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Ask Red PillBig_Man_On_Campus/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:14 PM
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That's entirely acceptable and I have no disagreement with what you said. It's also entirely inapplicable to the point I was making.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 06:22 PM
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That sounds like a threat based on what you expect my reply to be. Is it your intent to threaten the people who wish to contribute? It seems like you haven't read my other replies here. I know all about moderating internet forums, I was doing it 19 years ago. I know what it's like to have my policy criticized. I know what it's like to deal with moderators under me executing policy. Hell, I've probably threatened people just like you're threatening me now. I'll bet I know how this ends better tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 06:13 PM
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I like how you stood your ground when they asked you to move. Their threats were ridiculous and if they truly have a problem with your presence, they can leave. I'm wondering if all your attention thrown at the 4 was what set them off. They knew they were higher value, and felt like your lack of attention on them was an affront.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 04:51 PM
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Totally agreed. Women are given waaaay to many passes on physical violence. Long term boyfriends should be dumping HB9s for any physical violence, 20 year husbands should be initiating divorce on physically violent wives. When women start seeing their lives ripped in two from their own poor self-control, and the word starts getting around that there are consequences, society will change.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 04:36 PM
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Is that silly? Yes. His emotions are his problem, not yours. Move on. IMHO, It's not his "emotions" that are his problem. His problem is he hasn't grown up yet. He's immature. If he's using an SO as a mother, he isn't done baking and needs to go back in the oven a while. Frankly, until he steps up and becomes a man, he needs rejection. It's not that he deserves it, deserves got nothing to do with it. He needs rejection to become something better.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/13 04:29 PM
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So, you go from acknowledging that you banned a long time regular to calling that same regular a troll for voicing his concerns after you banned him frivolously...
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 03:56 PM
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I'm holding out for federal recognition of pocketbook rape.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 06:04 AM
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After reading the thread, I don't think the argument was worth anything, but neither do I think anyone should have deleted posts/banned anyone over it. EDIT: Why are moderators engaging in debates about TRP with members? One of my golden rules while moderating boards in the past was to refrain from engaging the regulars. If you ever get into a disagreement with a regular, it turns to poison fast.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:59 AM
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Disagreement has always been welcomed here, provided it was informed, constructive and respectful. To simply say something is 'petty and neurotic' is a far cry from measuring up to that metric, and to start a flame war over something as trivial as making sure we are talking like adults does vastly more to damage this sub than the policy ever possibly could. I disagree. If discussion over how we are to discuss things is a forbidden topic, then the message is already too controlled and sufficient …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:49 AM
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and if she asks why, simply say "I was hurt because da da da..." I would amend that, and instead say, "I was disrespected because ...." If you deal in feelings, you're giving her control of the conversation. If you deal in deserved respect, she is forced to acknowledge she's not dealing with a child.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:35 AM
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I think you're conflating appropriate moderator behavior (rejecting downvotes on appropriate red-pill content), with inappropriate behavior (banning longterm members simply for voicing disagreement) I'm not unsympathetic to the desire to keep out influence from elements of society that have decided the message here is one of hate. Ultimately you can't do that by banning people, or you'll end up with a police state and a message that is 100% controlled.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:27 AM
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At least the content is there, instead of the participant being rejected wholesale.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:17 AM
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Juvenile language is best gotten rid of with user votes, not the banhammer.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:12 AM
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Success is its own greatest danger. I like this subreddit, but I get far better discussion on unmoderated red pill blogs than I do here. I suspect that will continue to be the case. The more people in a room, the worse the signal-to-noise ratio. Edit: Wow redpillschool, I just went to his image link, that's no way to treat people. Beliieve me, I was a moderator on gaming boards in the 90s, I know what shit you deal with, but accept the fact that a moderators job, when done correctly, is a thankl…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:02 AM
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I do not have the heart to tell him this. Do you really feel bad about telling your husband this, or are you trying to keep something from him? There's very little justification for keeping how you feel from your lifelong partner.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 04:25 AM
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Exactly this. Raising someone else's biological children is too close to being a cuckold. If my wife proposed that we never have our own biological children, and instead adopt, I would consider this a rejection of duty on her part.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 04:22 AM
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I thought he just left the subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 04:05 AM
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Move out.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 03:07 AM
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I've read this story before. I've ridden the exact metro line she is talking about in that exact city, used to use it for daily commute, and I've used it numerous times at night to get around. She is full of crap. Most people on LA Transit keep to themselves unless they're mentally disturbed. Furthermore the first story sounds more like she came across as if she was just acting superior to minorities. That's f-ing rude to begin with, and if her social perception is soo poor, she should turn in h…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 01:48 AM
