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I will not get married because I think it is pointless and also financially stupid, but at the same time I don’t care if my gf has gotten nutted in because I’ve nutted in a bunch of other women too. Also it’s kind of hot thinking of her getting nutted in, just like it’s hot thinking of the girls I’ve nutted in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:00 PM
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I think this is fairly accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:46 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:45 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:13 PM
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There is some subjectivity, but this is a “know it when you see it” issue, kind of like describing what porn is. On a beach, there is a presumption of necessity because of the weather and water. At a club, the intentionality has changed to attraction seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:02 AM
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True, and justified. Women are pretty much playing dressup, more like children than adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:23 AM
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This is going to sound horrible, but this is why cultures have controlled women since time immemorial. At some point, it’s either force them to benefit the tribe or the tribe dies. We really don’t need women to work, they don’t really accomplish anything amazing invention-wise, they don’t run any important infrastructure. They basically just run useless admin jobs. We may get to a point societally where men need to say “alright time to fix this shit” and put them back in the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:10 PM
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Roll boys: I’m hoping for 3,4 or 5
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:49 PM
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Same, it’s just convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:38 AM
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Honestly I don’t really mind. I think it’s sweet unless someone were purposely doing it to be controlling and paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:38 AM
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I think it would depend on the person, but I’ve done stuff with a virgin girl before and once she started rubbing my dick I could immediately tell she was inexperienced, and I pumped the brakes because I didn’t want to pump and dump someone who wanted a relationship when I wasn’t serious about her. If there was a girl who was just adamant about waiting and was a really good person I wouldn’t care. Short answer is I don’t care that much. It’s not super important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:01 PM
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Mine isn’t genetic, I laser/shave/electrolysis it off. Idk dude I think I get pretty good women all things considered. I’d say I’m a 6.5/10 in looks and I’m okay shape and that’s pretty much what I pull. Every woman I’ve ever dated has actually liked that I wear nail polish, or that I like anal stuff. Like I’ve had women love to rim me. I think being like “ew I won’t do that, that’s gay” is actually more repulsive to women than being confident in who you are. I would dump any woman that didn’t a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:59 PM
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I think it’s just a perception of a bigger taller guy hitting some lizard brain feelings. In reality, if you are in a rich country, it’s quite rare that you’d ever be in a situation where you need physical brawn, and on top of that, no amount of gym time can match a gun, which a 4’10 girl could carry. Not saying it’s that simple as physical advantages can certainly be helpful, but overall I think it’s more of a feeling from women rather than a practical set of scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:36 PM
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The post is talking about how you need to be hyper masculine to get women. I’m just saying I’m not hyper masculine and I get women, so it seems like there is something wrong with that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:33 PM
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I’m not saying that’s an ideal way to date, but it’s also not necessarily wrong. People can change viewpoints on things especially in the context of a long marriage. People can think something is okay but then later on start to get bothered by it. You talk like someone who hasn’t been in a long term relationship. Let’s say you started dating a guy who smokes weed and you are like “yeah I’m cool with that, I really like him, not my favorite thing but he’s worth it”. Then as the relationship progr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:31 PM
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Are you conforming another person to your needs when you don’t want them to fuck another girl/guy? What about oral? What about kissing? You can see it’s more about where the line is drawn. Jonah’s line is just different from yours, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:08 PM
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Dude. Women aren’t as simple as you think. I’m 6’1 (masculine), paint my nails (feminine), ambitious (masculine), no hair on my body except for my hair (feminine) I have 0 trouble getting laid. On dating sites I get 20-30 matches a week. You don’t need to be hardcore masc to get a good girl. Just be confident and comfortable in your own skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:08 PM
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Precisely. We date people we are compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:05 PM
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I don’t see a demand. I see him respecting her choices but doing what is best for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:04 PM
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Uh yeah, if she told me I couldn’t do X, I would tell her it seems like we aren’t compatible and then find a different girl. Not that hard. I wouldn’t try to damage her life and farm clout and virtue signal to a bunch of harpies as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:10 PM
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So true. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:09 PM
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Nope, if a woman suddenly had a problem with my lifestyle, I’d just say we aren’t compatible and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:07 PM
