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10/10 explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:41 PM
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During busy seasons at the office my apartment will turn into a pig pen because I’m barely home enough to clean, and the few hours I do get to myself before bedtime id rather play video games or something. During regular seasons I’ll spend less than 1 hour per night cleaning 1 section of my apartment which leaves it clean and cozy for the weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:33 PM
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Bro stfu, if you could get away with what these women do you’d feel good about yourself too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:30 PM
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Bro I’m 5’6 - get your money, your body and your game on point and stop bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:44 PM
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How have you guys kept it going?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:45 PM
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You can do it, but you need to make a decision between keeping your friend or pursuing his ex. You can’t have both
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:40 PM
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I wanna switch with you lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:19 PM
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As a man, yes it’s true. A lot of guys are thirsty as fuck and have no idea how to interact with women. I used to be one of these guys until I stopped being thirsty as fuck and learned game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:40 PM
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Bro if this is actually your girl, you’re fucked up for posting this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:24 PM
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The guy just needs a haircut which only takes an hour and $30. The woman needs to put in months of diet and exercise, which is significantly more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:34 AM
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Men will almost always lower their standards to fit a woman who doesn’t measure up. It’s not the same for women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:06 PM
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I think they are a near match in their current state with the male being slightly more attractive at baseline. They could both improve tho. The woman just needs to lose weight and she would skyrocket her smv if she did. The dude is already pretty attractive but he needs to cut his hair/style & groom. Edit: I realized I’m being too lenient on the woman so I’m going to say they aren’t matched at all and the guy is more attractive. My recommendations for improvement still stand tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:03 PM
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Sexual assault is defined by “unwanted sexual contact” full stop. This is sexual assault. Also sexual harassment, but it is sexual assault. Also who gives a fuck about the terminology?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:26 AM
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Lol also women are fkn scary haha let’s be real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:44 PM
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That’s not approaching sweetheart that’s sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:30 PM
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I’m having sex. I just made plans for sex tonight with one of my fwb lmao - dudes (especially dudes on Reddit [see r/dating_advice]) are just scared to approach women these days. I see it everywhere - online and in my personal life with my homies. A lot of guys are scared of women lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:28 PM
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I would tell both of these people that they need to grow the fuck up tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:30 PM
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Honestly, most women (people) are left leaning for optics only, nobody really gives a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:25 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:08 PM
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Ok so we’re taking about what’s gay vs what’s feminine vs basic hygiene. My original point is that women don’t like feminine men. I said nothing about not having basic hygiene skills..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:59 PM
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I think all three of you are conflating poor hygiene with being masculine - I’m more so referring to ones demeanor/mannerisms. Nobody likes people that are dirty, period..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:32 PM
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I think all three of you are conflating poor hygiene with being masculine - I’m more so referring to someones demeanor/mannerisms. Nobody likes people that are dirty, period..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:31 PM
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I mean I have to be careful when I shave because I get razor bumps, but I think all three of you are conflating poor hygiene with being masculine - I’m more so referring to ones demeanor/mannerisms. Nobody likes people that are dirty, period..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:31 PM
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Again, what does hygiene have to do with being masculine/feminine I’m confused..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:28 PM
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What does hygiene have to do with being masculine/feminine I’m confused..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:27 PM
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Idk bro, unless you’re physically attractive, you’re better off leaning into your masculinity. Women lie/ are ambiguous about what turns them on. Personally, I believe only certain guys can pull off being feminine in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:58 PM
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Yes omg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:17 PM
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Look, if I see a shordy with her ass cheeks hanging out her shorts imma look. If she calls me out for being a pervert, I deserve that lmao it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:04 PM
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I mean if it’s a one off thing, I get it. We all go through shit. But if it’s a constant/part of her personality? That’s becomes annoying. And don’t get me wrong, most guys will tolerate it for a little while in order to get laid but once they hit, or they accept that they can’t hit it, they’re gone. Most people don’t like loud and rude period, it’s just that hot girls get away with it more, because most men will let a hot girl get away with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:00 PM
