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Yeah I remember a teacher was once trying to give me advice on driving and said something like 95% of all accidents happen within 5 miles of your house. I was like yeah that’s kinda obvious no matter which direction you go you’ll always go within 5 miles for at least a portion of your trip.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/19 05:25 PM
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My classroom and all the classrooms at my school have cameras and it was a little annoying at first because I always felt like I was being watched but it’s always nice to know that nothing can ever be falsified against me
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/19 05:21 PM
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is she required by law to give her name? If she isn't being charged for a particular crime why would she need to comply? I don't have the exact answer for this, and the cop should've been more clear, but the crime was possession of alcohol as a minor, or possession of alcohol on the beach, whichever. That crime would warrant a ticket and he'd therefore need her name. Regardless of this "aunt" she's the one who's technically in possession of it because her aunt is not there. So I'd say that it is…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/18 09:25 PM
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Agree with everything you said. I've grown up in Florida my whole life and gotten the lecture before. Me and my friends were super polite and they just told us to keep it in the cooler as much as possible and if they got any calls about us being belligerent we'd get ticketed or even arrested She fucked up by just not complying with anything. Say it's the aunts, give him your full name, blow the breathalyzer and show you're not drunk, and either pour it out or put it in the cooler. That's it. It'…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/18 08:04 PM
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The aunt wasn't anywhere in sight and that could've just been bullshit. She never shows up throughout the whole video so who knows if she was even nearby
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/18 08:00 PM
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Not sure why you got downvoted, if it's a glass bottle you can't have them on the beach. Alcohol isn't technically allowed on the beach, but you'll almost always get away with it if you're not belligerent and of age She is: not 21 not allowed to have alcohol on the beach probably has it in a glass bottle belligerent and aggressive (although somehow not drunk)
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/18 07:48 PM
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Posts like this drive me crazy. Just say hi. That's what every pickup article boils down to. Just say hi. THEN. WHAT. "Oh just talk about anything". This broad bullshit advice is so stupid. There's never specific examples and it's always here's how I got from A to D, without listing steps B and C Say hi ??? ??? Fuck 1000 girls With a "just be yourself" thrown in there. Any dickhead can approach someone and say hi. And especially any dickhead can tell another dickhead to approach someone and say …
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:40 AM
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I guess so, but man does that not sound really stupid to you? I've heard "in jest" and others, but still in drink sounds weird to me
/r/MensRights21/09/17 06:39 AM
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I've never once heard someone say "in drink" in that manner
/r/MensRights21/09/17 05:55 AM
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My experience is mixed. I've gone on a ton of dates in the past year and sushi date and walk around or bar and walk around or anything a bit "safe" like that is sometimes hit or miss. I've had nothing but fantastic conversation on some of those dates and it still didn't really translate to something really next level. Too difficult to escalate and stuff when you're just casually eating sushi for me
/r/seduction13/08/17 09:45 PM
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Yeah mini golf is so horrible. I think a girl my age (24) would laugh in my face if I suggested that. But a trampoline place or a Dave and busters might be a better choice for something fun and upbeat
/r/seduction13/08/17 08:29 PM
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Kissing before the end is so crucial. It makes the rest of the date go by without that looming over your head
/r/seduction13/08/17 08:28 PM
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Yeah my friends little brother was born this way
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/17 05:13 PM
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To my spot*
/r/seduction05/05/17 07:00 AM
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At the same time, if you go somewhere by yourself and "document" it and shape it as you're having fun, people will find your night more interesting than other people's. If you go out by yourself and see some funny stuff or do some interesting things, nobody will really care. Go to the bar by yourself and take pictures of you drinking alone all night, yeah you're gonna get laughed at.
