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Was going to quote the good points you made but it was all solid gold.
/r/askMRP13/06/21 09:58 AM
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They look a bit deflated tbh but I like them in the sense they're my buddies and been milk store for my kids. In essence, they would not be a plus on another woman. In regards for your assement of women, in this case I think its both. Btw I like Frasier.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 07:43 PM
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OYS #33 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 179 cm, Weight 78 kg -1. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at BP Dumbbell 60 kg, OHP 57,5 kg, DL 132,5kg, SQ 100 kg -20, ROW 75 kg +2,5, Fsq 75 kg Slow progress at the gym. Switched to below parallel squats which are 100 instead of 120 kg. Gives me a nice burn in the hips. I have put on some weight, not just muscle and feeling some pressure to lose it right away but sticking to my plan to eat a bit more and do 16H IF. Will do a …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 11:31 PM
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As for the second. Are you talking about a scupula squeeze or am I misunderstanding. Not really, imagine trying to lift something imovable at table height with your bad arm. Adjust your angle as you feel the stretch. I did that after every set of chest press machine (gay). After 2-3 weeks I was basically pain free. I am still afraid of the Bp.. lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 08:13 PM
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So, I know not to push it too far. It's giving me trouble sleeping and is achy most of the day now. I know from experience it's not a push thru it sort of pain. Try hanging from a high bar relaxing your body. Also try holding something slightly lower than hand height and push up-backwards. Do that for a couple of weeks. Helped my shoulder.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 07:20 PM
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Another major issue I need to navigate is around my wife's career. She is very career driven and has a higher level, better paying job than myself. The responsibilities of this job include some late night or weekend calls and work (all from home currently, due to COVID). In most cases, our plans and routine are contingent around her work schedule and have to continually adjust. I would say that, even though not better paid, my wife thinks her job is more important. She spends her evenings around…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 06:48 PM
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I have an overall good relationship with my wife. My big resentment phase is over. Right now I don't have much to complain apart from sex. No. Your big resentment phase starts when you lost all that weight and she still doesnt want to fuck you. Try to not explode.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 10:06 AM
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just through the back door. Giggedi
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/21 09:00 PM
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I get the sentiment and I agree. My thoughts have been about building a new house with money from the sale of our current (if divorce). Sure, I am looking for new projects now as well but its not quite as feasable financially. I have medium project going on but the spirit would be higher were I to do it by myself, for myself. Maybe I need to think about why that is.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/21 12:37 PM
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Not saying I am on the other side, but keep going for OI. Make plans for divorce, what would you do? I was surprised how excited I was about starting over and building a life just for me. When I told my wife that "this is the way it has to be" it was the simple truth. That said, I am prepared for set backs, insurections and mutiny but I am confident in my frame. I think your right about the AWALT but the bar is not set at the same hight for all. Wifes with high ego investment in "Strong whyman" …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 05:23 PM
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OYS #32 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 179 cm, Weight 78 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at BP Dumbbell 60 kg, OHP 57,5 kg, DL 132,5kg, SQ 120 kg, ROW 72,5 kg +2,5, Fsq 75 kg Got the new NAD and tried it out. So far (4 days) I can't really tell. It might be helping in me feeling less tired. I turned down a grappling workout from my fighter friend the other week due to me having a cold. Now it turns out he has covid. Going overt After my fuck up last week I had …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 10:37 AM
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OYS #31 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 179 cm, Weight 78 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at BP Dumbbell 60 kg, OHP 57,5 kg, DL 132,5kg +2,5, SQ 120 kg, ROW 70 kg, Fsq 75 kg I am having one cold after another, this one with a cough so did another test and are waiting for results. I have been eating niacin and resveratrol for about 1 year. I can't say that it's been working. I now read that niacin isn't the right B3 vitamin in order to supplicate NAD in the body …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 10:11 AM
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I would be a fool to swear off my anger. Its inside me and I can feel it in short flashes a couple of days a week. Havent lost my temper though. Compared to my angry past its fucking night and day. Everything with the kids is better then ever. I am the calm and happy person lifting spirits with dancing and jokes when wife loose her shit (every other day). A reversal from a year ago ofcourse. I would concede that I might just mastered the skill of handling and subdueing my anger and its still the…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 09:35 PM
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Yea I suppose I agree. I not even sure she would lay claim to it. Maybe its just soft revengeporn playing out in my mind. Edit: And also about the ring. Passive aggressive shit. I'll put up a boundary instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 09:11 PM
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OYS #30 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 179 cm, Weight 77+1 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at BP Dumbbell 60 kg +5, OHP 57,5 kg, DL 130 kg, SQ 120 kg, ROW 70 kg, Fsq 75 kg Finally catching up on my weight at the gym. Had a week of feeling weak after I held up during christmas/new years (10 days). Had a very positive time with the wife during the holidays and spent new years night-day fucking three times. Fucked every day for a week after. Well things soured a f…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 08:35 PM