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Ah, could be a chicken and egg issue. Are they more slutty because they get approached more by men with no intention of an LTR? OR are they slutty, so they get a tat, and guys can just tell? Reversing the situation, if a body modification would make more women approach me, I would probably take advantage of it even before my promiscuity changed. However, once things start changing towards a more active hook-up-culture participation rate... I'd start essentially confirming the stereotype with my …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 11:03 PM
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IMDB shows the only academy award mention for that movie is a nomination for best actor in a supporting role for: Al Pacino There is no mention of Alec Baldwin on the awards page at all: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104348/awards?ref_=tt_awd
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 04:21 PM
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Of course you can! But, what's your price?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 02:21 PM
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There are many red-pillers who are not actively trying to pick up women. I consider myself one of them. I've read and understand game, but I have never put dating game into practice, never. I've used the philosophy in other ways, at work, with existing relationships, but not while playing the field. I have no desire to sleep around or close on numbers simply to ego boost, not that there's anything inherently wrong with that lifestyle. I will let women come into my life rather than seek them out.…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 11:51 PM
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I honestly have never met such a woman. All women I've met are either willfully ignorant of such matters, or they haven't thought critically about who they're reading AT ALL.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 11:41 PM
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I would feel bad for him, but no one I care to know goes to malls anymore.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 04:48 AM
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I see unintended consequences in the future.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 04:48 PM
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Only that any man who is utterly out of the reach of a sufficiently interested woman runs the risk of having such speculation given voice. Sounds like female privilege put to words. "Yes, you will respond to my offerings of sex, or there's something wrong with you."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 04:24 PM
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...understand that these people exist, and I'm sure the fear and concern you have for your child is instinctually high, and rightly so. Not rightly so. The chances that your child will be kidnapped on the street by a pedophile and whisked away to live their life in forced seclusion... are about nil. Statistics tell us that the numbers are 1:610,000. You have a better shot of being struck by lightning twice in your life than being abducted as a child. Female fears of pedophile abduction are the m…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 04:21 PM
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Much in the same way women all assume they're attractive enough to be raped, they all believe their ugly, doughy children are attractive enough to be pedo-bait. I think pedophilia has nothing to do with the appearance of the child.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 04:18 PM
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He never stated that women "can't" do anything. He stated that: "Women suck at that shit."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 03:52 PM
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You know the logic question where you have to rotate the letter L in a three dimensional space? Hrm, I don't recall this one. Anyone care to link me?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 03:19 PM
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If you're a woman attempting to run a physical home, then own it. This means that you take responsibility for meals and cleanliness. Once you have owned responsibility in this department, you can clearly inform your man about what specific things you need to keep things clean. Frankly, if I met a woman who actually owned and took responsibility for keeping house, I would be much much more forgiving of her rules for helping with that (within reason). If she's asking me for something that is truly…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/13 04:44 PM
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..I've diluted myself into thinking my BF is the problem, not me...I think I'm relatively intelligent, If you can recognize that you can and have self-deceived, then yes you are intelligent. Congrats. My question is: have I beta'd my man with my feelings and emotions long enough to never get back the man I fell in love with? What could I do to remind him he is alpha ? (he is) How can I give him the red pill again? Just reading what you've written, I suspect your BF is likely straying, if not che…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:23 PM
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No, not really. Science doesn't have gray. In scientific fields you either have evidence that demonstrates something else, or you don't. That which is not provable either way is not science, it is philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 04:14 PM
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FTFA My wife was against this, she did not want to move to Boise because there was no school that she wanted to attend, but I didn't want to turn down a good offer at the chance that a better offer would come along. So, she was unwilling to find alternatives to a local university in Boise, and put up a big fuss about it. She's obviously never heard of university by correspondence, or god forbid, online colleges. Sounds like typical modern female narcissism. A good job, income to pay down lots of…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 03:01 AM
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Not sure what you're getting at here... of course not, of course not...
/r/askTRP27/06/13 02:51 AM
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Well, somebody failed reading comprehension. I said communism isn't an adjective So.. according to you, this sentence of yours: Communism isn't an adjective you can just throw around. Actually says this: Communism isn't an adjective. Or perhaps you meant it as two sentences... Communism isn't an adjective. You can just throw around. Or maybe a clever use of a comma as a pause? That would be similar to how people like to re-interpret the second amendment... Communism isn't an adjective, you can j…
/r/askTRP27/06/13 02:46 AM