/r/seduction05/05/17 06:49 AM
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Haha I continue to tease for a long time into the relationship but I think teasing =/= negging and some people don't realize that
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:35 PM
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Probably because they were still negging their wife years into their marriage. Shit changes when you're married
/r/seduction12/03/17 03:42 PM
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Right. Not saying that at all. Just saying if a fat person is gonna talk shit they should check themself first
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 07:46 PM
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rather than attacking them If you're suggesting for us to not point and laugh at an obese person in public, yes you are correct. But if a fat person is going to belittle all men under 6' for something they have ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL OVER, then sorry but no that's bullshit. Her tweet was way more disgusting
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 04:54 PM
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And you think foster care is gonna let them sit in their room and jerk off and not do any chores?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/17 08:32 AM
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I'm 24 and live at home with a decent job, just looking to get established in my career before I move out and I'm definitely not a basement neckbeard
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/17 08:30 AM
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Right but in this situation the girl is acting like an entitled little shit like she doesn't have to do any dishes. This girl is spoiled and doesn't take it upon herself to realize how much her parents are giving her and thus probably doesn't do shit around the house. The dishes in this girl's sink are probably her family's dishes from dinner. It'd be fucked up if the dad made a corn dog by himself and put the plate on the counter, walked into the girls room, and said "go clean my plate". We can…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/17 08:25 AM
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Got black out drunk one night and vaguely remember kissing a girl before we left. The next day my friend comes over and says "wtf did you say to that girl" and I think oh man what girl? Did I get slapped or something. He says "because it seems like you just walked right up to her without saying anything and just started making out." So I guess my boldest thing is walking straight up to a girl I never met or spoke to and started kissing her
/r/seduction12/02/17 08:01 AM
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Sure, it can be used for one on one messaging, and I would suggest doing it, because societal norms as of now don't really suggest sending videos or photos through text as much as snapchat. Sometimes it pays to just do whatever is popular. You could always go against the grain and do it however you'd like, but the communication aspect that Snapchat adds is definitely useful for dating
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:36 AM
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Well you can send a picture through text message to one person, or you can send a snapchat photo to like 20 people at once. So no, not just a more convoluted way of sending a pic
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:00 AM
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Haha yeah there's some people who I don't really get snaps from and it's not a big deal. It's a useful tool for dating though. To be able to snap a pic of yourself and send it is helpful
/r/seduction26/01/17 04:05 AM
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Do none of your friends have snap? I'm 24, and out of college, and even I have about 20-30 interesting people on my snap. The other half are pretty lame. But this is definitely the way I stay in closest touch with all my friends. Showing them something funny you're doing or just saying what's up is pretty easy through snapchat, and then you have the bonus of what AnonUser said
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:49 AM
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I honestly thought it was back the fuck off
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/16 04:57 PM
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Funny enough I watch almost everyone but the comedians. Some of the comedians are funny but others are just comedians talking about politics with joe. I love any of the historians or anything like that he has on. The UFC ones aren't fantastic but Donald Cerrone's was awesome if you like Cowboy
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/16 07:42 PM
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Yeah one of my friends was cooking dinner and kept saying stuff like it was food network
/r/seduction23/11/16 04:10 PM
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The problem with #1 is my situation is that my schedule is so flexible that I really am free almost any night. I work and go to the gym almost every day of the week and so I'm generally free every night after the gym. Sometimes I'll hit a local bar or have tickets to a sports game during the week, but I generally save all my fun for the weekend. Does this make me boring? I don't think so.. On nights I can't get a date I'll read, do schoolwork, play some video games, etc. It's not like I sit in m…
/r/seduction17/10/16 05:52 PM
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One of the girls I'm currently pursuing just keeps putting off when she's available. Had a date with her two weeks ago, tried for a date that next weekend, said she was babysitting his sister all weekend. At the beginning of the next week asked if she was free she said next week would be good, she was going on vacation that weekend. She said she promised she wasn't being "flighty" and that she was actually busy. Now I'm at the beginning of the week she said she was available and wondering what t…
/r/seduction17/10/16 05:39 PM
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4-7 days too? lol girl probably doesn't even remember that guy by then
/r/seduction14/09/16 02:15 AM
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thanks man, all great advice. I think I just need some more experience and approaches to be prepared for when things don't develop exactly how I imagine them in my head
/r/seduction15/08/16 10:24 PM
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Great advice all around. At the time I might've been a little too drunk to see it as her playing me. And I was a bit rushed too. But your response is perfect and honestly something I'd normally say when I get more approaches under my belt. Me and my group of friends have also come across some really aggressive and hostile guys at clubs recently and I was by myself and didn't want to get caught in a situation where I was alone. Yeah I don't think I'd ask a girl directly if she's here with anyone,…
/r/seduction15/08/16 08:24 PM
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Yeah.. went to college for 4.5 years and never once had a class with a break in it.
