Big_J_1865 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Concerning statistic It's not particularly striking lol.	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/07/26 02:24 PM
19	Terrible mother She's from the deep south, there's a good chance the answer is yes.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/07/26 03:34 AM
3	Terrible mother You can take the woman out of the deep south and conservatism but you can't date the deep south conservatism out of the woman. Only someone from confederate land would think to indoctrinate/poison their children with this kind of insane mixture of fervent sheep dogma and illogical conspiratorial bigotry; all while thinking they are "protecting the minds of the youth."	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/07/26 03:33 AM
28	Jameela Jamil Defending Her Misandry with Fetishization of Gay Men Indicative of an amoral person who views people as objects rather than human beings. Sad how increasingly normalized and socially rewarded this kind of disgusting garbage is every day.	/r/EverydayMisandry	23/06/26 09:26 PM
2	Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive. Having both men and women in the world makes that indeed an ever better feature of life than it already was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 10:40 PM
3	Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive. Yes, that's true, but the claims about men you are making are often specifically in response to prompts that are already made hopelessly vague in the same gendered way. Such as "look at how great these women are, men aren't needed." All of these claims are pretty ridiculous. While we're at it, everyone just uses the word "need," when clearly many people have totally different meanings when they use that phrase. To be more accurate to my own viewpoint, I like to say that "besides for procreation,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 08:16 PM
8	Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive. I don't think this is necessarily a "feminist" issue. This is a phenomenon that happens to all kinds of people. Statistics and studies are just data points, it's up to people to interpret them in a responsible and fair way, and there is no one "correct" answer to interpretation like that. Everyone, including myself, have been biased in plenty of ways at different points. I'm sure you have as well. These logical flaws, hypocrisy, and misuse of data points are more common amongst those with very m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 06:25 PM
9	Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive. It's kind of pointless to react to this. If you are honest, you know that a lot of women do face these unique problems and that it's justified for them to feel victimized, treated unfairly, or seek to bring about societal changes. At the same time, you can also clearly see the double standards that some women use when they talk about things. The demonstrably selective empathy, selective defensiveness, etc. That's just human nature for anyone who doesn't go out of their way to bring fairness, rat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 06:03 PM
34	The Secret to Staying Sharp as You Age? Don't Have Sons, Apparently Misandry overall is frustrating, but when it comes to such sentiments directed at little boys, it's just pretty soul crushing.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/03/26 06:48 PM
5	Thoughts about this? On the topic of decriminalizing sex work and their clients (most are usually men) "Men wanting a partner to have attraction to them is patriarchal entitlement." How intellectual! 🙄 She did not, in fact, understand what patriarchy meant. Imagine studying that hard for the sole purpose of being awful.	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/03/26 07:26 AM
1	NPR podcasters call 2026 the "year of pathetic men." How can we get these organizations to see this is wrong? If they would just acknowledge it's not all one way, and drop the absolute ego trips so many of them are on, the intellectual clouds would part for them, I'm confident of that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/26 05:15 AM
1	NPR podcasters call 2026 the "year of pathetic men." How can we get these organizations to see this is wrong? Why should they care about those things? They have arbitrarily decided that their preferred metrics of judging the Oppression Olympics are the only ones that matter, just like you are deciding your metrics are the only ones that matter. We should just drop the Oppression Olympics entirely, it's quite a poor excuse for a sport or pastime. If misandrist feminists would focus on equitably eroding sexism and gender based hatred, and gaining allies in the process (almost everyone) instead of substitu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/26 05:13 AM
1	NPR podcasters call 2026 the "year of pathetic men." How can we get these organizations to see this is wrong? Misandrist feminists use the same playbook as Trump: say something obviously horrific and afterwards simply lie and say you didn't mean it, all while actively demonstrating the myriad of ways showing that they do, in fact, mean it.... Then turn around the next week and say the exact same horrific, indefensible thing again and then deflect once again, in a cycle. I honestly don't know how these so-called "feminist" grifters can look at themselves in the mirror every morning knowing they peddle ha…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/26 05:08 AM
1	NPR podcasters call 2026 the "year of pathetic men." How can we get these organizations to see this is wrong? That is a great point. Fortunately, this at least gives the opportunity to more clearly identify actual feminists and those "feminists", activists, and creators whose "activism" is mostly about man hating or making money off of the current social climate of misandry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/26 05:01 AM
2	NPR podcasters call 2026 the "year of pathetic men." How can we get these organizations to see this is wrong? Misandry is absolutely out of control in the West. I'm actually kind of glad something like this exists. It just undeniably showcases how rampant misandry has become, and no feminist obfuscation can change that obvious reality.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/26 04:57 AM
2	Why is this being treated as a good thing? There has been, and probably always will be a baseline of reactionary conservative toxicity, consisting of predominantly young men, in just about every society;, this has been historically true particularly during difficult economic/social times. Having said that, it's fairly clear that the extremism and anti-male attitudes on the left and in pop culture have generated additional support for the toxic-masculinity alt-right. This is clear from a number of statistics and historical voting patterns…	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/03/26 04:08 AM