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If I can’t even stand to be around her, none of that makes any difference. Plus you can coach the submissive one and it would probably be fun exploring what gets her off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:40 PM
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It’s hilarious because you describe a no brainer scenario- have fun with a hot girl who is bound to get on your nerves eventually, and once that’s over you commit to the submissive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:24 PM
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The hot rich one is bound to be obnoxious and also by my standards, loud+bitchy (your words not mine)= obnoxious. And yes I would make that decision because I’m in a career with good job security, I own my own business, I’m in the process of acquiring my own property, and my family isn’t rich but I will be inheriting a sizable nest egg when I lose my people so I’m not worried about that stuff. Plus I’m not trying to marry her net worth, if I’m making that commitment to a woman I want a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:23 PM
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Yeah I mean that’s possible if she was already into you, but otherwise you need to be really friggin good at game to get out of the friendzone. I agree that women’s dating/hookup advice is fuckin abysmal because they are overly ambiguous & they don’t even know what attracts them half the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:32 PM
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I mean for me personally it’s not about the body count. I like whores lmao I am a whore - I’m basing my answer off of the attitudes described.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:00 PM
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That’s so fuckin false man you gotta get outside to social events people are fucking running outside after being cooped up for a year
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:42 PM
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Lmaoo this post is hilarious in its assumptions. If I’m being honest, I’m going to hook up with the obnoxious hot one until I’ve had my fill, and then I’m committing to the boring one for long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:28 PM
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Nah flaky, I think he edited the comment but it originally said if a girl was 18 with 18 bodies she fucked one guy per year lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:35 PM
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Honestly, IMO it’s never a great idea of befriending someone who you really want to ask out. You’re better off stating your intention from the start & just being as attractive/creating as much sexual tension as you can. There’s no reason why you can’t be respectful in general, but trying to leverage your niceness and starting out as friends in order to get with a woman is the easiest way to get friendzoned IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:05 AM
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Yes, talk to women in order to get used to casual convos, social calibration (reading body language/social cues) as well as practicing game (shit tests, push pull, escalate) - even if you start making a ton of cash, you gotta have some game Nobody is saying “just be rich” - if you want to break your back and put in the time to get to that level then go for it. Otherwise you can start studying for a IT certification, get a CDL, or possibly look into trade schools- there’s tons of ways to increase…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:41 AM
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Brother I misread your entire comment, I thought you were complaining that you still weren’t getting women haha my bad. I’d say as long as you’re able to support the lifestyle that makes you happy, that should be it’s own reward, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:56 PM
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I’d argue that you’re still going about it the wrong way. You shouldn’t be trying to avoid failure, instead you should be communicating in a way that indicates you aren’t even thinking of failure because you are the obvious choice & it would be almost illogical for her not to choose you. Having an abundance mindset helps with this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:44 PM
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Did you practice game/conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:35 PM
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I’m also listening, how is he wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:34 PM
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100% truth. Life isn’t fair, boys. Women are a fuckin headache - deal with em or keep a dry dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:34 PM
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Also there is such a thing as being too nice. Fellas you need to know when to be disagreeable/controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:45 PM
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I notice like 80% of women in my path smh, y’all are fuckin headaches but ur so damn cute 🌚
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:39 PM
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Lmaooooo women truly do not know men. We would fuck the bottom 60% of women and be content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:38 PM
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Yes and no. I agree that women (and honestly most people who are somewhat socially calibrated) can generally sense ulterior motives - that’s why I said if you want to leverage niceness as an attraction feature you actually gotta be that guy who is nice to everyone and who doesn’t expect anything. If she knows you as that guy because everyone knows you as that guy, that’s like the only way this thing works, and even then you’re probably at high risk for being friend zoned unless you can effective…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:08 PM
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I mean yes, but if you are truly “ugly” as a guy your only options are to take some fuckin accountability for your appearance & hygiene or keep a dry dick. Even if you’re not Chad (lite) or Tyrone (lite) you can get haircuts, workout, eat at a caloric deficit, research fashion trends at your age range, buy cologne, research & practice game as well as general conversational skills and tricks, find a meetup group with your interests, like bro these women are out here fucking, you better get you so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:57 PM