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Wrong. Relationships are almost always about compromising prior behavior. The most obvious being that most of us aren’t “allowed” to have sex with another person. But wait! It doesn’t stop there. Probably no oral either, or handjobs, or kissing! Oh man sounds pretty controlling! You would break up with me if I kissed another girl??? What?? So controlling, stop telling me what to do. You are trying to “coerce me to change my behavior and just calling it boundaries!” For some people, that line is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:05 PM
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Hard times create strong men brother. And I see the tide building.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:01 PM
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Dude if your “experts” are therapists, you are retarded. Plus no “expert” worth their salt would comment on this situation without all the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:58 PM
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Hot take: you can end a relationship for any reason. If Jonah doesn’t like the bikini pics, she is welcome to leave. He isn’t telling her what to do, just telling her what he is comfortable with and that he will find a better partner if she doesn’t meet his emotional needs. He did nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:56 PM
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I've slept with ~18 women, so not super low or super high. At 20, being a virgin isn't super rare or an issue. If a woman was a virgin by age 25 or so and wasn't religious, I'd probably start wondering if there were mental health issues. I would probably find it just mildly unattractive (*if you were older*) because I would want someone with at least some dating/sexual experience. But key takeaway is that you are SUPER young. My girlfriend at age 20 was a virgin and I only had had 2 sexual partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:29 AM
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9/10 times one of us catches feelings so IMO not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:09 PM
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This is correct. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:31 PM
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Don’t start by asking this sub hahah a lot of men on here have very limited dating experience or don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like. I’d look for someone that shares your values, and try to practice good communication and mutual respect. Everything else falls downstream
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:46 AM
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Nope. I never said women don't care about attraction, I just said it is less of a variable than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:47 PM
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true, but that goes for all human mating so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:57 PM
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women are definitely into looks, I'm just saying that personality is also a factor for them mores than men. you are also dealing with online dating, which puts men at a disadvantage. im not trying to disagree super hard, I know dating is tougher for men. im a man. I get it. im just saying that we have a tendency to look at female attraction through a male lens, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:31 PM
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Well, obviously don't be fat and unhygienic as well lol, women are held to the same standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:29 PM
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You're making the same mistake everyone here does. The absolutely do find normal men attractive, just not in a physical lineup with no knowledge of the guy. Women would find these normal men attractive if they had other things like personality or ambition. You are viewing female sexuality through a male lens. Men could line up and rate women, women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:00 PM
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You’re way too stupid to talk to. Do a quick google search on race and IQ, it’s not hard to find. Egypt wasn’t black people. The others are not notable. None of your links were important inventions. I don’t care about peanut butter, I care about transistors and generative AI. Also, these are magazine articles, which shows how retarded you are. Read some actual literature. You must be so brave sharing your publicly accepted beliefs lol. It’s not cowardly, it’s smart. I wouldn’t sacrifice a positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:47 AM
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Background is in biochemistry, but I don't specifically work on genetics so I'm certainly not an authority there. Here's a paper that will get you started on the heritability of intelligence: https://www.nature.com/articles/nrg.2017.104 I can assume you know next to nothing about genetics since the heritability of intelligence is common knowledge. And yes, can you name a thriving society in Africa? Tell me, what is the "New York" or "Tokyo" or "London" of Africa? >All those men Asian/white/Jewis…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:49 AM
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Not sure what your intention is here but it sounds like you just want to score imaginary internet dunk points and sound smart. I’m really just interested in finding truth and building a good society so if you are interested in the same thing we can actually talk about the substance. I actually think my background lends a specific understanding of this topic that is probably missed by the general population. The reality is that genetics is a far greater indicator of outcomes than we’d like to ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:55 AM
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I'm not sure I see the issue, unless you have a braindead approach to politics where you blanket accept all the positions of a group. I do think race is pretty important unfortunately. For a future society, we are going to really need to look at the impact of genetics on aggression and intelligence. You can't build an optimal society with unintelligent criminals, which unfortunately encapsulates a much larger share of blacks than any other group. There are racial groups that have literally never…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:03 AM
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In my experience, high body count isn’t something women value the way men do. If you have a high count as a man, you’re more likely to turn a girl off as she may think she is expendable. It’s less of a turnoff than it is for men though, because of sexual purity and women’s ease of access.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:14 PM
