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Aella is a "Libertarian, Rationalist, Sex-Worker-Turned-Data-Scientist" (her own description of herself). The rationalist crowd is basically some subset of tech nerds, mostly from the Bay Area (although I believe she is from Austin), that believe in...exactly what you would expect. They're trying to constantly align their own personal beliefs with the actual state of the world/the truth of the world (whether or not they succeed is an entirely different matter). They hashed together this communit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:32 PM
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It literally is. I actually follow her twitter for the creepy clownshow posts going down over there, and this entire survey was run that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:00 PM
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LOL @ posting Aella surveys. Can you imagine the selection bias of people who follow her twitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:46 PM
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Because men cannot bear children or breastfeed. If you're not having kids, then you're right, it doesn't matter. If you are, then you're destroying your kids by not pairing off - all statistics back this. Ironically, women can bear children and breastfeed so in a lot of ways the modern, working woman is actually even less incentivized than the modern man. Particularly if this is the attitude people bring to the table. Just my 2c.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:45 PM
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This thread is titled: "What would you change to improve things for men?" - simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:15 PM
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I don't care about porn or have any problem with it, but there's no doubt in my mind that it's not good for male prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:07 PM
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I would ban porn and get the plastic out of the drinking water.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:20 AM
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Yea dude he can drive out to Hollister and holla at the ladies in the double wides. Palo Alto has a plan in place to subsidize housing for people who make under $250K lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:48 PM
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LOL 185K working in tech and probably living in the bay area or some other expensive metro. Not gonna attract any gold diggers with that money don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:15 AM
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It’s all a matter of perspective. I think that people who don’t contribute to society or manage their own responsibilities are losers. I don’t mean it in a literal sense - it’s a figure of speech that ppl without autism immediately understand. No one would say a jobless alcoholic for example is a ‘winner’ except maybe you based on this very literal framing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:42 AM
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I’m not gonna argue semantics over whether someone is a winner or loser in the frame of nature, society, or otherwise. I’m just saying, I don’t want to pay for their shit, and there’s no argument that could convince me otherwise besides the complete elimination of welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:13 AM
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I don't care about nature, I care about my wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:52 AM
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Taxpayers being on the hook vs personal responsibility. Don’t want to pay for the sperm of losers, simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:03 PM
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Ppl hate the concept that for money to be a flex you have to….. spend it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:14 PM
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Wrong, I love feminine-looking men. Of course, I don't want them to act feminine, but that's completely separate from someone's appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:40 AM
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Erotic manga, the new Mein Kampf -Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:02 PM
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Me too thanks! Great response
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:59 PM
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On reddit, I could be a successful SAHD! People's sharing on here is pointless, and I challenge everyone in the thread to think of one example of a man who yearns to be an SAHD who isn't a useless piece of crap in their own real lives offline. Note: It's not the actual SAHDs of the world I am criticizing, it's the men that yearn for it. A family friend became an SAHD late in life (kids leaving HS) because the mom was making infinite money. He got a designer in and re-did the house and yard, he g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:34 PM
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He’s right, I’ve never met a competent useful dude who is like ‘yea I really wanna stay at home and raise kids 👍’ You’d think I’d have at least met one, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:13 AM
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All I gotta say is I have a 6 pack and I haven’t worked out my abs in a dedicated or targeted way in like, who knows, 10 years? Now if I churned out ab workouts on the daily… but got fat… I guarantee they would disappear. One of these is important, the other is not…. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:20 AM
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Meh, it’s certainly harder for women post partum. I’d also argue the calorie recs for women don’t leave a lot of wiggle room. I love fitness but downplaying it misleads people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:16 PM
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Abs are entirely body fat percent. Skinny people have them even without gym, simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:13 PM
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You do know that you have to have work done on them every 10 years for the rest of your life right? So that 10k is more like 30K? 40K? 50K? and that will pace with inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:10 PM
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How embarrassing and revealing can these comments get? Bro if you can't afford a coffee then just don't date. Mostly adults want to date people who have their shit together. And ib4 "oh, it's not fair that I have to pay for the woman's coffee too!" A) Life is not fair, B) You don't have to, just don't, and see what happens, and C) The market rate for sex is like, I dunno, 50 coffees? You'd have to literally fail on like 50 dates to actually be getting "scammed" from a purely financial POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:42 PM
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I don't have to, everyone is upvoting my and other similar comments because they see that other countries have roughly the same dating dynamics as countries without legal hookers. If the consensus goes in one direction, the burden is actually on you to prove the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:22 PM
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Feel free to provide examples of countries very dissimilar from the norm that allow prostitution? The only countries I can think of that are very different are places with extremely conservative cultures, a completely independent factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:07 PM
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Your own eyes and brain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:34 PM
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I don't disagree with your logic, but you can't buy sex in bulk for the most part. You might be able to get some kind of visit discount, but the scaling doesn't work the way it does with plants, computer parts, or like, you know, gravel. Labor doesn't scale. I was only attacking your premise on the basis of it being irrelevant. I'd say if someone wants to buy bulk weed power to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:02 PM
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"Most people"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:52 PM
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There isn't composite data on illicit drug pricing that I see readily available online. All I can say is that with no taxes on the supply chain, and no standards, there's no world in which illicit activity stays more expensive, like, ever. It always adjusts to fall below legal. Buying in bulk is kind of weird, like, sure, your local dealer can't probably sell you pounds of weed, but most people don't buy weed that way...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:51 PM
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I'm in agreement with you, not arguing your point at all. I think parental leave should by and large go to the women because a) they are the ones who get wrecked by childbirth, b) they are the breastfeeders (this is HUGE), and c) they are mostly the ones waking up to deal with the baby in the middle of the night on account of feeding. If couples want to flip it around, do a 50-50 split, whatever, I couldn't care less, but that shouldn't be the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:20 PM
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Your anecdote vs. an entire state suspending taxes on a dying legal industry 🤨🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:17 PM
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You don't understand the joke, legal weed is MUCH more expensive than illegal weed, to the point where they have actually suspended taxes in places like SF because the legal stuff was going out of business LOL Making things legal always increases costs FYI. Why? You now have to have HR, deal with the IRS, set up employee infrastructure, employee healthcare, testing, and you bet the government would tax the living shit out of it in the strongholds where they'd even consider legalizing. The best y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:10 PM
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Legal weed is cheaper then right??? That's your logic here LOL. Also I'm pretty sure crackheads in SF won't even blow you for 30 bucks anymore. Give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:45 PM
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Says idiots on reddit who want 6 months to play videogames after their wife destroyed their body. Literally see posts bragging about videogames on "dad" leave every other day on the main subs. It's extremely cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:00 PM
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Prostitution is legal in lots of places and changes essentially nothing. Spoiler alert ladies and gents: the unit economics are bad and most people want more out of life and love than a blowie from a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:57 PM
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Lol why would you think being progressive makes someone less misogynistic? Definitely not true. Progressive men can be some of the most misogynistic, because they view sex as a social right that should be redistributed in the name of fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:38 PM
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Netherlands has the programs and it’s still abysmal. Women working = no replacement births, simple as. I’m a career woman but the writing on the wall is still obvious as fuck. Anyways, it’s only really a problem for the financiers (and quite possibly human progress), neither of which matter much to me so idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:05 AM
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The faucet dries up with lower birth rates globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:20 AM
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Look at global birth rates. SA is now mostly at or below replacement, same goes for India. The only place left that’s actually replacing the pop is Africa, and that’s only because subsidies enable it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:20 PM
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I haven't but my close family member has. She got a nose job and went from staying inside and dating 0 guys to continuing to stay inside and date 0 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:09 PM
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I mean, that's not strictly true. There were cultures that punished or even killed men for participating in adultery, it was just quantifiably much less likely across history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:36 PM
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Sure, that would be another solution, although I'd argue that pushing monogamy and marriage on the population would create a chilling effect for both sides of the equation (albeit, men seemed to have been punished less severely historically for stepping out). Anyways, I'm not advocating for this, just providing an example of a way in which it could be good for some subset of women (women who dislike hookup culture).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:06 PM
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It's good for high value, non-promiscuous women, who today, have to compete with a bunch of randoms that will endlessly fuck the handsome men that they'd normally naturally pair off with in a monogamous society. So, that's at least one example, although it is an edge case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:26 PM
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I prefer to only meet people on Dota2
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:28 PM
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How many men die or are hospitalized from female DV vs women from male DV? Give me a fucking break lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:34 PM
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Who cares unless people are actually hurt. Stop acting like it’s equivalent it’s tacky and gross. If I kick my cat after it bites me that’s not an ‘equal exchange.’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:26 PM
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The better way is to wait until date 2 and see if they offer to pay or split. Guys don't want to do that so they kill themselves upfront. I'd recommend only pulling these tactics on people you don't care about seeing again. In that case though you might as well just force a split.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:52 PM
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You're just filtering yourself out as some cheap guy who plays weird tricks on dates. Even if a woman offers to pay and you pay the whole thing it's a turnoff. I don't understand guys who play these games on dates at all tbh. I kind of expect most of you actually don't and it's just something to post about on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:46 PM
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I am checking it out very respectfully 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:41 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:24 AM
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If men can't provide more obvious value beyond their resources then that's just the reality of the situation, it's not man-hating, it's the market bby. Same goes for women who don't provide value beyond their pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:51 AM
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This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:44 PM
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Neither party really wants that in actuality. It doesn’t benefit them. They’re all grifters just enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:36 PM
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Love that!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:28 PM
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The struggle for me with the US is that it really makes it hard to take a break from the treadmill. You want to get out of W-2 for a bit? Have fun getting back in unless you have an extremely coveted skillset or an extensive network. This discourages entrepreneurship/small businesses, it discourages childbearing, it discourages risk-taking. And with CoL just skyrocketing in the areas that actually have jobs, even the appeal of steady jobs in strong industries is eroding. However, I think a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:11 PM
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So then I guess I’m just trying to understand your argument? Hot women get hired into ground floor consulting, IT, and dev jobs and never rise up and you somehow think this is a huge advantage? It’s not. It’s like…sorry that a few hotties got the huge honor of mediocre pay and terrible hours? Like lmao do people even consider what they’re typing. Edit: FWIW I’m absolutely not saying that women deserve any job, I’m simply refuting your claim that being a hottie really gets you much of anything ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:26 PM
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I mean it's like I said, I see your POV. I also agree that there are not many hot women in professional jobs - and would even in fact argue that professional jobs make women less hot (less time, less energy, less desire and they sap your youth). I just think that that strategy starts to fall off really hard in your mid-30s. At any rate, the US is kind of shit I'm with you on that. The whole small business ecosystem is a bad scene and getting worse, and that's really fucking sad because that's ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:37 AM
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Really? What's the ratio of female CIOs/CISOs/CTOs to male? And how many of those women are attractive? What about at the VP level? Director level? I manage a network of about 2,000 IT professionals and I can maybe think of one hot woman? And PPD would probably give her like a 6. Sure, ICs can move up - but do they? Everything you just named is a junior role. So I'll just say again: who cares about making 80K in SV? It's almost a fucking punishment LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:34 AM
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Maybe you work in Miami or something bro, but I just attended RSA for the full week and there were several receptions with probably 1-3 women out of 100 people there (myself included). And none of them were hot. Perhaps you mean women in non-executive, bullshitter roles. Who cares about those roles? Get paid 80K to live in Silicon Valley? I dunno what planet you live on, but if you aren't moving up the ranks then being hot is no real advantage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:51 PM
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You can throw a rock and hit a young person who is a total communist that hates the idea of working. Just look at reddit - does this seem like a site populated by people who urgently feel the need to work a 60 hour week? It's embarrassing seeing people argue stuff that anyone with eyes knows isn't true. The cold war is so far in the rear view mirror that people barely even remember it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:46 PM
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Gaming is trending away from levels and achievements. It's all about p2w, cosmetics, loot boxes, and accessibility for everyone. The true hardcore games have all been phased out in favor of much softer stuff. Heck, take Elden Ring, a "hard" (mostly PC-oriented) game, as an example. Its original predecessor was Demon's Souls, which was really fucking hard, a lot harder than Elden Ring, with no way to out-level, multiplayer, or skip content. People all want to get their gold star and they don't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:43 PM
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There's some truth to what you're saying, but it's also a very myopic perspective to have. The choice is usually between being fully employed at a shithole job and being fully employed at a good job -- and the gap between the effort on those two is not as wide as you'd think. If you're not born rich you're going to have to pay your way one way or the other, so the question really becomes if you want to dick around and not put in the mental energy when you're young to reap the dividends in middle…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:40 PM
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The cohort I'm really referring to is in their 20s not their 40s. Sure, if you're broke as fuck at 45 it's GG, but realistically I see plenty of young people that just give up prematurely out of laziness or lack of motivation. I mean, if people want to do that, go for it, but I don't have to respect it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:38 PM
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Probably depends on the platform, because I've seen stuff like that on LinkedIn, which is relatively smaller, but not so much on places like reddit. In fact, I can't even remember the last time I saw memes like that on this site. The whole hustle thing to me was always about being your own boss and not working for the man - vs telling people to work for the man for 60h a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:36 PM
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What’s ‘not much’?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:10 AM
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Yea it’s so transparent even on Reddit. If people think ‘antiwork’ and others of similar ilk are organic subs, I’ve got a bridge to sell them. There’s literally a sub now that’s called ‘fuckcars’ - cars were the great equalizer than enabled the middle class to have a better life!! If that doesn’t scream ‘die in your apartment’ to people I’m not sure what does. I see a lot of young people who are just all too happy to acquiesce to this kind of messaging, and then claim they’d rather do the minimu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:09 AM
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I’d agree with you if there weren’t literally ads from the WEF saying ‘you will own nothing and you will be happy’ - that’s top down any way I look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:05 AM
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I work in an area closely adjacent to this, and you are very much wrong lol. It helps in sales though, maybe. All the same, the number of male sales execs vastly outnumber the ‘hot women’ cohort (and the same could be said moving all the way down the chain).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:43 AM
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Really? The way I see it is that most young men don't aspire to make anything of themselves, and they've in fact been convinced by the professional managerial class that it's better to "live small" and sit in a rented apartment and play vidya/get fat. Nowhere do I see any propaganda for a 60 hour workweek, but I see tons of it when it comes to "needing less."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:19 PM
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In consulting????? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:17 PM
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this lol /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:30 PM
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Weird that people here are desperate to pay for losers’ kids. Miss me w/that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:49 PM
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Educated upper class women fought for it, everyone else was pulled along with the tide. Ask some average joe woman if they'd prefer to be working or not (vs. raising a family) and see what they say. In fact, ask as many as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:25 AM
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Expectations of women have changed. It used to be that in most areas women were expected to take on a "lesser" role in their professional life, but now most women (outside of rural areas), are expected to do the full bore. This has changed the behavior of women - feminine traits are not advantageous in a professional environment, and women who work are less interested in being nurturing/caring at home. So yes, women have changed, but I'm not sure that they were the motivating force. And fwiw dre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:25 AM
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I mean you can call yourself whatever you want, but at the end of the day, if what you say doesn't align with modern terminology you will only serve to confuse people. Like, if we want to go really far back we can say that I'm a democrat, but it just wouldn't make any sense to use modern terminology in a dated fashion. And I get where conservative guys are coming from today with the modern dating market. There are elements that are not great. But I don't think "dating" is going particularly well…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:48 AM
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Oh man we could have dated 7-8 years ago dude. This is gonna be a really hard list for you and I wish you the best of luck (sincerely lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:32 AM
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That's perfectly fair, it's just better not to internalize things like that because people can smell gendered resentment from a mile away, even your ideal partner. Idk what to say about your self-ID though, it's a conservative worldview to be anti-crime, anti-(current)media/hollywood, and anti-abortion. Of course, someone could say they are actually just an anarcho-capitalist!!!! It's the abortion thing that made me assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:28 AM
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This is the funniest list - because it's like, I suppose you're a conservative, based on all the caveats you listed. I'm a conservative woman and I'd broadly agree with them although I don't get into the alt-lite stuff too much and don't really care about random incidents the news singles out for public consumption. But the funny part is points 9 and 10, because at its core, conservatism is all about gender roles. You sound like a communist randomly sneaking in bullets about how you're pro-priva…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:14 AM
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Genuinely curious: Is there a large pool of women who are anti-cop but also not feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:03 AM
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You have consistently the best posts about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:14 PM
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Maybe 20 years ago, that has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:47 PM
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HAHA that really is Silicon Valley, the level of cheap that people get up to here needs its own rating system
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:47 PM
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Married Americans report having sex 1.2x week, single Americans report having sex 33 times per year, or roughly twice every three weeks. Yet, this thread is full of people saying they're up for 4x a day LOLOL Reddit is so fucking cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:55 AM
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Your edit makes sense. Men don’t have control over whether a baby is born once someone is pregnant, but they have lots of control prior. Hopefully vasalgel is legalized in the US and people avail themselves of it and stop bitching. I’d love it if random assholes didn’t knock up women, I just don’t want to pay for their garbage kids when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:24 PM
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That’s not the same thing as zero reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:19 PM
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Haha you’re actually not wrong. I never even really thought about it this way but hella people would be complete dicks about it in addition to the negative financial consequences on taxpayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:18 PM
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No, I’m not paying the tax bill for losers. Pay for your own sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:12 PM
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Yea but objectively speaking, your heart is what allows you to live longer. Carrying extra weight also doesn't do you any favors outside of bone density which can be achieved via light weights/circuit. You're right that your 15 year old would smash me to pieces but I'm a small woman so it's not much of a brag lol. And you're right, I suppose there are diff kinds of fitness, I just don't buy into the idea that the only way you can be truly fit is the gym. Some of the most cut people I know only d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:33 PM
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It's funny because I think the opposite of you. I take gym rats out to do extended road bike climbs and they can't make it. They can't even make it at a super slow pace. It's nice saying you can lift xyz weight on a bench, but it's not doing jack shit for your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:30 PM
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Yea I'm with you on that. I prefer cycling and triathlon builds on men to any other build. I don't really get the gym obsession with either gender, it feels like vanity except I don't even think it looks as good. I've taken gym people out riding and they can't get up simple climbs in a reasonable timeframe, it's like the new generation doesn't give a fuck about heart health.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:57 PM
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That's 5'1 not 5'8
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:54 PM
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I used to run long distance very competitively and I was 5'8 105 lbs. I didn't look good at that weight, and it was extremely hard to maintain - cold all the time, very strict eating, and I was also running 100-120 miles a week. THAT was super hard, but I think maintaining my current weight is fine for the time being. It's not like it's a massive struggle, but I sometimes really don't feel like doing insanity or not eating a bunch of junk food. I also drink a lot of coffee/energy drinks to kill …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:49 AM
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F 5'8, 120. 31 years old. Bike - mtb and road, run, or insanity/plyometric shit most days. Sucks to maintain though. Hungry a lot, and sometimes fast. I don't hate on people who want to be average or overweight though (unless they have an expectations mismatch). It's a lot easier and more enjoyable, and when I'm older, I'll likely eventually cave myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:37 AM
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Men on Reddit don’t ‘get’ why it’s so hard to date cuz they’ve been sold the lie that women are dying to go 50-50 with chubby or skinny-fat gamers. Hella guy friends of mine bitch to me about dating and it’s like, dude, I starve myself and have a great job + a ton of male dominated hobbies. Tf are you doing to attract women? If I wanted to be the donut queen I just wouldn’t bother dating, but at least I’d know my place unlike the men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:13 PM
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Voice of the ghetto. Imagine caring about what he thought in the first place, or actually taking his advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:07 AM
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Yea sure, useless people who generally don’t matter and whose opinions should be devalued as they do not contribute to the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:01 PM
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"Good relationships are where the guy gets a blowjob all the time." Just go buy a hooker if these are your values LOL. Good relationships are dynastic and centered around children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:16 AM
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Yea imagine the hateful sex after they like, threw things at each other and talked mad shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:01 AM
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Johnny Depp dated some stable nice girl forever, refused to marry her, then wifed up Amber Heard after 6 months. FYI that's why the daughter probs didn't go to the wedding lmao. The fact that they then abused each other and aired their dirty laundry everywhere is just double cringe. Does it sound good to broadcast your 'physical abuse' at the hands of an anorexic 5'7" hot chick esp when it's on record that you hit her back? Spoiler alert: No. I hope they do a TV show about it where she fucks Elo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:55 AM
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Maybe not, like I said, mileage may vary. Hard to find women who want to play the man though, unless you bring something else to the table, e.g. being young and hot, which brings me back to my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:03 AM
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I kind of think they are part and parcel. If you want a woman to lead it probably means you are somehow incompetent, or perhaps just lazy. Maybe that's not true in 100% of cases, but it's true in close enough to 100% of cases that I'm willing to make that generalization. By pushing a woman into the leadership role you are basically asking her to shed her femininity to accommodate you, and the outcomes for that are not usually great for relationships. I've seen some super-liberal couples that can…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:10 PM
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Idk submissive is a pretty straightforward word. I'm just responding to your own title. I consider it to be letting the woman take the lead in things. It's just about the dynamics. A young innocent and clueless person is sexy. An older innocent clueless person is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:03 PM
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No, but they also have to be younger than me and hot. If they are my age or older and "submissive," it's gross and a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:06 PM
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You don't want to have sex, because it's available to you and you don't have it. Case closed LOL. Nobody cares what you say about it. If you can have sex, and you don't, you don't really want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:11 AM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:47 AM
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Jerking off =/= desire to have sex. It's really as simple as that. You can be like ohhhh I'm a secret nympho hehe guys just don't understand >:) but they DO understand because if you were a real nympho you'd let the football team run a train on you and instead you sit in your room and write about it on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:44 PM
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To be fair, a sex drive means a drive to have sex. You have not had sex, literally ever. Jerking off is not the same thing. It's a bit ridiculous to conflate the two. Get in a long term relationship for 2 years and tell the world how things are going then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:25 PM
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no point in getting married without kids in the picture, but you'd probably have more fun playing the field, since as a woman, you can
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:07 PM
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I'll own it for them. Hoes suck, male or female. Promiscuity is disgusting and hella people have STDs these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:15 AM
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That's a distinctly male POV on children. I can't think of a single woman I know who'd agree with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:40 PM
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What is the incentive for women to do that when they could just have their own baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:06 PM
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or don't have a body to begin with that is worth giving a shit about (fat, ugly, whatever) Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:54 AM
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What I mean is that pregnancy causes permanent damage to your body, in case you weren't aware. It tears the connective tissue between your abs and alters your entire abdominal muscular tissue - which is why you see nonstop ads for mommy makeovers in places like LA. It tears and stretches your vaginal canal. It permanently thickens your bones and widens your hips. It permanently enlarges your feet from the swelling. It ~can~ cause irreversible tooth and hair loss ...And that's all before breastfe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:35 PM
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lol imagine advocating for your sex to get the shit end of the deal in life just to virtue signal to literal neckbeards on reddit. Can a person sink any lower? Btw men can’t pregnant, there is no team effort when it comes to blowing out your abs and coochie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:02 PM
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This is an interesting comment. I have a question though - if you guys get along well with immigrants (in contrast to the Europeans), why did you include the comment about how the middle class in Argentina is fleeing to escape poor cities? Isn't that the clearest indication that they aren't happy with the immigration of the poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:59 PM
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Yea this post is cringe. People are either intrinsically motivated to do/pursue a thing or they are not, this whole "I will only step up to the plate if I think I don't have to" idea is not real. The people who say that don't want to do/pursue X thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:37 PM
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Light gets found out and dies though LOL. Even worse, L basically knew it was him all along. This example manages to be both terrible and cringe at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:15 AM
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It's because women get bored of sex with the same person, moreso than men do, and men don't make up for that effort in other ways. I'd also argue that women do more chores and managerial duties in the household, although I suppose that is debatable. Single women under 30 also now out-earn men, in the US at least. And that's all before kids are in the picture. Childbearing is an extremely unequal endeavor, and people don't realize just how unappealing it is to reach 31 with a career and realize y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:44 AM
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Court of Thorns and Roses
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:28 AM
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Thanks for bolstering my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:01 PM
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It damages a woman’s value, which is different but also bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:32 AM
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as if men like hearing about female rape haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:18 AM
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Men have always done that, who cares if women do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:03 PM
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Haha don't get mad at me, I'm on your side. I think that porn is by and large pretty much pathetic, and reflects very poorly on people who spend a bunch of time jacking off. I just also think that by early middle age, it's maybe not the worse thing to not get badgered for sex all the fucking time by some dude who has way more T than you (although maybe this is a vanishing problem in America). At any rate, I would never tell other women to submit to things they dislike in relationships. If you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:44 PM
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Sure, but what kind of dopamine is coming from a person's experiences years prior? You get dopamine from activities right now - not activities 5 years ago. Doesn't make a lot of sense as an argument - the past/present difference alone is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:39 PM
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Tbh I don't really get why someone would complain about how their schlub of a husband/bf gets off to other guys fucking the women they want to fuck, by themselves, in some other room. It's like a risk-free prostitute so that they don't have to be involved with them. Fwiw though, it's not really the same thing. One happened before the relationship, the other is happening during. I mean like, duh. They are also literally not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:48 PM
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This guy actually posted his picture on here during one of the purge weeks, and he actually looks like the people he listed above, just fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:24 AM
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Great prompt, I am interested in the responses. Maybe people will be more honest on this topic in an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:41 PM
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Income isn't the same thing as a college education, and many white collar jobs in STEM don't necessarily require a 4 year degree / many blue collar jobs can and do outperform white collar. That being said, the real stat you should have posted is that urban single women <30 make more than single men. I don't think there is any reason women have to date lower though, they just won't date. Duh. Isn't that the whole conflict inherent on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:07 PM
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Of course - he has to be hot, attentive, and share my fairly niche hobbies. Ideally younger too, better dynamic there. The housework thing ain't it though, couldn't care less about that given they can't carry/breastfeed a baby and I can just pay a maid/au pair for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:10 PM
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Only a fool thinks that rewarding people prior to them accomplishing anything is an actual motivator. The motivator is what they could get if they behaved in the correct ways, it's not them getting that thing and then assuming they'll reform. I'm much more in favor of just cutting people loose who don't want to be productive. Play the game or fuck off. Only a child thinks that they should be allowed to behave however they want and never contribute to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:08 PM
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I totally understand this POV. Money speaks louder than anything else and if someone doesn't make more than you, it's almost impossible to respect them as a "leader." Even worse if you're working long hours and they're not. The dynamic completely fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:04 PM
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Idk if going outside qualifies someone for non-shut-in status. I go outside for mountain biking with a small group of people and otherwise avoid going out. I'd consider that fairly shut-in-esque. Someone could literally walk their dog for 10 minutes and go back in and they would still be a shut in. The other thing about dogs is that they are more work than cats. People can leave cats at home with food/water and open the toilets then go on a trip without fearing their pets will die. With dogs, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:41 PM
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I think the same thing about dog owners. Dogs are overly affectionate and many people who have them are obsessed with being their "parent" and enjoy the unconditional affection - you hear the term dog mom thrown around, I don't hear cat mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:58 PM
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It's one thing to walk down the street in work clothes and people check you out. Exercising puts you in a vulnerable state. You're in weird positions, arching your back, sweating, it's awkward and uncomfortable for people to take advantage of that. FWIW you're welcome to the men's gyms if you want to act like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:37 PM
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There's a difference between someone massively leering and people just casually checking you out. You can't get someone removed from a gym for the latter, but many women don't prefer it. Even if I wear loose shirts and long shorts to the gym I'm uncomfortable exercising around men if there's an alternative. You're valuing the story of one random man who could have just asked for the male gym to stock some lighter weights, over the lived experience of many women. There's a reason they segregated …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:29 PM
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Really? Because regular gyms do such a good job of that? Terrible take, honestly. You may not have any modesty, but other women don't want to be passively checked out by random men while they're trying to exercise. The better solution would be for this one random guy who has a deeply uncommon condition to ask if he could borrow lighter weights from the other gym if that was truly an issue. Want to bet he never asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:08 PM
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Yea it's more important that this one guy doesn't want to be in the gym with jacked dudes (I'm sure they had zero lighter weights there....) vs. women being allowed to exercise without being ogled. If men are the problem then there's really no injustice in them being the subsidizers. Edit to add - I pay tons of taxes for prisons when men commit nearly all the violent crime. Welcome to society where people are constantly forced to subsidize things that are not their cross to bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:56 PM
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Then he's stuck being neighbors with all the wealthy liberals who push climate change rhetoric on the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:03 AM
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Saying you don't want to give head is not the same as shaming it. I don't really want to give head these days because it's degrading, and frankly unpleasant, and I make too much money to do anything degrading anymore. I also don't care about oral myself, so fair's fair imo. People always try to conflate sex acts with moral puritanism to pressure people into being "cool" about things. Fwiw I've been with the same person forever, so we used to do more shit when we were younger, but most people gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:35 PM
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You need to just ditch Canada dude, it's basically jail. If I lived over there I'd unironically live in a van and just mountain bike at North Shore and leech. The people I know over there get paid a pittance, and your government completely sold out to foreign interests. What's wild to me is how okay with it so many Canadians seem to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:13 PM
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Eng as a profession is like peak obnoxious midwit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:20 AM
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Like half of them instantly crash and burn lmao, possibly more
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:47 AM
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I'd unironically rather be the job seeker. Talent holds all the cards, only useless people think it's a joke being an "employer."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:18 AM
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Yes only if no children
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:12 AM
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Who cares, they will still be hotter than most other people which is all that ultimately matters. You always see reddit comparing trailer trash whitey, to like, hapa models - and it's not very realistic. At any rate, they can always leave and go somewhere less garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:50 AM
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I'm gonna have four kids just to spite you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:41 PM
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I see where you're coming from, but I think that unless you banned free porn (good luck) it's not a strong enough incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:40 PM
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How does legalized prostitution encourage birthrates? It likely has the opposite effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:35 PM
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Lied to about what exactly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:31 PM
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What does capitalism have to do with it? Without capitalism if you were ugly you'd be truly fucked because you wouldn't even be able to make money to attract women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:56 PM
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Then why does it matter if the race is caucasian? Is it okay to want a caucasian baby if you are caucasian?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:53 AM
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Is it equally racist if two koreans want to have a korean baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:48 AM
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"perspective"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:19 AM
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This. Prostitution is repulsive for all kinds of reasons. Don’t care to justify it, and guys that use prostitutes always reveal themselves. They love the idea of paying for it and are never contrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:35 AM
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a lawyer against lawsuits?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:33 AM
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Don't worry, FL is about to ban that shit. Maybe other states will use the bounty tactic to follow suit. I'm personally a fan. https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/desantis-targets-critical-race-theory-echoes-texas-abortion-ban-n1286109 Private school should still be the law of the land though for any parent who gives a fuck. Single gender is even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:34 AM
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Public schools can't even teach kids basic math and you're worried about this shit. just lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:31 AM
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really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:28 PM
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Well they left out a pretty core variable then as it pertains to weight - age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:27 PM
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What do they mean controlling by percent African American and Latino populations? Why would that be controlled for? They are the demos more likely to be obese and also to vote blue. So then all this study actually says is that old midwestern white people are more likely to be fat than whites and asians who live in coastal cities. The same could be said about controlling for poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:43 AM
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The reasoning is that if they split up, she sacrificed her time on intangibles while he sacrificed his time on tangibles. His work only benefits him because he ultimately has control over his cashflow (if he divorced her later on etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:40 PM
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You don’t actually die without it though…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:43 PM
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lmao the day guys man up and do something is the day the internet turns off, porn and vidya are a helluva drug. Why would women ever care about the dicks of the dickless?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:04 AM
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HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:56 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:20 AM
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Unpalatable isn’t determined by individuals, it’s determined by the norm. I am wealthy so not getting a prenup doesn’t benefit me in any way. If I was fearful of my assets being stolen I simply wouldn’t marry. Sorry about your family but trusts are enough if they are structured correctly. In the end, you didn’t marry any of the girls so your assertion that no one had any issue with it probably doesn’t matter because the rubber never hit the road. Like I said in an earlier comment, to me it’s a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:33 AM
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No, it's merely an indication that it's unpalatable and unpopular - whether or not it's good or bad comes to down a person's priorities. I'm just saying that if you're not in the money, and you make it your priority to be unpalatable, it doesn't exactly help you in life or in relationships. In a way, it reminds me of all the posts you see where guys insist on their right to paternity test their baby - it's so easy to just swab your baby's cheek when your wife isn't looking and send it in when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:57 AM
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Yea and almost no one on reddit or this sub is 2-3M lol. At any rate, you'll need to link that 83% statistic - I don't see it anywhere on the internet and I imagine that data would be very hard to pull given how much the effectiveness of prenups vary across jurisdictions and how many are only partially enforced. Data that IS readily available however shows that only around 5% of marriages have prenups of any kind (in the US), which goes to show how unpopular they are and how autistic reddit is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:11 AM
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Pre-marital assets are protected (e.g. an investment vehicle or home inside of a trust) sans-prenup. Post-marriage, it's very hard to enforce prenups on things like income, and alimony is already out of style and not particularly common or punitive. At any rate, if you did have a stay at home partner, why the fuck would they agree to marry you sans-protection if you could drop them like a hot potato if they did a big bad? Emotional ruin is just terrible I know, but not nearly as terrible as fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:27 PM
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Billionaires are not exactly a great example of "the wealthy," given they don't necessarily have much in common with UMC working professionals, or even those in the 10-20M asset range. But, even if you want to include them in the sample, the idea isn't taking anecdotal freak shows (I mean come on, Elon is funny, but he is really the example you want to point to?), it's looking at how the typical wealthy person behaves. Second, given that IQ and looks are correlated with wealth and class it's kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:44 PM
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I've said this many times on this forum, but anyone with any kind of class or money will not have children outside of wedlock. So it's totally fine for a guy to say they won't ever get married, but if they want children, they are severely limiting their pool of women and not in a good way. And fwiw if they don't then marriage doesn't really matter in the first place imo. Marriage is about children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:56 PM
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You know the divorce rate for first time wed college educated individuals is super low right? And you're absolutely right, it is about what it enables. For most well off people it enables family, legacy and legitimacy. Men on the knife's edge who just want pussy or whatever aren't even in the game in the first place. No one is sad if they drop out or want a prenup lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:49 PM
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Pooled income leads to increased financial leverage and improved outcomes. Who knew that having the self discipline to sustain a relationship and co-invest with another person was a net positive? Wealth is always relative after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:05 PM
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Yea, like attracts like, news at 8. And fwiw, having more pooled income gives you more financial leverage and does lead to wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:02 PM
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Those neurotic box checkers will continue to amass wealth to your detriment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:00 PM
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Every time I see these threads it cracks me up. Prenups are for the truly rich, they're not relevant to redditors. It's a great way to tell if a guy hates women or not though, love that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:56 PM
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Not in marriageable demo (18-35)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:55 PM
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I don't regret any of my mistakes, because none of them were so extreme as to leave me bankrupt, drug addicted, saddled with a kid I don't want, or something similar =D At some point, you have to take some responsibility for your own actions. You really don't know a person is toxic when you knocked them up, got knocked up, or married them? Instead of blaming all women or all men for being trash, how about blaming yourself for being trash at choosing? It's more likely that you're the clown than e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:22 AM
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When I say white collar culture, I mean the culture, not the job title. So in your example, I mean the marketing executive. At the end of the day, I just don't think it's the clear cut money issue that you do - and my evidence for that is that a ton of blue collar people I know make amazing money. One of them has a two year degree and is closing in on $400K a year, yet still struggles to date. We're based in the SF Bay Area and he has nothing in common with the women here. He just wants to bike,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:13 AM
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Maybe you should have chosen better lol. Isn't that what all the dudes on here say about the single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:32 AM
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Agree 100% with your interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:27 AM
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Real question - have you hung out with both white and blue collar people extensively? I have. I work in finance, but many of my friends that I mountain bike with are "blue collar" in various votech type jobs (electrician, radiology tech, etc.). I'm even with a guy who dropped out of college (albeit he's an engineer in a niche field and I probably wouldn't describe him as blue collar). Anyways, I can tell you that culturally these two groups of people are night and day. It's no one's fault, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:26 AM
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Finance, and I’m moving to Utah once I cash out. I’d already be gone if it were possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:15 AM
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Yea a lot of the Silicon Valley crowd just seem to think social limitations are for the plebs and miss the entire fucking point. I hate them almost more than I hate the commies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:49 AM
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I don't think we'll probably see eye to eye on this, but there are more controversial examples than the ones you are highlighting such as abortion, the right to protect your property using a firearm, how to handle problems like poverty or homelessness, or what sovereignty local communities should have over zoning which lead to much more contentious debate from the liberal side of the aisle. It's also not exactly true that there aren't laws that limit the ability for conservatives to live their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:44 AM
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Eh, I will always take vocal disapproval over silent disapproval. At any rate the "type" of disapproval is ultimately stylistic more than anything: being shunned or patronized for voicing an opinion that's outside of what's "socially acceptable" in a particular area is imo not really any better than people bitching at you over something more directly. I also think a lot of lot of people use the old boomer/religious parents as an example of conservative intolerance - and to be sure, that can cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:38 AM
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Haha I don't know, maybe we met different social progressives, but in my experience everyone wants you in your supposed "place" - conservatives just happen to be on the other side of the aisle. You think progressives are stoked for a young woman who says it's her goal to be a stay at home mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:26 AM
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Despite having a career, I'm socially and economically conservative. I do not think that secular conservatism has to mean that women are less than men - it's more a matter of a division of roles. But, even if that's how it shakes out in practice, I'm not convinced that our current system is leading us anywhere better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:16 AM
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this is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:10 AM
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He means economically and socially conservative, without being religious. Libertarians are a dime a dozen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:10 AM
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what younger asian women have you met that are conservative? the only asian conservatives I've met are older women/men or (some small subset of) younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:08 AM
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I am a secular conservative woman, so they do exist. I live in the SF Bay Area though and I have have only met 1-2 other women with the same worldview as me + they were all old. Fwiw I do NOT think that libertarians qualify as secular conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:05 AM
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then date someone ugly if you're ugly, problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:37 AM
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I mean realistically there isn't much to argue with here other than the fact that post-WW2 there was a lot more going on than just women out of the workforce. By and large I don't disagree with your premise in a broad sense, but the real issue is that there's no such thing as women all leaving the workforce together - there are only the choices people make as individuals. The idea that any cohort will band together for any specific cause is extreme wishful thinking. In light of that, I can only …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:27 AM
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I agree that funding single mother households is the wrong thing to do (surprise!). I didn't comment on their policy, only that women are clearly getting a raw deal and bailing on the family contract. Honest question - in light of the fact that Korean women do earn less (I posted stats in another comment), and do have to spend way more time on family duties, and have very high beauty standards, how would you address this? They are pissed because it's unfair. What would your solution be to encour…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:45 PM
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Source for what? It's like every soyboy wants a source for literal generic statements. Unlike the US, Korea actually has a massive pay gap, even when women are equally educated - https://www.statista.com/statistics/641812/south-korea-gender-pay-gap/ - even when women have worked the same length of time in their career (which is what often debunks the wage gap in the US), they are still paid 30% less - https://en.yna.co.kr/view/AEN20210902006600315 Additionally, unlike the US, Korean women hold d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:30 PM
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I'm definitely no feminist, but Korea is an absolutely terrible example. Women over there have been mega fucked over and I don't blame them for being pissed. It's nothing like the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:01 AM
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Haha as if men wouldn't do it if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:59 AM
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INTJ (me), ISTP (him). I'm already introverted but he lives in a whole different universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:59 PM
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HAHA I'd never have kids unless I were married. This whole discussion about married/not married is totally irrelevant except when it comes to children. Guys who don't want kids should do what they want, but guys that do will be forced into a pool of low class moms if they don't want to get married. Anyways it's not surprising that someone who grew up in a poor environment would promote such a thing to others or foist it on their own offspring. Poor values beget poor values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:16 PM
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Yea all these threads about marriage never really address children. Only low class people agree to have kids without legal protections. So, if people don't care about kids then they should do whatever they want, but if they do, then they're shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:02 PM
2