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I actually agree with the last sentence of this post 100% - FELLAS: YOU NEED TO DEMONSTRATE THE CORE ATTRACTIVENESS QUALITIES BEFORE YOU START DOING NICE GUY SHIT - she needs to see that you are well groomed, confident, self assured, socially calibrated, “fun”, and “ambitious” before anything A lot of guys get this nice shit wrong - y’all are missing the point: niceness is not an attraction feature, it just checks her relationship box (oh he’s attractive & not a douchebag? He might be bf materia…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:45 PM
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Bro it’s ridiculous…I am really on a white woman rampage rn I might be Tyrone lite
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:29 PM
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Lmaooo ok I thought you were talking about beastiality for a sec 💀💀💀 yeah babyyyy chocolate is in seasonn 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:25 PM
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Nah man I feel you. And I know that’s life, but I start to think about myself at age 15: like bruh I was soo ready to lose my v card, but I was weird/awkward with no game lmao I couldn’t give that shit away! Not till I was 18 and even then, with no money/no game they were few and far in between & it was always on the woman to choose me. So now I’m 26, good career, stable income, side business being built, and I’m eyeing real estate. I can go out to my local bar on any night and reasonably expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:23 PM
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Bruh, a HORSE horse?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:11 PM
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If she’s 18 with 18 bodies that’s not 1 guy a year unless she lost her virginity as a newborn. Lol more likely she’s probably been banging 6 guys a year since she was 15 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:10 PM
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Buddy said “every girl I know has been BLACKED” 😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:08 PM
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Lmao bro check your math
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:07 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:40 PM
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Yo I swear to god you’re gonna think I’m an *ncel but honestly a lot of the elements found in certain rom com animes hold true in real life. I just woke up and I don’t have time to research specific examples but I can give a general breakdown of the formula : Usually these animes feature a high school male protagonist who is on the lower end of the social hierarchy. In these shows, the male protagonist usually has mastered some quirky skillset that uses to aid various female characters (competen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:30 PM
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I feel you, and don’t get me wrong, I do believe that displaying attractive qualities like the ones you mentioned is the biggest thing. But I also genuinely believe that hearing about positive sexual/romantic experiences from other women is like a quality assurance stamp for men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:04 AM
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Upon more thought, everyone is addicted to their phones and I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:55 AM
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I wasn’t really talking about online dating because in terms of sexual attention even ugly women will get swiped on 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:54 AM
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Honestly I don’t blame anyone for not wanting kids in this market
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:52 AM
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Yeah I’m not gonna lie, some men just do not need to be fathers, and some women are just absolutely delusional that they will somehow change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:48 AM
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I’m always respectful..?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:43 AM
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Idk I mean at the end of the day I like having sex and a lot of y’all look good 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:40 AM
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Lmao wanna rate each other? I’ll hit ur dm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:51 PM
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Women hate accountability lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:41 PM
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Ideally yes, and those men who father these children are failures. That being said, a lot of women make shitty fuckin decisions on whose child they decide to bring to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:09 PM
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It is like most dates but literally refer to point #2 - my ENTIRE point has been that I’m at a point where I’m choosing to masturbate and go study instead of having them over and wasting everyone’s time. Am I pursuing these women? Nobody is really pursuing anybody, both of my situations right now are strictly FWB and it has been communicated explicitly that that’s what everyone involved wants. I don’t play with women’s feelings to get sex because that’s fucked up and I don’t need to. I’m a grown…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:53 PM
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I mean I value my relationships with my close friends and family but no, I don’t place a ton of value on just any relationship with any person. I think it’s actually a terrible idea to place a lot of value on a FWB situation, why would you do that? That’s what people who don’t learn lessons and have no foresight do. Also you really seem to think I’m terrible at sex but a lot of guys actually are so I don’t blame you. I do prioritize a woman’s orgasm during sex though. It’s fun for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:43 PM
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Do you think I just shove my Mjönir in there with no forplay or anything? I always eat her out(plus fingering) and give at least 1 orgasm before I put it in. Usually towards the end, I’ll do the same thing ESPECIALLY if I don’t cum and I know she’s getting tired/sore - don’t even talk to me about putting in effort when these same women can even get off their backs to ride me, won’t give me head, and some are too lazy to even to do doggy style (which I know how to angle my dick correctly so don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:31 PM
