Big_Mama_Jemima Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? Yea overthinking this shit to this degree is definitely gonna have negative repercussions and make you seem like a freak or an idiot. I have been in a wonderful relationship with my SO since highschool and even back then never had to deal with any shitty mind game bs like that. I told her early on, I’m not playing mind games, I’m gonna be 100% transparent with you and if you care about this lasting you’ll be the same way and she caught on real quick and I feel our relationship is all the better …	/r/seduction	23/03/21 04:47 PM
1	Nothing makes a person sexier than listening/understanding another person without being judgemental. One of the best things I’ve heard on this autistic sub ngl	/r/seduction	30/12/20 06:03 AM
3	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? The fuck is up with you people and these mind games? Y’all thinkin way too deep about this. I just text to make sure shit is goin to plan so I don’t waste my times and emotional energy.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 06:40 PM
2	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? Ah cuz being forgetful is always hot. Yea fuck that I’m organized lol	/r/seduction	27/12/20 06:38 PM
1	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? I don’t see that at all. And I’m not gonna put any effort towards these mind games personally, idc what it “seems” like. I’m sending a reminder bec I like to make sure shit happens and everything is going to plan otherwise I won’t even waste my time. Do this with friends and my SO.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 06:36 PM
3	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? Yea how are you encouraging someone to flake by reminding them about our plan? I feel like it’s the opposite. I feel more willing to flake on someone if they don’t say shit when it’s approaching, I think “well they clearly don’t care about it that much”.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 06:33 PM
9	I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All? Exactly imo communication is key idc if that makes me seem “needy” or “lame”. I’m not tryin to be a playboy Imma be myself and I care about my time and care about gettin stuff organized. If the girl thinks I’m annoying or needy just for wanting to make sure everything is going smoothly, well then I doubt we were gonna be really compatible in the first place and I’d rather not waste my time.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 06:29 PM
2	Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women? I see that but for me, I know I don’t like being loud for example. If I gotta do that to get a girl there’s a good chance what she sees from me playing that way is not what she’s gonna get mostly. It’s like false advertising in my eyes. I see how you may need to force yourself to do things you’re not comfortable with to get some experience but I also feel you don’t gotta go too far with stuff like that. If you don’t like the idea of something and it’s against your personal values, don’t do it ma…	/r/seduction	20/12/20 07:19 PM
2	Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women? Well, what’s natural to who I am as a person. Didn’t take much for me to realize I don’t like bein obnoxious yanno? Me, as an individual, doesn’t like being that way, and I’m very hardest on loyalty and dedication to relationships and whatnot and plenty of other things. I just wanna stick with what’s consistent to my values or else I’ll be doin stuff that’s gonna make both me and the other person unhappy. Not sayin people should be like me or share my values at all. Just sayin I feel you should …	/r/seduction	20/12/20 07:14 PM
1	Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women? Fair enough. Not the route I’d take personally but I definitely see the logic in it.	/r/seduction	20/12/20 06:59 PM
1	Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women? That’s pretty fuckin lame ngl	/r/seduction	20/12/20 06:50 PM
9	Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women? I do not agree with this one personally. I only try stuff that’s authentic to me, for example I wouldn’t try being loud and boisterous or threesome type stuff. I think it’s key to be authentic to yourself otherwise you’re bound to disappoint. Be yourself from the start in everything, that way you can save others from being disappointed further down the line and if they like you from the start you know they really do like you.	/r/seduction	20/12/20 06:20 PM
3	Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women? Basketball. I think. Idk why people would downvote you though. Kinda dumb.	/r/seduction	20/12/20 06:16 PM
3	“I’m a single mom so you should give this to me” You’d be surprised	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/10/20 11:54 AM