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| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I just meant like in terms of showing interest didn’t know how you usually show interest other than compliments. I see now that you’re saying though that it’s push pull. Is that kind of a lake where you give a compliment but then you kind of say something back like ”you’re really pretty, but can’t be friends with a (enter name) fan”? I can do the witty banter, but it’s never like sexual or anything in terms of that, but I’m great at being witty and I’m often getting responses from my friends whe… | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I don’t know if I replied to this earlier because it’s not really showing me but to be honest yes I am a virgin but also just to add, I just don’t understand how people do this if they are not on a date together Like if this has happened to you in a person that was already friends with you how did that even come about? | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Well, what other ways do you think is good to show interest in women? I’m just wondering if we have different views because like I like to try and remember what the girls are on friends with say so I can maybe make them laugh, have conversations and try to joke around with them, but I don’t really do much else | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I mean, I can tease and stuff, but I’ve never straighten up. Ask the group of girls or any girl for that matter or something like that or joked around like that To be fair, I’ve never even called the girl pretty because I’ve been worried it would be weird. I am just worried too much The closest I’ve said is a joke around with my friends sometimes and I tell them that “you need a man like me.“ or “you know you be thinking about me” in kind of smirking just messing around and usually it gets somew… | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I’ll probably sound a bit stupid by asking this, but how exactly do you really know if a girl is trying to show her intentions or how am I supposed to show my intentions? That’s the part. I don’t really understand because I’m great at meeting women and becoming friends like I’ve said, but my big problem is just I guess showing my intentions but without actually talking sexual. Like I can tease, be a little sassy, I’m good at making them more, but apparently I don’t know how to show my intention … | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?How do people getting to the point of just making out though? The reason I asked is because I know that my biggest problems is one I can’t flirt and two I don’t really know how I could tell if it would be OK to go for a kiss | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Sorry if I sounded like I was arguing or trying to be rude, I wasn’t trying to be. Also, I’m kind of confused of what you mean by saying that they will never get to meet me. If we’re already friends, then you’ve gotten to see me and meet me before. I already disagree and tease, but what do you mean by I should take risk? I don’t even know how to flirt so I don’t even know how I should really get to taking risks in the first place. Any advice on flirting like I feel like I can do eye contact but … | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I’m sorry if I’m kind of asking stupid questions but I have a couple of questions. In this post, I’m kind of assuming that this girl that I’m talking with is a friend or a friend of a friend so like we’re close in some capacity even if we don’t hang out all the time. If you haven’t been able to flirt or you don’t really know how to, but it’s kind of like my situation we’re like we’re friends and maybe we talk about sexual stuff or make innuendo jokes or double comments with it necessarily be bad… | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I mean, I tried apps for like two years, but legit me and my friends have no luck at all. So the only way I’ll probably ever be able to do anything is IRL I’ve tried looking at the advice in this thread, but pretty much all of it is just people saying to flirt, but I don’t know how I’m supposed to flirt. Also people say to maybe like make jokes or sexual remarks with a girl that might insinuate us being romantic or doing something sexual , but I also don’t know if that would be OK to do with the… | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I don’t know what to do, though, that is what I’m saying. I literally do not know how to flirt, I don’t know how to show sexual interest, I don’t know how to show romantic interest. I literally do not know how to show anything to anybody that I’m attracted to Like how am I supposed to show that I’m attracted and desire them | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?How am I supposed to start though if I don’t know how to | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I don’t really have anywhere I could take them to cuddle. I live with family, but most people do also and they also do what I do so I’m just not really sure how to go about it. I live at my family‘s places. Sometimes I stay at my brothers and sometimes I stay at my mom’s and both have said that they’re OK with me having a girlfriend over. The only difference is at my brothers. I have their own nephews to live there and that kind of probably wouldn’t go over too well if I was bringing a girl over… | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?But like, how am I supposed to be active and show sexual interest? Nobody can ever seem to tell me this or they just say flirt with no context and I’m not really sure how to flirt. That’s why I struggle so much and I just don’t even know what I’m supposed to do. Like, how do you show sexual interest in somebody? | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Yes, I’m outside a lot and I have hobbies, friends, and I have a huge friend group, and I can make friends with pretty much everybody How are you actually finding FWB though? I’ve been told that I don’t come off sexual or romantic by a lot of my friends, and they don’t really know how to help me. Like I can’t flirt or anything, so I’m not sure how I’m supposed to show interest. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?We necessarily be bad if I straight up ask if I could kiss? If asking for a kiss is really that bad then to be honest I don’t think I’m ever gonna try to seriously day either cause I’m just never ever going to not ask | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Yeah, but I would ask to go for a kiss. Especially if it’s a friend I feel like a lot of girls would probably find it creepy if I just went for a kiss. How are you supposed to flirt or how are you supposed to know if there’s even sexual tension between the two of you? How am I supposed to give a girl something to react to? | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?How do you even know that a girl is wanting physical intimacy in the moment? That’s the part that I don’t even understand. I mean, I know if I want it, but that’s me. I can’t understand if somebody else wants it or not. I’ve never hooked up and I’ve been trying to date since I was 15 but I get told about my friends all the time that apparently even though I joke with innuendo and stuff that I don’t come off sexual or wanting to do anything sexual How am I supposed to even hook up? it makes it wo… | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Then how am I supposed to do that? My friends tell me that they don’t think I’m probably ever gonna get into a relationship because of how clueless I am. They don’t even try to help. They just say that I’m 22 and it’s kind of never gonna happen How are you supposed to even seduce somebody like you’re saying? Especially if it is a girl that is like a friend or your social group I’m just worried that if I didn’t build up sexual attention with a friend or friend of a friend and it led to something … | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Yeah, but like what if you hooked up and then you talk about it and they don’t wanna be friends anymore? How are you supposed to even know somebody would want something like that in the moment? | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Yeah, but like how does it start between friends then? Like if you haven’t dated, but you just knew each other how does something like that even happen? Also, if you’ve dated before, then, I don’t quite understand how that would happen if you broke up because you probably wouldn’t get along | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?So, are you supposed to go on a date if you’re wanting FWB with the girl that’s already a good friend of yours? Wouldn’t that even be more manipulative because at least worrying from if you go on a date, then you’re looking for something serious. I always heard that FWB is never a date, it’s usually just one friend says hey wanna hang out and then for most of my friends it seems like people will hook up in a car and I don’t even understand how that starts. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?No, I am a virgin I still would never make a move though or do anything without asking and I just don’t wanna lose any of my friends. That’s why I’m scared of doing anything. How are you even supposed to know that a girl is wanting you to go for a kiss | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I literally have never had luck using dating apps ever. I’ve never gotten a match and I used it for years. On the other hand, though, I literally have gotten dates irl | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?I don’t think I would ever have sex without talking about it first with the other person. Even if we were on a date, and I knew explicitly that she was wanting to do something. I just feel like with every bad story that I hear on here. It always ends up being that a guy invited his girl Homie over to watch a movie or maybe you wanted to go on a drive and just chill and then after they have been flirting, one thing leads to another and they’re hooking up. The hooking up part isn’t bad but it seem… | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:44 PM |
| -4 | Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps?Because if you and this girl are friends and have been friends for even if it’s just a couple of weeks or even if it’s been a year and you invite her over to watch a movie (hook up) after flirting and tons of stuff like that she’s probably gonna consider that you all moving towards a relationship probably That’s literally how I hear every bad story on Reddit. A guy was friends with a girl and he invited her over to watch a movie and one thing led to another and then their friendship ended becaus… | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Yes, im autistic | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Do you have any more examples of like stuff similar? I guess to the paper ball or verbal stuff that would be flirting? | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I mean, I can show interest in pretty much any girl that I’m friends with or trying to get to know by asking them stuff about themselves, but in terms of like complementing or flirting I don’t really know how to or how I should To clarify when I was saying no, yes me and my friends do sometimes make sexual jokes, but not necessarily towards each other. It’s more like just a random joke. Like the jokes are mainly if she said something about something being big or wet, for example, I might take it… | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?How do I do it though? | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?What would you consider flirting though? Like what type of stuff? Also wym but closer? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 06:52 PM |
| 2 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?How do I Practice if idk how to start 😭 I can make friends and have conversations well but not flirt | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Can you explain maybe what you mean about like me having social awkwardness issues? I don’t really drink much alcohol and I don’t do any substances and I am not going to do any drugs. I’m just confused though because like I’ve said, I can make friends any day of the week super easily and go hang out, but I just don’t understand how I’m supposed to be friends with a girl and then hook up Like how should I know that that girl is even wanting to hook up? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I’m 22. I mean, I’ve tried to hook up before, but I can’t really read body language and don’t know how somebody would want to hook up or how to tell if somebody would want to. Apparently, I’m like literally oblivious to signs because once I was talking with my friend and they had brought along a friend of theirs and it was like a group of us. Long story short, but their friend kind of wanted to “get to know me better” one on one, but we had never met before and I kind of felt weird about that so… | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I would say I’m like a five or six and I’ve said this a couple of times in this thread, but I have tons of friends that are girls and I’m great at making them laugh and smile. I’m witty, but I can get them to sometimes tell me to shut up and kind of like push me and smile, but I don’t know if that’s flirting. How is it supposed to turn into more? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 03:38 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I would say that I’m a five or six right now the potential of like a seven. I mean, I’m able to talk to the girls that are friends with who are eight in minds and I can get them laughing tons, I’m just not really sure about other body language though because I just don’t really know how that would show if he’s attracted to me. Also, what would you consider innuendo in conversation because I’ve heard people describe it differently? To answer your final three questions I do know how to have sex bu… | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 03:37 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I’m very sorry if this is a stupid question to ask, but you were saying like you could get turned on by a guy making you a meal or talking about stuff that you all are both interested in and I just don’t really understand. How would he know that you’re feeling that way? I just don’t really understand how that becomes something that somebody notices if you aren’t explicitly talking about it | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 03:26 PM |
| 2 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?How do you know that you all find each other attractive enough to have sex? I can have fun conversations. I can have good conversations with guys and girls, but the girls that I’m friends with have told me that I don’t know how to add a sexual or romantic element | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 03:03 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I mean, I have hobbies and interest so I guess that can make me an interesting person and occasionally I can make a witty remark to some of my friends and make them laugh, but I don’t really understand. I guess how to make people feel a certain way sexually romantically. I’ve literally tried to try all different types of stuff like I’ve talked to my friends and saw what they thought was and wasn’t flirting. I used example was like sexual innuendo, giving a compliment, just spending genuine time … | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 02:50 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I want a relationship, but I’ve literally been trying to learn how to flirt since I was like 15 and I just cannot get better no matter what I try. My friends don’t really try to help me learn, even though they all say that that’s how they got into relationships. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 02:33 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Well, I mean, even if this is like a test, it’s something that I can’t study for so therefore I don’t even really know the premise Like, I can’t really understand how I’m supposed to be even starting trying to flirt. Everybody says teasing and joking and maybe like making something sexual when it’s not but then everybody is also telling me that that’s completely wrong. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I guess I just don’t understand like, how are you supposed to tell a girl that you find her attractive or how are you supposed to know if you can show your intention by flirting? Like can you give me an example? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 05:02 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I mean to your first question, not really. I’ve had conversations and a lot of conversations that I have if not all have already had a background stated by me or somebody else. I don’t really watch movies but I do play video games but that doesn’t really make sense because the covers even if not, the title is usually implying with the game is about Is there other way that I can think because I just feel like I would be worried that I’m being creepy by trying to hold her hand randomly | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 04:58 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?But you’re not having a direct discussion about it so I feel like it’s kind of hard to actually understand. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 04:10 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Well, because like there’s been some times where I’ve been talking to some of the girls that I’m friends with and I could totally take something. They said out of context and make a sexual remark, but I don’t because I’m worried that they’ll think that I only am sexual stuff from them and not their friendship. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 02:12 AM |
| 2 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Well, I understand what you mean. To be honest, I feel like like in real life. I’m a bit more off the top of stuff, but I still need to worry about accidentally going too far with saying stuff so I never really flirt. Was that like a good start, though from that one example that I gave or is that still a bit cringe even without the word dang? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 02:04 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?To be honest, I don’t know why I used it. But if we take away that word, would you consider that sort of flirting, I guess | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:53 AM |
| 2 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?OK, would you think that my friend was flirting with me if you saw her say this to me? So pretty much I’ve sent this in a couple of comments now, but I think one of my best examples where I actually somewhat thought a girl was flirting with me was when my friend and me was talking about flowers and I mentioned how one of them had a lot of benefits she ended up saying “benefits? What are you doing with those flowers?” kind of insinuating that I was sexual with the followers, but I didn’t really k… | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:46 AM |
| 2 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?But wouldn’t a friendship be a connection? I understand what you’re trying to say, but it feels like you’re also saying that being a friend isn’t a sort of relationship. I’m just trying to figure this out. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I’ve used this example a couple of times, but maybe like this “you know for a fan of ___, your pretty dang cool”? I know that could be kind of cringe, but I’m just trying to think | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:41 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?I mean, I’ve tried explaining it to my friends before and giving them scenarios and a lot of them have just been pretty much talking like friends how you’re kind of explaining and none of them have thought it was flirting They were all telling me pretty much you gotta say something sexual, but they wouldn’t really give me an example of what flirty or what could be too far to start | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Bro, I’m sorry but if you think I am AI you’re I kinda cooked But also, I guess I’m kind of cooked because I don’t understand how to flirt. I’m just a very autistic and never tried any of this. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 01:32 AM |
| 2 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?OK, I’m sorry. I keep on asking stupid questions if I am, but when would you think that you’ve probably even flirted in enough to go in for a kiss? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?So do you think that my friend was flirting with me I’m gonna tell you what she said I said this to somebody else but long story short I was talking about how a flower had tons of benefits because I’m into flowers as a guy and she said “benefits, what are you doing with them damn flowers?” And she started getting all giggly, but I didn’t know what to say back really to flirt I guess I just don’t really know how to flirt non sexually and show intent | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:40 AM |
| 0 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?If you’re saying, I can’t really hook up without knowing how to flirt. I just don’t really know if I understand how to flirt fully or how to start. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:38 AM |
| 2 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?OK, I just read your post and holy crap that’s actually very helpful. I really like the part where you was talking about how you would talk to these girls and you were kind of witty and it got them telling you to shut up. I’m good at stuff like that too, but I’m not sure if it comes off as flirty to most of the girls and friends with. They’ll say something like for example about like how theyre frame got a new car or something or got their dream retro car and they’ll tell me like how it’s having… | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:38 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?You’re right, but then how do you know that you’ve really flirted or that you all have been flirting enough to even bring up that conversation you think? Like I didn’t if you were in that situation when would you even bring up the conversation with the girl? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:04 AM |
| 5 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Not only do I have a general anxiety disorder but yes, I’m like 90% sure I’m on the spectrum lol kind of bad combination I’m not trying to sound weird or anything, but I feel like with this combination and the fact that I’ve kind of avoided ever flirting or anything due to my anxiety. I just genuinely do not get it at all. To answer your question about the bike, I understand that you can’t explain how to ride a bike, but there’s certain things in the process just like cooking that you could say … | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:03 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Am I kind of understanding what flirting is or do you still think I’m a bit off with my example? I’m just wondering because if I’m still a bit rough, do you have any advice for maybe I’m still not realizing or understanding with my examples ? Also, do you think a friendship could end from just flirting with this? | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:00 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?You know what you’re right it probably does sound a bit weird but my logic is this. I know that obviously friends do stuff with each other sometimes and it’s completely fine. The problem is though is I feel like most of the friends that I know who have done stuff like this either talked about it before and made it fully aware that they wanted nothing but to just have fun before they hooked up and everything ended fine or they didn’t talk about it and their friendship ended | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:58 PM |
