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It's not particularly striking lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 02:24 PM
21

She's from the deep south, there's a good chance the answer is yes.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/26 03:34 AM
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You can take the woman out of the deep south and conservatism but you can't date the deep south conservatism out of the woman. Only someone from confederate land would think to indoctrinate/poison their children with this kind of insane mixture of fervent sheep dogma and illogical conspiratorial bigotry; all while thinking they are "protecting the minds of the youth."
/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/26 03:33 AM
28

Indicative of an amoral person who views people as objects rather than human beings. Sad how increasingly normalized and socially rewarded this kind of disgusting garbage is every day.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/26 09:26 PM
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Having both men and women in the world makes that indeed an ever better feature of life than it already was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:40 PM
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Yes, that's true, but the claims about men you are making are often specifically in response to prompts that are already made hopelessly vague in the same gendered way. Such as "look at how great these women are, men aren't needed." All of these claims are pretty ridiculous. While we're at it, everyone just uses the word "need," when clearly many people have totally different meanings when they use that phrase. To be more accurate to my own viewpoint, I like to say that "besides for procreation,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:16 PM
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I don't think this is necessarily a "feminist" issue. This is a phenomenon that happens to all kinds of people. Statistics and studies are just data points, it's up to people to interpret them in a responsible and fair way, and there is no one "correct" answer to interpretation like that. Everyone, including myself, have been biased in plenty of ways at different points. I'm sure you have as well. These logical flaws, hypocrisy, and misuse of data points are more common amongst those with very m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:25 PM
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It's kind of pointless to react to this. If you are honest, you know that a lot of women do face these unique problems and that it's justified for them to feel victimized, treated unfairly, or seek to bring about societal changes. At the same time, you can also clearly see the double standards that some women use when they talk about things. The demonstrably selective empathy, selective defensiveness, etc. That's just human nature for anyone who doesn't go out of their way to bring fairness, rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:03 PM
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I don't think most modern feminists are viewing this "independent woman" as special. It's just the status quo now, the "trade wife" is the "different" one. So no, she's not special because she's supposed to stay home. Individuals and individual partnerships can decide that for themselves. Internal and social expectations make that ideal more difficult though, if we keep arbitrarily and pointlessly referring to some "traditional" default.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:45 PM
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What if neither wife or husband wants to work? Isn't that the most preferable for both to have a life of leisure and pursuing any other kind of fulfillment? That's my preference! What? Not practical? Probably, but I feel like the point you are missing is: why does it have to be the woman who "should" stay home if possible? Why wouldn't it make equal sense for the man to stay home if possible? As long as you are framing it with the seemingly built in bias that if one partner stays home, it defaul…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:57 PM
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Misandry overall is frustrating, but when it comes to such sentiments directed at little boys, it's just pretty soul crushing.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/03/26 06:48 PM
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"Men wanting a partner to have attraction to them is patriarchal entitlement." How intellectual! 🙄 She did not, in fact, understand what patriarchy meant. Imagine studying that hard for the sole purpose of being awful.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/26 07:26 AM
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If they would just acknowledge it's not all one way, and drop the absolute ego trips so many of them are on, the intellectual clouds would part for them, I'm confident of that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/26 05:15 AM
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Why should they care about those things? They have arbitrarily decided that their preferred metrics of judging the Oppression Olympics are the only ones that matter, just like you are deciding your metrics are the only ones that matter. We should just drop the Oppression Olympics entirely, it's quite a poor excuse for a sport or pastime. If misandrist feminists would focus on equitably eroding sexism and gender based hatred, and gaining allies in the process (almost everyone) instead of substitu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/26 05:13 AM
