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Red Pill ExampleBigusdickus2020/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 06:18 PM
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Bigusdickus2020/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:02 PM
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She was never yours, it was just your turn. Dick move on his part, but he did at least have the guts to tell you if nothing else. Shrug it off and move on. Neither of them are worth it. When you spin more plates you won't give them a second thot.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 12:33 PM
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I've been doing a lot of night game lately. It's easy. Insta not required. Most chumps your age are living in the digital world. They look good on Insta but they're socially retarded in real life. If you look good, have muscle and frame, you will out class all the dwebs who are wasting time on social media. Why waste your day scrolling through other people's highlight reels when you can put that time towards your own goals?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 09:41 PM
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Just be aware that trp is a praxeology, not a philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 11:53 AM
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What do you suggest he should say instead?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 07:47 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to reply. That's actually good to hear. I think total retention would be much more difficult. That being said, my mind has been so warped by porn that my imagination can conjure up vivid scenarios just as fast as pornhub. Wouldn't that have the same effect?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 09:54 PM
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Do you still allow yourself to have imagination wanks or is the goal to cut masturbation entirely?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 09:37 PM
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Yep, just ignore all of the studies and success of the men who came before and replace that knowledge with this little paragraph. Treat her like your friend bro.... Smh.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 11:20 AM
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Dude. Cold approach is great. What's not to love about meeting new people or the excitement of not knowing whether you're going to get rejected or not? The thrill of the hunt is great. The charge from approaching 9s and 10s is such a rush. And if you fail, there's always something to learn from the experience.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:33 PM
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You're just in the anger phase. Spin plates and enjoy the decline. Spend enough time with enough women and you'll realise how foolish your old dreams were.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 07:12 PM
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Some of those guys you mentioned have beta game. Their partners are with them solely for financial benefits. The relationship is transactional. The implication being that the guy will get sex only if he provides for the woman. This is not genuine desire. And thats not what anyone here should be aspiring to. But your point is still valid. The criteria for attraction is different for both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 08:25 AM
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Women are naturally and inherently red pilled. Everything they do is to the fulfillment of their dual mating strategy. Whether they're consciously aware of it or not is a different matter. Regardless, they don't need trp. If you had truly absorbed the material you wouldn't have asked this question.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 06:32 AM
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Rollo had a Muslim guy on his podcast once. He seemed able to make it work.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 04:49 PM
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What got you into RP? Are you bi?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 08:12 PM
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I know that now. Men love idealisticly, women love opportunistically. It's the hardest part of the pill to swallow. Even now, two years later, I miss the old BP relationship fantasy. But it is just a fantasy. I needed to hit rock bottom to realise that and toughen up.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 09:30 PM
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I'm probably being a bit harsh. In no way is OP a terrible human though.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 01:22 PM
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The chick patting you on the shoulder is a little condescending. And the "I have a boyfriend" response is a common shit test. You're brave for approaching so much, but there's something fundamentally wrong in the follow up if these are the responses you're getting. And anyone who has ever been out with a plate or LTR will notice no shortage of guys trying to hit on her. People literally go out to get laid. It's not a super secret society of underground pickup artists stealthily selecting targets…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 10:59 AM
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We all make mistakes. How can we be intolerant of others and expect to be forgiven for our own misdeeds?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 03:41 AM
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I find the best way to deal with LMR is to just go with it. The last chick I was with told me that even though we were going to bed together nothing was going to happen. So I played it cool. I lay on my side of the bed and didn't initiate. A minute later she was grinding against me like a demon.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 10:03 AM
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Probably the same things she said to me when I was in his shoes.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 10:15 AM
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I did fantasise about it for a long time too. Its only when I advanced along the rp journey that I stopped. I never thought I'd hear from or see her again. When I saw her in hospital she was frosty as fook. Shagging her was not something I ever saw on table again. But it must have just been a shit test. Cause four weeks later she was naked in my bed.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 04:14 PM
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I know this girl better than she knows herself. She could easily have called the cops on me for being verbally abusive in the past but she didn't. I really don't think an accusation of grape would be her thing.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 04:28 PM
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Maybe. But she did say she regretted leaving me for someone else.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 01:41 PM
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I know your pain man. Friends, family, they all go. The people who you thought would always be there for you let you down. The people who help you up are the last ones you would have expected. We learn the hard way that love is conditional, even a mothers love. Well done for pulling yourself together again. You've done well.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 10:04 AM
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True. I misread. Still remarkable though.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 09:23 AM
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I guess you're right. But also, on a personal level, I wanted closure. We ended things badly the first time round. We actually cleared the air a little. She's probably pissed I'm not simping for her. But at least we finished on good terms this time.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 11:13 PM
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I used to hold grudges and hurt people in retaliation. But I regret the pain I caused them. Now I don't forget when I've been sleighted, but I do forgive. I just adjust my actions accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 09:59 PM
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I was really verbally abusive towards her towards the end of the relationship. I said a lot of things I regret. I felt guilty. Knowing what I know now, I know that her actions were just woman's nature and I can't be angry at nature. Nature doesn't give a feck. And anger towards others doesn't help either. I should have been stoic and let it pass. I could care less about the sex. I just wanted us to part on better terms than we did. Without bitterness.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 09:18 PM
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Damn a 7 figure salary is a pipe dream to me. I bounced back but I'm still a minimal wager with no qualifications. If you did seven figures before you can do it again. Fair play man. You got this. Mentally preparing for her evacuation is a great idea too. But if you hold frame and pass her shit tests you might be alright. At the time I was reacting emotionally to her bullshit and outbursts like a little bitch. It only pushed her away. Hopefully you can learn from my mistake. Keep your head up. I…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/21 07:54 PM