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You could also make the same argument w.r.t. capitalism. Capitalism does not depend on the existence of a state of any kind but you would never jump all over me for inferring that the U.S. government removing compensation classification for civil-service jobs and instead letting market forces determine them is "basically capitalism". I find your argument that my statement is wrong little more than bitterness.
/r/askTRP26/06/13 10:29 PM
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It's too simplistic. It ignores class analysis, centuries of critiques of capitalism by famous economists (Adam Smith, Marx, Wolff). You wouldn't even get paid in money for your work in communism. There is no money. The UK is in no way communist. Any self respecting communist would line practically every member of the UK government against the wall. Communism isn't an adjective you can just throw around. Is English a second language for you? First of all, Communism is a NOUN, not an adjective. T…
/r/askTRP26/06/13 10:24 PM
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Is Wikipedia wrong in their description of communism?
/r/askTRP26/06/13 10:15 PM
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centralized planning is one facet of communism. The facet of power-hungry bureaucrats. I rest my case. Tell your alt Mao the same thing, oh wait... I'm just saying your brush is too broad. I'm a "communist" and I don't even think that there should be a state or government. No, if you feel there should be no state, you're an anarchist.
/r/askTRP26/06/13 10:13 PM
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No, wikipedia's fine, unless you consider that to be biased by those on the right too much. In which case, I think we've identified a head-case.
/r/askTRP26/06/13 09:40 PM
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Yes, insane, believing that people be compensated for the quality of their work instead of their ability to justify need, absolutely insane.
/r/askTRP26/06/13 09:36 PM
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I did once, but I disagreed with too much of it, so I tried another one, but I disagreed with too much of that book... I haven't broken that cycle yet. While arguably different from Soviet era communism, the fact remains that centralized planning of compensation for a job from what is considered communal is not much different from generic communism. That's what this is. It is the government deciding who gets what based on need, rather than who works harder.
/r/askTRP26/06/13 09:34 PM
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Mike was arguably the most successful internet marketer and teacher on the planet before he got out of that and into "wealth building", exclusively. His network of friends includes numerous hundred million and billionaires, which he has interviewed and gotten them to share their own wealth-building strategies and principles (including how to create your own bank). Why should I trust an internet marketer to know the "secrets" of the rich for getting wealthy? This really sounds like a spam post on…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 03:49 PM
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Why do I care whether my music is alpha/beta/red-pill/blue-pill? It's art. That's like worrying about the paintings of fruit on your wall and what they say about you as a man. who-gives-a-flying-f___?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 03:29 PM
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This is basically communism. These women are asking the government to determine the cost of labor for different jobs. They believe that the free market is wrong, and that services provided by people should be priced by an artificial scheme rather than supply and demand. Britain has essentially surrendered to communism. This means that there will be less incentive for anyone to work hard in that country. In the near future, there will be less incentive for anyone to pick up trash. I wonder what t…
/r/askTRP26/06/13 03:20 PM
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Somehow me telling this story always makes the women label me as 'sexist' and 'misogynistic'. Of course it does, you implied that women might have responsibilities to society.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 03:12 PM
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The Nobel committee is thoroughly infested with politics. It is little more than a popularity contest as judged by rich people.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 03:01 PM
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Stories like this remind me that TRP can be a bit one sided and black and white. Be critical of of information and get a broad base for it. No, be critical of other people's interpretations of information, not the information itself. Watch the videos and you'll quickly see that the interviewer was giving everyone plenty of rope to either hang themselves on their own illogical arguments or hoist up a flag of basic truth.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 02:59 PM
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oh, I did see a few parts of this years ago. The gender-is-a-social-constructionists came away looking like total idiots, and rightfully so. I love the investigative diligence of Harald Eia, he does a good job never jumping to a conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 02:54 PM
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I never joined FB or Myspace or any social network. They're corporate information vacuums, designed to make money on your volunteered information. They compel participation of all by getting enough ignorant people to join in and conduct their social business using their system, then they abuse that information however they see fit. Their motto? What their customers don't know can't hurt them.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 02:41 PM
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In Canada, it's always been very clear that civil liberties (such as freedom of speech) have been balanced with public goals. This means you don't have freedom of speech, and never did, since it has "always" been "clear" that those rights were balanced with public goals. And who determines those goals? The majority? Maybe you should watch that video again to see why having the majority silence one person is no more justified than one person silencing the majority.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 10:50 PM
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So every time someone is mean to you, they should have to pay you? That's not what it means. It means that the individuals comments went beyond mere jest or poking fun and the judge stated that: ^ Lie. That is what it means. You're simply hiding in the letter of the law, and ignoring its effects to make a semantic argument, a fairly piss-poor one at that.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 02:36 AM
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You sound like someone who needs to actually learn why freedom of speech exists. Here's a primer for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NmuzrHwMkMU
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 02:33 AM
