BigishTuna Archive

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11	Question about this girl I slept with and am into Sometimes women just drop out of your life for no apparently clear reason. One second you’re having the most amazing sex of your life, perhaps it goes on for a few months, and then in what seems like an instant she’s gone. Maybe she realized she wants a boyfriend and doesn’t see you in that way, maybe she just used you for sex. The only person that knows the answer is her. Honestly if it seems like a completely dead lead, I’d straight up ask her. Happened to me earlier this year with a fuck budd…	/r/seduction	21/10/22 12:45 AM
10	Most common place to day game? The grocery store may be a bad place to go and “sarge,” approaching lots of people. However, if there’s a cute girl browsing the produce I’m not gonna just not say hi.	/r/seduction	04/10/22 11:45 AM
1	Most common place to day game? Yeah I can’t say I’ve done mall game a lot, but I’d say it’s probably a good place especially when the weather gets cold and less people are out and about outside. Just casually stroll around a few stores, cafes, and maybe the food court, and approach as you see fit.	/r/seduction	04/10/22 11:41 AM
6	Most common place to day game? Daygame can and should be done anywhere you spend your time (coffee shop, grocery store, even the gas station). However if you’re looking to go out and do a daygame “session,” I recommend environments where there are lots of people out and about in at least a somewhat relaxed environment. I’ve had the most success approaching at the beach, the park, college campuses, busy downtown streets, the local farmer’s market, and even large malls when the weather is shit.	/r/seduction	04/10/22 03:16 AM
2	Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming? This reeks of black pill nonsense. At the end of the day you can choose to take action or you can choose wallow in self pity. It’s up to you. Just know that there is light at the end of the tunnel if you choose to venture toward it. Also I’m 5’9” just in case you were wondering.	/r/seduction	02/10/22 11:36 PM
1	Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming? Let me be clear, just by approaching enough, anyone can get results no matter how ripped or not ripped you are. That short, skinny guy will get results if he is confident and puts himself out there enough. Hitting the gym and maximizing your aesthetics increases your confidence and maybe some more girls will check you out, but if you’re complete shit at talking to them, they’ll lose interest really quickly. For reference, I’m not “ripped.” I’m about 15 or 16 percent body fat and have above avera…	/r/seduction	02/10/22 07:36 PM
1	Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming? Looks do matter, but not as much as people think. Follow a decent diet, hit the gym, get a good haircut and wear stylish clothes (not necessarily expensive) and that’s enough for most guys.	/r/seduction	02/10/22 05:48 PM
3	Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming? Was just on a date a few days ago from a daygame street cold approach. She said she was impressed that I was able to approach her and have a good conversation. Many guys just don’t know how to socialize outside of a bar or even in general. That’s why daygame gets labeled as “creepy” by some when approaching in a socially calibrated manner is accepted and appreciated by many, many women.	/r/seduction	02/10/22 02:47 AM
6	Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming? I was thinking the same thing! Since when did this sub hate on daygame?	/r/seduction	02/10/22 02:27 AM
0	Just came back from a party The reason you can’t do this is because, despite all the “work” you’ve put in, is because you’re completely insecure. You need to take a step back and think about what it means to be confident in yourself, with or without women in your life. Women will come and go, but you need to be sure of YOURSELF and happy without the need for women around you. The reason you “can’t” do this is because you are insecure. Women and people in general can smell that from miles away. Your insecurity is also what’…	/r/seduction	01/10/22 01:24 PM
1	How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior? It’s needy if you NEED her. It’s not if you just want her and don’t give a fuck if she doesn’t like you. Pretty simple.	/r/seduction	15/09/22 08:47 PM
1	Havr anyone did daygame in Asia Countries.? Yeah I had my for share of fun nights with Koreans. Also had a LTR with a Korean girl in my earlier years there. IMO Korea is underrated as a country in Asia in regards to cold approach and dating in general as a foreigner, though definitely not on the same level as SE Asia (ie. Thailand, Philippines, etc…). You can find success with Korean women down to meet foreign guys, although some just won’t be interested because you’re a foreigner. Weed through those and find the ones that like foreign du…	/r/seduction	13/09/22 12:54 PM
