Bigcalvin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Women do not care at all		Bigcalvin	/r/MGTOW	11/09/19 02:08 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Married mothers spend more time on housework and children and less time on leisure and sleep than other mothers. They are all like that at some level or another. Men owe them happiness, they never get happy, thus men have failed them and must go... hence divorce is typically female initiated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 02:15 PM
1	Married mothers spend more time on housework and children and less time on leisure and sleep than other mothers. So true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 02:12 PM
1	Married mothers spend more time on housework and children and less time on leisure and sleep than other mothers. There it is. Basic female narcissism. Why do I have to treat you with basic human respect. My man owes me and if I don’t get what I want I’ll make him pay with a bad attitude and possibly verbal abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 02:10 PM
1	Married mothers spend more time on housework and children and less time on leisure and sleep than other mothers. Nagging is the result of not accepting a man’s “no.” If we have to say “yes” to your requests for help, then the requests are just demands. To which we will never submit. More often than not what she is demanding to be done can wait, but when you think you own another person, when you think that person owes you something... you cannot get over the fact of “no.” I cannot imagine nagging my wife to clean up, say the kitchen. If it is not done, then I assume she is too busy or too tired to get to i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 02:07 PM
1	Married mothers spend more time on housework and children and less time on leisure and sleep than other mothers. There is no such thing as a compliant wife, mommy or not. All men know this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 01:58 PM
1	Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching porn I can see how that could be a problem if the dude isn’t providing services but is watching porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/21 02:25 AM
3	Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching porn Wow. There are girls that ask for that. I cannot imagine trying a surprise anal. That is rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/21 12:41 AM
4	Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching porn No I am saying that thirst is destructive. Not needing much from women helps us avoid manipulation and make better relationship choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/21 12:35 AM
3	Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching porn I don’t know anybody who doesn’t know that those things don’t work with most girls. I don’t know anybody that expects that kind of a performance from a girl. As for the the body thing, nobody expects a perfect body chick. Only the girls put that expectation on themselves... the guys just dispair in comparison because most of us don’t have a footlong ... Look I get your point. I guess I never thought real sex would be anything like a porno, nor did I ever pressure a woman to do pretty much anythi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/21 12:24 AM
5	Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching porn The truth is that few guys are going to have a satisfying sex life anyways. Maybe less interest in the real thing will help them make better decisions about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 10:17 PM
-2	Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching porn I really doubt those women are getting exploited. They are just actresses, sex workers, and slutty amateurs. Sure there’s weird stuff involving kids... which is already criminal. That’s not what most dudes are looking at. As for unrealistic expectations for women... really? What expectations are the ladies facing that are unrealistic? And what does a healthy relationship look like in bed? Who decides?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 10:00 PM
4	Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... She doesn’t want you or respect you. You cannot make her start wanting you or respect you. Accept the sunk costs and start working on minimizing the harm to your kids.	/r/RPChristians	11/01/21 05:08 AM
5	I never post on this sub but this one irked me. Dude's wife doesn't find him attractive after having to take care of him while he was injured. Most other comments are telling him to go to couples counselling. I tried to be real with him. This is the analogy, or rather the fact, that helps me understand relationships with women: A man is a fungible service provider. When he cannot provide, or a better provider comes along, his time is over. A man is always on the bubble, whether he knows it at all. So, there is no surprise that a wife would take off after her provider’s perceived usefulness is diminished. Red-pill rage comes when you think you are special to a woman, when you think you are loved for being you... when you think sh…	/r/MGTOW	03/12/20 11:54 AM
1	Classic hypergamy!! (Copied from another sub) The task is to get the boy past the rejection and resentment, and then to the truth about female nature. I’m just figuring this out in my 40’s ... 4 kids and 20 years of marriage in... I’m just now sorting the shit my mother did to my dad and me. The boy needs to know that he did need a good mom, but he didn’t get it - and that no woman out there is going to fix the scars mom gave him... they will only use those scars to manipulate him. The boy needs to know that he doesn’t need a woman... at le…	/r/MGTOW	29/11/20 05:48 PM
5	Suddenly you awake as a woman and preserve all the knowledge of your previous life. Continue being productive, take care of myself, mind my own business... ya know... pretend I’m still a man.	/r/MGTOW	29/11/20 04:47 PM
3	How much more proof do you need? Bingo!	/r/MGTOW	29/11/20 04:18 PM