2	Why is this being treated as a good thing? Misandry has just become a normalized thing in society at this point. It's not only normalized, but actively endorsed and often justified as "empowerment." With misandry being so banal and normalized everywhere you look, it's not much of a surprise that it's influenced the minds of many prospective mothers. They are fed that misandry constantly by algorithms, social media, conventional media, friends, and of course, the actions of a sensationalized minority of men. Most people don't have strong …	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/03/26 04:02 AM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Quote ridiculous to be assuming how she is going to respond considering your entire premise is based solely on weak anecdotal statements. Do you just assume everyone else acts like you all the time and has nothing better to do than make outlandish and shallow remarks about how people look? Your entire thread of comments is pure projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 01:15 AM
1	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender Increasingly accepted as a norm, yes, as long as you are considering the overall Western world outside of just the anglosphere. And when it comes to the specific heights you are referring to, I must assume that you are considering the Western world rather than other parts of the world considering the fact that by your admission probably such factors are far less relevant in a lot of cases elsewhere. You can't have it both ways; be referring to the Western world only and then also using other par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 10:17 PM
1	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender She's not though. She is refuting the entire premise that the average woman acts a certain way and instead asserts that your insistence on "averages" is inaccurate outside of the US. The average is not the same in mainland Europe as the data is entirely different overall. You are the one misunderstanding averages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 09:10 PM
2	Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming. Likely, yes. And he's gearing that blame more towards women, making a universal issue gendered, similar to how the OP is in her own way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 08:24 PM
2	Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming. The person you are responding to didn't seem to do so either. He didn't suggest men can't be victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 07:52 PM
2	Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming. OP already made it gendered, did she not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 05:10 PM
–	Most women have no desire to use their bodies to soothe the egos of insecure men. You are the one who talks trash about sex positive people, single mothers, etc, and you are the one who blames and tries to shame people. Don't suddenly act like you are some sort of feminist crusader lol. Very few people who are even close to being sane or decent people believe that women are "only good for sex." If you encounter them, it's clear that they are not rational or moral actors. Most misogynists (meaning all people who hold misogynistic beliefs) don't even go that far. Trying to give…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 08:42 PM
–	Most women have no desire to use their bodies to soothe the egos of insecure men. You post insecure and outlandish posts analyzing everyone except yourself almost every single day. At what point do you consider some introspection? 90% of what you post has nothing to do with misogyny, and ironically supports patriarchal and misogynistic attitudes towards sex. You are on your own. Feminists don't agree with you, liberals don't agree with you, sexually conservative people, don't agree with you, blue, red, black, all of the "pills" don't agree with you. Your posts never have supp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 07:55 PM
–	Most women have no desire to use their bodies to soothe the egos of insecure men. Ironically, you represent all of these unattractive qualities far better, and more unequivocally than the vast majority of the men you accuse of those very same things. You do serve as a very good exemplar of the kinds of things not to do, and the definite existence of how such negative qualities can manifest themselves. For most of the men you accuse, it's often more difficult to actually see the connection between their actions and the alleged bitterness and ugly personalities they possess; it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 07:46 PM
–	Most women have no desire to use their bodies to soothe the egos of insecure men. It's not your race at all, people of all races enter into happy and mutually supportive relationships literally all the time. This is a you problem, not a racial problem. What's ugly is your personality, entitlement, and vindictiveness against the world. Very few people will ever consider that to be attractive. You "get guys" but evidently none of any "quality," otherwise you wouldn't have had to regularly post such bitter hatred, and there is nobody but yourself to blame for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 07:35 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 You shouldn't be so self destructively cynical. I guarantee you her intent behind that post was neither rage bait nor a flex. The positivity is there, even if you are trying to drown it in negativity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 11:28 PM
5	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Honestly, is there anything out there, save the suffering of others perhaps, that gives you satisfaction or happiness? Why would you belittle a comment that, let's face it, you are probably desperate to hear deep down? When you are faced with positivity, and a feminist minded person acting in demonstrable opposition to the "man-hating tropes" you probably react to on a regular basis, why on Earth would you choose to act like a bitter troll? What purpose does that serve? Why would anyone take Red…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 12:28 AM
3	Men need to stop making everything about themselves. Locking your doors at night because you know a lot of dangerous intruders exist and you want to be understandably cautious is a wise and justified precaution. Locking your doors because you believe that the average person walking down the street is likely going to be a dangerous intruder is far less rational and can be seen as understandably insulting to people around you. Women "choosing the bear" is reasonable so long as they aren't genuinely claiming that the average man is actually dangerous…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 06:52 PM
5	Women, in order to avoid abusive males, shun the completely opposite demographic. I get that you're upset and began looking at her comment with preconceived notions already in mind, but you honestly should think before you speak. "The nice guy is always evil and the bad boy is good" is essentially the exact opposite of what her comment is suggesting. It's a nuanced, realistic, and very fair portrayal; if you genuinely have a significant issue with it, I would imagine it's much more of a "you" problem. You probably shouldn't have a significant problem with it though, I would s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 07:44 PM