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I hadn't looked at Forrest Gump that way, but you're right, just about the epitome of white-knight blue-pill land. I had always regarded Forrest Gump as a movie that tried to summarize recent American history, but when viewed with the red-pill... it's clearly blue pill nonsense. That scene where his mother does that to keep him out of retard school, wow, viewed from the red-pill side of things, it's disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 10:05 PM
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Le Sigh, Canada. At some point, lots of people are going to be highly offended daily in the developed world. They'll call it Canada's Glasnost.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 09:28 PM
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If a male white knight slapped me for a rape joke, I think I would laugh at him instead of punching him back. Seriously? Slap? Seriously?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 08:56 PM
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That story is so selfish its amazing. She wants to read in peace. That in itself is fine, nothing wrong with wanting that, but she's in a public place. You cannot expect the people around you to not react to your presence. What she really wants is for this to translate into a privilege to rudely ignore all people. She gets upset at the group of normal guys who were just trying to be social. Then she lets that rage force her into being outright rude to a late-night-crazy on the public transit (a …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 08:54 PM
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From that article, I saw this one: http://unwinona.tumblr.com/post/30861660109/i-debated-whether-or-not-to-share-this-story LOL, woman can't stand being social, blames all men as the problem. I've ridden the line she's talking about. I know the people who ride this line. What's so hard about being social with a random man? Of course, she gets upset at the normal dudes being normal, but then equates the clearly crazy man with all men.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 08:43 PM
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So, first: My wife wants reassurance that she did the right thing that night (I say she did). Did she do the right thing? Also, do we just stay silent about what happened until her cousin starts drama and then present our case? What about her cousin's fiancee who's getting lied to about being cheated on? This guy can't be real. Did the right thing? he can't be serious. This woman is a mother who ended up at a strange mans house afterward.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 03:25 PM
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Based on what I see, I firmly believe that she's sleeping with someone else on the side.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 03:17 PM
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Came here to say this, leaving satisfied //yes I fark.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 03:13 PM
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*I can wear garnet, and wine, but not true red. * lol... Most men would just call them all red.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 03:12 PM
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Let me say this: I would never participate in a reddit that's sidebar said that men stop maturing before they are twenty Wouldn't this be saying that men mature faster? I thought faster is better. that their thought processes are inferior Inferior? Where in redpill does it call female thought processes inferior? I want exact quotes, not interpretations. posted recommendations on how to milk them for their money Women don't need recommendations, the law provides such options. recommended manipula…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 03:03 PM
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When does it become traitorous to my gender? Is this like being gay, as long as you never actually do anything gay? Your problem is you actually believe you can betray your gender. You continue to frame it as a gender war, and contrary thoughts as betrayal. It is seemingly in your nature to present conflict where none exists. This is only useful so long as people pay attention to you. Once they realize you're crying wolf, such appeals have no power. If I really must, I will can provide you with …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 02:53 PM
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Understand that my questions in this response are HONEST QUESTIONS, I'm not trying to be a jerk. If you've got good answers to them, I want to read them. The dude pouted, he was upset (cool it happens). How is walking out pouting? Wouldn't it be far more immature to continue to remain nearby and insist that she pay attention to him? Her immediate refusal to acknowledge him may have been honestly meaningless, but this doesn't change the fact that she is ignoring her date for facebook (something t…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:34 PM
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Leaving isn't pouting. Pouting would have been to stand there and continue to get annoyed, or going to sit in a corner while she has her conversation. That's pouting. He left, which forced her to consider her actions on whatever level she is capable of doing so. It's not the best game option, but it might be the best red pill option to many men who aren't as experienced.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:20 PM
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I tend to agree with this point of view. Yes, he probably could have chatted up someone else and regained display of higher value, but she was being disrespectful. She was basically saying to her date, "You are so meaningless that I will continue to pay attention to someone else and this social network that I just told you I was leaving before I pay attention to you, my date." I think she deserved to be walked out on.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:05 PM
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Yep, they don't, you're right. They will keep writing their crap no matter what. But someday in the future, when they look at their hit counts, and they see most of their referrals are from red pill sites, the cognitive dissonance will really start hitting the fan. If you think they're shrill now, just wait.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 11:13 PM
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You're looking at it the wrong way. The best way to make someone realize their message is dead is when the majority of hits they get are from sites that disagree with them.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 10:29 PM
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Agreed. No qualification necessary, just say no.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 08:28 PM
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What feminism cannot stand is the radical notion that desiring to be submissive does not make you inferior.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 08:19 PM
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Why didn't he just hand her the keys and say, "have a nice day." I would have. The second she's alone at night loading something in a truck, she'll start thinking twice about her obsession. Heck, even better, cleverly "break" the truck, disconnect the ground off the battery, or pull a fuse or two.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 08:09 PM