| 4 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Yea I get what you’re saying but also I kind of feel like you can’t really do if you don’t know what it is or how to which is my problem Like it’s kind of like trying to tell somebody who’s never cooked before to cook a meal, but they’ve never used any of the ingredients | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:57 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?To be honest, I feel like I’m gonna get kind of caught up on, not knowing if it’s too far or not far enough when it comes to sexualizing things. Like there’s been plenty of times when maybe I could turn something that they said sexual or maybe I don’t know what to say back but it’s more than not knowing how to turn what they said sexual. Like some of the girls that I’m friends with what kind of mess around with me and I’m not sure if they’re actually meaning this or if they’re trying to get me t… | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:55 PM |
| 3 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?What type of physical play? Also, if you’re already doing innuendo then what should you do to really figure out if they’re wanting to hookup? The reason I ask is because I genuinely don’t wanna ruin a friendship and I would feel better talking about it before anything happens. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?By teasing, what do you mean something like this? “ I mean, you’re really cool for a girl that’s a fan of ___” or it’s not a bit too cringe? Also, what do you mean exactly by touching? I’m gonna go read your post in a second but to your point about innuendo me and a lot of the girls that I’m friends with I think do innuendo. For example, one time I was talking to a girl that I’m friends with and I mentioned something literally about how something had health benefits, and it was like a flower and… | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?How are you supposed to flirt though. That’s what I don’t understand and why I’m kind of bad at it. Nobody has ever been able to actually give me an example of or explain it to me. Apparently, my friend say that I miss it a whole lot | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:24 PM |
| 9 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?How are you supposed to flirt though. I’ve literally probably ask the lake five friends of mine that are super close with like two being guys and three being girls and not a single one has been able to explain flirting to me. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys genuinely have friendships for women but also hook up or FWB with them?Oh, I see. So like you have literally said the word to them though? Also, do you have any more examples of what else could be that sort of sexual joke because that wasn’t where I thought you were going with that Thanks for trying to explain, but I just don’t really understand how the joke was what you were saying | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How do some guys genuinely have friendships for women but also hook up or FWB with them?But like if she’s a friend is not still OK and especially like the sexual jokes or telling her she’s hot I mean, I’m fine with ending up any boyfriend and girlfriend relationship and I don’t mean to sound ignorant. When you say sexual though, what exactly do you mean like I know you mean make a sexual joke but do you mean like innuendo or like what would you consider a joke? | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that?Even if this girl is a friend? | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 11:46 AM |
| 2 | I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that?Would you say that you could say this to a girl that you’re already friends with though like closer friends? | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 03:58 AM |
| 2 | I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that?Do you have any specific video examples? Also, how do you work on sexual attention or demonstrating curiosity over text/IRL | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 03:33 AM |
| 1 | I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that?I don’t even understand how to go for onelol | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?How would playful banter, be expressing sexual interest? Also, when you say innuendo, can you give me an example because I’ve heard people describe it as a different thing | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Just straight up having a conversation with a girl friend about sex?It doesn’t usually happen like they’re asking me questions. Usually we’re talking about relationship stuff and then all of a sudden she mentions something sexual from relationship or something that she’s heard about from one of our mutual friends relationship. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Just straight up having a conversation with a girl friend about sex?Nah cause I could be reading it wrong and asking is way safer | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Just straight up having a conversation with a girl friend about sex?I admit they know I’m a virgin and they also know that it’s not because like I just don’t ever have a chance. I’ve had many of opportunities to go on dates with girls and even some of my friends have tried to set me up, but I’ve never really felt like I’ve been in a good position today because I’m pretty broke and still struggling to find a good job. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Just straight up having a conversation with a girl friend about sex?Yeah, but that’s the thing, I don’t know if the girl would want me to just kiss her all of a sudden. I would rather just not say anything if me actually saying something is weird. The only way that I’ve ever heard of these relationships are going bad is when somebody ends up having to ask when are we? | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Just straight up having a conversation with a girl friend about sex?So by making a move, should I ask like would that be OK or would there be a better way to go about it without just physically making a move? The reason I’m asking is because I don’t want to be super creepy by just randomly asking but also if I’m not reading the room right then going for like a kiss could kinda be weird | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I (M22) have no problem having conversations and becoming friends with women, but I seem to have trouble when it comes to being a bit sexual. I need advice.How should I be showing intention though and what type of physical touch should I do? | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I (M22) have no problem having conversations and becoming friends with women, but I seem to have trouble when it comes to being a bit sexual. I need advice.Like what types of challenges though like? | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I (M22) have no problem having conversations and becoming friends with women, but I seem to have trouble when it comes to being a bit sexual. I need advice.I guess I’m just confused though like how do you know that they are feeling sexual energy about you or how do you know if that’s the type of energy between you and how can you grow that? | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?See, I think pretty much everything is pretty good for me except for the flirting because I’ve been told by all my friends of both genders that I’m horrible at it They won’t try to explain to me how I should be doing it or anything, even though they understand how to. How are you supposed to? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?Wym? Can you explain a lil more? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?What about verbally? Is there a good way to explain that Orr try to give example because I think verbally I struggle | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What necessarily is game ?What techniques lead to sexual or romantic results? Like how do you flirt? | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about trying to hook up in a car or hotel on a date without coming off as weird ?Like make convo about anything? | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about trying to hook up in a car or hotel on a date without coming off as weird ?But like if we’re just driving around should I just all if she wants to eat in the car or something i just feel like in any of those scenarios we’re getting out the car | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about trying to hook up in a car or hotel on a date without coming off as weird ?My only confusion is why would me and the girl just be chilling in the car? Like I don’t mean to sound odd but what should I do to even be ons. Situation to be sitting just chilling anyways? Thanks for the advice | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 02:25 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about trying to hook up in a car or hotel on a date without coming off as weird ?What type of touch though and how should I make it more and how else should I flirt? | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about trying to hook up in a car or hotel on a date without coming off as weird ?How would I know that the girl is even wanting to have sex or anything like that though if you don’t mind me asking? I’m so confused about that because like my friends have talked about experiences that they’ve literally just tired of hanging out with the girls or the guys that they were friends with where your stuff turned from a platonic hang out to that and I don’t even understand. So I guess like if I’m on a date or something I also don’t really understand like, what would we be doing in the… | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allTo be fair, I already do pretty much all of that like you’re saying, but my friends say that I show no romantic or sexual attraction towards any girl that I’ve ever been into | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allTo be honest what I’d like to do is like casually date, but I guess see if anything develops in that. Light I do want something in the end of the casual dating, but I’m not sure how to explain it. My problem is though that I don’t even know how to flirt at all whatsoever. Like apparently I can do it non-verbally but my friends say I’m still really not good at it and my verbal flirting is just nonexistent. Any advice for how to verbally flirt | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allI do see where you’re coming from and I guess if I could tell you my experience a little bit, it might help you Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been attracted to a lot of the girls that I’m friends with, but also I don’t like ask them out or anything just because I’m attracted. There’s been girls that I’ve been friends with and I’ve gotten to know them over a couple of months maybe close to a year and although I’m still really good friends I’ve learned stuff about them and opinions that they have uncer… | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allYou know, I was kind of taking a walk and just kind of thinking about this I don’t know if this is exactly flirty or not or if it’s cringe, but I thought of some stuff like this. Maybe like a girl that’s a friend of mine says something about a music artist she likes and then I say that I like girls that are into that music artist I tried thinking more unlike the sexual side, but they all seem pushy to me, especially if I’m using them with a girl that I’m friends with. The only time I hear people… | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allWell, you know, I’m actually kind of glad that you’re at least trying to get my perspective because it means that you’re trying to understand This is how I see it. You’re asking what value can a girl have as a friend that a guy wouldn’t and the way that I answer that is I want to ask that the other way around, what value can a guy have that girl can’t as a friend? I would see half of my friend group is girls. They do everything just like the guys do, they’ll play video games with me, they’re int… | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:19 PM |
| 2 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allIt’s really not gonna be time we wasted. Do you just not see women as friends? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:35 PM |
| 2 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allI understand and thanks for trying to explain I’ll try to think of one later and maybe see if it’s flirting. Or not cause I’m confused too | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:22 PM |
| 0 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allWell I mean tbh if it don’t work out with a girl I’d wanna at least be friends | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allTo be honest, I don’t have any examples but that’s what I’m confused about. Like I know it’s different but what can be flirting? Like I know innuendo but what can be suggestive or sexual comment to flirt? How would you describe flirting? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allIf you’re asking what I’m scared of about using any window or making suggestive comments is since pretty much I’m mainly into like girls within my friend group. I’m scared of them finding it creepy or something like if we’ve never been on a date and I’m saying stuff like that. Now that I think about it, though, I don’t even understand the difference between innuendo and a suggestive comment. Like I guess how do I make a suggestive comment in like is that considered flirting | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allWhat would be the difference between suggestive remarks and sexual innuendo? Also, I’ve thought about using innuendo or making suggestive comments and sometimes I do even have the emotional/sexual conversations, but I didn’t really know that was flirting I’ve been more scared to make innuendo or suggestive comments though | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 03:11 PM |
| 2 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allIs there any other ways because I feel like I do that already but they say that that’s just being a friend and that’s literally like a unanimous thing throughout my friend group that they tell me. They’ve also said that calling a girl pretty or something like that or saying that she looks good. Starting outfit is also just being friendly. The most they’ve told me is, I need to be very risky and probably a bit sexual, but I’m not really sure where to go with that | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Need help to get a girlfriendTo be honest, none of them have ever done that. I’m just kind of not really sure what I should do especially since I don’t know how to show that I’m attracted. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allWhat am I supposed to do though like how do I escalate especially if it’s a girl that’s like my friend | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Need help to get a girlfriendI’m actually pretty good at becoming friends or women but as far as I know, no girl has ever flirted with me whatsoever or is attracted to me so I don’t know where to go from there | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet women in university?Are you kind of cooked? If literally everybody around you has been invited to a college party but you? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 02:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet women in university?OK, sorry if this is a stupid question, but I’m kind of in a weird spot right now where to be honest I’m kind of just getting over my anxiety and although I have friends, I’ve made them all from friends that I was already friends with If I’m just going up to a girl and saying hi then how am I supposed to keep the conversation going like if we don’t have anything to talk about? I’m just confused. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?Did you mean inside the car and also I don’t have my own place but neither do a lot of people my age so is that a problem at all? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?I do love being around women, most of my friends are actually women I would say, and I seem to be able to hold more conversations. I feel like with women than most guys. I see what you’re saying now but I just don’t understand still like if you all are on a date and usually it’s like going out to eat and stuff. Why would y’all just be parked? (I’m probably slow as fuck for asking that) I’ve heard a couple of my friends say stuff like that how they met up with some of their home girls or somethin… | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?Wouldn’t she probably expect us to be driving though? Just didn’t know what I’m supposed to really do like how should I go about even just chilling in the car? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 12:36 PM |