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Misandrist feminists use the same playbook as Trump: say something obviously horrific and afterwards simply lie and say you didn't mean it, all while actively demonstrating the myriad of ways showing that they do, in fact, mean it.... Then turn around the next week and say the exact same horrific, indefensible thing again and then deflect once again, in a cycle. I honestly don't know how these so-called "feminist" grifters can look at themselves in the mirror every morning knowing they peddle ha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/26 05:08 AM
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That is a great point. Fortunately, this at least gives the opportunity to more clearly identify actual feminists and those "feminists", activists, and creators whose "activism" is mostly about man hating or making money off of the current social climate of misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/26 05:01 AM
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Misandry is absolutely out of control in the West. I'm actually kind of glad something like this exists. It just undeniably showcases how rampant misandry has become, and no feminist obfuscation can change that obvious reality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/26 04:57 AM
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There has been, and probably always will be a baseline of reactionary conservative toxicity, consisting of predominantly young men, in just about every society;, this has been historically true particularly during difficult economic/social times. Having said that, it's fairly clear that the extremism and anti-male attitudes on the left and in pop culture have generated additional support for the toxic-masculinity alt-right. This is clear from a number of statistics and historical voting patterns…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/26 04:08 AM
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Misandry has just become a normalized thing in society at this point. It's not only normalized, but actively endorsed and often justified as "empowerment." With misandry being so banal and normalized everywhere you look, it's not much of a surprise that it's influenced the minds of many prospective mothers. They are fed that misandry constantly by algorithms, social media, conventional media, friends, and of course, the actions of a sensationalized minority of men. Most people don't have strong …
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/26 04:02 AM
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She didn't blame men for the prevalence of misandry online. This is like her saying "water is 2 hydrogen atoms and one oxygen atom" and you responding with "why on Earth are you claiming water is only oxygen?" You aren't a very complex guy, are you? What's it like looking out the window and seeing only black and white? Must be strange.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 03:28 AM
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She didn't say or do any of that, what she actually did was acknowledge that men also face sexism and rigid gender roles. Criticize people for what they say, not for what they didn't say; or for whatever imagined intentions or and slights you have yourself concocted. You are definitely attempting to protest someone with empathy and support for men as some kind of vile villain. Ridiculous, and a waste of time. There are actual sexists and misandrists out there, stop attacking feminists who clearl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 01:06 AM
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She gives you reasonable, good faith, and, let's face it, very tame commentary about an author's ideas and your first and only recourse is to jump to random personal insults completely devoid of any substance whatsoever? If you straw man everyone into a villain, all you have are enemies. Working with content is a lot more useful than mudslinging nonsense, especially when dealing with people who clearly care despite having a somewhat different view than you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 12:20 AM
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Haha. I find your response quite funny. I actually have very recently conceptually agreed with you on many of the things just stated, I believe I understand your point well. I find your comment funny because just last week I was debating with my partner about a very similar concept. Only, it was completely backwards. I was taking your stance and she was taking the one I am giving now. I was heavily criticizing a female commentator, deeming her, "meanspirited" and "being a hateful jerk" because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:01 PM
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Your solution to their vague and poor usage of certain phrases is to be equally vague or even more unclear about labels? Not a great strategy for having anyone understand or believe what you say. I think you have a very significant misunderstanding of men and the male experience tbh. You seem to be drastically misinterpreting common male refrains, just like men often completely misinterpret and misunderstand certain common female refrains. This isn't your fault, as indeed these men should be usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:20 PM
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Obviously you don't have any examples for your claims about what "these men" say, but could you at least provide some hypothetical context for when such statements could be made? I'm having trouble visualizing your claims about what men say. A lonely man who says "I really want a girlfriend" also says "as soon as I get a girlfriend I'll dump her"? That doesn't make much sense. Even if that were true, who would actually admit that? I can't imagine they would admit that to themselves much less oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:29 PM