2	Men's problem with comittment and dating younger women First of all, in what world does a one night stand count as a relationship? If you go to Vegas and attend a brothel, did you have a "relationship" with the sex worker you paid? I somehow don't think she'd see it the same way... It's not an emotional thing or a woman thing, those encounters are in no way equivalent to a relationship. It's weird that you are trying to conflate the two. I'm a man, I wouldn't think about it that way and I don't know any other men who would think like that either. Se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 11:58 PM
2	Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men? Fortunately, or unfortunately, however you would describe it, yes, I do think a lot of men understand this concept. At least a good chunk of the lonely Reddit type demographic at least. I recognize it at least, and I don't think I'm particularly unique. This is just one of numerous factors as to why nearly half of young men don't approach women at all. Why would you bother expressing interest or pursuing someone who is scared, uninterested, repulsed, or better off without you? I'm not interested…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 01:41 AM
30	The reaction to men and women who complain about body image issues Men are not afforded empathy or sympathy very often. If they are, it's usually followed up with blame or insults. What you're noticing is very common and incredibly frustrating to see all the time.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/01/25 08:43 PM
1	How would you react to a partner asking you to "wear" a fleshlight because your vagina is too loose? Really just reinforces my point showcasing the absurdity of reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:16 AM
–	Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman? 🤦 I wonder if your goal is to be this dense and willfully ignorant. Truly. "What exactly is the crusade here?" Lmao. You have been posting/commenting about men's porn habits for over a year lol. Ya know, that crusade. The crusade to insert yourself into the personal lives of people you will never know and actually despise. It is incredibly obvious that this is an emotional topic for you; the fact that some men often watch porn bothers you. And I ask the question again, why? Why do you care what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:25 PM
1	Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman? Nobody would suggest I am the one getting angry in this scenario. You are the one on the puritanical crusade, all I did was ask you for your reasoning. Your answer appears to be that you have no actual reasoning, just weird emotional sticking points. I was clearly respectful enough with my question, it's not my fault you immediately got defensive. The most likely explanation for your reaction is that you have no legitimate argument... and you know it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 09:40 PM
1	Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman? So if you have no legitimate answer, you just try to project and turn the question around. I see. I read our comments again... You are the one obsessed with other people's pornography consumption, random people you will never know and never meet. I simply expressed understandable confusion over your (and some other women's) weird obsession with the private, personal lives of people you seem to despise. Why do you care what these men do in their private lives? You clearly seem to loathe these peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 10:17 PM
1	How would you react to a partner asking you to "wear" a fleshlight because your vagina is too loose? People on Reddit care, and women in general seem to care because guys who say those things get downvoted like crazy, lambasted, and deemed to be terrible people. But looking at your post history, you seem to get it. You do not seem to be a person who is dishonest or faux. You are straightforward, if more people were like you then absolutely, nobody should care about what I said; but most people are not honest and straightforward. So what I said does remain relevant unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 08:13 AM
2	How would you react to a partner asking you to "wear" a fleshlight because your vagina is too loose? Just to be clear, if a guy said what you just said he would be deemed a monster. But I appreciate the honesty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 08:04 AM
-1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? It's just so predictable that a post like this quickly boils down to women ripping on their sons when it was intended to be the exact opposite. It would never happen if it was a post about men and their daughters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 08:01 AM
1	There's no reason a modern woman SHOULD date in her league. Men need to quit complaining about it and accept reality. While I think you are exaggerating a bit in places, your overall sentiment is spot on in my opinion. While it saddens me to face the realities you describe, I don't feel any resentment or bitterness about it. As you said, this is logical and makes perfect sense. What does frustrate me is the dishonesty, virtue signaling, and faux self-righteousness that a lot of women on Reddit display while simultaneously denying the realities you discuss. They have it both ways, they tacitly gain from and embr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 07:53 AM
5	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object I have been doom scrolling on Reddit for months now, getting into debates, arguments, becoming increasingly dejected, all with the secret hope in the back of my mind that I would encounter a comment like yours. Yours is the very first comment that matches what I was hoping to find; proof that a viewpoint like yours actually exists. Men on Reddit typically get no positive affirmation, no reason for optimism. It's typically just put downs, insults, belittlement, and dismissal. The only points/comm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 07:37 AM
2	Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman? What's with women on Reddit being obsessed with the porn viewership of random men they will never know and never meet? What is your goal when you make a ridiculous comment like the one I am responding to? What is your endgame? What do you gain/lose so substantially when it comes to the media habits of random men that you feel the need to comment about it so much? It's almost like you shouldn't be trying to dictate the private lives of other people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 07:28 AM
1	If MGTOW was misogynist, the 4B must be misandrist Perhaps. But ironically, despite your intentions, a comment like yours is far easier to stomach. You are actually being honest and not heaping piles upon piles of faux self righteousness and dishonesty. You are just being straightforward. Far better than can be said for most women on Reddit who rely on faux moral grandstanding and completely bad faith dishonest arguments. You seem to be completely honest with yourself and others, that's admirable and respectable even if others disagree. You feel…	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 12:01 AM