Gross, what a terrible take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:00 PM
-4

I feel that way about all poor people, and my tax dollars do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:21 AM
3

You didn't even link a study, you linked a blog post. If we can't review the study itself then this is basically meaningless. Clutter is not what most women mean by cleaning, they mean deep cleaning - kind of harder to tell from a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:07 AM
1

I mean, I don't care about women who work part time. I work full time lol, and I'd argue that's the expectation for younger women coming into the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:12 AM
3

Yea I gotta laugh at 'only' 5 hours a week. That's like a week a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:26 AM
5

Yea this sort of thing is like my worst nightmare. I work really hard right now in a serious career and I have a partner. My options are (I just turned 31): Have a kid in the next couple of years and have it heavily impact my work during the years it's most necessary for me to make big career moves in order to really cash out Keep my fairly difficult job, but just don't go on the career track and essentially sacrifice my own livelihood for the honor of having kids + still probably wind up with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:10 AM
1

Well it's not really a small minority, it's a large minority, which is why I pointed it out. I'd like to see the same study but controlled only for fully employed parents (no part time, no SAHM/Ds).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:04 AM
8

I think that's probably debatable and it's more likely that women are more thorough and have a higher standard of cleanliness. That's purely anecdotal of course, but so is saying that men work more quickly through their chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:03 AM
2

Probably but that's kind of a long time during peak career years. It's definitely something I've been considering because I have a stressful, but also high-paying job and the next 5-6 years determine whether or not I can reach that next level and really cash out. I think it's very rough that the time that women are expected to "chip in more" is often really peak career-building age for young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:02 AM
3

Anecdotally I think that raising a family and working full time as a woman is a raw deal. It's for a variety of reasons: maybe mental load, maybe you're fucking tired from pregnancy and breastfeeding, maybe the social pressure is just more on you to make sure your kid isn't a fuckup. I think it's easier to be stricter in assigning duties in childless relationships because a) everyone has more time, b) there are fewer consequences for bailing, and c) there are fewer duties to ration out. My gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:04 PM
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People always link stats showing that men do slightly more combined work outside + inside the home, but I think it's probably skewed by the minority of women who don't work (more of these than their male counterparts). I'd be willing to bet big that when you control for both parties working full time, women wind up picking up more of the home duties, and that goes double for women with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:47 PM
2

Agree, but that's not just ppd, it's reddit more broadly. Reddit is basically 80% porn with some surface level, mostly communist, content. The men here are just being on-brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:09 PM
3

Good for you guys tbh. I wish you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:22 AM
22

It's declining because people are poor as fuck. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:29 AM
3

LOL best one in the thread ++
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:18 PM
2

I really don't know why you're raging about women being provided for (do you mean completely provided for? do you mean partially provided for? what does that even mean?) - that's not what I said, it's just another conflation you're making. Unless you're denying the physical reality of pregnancy and the fact that men would have to compensate in some way to create a true 50-50 scenario sans-adoption - then we are not in agreement and I don't think you'd get a single woman in the whole world to agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:34 PM
3

First, I didn't say that, you did. I just said that the effort isn't 50-50. Being tall or strong is not relevant when it comes to modern child-rearing. Second, not being able to carry children does mean that you are carrying less of the burden unless the man compensates in some other way (e.g. more chores, more late-nights, more money, whatever). That's the actual truth. Third, women desiring children is irrelevant to which gender bears the burden of child-rearing. I advise women who want childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:00 PM
2

Men can't give birth to children or breastfeed; it's inherently unequal. If a man could carry my children to term, then I'd happily not marry him and we could go "50-50." However, in light of this biological reality, I would not bear children for someone I'm not married to. Also, I don't hate traditional views. I think they are more fair in many cases than the modern POV where many fully employed women end up on a double shift. I'm very hesitant right now on whether I want children or not, despi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:40 PM
1

based
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:11 PM
3

Ultimately even if you're a career woman, it's your body that has to get wrecked pushing out the kid and breastfeeding - it's your life that will be more heavily impacted. I think marriage is very much around children, and if a guy won't marry you then you don't have children or build a family with him (or do his chores, pay for his stuff, make his life easier in any way that he isn't actively reciprocating). Transactional attitudes call for transactional responses, ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:55 PM
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Idk, I'm down to make fun of TRP anytime, but I don't think they are Marxist about women. The core mantra has always been self-improvement and winner-takes-all? It's the blackpillers and MGTOW crew who are Marxist about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:05 PM
4

"It's no more exploitative than working at McDonald's"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:04 PM
2

First of all - you're conflating conservative (modern politics) and conservative (traditional). I'm a conservative (modern politics) woman who works in finance and have nothing to do with your description above. You should have said a traditional woman in your OP, but I suspect your intention all along was to conflate the two. Anyways, people overuse the word "gold-digger" these days. It used to mean a young hot woman pursuing some disgusting old guy for his cash, but it seems like reddit just u…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:12 PM
2

That would have been pre-trump, post-trump you don't have worse taxes if you're married (even at higher income)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:00 AM
1

I cant tell if this is ironic or not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:48 AM
1

That is already happening and people on here complain about the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:02 PM
2

It's also startups not just finance. Basically anywhere that has real upside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:50 AM
1

Yes valuing money and power is masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:42 AM
2

Agree to disagree. It's as competitive as it ever was where I work, perhaps even more competitive (in finance and startup-adjacent)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:52 PM
2

Exec positions are still very competitive. The fallout is happening on the mid to lower tiers of the org
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:22 PM
2

HAHA same vibe for sure. I read the inuyasha manga except I couldn't read kanji so I had to open the japanese scans and then read this like (geocities???) blog where someone had translated the whole thing into english text but NOT overlaid it onto the scans. I remember hiding it from everyone because people were getting their heads cut off and shit and I didn't want my family to find out about it XD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:21 PM
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I used to LOVE inuyasha and sesshomaru when I was like 10, I feel so called out. But IRL long hair suckkksss
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:56 PM
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One of my family members works at a tech company that is Sweden/US based and all the US people basically carry the useless fucks in Sweden who never show up for shit and disappear half the year. Europe is so unbelievably uncompetitive and people will be in for a rude wakeup call if anything happens to the US or their demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:48 PM
2

Eh companies can offer whatever they want to get workers onboard, but if you want to get ahead and really shoot for the c-suite you can't be the back-to-back-pregnancies-woman or the guy-who-takes-6-months-for-"mat"-leave. This isn't relevant for like some dude who just wants to be a code monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:43 PM
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I think you misunderstand me to some extent. He's advocating working hard despite being a billionaire, and even specified senior roles in that quote. He's also a self-made person. His career kicked off when he was an intern at Paypal and he founded Palantir and Addepar. He could have easily taken his money and just fucked off but has instead continued to be a tryhard. He's saying that having a competitive or inherent drive to succeed in the workplace and provide for your family is a masculine ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:51 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:30 PM
2

This sub isn't actually very masculine. It's full of dudes who want to have their cake and eat it too. It has never been masculine to be a lazy underperformer, regardless of gender. Also the guy quoted in the OP is Joe Lonsdale, and he is fucking hilarious and full of drama. I recommend everyone go and read his other shit if this is so offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:45 PM
2

The guy who said that quote in the OP is a billionaire just fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:43 PM
3

HAHA Joe Lonsdale said this. Literally my #1 favorite scandalous VC. You all should go read the Vanity Fair article on his weird student-relationship gone wrong. He may be an asshole, but he is a chad and also right. Softboys who wanna change diapers are never going to be masculine in the eyes of literally anyone, not even their liberal partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:41 PM
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Agree to disagree. I think many not decent looking but not well-off women would absolutely go in for that exchange and it's men who don't want to, and then claim it's not real attraction as some kind of justification for cheapness (or unwillingness to recognize what a fair exchange looks like) - like that bike meme where the guy puts the stick in his front wheel and then crashes. Can't tell you how much general whining I've heard from male friends and acquaintances around dating where I live bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:03 AM
1

I make a little over 300K a year a now and that trajectory will only increase over time if I continue in my current career (and I'm 30). For me, a man has no purpose unless he looks nice and has the same hobbies. I could go the rest of my life without having sex and just read hot books and get off if people don't meet that bar. By giving up the financial leverage, you force yourself to compete in the category I described above, except for all women, not just women who already have a lot of money…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:55 PM
1

Yea I mean have you seen pictures of Lagos lol? I'd rather die than live there, let alone have kids there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:23 PM
1

Africa is falling a lot but most countries are still in the 3s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:40 PM
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India will be below replacement shortly (2.2), Bangladesh already is (2.01). Thailand - 1.51 Vietnam - 2.05 Indonesia - 2.29 Pakistan - 3.45 So, really Pakistan is the only outlier and they are pretty small. Africa is of course still sitting at a high birth rate, but that's already changing when you look at places like Lagos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:38 PM
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I'd rather be wanted for my skills and competency but instead I am wanted for my looks. We don't get to choose what people want us for, and most men aren't born into those kind of genetics. If getting a hooker floats your boat, then I'd say go for it. But there's nothing illegitimate about someone loving you on account of providing them with a better life. In the end, if you want someone to provide themselves with a better life, then you're going to be judged on other things, maybe not so favora…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:46 AM
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I agree with you. A lot of very bay area POVs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:52 AM
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Well yea I totally agree with you on that. Maybe we just misunderstood each other. I just don't think opting out is evolutionary, as other organisms all try to mate no matter what the cost. It's essentially our sole purpose from that POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:51 AM
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Short and bald men can get the bag and still attract women. Ugly people of all stripes struggle, men just have more capacity to garner attraction outside of looks than women. Making 150K a year as a senior accountant would absolutely help someone bag women, if they live somewhere that they can afford a house, and they can let someone be an SAHM or buy their GF gifts, etc. I was telling another commenter that the "finance" strategy fails because dudes wanna pair up with another careerist in which…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:01 AM
1

Dude my mind was blown when my friend over there said he was doing a PhD internship, 40h a week for 6 months and was gonna get paid the equivalent of $7K USD. I was like ???? I feel sorry for Canadians but I also think people get what they vote for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:48 AM
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I have always suggested that massively cutting taxes or eliminating taxes was the best avenue to encourage children. It doesn't benefit super poor people who you don't really want reproducing, but directly (and heavily) incentivizes the middle class. The US can't do it because we're too reliant on that cohort to also pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:55 PM
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This is becoming very wordy. TLDR: You're saying that because people didn't get a good ROI on modifying their appearance to get a date they are choosing other methods to get dates. I'm saying that people are not choosing other methods to get dates, they are opting out. Hence, your argument that this is evolutionary is ridiculous. If it were evolutionary, people would not be opting out. Although I guess you could make the argument that the evolutionary aspect is that those males just get cut from…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:24 PM
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What is someone doing to replace trying with their appearance then, in your book? You're assuming there is some opportunity cost they're missing out on by making these improvements, but the common argument I see is that the juice isn't worth the squeeze (opting out) vs. oh if I hadn't wasted time getting in shape I could have totally studied xyz and made more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:09 PM
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Okay so the quote you just used was out of context. That argument would make sense if guys who opted out of trying ended up reproducing, but they don't. In this particular instance, the path of least resistance is people dropping out of dating or society, ergo it's not being used the same way as the paper you linked. Unless you're really trying to make the argument that a guy who cleans up his look has the same chance at fucking than a guy who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:51 PM
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In order to survive, organisms need to reproduce. Reproduction is inherently not the path of least resistance (pregnancy in females is difficult and mating displays for males are difficult). In fact, in the wild, many species die as a direct result of reproduction. Ergo, we didn't evolve to take the path of least resistance. There is no biological explanation, you're just lazy. The ROI half of your argument makes more sense. But that's just because some people would rather be hikikomoris who pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:50 PM
0

Reproduction isn't the path of least resistance, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:40 PM
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Bro I live in the Bay Area. I'm literally surrounded by 5'3 asian guys. Most of the couples I see out on the streets are evenly matched, e.g. some short asian chick with some short asian guy and they are hitting it off. I mostly see complaints like yours when it's some guy with strange or unacceptable standards (cough engineer problems) or someone who literally only tried OLD/Tinder and then gave up when it turns out ordering a hookup like a pizza wasn't as easy as running a marathon. The other …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:37 PM
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Have you ever heard the expression makeup on a pig? You think that an ugly woman with a smashed face will look even close to as good as a model tier woman with bed head just by putting on makeup and hair extensions? Even worse: if you're an ugly woman, you can't even get a good job to make up for it. Them's the breaks. And I know that TRP doesn't say no to those things. I'm generally in agreement with TRP on a fair bit, particularly on self-improvement. The new blackpill crowd can jump in a lake…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:17 PM
1

That's funny because based on your OP it sounds like you're discouraging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:39 PM
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Show me a data point that demonstrates that 90% of what women find attractive in men is immutable. I'll be waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:37 PM
1

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:55 PM
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The dudes on this sub are obsessed with the idea that appearance is critical in men - but only immutable things like height and face structure. Whenever anyone tells them to hit the gym, get some nicer clothes, or fix their hair, it's every justification in the book to be a lazy pos. You guys honestly sound like the HAES movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:00 PM
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People who believe in some kind of unconditional or exclusionary love (exclusionary meaning someone should ONLY love me for my looks/personality, NOT my money etc.) are honestly just kind of idiots. There is no such thing as "genuine" attraction - only attraction to various positive features of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:32 PM
1

Not wanting your neighborhood to turn into a favela is not sociopathic. Give me a break LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:50 PM
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I mean, in the context of this discussion, it's definitely relevant. One is legally enforceable and the other isn't. If you want to implement new societal standards outside the confines of the law then you have to actually get off your computer and coordinate with the other men to take back society. I'm waiting with baited breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:11 PM
3

Did you mean to reply to OP haha? But yes, he is doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:09 PM
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Who cares if some intimacy can't be separated if lots can? You're still getting your intimacy somewhere, you're just not getting your rocks off while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:09 PM
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That's an actual crime. Not sharing emotional intimacy is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:30 PM
8

If you can have one without the other then your whole OP is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:22 PM
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Because you can get into a relationship and watch the times change outside of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:57 PM
5

“The problem is not those who dream, but those who can only dream.” -Ayn Rand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:05 AM
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Who cares? Men are the ones who want to fuck. In a future where no one loves each other, men are the losing entity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:16 AM
2

It's hard to do something like eat too many carrots (because carrots are actually healthy), but it's certainly easy to cross a threshold into unhealthy behavior when it comes to jerking off. However, you will see idiot coomers defending all kinds of strange, unsavory masturbatory behavior under the guise that "it's natural and healthy." Natural and healthy is going for a jog, not jacking off to insta on your phone in the bathroom. It reminds me of all the stoners on here tbh, defending something…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:58 PM
1

It's honestly crazy to me how much my perspective changed on this. When I was younger I just kind of assumed it was something you had to do. But why? Why should someone have to do anything shitty at all if a relationship is "50-50" and you have your own life and money? It's crazy to me just how much I was socialized to owe people unpleasant sexual favors in exchange for literally nothing. It's honestly a huge relief knowing I never have to do anything I don't want to ever again, which is so weir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:56 PM
2

There is something wrong if you're masturbating all the goddamn time lmao. Bring back shaming please. Jacking off 3x a day is disgusting, strange, hikikomori behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:47 PM
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India will shortly fall below 2.0 and many LATAM countries already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:49 PM
1

As I said to others, I'm not on the market. Been with the same person since I was early 20s. I also wouldn't ever participate in casual sex. I don't have to tell myself I'm a go-getter. It's evident from my bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:26 AM
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Why do you think I owe anything to people who are not related to me in some way? Do you think you owe me something, for example? Do you think strangers owe each other something? Not caring doesn't mean assuming anything negative about other people, it just means not having any real desire to go out of my way for them. What's wrong with that? You are very wrong on taxes, I make a substantial amount of money at this point and I pay close to 50% of the income portion of my taxes to the state and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:30 AM
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First: I do give a fuck about other people, specifically my friends and family. I will go the extra mile for specific individuals who are close to me. Why do I owe that to anyone else, wholly unrelated to myself? Second: Most people in society are not "helping each other as best [they] can." Have you even met "people"? People are by and large selfish and self-interested. And most people cannot contribute to my life in any meaningful way, so the help is ultimately one directional (me helping them…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:49 PM
1