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You are equating the amorality of your innate sexual strategy with your decision to be dishonest with a long term partner, you cannot do that. They are not the same. You're rationalizing lying to a partner about your N because you've read that innate hypergamy is nothing to be ashamed of. Innate hypergamy is nothing to be ashamed of. Lying to someone you care about is something to be ashamed of.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 04:34 PM
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I think you said the same thing I did, with some semantic argument mixed in.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 02:06 PM
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This my friends, is what a self-hating man does to himself when it goes too far. Shame the fucking red pill couldn't have got there first. I think this is more correct than most people realize. In the transgendered/transvestite/transexual community, it is an established fact that there are generally 4-5 times more men transitioning/pretending-to-be to women than women to men. I seriously believe that some day, some psychologist will conclude that the shaming of all things masculine was part of t…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 04:35 AM
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Wow. "I need feminism because the patriarchy oppresses me, not my religion, I choose how to dress" --- By a woman wearing a Hijab. What the heck do you even say to that? Islamic men are generally super red-pill to begin with.. just wow.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 08:48 PM
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I liked this, I'm not sure how well it resonates with the carousel riders though. I want to believe that upon reading it, the principles shown would make them more carefully consider the choices they're making, but I just doubt that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 07:22 PM
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Why are so many replies to my posts getting deleted? wth?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 05:37 PM
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Because my bf and I have an agreement that we're breaking up when he gets a job and moves out of the country. I can't move because of work, so that's that... Although I would like to meet someone like him, as he's a great person. If your boyfriend was really what you wanted to have, you would be doing everything in your power to keep him. Or at the very least devastated at the thought of losing him if there's no other choice. But this "oh well, moving on" attitude sickens me. I don't even unders…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 05:28 PM
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why do I need to be honest? Uh, seriously? Sexual strategies are amoral. Choices made by individuals are not. It's the difference between the abstract and the real. I can accept the fact that men by nature can be polyamorous to a self and society-destroying degree. I cannot accept the long-term successful PUA as an agent of morality. I can accept the fact that all women everywhere feel a pull to advance themselves through hypergamous instincts, that's a sexual strategy, it's amoral. It's quite a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 04:54 PM
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I see women call men creepy all the time. The word is overused entirely, to the point of meaninglessness. I see women call a man creepy because of his laugh, his walk, his stance, his social awareness, anything goes. What used to be a word reserved for the true sexual stalker has now turned into a word that is used to disqualify any man who makes a woman uncomfortable in any way. My solution? If you get to call me creepy, I get to call you slut.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 03:44 PM
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Feminism and Puritanism sitting in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G. First comes outrage, then come laws, then comes communism dressed in bras.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 03:36 PM
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... But how do you define high value men? The most valuable traits to me are physical attractiveness and a desire to be successful/have money. That doesn't mean he needs to actually make the money, he just needs to be cool with us having a lot. So, to you, the most valuable trait is to marry a man who is already wealthy and/or doesn't want to earn money? You should stop and consider what men actually are before you consider searching for such a unicorn. ... but what I find interesting is how man…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 03:20 PM
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This presumes you find a guy who wants to take the risk of marriage, a rather large presumption.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 03:01 PM
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I want to flesh out an answer to this question as well. I find myself frankly puzzled by this from a non-PUA, wants-an-LTR point of view. Here's the dillemma (forgive the fact that I am male please). I want/need intimacy if I am to feel like I have some frame in the relationship. If I don't have intimacy from the woman, frankly it just feels like I'm being super beta and I actually get less interested. When I start feeling the beta come up, memories of past pain from rejections just push me away…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 11:09 PM
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But you do get to ride them for free.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:38 PM
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SMV = Sexual Marketplace Value See: http://rationalmale.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/smv_curve1.jpg
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:18 PM
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I replied on that one too, but you've rephrased the questions here. 1) I believe so, but you still need at some point to have a single decision when your relationship is faced with a choice. I hate to quote the bible since I am not religious, but there's a great quote in there that two men cannot walk together unless they agree. What this means for you is, can you accept your husband's decisions? If you can't accept that only one person can "head" a household, then it's questionable. 2) Possible…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 10:11 PM
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You contradict yourself. You call yourself: "super feminine" And yet:: I don't want children. Or at least, I don't want to give birth to children. That choice/preference in itself is fine, but how do you call yourself feminine if you're not willing to do the defining thing that females do, namely bear and give birth to young? I want to be the breadwinner in my relationship. Direct contradiction to calling yourself feminine. The feminine does not seek to be the breadwinner. All the alphas I've ev…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:46 PM
2