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I mean, takeout + tv + wine/weed sounds like a pretty good night to me...but that’s it. Like we have decent conversations & fuck, but once again if I’m not even nutting and I don’t really have feelings for you like that, what’s the point of this in the first place? You telling me to leave women alone is like telling a crackhead to stop smoking that shit- I know chasing them is terrible for me but I’m gonna watch myself do it anyway cuz they look cute and I’m hard. Also you say don’t be around th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:24 PM
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And would you classify yourself as above average, average, or below average? Not trying to humble you or anything just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:18 PM
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What makes you think I don’t enjoy their company? She wouldn’t make it past the door if I didn’t.. my thing is, I enjoy my space and I have enough friends. so even if I can enjoy your company that’s not really enough to keep me interested in hanging out if I’m not cumming or if I don’t have a romantic interest in you. Like yeah $40 is pocket change and yeah I can set aside time the next night to study but it’s still $ and time into a situation that’s really not going anywhere so what’s the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:16 PM
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I have no idea about the refractory period - I used to go crazy when I was like 12-14, sometimes I’d beat 5/6 times a day but I’m not sure if that would help or hurt what you’re trying to do. For me personally, If I cum while I’m still inside her & I want to keep going, stay inside and keep stroking. I like slow, deep strokes because I can really feel that shit but sometimes even that isn’t enough to stop me from going soft. When I’m soft I’ll stay inside her and start making out - I get turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:59 PM
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I mean what’s the upside, honestly? In my situation I’m shelling out money, giving up time to work on myself, and essentially getting in a full body workout (because a lot of y’all are lazy as shit when it comes to sex) after I make her cum, only to not have an orgasm myself. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:13 PM
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For me, honestly, a good woman is one who is kind, caring, emotionally mature, mentally stable, reasonably financially stable for her age someone who whose hobbies don’t just revolve around alcohol (only goes to bars/bottomless brunches) and most importantly, someone who is ACCOUNTABLE FOR HER ACTIONS I cook my own meals, I clean my own space, I pay my own way. I don’t need a mommy mcbangmaid, but also I probably need a woman with a high sex drive. The dating pool is trash IMO because a lot of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:04 PM
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Let’s put aside physical appearance for a sec - when most women know that a guy gets women who are equally or more attractive than her, that’s the best kind of social proof: even if she won’t take that guy seriously for a relationship (that’s another convo), women are generally more likely in my experience to smash the guy who is tried and tested by the other gals. Usually he’s hot, but it could honestly be an average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:55 PM
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Uncle Vaz, teach me your ways big dog! Right now I’ve found my niche in late 20’s/early 30’s chicks who just hit wall and are looking for a fun guy who has his shit together - I’m trying to be more formulaic about it/ really get it down to a science tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:13 PM
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As a man, I can say with certainty that as much as women claim to hate “players and Fuccboi’s”, they are generally attracted to guys who other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:54 PM
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I mean the only thing that applies to me is probably the delayed ejaculation - my libido has remained insanely high since the first time I discovered masturbation so combined with a delayed ejaculation in each round I can go around 4 hours straight with no breaks (I have no refractory period): the only time I lose erections is when I’m sensing my woman isn’t into it/isn’t being pleasured- I know a lot of y’all like to think we don’t care, but personally I believe my sexual prowess is a huge ego …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:48 PM
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Also let me be brutally honest about the porn thing: I’m getting to the point where I’ve started to pass up sex with a fwb in favor of just beating my meat to porn because it wasn’t worth it to me - yeah I’m horny, but why am I gonna spend $40 on some takeout, blow off an entire evening that could be spent doing something productive just to watch some tv with her, drink and smash? Versus grabbing my iPad, throwing in some AirPods & rubbing one out for three minutes before getting back to whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:35 PM
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Yeah honestly, women aren’t capable of raising the type of men y’all want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:24 PM
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You may have a point with the housework and childcare thing Women definitely spend more time on social media and it absolutely damages a lot of y’all’s relationships - a lot of y’all can’t stay off of your phones, especially when it’s supposed to be 1 on 1 with your partner: imo it’s because the women I’m referring to are addicted to the attention/validation they get from posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:23 PM
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As a man, it’s fucked up but I honestly love this. I live by myself, I’m in a stable career with opportunity for growth, building out a small side business & eyeing some real estate - I’ve got my game down tight, I know how to work a room & talk to women. I feel like I’m already in a great position with women because I feel like I have a leg up on my competition- if you’re telling me most women’s dating pools are going to continue to shrink I’m happy as hell, that means less competition for meee…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:18 PM
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If a guy can only complement you on your physical appearance (regardless of how vulgar he is about it) then he probably has no game/ isn’t creative enough to get in your pants anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:26 PM