/r/seduction29/07/16 01:19 AM
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For me when it comes to getting into a new podcast, I always listen to 3 or 4 of the most recent ones, and then if I really like it, go back and listen from the beginning. They're likely in a groove right now, and if you start from the beginning, things might feel a little lame and choppy.
/r/seduction29/07/16 01:17 AM
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Right. At least you've recognized what you did wrong. It did its purpose yeah but I wouldn't say it was very successful. You're not done yet though, bc she seemed receptive even after your mess ups. I'd say something like "hey I didn't curb my craving for (whatever dessert you're looking for). Thinking of trying one of those others places you recommend. Wanna join?"
/r/seduction20/07/16 08:48 PM
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Yeah the other mess up was when you said "u replied too late now I'm at __" When you should've said "I like ___ the ambiance is nice. Next time I plan on going you should come" Her interest level is moderate at best. She might just be bored, but you're definitely not winning her over with these texts. I find success in texting by asking some deeper questions but you didn't really have an opportunity to transition to that without it being weird.
/r/seduction20/07/16 07:38 AM
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uhh no.. Spotlight did. Also Fury Road was an incredible movie
/r/MensRights17/07/16 06:45 PM
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I'd bet a ton of money that it doesn't win anything. The academy isn't that stupid
/r/MensRights17/07/16 08:21 AM
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I'm not sure if it's the Legend one, but a guy I worked with was wearing this and it was incredible. I said, holy crap man what is that cologne? And his wife who works there comes up and says it's montblanc I got it for him for christmas
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:40 AM
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Then stop being lazy or enjoy being alone. Don't mean to be rude but you have to go and get the things you want
/r/seduction20/05/16 04:50 PM
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Maybe this works for some people, but others find it sort of annoying. I personally do, but I'm a guy so I know that's different, but I do know girls who also aren't a huge fan of this thinking. Using it a couple times more than normal is nice, but excessively can backfire
/r/seduction05/03/16 05:20 PM
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Ooh I disagree on sending the link. I hate receiving links on my phone. It's so tacky idk
/r/seduction21/10/15 02:53 AM
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I'm about 5'11 so 150 was slightly underweight. Adding muscle mass and some fat got me up to ~180. /r/gainit is some legit stuff
/r/MensRights23/08/15 04:26 AM
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150 9 months ago 180 1 month ago 165 now with some abs Just saying it's not super easy to get good looking abs
/r/MensRights23/08/15 04:02 AM
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Not true at all. I've maintained a healthy lifestyle almost my entire life, have spent the last 9 months dieting and exercising 6-8 times per week, and still don't possess a 6 pack
/r/MensRights22/08/15 10:22 PM
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Sort of the advice I expected to hear. Just not sure on what to say. I'll probably think of something though. It didn't really feel like she was into me, she just wanted to chime in. But it's always worth being friendly with a hot girl.
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:27 PM
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"So I didn't know what to say to you so I asked reddit and one guy said I should've referenced how soon the old women would die"
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:15 PM
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I went there and was polite and asked genuine questions and got banned within an hour. After asking the mods why I got banned, it was even worse treatment than I expected. They were like "boo hoo" go cry somewhere else. It's practically hate speech in there sometimes. There's some really harsh comments they make about people they know nothing about.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 05:31 AM
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They were "acting" peaceful, but what they were saying was far from peaceful. Someone is going to get angry at what they're saying and stand up or whatever race it is they're putting down at that moment
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/15 09:40 PM
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The problem is cost. Is it cost effective to turn all workplace benches into adjustable benches, or just not hire women? Even if a woman outperforms a man, she'd have to outperform him even more than the cost of converting the benches (which wouldn't be known until the benches were converted)
/r/MensRights29/04/15 06:54 PM
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That's what I would do. The moment the alleged perpetrator is cleared of any wrongdoing, I'd go right to a law office and sue any and every person involved in the slander. People make up their minds the moment the media and regular citizens start portraying a person as a rapist, and they will never be able to escape the backlash of being associated with that.