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Solomons temple was also brought to ruin by a woman who tempted him to worship another God. That consequently caused the downfall of his kingdom and progeny.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 11:09 PM
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I don't get the last bit. But understanding that the depression isn't our frame unless we identify with it is an interesting concept.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 07:22 PM
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I agree with most of this except the forgiveness part. I used to be bitter, vengeful and hold grudges. Now Im older and a little bit wiser. I realise that life is short. We're only human. We make mistakes. Forgive those who hurt while they're still around, because one day they won't be. And because one day you too will make grave mistakes, and you too will want forgiveness.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 10:11 PM
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There's a difference between the strongest voice in the room and the loudest. There's also more power to be had in listening to others and talking about their interests instead of forcing your own upon the uninterested.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 08:59 PM
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Obviously it doesn't have the same intensity of physical withdrawals. But as someone who has been addicted to both I see no difference in either pursuit. Videogame will kill your time, confidence, relationships and productivity in the exact same way a chronic weed habit will.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 11:57 PM
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I'm surprised at the comments railing against OP. This is a good post. If you understand that girls will be girls then you'll understand that she's going to cheat. And if she's going to cheat, she may as well cheat with you. Sexual strategy is amoral. There is way too much butt hurt from folks over this one.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 05:37 PM
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It's actually a decent crib. It's just cluttered with crap.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 11:04 PM
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It sounds like your using idea of increasing your smv as a barrier to approaching women. Just approach anyway. Girls your age are in the party phase anyway. They're just out to fork. Don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:42 PM
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You've definitely posted this in the wrong place dude. But fyi, that's life. It gets tougher as you get older too. The higher you get in any dominance hierarchy the more your peers will try to bring you down and keep you at their level. Most of the time they'll do it unconsciously. Your success or potential will remind them of their own shortcomings and they won't handle that well. It's the 'Crab Bucket Mentality'. Google it for a better idea of what I mean. There's a reason folks want us to stu…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 06:36 PM
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I think you're both right. Memorising the Simba shit might help some people develop confidence gradually. Sure, it'd be slower than 100 cold approaches. But that's not to say it won't work. It's basically fake it til you make it. I can't see how it won't help some people.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 12:28 AM
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I believe stoicism should be used to endure the hardships while we try to better our lot. Aurelius was a literal king, an emperor. If you think shit gets easier at the top you're wrong. Stoicism can help all people from varying degrees of success and status.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 08:43 AM
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Darius M is one I recommend.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 10:32 PM
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Honor is as social construct that most men don't follow, so neither should you. Like OP said, there are no rules to this shit. Cheat or be cheated on.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 01:06 PM
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She was begging to come see her on Monday night. If she didn't live 150 miles away, and I didn't have work on Tuesday morning, I would have been in there already. Had to reschedule to Friday.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 10:29 PM
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Complete slut. But she's up there on the hot/crazy scale. I have to dip in at least once.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 01:56 PM
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I ask because I got a girls snap this week. She's been blowing up my phone every day. She's sent nudes, vids and audio of herself playing with dildos and butt plugs. She wants me to come over on Friday. Should I expect it to fall through?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 01:06 PM
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Can you explain this one a bit?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 09:40 AM
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You're right about everything here. Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 02:24 PM
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I understand it. I'm just not spinning enough of them. We've been in lockdown where I live for a while now. The only women I really interact with are those from work and tinder. Evidently, my tinder game is shit because I'm not getting great catches.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 02:14 PM
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I'm not sure high T makes someone naturally good at game. Naturally attractive perhaps, but there are cultural and societal conditionings to consider too.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 07:19 PM
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You're doing better than me dude. I'm not even smashing. Lockdown is a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 03:22 PM
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I find it hard to be angry at them when I realise that I would act the exact same way in their shoes. Can't hate the players or the game. It is what it is. Just play.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 12:57 PM
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I try to put myself in their shoes too. Imagine if as men, we were worshipped and sought after by all the females simply because we had a penis and high smv. We wouldn't really have to work for it. We would have natural abundance. Spinning plates would be as natural as picking our nose. If we were horny, we'd simply select one from the bunch, talk sweet and let them jump on our dicks. There'd be no need to ever rub one out again. Now think about how entitled you would be as a result of that natu…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 12:25 PM
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This is gold. Wish I'd known this with my ex LTR (pre rp). We might not have cheated on each other and gone toxic.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 09:35 AM
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I've been heavy on this shit for a year. It's always a work in progress. This guy is only fooling himself.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 03:19 PM
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"Truth is not what you want it to be. It is what is and you must bend to its power or live a lie." Miyamoto Musashi. I understand what you feel you're trying to do here. But there's a reason people are advised to read the side bar in full before they post. Absorb what you read there, study the resources, then come back to us if you still feel the same way.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:05 PM
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Fuck man. That cuts deep. Hope you're alright.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 10:00 PM
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I hit all three categories here. I'm a real catch.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 07:20 PM
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Women are fickle. They might hate you today. But start embodying trp persona you want and they'll love you tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 02:05 PM
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Women want a strong man to lead whether they admit it or not. The moment you show weakness is the moment you lose value. If you feel the need to show vulnerability at least show that you're handling it well and stoically like a man. Otherwise she'll just jump on the next Chad.
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:17 PM
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What kind of job do you have? I like investing but currently don't earn nearly enough to invest as much as I would like.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 01:07 PM
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Prior to dating Will Jada dated one of the most alpha rappers of all time, 2Pac. 2pac knew not to trust this branch swinging trick. He even wrote a song about it. He also knew never to "trust a bitch from a prostitute" because AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 04:19 PM
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Fuck man. That's tough. I feel for you. Fuck that bitch.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 12:25 AM
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