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I've done in a long time, pushing past laziness and ego the whole time. I'm also working on a plan for the day in the mornings, instead of jumping into a podcast or whatever other feel-good escapism presents itself right away. that way when my wife gets up, I have a plan ready to go instead of fumbling around like a fucking retard in front of her. Thats good shit! Thinking about something like that aswell to always be the man with the plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/21 07:26 AM
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I'm been doing intermittent fast for almost a year. No breakfast with no cut and non strict high protein diet. Cut lunch if you want a deficit. No hassle, no planning or antisocial eating.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/21 03:09 PM
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Kind of impressed that you had such a good sexy time regardless of participation. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 01:30 PM
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He writes that he is thinking about taking shift work in order to increase income.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 01:18 PM
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Identity convert contracts first, then decide if you would still do xyz without the payoff. Your strategy is to keep doing what you're doing but just tell yourself it's fine. I would add, and this might be obvious to most, that the contract can be layered. If you do things to please her/be nice that is probably also in order to get sex. "I am just being a nice man" was the last contract I had.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 12:40 PM
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Another afternoon, kid is busy watching some cartoons or whatever, so I isolate/escalate and manage to have the best sex I’ve had in years. There is still ways to go. I got close to zero enthusiasm, even if the starfish seems wet and happy. This two seems wierd together to me. Is she fucking out of dread?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 12:32 PM
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been with the same company for 12years. I earn good money and enjoy my work. I’m happy with where I am and where I’m going. Are you planning on working the same fucking job for the rest of your life? How does that earning development look? Lifts: SQ 5 X 92.5kg , BP 2 x 90kgs, DL 5 x 90 kgs, OP 1 x 52.5kg I have been lifting for 10 months, 10 years hiatus before that. You lifts are shit, try harder when gym opens.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 10:14 AM
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OYS #29 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 179 cm, Weight 76 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at BP Dumbbell 55 kg +5, OHP 57,5 kg, DL 130 kg +2,5, SQ 120 kg +5, ROW 70 kg, Fsq 75 kg Forgive me brothers, it's been too long since my last confession. Where I'm at: I have been doing the same shit with decent results for the last month. About a month since I last felt "affirmation seeking need for sex". Been leaning in my masculinity where it fits me, stoic, strong, ini…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 09:51 AM
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Very interesting post. I find it to be immersion in action. Not a constant state for me (lol) but the times I experience it its when maxing lifts and fucking. I cant say what happened during the lift or what I was thinking about. In the same manner when fucking, I sometimes find myself dropping out of immersion, almost like waking up, having her little neck in my hand, bathing in her pussy juice.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 07:15 AM
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Dude, I get that this is a general remark but you are way off. I am and have always been the guy who strikes up fun convos with strangers. I would go so far to say that I have a gift for this. In this case I just rather talk to a hot latina. Edit: My first option was a "language café" evenings near me where randos meet and talk but its closed due to covid.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 10:15 AM
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Belgian blue.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/20 12:21 PM
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Thanks, intellectual retard is probably how I would describe myself in this sub aswell. I guess I on some level doubt I can ever be THAT alpha. I will think about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/20 11:59 AM
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I agree. Even if my progress go back and forth the prognosis is optimistic. Will my wife come along fully? maybe and thats ok. Even though I spent better part of a year in and out of stages of resentment of her I realise I care about her. Because of the societal indoctrination of women into the masculinine and the peer demonisation of feminine women (beyond looks) I percieve a dissonance between what she likes and what shes suppose to like. The book/a book might give her some guidence and comfor…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/20 08:16 AM
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Will check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 10:55 PM
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I haven't read it. Whats retarded about it? My thinking is that it would be an easy enough recipe for her to start leaning in to her femininity.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 10:54 PM
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OYS #28 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 76 kg +1. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, BP Dumbbell 45 kg, OHP 57,5 kg +2,5, DL 127,5 kg, SQ 115 kg, ROW 70 kg +2,5, Fsq 75 kg MRP OYS Review with W&S, HoA and Threekindsoflucky. Solid last two episodes! Great with "call in guest" and fucking hilarious with Johnny joining when high. Suggested topics: MRP with Career wife. Can a man really be free in marriage? I am finally being able to work out my …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 09:14 AM
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The solution is to tailor the shirts myself. I’ve never sewed anything before, but this isn’t rocket science. This week, I’ll watch some YouTube videos to learn how and then get some second-hand shirts to practice on. If I can pull this off, I’ll have a custom fit for all my shirts, which will be a huge upgrade to my appearance. I doubt the red pill leads many guys to learn to use a sewing machine, but here we are. Fuck stereotypes. If the goal is cost cutting, it might be waste of time. If its …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 08:03 AM