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I’d say there probably aren’t any. As a scientist, women in science are usually dead weight honestly, and they usually are really obnoxious in positions of power. Abortion is being pushed way too heavily. Women want all the benefits of traditional femininity (protection, provider, courtship) while simultaneously wanting all the career power and benefits of being a man. Women are becoming more comfortable being whores, which I think is bad for society. I actually used to be more progressive but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:56 PM
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Okay so let's say you have a population of 4, 2 men and 2 women. Women: 1 fucks 2 guys, the other is a virgin. Men: Both fuck the same chick. The average sex had is 1 per person, but you are more likely to find a girl with a lower body count. Do you see what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:09 AM
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I never said my N was high, nor do I care. I’m just saying that most of the women on avg had less sexual partners. Looking at averages tells you nothing about distribution. The average girl definitely has less sexual partners. There are just some crowds that skew the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:02 PM
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My body count is 17. The girls I have been in long term relationships with had body counts of: 0 0 2 5 3 and 3. I’ve fucked girls with higher body counts but that has only been a few times and I wouldn’t date those girls for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:36 AM
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You’re so wrong dude. I’ve had gfs will bodycounts of 0 0 1 5 3 and 3 in that order. Mine is 17. And no these people weren’t lying. Normal women wouldn’t lie about that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:32 AM
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>men are notoriously bad at that exactly, part of why women aren't interested. they aren't getting the whole picture of the guy which is what they need to really be attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:54 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure that's true. And that bar isn't 10/10 guys. It's probably not far from where yours is. And no, I totally disagree. I'm like a 6/10, not a pretty boy and certainly not super masculine outside of being tall and aggressive in personality. I literally wear nail polish, laser off all my body hair, have my nipples pierced, and like anal stuff from my gfs, and I get more than 20 matches a week on Bumble. I think men and women are pretty equal in terms of physical attractiveness. Dude if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:51 AM
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Nobody said that women don’t value physical attraction. I’m saying they value it less than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:49 AM
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I didn’t mean any of that in a personal way, but I understand if you took it that way. I have felt all those things personally at some point so I’m speaking generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:31 PM
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Idk why you are being so confrontational to me, I feel like I’m being really nice to you dude. I do list my height because height is attractive to some women. I never said that women have no physical attraction. I said that it’s less of a factor than it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:10 PM
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Aww, thank you! It’s just been annoying me lately so I felt compelled to make a post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:55 PM
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I’m worried about doxxing myself, but this is my profile biography text: “6’1. STEM PhD candidate. Value emotional maturity/communication/transparency. Homebody, but 🍃 friendly. Enjoy poli/philosophy convos, cooking, piano/guitar, etc. Not interested in hookups.” But I’d say it’s most important to just know who you are and highlight that. I’m sure most women swipe left on me as well and that’s okay. But for those that like my package, it will be a fit. And if you are talking about thousands of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:36 PM
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Yes, most people aren’t going to be interesting to women. Honestly, I’m a guy and most women aren’t interesting to me. I would fuck a lot of them but I wouldn’t date a lot of them. I swipe right on only maybe 20% or less of women on Bumble and I do fairly well for myself (prolly 20 matches a week). And I’m not hot, I’m like a 6/10. Women definitely value physical attractiveness too, I’m just saying that it’s less of the equation than for men because for women, who they fuck and who they date are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:50 PM
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Oh absolutely. Women also don’t always understand the needs and lens of men. I always encourage both men and women to listen to each others’ experiences and try to understand. This understanding will lead to much healthier relationships. A lot of issues on both ends stem from insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:30 PM
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Yes, exactly (unironically). Because most of those men aren’t interesting personality-wise to them. And it’s the reason less women use online dating in general. Their attraction is much more based on taking the whole person in as a package. You are viewing this as a looks lineup, which is how men work sexually for the most part, but women aren’t like that. So you cry unfairness when in reality women are playing a completely different game. I know it stings as a guy to see women have a million ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:28 PM
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It’s not that it’s better or worse, just different. Just more tied to other qualities than looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:58 PM
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I don’t know what purge week is lol The men in this thread still aren’t understanding what I’m trying to say because they can only conceive of female attraction through the lens of male attraction. It’s so tiresome… Oh well I guess that just means more women for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:57 PM
