BigdadPluto Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
713	WORK ON YOURSELF	Lifestyle	BigdadPluto	/r/seduction	02/08/20 06:23 AM

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1	WORK ON YOURSELF Glad to get another person who went through something similar share their point of view. I’m not saying that acting like you don’t give a shit about them is gonna get you girls, but instead actually not giving a shit about their opinions will allow you to be your true self around them. Also, by focusing on yourself rather than focusing on trying to get girls, you will see a huge improvement in your lifestyle. My main message behind this post was to get people who are too hung up on not being abl…	/r/seduction	27/08/20 12:03 PM
2	If you plan to spend the next few years getting ripped or getting rich or reading books before you start approaching women, you don’t have a plan; you have an obstacle. I didn’t read the sub text until now haha my bad. I agree you need to meet women and take risks to build confidence in yourself	/r/seduction	07/08/20 05:45 PM
6	If you plan to spend the next few years getting ripped or getting rich or reading books before you start approaching women, you don’t have a plan; you have an obstacle. Getting ripped and getting rich should be the goal. If your goal is approaching women you should reconsider your values and prioritize the important things.	/r/seduction	07/08/20 05:03 PM
1	WORK ON YOURSELF His negativity can’t bring me down it just shows me how ignorant he is. And also idc what other people think if or my own opinions ;)	/r/seduction	03/08/20 12:04 AM
2	WORK ON YOURSELF Sharing this so those who were like me can transform as I did. All facts sir never to late for self improvement	/r/seduction	02/08/20 07:47 PM
2	WORK ON YOURSELF Nah this post was for everyone but you take your thank you back	/r/seduction	02/08/20 06:32 PM
1	WORK ON YOURSELF Bro you’re completely missing the point. Obviously looks play a part but looks won’t count for anything if you get nervous around girls. How to not get nervous around girls? Focus on yourself and stop thinking about what other people think. Just because you don’t think that you’re attractive doesn’t mean that there isn’t an attractive girl who thinks you are. People have different opinions and taste. Work on yourself and stop worrying about not looking good enough it’s just a destructive mindset…	/r/seduction	02/08/20 05:08 PM
2	WORK ON YOURSELF That’s a good start. Keep the list somewhere where you will see it everyday to help keep your mind on track. Strive for greatness always	/r/seduction	02/08/20 03:45 PM
1	WORK ON YOURSELF Notice how you assumed I was good looking based off of my confidence? It’s not about looks my man it’s about actions	/r/seduction	02/08/20 03:40 PM
2	WORK ON YOURSELF I think you’re misunderstanding where I’m coming from here. It felt good to get noticed by girls obviously since I never got that type of attention before but it’s something I’m used to now. I lost the weight because I started focusing on myself and less on others. And for your claim that my success only comes from losing the weight and being attractive, that’s just false. Being attractive isn’t the only thing girls look for my man. There have been many times where I was rejected even after losi…	/r/seduction	02/08/20 02:53 PM
2	WORK ON YOURSELF Thanks but I can’t take the credit for it. I’m pretty sure that it’s some well known saying that I was lucky enough to hear and lucky enough that it resonated with me	/r/seduction	02/08/20 02:35 PM
1	WORK ON YOURSELF I agree with you my man. I get so many compliments that they just feel empty now. I gained some weight over quarantine and I’m not as in shape as I was but I know what I need to do to get to where I want to be. You can’t just get to the weight u wanna be and then stop. Healthy habits have to become your lifestyle or you’ll never be able to maintain a healthy body. Keep going hard in the gym stay on the grind brother you’ll get back to where you were.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 02:33 PM
3	WORK ON YOURSELF Don’t know if this will help you but personally whenever I’m feeling lazy or like I want to eat something bad for me I take a step back and ask myself if this is the best thing for me. It’s not a bad thing to take an off day here and there but if you consistently eat healthy and stay active you’ll lose the weight easily. I used to look at myself shirtless every morning when I was fat to remind myself every morning that my actions led me here and only my actions can change it. If you stay consist…	/r/seduction	02/08/20 01:45 PM
2	Help!? I did the same thing with this one girl last year and completely blew it. The best bet is to just wait for her to hit you up. Make her work for your attention instead of just giving it to her. If she doesn’t hit you up again then oh well whatever and if she does oh well whatever. Life is about more than just sex and those that focus on sex the most have the most trouble getting it.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 01:27 PM
3	WORK ON YOURSELF It can be hard getting over a relationship. Just remember that there’s many things greater to life and try to think about the big picture. What are your goals for yourself ? What do you wanna be? Strive for what you want in life and remember that only you can control how you’re feeling.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 01:23 PM
25	WORK ON YOURSELF I wouldn’t compare myself to David Goggins but thanks man appreciate it	/r/seduction	02/08/20 01:19 PM
4	WORK ON YOURSELF A couple things factored into this. At first it was difficult because I kept going back into that worrying mindset. However even though I failed to switch the mindset immediately, I kept introducing the thought process of not caring about other peoples thoughts to my head. It’s very important to remember that the people you spend the most time with shape who you are. I was lucky to have a lot of friends who had no trouble with talking to girls and I was able to learn from them. Over time and hav…	/r/seduction	02/08/20 01:06 PM
1	WORK ON YOURSELF Agreed	/r/seduction	02/08/20 12:54 PM
3	WORK ON YOURSELF You’re worrying too much about appearance it’s causing you to get in your head. Not all girls are like that you’re generalizing what a few girls want and using it to represent all of them. You could have all of the things you just listed and still get rejected if you aren’t comfortable with yourself. If you keep worrying about your appearance that just shows that you have weak character and need to work on your inner self. I have seen 10s go into relationships with guys that don’t meet any of th…	/r/seduction	02/08/20 12:53 PM
9	WORK ON YOURSELF Focus on yourself my man. If you’re thinking too much about what other people think of you it will just make you act nervous or awkward. You just have to focus on doing things that will make you a better version of yourself. Focus on getting money and getting fit and girls will naturally come to you like a magnet.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 12:13 PM
5	WORK ON YOURSELF Growth is exponential you just have to be willing to work for it and learn from your failures	/r/seduction	02/08/20 12:03 PM
3	WORK ON YOURSELF Just go out there and start talking people? If you aren’t a fatass or super skinny you don’t have anything to worry about your looks but it doesn’t matter how good you look if you can’t figure out how to have a naturally fun conversation with someone. Just adopt the I don’t give a fuck mentality and be yourself. I went through many awkward conversations and learned from them. Conversation has always been a naturally easy thing for me though.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 12:01 PM