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OYS #27 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 127,5 kg, SQ 115 kg, ROW 67,5 kg +2,5, Fsq 75 kg MRP OYS Review with W&S, HoA and Threekindsoflucky. This is now, in my opinion, the best RP show out there. Great banter, different perspectives and good advice. I like the back and forth. I especially like the advice given when you give examples from your own journey and how your thinking has change…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 03:01 PM
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OYS #26 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 127,5 kg +2,5, SQ 115 kg, ROW 65 kg, Fsq 75 kg Reading: Nothing right now Skipped last week. Mental - What do I want I have taken a couple of weeks of enjoying myself, 2 gym/w and relaxed diet a bit, eating breakfast and some snacks. Drank my first beer for 3 months. Its like a mini vacation just for me. Realising that a lot of things I thought I u…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 10:01 PM
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This post gave me PTSD.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 06:40 PM
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Thanks, both these things where deployed humorously in my OYS though. I agree with your comment and should I read it 3 months ago it would have hit home. Sex is now not the source of validation which it was for me then, and neither is the said acts. Right now I just want to keep it light and immersive, when things are more regular I will employ more of the SGM and improve my shortcomings. I have have some ideas lined up and your ratio of 1/3 new stuff seems reasonable. Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 08:15 AM
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I almost did not include the following event in this OYS, as I was concerned about become a meme of sorts here in MRP. You are a meme, an awesome meme. I am reading your OYS like I watch F1. Just waiting for a crash (of desserts).
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 06:18 PM
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I have been keeping track of every time we've had sex for the last 12 years, with notes on quality, novelty and such. For the first few years I even kept score of all the different ailments and other evasions she used instead if telling me straight "you're a faggot, I'm not attracted to you". I haven't thought a lot about the reason for all this scorekeeping until now. Hilarious! Admitting that must have been a hard stomp on your ego. Good for you. Edit. Should read all before comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 01:54 PM
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OYS #24 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 76 kg +1 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 125 kg, SQ 115 kg, ROW 65 kg, Fsq 75 kg Reading: Nothing right now Last weeks OYS garbage since it was just a pat on my own back for grinding and implementing some basic shit like me nog losing my shit during arguments and shit tests and getting butt hurt for lack of sex. Mental - Confession I am lazy. Have been all my life. When given an opt…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 01:32 PM
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I suspect you're deluding yourself ... but not your wife. Hey, based on my experience here I suspect that as well.. I guess I will know in a few months. I have thought about my ego layers abit though and will include it in next OYS. You're not making any authentic emotional connection with her; you have had to disconnect in order to maintain even a precarious grip on your own frame. This is 100%. I am trying to connect again from my frame, in a genuine way. Me not simping all the time makes her …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/20 02:44 PM
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This post helped me alot to see some of my retardation. Thanks.
/r/askMRP29/10/20 08:35 PM
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I can see how its reads like that. This is not that. How do I know? Because I did that already. Acting with a plastered smile and emotional facade. Focused only how I wanted to be percieved. Non authentic AA AMs etc. The difference now is that all I am doing is leaning in to the positive sides of my life, taking the opportunity to do fun things cherish nice moments. Not leaning in to negative emotions like anger and resentment. Am I doing it perfect, fuck no! Do I perform my AA AM and fogging gr…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 07:33 AM
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Nice kick. Will start next weeks oys tomorrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 10:40 PM
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I hate when she uses sex as a bartering tool that overtly. Its all empty talk. I like you had those promises ingraved in stone to cash in later (never). I now realise its totally meaningless banter and treat it as such. Edit: I am still curious about u/Blarg_Risen s explanation why they do this.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 07:27 PM
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I’m complying with my wife’s request that I initiate verbally and directly when I want it so she can consent. I say first thing in the morning that I want sex that night, and she goes along with it. Not sexy or romantic, but so far, it’s worked 100 percent of the time. This reads to me that you are not gaming your wife, are you? My wife usually thinks I want to fuck all day due to me touching and giving sexual attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 07:18 PM
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OYS #23 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 125 kg, SQ 115 kg, ROW 65 kg, Fsq 75 kg Held up OYS for 2 weeks due to uneventful time. Just grinding. Reading: Way of men. Meditations Marcus Aurelius. Training/Body I have reached the goal I set for myself starting mrp. Finally been able to train chest (chest press) for the last weeks and seen a good development already. Trimmed the chest hair a …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 10:40 AM
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Hi, Yes, thats correct. I suppose some guys here need to know that. For me it was a given that my lift goals would not be reached at the same time and that I don't plan to stop DL just because I reached my DL goal. "But then only the Bench goal is needed". Yes but It is nice to reach intermittent goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 11:36 AM