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If you fall in that average range and you still don’t get approached, I’d say examine if you put yourself in a position to get approached as well as what your demeanor is like and if you give off the right signals. Even with all that, you could do everything right and still not get approached if the guys around you are too scared to make a move. Honestly it’s hard to approach women period if you’re not used to it. Regardless of what she looks like. If you’re average and dressing cute, I guarante…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:45 PM
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I think there’s more nuance to this than you are describing: Women who fall in the range of slightly below average to pretty (5/10-7/10)have the highest likelihood of being approached by the highest number of men because these women are cute enough to elicit that primal urge/response & yet they are approachable (in appearance) enough because a guy will usually assume she is at his level looks wise. Women who fall in the range pretty-gorgeous (8/10-10/10) will still get approach by a bunch of guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:12 PM
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As a man, it’s actually the opposite for a lot of guys - we’ll be more willing to approach a less attractive woman because more attractive women are intimidating to a lot of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:57 PM
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This man gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:32 AM
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Prince wasn’t ugly lmao, just short and his status + money & sex appeal cancelled it out 10x
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:23 PM
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Masculinity doesn’t really refer to looks (in my opinion) as much as it refers to behaviors and attitude - women want a guy with masculine traits like confidence, decisiveness, assertiveness etc - obviously pretty boys get women. Every average guy finds this out in middle school lmao. Plus the examples you listed have status & money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:22 PM
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I’ll be cringe if it’ll get me some of that sweet brown poontang
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:29 PM
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Idk man, my game isn’t tight enough that I can sleep with a woman without having paid in some form or fashion. Even if it’s $20 on drinks and tacos + $2.50 in gas mileage + the cost of my time (texting/keeping interest throughout the week, taking time to go out on a date instead of taking care of my side biz) I’m gonna have to pay in some form or fashion if I wanna play hide the sausage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:05 PM
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Ohhhhh true. Lmaoo good point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:31 PM
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But even with LTRs the pool in itself is small asf like I said, personally I’ve never met a woman who was actually virgin. If a woman with like high body count says she wants to commit to you and y’all get to that point, why not just get over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:03 PM
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Personally I disagree, I think most women just want to lock down the most successful man with the highest status who fulfills their emotional needs and does a bunch of other shit - I don’t believe it’s realistic for most men and women to maintain attraction on either side
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:56 AM
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How’s that a cuckhold fetish? I’m just saying, I honestly don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who was virgin (regardless of what certain women have tried to convince me) and these women are out here fucking. I’m horny, I wanna have sex, so fuck it. I know other men want something more exclusive with one woman but I honestly believe it’s best for an average young man in this age to forgo committing/investing in anyone over building his resources & investing in himself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:33 AM
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How does a black guy stack up for desi women usually? I always had a thing for brown girls and there’s a lot of em around me since I moved last month
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:24 AM
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Holy shit bro are you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:20 AM
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I feel like they pick things up faster when they are experienced - idk if it’s a cope, it might be, but I think I’ve just accepted the fact that most girls had a ho phase at one point in time and that sex is essentially always on tap for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:18 AM
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You’re right. Honestly I gave up on the idea of committing to a woman a while ago so I don’t even have a dog in this fight
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:13 AM
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You know what, actually I get it. I might not agree, but I can see how certain guys would feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:12 AM
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I don’t understand the obsession with a woman’s body count - who gives a shit. I want a woman who knows how to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:55 AM
1

I mean kind of, but I feel like people adhere to the stereotypes to rigidly - alpha & beta (as I understand them) are characteristics any man can display through his reactions to certain social stimuli (how he interacts with others, how he carries himself, tonality, how socially calibrated is he, how does he react to teasing, pressure, shit tests, etc) Like a “nerd” can quietly embarrass a loud “jock” if he keeps his frame, stays rooted/stands firmly on his manhood, and leverages his status/ abi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:05 PM
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I can’t stand a picky eater period. As far as weight goes - I think as a man, it’s beneficial for you to stay in /close to fighting trim as possible. You always want to maintain yourself to keep the spark/attraction up + you need your woman to know you’re still a catch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:54 PM
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I understand that you’re not looking for a dynamic like this, and everybody is unique. I’d like to point out that most people (men & women) would for sure like to be shown that they are special/appreciated/loved by their partner outside of sex, & I am one of them. (But I gave up on that long ago cuz women) All’s I’m saying is that most men would genuinely appreciate it if their partner expressed genuine sexual desire for them on a consistent basis. Guarantee it would make a lot of relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:11 PM