/r/MensRights24/04/15 05:47 AM
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perceptive receptive
/r/seduction21/04/15 02:00 AM
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the more meaningless sex is, the less enjoyable it is I agree, but at some point, it's still sex with another human being and in this case a very very attractive one. It seemed to me you'd have to be a true deviant for it not to be an awkward experience. Very much disagree. Sex can be awkward the first time with a girlfriend just as much as it is with a stranger. I've had non-awkward sex with a girl who I barely knew, and awkward sex with a girl who I'd hung out with numerous times. It just depe…
/r/MensRights20/04/15 10:33 PM
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Right, and like half (50) of the guys that said no to this responded that they had girlfriends, and wouldn't be using tinder. Let's say 30 of them were being truthful. Now that's 40 that said no, and 30 that said yes. Still not Tinder levels of success, but a bit more realistic.
/r/MensRights20/04/15 09:23 PM
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I wouldn't think it's real but I'd play along just to see. The girl is at least funny and outgoing it'd be interesting to see what came of it. Although my takes on sexuality are a lot more open than most people. I don't have a problem sharing my sexual preferences, experiences, etc with people so yeah
/r/MensRights20/04/15 06:25 PM
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Some of those guys were decent looking, probably on par with her. I honestly wavered back and forth between saying yes and blatantly saying no. This is sort of not very different from a girl messaging you on tinder and asking to fuck, albeit a bit more blunt I guess.
/r/MensRights20/04/15 06:20 PM
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How is this even enforced?
/r/MensRights20/04/15 06:02 PM
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you probably interpret it as "its not really a problem if its a man disease but now its a woman's disease that means we need to do something about it" And I don't think that's what it's saying at all. When things like this are posted, Mensrights is doing the same thing radical feminists are doing. This is a good, safe, post by a group looking to raise awareness for women's heart disease. I would like the same respect if we posted something about men's breast cancer.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 10:10 PM
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The problem is that if there was an instagram account where men where posting pictures of "Hot Girls Reading on the Subway", the uproar and backlash against it would be fucking apocalyptic. I disagree, and I don't really have any evidence for it, I just don't think that regular feminists and media would be so crazy about it.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 09:54 PM
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Haha yeah the "alcoholic" part was a bit of a joke, but I guess statistically I'm considered an alcoholic based on how much/often I drink. Really though, me and a girl friend went to Sonic at like 3pm and stopped by Walgreens liquor and spiked our drinks and went thrift shopping and it was hilarious. I've snuck the mini liquors into theaters just not on a date but I know it'd be really fun.
/r/seduction18/01/15 05:17 AM
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This is one of those things where there's probably at least one woman in the bar who will find this attractive/confident/whatever. Some girl will approach him and make a comment about them, and whoever that girl is would be the one he's got to score. But otherwise he's 1) looking like an imbecile in front of the other women 2) earning no respect from other men because he's essentially peacocking and 3) putting all his eggs in one basket which in this case the basket is a girl who's attracted to …
/r/seduction17/01/15 11:20 PM
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I always sneak in little mini liquors into the movie and spike a slushie/soda. You can play a little drinking game while the movie plays. Making up a drinking game as you go along is really fun too. Also I'm an alcoholic
/r/seduction17/01/15 10:21 PM
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I dated a girl who was a Women's Studies major and pretty big feminist. I believed in her side of feminism, as she wasn't nearly as radical as some are. But I told her, you (as "feminists") need to realize that you're going to start alienating men and making men hate women. Men aren't going to want to approach women in clubs, bars, or other various public places where men typically meet women. Fear of "harassment" or many other things are becoming ever more prevalent and instead of giving women …
/r/MensRights05/01/15 04:56 AM
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Can you post that tweet? I'd really like to share it with some friends.