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Hmm thats a good point. No real reason, its just a part of the relationship that I am working on. Its not the measure since my feeling of progress is quite disconnected to sex as per my OYS. I will though make sure the head lines are appropriate for next OYS instead just reusing the same template.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 09:40 AM
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OYS #22 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 180cm. Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 125 kg + 2,5, SQ 115 kg, ROW 65 kg, Fsq 75 kg +2,5 Reading: Watching Rian Stones sidebar material on YT, Way of men. Read Horns post and OYS list. God damned excellent writing and really helpful to read the entire process. Makes me put my shit in a perspective even though it's only one man's journey. Training/Body Gym three times. Still no word on…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 09:05 AM
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No sex for a while. One day, wife asked if I'd like to cum on her tits. I was not in the mood for once and prefered to keep working. She wouldn't have that, and came at me with porn star seduction skills. Turned into a pretty nice slutty session, but I'm a wee bit disapppinted in myself for not standing my ground. Hej broder, I remember when my oldest kid made me a cup of coffee for the first time. I didn't want coffee at the time and I was pretty sure it was mixed with the rinse water. I was gl…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/20 10:50 AM
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OYS #21 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 122,5 kg + 2,5, SQ 115 kg, ROW 65 kg +2,5, Fsq 72,5 kg +2,5 Reading: Watching Rian Stones sidebar material on YT, Way of men Training/Body Gym three times. Working ok, better routine with creatine. Bulking with extra protein and cutting food down successfully. Waiting on physiotherapy via work regarding shoulder issues. Sex Tapered down to trickle …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 01:23 PM
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During my worst anger phase I laid awake all night sweating like a pig, cursing my wife inside. Her sleeping fine next to me just made me more angry. It went on like that for a week before I got a handle on it. The sooner you get a grip on your emptions the better. Prioritise it!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/20 07:30 PM
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Your idea of what "100" is more than likely is pretty fucking tame. Dont blame you. to cumming on her face Thankfully thats 0. Because you're boring. Because you've hamstered that your "100" is too much. Do whatever it is that YOU want to do. Your fear of getting a "no" is likely unfounded and is an imaginary boundary that you're projecting on your woman because of your own fear. Yes, though my 100 is more like yours so that would be Rambo. But I ageee I am playing it too safe. This statement is…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 03:53 PM
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OYS #20 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 120 kg, SQ 115 kg + 5, ROW 62,5 kg, Fsq 70 kg Reading: Watching Rian Stones sidebar material on YT, TWOSM, Way of men Training/Body Gym three times. Struggling some with motivation, with some exercises and with feeling weak generally. Might be a cold or lack of sleep. I will better refrain from eating shit. I have fallen back into rewarding myself …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 11:35 AM
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This anger is explained by the few sentences in TWOTSM you didn't quote BEFORE the part that struck you. It explains why it might be your anger that you can't fix her feelz. So, who are you angry at? Me, the anger is which seems to directed at my wife is based in my own inadequasies. The feeling is simply my lizard reaction. To be fair it was an attempt at a humourus stab at my previous feelings and understanding of my anger. In regards to anger, when the source of the anger is adressed it goes …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 08:26 PM
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OYS #19 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 120 kg, SQ 110 kg + 2,5, ROW 62,5 kg, Fsq 70 kg +2,5. Reading: Watching Rian Stones sidebar material on YT, TWOSM, Training/Body Gym three times. Have been doing creatine and ZMA for a month and think the effects have been positive. Dropped 2 kg out of the blue. Think its from ass and hips because I don't see more fat shed from the stomach and lift…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 03:18 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 05:58 PM
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I know all too well what you are going through. Your wife is obviously a Type A control freak who manipulates and dangles the sex carrot to get what she wants. She likely uses her income and career status as justification for power in the relationship as well. Check and check. Not consciously. Her hamster has it worked out like this, "happy wife - sex life". The hoops got to small and too many for me. Keep focusing on yourself and what you can control and avoid being a dancing monkey. Yes, lots …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 06:10 AM
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Fucking NoFap post of the century!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 06:17 PM
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You'll get it. Just don't rush it. It took me a year to have the guts to say that divorce boundary. It took me 4 years to get my shit together enough to say what I said about sex from a place of congruence. A lot of what I'm dishing out is lit dynamite. Which is why I'm caveating with "if/when you get there". Saying it does not make it so. Saying it merely overtly declares what you've covertly been showing for some time. Mmm. Anger and ego says this should all be fixed last week. I'll hold on to…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 01:28 PM
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'hostage negotiations' might be a better term Haha. Thats awful and accurate. Agree And Amplify ("You're right hon, all I care about is sex. In fact, I'm thinking about your ass right now.") or you Pressure Flip ("What's bad about me wanting sex?") or you say nothing. I have been working on this. I did mute retard for months during the full LARP but have pivoted towards fogging now with decent result. I will work in AM and pressure flip as well. I guess my need for correcting her is that I dont …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 01:13 PM
