he isn’t blaming women and hateful because of it. I wouldn’t mind sleeping with a virgin tbh and I don’t think the women I know irl would be super judge about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:33 PM
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Rejection hurts everyone and yes it’s usually a mix of both like “what did I do wrong maybe I’m ugly maybe I was too clingy” but also “fuck him anyway there are other fish in the sea” or “he wasn’t that great anyway” I think it’s a universal experience both men and women cope w rejection in these ways I feel because you also see men being like “fuck you youre ugly anyway I was only trying to fuck you bc I felt bad for you” n whatever I don’t think men or women have more self awareness and it dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:23 PM
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So true I need my mom to take the internet away from me x
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:46 PM
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I would. I’m saying it’s more likely that the cheater was just unethical person than the guy was “too good” or “giving too much”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:53 AM
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Wdym? He said A+ that’s a good thing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:40 AM
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I didn’t say you approached it that way, i said if you do. I can understand your frustrations. There are women who are not experienced and also who won’t see you as a freak. Maybe you’re coming across as desperate? Maybe you need to try to focus on other aspects of life besides trying to meet a woman. Do you have hobbies? Especially social ones! It’s easier to meet someone when you’re already sharing a common interest like board games or painting or smth. Or maybe ask friends to try to set you u…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:38 AM
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Well it depends how you are going about it. If you’re complaining about how no women have ever dated you then that’s probably why. If you start talking to a woman and getting to know them and then confess that you don’t have a lot of experience inthink some women genuinely might find it endearing tbh There are also as I said plenty of women who don’t have tons of sexual experience or dating experience either, so yeah maybe women who have dated lots of men might not want to help you learn, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:55 AM
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Also while some women may have experience where you have none, there are plenty of women who have only had one or two partners. One of my best friends from high school was with someone since high school and they broke up when she was 26, now she’s single and dating for the first time as an adult, so in some ways she is also inexperienced. There are definetly women who are in more similar to boats to you !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:48 AM
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Well when younger women prefer older men instead of guys their own age it’s generally because they think guys their age are immature or they are looking for someone w more experience. That’s the trade off and why they would go for someone older. Women who are in their 20’s 30’s who are looking for men in their age range are probably more flexible and ok with someone who is less experienced especially if they are open and willing to learn genuinely, a lot of stuff about being a good partner also …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:40 AM
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Ok this is kind of a fair question. I’m going to relate to this as a woman who only realized my bisexuality in my early 20’s and I was nervous that I had no experience with women whereas other women did and wouldn’t want to date a baby Bi. What I learned was that being honest is the best thing, and that there are probably more women in the same boat as you then you would think. A man with less experience who is honest about being new to dating will get empathy and patience. Yes a lot of women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:25 AM
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So you’re not being fr then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:57 AM
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I can’t tell if you’re being satirical or not lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:53 AM
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what if she’s just not in the mood? What if the “things” she gets from you are companionship and love? This is sad I thought you were being satirical at first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:07 AM
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This is very true lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:54 AM
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Thank you 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:49 PM
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Well that’s literally what I said lmao. Men are not threatened by bi women because they don’t take it seriously or don’t see it as a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:50 PM
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I mean it’s homophobia both towards women and men. It’s homophobic towards lesbians and bi women because men see wlw relationships as not real or they fetishize them also
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:33 PM
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Well that’s just embarrassing for them and says more abt them then women if they will fuck anyone and every woman avoids him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:29 PM
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Yes I don’t think men cheat on their partners bc their girlfriends are too good to them I think it’s most likely again bc of an issue w the man or something else in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:08 PM
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Bc most of the time women don’t cheat bc their man is too good lmao. It’s more likely that she was just a bitch or a bad person or there was something else going on but saying it’s bc he’s “giving too much” sounds fake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:06 PM
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Learn how to read I said men do this and then asked him to elaborate? Did I say “you are lying 100% for a fact” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:00 PM
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It’s very true sometimes people just cheat I’m just saying that it’s not usually because men “give more” it’s more likely that there was no reason instead of he was too nice lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:58 PM
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You think you’re giving more than you’re taking but you probably aren’t. Once men get comfortable generally they start paying less attention to us, dates get less frequent, the romance dies down and yet mens expectations stay the same. In what ways did you give more?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:52 PM