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Once again it’s not special to you, because you’re a woman and have been objectified your entire life, plus women aren’t built for random casual sex like men are. (Generally)Most men would KILL to be seen as a sexual object by most of the women they encounter: how can that be? Because most men are fkn INVISIBLE to most of the women they encounter unless they put in real effort to stand out. You say you see lustworthy guys all the time, but most of them aren’t worth much outside of sex? Cool - th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:43 PM
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Social proof babyyyy - the ultimate panty dropper I swear by ittt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:37 PM
1

I think you nailed it in one of your comments. A woman is going to notice if her dates are at a fancy restaurant or a fast food joint. Not saying you have to take her to expensive restaurants for her to get the point, more so, I feel like she will pick up on your financial status using context clues from your lifestyle- (house, car, style, what kind of activities you do and how you never really sweat the check). If you want to be overt, there’s ways to do that as well. You can talk about financi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:34 PM
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This. Tacos & drinks, coffee, etc is fine, but leading with your wallet is idiotic IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:27 PM
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The idea of fucking in a club bathroom makes me queasy lmaooo do you know how much puke.. All women need to “warm up”, some less than others. Men are like switches, one flick(look) and we know we wanna put ourselves inside of dat ass You’re better off thinking about women in terms of thresholds (disclaimer: women are a fucking headache) - for sex, the women you described have an extremely low threshold in that moment, and different shit like looks may be weighted unevenly against personality etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:01 PM
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God bless LL men - more for me 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:53 PM
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I wouldn’t refer to myself as LL period because my sex drive is 🚀🚀🚀 but yeah I’ve been lowerL but only marginally cause I still enjoyed it nearly as frequently as she did. I’ve been the HL before as well and that’s because she either was LL or not attracted to me, and she withheld sex as punishment... so both I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:43 PM
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Idk whatever he’s not bringing to the table for you in this moment. Idk your marriage lol I was speaking for myself. Are you leveraging sex against your man? I don’t know. I can tell you that outside of withholding sex, the only time I’m using porn in a relationship would be when I’m tired of having sex with my gf/if I’ve lost attraction to her. Sometimes we get bored fucking the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:39 PM
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I’ll be honest, when I’m in a relationship/situation where my woman is matching/outpacing me sexually, I don’t even think about porn lol like it ceases to exist in my world right? Cause what’s the need? However I also think about relationships I’ve had where I was beating off constantly - that was where sex was withheld from me. I believe this is the case for a lot of relationships- I think the women who complain about porn use may overlap with the women who try to leverage sex over their partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:19 PM
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I’d be down to tradcon if I got rich. I’ll pay for everything, you keep my stomach full & balls empty.....actually fuck that I’d use escorts or play the field I’m not getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:44 PM
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Fuck no. I need someone around my level of physical attractiveness, it could be more or less but it needs to be proximate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:42 PM
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Lmao look at #2 baby - women are a fuckin headache. I agree tbh, if you’re a man with with goals and aspirations, chasing women is not worth it. CHASING WOMEN IS A LIABILITY. It requires time, mental labor & money - some of a mans most valuable resources IMO. The list is a response to OPs list and they correspond numerically. For establishing status at events/bar thing - I’m not talking about becoming a celebrity lmao any dude who walks into a bar/party/room can create status for himself (I’d ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:38 PM
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I think women in general don’t put as much thought into sexual access/attraction as men do because it’s there for most of y’all when you hit puberty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:22 PM
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I don’t think y’all are lying, I just think y’all (especially your young ass) don’t recognize certain behaviors in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:19 PM
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Right lmao let me break it down even further cuz fuck it True, women love confidence It’s actually not a turn off if you let them know in the right way - it’s called stating your intent - don’t be fuckin thirsty and let em know you’re willing to walk away if she doesn’t act right even if you wanna fuck her Yes approach but bro you have to be borderline manipulative in your interactions with women You need to be hyper aware of your surroundings, her surroundings, her mood, your vibe, THE vibe, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:15 PM
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Not at all! Nuances/outliers exist for sure! I’m partially joking but y’all as a demographic tend to cap a LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:07 PM
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We’re not talking about lying or faking for sex, it’s a given (for me at least) that everyone is up front and conducts themselves like adults. I have my shit together and don’t need to lie or manipulate women to have sex with them. That’s not what this is about anyway, we’re talking about within the context of relationships I assumed. Specifically, a woman showing her sexual desire towards her man within that relationship. Do you not think it’s important for your partner to feel desired? Do I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:05 PM