Sure you can't eliminate it, but you can reduce it. In Nordic countries it's more profitable because it's more eliminated. IE their model is the successful one, not blanket banning like US or legalizing like Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:35 PM
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The idea is to eliminate prostitution, not make it easy for women to be prostitutes. We just circle back to the original point, which is that legalized prostitution increases human trafficking (not to mention the impact that prostitution itself has on desperate women who are not trafficked). Additionally, it encourages poor treatment of civilian women by punters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:00 PM
2

I'm a secular conservative, we exist. Also, reddit moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:57 PM
1

I live in a deep blue area, so I could make the same criticism. Note: I'm not trying to tell you how socialists think, the way you are trying to tell me how I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:56 PM
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Like you said, this isn't the place to debate politics. I can link my own data and we can sit here all day, but that's a waste of time. All I'm saying is that I can safely say we do not agree, and socialists and conservatives do not agree. You saying that there is consensus on issues where there actually isn't. You need to leave your echo chamber of 'enlightened' westerners and talk to actual conservatives to see what they think about your interpretation of these issues, rather than assuming con…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:14 PM
1

This is too long of a conversation for me to keep posting and I am off my work call now, but I understand what you're trying to say, I just don't exactly agree with you. The way people choose to solve problems is more important than the problems they are trying to solve in many cases. The solutions are equally demonstrative in terms of what define a person's outlook. E.g. take homelessness as an example, most people think it's a problem, but my solutions would be VERY different than many of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:59 PM
1

How about this - when I think about politics as a concept, I heavily emphasize tangible impacts on my own life, and more specifically, primarily financial impacts. That is the most important thing in my day to day life - how much cash am I making relative to cost and who is trying to prevent that, take it, or reduce the value of my holdings? Memeing about how the NYT actually hates white people, for example, is really distant to the kind of politics that has an impact on daily life. Sure, I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:37 PM
1

This is the tagline for the sub: "A marxist critique of essentialism." Only an extremist person could call that non-extremist. Normal people aren't posting on there LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:11 PM
2

So you agree with me then lol. The discourse will evolve, don't worry about that (it already is, tbh). There is no such thing as the end of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:08 PM
1

stupidpol is not really about garden variety politics, or even necessarily politics at all, of course it's full of extremists and weirdos with nonsensical positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:04 PM
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I'm good with not legalizing rape by financial coercion. If you really hold this position then you would agree with the nordic model, under which prostitutes are not criminals but the johns are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:03 PM
1

Honestly I'd really like to meet the socialists you are talking to. Disagreement on wealth distribution is so fundamental to both outlooks that any other minor overlap is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:20 PM
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Don't worry, class and material wealth is always the endgame, identity politics are just a means to an end. Your wife will come around to your POV when the cycle is complete
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:19 PM
2

I'd consider myself a conservative, and I think you'd be surprised how many socialists actually believe in traditionally "conservative" ideals. They're generally more afraid of the word "conservative" than anything the conservative believes or wants to put into practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:16 PM
1

depends on where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:01 PM
2

not just economic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:58 PM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:58 PM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:57 PM
1

And yet, women in norway are still not having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:56 PM
2

I agree and disagree with this. There's definitely some truth to it, but on the other hand, I live in CA, and we've been increasingly passing extremely weird and damaging propositions because the politics in the state are unbalanced. In that sense - the heavy left votership has impacted daily outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:39 PM
5

I suspect your wife was not the only problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:32 PM
8

I care as a conservative female. Can’t respect lazy, faux trendy, or bleeding heart lefty men. I could maybe date one who wasn’t that serious about it, but I’d be so exhausted listening to their womanish opinions all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:27 PM
1

Well I agree with the first part of what you wrote - relationships are transactional or give and take to a certain extent. I just think that as society continues to modernize, that "bargain" fails for many women, and you will see them dropping out of dating and relationships (already seeing this happening). Whatever men can provide is not worth lackluster sex, strange sex, or too much sex, especially as women begin to out-earn them. Which brings me to the second part of what you said, which I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:21 AM
1

