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| 1 | How do I stop feeling like a cute friend to women and start actually feeling sexually attractive to them the way they look at other men?To be fair, I never said anything along the lines of "put out or goodbye", nor did I insinuate sex was automatically on the table, lots of relationships dont include sex. I also think someone who wants to be friends first can make that statement, and if the potential for a relationship is on the table based on that outcome, then OP can jump through that hoop if they'd like. It seems to me, OP is talking about people(women) who dont view him as an option for dating/sexually and ONLY as a friend..… | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling like a cute friend to women and start actually feeling sexually attractive to them the way they look at other men?Work on being the best you - if that means working out, do that. If you have no desire being uber buff, at least be healthy. If you have trauma go somewhere to deal with it, therapist, camping, retreat with friends, solo adventure... whatever it is, start dealing with it. Work on being good-if not great- at something. Competence is attractive. Excellence is sexy Write a list of what you NEED & what you WILL NOT ACCEPT in a partner, relationship, friendship, acquaintance. Write it down and make s… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling like a cute friend to women and start actually feeling sexually attractive to them the way they look at other men?Tell her; if she doesnt reciprocate decide if you just want to be friends or if you still want more.(depending how long agothe relationship ended may play a part) If you are okay with friends, be her friend. If you still want more; recognize that and bow out of the situation, gracefully. You wont actually be her friend, and she isnt giving you what you want, it's a one sided relationship at best and will only cause you stress and be disingenuous to her. Work on yourself, meet other people, let l… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling like a cute friend to women and start actually feeling sexually attractive to them the way they look at other men?It's not about being mysterious. In the "disappearing" they should be straight forward, because while he isnt entitled to have her romantically, she isnt entitled to have him as a friend if that's not what the other is looking for. It's about not always being available, having your own life, making decisions about benefitting your life, putting your energy into productive places and making yourself the best you, rather than spinning your wheels with someone who isnt interested, with what you cur… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:27 PM |
| 5 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?As long as you arent approaching 16 year olds in a mall a 30 year old approaching someone within a respectable age range won't be viewed as creepy inherently. Same with grocery store, book store, etc. I'm 32 and have met a few people at these kinds of locations. HOW you do it, will make the difference. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:18 PM |
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