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But set the damn boundary. Your are right. Have been "meaning to do this" but have faggoted out after storm passed. Now, is it the case that all your interactions are only about sex? If so, work on that. Gaming her is basically stirring up her feels on a regular basis. Not necessarily with sex as the end game. And yes there's probably times where you're gaming her and she thinks you still only want sex because she's paranoid and hasn't figured out that you are simply a man who games often. If/wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 12:21 PM
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Summary: Guys wife follows usual pattern of toeing the nuclear line on order to extract more beta resources...guy complies and gives up more beta resources. Benefit to him? None. But also guy thinks lack of comfort is the problem for a wife holding a gun to his head. Whats the fucking game theory plan? Roll the dice and call the bluff, if she is a pig headed ego maniac (my fault) and you burn it all down while in the process of unfucking yourself? Seriously asking because I was 50/50 (also pig h…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 11:27 AM
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OYS #18 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 120 kg, SQ 107,5 kg, ROW 62,5 kg, Fsq 67,5. Reading: Watching Rian Stones sidebar material on YT, SGM Gym trice with recovering cold. Continuing my streak of failures with revelations x3 Mental/relationship Had again a shitty argument/situation where both hands were on the nuclear button, semi depressed. I was drawn into discussions and engaged in …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 08:57 AM
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And as you do this, she will consistently throw up fake moods - find ways to be angry, depressed, shitty, or whatever she can do to make the game you're playing harder. Wtf were you spying on us! It was both irritating and hilarious. Her trying to grasp at anything to turn into an argument. I was going to write the dialogue (monologue) but you all know it. Thanks for the reply. To be honest I quite enjoyed gaming her. Its always been a part of my old flirty self. The one I buried to please her..
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 06:11 PM
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OYS #17 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 120 kg, SQ 107,5 kg, ROW 62,5 kg, Fsq 67,5. Reading: Watching Rian Stones sidebar material on YT, Attraction isnt a choice, PON. No gym during the week due to a bad cold. Continuing my streak of failures with revelations. Mental/relationship Had multiple situations this week with the first one again being about me valuing sex and the perception tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 12:45 PM
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Not to mention all the faggots everywhere..
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 05:11 PM
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Thanks, I have been wondering this as well. I was worried for a while that all this MRP stuff was a covert straight to gay conversion process.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 04:25 PM
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Haha I hear you brother. I am regarding it as a 12 month sociology study not as an insulin dispensary.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 06:52 PM
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Tried it and still getting "I am not your slut, I am your wife". "You are both to me :)" did not work either.. yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 05:17 PM
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OYS #16 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 120 kg +2,5, SQ 107,5 kg, ROW 62,5 kg + 2,5, Fsq 67,5. Reading: Watching Rian Stones sidebar material on YT Wrote a content free OYS last week with lots of words but no real reflection. Is it because I want to give off a better image of myself to randos on the interweb or am a lazy fuck who cant even bother reflecting on things? Probably both. I ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 09:51 AM
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Stop telling yourself this story about your dad and how injured you are. I agree, that would be detrimental and not taking ownership but actually I really don't think about it normally and certainly not in a way that makes me a victim. Sure it wasnt good but I have always thought of it as giving me independence and fortitude. I wrote about it because I was rereading NMMNG. I should have kept to myself until I have an idea about how it relates though.. One thing it might have caused is me feeling…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 12:46 PM
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I would like to discard that but you are right, atleast regarding the fucking. I am just fucking pleased about the gym part since I have been feeling like going nowhere for 4 weeks. Honestly, if I wanted validation from posting I wouldnt post here since I know replies like this would come. Lol. I post for in OYS the kick in the balls and push to the back. Edit: Think my brain cell figured out your meaning. My OYS does not contain anything that actually describes me working towards my goals and c…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 09:40 AM
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Got the idea to start talking to some girls in my wife’s friend circle. Mentioned one candidate on a light note to wife. She was a little taken back by the idea and enquired why I wanted to do so. Wtf is this? You want to talk to your wifes friend out of the blue to dread her? Maybe its just me but that comes across as a fucking wierd move. Talk to women you dont know and happen to meet. If your wife sees it fine, if not thats fine too.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 09:05 AM
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OYS #15 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg, DL 117,5 kg +5, SQ 107,5 kg +2,5, ROW 60 kg + 2,5, Fsq 67,5. Reading JBP 10FL, Book of Pook and rereading NMMNG Training: Killing it at the gym with most lifts up. Don't know if it's the creatine or just me leaving a plateau. My shoulder(s) fucked up again resulting in I can't do bench or OHP. Started with serious rehab and will nog screw this up agai…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 08:46 AM
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I'm not sure what you're asking here. You default to caring about her feelings? There is nothing wrong with caring about the feelings of your wife. Using them as a compass of what you do? No, don't do that. But most of the time it comes right back to this: Sorry, yes caring like in "what would she say/think/feel". I now consciously think about it and confront these reactions and try to evaluate them regarding my own goals. LARPing I suppose. That's the continual epiphany most of us have througho…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 03:27 PM
