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This is the best advice anyone will give you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/19 08:21 PM
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5 days Moved out on Saturday and was getting busy the following Thursday.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/19 07:59 PM
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I'm in Ohio and I will keep the DB updated.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/18 01:26 AM
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Thanks for the tough love but my attorney handled this perfectly. We had an agreement in principle when we left. She decided to fire her attorney after getting more bad advice from whom ever is giving it to her. As a result, she is going to be incurring more legal bills. Her new attorney is widely recognized as the most unethical lawyer in the city. Most attorneys won't even deal with him. He has had his license suspended and has been cited unethical behavior numerous times. He also has sued a n…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/18 01:33 PM
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Her brother is a good man. But I doubt she'd listen to him. Part of this is spite because of how embarassed she was during our attorney meeting. The other part is she really thinks she's getting a raw deal because she's not getting what she wants.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/18 07:54 PM
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I can empathize. I left in September after she ran up $70k+ in credit card debt (ran up $26k 6 years ago). Since my attorney schooled her attorney and she realizes that she's not going to get Anything close to what she wanted financially she's started involving kids in the divorce proceedings, our finances, etc She's careful not to bad mouth me directly (makes my lawyer the bad guy) but has let them look at the papers (which they don't understand) and told them I'm r refusing to pay child suppor…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/18 11:15 AM
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I hear ya on that. MY STBX told me her dad bailed her out once when she first moved out. I ran up CC of over $1K ONCE and stopped spending and paid it off a month later. The simplest approach to finance and money management is usually the best -- don't spend more than you have. The other thing is that she's had our house re-financed numerous times. SMH WTF didn't I get more involved. I thought she knew what she was doing. OMG but looking back now, I can't fathom how much has been pissed away. I …
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/18 02:35 PM
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14-16-20 What they will understand is that $71K in CC debt (if her father hadn't passed) would have led to bankruptcy or us selling the house. My genius STBX said during divorce proceedings that we could have taken it out of retirement. SMH. I wanted to scream "SO DUMBASS, how do we pay for the $30K+ tax burden that would have accompanied it?" I can't believe I trusted her. She's shown herself to be selfish, shallow, irresponsible, self-centered and downright stupid when it comes to managing mon…
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/18 01:48 PM
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She's not terrible parent but she is manipulative as fuck. And frankly I'm shocked she has stooped to this level. But in her mind, she technically isn't bad mouthing me (only my attorney) and she justifies her behavior because "the kids need to know the state of our finances"...Which I think is Bullshit. I never knew anything about my parents money. And she really has no idea the damage she doing to our eldest -- who said to me, "Please don't call mom on this. I don't want to get screamed at." H…
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/18 12:02 PM
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We don't do anything special. Breakfasts, lunch, movies. It's tough because of the age they are at. They're not going to want to hang out with their dad in their weekends. I try to be respectful of that. My STBX is doing everything she can to change the narrative and distance herself from what she did. She's still so angry that I'd dare leave her and ruin her "brand" and the life she had. She's angry that she's not getting more and that she'll have to actually curb her spending on necessities-- …
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/18 08:03 AM
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The kids are 14-17-20. We initially told them we grew apart (wife didn't want them to know about CC debt) but then when I was gone she took it upon herself to tell them "I hid CC debt from dad. He found out. Got mad and left." In their eyes, I left them (she keeps repeating how I left them...has framed this as the new narrative...not the woman who runs up $100K in CC debt) and they have no idea of the magnitude of transgression (or that it happened twice). Her father passed right before I discov…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/18 08:27 PM
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The kids have been through so much. I just want to make sure they dont' get hurt more by a manipulative mother bent on garnering sympathy rather than doing what's in their best interest. Right now, she is forcing them to choose sides. And that is total BS. She's angry I left (and am holding her accountable for her actions....a first for her) and that she's not getting the lion's share of money. It's bad enough she's getting the house, kids and dogs, she wanted to financially cripple me.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/18 03:54 PM
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Whoooa Warning signs right there.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/18 10:13 AM
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She sounds like a giant child. And I too WAS in a similar situation-- married since 1994 as well. My wife still was trying to convince me of how irrational (leaving over $100k in hidden credit card debt total two times in last 6 years....I just can't let little things go tsk tsk) while I was carrying stuff out to my car. Now that we both have attorneys she knows shit's gotten real. She also controlled and manipulated me through guilt (the kids, the dogs, our families, our friends), shame, gaslig…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/17 10:38 AM
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