0	The Red Pill is mostly nonsense No scientific data? Hmmm... check out divorce stats, divorce settlement stats, gender distribution of neuroticism, studies on what women want, on difficulties of women to pair bond after the carousel, etc... Your objection is not to the science, it is the ideology that arises as one possible response to the data and personal experience. No ideology arises from scientific data itself, only as a response to data (whether serious science or just n=1). There is plenty to criticize, but the science i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/20 03:05 PM
8	The Red Pill is mostly nonsense What is his ideology?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/20 02:54 PM
2	The Red Pill is mostly nonsense How about some examples?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/20 02:53 PM
6	I always hesitated with MGTOW because I wanted to have children, but thankfully society has taken that desire from me Don’t surrender, get a surrogate.	/r/MGTOW	22/06/20 11:46 AM
1	Would the average man rape if he was 100% sure he could get away with it? No! How could you even get up for that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 03:41 PM
1	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? Who cares about how they choose? It’s how they act after choosing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 03:38 PM
1	I found this one to be extremely wholesome My dad was a football player at Berkeley, but then lost his mind... then married my whore mother. She destroyed everything he had left. She divorced him when I was 15, after teaching us to hate him. Now he’s old with dementia, so there is never going to be a way for me to make it right with him. I honor that he fought all that as long as he did, until mom found Chad and fucking kicked him to the curb.	/r/MGTOW	26/01/20 03:57 AM
2	Q4W: How would you feel if your husband cheated on you causing a divorce where you lost half of your possessions, had to pay alimony, lost custody of your children, and had to work to support two households via child support? It is sad. I do not know what will turn the tide. I suspect suffering might lead to an acknowledgement by both sides, and people in general, that we need each other. Also, folks that can make it work and do value mutual love and respect are the ones having all the kids... so perhaps breading better families. Finally, I know for me, my parents’ insanity made me value putting in the time in counseling and spiritually to make things not as shitty for my kids. So far, so good. So maybe people will s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/20 07:09 PM
1	Why do so many men believe they deserve what Chad gets? Right... but the OP has it right. Genetics play a huge part and you can never bridge the gap. IQ, height, looks, and muscles... these are mostly genetically determined. The sooner you accept that you are as limited as you are, the better your life will be. And then start competing with yourself to be the best, strongest, most well-educated version of you. But even if you’re lazy - dumb, poor, short, weak, ugly dudes have families all the time. And their lives are not meaningless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/20 07:54 PM
3	Q4W: How would you feel if your husband cheated on you causing a divorce where you lost half of your possessions, had to pay alimony, lost custody of your children, and had to work to support two households via child support? I think a lot of guys are disappointed to find that the woman they loved and married didn’t love them... and so it was the woman that came for the status and the money, who then traded up for more status, dick, and money. So, what we got instead of love and loyalty was just sex (and meager amounts at that) in exchange for resources. Then these guys conclude that they could get a lot more sex without sacrificing as much resources (given that love was a lie). In other words, they found out that th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/20 07:34 PM
1	Q4W: How would you feel if your husband cheated on you causing a divorce where you lost half of your possessions, had to pay alimony, lost custody of your children, and had to work to support two households via child support? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/20 07:21 PM
1	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? Only?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/20 07:14 PM
1	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? Except you can never keep that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/20 05:11 PM
0	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? Are you kidding? You cannot see it? Men have zero power... they lose their kids, money, and heart. Women are quite heartless once they’ve found your replacement. Women demand all day long and when things don’t workout they leave or cheat... and still take everything. What do they risk? Given that they do not value men, even us leaving is a win for them. I’m trying to see it from the other side... married to a cranky guy that doesn’t help around the house, let’s his gut grow, and is job to job. D…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/20 05:10 PM
1	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? I think he’s saying that they are mostly only low-value women. We all want the higher value ones, but they seem hard to come by. And I believe the consensus feeling from married guys is that with the sex come nothing but more demands and daily efforts to take control (i.e., neuter the man). Meanwhile, the sex goes away until you are full-on replaced. Something like that. Now of course that is not every relationship, but it is quite common. That has not happened to me... yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/20 04:53 PM
1	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? You might change somebody’s mindset if you could be clear about your point. So far you are just saying men need to add value. That’s not controversial... you are not addressing the problem men face or just admitting that we are always in the bubble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/20 04:44 PM