Quote ridiculous to be assuming how she is going to respond considering your entire premise is based solely on weak anecdotal statements. Do you just assume everyone else acts like you all the time and has nothing better to do than make outlandish and shallow remarks about how people look? Your entire thread of comments is pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:15 AM
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Increasingly accepted as a norm, yes, as long as you are considering the overall Western world outside of just the anglosphere. And when it comes to the specific heights you are referring to, I must assume that you are considering the Western world rather than other parts of the world considering the fact that by your admission probably such factors are far less relevant in a lot of cases elsewhere. You can't have it both ways; be referring to the Western world only and then also using other par…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:17 PM
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She's not though. She is refuting the entire premise that the average woman acts a certain way and instead asserts that your insistence on "averages" is inaccurate outside of the US. The average is not the same in mainland Europe as the data is entirely different overall. You are the one misunderstanding averages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:10 PM
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Ah, I see. Well, as long as you are honest about that and also remain consistent with acknowledging framing even if you don't always value it. Only strategically. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:30 PM
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So you selectively value framing and consistency depending on your perception of the emotional/moral value of the substantive claim? I don't necessarily disagree with that. But it is important to acknowledge that and not obfuscate it. OP was making just as gendered of a claim, it's just that you agree with it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:36 PM
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Likely, yes. And he's gearing that blame more towards women, making a universal issue gendered, similar to how the OP is in her own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:24 PM
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The person you are responding to didn't seem to do so either. He didn't suggest men can't be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:52 PM
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OP already made it gendered, did she not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:10 PM
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I'm sure you have encountered a handful of them, yes. Can't help but notice the complete and utter lack of introspection from you 😂. Dodging everything of importance and contributing nothing of actual substance; is that your mantra?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:20 PM

You are the one who talks trash about sex positive people, single mothers, etc, and you are the one who blames and tries to shame people. Don't suddenly act like you are some sort of feminist crusader lol. Very few people who are even close to being sane or decent people believe that women are "only good for sex." If you encounter them, it's clear that they are not rational or moral actors. Most misogynists (meaning all people who hold misogynistic beliefs) don't even go that far. Trying to give…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:42 PM

You post insecure and outlandish posts analyzing everyone except yourself almost every single day. At what point do you consider some introspection? 90% of what you post has nothing to do with misogyny, and ironically supports patriarchal and misogynistic attitudes towards sex. You are on your own. Feminists don't agree with you, liberals don't agree with you, sexually conservative people, don't agree with you, blue, red, black, all of the "pills" don't agree with you. Your posts never have supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:55 PM

Ironically, you represent all of these unattractive qualities far better, and more unequivocally than the vast majority of the men you accuse of those very same things. You do serve as a very good exemplar of the kinds of things not to do, and the definite existence of how such negative qualities can manifest themselves. For most of the men you accuse, it's often more difficult to actually see the connection between their actions and the alleged bitterness and ugly personalities they possess; it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:46 PM

It's not your race at all, people of all races enter into happy and mutually supportive relationships literally all the time. This is a you problem, not a racial problem. What's ugly is your personality, entitlement, and vindictiveness against the world. Very few people will ever consider that to be attractive. You "get guys" but evidently none of any "quality," otherwise you wouldn't have had to regularly post such bitter hatred, and there is nobody but yourself to blame for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:35 PM