Idk I've seen pretty transformative body fat loss on people's faces. You're not wrong though, if the guy is already skinny with low BF it's not going to be as significant as someone who lost fat. That being said, the biggest "failures" a man can have on his face are usually a reduced jaw or huge nose, both of which can be surgically corrected at reasonable cost. The hardest part is getting BF down in the first place and having a figure worth looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:38 PM
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Idk 2-3x isn't that much lower than once a week. And if you're stressed it means it's probably a busy period for all parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:28 PM
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Because with sex it frequently is. Like it or not, the mentality that sex is something that women do for men is something that still persists, hence your comment about 'caring about your partner's needs.' What if your partner's needs were to not get fucked by you at that time? Doesn't that make you equally uncaring?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:02 PM
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I think if people want it less than once a week, they just don't want to fuck you anymore, period. It's an attraction issue at that point, the guy (or woman) is just ugly or somehow unappealing in some other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:00 PM
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I think I just misunderstood your comment. I thought you were saying this: "This is something a lot of women could benefit to do," in response to just trying to hook up when you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:47 PM
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Attempting to play mindgames to turn sex into something that it's not. Sex is sex, cuddling is cuddling, you can't just say oh I'm focused only on the touch and closeness part when you're the one with a dick inside you. I personally think it's not that hard to arouse a woman, but a lot of times once in relationships men don't care to do even the bare minimum (they want bad sex 5x a week instead of good sex 1-2x a week). If you just grin and bear it, resentment will build, unless the man is compe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:41 PM
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I don't buy into the new age shit about some guy "violating" you with duty sex or obnoxious initiation while in a relationship. When I say someone shouldn't have sex they don't want, I just mean that boring or shitty sex builds resentment over time and reduces intimacy - not that men who try when you're not in the mood are rapists. And tbh I think most people are aware of what constitutes duty sex and what doesn't. Most of the time, if it's not every day, and a guy makes some effort to set the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:37 PM
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It has literally worked for me most of my life. People want a hot/fit girlfriend for status. It's not that I don't fuck people, but it's probably 1-2x a week when I am in the mood, not just randomly whenever someone feels like it. Makes for better sex anyways if both people want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:31 PM
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Finally I agree with you on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:11 PM
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This does not work, most people just end up resenting their partner heavily for this. I used to fuck when I didn't want to, and I will never do that again. Unless you're financially tied to the man and make no money it's not worth being a free prostitute in your own relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:09 PM
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They are if you stay hot or bring other value to the table (money, shared hobbies, great personality, whatever).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:02 PM
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The problem is that men want 50-50 in relationships, but want sex way more than women. How do they compensate if everything else is equal? Or is it just women who are supposed to be compromising, as always? Imo people shouldn't have sex they don't want to have, ever, if they are financially solvent themselves. It's not equivalent to taking out the trash, it's a violation of your body. Also, I don't personally feel that men having sex less than they "want to" is actually compromising because it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:00 PM
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It builds resentment when it's one directional around sex. You wouldn't understand as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:47 PM
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I don't even give head these days. I'm too old for that shit and make too much money. Getting on your knees to be degraded is for teenagers. Idk why women do sexual shit they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:45 PM
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Laptop/phone is required for modern society/jobs, porn is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:02 PM
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These guys honestly look totally fine, and that's even with half these pics being poorly photoshopped to put a different man's head on top of the body. It's a bit silly to do that and then be like "gotcha" because training at the gym changes your face as well, so putting a pudgy strange face on top of a fit body doesn't reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:52 PM
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It's a fantasy, but it's not fantasy, in the sense that videogames are, because it's real people acting it out. Videogames are literally not real people, they are pixels and code.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:20 PM
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I am 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:32 PM
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You mean he looks like a hot man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:23 PM
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Right, no brainer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:22 PM
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She's not wrong. The same men who want free access to material wealth, also want free access to women. I see the same crowd overlapping again and again. No one hates women more than commies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:14 PM
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HAHA. No one hates women more than commies. The same men who want free access to money and stuff, also want free access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:13 PM
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haha well I don't disagree with you. But the inverse is true as well unless there is a financial dynamic. hence the shared outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:01 PM
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The study did support that they frequently share health outcomes though. I think that’s a pretty common situation with older people. This is also an older study where more of the women were obese to begin with. In more recent years men have been catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:34 PM
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it's okay because his feelings weren't hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:21 PM
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I don't know people like he is describing either. I think a lot of people talk a big fucking game online though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:19 PM
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Imagine thinking that a bisexual female poster on PPD is a good litmus test for female sexuality as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:37 AM
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I just gotta say, seeing your posts makes me really happy. So glad I'm not the only woman in the world with these opinions (I live in CA, so RIP).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:06 PM
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It's actually the best equivalent analogy, and your latter comments would come off as disingenuous. Try this on: "Hey, some simp buying me a new laptop was literally more important to me than any conversation I've ever had with a man. Cuz like, when I try to be friends with men, there is just too much space between us you know, haha." Anyone with any social skills at all would cringe at this kind of awkward "not-my-fault-we're-so-different" commentary pinned on the back of something offensive. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:28 PM
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Look, imagine if a woman came up to you and said: hey, some simp buying me a new laptop was literally more important to me than any conversation I've ever had with a man. You don't think that would inspire toxic feelings in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:57 PM
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I'm a conservative woman, and while I'm personally not, most conservative women in the united states are some degree of religious. They are not going to listen to this weird story and be like "I accept you." I have no idea what planet you live on where you think that - most women literally cannot relate in any way to what you just posted. Male "honesty" does not bring women and men closer together - it pushes them apart. That's why you see all the sexlessness and avoidant sexual behavior in gen …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:06 PM
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LOL this kind of honesty is literally what fosters modern misandry. Some random girl at a party pulling down her pants is more important than any conversation you've ever had with a woman? And people are surprised by the growing strength of the radfems. Society was better when men and women kept their thoughts to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:47 PM
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Some huge percentage of people cheat, but this thread is full of people who would "never cheat no matter what" or "only if being beaten up." Cringe. People cheat because they have the opportunity and the desire. The older a woman becomes, the fewer opportunities and the less of a desire there is, it's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:12 PM
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Just look at this guy: https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/jrdun2/m2761_1751750_rhinoplasty_double_jaw_surgery/ It's wild what people can do these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:52 AM
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I’ll just reply to you, since all of these comments are the same. Men frequently advocate for having their cake and eating it too: e.g. porn is fine and healthy and doesn’t negatively impact relationships and qq beta bux. I personally don’t care about either of these ‘problems’ which I think is consistent. People on here fail to be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:50 AM
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By that logic, betabucks is exclusively the concern of undesirable men. Either people care about the outliers impacting the mean, or they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:01 AM
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Arguably, money is a direct metric of power, however small the amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:44 AM
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Wordddddd
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:43 PM
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Tech WILL save us all, that's the best part - !RemindMe 15 years. I link you data from the EPA website and you link me some blog posts with social commentary that don't address anything I questioned about Arctic vs Antarctic ice. Typical reddit exchange. At any rate, even if tech couldn't save us, and every worst nightmare scientists predict came true, it wouldn't matter because the West has no impact on environmental policy in China, India and Africa. And consider, do scientists working in a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:31 PM
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I work directly with companies providing advanced solutions for food and materials - what do you know about anything other than reddit headlines? Technology has always outpaced population and environmental issues worldwide. Assuming that we are all going to die because of unproven reasons is Malthusian and idiotic. Here is some food for thought: EPA's own website only shows substantial increases in low-high (nighttime) temperatures, due to urban heat sinks like cement and man-made structures but…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:48 PM
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Hey man you might as well own it. Don't let me talk you out of sharing your bod with PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:14 PM
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Climate change alarmists are embarrassing. If the 1st world collapses it will have nothing to do with climate change, and everything to do with economic policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:13 PM
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HAHA this post is the ultimate explainobrag
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:29 AM
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Men are already falling behind on all economic metrics. That trend is likely to only continue. If the 1st world doesn't collapse, within 50 years women will become the greater earners. Anyways, isn't it PPD that is always complaining women just want a guy to be hot and fun and don't care about beta bux anymore? Although, as I said to the other commenter, if they really invent strong AI, the human labor force will become meaningless and it will be cheaper for capital owners to just kill everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:01 AM
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people really overrate validation LOL only mentally ill people go in for that - that goes for men AND women. FWIW, this will never happen because strong AI would replace the human labor force and it would be cheaper just to kill everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:56 AM
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if they had hot AIs, women would use them too, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:46 AM
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Not all upgrades are equal. A lot of shit you won't even be able to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:53 AM
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Women only care about money if you have nothing else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:08 AM
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I get what you're saying with that example. Some of my family members are total clowns and I disagree with every single thing about them but I would never block them/cut them off because it's just not how I was raised. People are very narcissistic and self-absorbed when it comes to family these days, and tend to treat them like they would friends (disposable). At any rate, your post at large was dumb though, why use a "look at the third world hot women" video to try and exemplify how our culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:46 AM
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Childbearing actually does have an impact on modern jobs, and modern jobs on childbearing. Way more women leave the workforce after children, or conversely, many women are now choosing to forego children on account of modern full time labor. Just look at what happened with COVID and female workforce participation. And trust me, I hate journos and academics as much as you do, but most women get an education prior to childbearing, so it's not like you're comparing apples to apples with work : educ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:39 PM
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I agree, prostitutes of either gender can get the bag even if they are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:32 AM
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When there are too many useless people in society, it collapses and is replaced by something less forgiving in the short run. This is the natural cycle of civilization and even animal populations in the wild. It's nothing new. I do find it cringe to see all the people on reddit who are proud of being a leech, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:54 PM
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Men always somehow always think that female prostitutes are secretly into fucking their clients or are at least not repulsed (that is what women sell, after all), so when you compare it to them going gay they are deeply repulsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:30 PM
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Maybe some people, others will date the first idiot loser who rolls into their headlights. Just ask my well off dad. edit - I think a better way to frame this is high inhib vs low inhib people, and it's more about that than it is about status
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:11 AM
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High value =/= high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:44 PM
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Yes, this was a big problem. There were many questions that I didn't agree with any of the answers on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:32 PM
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I scored a 4 but I'm extremely right leaning, this test sucks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:31 PM
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I was really hoping this would link to an actual song called 1099 problems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:45 PM
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It's similar. There is some focus on flexibility but it has a great focus on core and limb strength via plyometrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:44 PM
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doesnt sound like a bad idea to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:32 AM
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Me too LOL - I feel so understood. I can eat like 10 gummies and not get high. Sucks to suck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:36 AM
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I think it's probably the provenance of a lot of stuff if we're being honest lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:26 AM
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also take viagra when you do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:17 AM
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Yes, I have absolutely noticed that trend on here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:41 PM
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I think people are attracted to attractive people. Everyone is disgusted by mediocrity. When you said you want one extreme or the other I actually think that makes perfect sense, but a lot of people on here might disagree. If you can't kill it at work, you should kill it at home, otherwise gtfo. edit - I will say that most people probably can't really kill it in either venue, hence all the bitching about dating these days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:33 AM
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Women become hard-charging because of effeminate societies. You're confusing the chicken and the egg. Women aren't "getting away with it" - they are reacting to effeminate men. I work in a type of finance and would probably fit your listed criteria for a woman in an interesting career. I am not overly interested in ambitious men, as I end to associate career success with cheating and checked-out relationships. I'd rather a man be pretty and undemanding over most other things. How do I feel about…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:20 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:06 PM
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I do get that women aren't feminine anymore for the most part Women by and large want traditional men. They just decide that it's lower risk for them to hedge their bets and become a masculine working drone rather than risk being a traditional woman who fails to achieve that goal and remains poor and useless to a capitalist society You're right that one comes with the other - but it's a chicken and egg problem - you're saying that women should shoulder risk that men do not shoulder. E.g. Women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:21 PM
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Haha no one invades male hobbies for that reason, they do it because they are interested in the hobby. That being said, I completely sympathize with and understand where you are coming from. I feel a similar way about my own hobbies, not in a gendered sense, but in a lowest-common-denominator sense. I feel like the more a hobby is invaded by clowns, the shittier it becomes for everyone involved (see: gaming pandering to casuals, stuff like surfing or MTB as a "limited resource" hobby, etc.). Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:12 PM
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You said you preferred the supporting role in the first comment I responded to - your owns words were that you "preferred to support," which women were encroaching on. If it's a team relationship, why would it matter if you are captain or not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:42 PM
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Supporting roles are inherently non-masculine. The rest of what you said is all debatable but I'd argue that cleaning and monitoring systems are actually also feminine activities lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:59 PM
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Jaylen-Gads these are just anecdotes and your personal experiences. You do not represent all men(gladly) and you do not speak on behalf of all men either. So what you think of female sexuality is just your personal opinion of what you want people to think, compared to the sheer amount of evidence and data that gets put on this subreddit that shows what women really want. Female sexuality is actually quite complicated, it's just men want to make it seem less complicated than it really is because …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:05 PM
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I don't really get your point. It seemed like you were bitching that women didn't want feminine men, and when I said people are allowed to have preferences you're like hahahaha women are going to die alone! It sounds like you just have an axe to grind. If you don't want to date masculine women, no one is making you, just like no one is making women date feminine men. Men enforce masculine behavior in women via economics, not dating. If men cannot support women, then women have to find another av…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:56 PM
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Both men and women are allowed to behave how they please and the market determines the outcome. In today's society, many men are perfectly accepting of or even desire masculine women, but women do not desire feminine men. Ergo, the outcome you currently see. Are you saying it's morally "wrong" for women to have their preferences? As for your third point, women behave in a masculine manner unless they meet someone they want to "submit" to, primarily because in the workforce - and in society at la…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:28 PM
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Yes I agree with you that in dating there is little room for a man to act like a woman and expect women to go in for that, while women have more freedom of choice. But that's a biological reality as real as men preferring younger women, or women being the party that has to bear children. It boils down to the fact that men want sex a hell of a lot more than women do, and are generally expected to lead in return. Life isn't fair. I just don't think any of that has much to do with hobbies. Knitting…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:01 PM
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I don't really get your point, honestly. Men can still retain their masculinity and participate in feminine activities (see: expert dancers, male chefs, etc.). They are not required to be selectively masculine to participate in the feminine sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:40 PM
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Don't you think what you just said is hypocritical? You told this person that women shouldn't be on hot air balloon crews because ballooning is a dangerous, and therefore masculine hobby. But then, in the same thread, you said that you prefer the supporting role and don't want to be a captain - but that's not very masculine of you is it? The masculine thing would be to advance your own abilities and take on the captain role (for, perhaps, a crew full of chicks!). Either men take on both the bene…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:57 PM
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Oh please, you think a guy who is really passionate about fashion and knitting is going to get excluded from dating? A lot of women will go in for that (not ALL women, but plenty - and fwiw women who are interested in male hobbies are not appealing to ALL men either, many men are put off by masculine energy in women). Also, hobbies don't necessarily define whether or not you are masculine or feminine - I think a lot of the complaining comes in when a man is really passive and feminine and also p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:52 PM
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why do you put dating in quotes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:06 AM
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His parents are 1st generation US and not legally married. This guy isn't a sheikh, he's just a dork that has spent too much time on youtube. He can go his religious girl route as long as he's not too picky on the girl and willing to date 100% muslim background.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:04 AM
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LOL, hey man, them's the breaks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:29 PM
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Haha I love this, what a hot take. You are right. Business partnerships are almost never equal, and there is a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:20 PM
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“It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live.” -Harry Potter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:10 PM
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But Reddit is my community!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:07 PM
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What's stopping you from starting right now? My previous post about having a good job was a lie. I'm super poor can you give me money right now? Please help out a fellow comrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:08 AM
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Where do you think people keep their money these days? Somewhere you can take it? This isn't plantation days, assets are liquid and easy to move. Also, I am a "normal" person, not some kind of trust fund baby. I studied hard, got into a good school on scholarship, got subsequent jobs, worked hard at them (sometimes very long hours), and my life has been bettered by it. What have you done? You literally just posted about wanting to read a book exploring the positives of failure and mediocrity. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:33 PM
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Never actually works homie that's the funny part. It just means that no one ends up with anything and people like me will leave the country LOL. Good luck walking to find us. The global poor don't have any capacity to organize on any massive scale. Crabs in a fucking bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:02 PM
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I don't hate women, I just like money more and believe that forcing someone to redistribute their life's work is just as fucked up. I also don't support either proposal - but it's idiotic to say that it's okay to re-appropriate some things and not others. It's absolutely hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:57 PM
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I'd rather every single woman in America be assigned husbands if they can't find one on their own by age 30, than have my income appropriated by obnoxious, low-rent marxists. FWIW I am a woman. Not everyone sees eye to eye on these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:55 PM
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Your headline brooks no argument and is kind of funny in the context of reddit. Life isn't fair in any arena and never will be. Watch all the poors and clowns on here do backflips to justify why they deserve other people's stuff, whether that be money or pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:22 PM
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Utah baby
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:11 PM
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LOL what a response. Your comment: "High earning women will stay with men because it's basically a blackmail situation" My response: "I rarely see that play out in reality, women actually do care about money in a marriage context" Your Response: "It's about love, okay"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:01 PM
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I'm a "high earning" woman and I disagree with your statement. A lot of women will just not get married at all to avoid this problem, or they marry people in the same bracket as them. My mom dated some guy for forever who really wanted to wife her up when she was in her 40s, but he just didn't make enough relative to her. They split, and she ended up remarrying an engineering director. If men don't bring money or amazing good looks to the table, it's just not worth it in LTRs. This is why the nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:37 PM
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Are they???? I think trashy people are just into dating trashy people and that goes for both genders lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:27 PM
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I work in finance, so I am clearing a lot, and have a lot of upside. And I plan to leave the state in about 10 years and basically retire somewhere else. I've lived in CA my whole life except for college and always hated it. My family is from here, so it's not like I moved here per se, it's that I never left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:26 PM
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And men are more likely to be alcoholics, drug addicts, or take opioids. Antidepressant and broader drug use is alarming, but it's not exactly gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:46 AM
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Look I don't really want to argue about taxes with someone who makes such a dumb reddit-style statement. I am literally saying that I'd prefer if we all paid fewer taxes, and also cut programs. But the obvious rebuttal to your comment is that the ultra-wealthy are extremely difficult to audit, and then subsequently pursue. The state wastes more money pursuing them than they can earn in a payout. Additionally, there are not enough "ultra wealthy" people to impact budget in any meaningful way. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:27 PM
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Well my point is that, you get losers in areas where you live who work part time or not at all who say, let's tax the "rich." By the "rich" they mean the guy making 135K in CA where house are 7x more expensive, taxes are higher, and CoL is higher. I'm not saying taxes should be adjusted for CoL, just that what people are asking for in America is not sustainable and it doesn't have parity to Europe is all. CA's UBI program is a hot mess. Other cities have already run pilots (Oakland did one for P…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:10 PM
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I live in CA. In CA if you make over 135K which is basically lower middle class to middle class where I live, you pay approximately that rate on all incremental dollars, and it's not exactly a cake walk once you surpass ~50K. In CA, the state sales tax starts at 7.25%, but local jurisdictions then add onto that. In some localities the sales tax is as high as 10.25%. Now, that's not a 20-25% VAT tax like in most of Europe (which is insanely regressive fwiw). But consider: if you make 40K a year a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:48 AM
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They do, and France has a wealth tax etc., but by and large the majority of the disparity is that Europeans just outright earn less money to begin with, and taxes kick in harder at lower brackets (unlike the US).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:53 PM
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American democrats have successfully spun the narrative to make it seem like the rich should pay more, when it's actually the American working poor who are, by and large, not paying enough. There are not enough wealthy people to shoulder the burden of popular demand in the US, even assuming the ultra-wealthy didn't just offshore all of their assets. Imo the biggest thing working against the middle class, lower middle class, and working poor in the US is actually the lack of regulation around rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:52 PM
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It's not actually low by international standards. My family members live in Germany and they cap off at mid to high 40s. Check out this cool chart for reference: https://taxfoundation.org/personal-income-tax-rates-europe/ The first big difference between the US and Europe is that in Europe 50% of their population doesn't pay 0% in taxes. The second (less-big) difference is capital gains. Some places in Europe do tax capital gains at a higher rate (you see mostly 25-30% type numbers), but others …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:30 PM
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I pay 50% of my non cap gains income in taxes. didn't realize that was "low"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:11 PM
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I'm a conservative I'm afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:14 PM
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its cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:12 PM
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I'm a woman, and you missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:11 PM
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Says the guy who: "Worked part time for many years," won't fuck fatties and conservatives, and is "addicted to cuddles." Spoiler alert - the political parties are barely even real. No real change will happen under Biden, or under any party. They are all a bunch of grifters. Instead, consider working full time so that you can enjoy a higher quality of life - be the change you want to see in the world!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:09 PM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:46 AM
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Reddit is super poor, and full of commie extremists who don't represent the general population. It's honestly a dumb forum to even ask this question on. Most normal people barely think about politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:05 AM
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I don't necessarily disagree with you, but to be fair, is leaving one guy for another guy being a whore or even sexually immoral? I think of being a whore as having lots of casual sex, engaging in slutty behavior, posting nudes, etc. Also, there are a lot of unattractive women who did none of this stuff. Men just remember the hot, crazy ones. Anyways, I just mentioned WoW to indicate I have in the past been a true shut in nerd, not to really promote the fact that the people of WoW were non-degen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:41 PM
