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| 317 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.I can’t wait to read his post 2 years from now about “the one that got away” when he realizes his dream of partying and sleeping around involves stale cold pizza and the touch his own hand. She can do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 17 | All those men that you've made a first move on in the past never wanted you.Men value things that they WORK FOR, that they’ve EARNED. They will always INVEST their time, attention, and money into what they VALUE. If they haven’t courted you and had to put in the work, then they don’t feel like they’ve earned you. And if they don’t have to invest then they won’t value you, either now or down the road. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 9 | When is too long to move in together?Please read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | I said a man is delusional asking for submission from a woman he splits all bills with and this guy responded to me with angst like I want him!! 💀💀😂Ugh Mondays are the day we screencap scrotes to give them attention while giving FDS subscribers no strategy or value, right? Can we make it everyday instead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:28 AM |
| 112 | Bad Vegan- Cults and Pickup Artist techniquesWhat is it with Netflix making shows about women bering treated horribly by men and losing everything for entertainment? I’d really love to see Netflix make more shows about successful and handsome, kindhearted, lonely men getting swindled and having their whole lives ruined by women. If men want 50/50, let’s make these docs about this happening to men as well. Terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 05:22 AM |
| 26 | What is negotiable when it comes to "investing" for a partner?You shouldn’t be moving for a partner that you’re not married to. You should only move to areas that are in your best interest to add value to your life (such as better job opportunities, affordability, social life, etc.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Cooking together in a new relationship - wifey shit?👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:54 AM |
| 22 | On the term 'old wives' tales' in the English language and its cultural relevanceCats are independent, and it’s seen as a negative trait in women because it makes us less controllable to men. Men strive to hard to be the “alpha wolf” when at best they are an untrained house dog who shits all over the carpet for someone else to clean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:30 PM |
| 48 | I’m not gonna ask on relationship advice subs to get gaslit, I’ll ask here if allowed. Do you think I should leave because he didn’t stand up for me, or is it trauma?A man cannot be a feminist. At best, he can be an ally. If he’s not standing up to other men against misogyny - whether it’s for his girlfriend, family member, friend or a complete stranger - then he is not an ally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between harmless dirty talk and objectification?An adult man with a “bdsm kink” for short women that he enjoys belittling by calling them “good little girls” sounds like a pedophile tbh, it’s a fucking creepy and pornsick thing to say to a grown-ass adult. The FDS opinion is to read the handbook and respect yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:09 AM |
| 5 | Basically just discovered a new fetish for myselfCreep might be a better term. If a man has the audacity to be acting creepy to women on the street then calling him a predator might feel like a compliment to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 10 | Liberal feminism at its bestPro FDS tip: Whenever a man asks you for a photo - whether it’s a nude or a harmless selfie - he is going to jerk off to it. They jerk off to your social media photos too, even ones that are not spicy. When you fulfill their request and send a selfie on demand, they are conditioning you to get used to their asks to get you to send nudes later. Knowing this, a man asking for photos on demand should be a turn-off to you. Thank you for coming to my TED talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 4 | had a bad coffee date, i’m glad his red flags were obviousA coffee date is not a date. His LV behavior is not unexpected after you accepted his LV offer of meeting. I encourage you to read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:43 AM |
| 94 | Female Dating Strategy Podcast BONUS: Lundy Bancroft, Part 2 - Dating Red Flags & How "Sexual Liberation" is Being Used to Control Women“Men’s attitudes towards women do not come from their experiences with women. Men’s attitudes towards women come from their experiences with men, from what they’ve been taught by men.” This is so powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:59 AM |
| 142 | What’s with men not giving a damn about birth controlIdk, I’d rather supply my own at this point - too many sketchy scrotes nowadays. Also too many men buy condoms that are too large because their egos can’t handle having their dicks labeled as average. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 231 | Always be ruthless, Always be vetting: a reminderI have never seen a woman after a lifetime of a skincare routines ever look older than a man of her same age. He sounds delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:03 PM |
| 84 | scrote tried to neg me online, I used his words on himThis! Men like this want attention. Good attention, bad attention, they’ll take whatever they can get. Block and delete at the first sign of disrespect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:06 PM |
| 75 | Men Double TextingIt sounds like you’re turned off by his childish behavior, for good reason. They do it because they want the attention, it gives them validation and relieves them from their boredom. You don’t owe any man a response, and responding in this case is still giving him attention for an undesirable behavior. Good attention, bad attention, they’ll take whatever they can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, how long did it take for the man's mask to slip, during dating?A negative reaction to a boundary is them showing you where their respect for you ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 3 | What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability?The tactic they use when they’re called out is called DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender). They do it to get the spotlight off their behavior and get you to JADE (justify, argue, defend, explain). By the time you take the bait the original topic that you were holding him accountable for has muddied to the point where the conversation loses the point. It’s a really common tactic used by narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 93 | Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating”Men want 50/50 reciprocation only when it benefits them. Notice how they’re not enthusiastically jumping in to reciprocate emotional and domestic labor. Or orgasms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 08:37 PM |
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