I think the biggest mistake was not sleeping in your own bed. Sleep or no, sex or no, you are the master of that domain and what you say goes.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:44 PM
3

I think he was trying to say that sometimes you should support your man even if you disagree with his decisions. However, the way he worded it, it sounds as if he's justifying bad logic.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 08:39 PM
3

LOL http://anythingforcortney.blogspot.tw/2013/06/on-developing-trust-muscle.html
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:31 PM
3

I don't understand why Bicycle became the saying. Why didn't they say "Bus" or "Hobo Train" or "Disney Rollercoaster" ? What town has ever had a "town bicycle" instead of public transportation ?? Did they say bicycle to avoid also calling the woman huge and noisy in the same phrase?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:28 PM
2

I think I would pack a bag, grab all the financial information, and make like a tree.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 08:04 PM
4

She's just making the same argument as all MGTOW's. Now if she then turns around and gets upset at men for not committing, then she's a total hypocrite.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 07:40 PM
2

Some of them, like #3, just make no sense to me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 07:34 PM
5

As I mentioned in a previous post.... If we're going to justify keeping the truth from a spouse based on whether or not we can get away with it, then why pretend to be honest at all? I have no solution for you for keeping your SO's emotions in check and his opinion of you high after being honest with him about this should you choose to do so. Who knows, maybe your N is low for him. But if you're going to justify not telling the truth on probabilities of discovery, then to modify a quote: "We've …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 07:27 PM
2

You say yourself it will possibly effect his attraction. obviously lying is not good for relationships, but how is he REALLY going to know your true number? Well, if we're going to justify keeping the truth from a spouse based on whether or not we can get away with it, then why pretend to be honest at all?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 07:20 PM
12

...wouldn't they rather have a slightly less hot thirty year old who is capable of having a healthy relationship? No. Look at it this way. Men have almost zero dating market value in their early 20s, and the women they get turned down by are people like you (hot, young, vibrant). Those average 20 year old men who don't have a career going yet, they want to be as sexually active as you but do not have that option due to market imbalance for them. Now, these men spend their early to mid 20s lookin…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 05:54 PM
0

To maintain a population, humanity only requires that a handful of men ever procreate. In fact, Humanity would survive just fine with about 2000-5000 men to propagate their genes. For today's population numbers, that means only sub-1% of men ever need to reproduce. However, humanity begins to die off very quickly if half of the female population decides not to have children. This is what I meant by great evil. Women could, if they so chose, kill off humanity. They have the power to ensure that t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 05:24 PM
9

So I just want my 20's to travel the world and not be tied down to one place or man (or maybe woman), however I also want to spend it having sex! I mean who can blame me...But this is apparently lowering my potential worth to a man and come my 30's and 40's I'm poop. Which sucks to think about but I can't say I'm gonna stop living it up while I'm young. Basic red pill truth: Men are expendable Women are perishable If that truth hurts, it should. However, ignore it at your own peril. Much like ig…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 05:06 PM
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FTA: “This is an example of the law of unintended consequences,” said state Rep. Rafael Anchia, D-Dallas. “We did not think about entitlement by spouses who had become divorced from these innocent men while they were in prison.” Phillips said his ex-wife’s lawsuit was among a handful of legal fights he has faced since he was released. “When the cheese is on the table, the rats come out,” he said, adding that he did not have ill feelings toward Tucker. Phillips sued a lawyer who billed him more t…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 11:26 PM
0

There's nothing wrong with any individual not wanting kids. There's great evil in significant chunks of the population not wanting kids. Pick somewhere in the middle to be safe.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/13 10:20 PM
22

I think Cherry asks a good question. So as a man, I'll try to answer in a brutally honest way. This is why women should marry young. Men generally have fantastic visual memory/imaginations for the female body. This is probably a scientifically unexplored aspect of humanity that might provide some stunning revelations. As a young man, your husband is going to form significant mental memory of experiences with your young body. Those are going to color his lifelong experiences with you in a good wa…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/13 08:35 PM
1

An MD doesn't teach you how to read statistics. If you had said you had a PhD in math, I might bow to your understanding of the world. And clearly you did not read your own graphic, as that is not what it says. It says, x pregnancies per 100 females per year per contraceptive method. That's a lot of mistakes. It's hard to believe that with all those pregnant women who were assured they were dealing with a clipped man, there aren't more lawsuits. More importantly, those numbers are still small. Y…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 08:17 PM
2

If a girl flakes on me i.e., no call, no contact, no nothing. If she just doesn't show up. I never speak to her again. I do this even if she's still in my own social circle. That's what she deserves for treating me with such disrespect. There's lots of women out there, I don't have time for those who flake, let them stay on their carousels of people who handle their flakiness. If a girl flakes on me by trying to call and give an excuse, I accept that she's excusing herself but I do not accept he…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:25 PM
0

I am actually curious what kinds of discussion the women will come up with. Here's hoping a female equivalent of Rollo emerges.
/r/askTRP17/06/13 06:10 PM
5

Cut him a little slack, he didn't discover the manosphere until he was already a MGTOW. I suspect there's lots of men like this. I am one of them.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 02:47 PM
1

There's no data source on those numbers, and I think everyone should question them. They imply that accidental pregnancies from a vasectomy per year are 1 in 100. That is an outrageously high number, as are all the rest of them. Your chart doesn't pass smell test.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 02:25 PM
1

Yes, I deliberately fail to acknowledge that condition considering the statistical insignificance of the event given reasonably smart people and proper contraception. Or are you suggesting that all laws be bent to handle the most rare of exceptions?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 03:23 PM
0