You shouldn't be so self destructively cynical. I guarantee you her intent behind that post was neither rage bait nor a flex. The positivity is there, even if you are trying to drown it in negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:28 PM
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Honestly, is there anything out there, save the suffering of others perhaps, that gives you satisfaction or happiness? Why would you belittle a comment that, let's face it, you are probably desperate to hear deep down? When you are faced with positivity, and a feminist minded person acting in demonstrable opposition to the "man-hating tropes" you probably react to on a regular basis, why on Earth would you choose to act like a bitter troll? What purpose does that serve? Why would anyone take Red…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:28 AM
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Locking your doors at night because you know a lot of dangerous intruders exist and you want to be understandably cautious is a wise and justified precaution. Locking your doors because you believe that the average person walking down the street is likely going to be a dangerous intruder is far less rational and can be seen as understandably insulting to people around you. Women "choosing the bear" is reasonable so long as they aren't genuinely claiming that the average man is actually dangerous…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:52 PM
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It is undeniably a strawman, because it was clarified to you that you were misrepresenting those quotes. All men should indeed be aware of this phenomenon, as should all women. That is an opinion, yes, but a rather benign and universally acceptable one. She clarified that she was referring to general awareness of this, of recognition that some men do this, yet apparently you are so hellbent on confrontation you continue to conveniently ignore all those clarifications. It's not me "feeling" that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:04 PM
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It's quite odd that you continue to misconstrue this entire conversation, despite multiple people assuring you that your view is a misunderstanding. My point is not that I "feel" you are being too harsh, that was an aside. The reality of the situation, and what I was actually contending (straw-manning is really a hard fallacy for you to leave behind isn't it?) is that you are straw-manning and crafting an entirely misguided representation of the viewpoints you purport to be addressing. She isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:37 PM
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You are once again mistaken. This is in fact a debate point, seeing as you made it one and I was simply responding to you. Secondly, it is not "just how I feel" it is my assessment of the situation; an assessment that is indeed far more likely to be accurate. Your contention is a straw man; that is why it is unfair. It is simply not legitimate. Nobody was asking you specifically to reflect on anything that you have done, but now I am asking you to reflect: why is it that you feel such a need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:10 PM
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You are bringing a level of hostility and combativeness that is misplaced. She isn't trying to accuse all men of being hypocrites, nor is she suggesting that "because one is a man, he is naturally more predisposed to being a hypocrite." You are taking it that way, but I do not believe that was her intention at all. Rather, she is simply highlighting a very real social phenomenon, especially on Reddit, whereby a surprisingly significant number of men express a rather zealous preference for women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:38 PM
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Are you honestly suggesting that not being able to easily get dates is somehow equivalent or even WORSE than being raped, murdered, assaulted, or living in constant, legitimate fear of those things? All while ignoring the fact that the idea that women simply have to walk out the door to get a date has been shown to be incorrect? You have lost the plot. Snap out of this nonsensical loop of self hatred; or at the very least don't patronize and minimize the very real experiences of others in some c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:09 PM
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I get that you're upset and began looking at her comment with preconceived notions already in mind, but you honestly should think before you speak. "The nice guy is always evil and the bad boy is good" is essentially the exact opposite of what her comment is suggesting. It's a nuanced, realistic, and very fair portrayal; if you genuinely have a significant issue with it, I would imagine it's much more of a "you" problem. You probably shouldn't have a significant problem with it though, I would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:44 PM
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First of all, in what world does a one night stand count as a relationship? If you go to Vegas and attend a brothel, did you have a "relationship" with the sex worker you paid? I somehow don't think she'd see it the same way... It's not an emotional thing or a woman thing, those encounters are in no way equivalent to a relationship. It's weird that you are trying to conflate the two. I'm a man, I wouldn't think about it that way and I don't know any other men who would think like that either. Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:58 PM
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Random and borderline nonsensical insults don't help your case. You can't just make up nonsense from thin air and expect people to take you seriously. You have no basis, you're just being delusional and mean spirited for the sake of it. Imagine pretending to (badly) psychoanalyze random people you come across on the internet in the most cliche and low effort way possible. "Muh, feminist must actually be super traditional." No my guy, you're just narrow minded and foolish. Like, I don't even agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:04 PM
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She "might as well be single." What, because she is being intellectual? Because she has the decency to use precise language when discussing a topic where you seem quick to place negative judgment and pejorative connotations? Because she doesn't want to overgeneralize people? What exactly indicates that she is single, or "might as well be?" Absolutely ridiculous, gutter behavior dude, so weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:59 PM
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Fortunately, or unfortunately, however you would describe it, yes, I do think a lot of men understand this concept. At least a good chunk of the lonely Reddit type demographic at least. I recognize it at least, and I don't think I'm particularly unique. This is just one of numerous factors as to why nearly half of young men don't approach women at all. Why would you bother expressing interest or pursuing someone who is scared, uninterested, repulsed, or better off without you? I'm not interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:41 AM
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Men are not afforded empathy or sympathy very often. If they are, it's usually followed up with blame or insults. What you're noticing is very common and incredibly frustrating to see all the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/25 08:43 PM
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Really just reinforces my point showcasing the absurdity of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:16 AM