| 5 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?Probably gonna be a weird question, but I guess like if most of stuff happened for you inside of a car I guess I’m wondering like how did it become that just from like talking? I’m just wondering because like I don’t really understand and if you’re just like hanging out with a girl, what are you all doing in a car to just be randomly hanging out? I don’t mean that question judgmental. I’m just trying to figure it out because I feel like I would be very awkward. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 04:35 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?Thanks, and I just dm actually | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?OK, I see now and that makes a lot more sense. Just wanted to make sure I was getting this right | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?Thanks for the advice and this is probably gonna sound stupid to ask, but like I guess if you’re in a car with your date and just like talking and stuff before you like making out like the other comments have said I’m wondering, why does it seem like so many people are in their cars or in a car just talking and listening to music? Like I’m not saying that sounds bad or anything but where I’m pretty inexperienced in dating also I just feel like usually all I hear is that you all go do what you we… | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 02:14 AM |
| 3 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?Well, it’s not that like I can’t bring a girl over and do that, but it would actually need to be a girl that like I saw a long-term future with and that I was in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship I just don’t know how I’m supposed to necessarily bring up that idea of like doing it in the car or in a field or going to another city and doing a getaway Especially with the car and field, though I’m not even sure how to bring something like that up. Any advice? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?Thank you so much for the advice and I’m sorry that I keep on asking. Stupid questions but how should I escalate? And just to make sure I’m getting this right it’s OK to kind of ask them even if I haven’t kissed them yet or we haven’t made out | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 01:12 AM |
| 2 | How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?But when might you even say something like that if you don’t mind me asking and I’m not trying to be weird asking that Like I guess, would it be while you all are kissing or like even before you might ask? Were you unusually just talking in your car or something like that? | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 12:31 AM |
| 2 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?Hey, another comment or kind of just brought me back to this post and I saw the comment again and I was just gonna ask real quick When you are talking about inviting a girl on a date, even though you’re wanting a friend of benefits and not actually something serious serious, how would you do that? What I’m wondering is like would it be like a girl that one of your friends is friends with and if so, like I guess how would you go about talking to her about that or when would you talk to her about … | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But like if I’m asking on a date or continue then it is so idk when to ask or tell her that? | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But if I go in with no expectation but don’t want serious rn at least what should I do? | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 11:38 PM |
| 0 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?The how should I make sure she knows it’s FWB or that’s what I’m wanting at least | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I’m not gonna lie. I’m very confused by your last sentence or last couple of sentences. Like when you say be intentional/don’t be involved/don’t be fake. What do you mean by being intentional but don’t be vulgar? Like how am I supposed to stimulate her mind and create the attraction and how should I know if she’s attracted? Also if you’re already friends, how does this even happen? | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But like how would you personally bring it up because I feel like that wouldn’t just come up naturally | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 01:55 PM |
| 0 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?So should I actually ask them out on actual dates or should I just say wanna hang out? | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?How is that not manipulating though? You’re flirting with a girl, giving her compliments, talking and joking about sexual stuff and then you all actually getting intimate and then you’re telling her that you didn’t want anything serious | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But like when are you supposed to tell somebody your intent? Like especially in the different scenario is like if it’s just a random hookup with friends or your on date? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?Wym can you give examples? Sorry if that’s bad question | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But I’m confused, like I know you said you’re still on dates and have fun, but I’ve also heard that you should or should not be talking about what you are wanting from the first date I’m just not really sure what to do. Mike because literally the same friends that have told me that I shouldn’t be asking my day what they are wanting from our dates have also told me that I should also be asking on the first date. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I don’t really know how to explain that | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But what if she never brings it up and just kind of assumes that it’s something serious and then when she asked me and I don’t wanna be serious | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But so if car stuff isn’t really ideal and can’t be set up then how should I make it an option? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?What should I do, though about my living situation you think? Cause like I said whenever I’m at my brothers there’s kids in the house. One of them is closer to my age but still. So unless it’s literally like a girlfriend, I can’t just be bringing over like a girl that’s not serious with me, and even if I did bring a girl that was serious, we would need to be probably actually committed. Same with my mom’s house like they would both expect me to be introducing them and stuff that either place so … | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I live with family in two different locations throughout the week so I guess it’s probably not gonna happen for me even if I’m like actually dating. Like legitimately unless I am boyfriend and girlfriend or it is about to be that at any point then I can’t just bebringing a girl. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?OK, now I’m very confused. I’m sorry I am a little bit autistic so this is why I’m having so much trouble. When I’m getting in, both situations is like whether you are going out to like meet new women like you’re saying and being friendly and getting to know them, how was this actually turning into like you all end up sleeping together at the end of it? Like I know you could flirt and say maybe like sexual innuendo or double edged comments but like how did it go from more than that? Also, I mean… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?That’s the weird thing, though, I live in a kind of odd situation right now. For about three days a week I’ll stay over at my mom‘s on one side of town and whenever I’m working I’m over at my brothers. On my days I’m at my brothers. It’s kind of a smaller house with thin walls and my nephews who are younger live with us one’s closer to my age, but once a literal kid and unless like I’m for sure, gonna be serious with a girl, they probably wouldn’t want me bringing anybody over At my mom‘s, it wo… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?Well, I mean to your point of what doesn’t work for one person it might work for another, I know for a fact that like all of my friends that have hooked up and stuff like that together are all still friends and they were genuinely friends for like a while before ever doing anything Like my friends would genuinely tell me about about like one stuff was starting since we all just literally talk about anything. If I’m being completely honest, though, if I can’t genuinely be friends and be friends w… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?OK, this helps a little bit more. Girls aren’t uncomfortable with my eye contact so I guess that can be a good thing but I don’t really have like my own place or anywhere that I could bring them over private really if I wanted to hook up. So like I’ve never even cuddled with a girl and I’m just not really sure like if I don’t have my own place then what really should I do? Like I know there could be somewhere like a hotel, Airbnb, even the car, but especially in situations like a car or late nig… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?That’s the thing, though, whenever I’m like at my brothers for example I’m usually working during the days and at night everybody’s home, including my nephews who are younger than me and I’m not gonna lie a family member that was also living there at one time before me tried to bring in tons of girls And tried to sneak them in and he literally almost got kicked out. It’s not because he brought a girl over but he had tried to bring like three or four girls over and they weren’t like dating or ser… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I really appreciate the advice and especially at the end there where you was talking about how like just try to go for a hug or hold your hand out and try to dance or something. I’m still kind of confused but I guess like when I’m confused about is like if you are trying to make them think of you as a friend, then they could also have sex with. How are you supposed to do that? I know you tried explaining it, but I feel like I do most of the stuff like you said to like being interested in their h… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?Oh, so it is OK to probably use innuendo and dirty jokes with girls that you’re friends with too? Just asking because I already kind of do that, but I am not like crazy with it cause I don’t wanna make them feel weird or anything and not only that but I just have kind of been careful about it. Could I ask though like after you all have already been been doing stuff like that like I guess how did it become more like how did it go from flirting like that to y’all sleeping? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I just don’t quite understand what you mean when you say allow myself to experience more erotic charge | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I know I’m kind of worrying and overthinking this probably but when you say having fun and stuff like that, what exactly do you mean and did you do anything more than compliments? I’m autistic too and I mean I can get any of the girls that I’m friends with to laugh, but I just don’t understand how it goes farther than complements and teasing and laughing and stuff like that like, how did it actually turn into y’all went into private like who made a move over how or what happened? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I do get outside and do stuff. I just don’t do car meets right now, although I would like to because I am in the cars. Like I can do small talk with anybody and that’s how I’ve made most of my friends. My friends will be all hanging out and then they’ll bring somebody so I’ll start talking to the girl or guy, but I’m just using girl for this example and I’ll start some small talk get their Instagram and we’ll talk even more and get to know each other. So it’s not that I don’t know how to talk to… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:27 PM |
| 2 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I’m a guy and only into women | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But like, how does that happen in dating even I know that’s gonna sound like a stupid question It seems like with most of my friends they’ve maybe like met a girl or for my friends that are girls they’ve met a guy at a hobby and they get to know each other a little bit maybe talk and just become friends for like two or three weeks and tease each other a little But then they’ll go hang out one on one and it seems to always turn into a hook up, even if it is the only friends | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:17 PM |
| 2 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I’d rather stay a virgin than go to a hooker. No offense to hookers, they’re nice people, but if somebody’s gonna actually sleep with me, I wanted to be out of them wanting to. The whole reason I’m a virgin is because I straight up haven’t tried ever. Like I’ve had opportunities for my friends tried to set me up on dates, but I was in a really bad spot mentally so I said no because I didn’t want to miss anybody’s feelings up. I’m not scared of talking to women either, like half of my friends are… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I would say that It’s honestly probably a mix of brotherly but also sex because like I would talk to them very seriously like if there’s shit going on in their lives and actually genuinely talk to them and give advice and let them vent to me and just try to be somebody to lean on but at the same time, we will tease each other really hard and laugh about it and sometimes we even say sexual shit to each other like double edged comments or innuendo I drink like maybe one can of Mike’s lemonade like… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?How can you be flirty and respectful? I know that might sound like a weird question but I’m asking my friend who literally gave me the advice to be flirty yet he can’t give any examples and that’s how clueless I am when it comes to flirting. Like I can give them compliments, but even the girls that I’m friends with that’s kind of not really flirting. So I guess in your situation, you were trying to seriously date them or you were dating them for a little while but then you all just talked about … | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But how do you even get to the point of hooking up and stuff is what I’m confused about and when are you supposed to talk about what you’re wanting with them? I’m a virgin and I was literally never even cuddled with a girl so that’s why I’m so confused and I don’t have my own place either but to be fair nobody my age really does or really has roommates either. Like when you say escalate physically with recital touches, what exactly do you mean? | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?So like you wouldn’t discuss what you’re wanting out of the dates on the first couple of dates? At least in your experience, when is the time usually been right? I know that I feel bad easily so like if I have sleep with a girl and then I realized I didn’t want more with her. I would wanna bring it up sooner rather than later to make sure that she’s fine with something casual (I mean that I wouldn’t want something based off of like relationship views) | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I mean, I have hobbies and stuff, but I’m just not sure how a hobby turns into any of this like it does for my friends because it seems like literally every single one of my friends which is a pretty big friend group. Have all have luck. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:24 PM |