/r/MensRights24/12/14 08:59 AM
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How do you normally find and attract ladies with the whole confidence nice smile thing if you're not finding them on the streets? Inner circles, small bars where talking to someone isn't nearly hitting on someone, online dating/tinder. I don't ever do the "see a hot girl in public - start talking to her" thing. It's just never really worked for me. I have horrible AA, so I just kinda scrapped that whole segment for now. If you wanna know how I picked up the last 2 girls (working on my 3rd) I met…
/r/seduction16/12/14 09:12 PM
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Good question. I'm someone who's been told I'm really funny. Combined with being a slightly above average looking skinny male, I usually attract decent looking women. But I really have no PUA game. I don't use any of the "tricks" usually discussed here. Usually just some confidence, a couple witty jokes, and a nice smile. That's the "how important is it" part. My summary of that would be, if you have game elsewhere, being funny isn't super important, but it can definite accompany good game and i…
/r/seduction16/12/14 08:03 PM
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A parody clip of this would be really funny where the guy keeps getting her to do things like sign contracts, swear on the bible, and other stuff
/r/MensRights12/12/14 09:30 PM
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Your last part is so true. Me and my roommate would dance like animals and we'd often have girls approach us. Or at least receive good eye contact from ones dancing by themselves. We'd go up and ask them to dance and some would say no "I'm here with my friends" but we'd just say ok your loss and move on.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:07 AM
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The opposition looks so reasonable because the social norm is either men pay for the first date or they split. It's never a case where the woman pays for the man. So in a situation where a woman pays for a mans first date, it is probably because she really likes you, agreed.
/r/MensRights03/12/14 11:25 PM
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I mean.. she used specific examples of it happening to her, so it's not so much an argument as it is evidence. Some guys are just trashy and act that way.
/r/MensRights03/12/14 09:42 PM
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I'm sorry. I'm so confused by your comment. Who's talking? And who's buying the dinner/tea/etc?
/r/MensRights03/12/14 08:00 PM
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If you like to pay for dates, then ask to pay when the bill comes. If they don't let you, don't insist, just say that you invited her out on the date and that you were going to buy her dinner. My ex was a feminist (not a radical one by any stretch) and she didn't let me pay for our first date or most dates in general. She said that she's had instances where guys bought her dinner and then receive some sort of idea that because they bought her dinner they're entitled to some sort of "repayment" a…
/r/MensRights03/12/14 07:59 PM
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I think he'll be holding on to that to give to the authorities or show in court.
/r/MensRights18/11/14 06:16 PM
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Go with it. Don't put all your eggs in that basket but you have another opportunity so run with it. Everyone in this sub will make you feel like a fool for it, but do whatever you feel. She seems a bit flaky, so don't get too attached just yet, but call her up one night and invite her out.
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:17 AM
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I probably wouldn't have answered the phone call or when she said oh hey how was your night, I would've just said that I am tired and I thought somethin might've been wrong that's why I answered. The text was actually pretty well written. You made it clear you didn't want another phone call and questioned her confusing intentions.
/r/seduction31/05/14 05:41 PM
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I always found quite a bit of success with finding something in their profile that you find interesting and commenting on it. If there's not much in their profile, make something up. Ask her/him what they enjoy doing for fun, what movies they like, etc. Don't mock them for not having stuff in their profile and don't message them on a question they answered. There's usually one thing in a persons profile that you'll find intriguing and your best bet is to just connect with that. If there isn't so…
/r/seduction31/05/14 05:33 PM
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Fucking amen!
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:11 AM
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I don't want to continue texting her and run out of things to say or let things get stale, yet I don't want to go cold on communication for fear of her losing interest. You got bigger problems if you're already afraid that you've run out of things to talk about after a few days of texting. Texting is the easiest place to talk about random shit. Of course you don't want to bore her, but I think texting her a few texts every day/other day should do the trick. Don't put too much worry in it. I woul…
/r/seduction09/02/14 10:33 AM
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Awesome! Glad you're doing well. You're at the point now where things will only get better.
/r/seduction09/02/14 09:34 AM
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Work on yourself. There's always room for improvement in your life. Spend more time with friends, spend more time working out, watch some documentaries, read a couple books. You want to build a firm foundation of good, positive self before you go out and try and be with someone.