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They gotta solicit somewhere. I mean, if you were a porn recruiter, other than the internet, where would you solicit? You'll get thrown out of bars and clubs so it ultimately comes down to cons, conferences, and other large social gatherings where women congregate, there are some non-ugly women, and you can slide your way in. I somewhat doubt it's a direct reflection on the sexual mores of nerds (perhaps on the sexual mores of cosplayers though, which are not the same as nerds). Re: WoW, there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:18 PM
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Yes, Miyavi and Narillka (who later got into porn). I did not raid in DnT though. At any rate, DnT let casuals into their guild and actively encouraged this psychotic behavior. Although, Narillka was an actual raider, I don't really have an excuse for her, she just wasn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:02 PM
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And TONS of non-nerdy women are into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:57 PM
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I'm white. I'm a weeb and I was in the best US world of warcraft guild for years back when that actually meant something. My observation: you are wrong. You're seeing egirls advertising themselves online and lumping all nerdy women under that category, even though the silent majority is not interested in any of the same weird sex shit. I personally have a low sex drive and I'm thankful that I became less "online" well before the advent of the egirl fucking ruined everything because men can't see…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:55 PM
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I think giving up at any age in life is a loser attitude. At any rate, people who give up on dating tend to be people who give up on everything. How many people who are successful and motivated in their career also fail at dating? I can't name a single person from my personal life and I know a lot of engineering types if you know what I'm saying. At any rate, you can't stop people from quitting on life, but it doesn't mean you have to respect it. I hate the constant celebration of loserdom today…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:28 PM
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This kind of undesirable, anti-improvement, anti-competitive attitude can be seen everywhere these days in both men and women. If everything is "stacked against you" then you have no real motivation to fight to improve your lot in life. It's cringe sadposting, encouraged by other sadposters. reddit dot com
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:13 AM
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Men disdain hookers as much as women disdain johns - it's gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:07 AM
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Looking at student debt, the numbers are actually not crazy different: https://educationdata.org/student-loan-debt-by-gender Consumer debt is close as well, with men actually carrying slightly more consumer debt than women (they have a useful table somewhere if you scroll down): https://www.experian.com/blogs/ask-experian/women-and-credit/ Any significant consumer debt is inexcusable tbh, but both genders are guilty of this in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:18 PM
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I just think about ninja's fucking 30m dollar deal LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:17 AM
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dude you're a lot hotter than her. ditch the mixer shirt though LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:22 PM
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You're not contradicting what I was saying. The reason birth rates have declined so much in major cities is because of this dynamic. Women don't want to be working extended hours and then have to fall pregnant and deal with young children on top of that. Regarding men finding someone else when it comes time for kids, I don't really personally see that happening at all. The same reason men don't want to support their current GF, they don't want to support younger women who have no money either. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:49 PM
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I dunno, I think PPD doesn't really understand how higher-earning people date. People who are UMC or UC mostly pair off with each other. I am high earning and my partner is high earning. Most guys I know around this bracket don't want to support a woman at all. In a way, it's kind of funny, because their unwillingness to use their money to get what they "want" limits their options, unless what they "want" is really just an intelligent partner and a second income (and PPD is misunderstanding male…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:01 PM
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Ya well, I'm not explaining how to avoid this, I'm explaining why ppl take the stance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:56 PM
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good comment, this is a really interesting perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:38 PM
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It's not about privilege, it's about hedging risk. If women would prefer to have a high-value provider take care of them, but think they can't get it, it's better for them to hedge and make their own money, as opposed to holding out and hoping that a great guy will show up someday (when if he doesn't, you're fucked).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:21 PM
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men are, the men we have today are just low T
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:46 AM
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I work in a masculine job and pretty much exclusively mtb and play videogames outside of work and I'm attracted to feminine looking men. PS - I am not bisexual in any way. The thought of even making out with a woman is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:58 AM
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the egalitarian solution to your first point would be for a man and a woman to split a surrogate and then split a nursemaid. Whatever you were talking about was not it. I didn't say using condoms was bad. I said it was fair if everyone splits condoms, but most long term couples use BC and men bitch about condoms. sex gap by income is irrelevant, I don't know why you keep posting about it. The point is that as women out-earn men (in relative, not absolute terms), they stop participating in relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:02 AM
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had to come all the way down here to find this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:52 AM
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A) Your first point makes 0 sense and I still don't understand it B) The difficulty with hormonal BC is that it's terrible for you, not that it costs money. I think you don't understand the point since you brought up money, but sure, splitting condoms would be fair C) idc if men get laid or not, but everyone is having less sex these days because women (gatekeepers of sex) don't feel that men bring value to the table. The stats dont lie and random anecdotes about broke dudes getting laid mean les…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:28 AM
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what? some ppl on here are truly delusional. the kid is half and half, but one party puts in more effort to produce the kid than the other party - it's not any one person's kid. that being said, you're right, women can bail on BC and men can just wear condoms forever instead, is that the endgame you're hoping for with the 50-50 movement lol? Everybody loses? as men drop out of providership, they cant land women of any variety anymore. hence all the crying on the sub. if you can nail someone down…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:51 PM
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bored on calls lol, what other motivation is there to post on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:48 PM
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Egalitarianism - taken to it's true meaning - would require that men compensate for the physical burden women bear via hormonal birth control, pregnancy, and otherwise. My point in my comments is that men don't want egalitarianism - they only want to be financial beneficiaries and mask it as equality. And for what it's worth, men settle for being providers because that's often their only option. So that answers your question as to why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:49 PM
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I didn't say that it was good to be a single mom lmao. Of course it's worse to have one parent, but the people who opt to be single moms mostly do it for a reason (the other parent is not helping/has issues/is a financial drain). The question isn't whether it's worse to be a single-parent household, it's whether or not as a fully employed female, that a man will contribute equally across your lifetime. Your argument is so weak it could include things like cats: "yea, my cat makes my life better.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:35 PM
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The entire point is that it's subjective and contextual
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:32 PM
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men don't carry the child and in today's world women work too and pay for their own children. supporting someone emotionally =/= carrying a child physically and breastfeeding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:20 PM
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The entire postmodern movement (including this post) is the deconstruction of what right and wrong actually mean. If there is no clear definition, then the determination ultimately comes down to the free market. Right is what brings success, wrong is what does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:19 PM
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How do animals reproduce? The males impress the female ranging all the way to the female eating the male. It has nothing to do with human society. Every lib woman around here says they love 50-50 then if you split they are turned off. Fwiw I'm out of the game, so I don't even care. I just think guys who are already struggling to get dates and want to play these kinds of games are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:50 PM
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Yea that picture is just LOL. Total ad for him. Honestly though, Alex can get it, what a hottie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:46 PM
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then pay up boi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:42 PM
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cant erase biology
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:38 PM
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except easy sex LOL you must be super chad bro. super chad who wastes his time posting about paying for dates on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:37 PM
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Why would you assume the woman doesn't prefer that as well? If someone isn't helpful, they can leave and pay. We are in agreement. That's also why women should heavily vet men upfront, through methods such as testing someone's commitment, as featured in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:07 PM
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the terminal kind that you never come back from
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:39 PM
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Women do raise their kids alone, in droves. Where have you been LOL? Hence, child support. But, what you're talking about has nothing to do with what I said, which was, 50:50 means 50:50. It means men paying for women to be pregnant and go on hormones, it means men doing equal housework, it means men providing equal orgasms, it means men spending the same amount of time on looking attractive. Men don't want to do any of those things, they just want 50:50 where it suits them. I get it, I'd want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:36 PM
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Technically, no one does? im not sure that's the gotcha you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:26 PM
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idk what this schizo comment even means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:13 PM
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if guys want true 50-50, they can pay their wives and gfs to bear children and get on hormonal birth control. Tbh though, I'm glad there is this anti-paying "movement" on reddit - it's an easy way for women to filter out the men with super-autism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:01 PM
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ultimate chad tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:02 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:58 PM
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Men are usually silver or copper diggers, they don't have the commitment necessary for gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:57 PM
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What you described in your post is not "happening in Japan" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:49 PM
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Well, I wish you luck and as long as whatever you are doing works for you that's what counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:55 PM
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But at least if you meet someone at a gathering you can talk to them in group settings over a much longer period of time or something before trying to make anything happen, it at least creates a window in which attraction has a chance to grow? And yea, I know the gaming crowd isn't any different lol. I wouldn't expect that, in fact, probably a lot of them are actually worse because they are more 'online' as a demo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:26 PM
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You're the person who had the gamer tag right? Why not just meet guys on online games or in other gaming-related hobbies like tabletop stuff. It's always a sausage fest at those gatherings. Honestly, it's always a sausage fest in almost every hobby group. That way, you can get to know people without the pressure of actively dating. I personally think OLD is total crap for this reason. At the end of the day, if someone won't wait to get to know you a bit before fucking, they probably would have f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:02 PM
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It's when you eat oysters served on a picnic table at a family reunion in late july
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:29 AM
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Ignore these fools, you're hardly filtering out anyone, and the people you are filtering out weren't worth it anyways. Most of the tough guys in this thread would wait for the right person, let alone a normal dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:23 AM
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I live in CA so this isn't the insult you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:14 PM
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Germany has these things because they rip off the US for military and they rip off the rest of the EU financially. Is there anything more reddit than euros talking about economics and society like they haven't had everything handed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:45 PM
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nah I get it, I just think it's hilarious what lengths people go to here in order to rationalize bad behavior. Just acknowledge it. Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:32 AM
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What is the obsession on reddit with trying to rationalize how whatever dumb shit you do actually means you're still a good person. Why not just be like yea, uggos have to lie, and will lie, and don't care, suck it. Instead it's like geNETiCs has forced them into a corner and it doesn't make them a bAD pERsOn. Embrace it, don't run from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:52 PM
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That's a fair stance man. Miss me with the dog though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:46 AM
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Well you asked why people should get married and my answer is children. I think without children it's a bit pointless, and that in general, society should pretty much disregard childless people when modeling legal obligations because they represent the past not the future. Women expose themselves regardless of career by taking on a significant physical burden and typically post-birth responsibilities that a man does not. Ergo, the desire to ensure that a man is also taking on responsibility hims…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:15 PM
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A woman above a certain means will not bear children if she is not married. Why would any woman ruin her body and deal with that burden if a man will not commit in a meaningful way? That is the sole reason for a woman and a man to get married, and if a man doesn't want that, he should not be surprised that women with options will go elsewhere for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:00 PM
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You don't need it. Eunuchs have obviously lived their whole lives without it, as do many religious people. It's not a need, it's a want, like almost everything in life outside of food, water, oxygen, and to some extent shelter (or at least protection from exposure). A good thought exercise would be to ask yourself if you'd prefer to never have sex or orgasm again, or, if you'd prefer to still be able to do that, but you had to live in a slum on the water in Lagos in a house made of garbage with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:41 AM
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I think that not taking care of yourself and putting that burden on your partner and children is a moral issue tbh (within reason, I don't think someone being chubby is a big deal). I don't know when people stopped wanting to have agency over these aspects of their lives, but trying to justify low self-discipline as being morally neutral feels like a really grey area to me. I'd rather date a lying scumbag who can ride bikes with me and takes care of himself, than some dude who is glued to the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:37 AM
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I would certainly not. The only men I'd support as I get older would be a small handful of friends I've known most of my life, or a younger sugar-style dude. There's pretty much always a reason some men become unemployed and stay that way, and it's never anything good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:30 AM
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You literally can be, so that's not really an excuse at all. Why does everyone on reddit insist on removing their own agency. "It's my body's fault." Really? Why not strive to be better than an animal. Fwiw I don't think there is anything wrong with being an asshole and bailing if a circumstance is a shit deal, I just think that blaming it on anything other than your own choices is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:26 AM
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Yea, that's why women want the legal protections before having children
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:20 AM
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nah bro, tons of people straight up dont try LOL no need to dance around it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:54 PM
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TRP doesn't care about looks? ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:08 AM
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Men have a higher sex drive, and want someone to manage their shit for them as they get older. A lot of them also still think they have a chance with the younger audience, while women are usually not that delusional. Women probably just can't be fucked to bother at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:46 PM
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I'd unironically argue that MRAs and feminists are in theory very similar at the core. Of course, they don't play out equally in practice. Both groups hate the other gender too much (or perhaps both groups feel too superior to the other gender, or believe in injustices that don't actually exist too much). But, it explains my natural disgust for both movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:33 PM
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yea well, agree to disagree. The reality is that private employment is dependent on it in certain blue states, to me that crosses a line and I believe that medical procedures should be protected. If you don't feel that way, np, but you won't get my sympathy on the pre-term sterilization issue LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:35 PM
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Tattoos are not medically invasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:14 PM
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Then no offense, I don't take your opinion seriously. I am vaccinated fwiw, but vaccine passports essentially take the choice away from people in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:01 PM
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I literally work in finance and help manage recruiters around a portfolio of startups. No one is hiring for "coders." They are hiring for front-end and back-end engineers, manufacturing engineers, systems test engineers, engineers for specific stacks, etc. If you don't believe me just look at job listings on Indeed. They all look something like this (note, Bachelor's preferred, not required): https://indeedhi.re/3gDPID7 - Maybe you are just being really anal about it because you are a civil engi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:38 PM
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Um he's worked as a software engineer for a decade+, so whatever autistic legal definition you have cooked up is just not really relevant. No one thinks that way when defining whether or not someone is an engineer. I only care about stats when dealing with outgroups I don't have 1:1 relationships with. They are a useful heuristic in that context. And ya, I'd probably dump someone who was hospitalized multiple times too LOL. But man, if someone wants you to hit them during sex, or pet them, or si…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:30 PM
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Well I don't hang out over there or on TRP, but I'd generally support anyone having whatever expectations/standards they want to have. If they can find people who meet those standards, great, if they can't, they'll have to adjust. What is the obsession w/FDS on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:58 PM
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Well I'm educated, engaged to a guy with no degree. He dropped out of college to work on a startup many years ago, and as it turns out, you don't need a degree if you're an engineer. I couldn't care less about some cheating statistics though, I care about the specific person I'm with. And a lot of highly educated people are fully useless, as useless as uneducated people, but even more entitled. Sex is sex. Imagine breaking up with a girl because she was being a bit wild. Yea, maybe if some guy s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:30 PM
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Almost everything you listed can be rolled into personality or looks, except for education, sexual compatibility and similar interests. You're right on similar interests, but I couldn't care less about education, and sexual compatibility is a made up phrase men use to try and get into people's pants sooner. Love is not a trait, it's the continued choice to stay with someone once the glow wears off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:01 PM
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do you think that about the vaccine too? I'll respect that position as long as you're ideologically consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:56 PM
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I'm not a feminist so I don't care what they want or don't want. PS men who believe in egalitarianism in all things are also feminists (or just grifters)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:55 PM
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They make money to ensure they can live alone if needed. They want a successful man or no man. I'm pretty sure that's all they are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:54 PM
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how
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:52 PM
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I'm not a feminist so I don't care what they want or don't want. PS men who believe in egalitarianism in all things are also feminists (or just grifters)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:52 PM
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What are the other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:44 AM
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how about both are evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:33 AM
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Yea, so? What does that have to do with my post. Just because there are other reasons, doesn't mean that finances don't matter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:30 AM
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Well I say bravo to them. Idk why I'd care if men are wanting to have children or not when I am personally ambivalent. That being said, your son should reconsider getting a vasectomy at a young age. You really don't know anything when you're in your early 20s, and they are often not reversible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:25 AM
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Well I said "or"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:23 AM
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I agree with this entirely, which is why it's such a tough decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:22 AM
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There can never be equality in relationships so long as men have a higher sex drive and women bear children and the greater cost of children. Dating down is more of a hassle than just being single imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:20 AM
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Yea it had a lot of upsides, but in the event that you can't specialize in raising kids without great risk to yourself, you kind of have to be smart about things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:16 AM
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What's the point of being with a man who makes less money though (unless they are really hot or bring something amazing to the table personality/intelligence-wise)? Most women don't want to pay a guy to give them head and clean up after them. Imagine that lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:56 PM
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Yea it's really bs tbh. Men want everything to be "equal" and then conveniently ignore the whole bearing kids part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:51 PM
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I mean, the attitude only ever has to apply to a portion of women for it to start to become a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:50 PM
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did anyone ever doubt it xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:49 PM
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It's really tough to have a career and also have a kid. I work in finance and I have to make a decision over the next couple of years on this, which I don't look forward to. It's also why I don't believe in egalitarianism across the sexes. Men cannot understand what it's like to really face down having to get pregnant, bear the child, nurse the child, and manage a young child. The burden is just not equally distributed, and in an "egalitarian" world where everyone is responsible for their own $$…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:48 PM
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He's said he is old and married in other threads before, which is hilarious if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:37 PM
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Ya me too thx
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:28 PM
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larp larp larp lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:45 AM
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LOL sure bro. You know how many actually wealthy people stay single? 0. They all have families and children. But keep on larping if it helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:53 PM
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We both make close to 300K, so no one is martyring anyone. I actually make more than he does (slightly), but he's prettier than me if we're being honest. Whatever the poors get up to is hardly my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:51 PM
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Sure, dumb women who want to spread their legs for losers are welcome to. That's not for me though. Incidentally, I am also going to be moving to Utah in the next couple of years with my fiance, as my values align with Utah and I have bought a house in Park City. Be the change you want to see in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:21 PM
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Cause you both have money? And, children. Who is gonna ruin their bod for a bro who won't commit. Miss me w/that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:55 AM
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What is it about guys and looking for an excuse for violence. What did anything she said have to do with what you just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:28 PM
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HAHA my grandma was racist as fuck, a raging alcoholic, and spoke her mind to just about everyone she met. She dominated her church, her community, and her husband. When I was a child, she used to tell me it was "just as easy to love a rich man as it is to love a poor man." I really wonder if guys these days grew up with grandmas because in my experience most of them are like this LOL edit - she was also down to throw just about anything (including her cats) at just about anyone, including me, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:23 PM
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Yea I mean this is a fair interpretation. It also takes two to have kids. I have always thought that often relationships where the woman doesn't work are imbalanced in the woman's favor (no matter how many kids are involved), and relationships where the woman works full time are imbalanced in the man's favor (particularly if there are kids involved). I rarely see exceptions to that rule which "prove me wrong" irl. I think that's a big reason why I'm personally so skeptical of guys who push egali…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:38 AM
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This sub is so dumb lately lol. People as individuals can and will care about whatever they want, the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:34 PM
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I have a question for you then - if a woman is making a lot of money, what is the benefit of a relationship? Like, what does the modern man actually bring to the table that a woman isn't bringing more of (besides money)? It honestly confuses me that a lot of guys on here are mad that women want their financial support, but without that, I don't really see how things even out if I'm being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:29 AM
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You're indian in SF and have a good career. Why don't you do the arranged marriage shit that like half the indian dudes I know do? Are you only approaching white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:21 AM
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Phone gamers will ruin it for the rest of us, don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:05 AM
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Even if the lockdowns did work well, which they did not, the US population is like 330M and climbing. So, we suffered a mortality of 0.001%, literally. People up in these threads comparing it to bubonic plague. Get a life lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:04 AM
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LOL I always wondered if moto and DH MTB were actually like, a bridge too far. Like, they are so dangerous and male-oriented, that women don't even understand it, relate to it, or become attracted to it. Because at a glance it always seemed to me like that shit should make it really easy to pick people up lol. I bought one of my mountain bikes from a moto racer and I thought he was so fucking cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:28 AM
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You race motocross and you can't pick up chicks? What? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:20 AM
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Or he's just a guy fucking a hotter woman than he would have otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:57 AM
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You said you "can't have it both ways" - I am saying: you can. An equal value exchange just means that both parties are happy with the outcome. A hot woman can have a man who assumes traditional gender roles, while not being so traditional herself. Take it up with other men, I don't make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:52 AM
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pOsT a stUdY Reddit is so cringe tbh. I did post a study. There is literally no way to measure "how much better" something like this is in terms of a %. Feel free to feed your baby trash if you want, most women won't, and this line of thinking is why men make bad domestic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:50 AM
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I mean, you're just wrong. The first thing that comes up when you google it is a pub med article which outright says there is a gap: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29397805/ I'm sure babies are raised just fine on formula all the time, but it's not "better" or "ideal"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:49 PM
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Why should anyone ever put themselves as #2 in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:42 PM
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Technically, dating is a market. No one needs to make any tradeoffs at all. It's not about whether or not things are "fair" - it's about what the market can bear. If people don't like it, they don't have to participate. The obsession with if you want x then I get y or that's not "how it works" on this sub is cringe. Modern dating is economics, and that's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:41 PM
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Some guys will argue in favor of porn to absolute death even though the effects are obvious to anyone with eyes. I'm always surprised by the fact that it's mainly women who hate porn (porn actually provides a great service for women - it's basically the substitute whore when you don't want to fuck every day in a long term relationship), when in reality, I feel like it should be men who hate porn. Porn basically steals a guy's vitality and will to get out there and do shit with his life. But I gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:53 PM
1

mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:15 PM
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I wouldn't date you anyways LOL, that is the whole point of my point - it's perfect because the whole idea is to filter out people with this POV asap. If I were still dating and every man on earth had your attitude - I would just not date - and I'm certainly not even close to the only woman who thinks that way, hence the broader lack of women on the dating market and OLD overall. I already make a lot of money, I'm actually not dating for the purpose of stealing men's money - seeing if someone wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:20 PM
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That's not equality; it's splitting value in a way that conveniences men. But like I said, none of that really matters, because dating really just comes down to leverage, not equality or any of this other nonsense. I don't date; I'm engaged and I've been with the same guy for a long time now. I never did OLD or any of this short term dating stuff people do these days. I didn't say dating has to be no fun, I only said that there is always a covert negotiation present - that's life. Just because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:26 AM
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Well, I'd prefer it if men all shaved their legs and crotch and took the time to style their hair; I'd even prefer it if they wore makeup to look nicer. And then there's the childbearing - that one really sucks. It would be super awesome if men actually bore them instead of me. However, they don't, because there is actually no such thing as true gender equality and the people who clamor for it are mostly just naive. Ultimately, the discussion of who pays is entirely irrelevant anyways. Dating, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:31 AM
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Honestly, this thread proves her point. Guys who insist on splitting the check tend to hold negative viewpoints on women. It's really as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:10 AM
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Yea, OP is just trying to play nice girl in the thread. It's cringe. There's a reason she's posting on /r/datingoverthirty and it's not because this strategy is a great success. The role of women is to filter not impress. @ /u/LetsDelveIntoIt - men don't care if you're nice or mean; they care if you're hot, interesting, smart, or fun. Being their paypig won't make them love you more, if anything, it will lower your value in their eyes because you are trying too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:06 AM
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OLD just messed up dating. People used to go on fewer dates with people they already knew they liked. Now it's just a bunch of people meeting up with randos and the dynamic is poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:02 AM
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This guy doesn't have female friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:55 AM
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Idk, how would I know if I'm ignoring them LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:21 PM
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Okay fr though, how is it possible to lose a fortune in stocks and real estate over the past year, specifically? I'm pretty sure we are still in a bubble right now, so unless your friends went hard on GME then idk exactly what they were doing to have allowed that to happen. When I was younger, in my early 20s, a guy I really liked chose an objectively uglier person over me because she had connections in the industry he wanted to work in. So from where I sit, it seems quite possible that the inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:17 AM
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I've seen lots of super ugly people dating each other, so idk, seems to me like people's mileage may vary
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:05 AM
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I'm curious in general what you think an unattractive person's appeal should be then? I'm a high earner, but a woman, and I would be okay with using money to appeal to a hot guy. Why is it that men seem to be so offended by the idea of someone wanting their money? Doesn't everyone want the money of people who have it? I feel like that's what politics has boiled down to these days at least. At the end of the day, looks fade but money and intelligence have staying power. Why is it that you as a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:03 AM
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Yea, I don't fantasize about fulfilling either role and I'd say I have a lot of similar opinions to the poster above. But I'm still not sure what about it specifically makes it hot in the first place. I have no interest whatsoever in gay porn, for example, or for manga featuring m/w. Who knows man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:01 PM
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hahaha mmo-chad, love it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:24 AM
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I like yaoi too and I constantly wonder what it is about it that I like. I keep waiting for someone else to explain it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:53 AM
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Well, that's a tough question and I'd have to think about it. I think a lot of it depends on how much of the good you're willing to take with the bad. And also, in a way, how you define wholesome and emotionally intelligent. Like, does wholesome mean innocent? Does it mean traditional/family-oriented? Does it mean nice? Emotionally intelligent is a sticky adjective too - you can have a guy who is really emotionally intelligent but weaponizes it and is hollow to the core in their interactions wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:37 AM
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This is an over-generalization of men. Not all average men are allergic to treating women well, and not all hot men treat women well. This is why it's important to manage individuals on a case by case basis. If you're really going for broad markers, I'd say that location and type of employment are better indicators than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:24 AM
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If you ever want to argue with people about climate science, ask why we have the same daily high temps as the 1930s - https://www.epa.gov/climate-indicators/climate-change-indicators-high-and-low-temperatures - Nighttime temperatures (daily lows on this graph) are only increasing because of urban heat islands (heat trapped in asphalt, metal, and other man-made structures sustains nightly temperatures in developed areas). If global warming were 100% real, we'd also have higher daytime highs - but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 11:23 PM
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What you are describing is not possible unless women got as much out of sex as men do. Maybe genetically engineer women to have a male sex drive and male ease of getting off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 06:24 AM
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Heavily stigmatizing casual sex and other slutty behavior would solve a lot of issues. You really don't have to change much other than that imo. All of the recent sex-related changes came after the internet made e-whoring, tinder, and other sociosexual/parasocial options available to young people. All you really need is a society that prioritizes monogamy to fix these problems. The idea that women will all opt out if they have to date an uggo is tripe. Have men here not met ugly women? Plenty of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:21 PM
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I'm with a guy who makes the some income as me. We are both high earners. Only low class people even think like this, it's very cringe. You do you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:26 PM
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Not necessarily, but it sure helps if things ever go downhill. I'm already "committing" with my body, so a man needs to also put something on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:19 PM
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The fuck? You cannot be married without being married LOL Idk what that even means. But if you mean married in a non-legal way, then no, you are not married. The point is that if I'm taking a big L with the pregnancy, I want legal protections.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:12 PM
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Yes, that is the point. The rich person taking the young hot person out (whether or not that's an older man or an older woman). What did you think I meant? That you talk about having money and don't use it? That literally never works ever. I can't speak for all women but I had a couple long term relationships then dated my fiance in my early-mid 20s and now we're engaged (I am 30). I've never had casual sex or been interested in it - it's a obvious losing proposition for women and I'm not intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:33 PM
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Children statistically have greater success in married households. I want to provide a good family life for a future child, not phone it in with some guy who doesn't want to get married. Independent from providing for the kid, having a kid is actually really annoying. I'm a huge athlete, have been for a decent chunk of my life, and tbh I'm not really excited about being pregnant. I think it will fuck up my body and just generally not be an experience I'm excited about. Including the milk after t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:27 PM
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Grats on the weightloss, that is a fuckton
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:11 AM
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holy shit LOL that amount of back and forth is actually kind of impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:03 AM
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I don't even know who Tomi Lahren is, and I am most certainly not a RINO in any way, shape, or form. You could loosely define my political stance as being pro-anything which bolsters the lower-upper middle class's quality of life. I am also very strongly anti-gender and identity politics. I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not in your second comment? But either way, I don't really see you refuting my argument. And re: marriage and LTRs, if you can't see the benefits you definitely should …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:38 PM
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Everyone is entitled to their own opinion in life. So, I'm perfectly entitled to say that men OR women who opt out of the dating game because it's not "fair" are quitters. And in men specifically, this behavior is un-manly (in women it is entitled). No one cares how many inches your dick is. They care if you can walk the walk and get back up again when you're kicked down. Imagine trying to argue that being a little bitch is somehow the masculine path in life LOL. And ftr, there is nothing wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:30 PM
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I'm a hardcore conservative and I still think you guys are being a little bit dumb. People are attracted to frame and status - looks are just one component of that. I'm a woman and even I could weaponize money in the dating game if I wanted to, and let's face it, women care more about money than men do. Are you really arguing that it's not possible to run game on young/stupid people using cash and experience as a lever? Also, I think you and u/XtoDoubt are arguing a totally different thing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:50 PM
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This is like the male equivalent of thotposting lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:22 AM
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Lol it's not just dating trends you're not allowed to say things about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:28 PM
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When I was like 18-19 I built a gaming PC because some nerd I knew talked me through it on Skype. Any moron can do a camera op where they showcase basically any interest they want. I'm not saying I know for a fact that Henry Cavill isn't really spending too much time being a 'nerd,' it just wouldn't surprise me if a lot of this persona were for the fans. And fwiw I like Henry Cavill, so this isn't even me dunking on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:36 PM
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Ugggh children, so uncool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:32 PM
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No, I don't assume that. That's why I said they'll slay more and with hotter women. The finance bro and beach volleyballers will have more access to the normie crowd (not that there are zero hot geeky women, but as a percentage it's going to be less)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:31 PM
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Well, I am a woman. The worst I get is people catcalling or making dumb noises when I'm running or biking, and tbh I'm like 30 now so that's surely on the way out. I've personally never been angry about men shooting their shot, but I'm also very against the new dating trends of women trying to neuter and emasculate men and get enthusiastic consent for every fucking thing. I'm probably not a good example of women/my views are not representative of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:28 PM
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Yea I was going to ask if you were into conventional sports and stuff. I think guys who like the sports/finance or truly "traditional" stuff (think - hunting, fishing, etc.) are probably more interested in women who are conventionally feminine, vs. nerds or people into weirder shit. But that's just totally anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:34 AM
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Not really. I actively dislike homeless people because they are a problematic and possibly dangerous eyesore in the places where I work and recreate. Whereas incels or men with low dating success I wouldn't even notice in my daily life? Unless, what you're really asking is "Do you sympathize with incels and other unsuccessful men as little as you sympathize with homeless drug addicts?" Off the bat I can say I don't judge them as harshly. People who are actively destructive to the social framewor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:30 AM
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I'm curious - what are your hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:12 AM
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Yea I mean there are a million reasons someone can get addicted. Their mom could be a crackhead who feeds them drugs, they could be some bored rich college girl, they could be an average person who lost their job and spiraled - who knows. People can't necessarily control all the variables they were born into, but I do ultimately believe that people can control whether or not they're willing to seek treatment programs (which are widely available for homeless where I live). If you absolve people o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:49 AM
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Hmmmm well I'm feeling a bit conflicted on this if I'm being honest, especially with the way you have it worded. One the one hand, I've never known a man in male-oriented geek hobbies who didn't want to date a girl who absolutely loved the same obscure male-oriented shit as him. But on the other hand, I don't exactly think that women are always treated really well in nerd culture either, especially by men who want to date them but can't, or by men who are socially inept and hate women (or just p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:42 AM
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Are you really making the argument that men prefer women who share no interests with them? I have not ever seen that play out in reality no matter how many mental gymnastics you put yourself through, but perhaps your experiences are different from my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:52 AM
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I didn't mean they want to be friends. I mean they try and date those women over women who do not share their affect, interests, and jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:37 AM
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Haha I'm not convinced Henry Cavill is actually interested in the shit he says he's interested in. I suspect it could just as easily be a LARP to make fans like him more. I also wouldn't classify hot people who very occasionally indulge in some nerdy behavior as being 'nerds.' I think of nerds as the people who do boardgame night every week with friends, DND every week, videogames most nights, etc...cohorts where the nerd shit is the lifestyle. In that case I still think there are hot nerds, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:54 AM
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Guys all go in for women who bro down and have male interests. So yea, I guess women don't have to hide their personality in the sense that more men are hard up for dates and are therefore more willing to fall into women's frame, but it doesn't mean that the average guy is deeply enamored with the average woman's interests and personality either - they'd rather date one of their buddies, except reincarnated as a hot girl with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:45 AM
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Yea I've lived here my whole life, and I'd say this issue wasn't even on the radar until around 2008-2010 and it's just been ramping up since then, a lot in the last 5 years, and even more during COVID.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:35 AM
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Yea that was clearly a mistake. If it were up to me we'd use federal money to pay somewhere like Kansas to just take them all in to live on a drug-free farm in the middle of absolute nowhere. Wouldn't work for the severely mentally ill though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:33 AM
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Idkkkk is that actually true though?? I don't hang out with DNDers but I feel like niche nerds are limited to a smaller subset of (mostly) less-hot women, even if they are a chad-lite or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:13 AM
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Yea I saw that news about Austin in r.drama and laughed. They don't want to be the new SF I guess. I tell people from outside the area that this stuff has absolutely happened to me while living/working around SF and people act like it's a joke or I am making it up when you could literally ask almost anyone who lives in SF what it's like over there and you will hear all the same stories. The hotels that were used during COVID have been utterly trashed and it's an ultra-expensive way for taxpayers…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:39 AM
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I replied to the other commenter and said I don't really care about weed and shrooms - I'm just using the soon to be legalization of shrooms as a general litmus test for public sentiment towards drug use in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:31 AM
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LOL this is reddit after all, home of some of the ugliest cosplay and low effort attention posts I have ever laid eyes upon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:30 AM
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Idk, a hot male finance bro or beach volleyball player is going to slay way more than a hot male DND dungeon master, and with hotter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:21 AM
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I don't really disagree with you, and I don't have a strong personal issue with either of those. I just think we're broadly more pro-drugs and trending away from personal responsibility. Edit to add - I don't even have a problem with people who take a pro-drugs/pro-free-choices attitude (even for extreme drugs) - my problem is when the same people want to baby addicts for the consequences of their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:15 AM
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Well in our case, China is using Mexico to ship Fentanyl and other drugs across the border and instead of "going after them" we are sucking their dick and have been for the last 20 years. At any rate, there isn't a national appetite in the US to solve drug addiction. If anything, we are moving in the opposite direction where "anything goes" and it's that person's choice if they want to enjoy some nice drugs in their free time! And if their life is derailed and they want your money later? How dar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:31 PM
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I'm happy to pay for people to go live at a rehab center or asylum; it would probably be cheaper than all the random services this area currently employs to handle the problem. I'm just not okay with having 0 standards and letting people camp anywhere they please or behave any way they please. At some point, for me at least, enough is enough. And for the record, I don't think that life is justice at all, and I don't ever expect any justice out of the homelessness situation for anyone involved. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:21 PM
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I am not. Homelessness is a huge, ugly blot on areas that abet it as they attract the homeless from all the surrounding states, and create a haven for drug addicts and property crime. All of the stuff I listed in my comments happened over the last 1-4 years as I (pre-COVID) spent a lot of time walking around the streets in SF, and (still) bike in an area where there is also a large homeless presence. In fact, the reason they don't enforce on poacher mtb in Santa Cruz is because when they enforce…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:18 PM
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Do you even live in an area where homelessness is a problem? Have you ever interacted with any of the homeless people? I've had so many interactions at this point thanks to where I bike and where I used to commute to that it goes beyond the scope of a comment: -A homeless man accosting me as I was leaving a parking garage to attend an event pre-COVID. He was waving a needle and repeating fucking bitch, fucking bitch about 1 foot from my face. I am a 120lb woman -A homeless man accosting myself a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:23 PM
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Yea I find the man who is willing to settle down for severe lack of options much more common than the man who is wanting to settle down because his personal moral character aligns with monogamy and starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:35 PM
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Yea I know I was mostly kidding lol. The caricature isn't even all wrong either for some people. Hookup culture only pisses me off to the extent that if some smaller percentage of women participate, men assume that all women participate, and treat all women as if they are interested in in participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:31 PM
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From a comment I wrote below: meh, I've been with the same dude most of my adult life. I've always been keen to select for high-inhib men, so I most certainly do notice them. I'm just not sure that they're the dominant phenotype. @ any rate, it isn't actually Chad's fault or Stacy's. It's the fault of invisible people for being shite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:50 AM
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meh, I've been with the same dude most of my adult life. I've always been keen to select for high-inhib men, so I most certainly do notice them. I'm just not sure that they're the dominant phenotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:20 AM
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What they mean is that they see so many different women appearing skanky when they're swiping on Tinder and jacking it to porn that they assume every single woman in the Western world must be spending her weekend being a cum dumpster for every guy except for them until she turns 30 and turns her laser vision on their wallet. I'd have more sympathy for the POV overall if I saw lots of men in their 20s looking to start a family, but mysteriously I do not. PS - I don't even like promiscuous behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:32 AM
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Yea that's valid. A lot of people on here have no introspection at all in terms of what makes them an attractive person. It's easy to navel gaze and say that some other guy or girl will always be hotter, so you might as well not even try. It's harder to think wow, actually, most people are boring or lazy, and if I bring the party/adventure to them, they're going to love me to fucking death. People just want to escape their repetitive lives of Netflix 9-5 bullshit and if you can pull them out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:25 AM
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Yea if you're in a flat area I get it. I used to watch road biking a lot too and volunteer at the Tour of California, but I feel like I have never been able to get into it as much since they banned literally everyone for doping back around Armstrong's time. I think people sometimes forget that sports are for entertainment and it's not entertaining to ban the whole field.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:17 AM
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C r i n ge
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:16 AM
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I actually came into MTB from road biking/running in college many years ago. Depending on where you live, I'd recommend switching; it's a lot more fun and can be just as good of a workout if you make it so. I also don't miss people driving within 2-3 inches of me at like 50 MPH on the uphills from back when I was road biking a lot. That being said, I think a decent road bike these days is what like 1400 for carbon if you hit a sale or go used? It's tough to say what's going on with MTB because C…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:40 AM
2