It is not the state punishing the child, it's the parents. As an individual capable of planning out my life, I accept no responsibility for the mistakes of other stupid parents. If you or others are to suggest that I as a taxpayer accept responsibility for how other children are raised, then give the taxpayers control over who can and cannot procreate. Yes, it's a ridiculous and inhuman suggestion to give people control over who can and cannot be fertile humans. It is just as ridiculous to sugge…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 06:08 AM
0

Who is to say, who is to judge which parent was the dumber for creating a baby with no commitment? Not me. I make no judgements about specific cases. I simply must include the reality that some men are stupid and impregnate women without thought if I am to be intellectually honest about the situation. Either both sexes get a get-out-of-jail free card, putting the burden of rearing children onto taxpayers (a bad choice), or both sexes are saddled with taking care of children they conceived. Any o…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 06:03 AM
2

I find myself wanting to give you a gold star. You are correct, but he won't easily listen to me, he always knows best (I did say he was a successful engineer).
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 09:10 PM
3

Hiding true N brings lots of skills out in women.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 08:14 PM
2

LOL This is like injecting metastasizing cancer into a patient, then saying the best way to cure the patient is by transplanting new organs/appendages/body parts onto the patient when any one of them becomes too symptomatic.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 08:12 PM
24

Reality: Women: We can do it! So long as we're not risking bodily harm... Men: Yeah, yeah OSHA rules, super wimpy... How steady is the paycheck?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 08:09 PM
1

^ Exactly
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 07:32 PM
13

I was, but then I realized she probably divided by 3
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 05:57 PM
2

The NYT is not "Getting it right" in this article. That article is addressing an injustice by proposing more injustice. I am not surprised by the downvoting. Justice would be forcing parents of both genders to deal with the consequences of their poor choices. That means abolishing all public financial and legal support for women who want to avoid motherhood after being impregnated, as well as holding the father to the consequences of his poor choice. To me the best solution is: 1) No child welfa…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 05:54 PM
19

You are experiencing a significant change in perspective. Such episodes are extraordinarily disorienting and can lead to significant depression for a time. Yes, you want to think the best of women. We all do. I'm sure many women want to think the best of men and prefer not to think too much about the existence of PUA/Pump-and-dump. This is not unnatural at all. What is unnatural is assigning virtues where non are deserved. It's normal to want to believe people are generally good. However it is n…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 03:51 PM
4

This is only half of the conversation. While someday soon the law may finally recognize an individual father's right to avoid paternity, until welfare or social programs financially helping single mothers are abolished, the result is effectively the same, or perhaps worse. Forced paternity is unjust when compared to the options to avoid forced motherhood for women. However, it does do one thing, it keeps the financial obligations for the poor choices on those people who made poor choices. If you…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 03:36 PM
4

It's not that it's an encoded procedure. It is that women spend absolutely zero time exploring the workings of attraction for themselves or anybody else. Ask any man what kind of woman he's attracted to and he can pull out his Blender install and whip up a 3D model of his idealized woman. He can explicitly tell you because as a youth he's spent significant amounts of brainpower and internet searches exploring his own attraction triggers. More importantly, male arousal is hard to miss, so a man a…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 03:06 PM
2

I see I need to clarify something. There is no mainland "house" for her to move into. She is staying with friends who are only fairweather friends at that. A few of them have already kicked her out after a couple days. The stepdad (who owns a sailing yacht) is now going to allow her to stay on his boat rent-free if she goes to junior college (on his dime).
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:45 PM
5

No, I really am. I realize RP knowledge says I am wrong, but I have maturity/intelligence standards that countermand those general rules. And no, I will not share my ruleset with you.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:42 PM
1

No, I'm not sure I've ever stumbled on them actually, care to link me?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:41 PM
7

Nah, I'm way too old for her. I care because he's a friend, I think I am permitted to have bro's for friends, it's in the constitution.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:37 PM
5

Sounds like these people are trying to redefine me as a career criminal for having commented on TRP repeatedly. I remember in high school reading about what it was like for the "undesirables" in 1930s Germany as special interest activism got law after law passed changing the basics of society. I never expected to live through it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:58 PM
-1

"In my opinion, it's because of what they have been through historically and the environments they come from." What? What did the average born-in-1975 through 1990 black woman go through that's so terrible? Honestly, I would suggest that they sh*t test often and hard because they were raised to believe that men are no good in single-mom households. That's not especially bad for them, and was probably harder on the sons who endured it. Frankly, and this is deliciously anti-PC... I would suggest t…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 09:21 PM
2

That doesn't even make sense. That's about as ignorant as ignorant gets, kind of like priests telling Columbus that he was going to sail off the edge of the ocean and fall into hell.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 09:13 PM
4

Return of Kings recently posted some good ones: “There is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, richer, stronger, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself.” “In battle, if you you make your opponent flinch, you have already won.” “Do not regret what you have done.” “All man are the same except for their belief in their own selves, regardless of what others may think of them.” “Do nothing which is of no use.” --- Miyamoto …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:51 PM
0