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:06 AM
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This is the exact situation I put myself in before college. I read up on a ton of tips and stuff on how to approach women, and then when I got there, it seemed all so different, so real. I didn't really start having success until I began actually talking to girls. I'm not big on cold approaching, and I think you should work your way up to that. Work on flirting with girls who you are put into encounters with. I'm talking about cashiers, people sitting next to you in places, girls in your class, …
/r/seduction03/02/14 06:55 AM
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Wow, if only I could go back to my junior year of high school and tell myself what to do. It's good that you've found something like Seddit to help you out. I think something big you need to overcome is the: I'm not really into hooking up with some random girl... You can put yourself in situations where you could hook up with a girl, and then when the moment presents itself, tell her that's not your game, and you'd be more interested in seeing how things play out in a future date. If she objects…
/r/seduction03/02/14 06:51 AM
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Yeah, not that into it myself. I think a flower may be ok, but a bouquet is a little much. Then again, what the hell is she gonna do with a single flower?
/r/seduction03/02/14 06:35 AM
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What do you think are other examples of #3. I struggle with that a lot. I don't mind dancing by myself or doing fun dances, but everything I do seems very personal and doesn't really allow for anyone to "join in".
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:55 PM
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Bernie all day. Probably the most fun dance to do when you're wasted.
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:54 PM
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What is confidence good for if it can't be translated into success with women? Um... everything? Confidence has a correlation with success with women, but it is not the cause for success with women. I'm struggling to find the way to word this answer, because defining confidence is sort of difficult. Personally, I'm much more of the quiet confident type. I don't really cold approach girls, not so much out of fear of rejection, it's just not how I like to operate. But when I'm put in a social enco…
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:43 PM
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Have fun. A lot of times when I go out, I don't plan on getting girls. I'm really picky, and oftentimes I'll only like 1-3 girls at a party/bar/club. I'm pretty content with not picking up a girl every time I go out, and I don't let that decide whether or not I'm actually having fun. Sure, getting a girl's number is awesome and stuff, but if that's the only reason you're going out, you should reevaluate. Now, back to having fun and how this pertains to getting girls to approach you? I feel like …
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:22 PM
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I said dorm room in case he felt uncomfortable working out in front of a ton of people. I made a pretty successful bodyweight and free weight workout at my house. Didn't necessarily get buff but I became fit.
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:25 PM
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I think in OP's position it'd be wiser to work on himself before working on talking to girls. At this state he's probably not going to have any success and that'll further throw his already low self-confidence right into the dirt. Sure, you can always "work on talking to girls", but my rule #1 and first step in picking up girls is to love yourself and be confident in yourself. OP thinks he's "that creepy guy" and until he shakes that persona, he's gonna fail.
/r/seduction30/01/14 02:32 PM
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No offense to OP, but I don't think he's ready. I don't think he feels happy about himself, and I don't think he's confident enough to make the right moves. My advice to him is for him to begin by loving himself and becoming confident in himself. Going out and asking for girl's numbers isn't going to get him anywhere if he isn't happy about himself.
/r/seduction30/01/14 09:13 AM
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He says speak in "bursts of 3 seconds". I don't really know how that pertains to friendzone, but whatever. I could see it being of help as anybody who speaks for a long time without stopping is going to be seen as boring, but that's more about being socially inept and less about being a PUA.
/r/seduction30/01/14 08:33 AM
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I like the stock market reference. Using that from now on. I won't be citing you, my most sincere apologies.
/r/seduction30/01/14 06:41 AM
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Eh, maybe she was busy later. I'd wait a couple days and then text her and see what she's up to. If no response then, cut your losses and let it go.
/r/seduction30/01/14 06:29 AM
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You just gotta force yourself to do it. Fight through the urges to look away. I struggled with that quite a bit last year, and made a big effort to work on it. I felt really accomplished when I went on a date with a girl and she told me that my eyes were really intense.. and I said, oh no that can't be good, and she said, actually it was quite the opposite, it made me want you so much.