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The third is when you get mad at her again for not noticing your changes when the sex dies off and her panties aren't wet from your noob gains. Yea, massive noob gains though.. :) I think you're somewhere between 2-3. Probably more 3 but making an effort to redirect my anger towards myself. (IE I fucking hate that mean bitch but she wouldnt be a mean bitch if I was less of a weak faggot) Eventually you'll get mad enough and just stop fucking caring and start doing the work like you are now. Even…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 01:41 PM
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OYS #14 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg. Doing Strong lift 5x5 at B 62,5 kg, OHP 55 kg +2,5, DL 112,5 kg, SQ 105 kg, ROW 60 kg +2,5, Fsq 67,5. Reading JBP 10FL, Book of Pook and rereading NMMNG Training: Traveled in country this week a bit and missed some training. Feeling really strong and went from 5 to 8 pull ups. Started taking the Core Zink, Alu, B6 supplements and ordered creatine. I am hoping to be past the plateau I have been stuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 10:33 AM
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Is that really all you've read in 13+ weeks? No basics like Rational Male, NMMNG, & WISNIFG? Wtf man? Already read NMMNG and WISNIFG but will reread them. "My LARPing" ^ FTFY, she can tell you are incongruent. I can tell you are incongruent because of your word choice. You are taking actions to get reactions out of her, not because you are a HVM with better things to do. No doubt incongruent. The nice guy instincts are not all dead and I sometimes feel anxiety for an moment before controlling it…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 10:15 PM
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OYS #13 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg (165 lbs.) Strong Lift 5x5, B 62,5 kg, OHP 52,5 kg, DL 112,5 kg, SQ 105 kg, Row 57,5 kg, FSq 67,5 kg +2,5 Reading: JBP, 10 RFL, Book of Pook Physical/training/Diet: Family celibration this week fucked up diet a bit. Gym 2 times only but 6-7 walks. Havent started the magmesium since I suck att taking pills. Will fix this using week pill box. Career: Vacation. Mental/Relationship: The shit test I rec…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 11:59 AM
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Translation: "I gave up my own identity and gave away my own freedom, of my own volition, to a woman who happened to have a manipulative toolset that matched my own weaknesses. But it's much easier to blame her than to work on my weaknesses." 9/10. Last part is off :). I can see this being handled in one of two ways, and I strongly suspect yours came off as the butt-hurt one. Equal measures butthurt and uninterested/bored. Coming from 110% butthurt its progress.. I read that "inspire and affirm …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 02:52 PM
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OYS #12 Back from rule 9 ban - Evaluation period Got a rule 9 ban a month ago and used that time to take stock of what I internalized. I took a break from MRP all together for a couple of weeks. My results are the following. I have been emotionally controlled for many years with what looks to be narcisism (AWALT). I have felt that this has been unfair and build up my Nice guy anger. When treated the same I now can recognize the same anger but is harnessing it in more attractive way. IE setting b…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 12:12 PM
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OYS #11 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5,7). Height 5,9". Weight 76 kg (167 lbs.) Strong Lift 5x5, B 62,5 kg, OHP 50 kg, DL 110 kg, SQ 100 kg, Row 57,5 kg, FSq 60 kg Reading: - Physical/training/Diet: Less fucking around with diet and held solid 20 hour fast during 4 days. Seeing slow reduction in stubborn belly fat. This ofcorse would go faster if I cut all shit food. Gym only twice, fucked up here even though time has been crunched. Have strated the 100 reps/day push u…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 06:34 AM
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Missing workouts because you are building a deck is not an excuse. You will lose ground in your workout routine. Workout before you work on the deck. I've been redoing my backyard and it's been exhausting labor so I learned real quick workouts have to be done first or they won't be done at all. Ya its probably a lazy cop out. Will make it 3 times minimum this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 06:57 PM
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OYS #10 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5,7). Height 5,9". Weight 76 kg (167 lbs.) Strong Lift 5x5, B 62,5 kg +2,5, OHP 50 kg +2,5, DL 110 kg +2,5 SQ 100 kg +5, Row 57,5 kg, FSq 60 kg Reading: - Physical/training/Diet: I have been fucking around a bit on my diet eating shit. Still keeping calories at deficit though. The deck building is eating into some of my gym time but I accept that as it build my body none the less. Made some nice gains this week and felt really good.…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 09:26 PM
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Don't think we mean the same mean card. Mean card as in withholding time and attention. That coupled with no affection might have been too strong reaction but as I wrote, I was an angry faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 07:26 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5,7). Height 5,9". Weight 76 kg (167 lbs.) Strong Lift 5x5, B 60 kg +2,5, OHP 47,5kg, DL 110 kg +2,5 SQ 95 kg, Row 57,5 kg, FSq 60 kg Reading: - TWOSM Physical/training/Diet Went to gym 3 times/days after OYS then started building s deck so no more gym after that. Upped weight in a couple of exercises. I need a better routine to get to gym and I will try out getting up earlier in the morning and go then. Been swimming a bit in the lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 07:36 PM
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I am in agreement here. One need to transform from direct outcome motivation to process motivation. Not to say that the behavior of wife isn't of interest but it's not THE guage of progress. It might be a laggy gauge for the marriage though 🤔
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 07:00 AM
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Get what you are saying. The long term goals need to be tangible. Next OYS I will try a new format out. Perhaps long term goals with week/monthly goals. I struggle with this alot since my goals so far has been 100% validational..