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I literally have no idea what you’re talking about lmaoo. If you’re talking about how sometimes womens sex drives lower once they’re in a ltr, it’s not because of Alpha Beta nonsense it’s usually just because we have other things to do? It’s normal for the sex drive to be intense on the first months and then taper off. When I started dating my BF we had sex like 8 times a day, now it’s maybe 3 times a week because it’s unsustainable to have that much sex and still have our own independent lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:51 PM
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Ah yes because weight is the determining factor in someone’s value or attractiveness (??)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:44 PM
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I literally would not care either way lmao. If I like a person and they like me, their dating history doesn’t matter too much to me. Certain specific things might be a red flag, like if the person was still talking to their ex or not fully over them, or on the other hand if I found out the person was always single bc they were Red Pilled those might make me feel a certain way but otherwise it makes no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:45 PM
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Right… so if your type is women who are younger and therefore not in a financially stable position themselves and you are then it makes sense to be the one paying for things etc. if you want to be on an equal financial ground with someone then you should date someone in a similar position then you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:34 PM
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Well then you admitted yourself you aren’t putting in effort. Why do you expect these ‘higher quality’ women or women who meet your basic criteria if you aren’t making any effort
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:31 PM
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If I had awards I would give you one lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:30 PM
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I 100% agree and you make a very valid point which is exactly what i mean!! Men claim to want things but don’t want to hold up their end of the bargain of what the women they are seeking out want lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:29 PM
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Tbh I agree with you though, but if a man wants a skinny hot woman and they themselves are not conventionally attractive or fit then that’s what I mean. If men are allowed to have these standards thay involve body type, and facial structure etc then women can too but men on here love to complain abt the women they are attracted, to for shallow reasons, of being shallow themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:28 PM
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This is also what I mean too !!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:19 PM
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You’re absolutely right this is a much better way of phrasing it and absolutely what I was talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:18 PM
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then why do men complain so much that they can’t get women or thay women are rejecting them etc…. That’s even more embarrassing 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:55 PM
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Well then that’s fine but you are still complaining about it lol. It sounds like your options are complain about these women’s unrealistic standards you don’t want to do (which you don’t have to!) but then why are you continuing to seek them out? Why not either accept the situation or try to date someone you are actually compatible with. Also I don’t really see women complaining about a lack of men so, sounds like women don’t really need to change if they’re getting what they want lmao. The only…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:46 PM
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Sure but like, loads of women are not into hook up culture and only sleep with men they are dating/in long term relationships with. So your scenario does happen but it’s not every single time. If men are going after women who had a massive hoe phase, it’s probably because they are attracted to that independent sexy woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:41 PM
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Right but I’m sure your version of hot requires maintenance, and again young women have a lot of options to choose from. So you’re still going after a certain type of woman and being mad that they have requirements when you also do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:39 PM
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I mean that’s the common thing I’ve seen in these forums is that “women control the dating market” I didn’t make it up lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:37 PM
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I’m saying you expect the women to be at least young and hot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:34 PM
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I get that but it still kind of sounds like a man problem lmao. there are still many women who are more traditional, or just not into hook up culture at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:34 PM
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That’s what I mean lmao it sounds like the type of woman you want is actually incompatible with you. If you are seeking our women who are high maintenance and require you to be rich and are also independent…. Then you should fit their standards too. There are men who will date them. There are also plenty of women who are not like that, they just might be less “fun” or less attractive to you because they are not so high maintenance and worried abt their appearance. I don’t understand why you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:32 PM
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I hear this a lot but this is so opposite of what my experience is irl. Also if women were only Dating the “top” men then no one would be in a monogamous relationship which is very untrue. Most people irl date people who are around the same level as each other in terms of attractiveness, social standing etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:26 PM
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I mean, yeah having a high paying job isn’t the only thing a woman looks for. If you’re going for women who require a rich man they still want you to be nice to them and care about them. You can’t just buy a woman lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:24 PM