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:57 AM
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Yeah in some situations I think so too. But if he doesn't act like a creep, there's the possibility that she has friends that would be interested in the future. "Oh, here meet my friend TheHumaneDuckling, he's a nice guy, I went hiking with him once and he was a complete gentleman." Idk.. just my two cents. Edit: For those of you who will say he's wasting his time - he's going on a hike... It's not like he's going to paint his nails with her. He's doing something active and fun. So what if he's …
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:55 AM
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Yeah, I don't think seducing her is the best plan. Especially if she's already said that she didn't want to be with you. I'd leave the photo album there on the table and when she gets there, I'd go leave somewhere. If you sit there and go through old pictures with her and don't hook up with her, this is going to be bad for you for the next few days. If my ex came over to go through pictures and she explicitly said she didn't want to have sex with me, I'd probably say no. That shit is painful and…
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:53 AM
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I'm gonna reiterate what both of these guys said. The look you're giving off is not necessarily a reflection of your physical appearance, but also your mental state. Start exercising and eating healthier. No need to do a gym membership, there's plenty of workouts you can do in your dorm room that don't require a lot of space (pushups, crunches). I'm not saying you have to get ripped, but exercising will make you feel better about yourself. Go and get a couple pairs of decent clothes. Get plain s…
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:50 AM
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I think you shouldn't it let it bother you. Don't cross any boundaries, because right now she doesn't see you as BF material. Play your cards right, and use some of the tools Seddit has taught you, and there's a good chance you could come out of this with her interest. I would act like you would normally act on a date, just don't try and kiss her or anything unless you're positive she's feelin it. Otherwise you're gonna put yourself in a weird situation.
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:46 AM
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I think you may have put yourself in a tough situation, but you'll be fine. Get excited man, you're having a girl come over. These nerves are totally normal and are actually a good thing. She obviously thinks you're attractive, which is why she's coming over, so put your confident face on because another girl thinks you're hot. As far as the date goes... I'd put it on in the living room. Taking her to your room could be a bit creepy, especially if you don't want to bang her and this is the first…
/r/seduction30/01/14 03:42 AM
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The title is ridiculous, but the actual title is Design a first date that leads to sex which is a lot less ridiculous. Then he basically maps out a simple, yet effective way to go out with a girl and get her home to have sex. It's not going to work for everyone out there, but I definitely took something from it. I probably wouldn't put on a movie, I'd just start kissing until we decided we'd go to my room, but some people need the assistance of a movie. Oh and when he says that he'd lean in and …
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:53 AM
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I'll just give an example of what I did the other night and maybe you'll get an idea. I like to learn from examples, and sometimes others do too, so here goes. We walk into this smaller college party, about 25-30 people. I'm pretty drunk, so that increased my confidence, but I'm usually pretty good anyways. I had no intent on picking up a girl, as I just got out of a relationship. After talking to some friends, I see a very attractive girl sitting on the couch. We both had beanies on and I nudge…
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:32 AM
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This is the type of stuff I come here for. It's so not as douchey as the rest of this subreddit. It all sounds casual and not rehearsed or anything like that. It's alpha but it's not over the top.
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I think you got it right. Dance game is kind've nice at times because there's no middle ground. You either nailed it and you're makin out, or she clearly denies you.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:59 AM
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If you get rejected asking her to go get a drink, I'm sure she would've rejected you after a couple songs were over anyways. Same thing happens to me.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:57 AM
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This is probably the best advice. Since I rarely go to clubs, when I do I get pretty wild. Me and my roommate have both had girls come straight up to us and ask us to dance simply because we were dancing and having a good time. Being the best dancer there will obviously get you girls, but dancing how you would if you were alone and laughing about it with your friends will not only catch the eye of some girls, but you'll have fun with it regardless.
/r/seduction27/01/14 07:55 AM
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No way, it'd be way creepier if you were alone on the beach, and she was also alone on the beach. And then you go and sit like 30 feet from her and keep making eye contact. Oh god, I'd be so uncomfortable that whole time. Something better would be like, "do you mind if I sit here, the beach is super crowded and this looks like a decent spot." Introduce yourself then, "what brings you to the beach on a weekday?"
/r/seduction27/01/14 07:51 AM
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I'm gonna give you the flipside to this argument since not many people feel the same way I do about texting. I've never had a problem with texting. It depends on how comfortable you feel doing it, and how confident you are in person. I'm pretty funny via text, and on first dates I tend to be extra confident (heck, you're on a first date, HAVE FUN WITH IT AND BE CONFIDENT). I've had long conversations via text, and some girls eat that shit up. Some girls are nervous to talk on the phone, and you …
/r/seduction27/01/14 07:45 AM
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guesstimate conversate Maybe she heard you use these words in actual sentences
/r/seduction30/11/13 07:59 AM
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