| 3 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?I’m probably about to sound very stupid, but if you’re willing to give advice on this, I would greatly appreciate it Nothing is stopping me from going to the same car meets, but I guess the thing that is messing me up is like I would also like to make friends and of course, make friends that our girls also. So yeah, I do wanna hook up, but what I don’t understand is like if I’m going to these meet and meeting girls and becoming friends with them how does anything end up becoming a hook up? My fr… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?Yeah, but how do I know if a woman wants to sleep with me? And I know that manipulation isn’t needed, but I’m saying like I just don’t understand how I’m supposed to do any of this in the first place . | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But like don’t people usually talk about what they’re wanting to be on the first date? Sorry if that’s a stupid question, but I am very inexperienced and could use some advice. Like I know at least from my best friend’s experience, he said that what happened was he met girls from hobbies and they would be talking and be friends for a couple of weeks or a month even and then he’d ask if they want to go hang out one on one, and then somehow it seems to have led to more happening Like when you say … | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:21 PM |
| 2 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?But how am I supposed to meet people though like most of my friends met to be honest from car meets because it’s very 50-50 when it comes to the gender and it seems like with all of them they went from literally meeting there to hanging out one on one and then like a week or two later, they’re all hooking up I’m just not sure how I’m supposed to go about even getting laid in the first place like how I should meet people or anything because I just said in another comment that I don’t drink or go … | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?Thank you so much for this big explanation. After reading it it seems like I do most of the stuff you’re talking about. Like I’m really good friends with a lot of women and also I talked to them just like the guys. And I know that flirting isn’t all pick up lines but other than the band here that you gave like about being a white Sox fan, I don’t really know how to flirt or show that I have any sexual or romantic interest Also, if me and none of my friends drink or go out to parties and bars, th… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Best way to get with older women?How do you hit on anybody? I’m kind of new to the whole dating scene to be honest I don’t really know how to hit on people or flirt with anyone | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How do friends or people that are becoming friends usually hook up if they’re not on a date?How does it go further after laying on the couch/cuddle though? Like what would even come next? I just don’t quite understand cause like if you don’t know if they’re into you, i just don’t understand | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do friends or people that are becoming friends usually hook up if they’re not on a date?Idk I mean like 90% of my friends went from friends to lovers How am o supposed to show my romantic or sexual intrest if idk how to flirt? How can I flirt? How can you go from lovers to friends too like how does that even work out especially if you don’t work out as romantic | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 02:06 PM |
| 4 | How do friends or people that are becoming friends usually hook up if they’re not on a date?Can you maybe try to explain what you mean a little bit more when you say making my intentions clear and lacking the sexual shame? I just don’t know how I’m supposed to build a skill if I don’t know how to even try | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 02:09 AM |
| 5 | How do friends or people that are becoming friends usually hook up if they’re not on a date?Me and none of my Friends drink tbh | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 01:28 AM |
| 3 | I can’t get women no matter what i do. It seems impossibleI got a problem that I’m actually trying to lose weight right now, but I’m still overweight quite a bit Is it still the same answer and what do you really mean by confidence? Like I can be myself and stuff, but I can’t really flirt or anything. | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to flirt but being autistic is kind of getting in the way, can y’all try to explain it and maybe give example examples?I think it deleted your reply | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to flirt but being autistic is kind of getting in the way, can y’all try to explain it and maybe give example examples?Kinda but it was us just talking on Xbox and I didn’t know this but my homie was hooking up with her too so idk It was us just talking and goofing off like both of us just messing and she was all giggly and shit whenever I talked and we called each other funny shit | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I can give compliments to a girl and stuff, but feel like I can never up my flirting, and don’t really know how I should do that. Any advice?I mean, I’m already good with how you’re talking, like being able to hold a conversation with a stranger and being quick on my feet, but that’s more I’m quick on my feet of being able to think of stuff to talk about or being witty I’m just saying, I’m not really sure how to build an attraction | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 02:05 AM |
| 1 | I can give compliments to a girl and stuff, but feel like I can never up my flirting, and don’t really know how I should do that. Any advice?I don’t use it to open dialogue and most of the people that I’m trying to flirt with already friends so I don’t quite understand how to do that | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Asking her what she likesYour am saying “she wants a guy who gets it” but if you don’t know what she likes the your gonna have a lot of mediocre sex or bad sex that she probably won’t enjoy Look let’s agree to disagree because you don’t sound like a incel and I don’t think I do either but we definitely have different views | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I can give compliments to a girl and stuff, but feel like I can never up my flirting, and don’t really know how I should do that. Any advice?I’m gonna have to watch that video in just a little bit and I really appreciate you for linking it Yeah, a lot of the videos were saying give compliments but then also don’t give compliments and make sure to act super mysterious and don’t open up to the girl you want and just a whole lot of stuff that just didn’t really sound like flirting | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I can give compliments to a girl and stuff, but feel like I can never up my flirting, and don’t really know how I should do that. Any advice?I’ve tried YouTube, but pretty much everything that I see is just saying to complement the girls and stuff like that and that’s about it | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Asking her what she likesYou don’t even know me buddy If you’re not asking what your girl is into then you’re straight up not caring about what she wants. And your lack of experience is showing a lot too. If this is how you’re thinking it sounds like you’re young It’s completely normal to talk about sex with your girl and talk about what she wants to try and what she’s been liking or not liking. That’s how people grow. Good sex lives. | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Asking her what she likesOK, it really doesn’t but I guess whatever floats your boat Feel bad for who ever you’ve been dating lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Asking her what she likesIf she doesn’t wanna talk about it, she’s not mature enough to have sex. Not trying to be rude, but that just kind of sounds stupid. Partners aren’t just mind readers who know what each other is going to enjoy or what not | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How are guys getting dates/hook ups from Instagram?When they’re talking, I don’t understand what is leading to it My friend says that he’s even done this with the girls that he’s friends with but he says to flirt and I don’t understand how to. He says to make sexual order drop a flirty comment, but I don’t know what a flurry comment really could be either. Like I guess if you have different examples of hypothetical ways to flirt, that could help me understand the vibe I would appreciate | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 12:11 PM |
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