Big_1Hoser Archive

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7	The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking them Yup, slow your diction down and your movements. Focus on moving slow, in the walk, hand movements, nodding slowly, a slow smirk, etc. Don’t talk or act nervous; you’re Clint Eastwood in every western he’s been in and they’re the nervous gun fighter. Seriously, watch how he moves and talks in those movies, like Outlaw Josey Wales.	/r/seduction	09/12/25 09:05 PM
5	For 40s Men Yup, don’t be too “try hard” in not acting or looking/dressing “old”. Just think “classy” but also fun. That’s how I landed my hot little 34 year old GF (I’m 58 and a year younger than her Mom. Her Mom is not okay with it but my gal got over it. I don’t look or act my age and people usually guess I’m in my late forties. It helps being tall and in good shape, of course). She complains guys her age have no game, are boring, cheap and way too much into video games and social media. She’s over all t…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 10:10 PM
2	how do i get over fumbling 10s Also, follow the “mirror rule” in that you mirror their response times. If you text her and it takes 1 hour for her to respond back, then you also take about an hour. This shows you ain’t hanging on her every word and waiting around for her. You got better things to do! Now, if you got an active back and forth going with minutes between texts, then keep the momentum going. But when it stops, for whatever reason, LET IT GO. Mirror the response time back. Better still, you END IT, like, “Sorry got…	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:35 PM
1	how do i get over fumbling 10s I’m telling ya, a “nice date” that almost always works is a nice home cooked meal. Money can buy many things, but not time, and that the personal time and effort to you devote to cooking a delicious meal will be VERY appreciated and will impress her. Learn how to cook! Then read a little on wine pairing with it and you’ll separate yourself from all the dumbasses thinking spending $200 on a dinner out is the same. It ain’t. Make her “earn it” first by a casual date or 2 to make sure you vibe and …	/r/seduction	26/06/25 03:16 PM
1	Age Gap Game It depends on the woman, I mean I’d rather date and bang a hot 60 year old woman in phenomenal shape (like an ultra marathon runner I hooked up with 2 years ago) than a chubby 30 year old who thinks because she’s young that that’s good enough. No it ain’t! Plus younger chicks are usually more drama and higher maintenance, so really you gotta weigh the whole package. Age is just part of it.	/r/seduction	25/06/25 06:02 PM
1	Age Gap Game Yup, just started seriously dating a little 34 year old hottie 2 months ago. I’m 58 and a year younger then her Mom (who is jealous and says she can’t find good dudes her age who want to date as they all are going after the young gals). LOL. What I’m hearing from gals in their 30’s and 40’s is Millennial dudes have no game and no direction in life with no skills outside of playing video games. This is my biggest age gap, btw (previous relationship was with a 46 year old).	/r/seduction	25/06/25 05:47 PM
5	how do i get over fumbling 10s Ah, there you go. The problem was your actions were incongruent with what you really wanted (or didn’t know you wanted). Try this: treat those 10’s like it would be a temporary fling and so make them earn the GF like you would if they were 7/8. As someone else alluded to, the 10’s are much more likely to be crazy and/or high maintenance, so make them “prove” they aren’t. No roses and “nice dinners” until after they met up with you for more casual dates like a drink and dancing and showed they ca…	/r/seduction	25/06/25 05:33 PM
-10	If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do This “Cringe” aka “cheesy” can absolutely work! You just gotta own it (ie, “I’m a total nerd! Nerd alert!” and then with, “I’m your density… er, destiny!” If she gets that Back to the Future line, bonus points!). If you’re not confident enough to be cheesy with a wink and a smile, then don’t do it. Usually, gals will giggle and reply with, “Oh, I’m a nerd too!” and that transitions into a “nerd-off” (“Oh yeah, well I once had a 7th level half elf thief with a cloak of invisibility…”). Obviously, not …	/r/seduction	21/04/25 08:48 PM
6	What Worked for You Guys in College for Meeting Girls at Bars Working at a bar.	/r/seduction	14/01/25 04:34 AM
