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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She cheated she wants divorce It depends on who files and if they file for at-fault or no-fault.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/20 09:59 PM
2	She cheated she wants divorce Check out "Never Split the Difference" by Chris Voss an ex-FBI hostage negotiator. It will change your life. You're welcome.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/20 09:54 PM
2	Feeling low 6 months later, and thats ok! Just wanted to add to your great comment. The passing of time is not healing, but it is what allows healing to occur. What do wounds need to heal? Sure they need time because your body can only heal itself so fast. There are things you can do to help the healing process along and the decisions you make now will shape how bad the scar is in the end. Seek out healing, find the truth about how this world works, gain wisdom and grow past what you thought was possible. We are our greatest limiting fa…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/20 06:50 AM
2	Haven’t had a relationship in 3 years I'd say if you're a pretty stout introvert then you may be fine the way you are going. If not, then think of finding a best friend of the opposite sex instead of finding another lay or whatever stereotypical crap society tells you that you should have. A relationship can be much more than good sex. It should feed your soul on a deep level, and if you haven't experienced that then I'd say take a shot at finding it. It's worth it imo. You have nothing to lose but a bit of time, it should be fun if…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/20 06:23 AM
2	Need advice Hang in there man. Its gonna get worse before it gets better, but I can promise you it gets better if you keep moving. Divorce is a valley of hell. Thank God you don't have to stay there.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/20 06:13 AM
2	Depression Thank you for sharing this. It gives me hope. Also thanks for sticking around.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/20 06:05 AM
1	Finally I give up. I'm in a similar situation where my wife says things like, "I just don't have anything left to give" or "I'm empty and don't have the energy to keep trying." I can't understand this. While I've felt unloved and unwanted by her for a long time, I always have hope, energy, or will to continue working on things. The only exception being when I'm exhausted in which I will ask if we can continue another time. Can anyone shed some light on this from my wife's perspective?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/19 03:14 AM

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