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I actually do agree with this 100%. Dating app behaviour and standards does not always reflect real life. I think women on dating apps are more shallow (myself included) vs if I met someone in a social setting like a party or school I’ll probably be more attracted to them. This is also partially because men don’t know how to take good selfies though tbf 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah but I don’t just mean about looks either, it seems that some men want women who are high maintenance and feminine and therefore are looking for a man who can provide certain things and then men get mad that these women have certain expectations they can’t meet. If it’s valid for men to have standards for women, then I think it’s also valid for women to have standards for men and it’s ok both ways to have those standards and date people you want! I just think it’s hypocritical to get mad at …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:18 PM
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I agree tbh, men who actively go on these forums tend to have extremely skewed ideas abt dating and it leaks into irl. I can usually tell the difference between a guy who is just awkward and maybe shy vs a guy who has been poisoned by being chronincally online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:16 PM
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This is basically what I mean lmao. It seems like men on this subreddit (and somewhat men in general) have super high expectations of what they want in a woman without realizing they don’t even live up those expectations themselves. (I’m sure there are also women like this too btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:14 PM
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Well maybe the problem then is that they’re seeking a type of woman they aren’t compatible with lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:08 PM
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Well if you think that and it’s your preference to date women who are either nepo babies or seeking sugar daddies than don’t complain that they have higher standards or require men who have money lmaooo You can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:48 PM
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Men complain abt women onlt wanting them for money or being sugar babies but simultaneously seek out women who have no jobs and whose main thing is being young and attractive. No shade to those women I support them but like, there are other women available to date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:36 PM
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I agree but feels like the comment is implying that women w careers can’t be nice or attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:34 PM
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Women with careers can’t be nice and attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:27 PM
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It’s because of homophobia Bisexual women are seen as more likely to be straight but willing to do stuff with women (which men find sexy) Whereas bisexual men are seen as men who are gay but either still like women sort of, or are just lying in order to not have to come out of the closet fully. Plus if a man cheats on a woman with another man, that’s seen as worse than a woman cheating with another woman, because wlw relationships are not seen as threatening to men in the sense men don’t think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:43 PM
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Women criticizing men’s problematic behaviour: rape, being abusive, only treating us as sex objects, unfair expectations on women In terms of household labour Men criticizing women: onlyfans, and wearing makeup 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:04 PM
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Wdym women don’t care when men cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:31 PM
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but if you have no problem hooking up w people and people irl are accepting you for who you are, then who are you worried abt? Girls on the internet? Either it is hindering your life or it isn’t babes you can’t have it both ways x
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:23 AM
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ok then why are you ranting abt it if it’s a positive thing? Like, if people are cool w u being as you say controlling and insecure then sounds like it’s already accepted? Unless ur talking abt people on this subreddit. You’re clearly pressed abt it for a reason babe x
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:17 AM
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If you’re complaining about being called these things I’m assuming that it’s because people in your life are telling you to change and not associating with you because of it. When women call men controlling or insecure they dont end up dating those men lmao But yeah being insecure and controlling is totally helping you be happy in relationships and that’s why you made a whole rant abt it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:12 AM
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I mean sure you can accept those things but it’s not going to help you if your goal is to get laid or have meaningful relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:07 AM
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Yes i literally said a sneaking suspicion :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:09 PM
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You say yourself you’re not a mean person, that’s probably why. It’s been a hard thing for me to learn but sometimes you have to be blunt and even mean for men to leave you alone bc they will interpret any niceness towards them as flirtation, or they will think they can wear you down. If you get uncomfortable vibes from a man and it’s safe to do so then be honest and upfront w them and say “I’m not into you like that and I won’t ever be and if you continue like this I will block you” even saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:04 PM
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Ok, but then what if the man breaks up with me? Or we don’t work out? Then I’m no longer a virgin and “damaged goods” for the next one? I’m going to also hold men to this standard now. I’m only going 2 date virgins who have waited for me xx
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:04 PM
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I think you’re making an assumption that when we genuinely want to date someone we are going to refrain from sex or withhold it. That’s sort of an outdated idea that lots of women don’t subscribe to anymore. If I like someone then I will still probably sleep with someone on the first date or soon. It’s also a paradox for men though because if he gets offended we don’t sleep with them on the first date, but also think we are sluts or don’t want a relationship right away if we do, then like what’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:48 PM
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I have a sneaking suspcion that “moments of weakness” end up being violent or abusive. I personally have never gotten the ick from a man being vulnerable or having moments of being human, but when those “moments of weakness” involve throwing things, being violent, verbally abusive etc… yah I’m going to want to leave them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:46 PM