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“All he cares about is sex” <—— just like that lol. Sooo many of y’all gaslight the shit out of us and use this exact line to withhold sex as a punishment. As if we are incapable of love, intimacy, or vulnerability because we value sex..the man I described in my last post doesn’t “only care about sex” it’s about feeling wanted/desired. Specifically, no guy wants to feel like his woman settled for him sexually & I think a lot of y’all don’t want to admit that you do this because the guys you actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:55 PM
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Of course I want love, I think all of us want that ideal of true love that we were indoctrinated with as kids. Personally, I don’t believe in love for myself as I don’t believe I’m “that guy” who ends up with THE girl and starts a family. So I have sex. I love sex. I’m literally always horny anyway so fuck it. I wanna fuck as many cute girls as I can before I die and that’s as far as I go when it comes to romance and dating. Other than that I’m going my own way (shout out to MGTOW).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:39 PM
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I cant articulate it well, but there’s definitely a creepy way and a not creepy way of doing things, the non creepy way requires confidence and immediate calibration (be confident, read the room & adjust)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:34 PM
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“A guy who can get that response from me still isn’t valuable to me” That’s literally the point lmaooo - we can tell by your lack of enthusiasm (not you specifically) that you aren’t THAT into us sexually as you are into Chad, even if you choose us for the relationship. That’s the shit that burns, and quite honestly it’s what scares us. Like the worse case scenario in every guy’s head is that you will one day hit up Chad or Rone for some dick and we’d never know about it, or that you’ll leave af…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:27 PM
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Cause that’s what y’all do 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:14 PM
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I also don’t want kids, so I feel you on that. I don’t think I’m arguing that folks should ground their relationships in sex and neither is this post honestly, but I think for most people sex is a huge part of relationships. That’s why a dead bedroom is the biggest indicator of a failing marriage. I mean it is the simplest metric to determine someone’s attraction level towards you isn’t it? You can like/love someone and not wanna fuck em... it’s called a friendship. Also I think because sexual a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:05 PM
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Lmaoo right. I’ll be damned if I give the best years of my life away to a woman who thinks she settled for me just to turn around and lose half of everything when she jumps ship 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:53 PM
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That’s the point though, at least for me personally. I find that I can do all these things to set a vibe, and I still get a lukewarm effort/response from the women I deal with. Whenever this comes into play is kind of the moment I decide that this situation will not be a long term thing and I start looking around for my next win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:50 PM
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That’s my answer Lmaooo pump, dump, rinse, repeat, die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:45 PM
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You fundamentally misunderstand the premise of this post. We’re talking about a mans POV here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:44 PM
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That was the point 😶🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:38 PM
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I think I’m usually going to respect her regardless of what she’s like in the sack. I’ll definitely be more attracted to her sexually which would probably make me care about her slightly more. It’s definitely green flag for long term/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:16 PM
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🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:31 PM
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It’s not about just gold diggers bro, there’s plenty of women our age who are grinding it the fuck out and getting money, building their own shit or at least getting their shit together and are looking for a man to commit to who can provide stability - if you want someone who is into you foreal foreal, I would suggest you start by joining groups that interest you that have women AFTER you max out those things I mentioned before (confront your shyness by learning to engage people: 1 on 1 then in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:51 PM
1

Bro honestly the way I see it, it’s definitely a possibility but fuck it. That’s lowkey why I don’t believe in love for myself personally. I will say increasing money and status (both are important money + status = security + fuckability) will definitely increase the likelihood of a woman giving her loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:17 PM
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Nothing is wrong with wanting a relationship, man. Honestly, if I found someone I truly loved I would prefer a relationship in that scenario. Honestly, I’m at the point where I’m not sure I believe in love but that’s a personal choice for me. Let’s address the Chad thing - I’m 5’6, & fluctuate between 190-200lbs (good muscle frame underneath the fat but the fats still there) I can’t grow a beard, have a semi decent jawline, and I have a naturally deep voice compounded with the fact that I intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:00 PM
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You, virgin. We’re the same age but your sexual/romantic mindset is that of someone 10 years younger. You want to know the funniest part? You could probably be running through em like a track star if you adjusted your mindset and outward appearance ever so slightly. These women are out here FUCKING bro, & all they really want in exchange for some p*ssy is a man who is confident, assertive, & socially calibrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:38 PM
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Boy you better lie your ass off 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:33 PM
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Ok so even just reading the second paragraph of your reply is eliciting some sort of emotion that I can’t readily identify - it’s like a sadness mixed with longing. We really do want that kind of love and you’re right- everyone wants to feel all of those things you listed out in your second paragraph from their partner regardless of gender. In my experience, I have been expected to provide those things with no reciprocation, which is why now that I can actually get women consistently, I’m opting…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:49 PM