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 04:31 AM
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OYS #8 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5,7). Height 5,9". Weight 76 kg (167 lbs.) Strong Lift 5x5, B 57,5kg +2,5, OHP 47,5kg +2,5, DL 107,5 kg +7,5 SQ 95 kg +5, Row 57,5 kg +2,5. Reading: - TWOSM Missed last weeks OYS. Physical/training/Diet Status is that I have plateaued a bit but look fairly good. I am now normal fit but I am not strong.The two weeks that passed I have ramping up a bit in the gym which resulted in descent gains. This week I will switch to front squat a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 09:08 PM
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Edit: Wrong post, Sorry being retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/20 01:46 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5,7). Height 5,9". Weight 76+1 kg (167 lbs. Strong Lift 5x5, B 55kg, OHP 45kg, DL 100 kg +10, SQ 90 kg, Row 55 kg. Reading: - The last two OYS have felt like taking a dump, and read like such as well. Repetitive nonsense. Physical/training/Diet I realised this week that I am using my shoulder issue as a excuse for (mostly) lackluster effort in gym. My lifts are still quite weak but I have no ego regarding this so slow progress is not…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 08:39 AM
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Thanks you for your comment. My OYS was toilet paper. I have been thinking about exactly this for the last 2 weeks. My BP instincts/indoctrination basically tells me to chill now (because sex and relationship are good) so will power is challenged by loss of hunger. I made a mistake of integrating my actions for improvement in my relationship. Ex. Going to gym/reading/learning when denied. Now when no denials I haven't set up new routine. My problems/mistakes: - wafer thin frame. - complacency is…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 10:24 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5,7). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg (165 lbs. Strong Lift 5x5, B 55kg, OHP 45kg, DL 90 kg +10, SQ 90 kg, Row 55 kg +5. Reading: WISNIFG Physical/training Shoulder issue is persistent. Doing rehab and shoulder friendly exercises. Had boxing practice this week. Seen improvement in abs and general shape but lifts are still abysmal. Mental: I have had a "good" week with wife. Mindful of the dancing monkey routine. Several shit test today wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 11:18 PM
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rather_empty Didn't see latter half of your reply on phone.. Forget about my first defensive reply. I thought about it more and you are right. On some level, even though my thoughts about divorce is neutral and I long for banging hot thots, I still want validation from wife about my progress. The funny thing is that when I try to be smart about it I think "no validation is a good sign" I just affirm for my self that it is about her (or at least which ever bitch is able to validate). What changed…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 06:53 AM
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Haha true and true. I should have been more clear about the question being more theoretical than "mum are we there yeeet?". TBH it was probably a reaction to me seeing 2 young HB8 at the gym, which I felt confident I could game. I simply don't want to waste time. I am eager for my life to be more fulfilling and fun but the betterment of myself is it's own reward. I do not expect anyone but myself to give a shit about the transformation I am going through I am just a curious fucker and want as mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 11:49 AM
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OYS #5 Country won't have a lockdown Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5,7). Height 5,9". Weight 75 kg (165 lbs. Strong Lift 5x5, B 55kg, OHP 45kg, DL 80 kg +10, SQ 90 kg, Row 55 kg +5. Reading: WISNIFG Physical/training Shoulder issue is flaring up again. Will have to rest bench and row I think. Will do rehab exercises istead. No boxing this week but will fix that coming week. Mental: I have almost left the anger phase I think. Don't feel a lot of anger in thinking about t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 07:24 AM
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She is a lawyer.. lol. Joking aside, in my country divorce laws are pretty good. 50/50 split both money and kids. No alimony. I am not worried either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 01:14 PM
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Honestly I too struggle with the issue you stated but here is the thing, isn't all your problem petty versus seeing your kids? If thats the case your only goal is basically to see your kids regardless of life. Maybe your life is great and wife fantastic and only issue is sex but if your are going to go through the change to be a better man, your preparedness to nuke the family is a must. The way I look at it is "it takes two nuke". But what the fuck do I know, I am noob.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 01:04 PM
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Frantic reading ensues
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 12:12 PM
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Am I really willing to give up my nuclear family? Everytime I see my kids, I don't think so, at least for now. What will you do when you are the best version of yourself. When women squirt through their panties when you walk by but your wife still doesn't acquiesce? Asking for a friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 12:00 PM
