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Bigbighero99/r/seduction25/04/18 12:47 PM
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Then isn't trp just an act if it doesn't come naturally. I imagine that can be extremely exhausting constantly pretending to be 'alpha'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:53 PM
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One thing I could never sort out is how to mentally make a shift. Not all men are born disciplined leaders. Does that mean so many of are doomed from birth because they are more passive in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:50 PM
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I agree with this sentiment. Not having the ability to be properly expressive, relatable or being able to simply banter is more poisonous when it comes to interpersonal relationships. I think that's why my dates never go beyond the first date because being boring is a result of a lack of those skills. Selective mutism as a child and social anxiety as an adult has been disastrous. Looks play a role but not being able to perform socially is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:26 PM
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Absolutely the mind is very much the enemy because my self dialog is funny, silly, dumb and enjoyable but as soon as you introduce another person into the mix then it all goes out the window and a high level of politeness, cencoship and civility take over and I shut basically shut down and silence sober takes over. That's why it's work to talk during dates because I know how easy it is for me to go silent and then I risk shit getting awkward. I envy that party guy who's free to say whatever with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:47 PM
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Yes well said. The handful of times I have stumbled into having sex even on the first date it was primarily thru strong eye contact. I was my boring avoidant anxious self but one thing that persisted was strong smiley eye contact with lots of alcohol mixed in which was bad but necessary. Lots of people overcomplicate things and me being someone who overthinks everything I easily read into perceived negativety from the girl and end up sabotaging myself too. So I'm my worst enemy mentally during t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:09 PM
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Those are pretty good tips. Latley I've been giving phenibut a try too. I have been having some drinks beforehand and it definitely helps to actually show up but breaking the ice is incredibly hard still. I've trying to get out of a logical mind and have some fun but creating a playful and flirty vibe is still incredibly elusive. Sometimes I wonder why I persist since I feel l lost in the moment and can't seem to shift gears. I'm talking for the sake of talking and I'm busying myself just keepin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:00 PM
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Kinda figured proximity to my place is key. What types date are you usually doing. Do you find yourself unintentionally being boring because of anxiety. That happens way too many times. I go on many dates but they're all missing a fun element.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:23 PM
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Have a place so that's good. The getting her to my place is still tricky
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:27 AM
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Would you mind sharing how you go about sexually escalating? I always feel like if attempt to I will come off as too direct direct and ruin my chances of anything happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:38 AM
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Where you able to escape the depression or is it still a struggle? If so how
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 11:55 PM
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If the traits associated with elevated testosterone levels are not developed then isn't it just acting. Wouldn't acting like a high testosterone man come across as weak or just silly? Is this not like being a poser of sorts?
/r/BlackPillScience08/05/21 01:59 AM
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What on earth do those catagories mean on a practical layman level?
/r/BlackPillScience08/05/21 01:52 AM
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It's interesting you say this I find that I can more or less pass the initial swipe looks threshold with average girls but when it comes to the date my lack of game and high anxiety usually ends things even when things go well online or over the phone. Game and flirting is incredibly important l. Not having the ability to be playful will easily fuck up the courtship process I've found despite somewhat decent or average looks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 10:17 PM
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I'm curious to know what kind of tutorial they showed the study participants
/r/BlackPillScience15/01/21 01:19 AM
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/Blackpillscience has lots of studies posted about this topic
/r/seduction29/12/20 09:03 PM
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Great set up man which looks totally worth the investment. I'm looking to do the same and am planning on using Amazon for the stuff. Can you list what kind of equipment you got and where you got yours from as well as how much it cost?
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 05:13 AM
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Sounds like being agreeable and neurotic are terrible traits when it comes to attracting a woman. Is there a known fix for such character traits or is someone who has these traits destined to be alone?
/r/BlackPillScience02/08/20 11:19 PM
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And fuck those asshole cops
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 04:11 AM
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Good man
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 04:10 AM
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Yeah I notice alot of people do the cell phone avoidance thing. I feel like trying to be present is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 12:27 AM
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What would you say helped you the most in terms of developing the skill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 01:39 PM
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What kinds of behavioral effects are we talking about in regards to anabolic steroid use? After reading various anecdotes of steroid usage the focus seems more on physical effects rather that behavioral shifts or outcomes.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 04:30 PM
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Am zombie, everyday feels the same. Going nowhere fast. Can't convince myself girls will like me even tho I have good qualities. The answer to your question is no, not yet at least.
/r/seduction22/11/18 02:55 AM
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Yeah just block out a date for it. Good luck
/r/askTRP21/09/18 11:41 AM
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What I noticed for myself is when I decide to fast. No water, no food, no technology for 24 hours my urges decreased significantly and do not come back unless I rexpose myself to anything pornographic. It's one of the only things that have helped me. The fasting seems to act like a mental circuit breaker.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:35 AM
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This was a good read. It is a good reminder of what attractiveness can look like. Imo, these traits are mostly impossible to implement in any realistic fashion unless empathy is mostly eliminated and narcissism becomes a primary trait. Trying to appear 'cool' will come off as lame. I believe finding a way to be more authentic and self accepting would encompasses many of the bullets op mentioned in the post. Again easier said than actually done.
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:25 AM
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I'd love to read a detailed post about that
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 11:49 AM
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Yeah that's been my experience as well. I've been feeling sexual anxieties about not wanting to get her pregnant and I'm kind of stuck on pursuing a girl while still conveying that all I want this to be is a fun sexual experience and a let's see where this goes sort of thing. I'm not sure how to convey that kind of vibe with words and actions. I don't wanna feel like I'm leading her on.
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:49 PM
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My philosophy is that texting is the cheapest form of communication. If you get the number let her know when you'll give her a call. While you have her on the phone banter about yours and her day for no longer than 10-15 mins. Then transition to asking her out for drinks or activity. That's what usually works for me.
/r/seduction12/02/18 06:38 AM
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In your journey to become less beta what do you think helped you the most?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 03:44 PM
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Hey I created an account just to post in this thread..op, I'm just as conflicted as you are. I've been seeing my super 'nice' girlfriend for about 4 months. She's genuine with no agenda and really cares for me. I came to a realization that I decide most of our dates and activities and she never shares her opinion about things she cares about and defers to me. I usually keep things light hearted and joking around alot. Once I decided to keep our conversations neutral we could sit in silence. I do…
/r/seduction14/07/15 12:20 AM
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