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Go see your friends and get a job then. If it seems pointless then fuck it off is what I'm saying. Why sit there making yourself sad. Don't cling onto it, let it go and find something else. Yes it is pointless trying to find unicorns. Seems like you might be clinging to women because that is how you get validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:49 PM
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On one hand, I'm happy for Red Pill knowledge because it allows me to understand women better and navigate the world If you're sitting there playing with silly apps like a sad sack and it's making you feel saaaad about the world then that's not really helping you no. Put the stupid apps down and go and make a real friend. Start with guys, and practice being a social being. Try and have some fun for once instead of pontificating on stupid Reddit subs like an emotional teenager. Seriously, if you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 10:40 AM
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Ignore it then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 07:19 AM
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I'm in what I would call an equal relationship, but sometimes I'm more powerful sometimes she is. It's not about domination, the power flows and ebbs. But what you are correct about is that someone very concerned with power games is probably not a good partner. On the other hand, you're better off knowing when they are happening cos people play them without knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:42 AM
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I think being hyper aware of it like this could mean that you have some issues about it. I think in every relationship there is some kind of power imbalance, but that can and does change over time. It's very elastic. From time to time to have to let it go, other times you have to step up. Demanding everything is always equal is, I think, a poor understanding of human nature. I don't want to be the "dominant" one either. Ideally I want to be with someone who's on my level, just as ambitious, self…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:02 AM
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Personally, I don't think I'd want to know if I am already punching above my league. Why go through the heartache only to downgrade If you're getting cheated on then you could be inadequate in some way. They're getting their needs fulfilled elsewhere, you might be being used for something that isn't sex. Therefore it's unlikely to be a one off. You are getting played, with a good chance of getting dumped when your more attractive partner finds someone who can match your usefulness but is more at…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:09 AM
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Seems that this would just be letting fathers off the hook for getting women pregnant. I think that you may have the misplaced idea that money is the only factor in raising children. What scares me most about having kids is the amount of work and time required. Also, how would go about reorganizing the world so that it would accommodate this? For example, where would we all live? Presumably, the housing that we have now would not suffice, as it is based on families.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 11:57 PM
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"I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I speak sarcasm fluently." Is she after some kind of record for Tinder clichés? She's deep, but shallow. Kind, but mean. Shoots from the hip but has many layers. Can be your best friend, but your worst enemy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/19 03:55 AM
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If you put that stupid ass "Marilyn Monroe" quote on your profile, pretty sure I'm not going to be able to handle your level of idiocy no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/19 03:52 AM
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Be a rebel, because that's what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:40 AM
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Because you look like a fucking chump if you have to learn it. Most normal people don't have to learn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:39 AM
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Cos they're shallow and into the money obviously. Who is going to be a better boyfriend - the just graduated and living in moms basement unemployed gonna take fifteen years to pay off the debt fatass from drinking too much at college or the debt free thirty five year old who has a car and his own place and isn't a big baby? In my experience, men who date older women are down on their luck with women their own age. They're essentially losers. That you would make it your target market is very sad,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 07:25 AM
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"A model from Azerbaijan has reportedly sold her virginity through the Cinderella escort agency for over $3.5 million." A Japanese guy paid for it. She's smart there, they usually trade in for a couple of goats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 09:27 AM
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Your title doesn't match your text.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 10:59 PM
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Why all the posts about freaks?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 10:21 AM
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Have a look at Married Red Pill. It's the opposite of what you're saying. Not that you don't have a point , red pill has a lot of whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 10:17 AM
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Thanks. It also sounds odd as an outright strategy. If being honest, you'd be saying "let's date for a few years then go our separate ways." Why would the other one agree to investing their time in you, when you might not have their best interests at heart. Seems like it would kill the buzz.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 02:07 AM
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This is a big strawman argument so it's pointless to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:40 AM