We printed more money in 2020 than in the 50 years prior
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:24 AM
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We printed more money in 2020 than in the 50 years prior, but it won't impact anything if ppl only spend on what they need ... right? ...... right? LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:24 AM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:23 AM
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This isn't my list, but this is a funny list and I approve/see the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:05 PM
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I wouldn't really sweat the number I put in my post. I was really just referencing my own geo (SF Bay Area), and realistically, it has always been more important to me that a guy has a work ethic and isn't some shady fuck that is going to leave me to carry the household vs. some kind of raw number. Although even that is negotiable LOL, I'd probably hypothetically carry a young guy if the dynamic were right and they were cute and did sports with me. Re-your looks: Is it really a curse that people…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:25 PM
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Nah it happens. Salary is always relative to geo. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area so everything here is expensive as fuck and super weird. Ultimately, when it comes to considering a person for dating, my goal has always been to filter out low effort idiots re: jobs. There are a lot of super commies in this area, and for every techie who works hard to improve their lot in life, there is some other asshole who is just itching at the opportunity to work on their "startup" on your dime. Not to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:03 PM
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Why even post on reddit if it's not to dunk on people or argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:50 PM
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thx bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:59 PM
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Just copying my comment from another reply: Yea but I live in a high CoL area. If I moved to somewhere else (which I plan to in the next few years because I bought a house elsewhere), I'd re-adjust my expectations. And anyways, I said in my comment that I'd make exceptions. But really, I really get along well with all the woman-hating engineers around here and you can throw a rock and hit an engineer making 300K, so it's not really as crazy as you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:54 PM
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Yea but I live in a high CoL area. If I moved to somewhere else (which I plan to in the next few years because I bought a house elsewhere), I'd re-adjust my expectations. And anyways, I said in my comment that I'd make exceptions. But really, I really get along well with all the woman-hating engineers around here and you can throw a rock and hit an engineer making 300K, so it's not really as crazy as you'd think. edit to add - I am engaged to one of these guys so this whole thing is really just …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:54 PM
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I mean, I'm just responding to the OP's direct question of: "Would you give someone a chance if they didn't meet your standards." I'm just using his phrasing, not my own, and I'm saying I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:52 PM
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Low N is appealing to me, although I didn't include it in my post. I prefer high inhib people in general for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:29 AM
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Education - Not important at all, if anything, PhDs lose points Income - Preferably in the ballpark of my own (>200K) unless the guy is younger and hot. Could make exceptions here for someone who manages their own shit but is in a lower paying industry Looks - Not as important if I like their personality, but the better looking someone is, the more I'll let other things slide Charisma - Not important. Only really matters how they interact with me 1:1 Age - Doesn't matter if they are older or you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:27 AM
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So she does feel that way, you just hide it and avoid the topic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:05 PM
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Women-hating and communists, name a more iconic duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:23 AM
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Well given I can't measure that, clearly not. Just like you can't measure the value of perceived emotional attachment in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:50 PM
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I might change my stance if someone said they were permanently relocating to Thailand so they didn't have the cost of flying to and from/hotels/etc. But then the funny part is that once again in Thailand it would probably be cheaper to just have a Thai GF than pay hookers lmao. That being said, I'm not well versed in what Thai hookers cost so i d k
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:41 PM
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Yea but then you have to pay to go to Thailand lol. It ties into the economics. I'm just saying that for poor people the unit economics don't really work unless everyone here is just dumping money into GFs which I really don't see IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:22 PM
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The unit economics on prostitution don't play and never will. People who think it's somehow a great strategy are smoking something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:32 PM
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Haha well, I'm almost certainly older than you based on your post history and all I do is dick around and go mountain biking with people (largely men) after work. Trust me, I don't hate man whores - in fact, they make hilarious friends with great stories - but I would never expect any of them to be unselfish, supercaring partners in their respective relationships. Something about a person's POV just changes permanently when they start treating sex like a commodity, or dating around all the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:48 PM
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it's not really debatable. it's like a woman who fucked a hundred people trying to say she's not a slut. "I'm different though" - cringe. the behavior is the indicator; you're trying to say the sky is green when everyone knows it's blue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:49 PM
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it's not really debatable. it's like a woman who fucked a hundred people trying to say she's not a slut. "I'm different though" - cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:49 PM
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who says pray tell LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:10 AM
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you can still do long term relationships. doesn't mean your ability to pair bond isn't ruined
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:01 AM
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If all you want is a quality woman, and you are ostensibly wealthy, then you could easily obtain one, especially if you lie about your N count. Since you haven't done so, the only assumption anyone can make is that you either a) don't actually want to settle down with a specific quality woman (probably very likely, as man-whores never really change) or b) aren't actually wealthy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:57 PM
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I've never met a reformed man-whore. Lots of these kinds of men men say they are looking for the one, and are either intentionally lying or are lying to themselves (or, their standards for "the one" don't exist in reality). Casual sex ruins both the male and female ability to pair-bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:53 PM
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Socialists should stay in socialist countries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:47 PM
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word
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:16 PM
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What I meant was not literal house slaves, it was that historically everything was smaller-scale. I live in a very large sprawl where there are way too many people and everything is interchangeable. People who choose to live here and have terrible jobs have no incentive to put effort into their work - they are a dime a dozen and turnover is massive. You pay a service or a head cleaner and they trickle down none of the cash. And anyways, like I've said to many other commenters: cleaning services …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:10 PM
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Yea I'm in the same boat, where the looks factor mattered enough to me to offset the rest. I needed someone to mtb with me and not be a boring fat fuck. Good luck with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:07 PM
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You can pay 300-500 dollars and it's still dicey. At any rate, as I told another commenter, cleaning services really just deep clean. They don't pick up clothes, wash your dishes, take clothes to the dry-cleaning, etc. The day to day tasks. Yea, I suppose you could literally pay someone to do all that as well, but that's not really realistic at our incomes. It's ridiculous to me that women post on here and are like "hey it's actually kind of annoying that I'm the only one doing day to day chores…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:05 PM
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Not really, I think I'm personally well-suited to managing things and logistics in general, and I have to imagine that the services of a 'house manager' would probably be very expensive (which I'm not complaining about, just pointing out). My biggest pause is around children. I'll need to have kids in the next few years if I'm going to do it (I don't want to be a mega-old parent) and I'm not sure I'm interesting in taking that on in addition to what I already do. I could probably quit my job, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:47 AM
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Well most people here work through a service which sends randoms, or some kind of single-person set-up where they bring along a group of people who don't speak english and may or may not even be US residents. There's a pretty wide gap between that and slaves. Anyways, my issue is just that the quality of the work is not very high, and the people are sus and probably hate you, like I said above. You don't go to jack in the box expecting quality employees, and quite frankly, same goes for domestic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:44 AM
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Ya, marriage is for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:31 AM
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Well, honestly, who wants random poor people fucking with your shit? It's not like the old days where it's people you'd know and trust; it's just literally random annoying people no one wants around who probably also hate you. To provide context, I grow orchids as a hobby. I have about 70 of them and most are grafted or are on shelving growing down, not up. I've spent a large amount of time creating the arrangement, but unfortunately they are easy to break/disturb. In the past I've had cleaning …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:55 AM
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Hey I just want you to know that I read your posts and sympathize with you a lot. I'm also a woman now making in between 200 and 300K with low overhead, and my fiance doesn't really help me much at all with anything outside of work (I'm in finance and he's an engineer). Unlike your situation, he makes a roughly equivalent income, and at the moment works a similar amount, so at least there isn't that resentment. That being said, it doesn't change the "unfairness" in labor spent outside of work. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:07 AM
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Aight agree to disagree. Typical delusional mentality on both looks and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:43 PM
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Maybe you and I can agree if we reframe what you are saying as "men have a much higher sex drive, therefore women have the inherent value of being fucked." I think looks and income are the wrong tangent here. So, if we go back to your original premise, that it's not 'equal' - I think the inequality is just around sex drives, and sex drives being used as leverage for negotiation, not really around any of this other stuff. The rest of your comment idk if I really agree on. The higher you aim, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:07 AM
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WHAT. It's more "noble" to love someone for their looks? How can you even get off making that argument? Even worse, you think it's noble because you think looks are immutable (which I don't think is true at all). But that makes it even worse, because it's ostensibly content a person can never change. It's like some kind of eugenics take on dating, which, admittedly, is a little hot. I can get behind that, but it's not "morally" justifiable the way you're making it seem. But here's the thing: I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:44 PM
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But liking the looks and not the person is romantic? haha what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:16 AM
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PREACH BROTHA LMAOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:13 AM
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TRP acknowledges beta game, and women have been shown to have better sexual response when fucking someone they believe is rich. Go list that you're a doctor on Tinder and you'd see greater success for the same photos than a tradesman. Although these days, tradesman are doing pretty fucking well so I'm not even sure they're a good example in your scenario. I'm not saying that lots of engineers aren't autistic as fuck. I know enough of them to not deny that claim one bit. All I'm saying is that al…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:48 PM
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Lots of women find engineers attractive, not just nerds; it's an obvious indicator of income. The guy I'm with is an engineer and he used to fucking slay it on Tinder outside the bay area. Engineers only fail with women if they are way worse than the average man in other areas (like they are super ugly, weird, or have social problems), which admittedly, some of them probably do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:37 PM
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LOL what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:35 PM
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You're trying to apply male sexuality to women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:34 PM
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ding ding ding It's cringe how much people on here try to hold looks-based attraction on some kind of pedestal as if it's somehow less shallow lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:32 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:38 PM
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Is this a copypasta?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:08 AM
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You make too many assumptions in your posts. People stop dating for a myriad of reasons or become entitled for a myriad of reasons. There is no one-size-fits-all. And sorry, but no matter what the reason, a person who prices themselves outside of the market is selfish, not honorable, or brave, or deep. It doesn't mean they're not allowed to be selfish, people are allowed to do literally whatever they want. But MGTOW and FDS are not paragons of virtue. Also idk what you're talking about jobs for,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:35 PM
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Bro wtf is this comment. This makes sooo many assumptions about why people would "swear off women." I have a totally different interpretation from you: MGTOW and FDSers are both lazy sub-groups who are mad they can't get the most for the least. And anyways, even if every guy who went MGTOW was deeply hurt by women, it doesn't mean that their pain is even necessarily valid. I could be so horrifically offended by something a guy did that wasn't really a big deal, and swear off all men forever, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:03 AM
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I mean, this post is a lot of words but none of it is very deep. Saying that women are Maya from Hindu, or women are the plantation is not deep just because they're using metaphors. Even the quote you can love women or understand them just smacks of bitterness. I've never once in my life thought that men would love me unconditionally, or in a non-transactional way. It's obvious from childhood that your looks are very important as a woman, and I'm not raging out at men about it or "going my own w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:49 AM
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Well I don't necessarily mean choosing that person over other people, I mean choosing to keep the relationship going through work. I'm not tempted to sleep with other people / I've never really been interested in casual sex. But I mean if I chose to break up with someone, I wouldn't be sad for months. So maybe we are different. Since I'm a woman though, no one has really broken up with me, and I don't have a good basis of reference for being on the other side of that equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:43 PM
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The choice to make immoral decisions is creepy? That's a new one I haven't heard yet. And anyways, most people make immoral decisions to some extent or another, they just aren't self-aware enough to recognize those decisions as such. For example, take all the whiny communists on reddit who just want live on the dole, in a world where everyone is 'nice' to each other. Did those people ever take into account that it's immoral to redistribute the fruits of another person's labor? I make over 200K a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:30 PM
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I've always assumed an adult man of any size would kick my ass. My first course of action in a confrontation with a man would be to try and run away. That being said, I weigh like 120lbs so nearly any guy has more lbs than me unless they are a literal midget.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:08 PM
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Yea I suppose that's different. I don't think it's that crazy though to know people who I feel I could succeed in an actual relationship with. It's not like it necessarily means I'll ever attempt to get into one with them, just like you wouldn't fuck your friends (or maybe you would, idk, lol). I'm very much of the mindset that love is being friends with your partner, doing things together, having the same outlook/goals, and choosing to work through issues/stay together. But the key is that it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 07:50 PM
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You've never had a friend you'd be dtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:54 PM
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Ya maybe. Depends on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:32 PM
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Men do the same thing with FWBs and such and people cheer them on. I'm not sure why people are salty when women want in. /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:51 AM
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Haha they all know each other. It's not a matter of seeing other dudes, I've never cheated or plan to. In fact, I've barely slept with anyone, promiscuity is disgusting to me. Leading people on however, I don't really care about. And neither does anyone I've ever been with for that matter, guys always think it's funny when you have simps running around after you. Why wouldn't they? I'd laugh if some girl was baking my fiance a cake or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:56 PM
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Being engaged isn't a clear enough sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:36 PM
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Really depends on how you define genuine people. I think there's nothing better in the world than someone seeing the ugly aspects of your personality and loving you anyways. I'm not a hypocrite in that I've never cared if someone I'm with is also a "bad person," only that they are my bad person. I find it almost embarrassing and trite, Reddit's attitude that "goodness" and "genuine connection" are somehow deeply intertwined. Give me the scammer, the asshole, the stuck-up sexist engineer. Other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:31 PM
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I actually do agree with those sentiments though, unironically. I think you shouldn't be allowed to get on depression meds unless you've at least tried exercising an hour a day for a month. And while a homeless person can't obviously "just buy a house" (lol @ lumber futures going limit up today), a huge percentage of them where I live (SF Bay Area) are drug addicts who have made their own fucking bed. What, it's now everyone else's job to clean up their life? I liked a guy back in my early 20s, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:21 PM
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People who have more offers are also more likely to have better offers. The reasonable assumption would be that people who have fewer offers are less likely to find true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:15 PM
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It's kind of like we all did the same hobby together for a long time, which is very niche, particularly for women, but I started dating the guy who was attractive and who also liked mountain biking/athletic stuff which is what I kind of shifted my focus towards in my late 20s. So everyone knows each other and kind of knows the deal. I got a free high-end PC off a guy a year and a half ago despite having been dating my fiance for about 5 years at at that point. It's not like people are desperate …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:12 PM
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Imagine patronizing other people to that extent. Pretty sure adults are the arbiters of their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:46 AM
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Thanks for your blessing :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:12 AM
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I'm engaged haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:03 AM
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I've done it (kind of still doing it) willingly. Why not do it if you can? I gotten tons of free shit, it's like having friends ++ It's not my job to manage the feelings others may or may not be harboring. It's their job lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:50 AM
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I have been, and I don't regret it one bit. Only idiots don't play the game. PS - Men do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:47 AM
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Haha, I'm engaged to a Ukrainian man, who lived in Ukraine a lot of his life (well he is Russian/Ukrainian), and he is uppity as shit. Every fucking thing is a debate (or something to be suspicious of) and he is absolutely useless domestically. He can be really dramatic and a complainer, and is really not similar at all to most of the American men I have known throughout my life. But you know, I dated him acknowledging that there were massive cultural differences. And ultimately, for me, the ups…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:51 PM
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If I were single again I'd absolutely pursue younger guys. I'm happy to splash out for ignorant cuties. I think you will see more and more of this in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:28 AM
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Well good for u bro, glad I'm not dealing with that in a multi-year LTR. Sex every day is for a year in when you're 23
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:15 AM
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You in an LTR right now of >1 year?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:30 AM
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The only people I know who emphasize sex to the same degree as some people on here are people who don't get any (or don't get any nearly often enough). The fantasy eclipses the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:10 AM
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I'm convinced that this sub is like 75% early 20s people and a few bitchy old farts. Your comment is exactly how I feel (I just turned 30). I think only someone who hasn't already had sex hundreds or thousands of times in an LTR would describe it as: > Sure sex takes all of that, but with a huge reward and undoubtedly the best physical feeling you can have in the world > 100x a stronger connection than laying on top of your partner > Personally, I'm not the biggest fan of cuddling, sometimes I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:09 AM
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This is the only way I have ever built any relationship. It actually still surprises me to this day that there are so many people who just go ahead and fuck some random person they've known for 5 minutes. You can have a spark with someone and still take it easy, in fact, the anticipation for me personally is really important. And ftr slowly is probably a vague concept to people. You might want to actually give some kind of a timeframe in your post. For me it has always been 3+ months of getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:12 AM
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I approve of this message. Right on man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:05 PM
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I guess I'm not sure what your point is? That he's not negative because he put in some work and was met with moderate success despite not being uber-chad? Are you saying he's much hotter than a 6-7 out of 10? I don't really like rating people out of 10, so I'm not going to rate this dude, but I'd say he's cute like a guy next door. And, in most metro areas I think a lot of men would be able to attain this appearance-level unless they look like their face got hit with an anvil.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:56 PM
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You know, good for you. This is a nice profile, and your pictures are cute. It's refreshing to see someone not so negative on here. Also, your outfits are solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:33 PM
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There isn't an answer to your question - it's like any other negotiation. If all the female 5s would rather be single than date male 5s then that is the market speaking. There is no "correct" measurement as you are suggesting - whatever happens in reality is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:06 PM
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The title of the post says that men respect women more who put out, ergo the opposite is also true - men, comparatively, respect women less who do not put out. You aren't saying that you have 0 respect for women who don't put out (which is the "strawman" you are pretending to deny in this comment thread), but trying to argue your way out of what you literally posted as the title by deliberately misinterpreting what she's saying is cringe. Why not just own it? Say "I love sluts, prudes can fuck o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:24 AM
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None of it makes me feel bad in particular. I don't really like sluts of any variety - male or female, so watching people get fucked over is irrelevant. I just think it's rich you believe you are somehow better than what I posted above, and that you actually "like" sluts. Liking people =/= gladly willing to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:09 AM
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"I love ugly men with fat wallets. I love going on dates with them and using their money to buy awesome clothes and nice food and then never putting out!!! I don't hate them, and I'd never trash talk anyone (to their face :*)). I'm not shaming them, I just don't want to actually fuck them. In fact, I fantasize all the time about what things they could buy me next." -You
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:18 PM
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I guess? I don't see a lot of women visiting sperm banks though, so while the option may exist, it's not really capitalized on in society. I mean, the real numbers that would matter to me are how many single men and women exist without children, and I don't think the existence of sperm banks would offset that by more than <1%. Maybe if you said that single moms were taking deductions intended for families and the guy paying CP couldn't claim their kids as dependents that might be a better argume…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:34 AM
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Arguably, for every man who does not have a family there would also be a woman who does not have a family? Wouldn't both single gender cohorts be taxed? I can't understand how there could be tons of single men, and not tons of single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:27 AM
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I've never dated any guys who had like almost any hair under there at all, and I also don't think men smell as bad as women baseline (that is purely anecdotal). I have to imagine its kinda fucking gross if some dude had a bush though and didn't do anything about it. Of all the things to complain about though, this feels like the biggest non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:31 PM
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The past? haha. I'm late 20s baby, pretty much old AF
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:21 PM
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I actually laughed out loud at this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:17 AM
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I think it's a lot of dudes in denial about having to ever put any effort into looks at all lol. Gen Z and eboys are the future, like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:40 PM
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My half sister (age 16) obsessively simps over this exact eboy aesthetic...like, get w/the times people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:29 PM
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I agree with this 110%. Also I love those glow up tiktok vids. 10/10 will watch them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:23 PM
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It literally is a strawman. Maybe your conclusion bears out for boomers, but it does not, and increasingly will not for the younger generations. More women graduate from college than men, by a not-insignificant margin. And you're right, they don't want a kitchen bitch, but it doesn't mean the man will out-earn her, or significantly out-earn her. These days, in young couples, both people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:35 PM
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Dude fr someone was just jerking themselves off making these dumb charts. Def entertaining though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:26 AM
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You think female college basketball players don't lift? I was an XC athlete and I still did strength training. In bball it's much more mandatory....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:46 PM
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I'm a female athlete and that is just not true... they have even done studies on it: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7253873/#:~:text=Relative%20strength%20was%20expressed%20per,%2C%20biacromium%2C%20and%20biiliac%20widths.&text=Results%20indicate%20that%20untrained%20men,both%20absolute%20and%20relative%20strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:24 PM
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Um it's not just SWAT teams that enter premises where illegal activity may be taking place? I don't know where you'd get that idea at all? My mom's ex was a cop for almost 40 years, never on any kind of SWAT team, and was often called in to investigate drug and prostitution-related activity in various shitty motels and houses. It was typically safe-enough, but not always. I'm a very athletic woman - 5 8 and I do some strength training since I race mtb. I would not feel comfortable having to "use…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:21 PM
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Strawman, most women and men earn similar amounts these days. And tbh that is the rub. If it really were some homely fat guy supporting a woman, and she didn't really do much other than some light chores around the house I'd say yea, sure - probs fuck him. But realistically, it's two people both working full time, the woman maybe even doing more at home, and everyone is tired and stressed. So that's not really the same situation: the guy isn't providing some amazing added value, and sex should t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:09 PM
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Lol closed this when I saw Timothee Chalamet rated as a 6.5. This is subjective AF trying to masquerade as objectivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:11 PM
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Well by your logic the promise is void then if the dude looks like a lump and everyone is over it. At any rate, I actually do have sympathy for men in DB situations, but I also think people tend to underrate how much of an impact staying attractive has on things and don't want to put in any work whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:38 PM
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What did they promise those men? By that logic, you could say that the men promised to stay hot, put in effort, and keep them turned on. I don't see why the onus is on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:47 PM
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Well men who deal with these problems, by your own logic, should probably try being hotter then? > Let's put a woman with "vaginismus" next to a hot guy, and we'll see just how much of a problem this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:58 PM
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LOL this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:15 PM
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That's not really what happened in Japan lol. Women were really miserable over there too for a wide variety of reasons, and maybe it's for the better that these days people are just going their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:50 PM
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I think some people here have never stepped outside. You can totally not pay on first dates as a man, and hot women will just pick someone else... It's got nothing to do with FDS. Telling people not to pay if they're genuinely interested in a woman is like telling a woman to not spend any coin on hair, makeup, or dressing well and expecting that to play (I mean, it probably will, but only with uglier/worse guys - the same way men can only really land uglier/worse girls with this "strategy")
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:45 PM
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I dunno, I don't really think women are exactly a monolith. I don't really have a lot in common with most women I meet, for example (I am a woman). I raided in a high end WoW guild for 7 years, and these days I mostly mountain bike, so I don't meet a lot of women doing that, and by and large I spend my time with men on account of my hobbies (with a few exceptions). I'm also a conservative living in the SF Bay Area, so clearly that puts me in the minority of all people, but probably the severe mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:47 PM
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Yep, this post pretty much covers it. /Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:46 PM
2