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Lol you might not think it’s rare but check out the caveat you presented - your friends with boyfriends - y’all gotta see the correlation - (not to disregard the mans duties in a relationship) but y’all have boyfriends because y’all know how to KEEP A MAN - a lot of women in my experience don’t have this skill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:31 PM
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Ok so I agree with your last sentence 100% and I want to take it a step further - I’ve been in situations where the woman put in 0 effort but still claimed to like me & I think this is a pattern with a lot of women - I think a lot of y’all just don’t want to be alone so you entertain these situations that you (not you specifically) may not be all that into & every time a guy loses attraction for you and leaves, its not so much about you being hurt that he’s gone but that it feels like a reinforc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:27 PM
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I’m a decent guy - kind, courteous, I treat everyone with respect. Being decent can be a huge advantage if you play it correctly. The key is honestly a mix of demonstrating confidence, self assuredness, & social proof : I’ll give you a story. I was on r/incelswitbouthate & r/blackpill around February getting sucked into the wormhole convinced that I was too short, overweight and ugly to have casual sex with women who I found attractive, which is all I want right now. I got off those subs and did…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:19 PM
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Fuck dude you might be me -
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:05 PM
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Men generally don’t gaf if a woman has female interests - if she’s good with make up, she’s probably that much or attractive + damn near every woman is into makeup. Plus fashion is important for both genders but women with low/no fashion sense look super derpy to me and not in a good way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:31 PM
1

Your comparison is false
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:25 PM
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As a man who just recently hit his sexual stride I agree 100% - the last woman I slept with wouldn’t stop complimenting me on how good I smelled (cologne is a cheat code fellas but wash your ass before you apply it), and how clean my apartment was for a guy. If you can take care of yourself (provide for, cook for, and just survive on your own, live on your own, etc) you’re already doing better than a lot of your competition fellas Edit Outside of writing, my main activities are smoking wed and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:13 PM
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But even as a man I’ve popped up with flowers, or a girls favorite candy - none of those women (or any woman I’ve dealt with) have even asked me about my favorite candy or anything like that, let alone go out of their way to surprise me with it. A lot of y’all don’t put in that effort and the ones that do are probably wifed up I’m assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:09 PM
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I can already tell where your head is at from your response lol. That’s not what I’m saying. Obviously the man has a duty to put in effort, but so does the woman. BOTH PEOPLE NEED TO BE PUTTING IN EFFORT. The problem in my experience is this: A lot of you expect the man to put in all of the effort, and a lot of y’all are dry as hell/low effort so it becomes this thing where the man is taking all the initiative to lead the relationship at the beginning and build your (sexual & romantic) attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:01 PM
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And that’s not necessarily what I was talking about - more so I was describing how MY attraction toward her diminishes with time because of the lack of effort on her end
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:50 PM
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Most men are willing and capable of having sex with someone they don’t really care about (or even dislike) - in my opinion y’all as women have a tendency to focus on that piece when in reality you should be focusing on what YOU contribute to the relationship that would make the man want to commit to you outside of sex. That combined with setting deadlines for explicit commitment /exit strategies for shitty situations is where I believe women generally lack accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:47 PM
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Do not EVER be vulnerable with a woman lmaooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:40 PM
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I think a lot of you (women) overestimate what you bring to these relationships/situationships. I’m capable of romance and I honestly enjoy it, but a lot of ya’ll put in 0 effort & have 0 sense of accountability from the get go, so for me personally, it becomes a thing where I’m less willing to put in the same effort as time goes on, because I can see the she isn’t willing to do the same for me on her end. And I’m not even talking about paying for stuff or planning dates, but even just texting m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:37 PM
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Come on..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:31 PM
1

I’m very aware of this, but I think this can be one of the benefits of working out and learning the basics of fighting. I’m short(ish) but I’m stocky and I’m confident as hell that if I’m fighting for my life I could kill like 60% of guys. This might be a gross overestimation of my own abilities, but my point is I’m aware that mf’s are crazy and I’m ready to fight for my life every time I walk out of my crib. If I’m in the situation OP described I personally would have had 1 of 2 reactions: If I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:34 PM
1

She will give you signals after you make a move, it’s our job to read these signals and move accordingly
/r/seduction25/03/21 09:17 PM
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So you have guaranteed sex on one hand, and the opportunity to talk on another? Go have sex, let your crush know you’re busy with your fulfilling life, and let her want you more
/r/seduction25/03/21 09:12 PM
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That’s not how racism works, genius. And you sound like an idiot with zero empathy. You don’t know what this mans life is like, and I can guarantee you would fold if you ever had to walk in his shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:18 PM
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