BigendBlueAnt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.” Amazing advice, and very well said.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/02/20 03:50 PM
24	How do you get over being in a “funk”? I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, OP. I was in a similar state after I graduated but before I got my first job, and that feeling of being simply overwhelmed can still come and go for days or weeks at a time. This is just my personal opinion, but you have to start with forgiving yourself for not being as productive as you’d like. The way things are now, you build up the things you “should” be doing that you end up spending so much mental and emotional energy worrying about getting around to them…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/20 05:52 AM
30	Do not fall for the lie of having fun now and settling later while you in your twenties or be involved in meaningless relationships. Absolutely agreed. Your post reminds me of this Ted talk I saw a while back: https://youtu.be/vhhgI4tSMwc She also touches on careers and general personal development in addition to relationships. Your 20s shouldn’t be thought of as a free pass for consequences, nor should they be “practice” for anything. It’s still your actual life, and each day is as real as they’ll be in your thirties and forties. By all means, take the time to figure out what you want and don’t feel like every relationship i…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/20 03:52 PM
–	Own Your Stuff My goals for this year were to spend more time on my hobbies/self-education, and to get back into a regular workout routine (took 3 months off post-wedding). Secondary goals were to cook at home more, and get my migraines under control. We have a big move planned for mid-February, and I’m worried that I’m using that as an excuse to hold off on a lot of these. I’ve been good about working out these past two weeks, but I’m planning on really going hard once we move into our new place with its own …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/20 04:50 PM
5	Afraid to lose my virginity Hi OP! Gonna chime in with my two cents as someone who was a virgin until 24. Sorry this is so long, but I feel your struggle big time. Even though I didn’t have religious motivations for doing so, I spent my early and late adolescence waiting for “the right person.” It was easy then — I didn’t feel the pressing need to have sex, and plenty of my friends were virgins. It was only once I got to college that things got difficult. Suddenly, all my friends had boyfriends and were having their first …	/r/RedPillWives	06/01/20 08:12 PM
–	What's for dinner? We had a potluck-style Christmas Eve dinner, so I made pernil (pulled pork, basically) and it turned out pretty good. Yay! It was 8 lbs of pork shoulder and in a rub of garlic, oregano, salt, pepper, and olive oil and vinegar that I slow cooked for ~10hrs. Warmed it up in the oven that afternoon with a sprinkling of mojo and it tasted A++ when it was time to go. :) I have a long way to go when it comes to cooking but it made me happy to be able to make a dish from my childhood and have my husban…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/12/19 09:18 PM
5	Dating someone from a lower status What makes you say that? It’s not that I don’t believe it, I’m just curious because as someone who grew up lower middle class and married a man that’s upper middle class, I sometimes feel self-conscious about it. I also feel like the “poor boy marries a rich girl” story is told SOOOO much more often in fiction. Probably because he can prove his worth via deeds and character, and winning over a rich girl is the ultimate fantasy in some ways.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/12/19 05:05 PM
8	Thoughts on weightlifting and maintaining femininity Weightlifting did wonders for my self-confidence and femininity! In my experience, it made me more likely to wear clothes that showed off my physique, improved my posture, and boosted my mood. My husband loves my body and laughed out loud the one time I expressed concern about looking too masculine. I’ve read (and agree) that most women enjoy the aesthetic results of strength training with more lower body focus (glutes, quads, etc) as opposed to more upper body days like guys generally do, but i…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/19 04:40 PM