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But are we not talking about HVM in terms of the dating market? If we are looking at heterosexual men/pairings then why would it matter if he brings value to other men’s lives? Or am I severely lost and confused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:40 PM
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I feel like they key point in Samuel’s definition is “he has to be seen as high value by other men” If it’s women who are choosing men and wanting to date men, then why does it really matter what other men think of him? Shouldnt women be the definers more so than other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:39 PM
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I’m the person who mentioned growth and it was directly abt sex work and OF but you’re right, I am illiterate. Do you think racism and sex work are equally bad though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:47 PM
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It’s not about the fact younger people are more attractive it’s about the fact I’m not going to break up w my partner once they get older unlike men who fetishize youth as their number 1 trait they’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:41 PM
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ah yes sex work and racism are equally bad 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:38 PM
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Yes people can get hurt in relationships my point was more so that you are worried abt women being jaded and saying women fall in love faster so we should be careful who we date and only do LTRs while also saying that men are more casual and take a long time deciding if they want it to be serious? So who are women supposed to date??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:53 AM
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then I think In those cases that he should pay child support lmao I’m not anti child support but I agree that if a man knows he does not want to be part of the child’s life from the jump then he can sign away his rights. But then he can’t call that his kid lmao. I also think this bc I think a pregnant woman should have all the facts to make the best descisions for herself n the fetus and knowing that the father is not going to contribute at all could be an important factor in that descision
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:46 AM
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Yah it is crazy lmao like personally I am attracted to people as people and not just for their age but I’m just a silly woman x
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:35 AM
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but like,,, how are women supposed to know if it’s a long term relationship or short without getting to know the person? If you’re saying men don’t know right away then like who are we supposed to date? I’m not opposed to casual dating and I agree that your 20’s is about finding out what you like and dislike in relationships I just think it’s hypocritical and dishonest to say men can basically lead women on but if we get hurt and jaded by it that’s our fault bc we should’ve picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:33 AM
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Ok but when women do this we are sluts who are wasting our prime sleeping around w men right?? Like the double standards are so wild 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:27 AM
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The problem isn’t that these men who seek out women in their 20’s actually want to build a relationship w women it’s specifically the fact they want a woman in their 20’s regardless of their own age. A lot of these men will end up dumping their wives/gfs once they get older, like Leo di Caprio lmao. I will never understand the appeal of wanting someone of any certain age bc,,,, what’s gonna happen when they get older? “That's what I love about these high school girls, man. I get older, they stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:24 AM
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who am I gaslighting lmaooo in the situation where a man chooses to date someone knowing their past and situation then I would say that they are not weak bc they are able to handle their insecurities and be confident to date someone w this kind of past. Unless u r implying that I am an OF girl who is attempting to “gaslight” men into dating me? Yes so true bestie I use Reddit as a dating app 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:18 AM
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I think it’s stupid to say pregnancy and child support are equal responsibilities but yes I do agree that if at the time of pregnancy the father knows he does not want to be involved he should be able to terminate his rights
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:26 AM
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If women are able to have abortions I also support men deciding (at the time of pregnancy) to terminate their rights to the child and not have to pay child. Ans I support abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:11 AM
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If you are saying sex is a risk of pregnancy than it’s also a risk of being a father and therefore you should be ready to take that responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:08 AM
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What does this mean (explain it to me like I’m 5)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:56 PM
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This works both ways though, a man should then be responsible for child care and paying child support even if he didn’t want the child because he consented to the possibility of the child. I support abortion btw but it’s funny how your logic never seems to apply to men and only to punish women who get pregnant unplanned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:50 PM
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I feel like this is literally just Pro Choice but uneccesarily complicated lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:48 PM
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I don’t understand the fact that only “weak” men would date someone like this. To me, a man who is able to look past someone’s past and is confident and secure to not compare himself to other men and sees a woman as a whole person and who she is now is a strong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:11 PM
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I would argue that it would take a strong man tbh. Like a man who is secure and comfortable w himself and able to respect a woman and see their growth to me seems like a stronger personality than someone who is insecure and not able to handle dealing w someone who comes w a past
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:08 PM
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