Well, now, if I could define my own SMV, I'd be a fat-apologizing feminist, so I won't go there... Edit: lol, there be downvoters here with no sense of humor.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 10:38 PM
4

Fear of male input is what made feminism turn into an extreme and failed movement, so yes.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 10:11 PM
-1

Fair enough.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 10:01 PM
2

Every time I get a good idea for a red-pill onion article, a feminist beats me to it.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 09:42 PM
4

My own experience in the U.S. is that the odds of finding a woman in a christian church wanting rational marriage roles is actually worse than the general population, but your mileage will vary. Actually, the most frustrated blue-pillers I know are christian men, because their beliefs are often in total conflict with the way the christian women behave.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 08:57 PM
10

He should double-down and get the son a tattoo, see what she thinks then. /really, some peeps can't tell this is half-joking?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 08:48 PM
1

And interestingly enough, most strongly in Canada. Is Canada more blue pill than the U.S. ? No data on Australia, or else they literally had zero interest in it.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 08:33 PM
2

You made a drunk girl say her alphabet backwards? Did this take so long as to require you guys moving to the after-party still in a hug?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 07:56 PM
1

Like most lies that manage to get sold to the public in general, the blue pill lies started small from intellectual circles, and grew because the general public wants to believe the exception rather than the rule. Exceptions are interesting and worth living. The rule is boring, traditional, and not noteworthy. No one cares if you are a career father with a stay-at-home mom, that's so 1950s, everyone's done it. But everyone wants to know what your life is like if you're a high-power-corporate les…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 07:27 PM
1

The best thing you can do is to stop telling yourself what you cannot do.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 06:57 PM
2

Remember boys, this law is there for your protection from the insidious patriarchy that exists in the shadows.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 06:53 PM
3

Just as Aurini says in the video, this seems completely illogical to a male, as a job is something we get money from, or anticipate money from, it is most certainly not something that we put money in to with no anticipation or hope of remuneration. I would dispute that some. Lots of guys are singularly devoted to a cause, with little expectation of return. Some guys convince themselves there will eventually be a return.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 06:16 PM
1

Old, but hilarious. I generally don't like most of SNL's new stuff, but I did actually see this one when it came out and laughed my ass off.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 06:03 PM
1

I forgot to mention the epilogue... Cops agree to let the bio dad take son. However, son has schoolwork and things inside the house. Son is afraid that if he goes in the house he'll be forced to stay, Cops assure him they won't let that happen. Kid runs in the house to get bag. Cops watch, but stay outside the home (again they have no legal reason to be in the house). Mom goes in house after son. Son comes out about 2 minutes later, with a story of how he had another physical confrontation with …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 05:49 PM
1

Exactly, he should be stepping in and providing the sound judgement that she is failing to provide. He doesn't have to be violent/forceful/jackass about it, but he should be asserting his role as being a responsible party to her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 05:31 PM
1

That stepdad indeed had nothing of value to say. A man should have plenty to say to a woman who is emotionally abusing her son, regardless of his relationship with that woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 05:24 PM
3

I got the impression that Kristina was telling all MGTOWs that they're worthless unless they're hipster.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 05:20 PM
2

I get the impression from watching woolybumblebee's vids and reading what she's written that while she may be able to recognize intellectual honesty in others, she can't bring herself to practice it that much. Most of her arguments sounded no better structured than anything Lindy West prints, just from an MRA perspective. I would venture a guess that Kristina is someone not unlike Lindy in terms of professional drive, but very different in terms of perspective held. This says to me that it isn't…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 05:16 PM
9

The Dutch people in general have an almost genetic bluntness in conversation. Find any Dutch ex-pat and their kids, talk to them for a while. You are guaranteed to find at least one person in the family with zero tact. /should know //heritage is mostly dutch
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:51 PM
2

I disagree. This isn't even close to batshit. This is run-of-the-mill mommy-plays-double-standards kind of behavior. It's so common it's practically a pandemic.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:36 PM
2

Actually, I disagree. Yes, the law gives the stepfather no legal power. This is actually a tremendous advantage. When you have less of a dog on the fight, you can be the one to enforce reason. That blue-pill hulk did nothing to restrain the woman from her emotional manipulation, nothing to force her to speak with reason and respect to her son, nothing to enforce fair standards in the discussion instead of the double-standards she was employing. Would he be risking the relationship with that woma…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:27 PM
21

The manipulation from the mother is astounding. Everyone should watch the entire hour-long video. This may not be a psycho mom, but she's definitely never had anyone call her out on her bullshit manipulation. So lets do that for her, shall we? 4:50, mom lays guilt trip, says kid she raised for 14 years isn't going to just go away because they want to 4:53, mom says, "I love you," trying to soften what she just said. 5:07, mom says she's not going to let him drive off because she loves him too mu…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 07:29 AM
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