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Big_Stomper/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 06:54 PM
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FR to add examples from your post.... when my LTR moved in with me, the “sneak over in the middle of the night” fun was over; I was home after work and so was she. The crazy sex life and getting blow jobs upon first glance waned. I knew what was up, and began spending more time doing my own thing, and the mystery returned for her, as well as the hot and heavy sex. Pretty simple fix fellas; just do what you want to do outside the house and keep it a mystery. To your 2nd point... I play in a band,…
/r/askMRP07/03/19 11:26 PM
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This is a quality response to a quality post, especially #11.... while I’m a firm believer that all men can improve, that doesn’t mean it is a fix all.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 08:32 PM
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Unfortunately she is fighting you tooth and nail more than likely because she does not have another branch to swing to yet.... be prepared for some major lashing out and a revised history from her. I experienced this first hand. I’d also add to protect your kids’ ears from these conversations; she is more than likely going to freak out when the reality of becoming a middle aged single mother looks like.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 12:11 AM
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44m here, And agree with this to a point. There are some hot, intelligent women over the age of 25, but they are rare and more trouble than they may be worth. Depends on what you want from their company.... My opinion is that if you are going to stay with a woman as she gets older, married or not, it has to be in the same page. Kids and age can remove a woman’s libido, her financial decisions, her attitude, etc. If she is not willing to stay, or at least work on, being in your frame of how you w…
/r/askMRP12/02/19 05:04 PM
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Thank you for all this, truly
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 07:00 PM
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A tad sullen, but has moments of “yay” and moments of tears. All what you’d expect when there is a death. Lots of being tired being asked how she is coping (from others), while I have tried to engage her in things that are “our normal” brand of hijinks Sex, instead of 6 days a week it’s more like a 1-3 a week, and nothing crazy like is our norm. It’s not that lusty, primal sex that we both want, but more comfort “take me away with multiple orgasms” kind of sessions. She hates it has affected tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:47 PM
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This is an awesome link, thank you my man (and he even called you out!)
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:26 PM
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Awesome, truly appreciate it and I’ll look for your reply. You are correct in the need to be the oak
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:36 PM
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That is solid frame my man. Nice work, and smart move to not get an easy lay here... that would more than likely been way more trouble. Denying pathetic attempts at manipulating you back into her world is quite liberating, especially when you know you have better waiting to hear from you that very moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/19 06:36 PM
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If she cheated on you, as much of a giant blow to your life/ego it is, she did you a favor. She showed you her value, and how little she values you. This happened to me because I continued to improve my SMV (the band I created took off, female attention came with it, hit the gym, had my own life outside of just being the BB dad), while she wallowed in BPD and swung down to make sure she had someone if I finally got tired of her and the dead bedroom. Her low self esteem and shitty attitude cost h…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/19 05:06 PM
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This is a solid post... but I’ll second the “letting him win” comment.... we dudes can smell that a mile away, and a lesser man would probably feel like a total tool bag and bust his confidence. Play your hardest; if he loses then he’ll take out his frustrations in other (and hopefully more productive) ways to prove his manhood.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/19 11:08 PM
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I couldn’t have said this better, thank you for saving me 5 minutes in typing out what I thought was obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 07:00 PM
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I have been RP aware for a few years, the tall, dark and handsome type, well built, established financially, etc... and while I could have plates and be more of the “toxic RP” type, I choose to live a life of truth and growth.... it’s too hard to keep up with lies and using people just isn’t how my moral compass points. That being said, I found the RP lifestyle (obviously I’m more of the leading/self love type than the spin plates narcissist) because of the behaviors you described above... Just …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 04:27 PM
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I buy Algenist, can’t remember the exact one, but it’s the dark grey one.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 05:02 AM
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I too hate looking back at pics of my BP yesteryear, mostly because nothing fit well, was half thought out, and nobody should wear cargo shorts, ever. Your girl buys them for you to carry her shit. I wanted to add the importance of keeping your haircut/basic grooming up... your face is what is looked at most, use beard balm, put lotion on your face, upkeep yourself. And V-necks over crew necks... you’ve been working out, and the V shape not only adds to that v taper you work hard for, but is a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 01:47 AM
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