1	Havr anyone did daygame in Asia Countries.? I did a lot of daygame in South Korea this past year, although I’m back in America now. The women are certainly more submissive and feminine which works to your advantage IMO. In general people are less social in daily life so a cold approach is a bit more shocking to them, but still effective if done right. I had a lot of success at the beach where people were relaxed and a bit more open.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 09:24 PM
26	[33M] My game is tight in all areas: look good, feel good, make good money, well built etc. I just don't have the balls to approach! How to work my way up to an approach? I agree with this advice in the sense that becoming a bit more social will help ease the anxiety of talking to women you find attractive. However, contrary to your beliefs, I believe that intent is necessary. Women need to know you are talking to them because you think they are attractive. Otherwise you’re gonna end up making a lot friends and not getting laid. There are calibrated, non-needy ways of establishing intent (ie. Being direct and having a relaxed, confident demeanor), but intent has …	/r/seduction	07/09/22 02:23 AM
5	For guys who have gotten into cold approach and started feeling confident about it, what’s your success rate like? I don’t do much, or really any, bar/night game these days. However, I do a lot of daygame. I’d say for every 10 girls I approach, I’ll walk away with 3-5 numbers. Out of those numbers generally 1 -2 turn into dates. I’ve been living in South Korea for 3 years and started doing daygame here. Moving to the states in a few days and then to Poland soon so I’m interested to see how these numbers could change. But don’t worry about the success rate numbers to be honest, especially when first starting …	/r/seduction	05/09/22 12:08 AM
7	I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me? Yeah man so basically I’ve always been interested in daygame cold approach and have consumed probably too much content over the years lol. I had never tried it until recently I had a long term relationship end about a year ago. I got on tinder and had some success getting a few one night stands and fuck buddies for a month or two, but those relationships fizzled out and tinder went dark so then I had my fuck it moment. I went out and just started giving compliments and walking away, then I start…	/r/seduction	04/09/22 12:08 PM
2	Looking for a Wingman in Baltimore Sent you a PM.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 07:48 AM
3	I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me? Truth is in the eye of the beholder. I’m only speaking from experience. As are you.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 07:35 AM
23	I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me? Dude I’m the same as you. Textbook introvert and don’t like bars and clubs other than for hanging out with friends until I inevitably bounce at some point. I kill it on dates though and can lead a one-on-one conversation with the best of them. You gotta do daygame cold approach man. It’s changed my dating life for real. Use that relaxed confidence and conversational skills and go out during the day, to the beach, to the park, to the mall, and talk to girls you find attractive. You’ll thank me la…	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:52 AM
9	How to unequivocally signal I do NOT want to be talked to? Wear a facemask and a low profile hat that makes your eyes hard to see. I tend to not approach girls if I literally can’t see their face.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 12:39 AM
1	Going to a bar tomorrow. What’s your go to opener or opener style? Yeah I hear you. I’m my opinion you are saying all the right things. Cold reads and shit like that work and help spark conversation. It may be your non-verbals. You could be coming across as not totally comfortable, confident, relaxed, whatever. Maybe you’re not coming across as genuine. If she’s looking around like she needs saving she either doesn’t like your vibe for whatever reason, or doesn’t want to be approached by anyone that night. More likely the former. If she likes your vibe and is l…	/r/seduction	03/09/22 01:26 PM
1	Going to a bar tomorrow. What’s your go to opener or opener style? In a bar I sometimes use an familiarity opener where I basically pretend as if I know her from somewhere. Basically goes like “Hey did you go to xyz event, last week?” Or “Did you go to xyz university?” She’ll probably say no and then I just say “oh you just looked really familiar,” and then I introduce myself and continue the conversation. I like this opener because I can use it on basically anyone, anyone can think they recognize someone. Would something situational be better? Probably, but wh…	/r/seduction	01/09/22 02:49 PM