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Rant/VentingBignmybrain/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 05:47 PM
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Bignmybrain/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:49 PM
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MetaBignmybrain/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 02:06 AM
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I find that more often than not, I hold myself back from a particular girl because a guy I am acquainted with is in to her. I also see that I hold myself back from most approaches during the day, although I'm noticing the opportunities more. I think these two things are related since one cannot consciously hold a portion of himself back without holding some other part back unconsciously. Where do I go with this?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:15 PM
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What's the difference being the one girls can relax around vs. being the one they want but can't have?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 01:31 PM
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I'm in a similar boat being separated from my son's mother. It is hard but you have what you need to handle it. It is about routine and flexibility. Being consistent creates stability, for you and subsequently your child, and flexibility gives you options to be both Dad and Chad. Find meetups that are man/kid friendly. Find local kids events AND stuff you like to do when you don't have your kid. It's out there. Go find it.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:26 PM
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This is an awesome antidote to oneitis. The one you crave is a series of features, features that MANY other girls have. Walk away.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 10:13 PM
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It can mean a couple of things: 1) Shit-test, like many of the people have said. It's an attempt to lock you down or to have you qualify yourself to her. "Is he able to attract other women or not?" 2) Comfort-test. I see it as a way to reduce her own cognitive dissonance. Her thouhts: "Girls who do this are sluts. I'm doing this. I'm a slut." "But I'm not a slut...?"
/r/askTRP23/06/16 07:31 PM
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Great post. Nihilism, for me, is another way to protect my fragile ego. Building a solid frame and interacting with the world on my terms brings beauty to life along with the understanding that whatever comes at me I will handle. My frame will take damage, but I can patch & rebuild with the knowledge of seeing the world as it is(rp) and not for what it should be(bp).
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:56 PM
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Honest communication is most important(imo) to life. The delivery of bad news doesn't have to be in a crass idgaf manner. Have tact, be honest and care that your hypothetical combat buddy is dying. OP needs to find his balls and determine for himself what the best course of action is for HIS life. Not his mom's or his father's.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:35 PM
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Trigger anxiety for sure. Then apathy in order to protect my ego from rejection or to not seem like one of "those" guys. I'm pretty tired of the shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:19 PM
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My number 1 issue is taking advantage of the opportunities I do have. Whether it is going out to meet new people, building hobbies, or trying to find women I'm interested in, I waste time and the seemingly few opportunities pass.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 03:56 PM
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Question 1: ”Are you a player?” Answer: Yes, what sports do you play. Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” Answer: (smirking) how did you know? Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” Answer: I just realized you're crazy, and you know what they say about crazy girls... Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Answer: Today? Not many Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Answer: I see lots of people. Him over there, that girl, those old people... What's …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:47 PM
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Is it just me or does any one else see an issue with one individual who makes a shit ton on money wanting money from another individual who makes a shit tonier more of money more than the first individual? Regardless of gender, it's shitty to try and take money from someone because you can't live within you means. I don't know the situation and all I have is the title and explanation from this post, but he's either a bitch or trying to prove a point by hitting her where it hurts... Her money... …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 02:49 PM
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Victim mentality, not so much. Curiousity and seeing what individuals who are fully red think of questions I have.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:42 PM
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"I see parallels in the equality statement, but as we've seen the inclusion of black people hasn't swung the pendulum in favor of black people." "Not 100 percent sure what you mean here." I'm not sure what I meant either. I guess I was trying to connect the two issues based on face value. New Feminist fight for "equality" but really want a dominant position. Black people fought for equality to have a chance at life, which I thought the feminists did too. Edit: Clarification
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:35 PM
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1) Making a broad statement about a majority os wrong but making broad statements about a monority os okay? 2) Some men are intimidated by me and my average blackness and to be honest, those people are weak in my eyes. So the reason you won't hear me bitch about that is because I have them figured out. Not because it's an advantage. 3) The chick thing is something outside my circle of influence. I came to terms with dick size long ago. Do I want to hear a thunk when I put it in a chick's hands? …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:23 PM
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Sounds like you are trying to plate a girl you have anyone-itis for. You have given her validation for free and are too focused on "this situation." Ignore her & have fun within your social circle. Next time you're out with this group of friends, chat Dave up and be sincere. When this girl comes around, ignore her and continue to talk with Dave. Have fun, and if she tries to interject into your conversation, shut her down without any bitterness.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 10:27 AM
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If you have not seen the bleacher report about a 6'10" writer/blogger who pretended he was drafted in the NBA, I would give it a watch. It's really nothing new. Weak men flock to the perceived stud as readily as bitches do.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 12:09 AM
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I think Patrice O'Neal had a decent outlook on this. He said men start from the bottom & work our way up. Each man has a different "bottom" and newly awakened RPers have to start at their "bottom" and work their way up. But they have to do it within their rules, i.e. No fatties, taken women or whatever. However, I have noticed that when decently attractive men fuck/hang around with fatter women it lowers their own smv while boosting the gravitational pull of the hamplanet. If desperation kicks i…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 07:13 AM
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God dammit. I wanted to start a calisthenics program because I'm being fiscally responsible and blah blah use what you have. No. GLO says get to the gym and offer your blood to the iron gods.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:45 AM
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If you haven't yet, read or download the audiobook, No More Mr. Nice Guy. Also, power posing 2 minutes a day & smiling at yourself in the mirror. I'm a fan of CBT but realize that we are men & have to keep moving forward. We can figure out what happened to us AND we can figure out how to shake it off. No matter what happens you can handle it.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:50 PM
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Wayne Brady would have choked that bitch.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 02:41 AM
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I was too serious with my first gf and can't believe how stupid I was. She just wanted to suck dick and get railed but I was too beta. She got someone else to do it... Live and learn bro
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:19 PM
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In my beta-ness I feel bad on two fronts. Being black my male hamster says "I'd never be that kind of black guy." Being a father, my heart would be destroyed if I raised a child I was led to believe was my biological child and was not. BUT, AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:18 AM
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If it's not a fuck yes, then it's a no. You don't seem like a fresh rp'er so this rule shouldn't be new to you. You know she's not LTR-able, do you want to keep her around? Fuck no. You know how ruthless she can be, p&d then move on. Or just move on, don't stick your dick in crazy...
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:52 AM
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In some states the statute of limitations on "sexual assault" is 2-3 years. Look up what your state defines sexual assault as and if there is a statute of limitations. Also look up age of consent and lawyers in your area that are men focused. As you can see, most women will try and hamster wheel themselves out of any responsibility.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 12:20 PM
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Had there been a pattern of her asking for things from you and not reciprocating?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:30 PM
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Being is exactly the key. There is no talk happening with me besides getting advice from seasoned RPers. Not whining about her either. Her text about what men should teach their children is comical to me. And you're right, slut shaming does no good. I don't care that she's not with me either. I care that my son isn't with me. But that is fixable.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:08 PM
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This is an ex gf. Our son is 4 and we were together for roughly 10 years. They moved out about a month ago. In August of this year she lost a close family member & was pretty devastated. I wasn't going to hold her hand or baby her through it & she just happened upon an old friend from childhood that would. She claimed we weren't together & I allowed her to stay in the house, big mistake. The slut shaming relates to that. She didn't have my smell off of her before she was getting someone elses sm…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:01 PM
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You have your opening. The awkward "this fucking guy" face you make towards any of these girls is it. After their laugh approach & say I'm xyz, want to get coffee or whatever. You're already the standout cuz ur not being a bag-o-douche. Low key, watching what's going on. You're smooth & weren't trying. Keep not trying & approach one through all the other guys.
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:32 PM
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