1	I took a girl home after 5 minutes (She was hot too) It works if you’re feeling it. Last summer for a roadtrip to SoCal, I matched up with a gal online and texted and chatted on the phone a few times before I got there. We met up at a bar and my friend was shocked that I pulled her out in less than an hour (“Let’s go for a walk on the beach..”, which ended up in the hotel room). She ended up trying to set my friend up with a friend and then hosted us for a BBQ at her place. Bottom line: If you think she’s interested, go for it! Also put in your ho…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 05:18 PM
1	Why is game so difficult? If it was easy, everyone could do it! Practice, practice, practice…	/r/seduction	16/02/24 04:28 AM
2	Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night stand Actually I’ve had many ONS over the years where either she or I just wasn’t emotionally available for a relationship at that time (usually just after a breakup) and so one or both just wanted a fun night or 2.	/r/seduction	29/08/23 12:42 AM
2	Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay?? Oh Cheesus Crust, so when I was even slightly drunk, I didn’t give “consent”? So ALL sex after a drink or 2 is “rape”? That’s about the stupidest thing I’ve heard in a long time.	/r/seduction	21/06/23 03:26 PM
1	Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay?? Dude, there’s a BIG difference between obliterated and buzzed. Duh. Gals who just lie there, whether because they’re drunk or not, are just plain boring. You want an active and enthusiastic participant, and can you do that if you’ve had a few? Never had drunk sex? You think it’s different for a woman? GTFO. I had my second threesome after the gals said, “Let’s go get drunk first” because that lowers inhibitions and we all knew what happens next. Sheesh.	/r/seduction	20/06/23 02:10 PM
8	Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay?? Lol. After one friend heard about the double dip, he decided to try it as he had a different GF in 2 dorms. So he goes from #1 to #2 and she goes down to blow and sniffs… “HEYYY!” He lost #2 that day!	/r/seduction	19/06/23 04:00 PM
19	Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay?? We called that the “double dip” back in the day. Had a friend do the “triple dip” once… Bonus points if #2 gives you oral (pro tip: make sure she’s drunk or something as there’s a good chance she’ll notice otherwise! 😆).	/r/seduction	19/06/23 03:51 PM
3	Old man advice, some observations and instruction. Lol. I got a Dad bod and my body count is in the triple digits. But I’m tall (6’3”), good looking, and told I’m hella funny. I make good money for my area but my no means am rich. One of my best friends pulls like crazy with a worse job, shorter at 5’10” with a Dad bod with kids, but he’s funny as hell and just has a “I don’t give a fuck” attitude that women love. He also has different standards as while some of his pulls will be hot, others are not in my book as he likes the “big booty” chicks …	/r/seduction	14/06/23 02:44 PM
2	Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power. Good luck! Definitely give a field report as I haven’t used that in a while. I’m undecided if I want a relationship anytime soon but got a problem lately meeting gals I’d want to be in one with anyway. Had an ex come by the other night but would like to get a rotation going again until I do meet someone I’d like to be exclusive with.	/r/seduction	04/05/23 03:26 PM
2	Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power. Both. Though I wouldn’t put that line in your profile unless you’re only looking for a hookup as that will disqualify you to a lot of potential gals who may also be looking for a hookup but either don’t want to look like a slut or leave a little wiggle room “just in case this dude is relationship material”. Though beware of that too if you’re just looking to hookup and giving too much of a “nice guy vibe”. I setup a coworker back in the day who laid plenty of gals and he got to work on her as I …	/r/seduction	04/05/23 02:48 PM
2	Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power. Yup, just be honest where you are in life and whether you’re interested in a relationship or not. Been laid a few times talking to a gal and saying very near the start, “I’m kind of emotionally unavailable right now”… BOOM! That’s chick code for “I just want to get laid”. The first gal I said that to, she was looking not interested at all as I was talking to her and a friend. Her eyes lit up as she looked up and said, “Me too!”, gave me her number and told me she was sorry she couldn’t hook up t…	/r/seduction	04/05/23 02:44 AM