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Putty in your hands. And then you blew it. Exactly.. lesson (hopefully) learned. Do you see what happened when you took your life back? Yes. It was great :) Do you know why she made a contract for sex but then didn't follow thru? Control I suppose? When you said I forgive you...did you mean it or were you just saying what you're "supposed" to say when someone says sorry? Honestly I don't know, I think I forgive her but maybe I am just storing it as resentment. Pay attention to WISNIFG. There's s…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 11:10 AM
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OYS #4 Country still has no lockdown. Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5, 7). Height 5'9". Weight: 76 kg (167 lbs). Strong lift 5x5, B 55 kg,+5 OHP 45 kg, DL 70 kg, SQ 90 kg, ROW 50 kg. Still reading some of the sidebar, The Book of Pook, The seduction method. WISNIFG. Physical/training Finally got the form issue sorted with BP, hope to see more chest growth coming weeks. Compiled pictures of muscle development and see continuous progress since mid feb when I started. Got …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 08:51 AM
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Thanks, Sorry to hear about your divorce even though a part of me envy you. Family life can be bliss but can also be a mean cage. No need for apology man, I felt a bit better reading something positive! (I must be having my period). Dr Phils saying often come to mind, "If you feel stupid now imagine how you will feel in 2, 5, 10 years". Right now I'm just realising that my wife probably always viewed me as a beta bucks guy even though I was a real good closer and a clear Alpha to the girl I left…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 07:47 PM
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Fuck man. That hurt. You are right. In fact the thing my mind went to when reading your advice was "but now (two days past) things are kinda ok, shame to rock the boat too much." Pathetic would be a complement. I am angry, I am resentful, I am committed to the change but, fucking fucking faggot, I am afraid of the conflict. I want to avoid it sooo bad. I cant change shit as long as I still am nice guy 101. Thanks for the harsh truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 04:30 PM
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Thanks for the comment. The advice you give seem like the nuclear option to me. I suppose I need to flush her frame from my system but I can see the weird situations piling up. What if I get a BJ. Do I walk away afterwards nor saying a word. Seems impossible to reward good behavior if this extreme? That said I agree that a parallel life would be beneficial, not being a fucking emotional tampon for her convenience.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 01:39 PM
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OYS #3 Country still has no lockdown. Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5, 7). Height 5'9". Weight: 78 kg (172lbs). Strong lift 5x5, B 50 kg, OHP 45 kg, DL 70 kg, SQ 90 kg, ROW 50 kg. Still reading sidebar, The Book of Pook, The seduction method. Physical/training Seeing continued progress regards to fat loss without much weight loss. Good I suppose. Still having shoulder pain when bench pressing. Will switch to other exercises for a while. Marriage Weird week. My IDGAF att…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 11:14 AM
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Thanks, this is good shit. I am a kinda handy man and have a few areas where I DNGAF like your example. I would like that to be my normal though. I catch myself saying shit like "I would need this for fixing the car". Like, just fucking do it, it's my money.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 06:41 PM
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Wrong. You're a shitty leader so she needs to take control. Why would she trust you? Trust is instinctively built with actions that demonstrate leadership competence and high value, not with empty words. STFU. I concur. No more fucking talk about this. Also it's intellectual validation seeking. "Look how clever and smart I am for having figured something out."
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 12:32 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (2, 5, 7). Height 5'9". Weight: 79 kg (174lbs). Strong lift 5x5, B 40 kg, OHP 35 kg, DL 60 kg, SQ 82,5 kg, ROW 35 kg. Deload after shoulder pain. Still reading sidebar, The Book of Pook. Marriage A few shit tests this week. One small nervous accident with one of the kids turned the wife to a total bitch. Remained calm and quiet with one line of DEER with me pointing out her being unreasonable (reasonable.. lol). Should have skipped that …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 10:38 AM
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OYS #1 Stats: age mid 30, married to wife (mid 30), 3 kids (under 10y). Height 5'9". Weight: 79 kg (174lbs). Strong lift 5x5, B 50 kg, OHP 45 kg, DL 60 kg, SQ 82,5 kg, ROW 52 ,5 kg. Still reading sidebar. Most recent NMMNG. Intro - Semi alpha to olympic beta Came here for advice in regards to boring/vanishing sex life (like everyone else). Realised the sad state of my life and committed to the change. That was 2 months ago. When I met my wife I was easy going, smooth sailing, devil may care, lov…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/20 10:09 AM
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