1	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? This point is so apt. The king is no king if his position is purely conditional. That’s the point - men are not kings, they are service providers and women are consumers. Given that there is stiff completion between service providers, providers can never be secure... even with a long term contract because the customer is always right and they will take their business elsewhere. Some customers are more loyal than others, but don’t ever think they aren’t customers, and never forget that as a servi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/20 04:35 PM
1	The resentments of MGTOW ultimately mean they can never truly 'go their own way'. Offer an alternative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/20 10:42 PM
4	Why do guys not want relationships as much as women? No there aren’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/20 02:26 PM
1	Why are Men more affected by the "Society lied to me" Issue than Women? I don’t deny that much of what you are saying is true much of the time. I don’t think it is absolute, and I don’t doubt that women get objectified, abused, and basically screwed in relationships too. But my point was only to explain why men are more shocked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 11:18 PM
13	Why are Men more affected by the "Society lied to me" Issue than Women? Men want to be loved for who they are and they get frustrated to find out they are only wanted (and not loved) for what they are (provider of resources and status). Women don’t care about the former much, they’ve known that they are objectified and stratified based on externals alone since they were little.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 12:59 PM
1	"Alpha Male" That’s the fucking truth!	/r/MGTOW	11/11/19 02:50 AM
1	Make Money, Not Friends I think there is some truth there... loving yourself by always improving yourself is critical. But you can still have a couple real friends. I have two, one on my level and one a mentor. You only ever have one or two real friends at a time. As a man, your wife and kids are not your friends... they are people you love but that need you (they don’t really love you much, more like care for you and blame you for their problems). This truth is painful because we are raised to believe family, women, a…	/r/MGTOW	16/09/19 12:18 PM
9	Keep everything boxed up I was raised by women... I thought I had no nothing box because silence never occurred, wasn’t allowed. Then I realized that I had learned to participate in the conversation-going-to-nowhere with my mind mostly switched off... that is my nothing box. But I think the OP is mistaken. Women do have a nothing box- you’ll find it within 30 seconds of a discussion on philosophy (that you initiated). They are literally gone in 60 seconds... so if you want quiet on that next road trip just start in on y…	/r/MGTOW	16/09/19 11:25 AM
1	Women do not care at all I am thinking that way. My income is very temporarily low...	/r/MGTOW	11/09/19 05:08 PM
1	Women do not care at all To be clear, I have always thought marriage and many children were going to save Western civilization and that - as a Christian - you can only have sex within marriage. While I don’t really doubt God’s existence, I feel like the nuclear family is a lost cause. The truth is, I cannot advise them to get married because women are so awful and I really wish it were not so. My main goal is to launch them into productive lives and to point them toward psychological health... and that may mean pointing…	/r/MGTOW	11/09/19 04:03 PM
4	Women do not care at all Good point. Just wish my grandkids could finally have a good mother, because a virtuous loving mother is what every kid needs. I didn’t have one, and my kids didn’t either. It’s at least partly my fault... I wish there was a solution and I think there isn’t.	/r/MGTOW	11/09/19 02:35 PM
2	What would you rather? 🤔 You are probably right - the species does have to go on after all. I’ve got the 4 kids for now and love that part. But, I’m not sure I can take marriage (the scorn, the insults, the controlling behavior) for the rest of my life. But once you are in, you can’t really go back without losing everything. Just know what’s coming!	/r/MGTOW	23/05/19 08:55 PM
2	What would you rather? 🤔 Looks like my daily experience.	/r/MGTOW	23/05/19 08:45 PM
3	Woman says she doesn't feel the same for her boyfriend after he tear fully admits that he was raped at 11 years of age by his stepbrother, It is just another example of the truth: that for women, men are not ends in themselves, but merely means to ends. In truth, they want a tamed ape, with money. Tear up the other men, have no emotional needs, make other women jealous, give them all your money, and let them fuck other apes when you’re busy collecting money for them. It’s a simple formula... all for the pleasure of an occasional fuck. Don’t stay thirsty my friends- learn.	/r/MGTOW	17/05/19 01:34 PM
2	The downside of being red pilled It happens gradually, imperceptibly. Slowly your desire for peace overwhelms your drive to dominate (as your testosterone drops through true floor). It’s not conscious and it’s probably evolved to help men settle into domestic life and raise kids. However, that taming requires virtue and reciprocity from women... and as you can see ... virtue and reciprocity is in short supply.	/r/MGTOW	17/05/19 11:36 AM
2	The downside of being red pilled I somehow stopped listening to Metallica after I got married. I think it was the drop in testosterone. Well, I’m bring’m back!	/r/MGTOW	17/05/19 11:30 AM
1	The downside of being red pilled Metallica.	/r/MGTOW	17/05/19 11:26 AM
6	Things I wish I had learned from my alpha Mexican friends Women are all the same at the root... some just look better at the beginning. I’ve only ever been with Mexican women... but the similarities with my white mom and adopted Asian sister inform my opinion here. I will say that Latinas seem to be more honest about getting off on drama, but I think all women use drama because that is just one of the tools in the narcissist’s manipulative tool-bag. So, I think there are cultural difference in expression of their shared hypergamous/narcissistic nature.	/r/MGTOW	23/03/19 07:01 AM