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You are literally the reason I made this post. You just can’t conceive that women don’t view attraction the same way so you are projecting the male lens on them. Women do find average men hot if they build a connection with them and like them. They don’t see raw physicality satisfactory by itself the way men do, but that has no bearing on whether the men are attractive or not. Do you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:54 PM
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Why do you say that? I know tons of white people who struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:10 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 01:02 PM
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That’s because you aren’t attracted to men goofball.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 12:33 AM
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Dude you are saying this from the position of a man. You aren’t attracted to men, of course you don’t find them attractive. Women do, hence the propagation of the species. Obviously women have an easier time dating, but that doesn’t mean they don’t also obsess over men the way men do over women. You need to get out of the red pill death spiral. It will unironically make it harder for you to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 12:30 AM
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Idk why you bother arguing here. The men here are mostly going to be those having trouble dating and they will cling to redpill bs to cope. I do think women have an obvious advantage dating, but most of the redpill shit is absurd. I’m pretty dominant as a guy but I can’t watch F&F for more than 5 min because 1) they are unironically sexist to a degree that is just embarrassing, and 2) they are actually socially cringe and it’s clear they aren’t valued for anything but money. I can’t imagine a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:24 PM
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You do have big vulva energy 😎 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:16 PM
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This is overly simplistic. First, the men on this sub are way more likely to be struggling, else they wouldn’t be on here so much. Second, female-female bonds are far different than male-male bonds. I don’t think it’s as simple as “just fix it”, I think it’s kind of hardwired biologically. I’m not sure what it is but I think it’s rooted in sexuality somehow, because too much male-male emotion feels “gay” or something you would just want with a woman, but women are comfortable with these submissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:15 PM
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I’ve attracted a fairly diverse set of women, all races. Yeah I’d say most of them would be good mothers. Despite how it may seem based on the comment, I’m fairly conservative in relationships so no partying or slutty stuff, etc. I’d say that I generally date moderate liberal ish women, not really conservative, but that’s basically what I am so it fits. Not going to post face for obvious reasons, but I’d say looks wise I’m a 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:15 AM
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I’m not macho or stoic, I’m emotionally expressive and I don’t pay as much attention to gender roles as others. I paint my nails, shave my body hair, pierced my nipples and ears, etc. I honestly have 0 trouble picking up women. Now I do have an ambitious personality and I’m 6’1 so maybe it’s that, but I’ll tell you that the people I’m the most worried about in terms of judgment are other men. Women have always been cool with me genderbending in and out of relationships. It’s generally conservati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:37 PM
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Yeah that’s the point of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:51 AM
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That’s literally my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:19 PM
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I wouldn’t say they are accepted in normal culture by any means
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:55 PM
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I’ve seen that skit!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:55 PM
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Honestly I’m not fat but I’m also not skinny, and I almost always have dated women who were super thin. If women love your personality they are actually very accepting. I am 6’1 tho for full disclosure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:56 PM
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That’s good to know. I guess whenever I’m in a relationship, my girlfriends are always cool and supportive, but I feel a lot more judged by “society”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:07 AM
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Yes but I feel like there is less leeway for men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:05 AM
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I’m a scientist so it’s just not the crowd that it would work for haha. But I live in a very liberal city as well so outside work sometimes I will have it on in public. Sometimes I wonder how many straight men do that but never tell anyone, because nobody would think I would do anything approximating that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:04 AM
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I mean, yeah for sure, but like, why is it not laughed at when women do horoscopes or healing crystals the way men would be not taken seriously at all if he did the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:32 AM
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Men cannot get away with this in work environments, come on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:30 AM
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Funnily enough, I actually do paint my nails often, but it’s private and only with partners (who always are really accepting of it. I find the girls I date to be either neutral or like it, although maybe they are just being supportive?). However, I rarely go into public like that because I certainly wouldn’t be taken seriously as a professional scientist with black nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:28 AM
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I mean, I paint my nails and wear earrings but in private and only w my partners. I don’t usually go out in public like that but my girlfriends have always been cool with it. But men definitely can’t get away w it in many circles. I would absolutely not be taken seriously at work with black nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:26 AM
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