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I'm talking specifically about guys who have a disdain for the slutty way of life especially when they are so themselves. They have a strong feeling about it to the point they feel the need to share it. Why do people shame about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:31 AM
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You might only have so many big break ups in you. You'll probably not see the person again after you break up and after a few years that can be gut wrenching. If you live together or something like that then it will be especially difficult. Plus the obvious. You won't have a family, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:28 AM
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In the sense that your past makes you who you are. She might think it's better to have your cards on the table. She might also be wondering about my past, and be thinking that being very honest about her own will get me to open up about mine. There's also sex. It could come up as a matter of course if you're talking about what you like and don't like in bed. Further down the line when you get more comfortable with each other, you'll probably be curious about their past and that could involve exe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:24 AM
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Like that dumb ass video of the guy stopping his daughter from crying, this is just basic parenting. It shows us how people get excited by and read too much into basically nothing. You should teach your kids to be chivalrous. Chivalry means you afford manners to everyone, and a gentleman shows decency to everyone not just women. I mean, are you gonna teach your kids not to help out mom around the house? What you will be doing, if you do it right, is teaching them to recognise the non-chivalrous,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:16 AM
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It's not a high percentage, that's where I'm agreeing with you. If a guy has himself together then he can be the gatekeeper. That's where you want to get yourself to. Also women have tonnes of options too so they can walk away as well. Those options start dwindling , and the pool narrows. Getting towards 40, they're definitely losing their powers. Also, don't make the classic mistake of seeing women having options as women having good options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:27 AM
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Too many guys see relationships as the only solution to their problem of not getting sex, so they pass over the hand that they should have. So in that sense you're absolutely right. If a guy has abundance, then he will be able to get sex without getting into a relationship. In this case, he becomes the gatekeeper to relationships. This got very clear to me when I got single again in my thirties. They're all looking for a boyfriend, guys are looking for sex until they meet a girl they think are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:55 AM
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Online dating means guys are competing beyond their social spheres , so I can understand their frustrations. Where you used to just need to be good enough to the girls around you, you now need to consider guys 2 cities over. So I think in this sense standards are higher. But also guys are fucking thirsty, there is an entitlement to casual sex that I don't think we've seen yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:32 AM
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My cohort was divided roughly in half at school with more nerdy types who studied and didn't cause trouble and another half who were more into the race to grow up. The girls on the grow up side were dating guys a bit older from about 13. They'd go out with 14/15/16 year olds and were giving head and handjobs and before too long were boning. I lost my own at 15 to a mid20s woman who didn't know my real age. But was getting head and handjobs from about 14 when I started drinking .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:52 AM
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Wrote them really long hateful messages insulting them and telling them I only saw them as a hole to fuck etc then blocked them Lol like an angry woman going through a divorce. "Sob...You mean nothing to me!" I couldn't think of a better way to show them how much power they have over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:29 AM
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You're still pedestalizing women and letting them control you. So you still have a long way to go. You're one step away from being the same beta you were but even more angry - say you get an injury and gain weight again - you'll be right back to being a loser. Are you even getting laid now? Cos you still sound like a frustrated neckbeard. You're still clinging onto your Disney dream and your fantasy is still intact, so your values haven't changed yet. You are essentially still a teenager at hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 12:54 AM
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No, feminism isnt to credit for it. Big Capitalism needs all the workers it can get its hands on to keep turning an acceptable profit. Feminism coincides with this. The benefit for women is that if they don't get rights and freedoms then they aren't going to be motivated to be worker drones instead of Sahm. I think it's childish to frame it as one side wins or loses. Every kind of lifestyle suits some better than others and your argument for men having it better is very weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 04:27 AM
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Is the whole RP "male peak"/"leftover women" hogwash? Yes, in the sense that people constantly either misinterpret it (like you) or straw man it to suit their whining. By 50, the women are the desperate dregs. All the normal guys are taken. Leaving the less attractive to step into the high RMV areas. The best you could really hope for is a 42 ish year old who has never been married. That's why 50 is peak attraction rate online, the women over 40 have given up on finding true happiness and are lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:51 AM
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