🤦 I wonder if your goal is to be this dense and willfully ignorant. Truly. "What exactly is the crusade here?" Lmao. You have been posting/commenting about men's porn habits for over a year lol. Ya know, that crusade. The crusade to insert yourself into the personal lives of people you will never know and actually despise. It is incredibly obvious that this is an emotional topic for you; the fact that some men often watch porn bothers you. And I ask the question again, why? Why do you care what …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:25 PM
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Nobody would suggest I am the one getting angry in this scenario. You are the one on the puritanical crusade, all I did was ask you for your reasoning. Your answer appears to be that you have no actual reasoning, just weird emotional sticking points. I was clearly respectful enough with my question, it's not my fault you immediately got defensive. The most likely explanation for your reaction is that you have no legitimate argument... and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:40 PM
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So if you have no legitimate answer, you just try to project and turn the question around. I see. I read our comments again... You are the one obsessed with other people's pornography consumption, random people you will never know and never meet. I simply expressed understandable confusion over your (and some other women's) weird obsession with the private, personal lives of people you seem to despise. Why do you care what these men do in their private lives? You clearly seem to loathe these peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:17 PM
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People on Reddit care, and women in general seem to care because guys who say those things get downvoted like crazy, lambasted, and deemed to be terrible people. But looking at your post history, you seem to get it. You do not seem to be a person who is dishonest or faux. You are straightforward, if more people were like you then absolutely, nobody should care about what I said; but most people are not honest and straightforward. So what I said does remain relevant unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:13 AM
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Just to be clear, if a guy said what you just said he would be deemed a monster. But I appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:04 AM
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It's just so predictable that a post like this quickly boils down to women ripping on their sons when it was intended to be the exact opposite. It would never happen if it was a post about men and their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:01 AM
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While I think you are exaggerating a bit in places, your overall sentiment is spot on in my opinion. While it saddens me to face the realities you describe, I don't feel any resentment or bitterness about it. As you said, this is logical and makes perfect sense. What does frustrate me is the dishonesty, virtue signaling, and faux self-righteousness that a lot of women on Reddit display while simultaneously denying the realities you discuss. They have it both ways, they tacitly gain from and embr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:53 AM
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I have been doom scrolling on Reddit for months now, getting into debates, arguments, becoming increasingly dejected, all with the secret hope in the back of my mind that I would encounter a comment like yours. Yours is the very first comment that matches what I was hoping to find; proof that a viewpoint like yours actually exists. Men on Reddit typically get no positive affirmation, no reason for optimism. It's typically just put downs, insults, belittlement, and dismissal. The only points/comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:37 AM
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What's with women on Reddit being obsessed with the porn viewership of random men they will never know and never meet? What is your goal when you make a ridiculous comment like the one I am responding to? What is your endgame? What do you gain/lose so substantially when it comes to the media habits of random men that you feel the need to comment about it so much? It's almost like you shouldn't be trying to dictate the private lives of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:28 AM
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Perhaps. But ironically, despite your intentions, a comment like yours is far easier to stomach. You are actually being honest and not heaping piles upon piles of faux self righteousness and dishonesty. You are just being straightforward. Far better than can be said for most women on Reddit who rely on faux moral grandstanding and completely bad faith dishonest arguments. You seem to be completely honest with yourself and others, that's admirable and respectable even if others disagree. You feel…
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