For men, high quality = hot, first and foremost
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:25 AM
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Studies have shown that hot women have less casual sex. They're a direct counter to what you are saying here. People have linked them hundreds of times on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:34 AM
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This is why women should stay off OLD. If I were single again I'd never use it. The men on these platforms are jaded as shit in both their beliefs as well as their expectations. At least if I met a guy in, say, a road biking group, I could have tons of time to get to know him, meet up with him in group contexts, etc. before I'd be expected to get sexual. OLD is just fucked for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:32 AM
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There is no logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:29 AM
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You're probably one of the only valid data points in the thread lmao, everyone here just talking out their ass. I thought it was actually an interesting OP too. And ftr you shouldn't worry so much about what people think of you. Rejection is the path to freedom from caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:54 AM
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If you're the most neurotic, are you still able to pull girls in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:04 AM
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Haha I love this and entirely agree with your observation. I've seen this frequently in my life, especially amongst STEM types. In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:03 AM
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Pressing F for your colleague lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:15 PM
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I don't know that it's a matter of men being told the wrong things. I mean, it's appealing for people (men or women) to have a good career. I just think there's a broader disconnect that transcends all of this other stuff. I have a buddy I bike with who has an extremely good career (albeit, keep in mind that I live in the Bay Area, so maybe divide salary by two). He makes like 350K a year in a non-tech field, outside of work he drinks, bikes (dirt and mtb), and surfs. He is a really personable g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:22 AM
3

Imagine viewing everything through such a black and white lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:32 PM
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You can love someone and still be selfish. In fact, one of the most selfish choices I've ever made in my life was wrt someone I loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:53 PM
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RPW is men larping as women. Traditional women date traditional men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:17 AM
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Technically, nothing has to be anyone's fight. I just think it's entertaining to argue on Reddit. I'm pretty sure the only people who come to PPD are just here because they like to argue. Anyways, I mostly don't really disagree with your assertions here. You're just kind of missing the point, which is that no matter if you have a solid relationship, or you vet, or you do your best to do xyz, sex is just not typically an equal proposition in LTRs. Whether that inequality is 90% or 5%, it's still …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:56 AM
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Well, for context, I literally raided in a US first world of warcraft guild for years, and my primary hobby today is mountain biking. I think I've spent a lot of time in my life knowing men, hanging out with men, hearing what men want, and even thinking about what men want. And like I said in a prior post, some of men's complaints are valid - women don't really enjoy the same hobbies typically, or the same activities. They are not as feminine, or nice, or charming, perhaps, as prior generations.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:07 AM
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Mad Max USA would be dope AF but I'm pretty sure we'll look more like a Chinese client-state. Canada, but poorer and dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:13 AM
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I remember sometime in my mid-twenties I had a dream that a hot guy went down on me and I was just really in the moment: I didn't care about how I looked, or what he thought, or anything really. I just fully relaxed and got into it. And...that was the extent of the dream. And it was kind of a weird thing, where in that moment I realized just how much of my own enjoyment throughout my life had been compromised by what others felt obligated to receive from me, or by my own self-criticism during se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:06 AM
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I see this complaint a lot from my male friends, and I hear what they are saying to some extent. I really do see a widening gap between male and female interests and desires, and wonder sometimes, if men and women really just aren't all that good together. That being said, you have to think about things from the female perspective at least a little bit. Let's use sex and aesthetics as examples. When I was younger, it was drilled into me to get fit, shave my legs, do my hair, etc, and try to look…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:37 PM
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Tbf, I watch and enjoy anime. In fact, I have watched a LOT of anime. Of course it's not fair to say that anime has no artistic value - but its value is not on the same level as reading classic literature, or really, anything that is more targeted at adults and doesn't hand-hold. Even "sophisticated" anime (I'm thinking of something like Legend of the Galactic Heroes) that addresses adult themes, tends to fall short.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:31 PM
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I watch anime and enjoy it, and this is still peak cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:28 PM
1

30 years is generous lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 10:24 PM
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No one is perfectly happy, period, though. Suffering is the universal human condition. And people always want what they can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:10 PM
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He's not saying you should be content not receiving validation from women or relationships; he's saying that unless you reframe your outlook to take comfort or pride outside of these measuring sticks, you're going to stay miserable. To phrase it differently, he's not saying don't complain that you're poor, but instead, maybe if you're poor you should build a cabin in the woods instead of shooting up heroin in the gutter. It doesn't matter if you've met people who are happy being forever-alone or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:51 AM
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Stop having anxiety over things that haven't happened yet. This also applies to life, not just dating. In any case, everyone in this thread knows you're not going to quit dating, so this post is just a LARP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 10:08 PM
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If I had violated the rules, they would have removed my post. The point of this subreddit's rules isn't to declaw every single conversation people have, it's to stop aggressive and targeted harassment. Sorry I hurt your feelings though by describing your outlook as less than savory in the eyes of women. Really, I'm only helping you with that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 10:02 PM
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LOL feel free, I wasn't being rude, just being honest. You're missing the point and it's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:18 PM
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Money is the better analogy, you are not good at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 05:08 PM
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"Love devoid of sex being worth next to nothing" means you don't really give a shit about meaningful relationships outside of those in a sexual context. That's what I meant. Not that your wife wouldn't/shouldn't fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 05:08 PM
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Yes exactly, that is the purpose of money as a symbol of value. If you cannot get a valuable education that can make the lender whole, you should not be taking out the loan. It's the same as any other loan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:48 AM
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The fix is to eliminate federal student loan guarantees. Leave private lending to determine which degrees and students are worth supporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:53 AM
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Yep, it's just as cheap and shallow as a woman saying something like "love devoid of money is worth next to nothing to us." I wish people like this would have to read their reddit posts out loud to their grandparents. 2021 baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:38 AM
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It's that love devoid of sex is worth next to nothing to us. Dang that is really telling on yourself. Most women would see something like that and be viscerally disgusted. It's amazing what men proudly post online for modern women to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:18 PM
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I'm not a feminist, nor have I ever pretended to be one, and whether or not you talk shit about men isn't relevant. I'm just saying, you don't like women and you don't hide it. No point in denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:22 PM
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I'm not defending TRP or pussy-grabbers. I'm just saying, take a look in the mirror. You can skim through your last one hundred posts and see shitloads of misogyny - no conservative politics necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:04 AM
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You hate women more than most of the conservative men I know IRL. Women-hating isn't limited to a political ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:34 AM
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LOL ya the whole point of PPD is having ridiculous arguments. What else is there to do @ work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:28 AM
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Let's assume you're right on who gets trafficked more. Who do you think is fucking those little boys lol? Straight women? If you think that, I got a bridge to sell you. You contradicted your own claim on female teachers, so it's not even worth debating. But even so, imagine using a small subset of pedophiles as the model for an entire gender's sexuality. Re: the Mosuo - I literally don't even know what that is, and nor does anyone else. On PPD we are debating about gender norms in first world co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:25 AM
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Lol I'm dating a russian dude who lived in russia most of his life. This kind of reddit-style communication convo has never really existed in this relationship (or in any of my relationships, frankly). I have told him he's being a lazy, lousy fuck before and he just laughs. I'm not really mad about my own life though, just trying to explain to people that sometimes not everything in relationships has to be exactly quid pro quo, and it's weird to see men arguing that women enjoy boring sex just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:20 AM
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Look your logic is dumb. No one uses the term important to mean what you just described. Sex is literally VERY important in that we can never have children without having sex, it is just not a priority for women the same that it is for men. You are arguing semantics. I don't care about your weird anecdotal stories. I return to the fact that there are millions of prostitutes that service straight men, and very few who service straight women. Please feel free to address that. Also, it's too bad yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:50 AM
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Well, I've been in 3 major LTRs during my life and have never had any hookups, or even short-term dated, so I can't really compare sex inside and outside of LTRs. My partners by and large have not satisfied me during sex though. First off, it's hard for another person to get me off, it just is - I'm old enough now to know that's probably not going to easily change. And I'm not particularly into guys going down on me - mostly they hate it - either secretly or not so secretly - and this is a huge …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:39 AM
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Women can enjoy sex, but not as much as men. Particularly in LTRs. 6 year LTR here, don't enjoy sex close to as much as my partner. In many circumstances it's something I do for him, not for me. If women and men enjoyed sex equally, there would be tons of male prostitutes targeting straight women. But there are not. Mystery solved. I find that men like you just resent that you have to excel more in other areas because women don't value sex nearly as much. And btw, less valuable does mean less im…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:27 AM
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Yea I could see that being an issue where you are, or maybe even generally. I have always thought guys have it worse trying to get into quality relationships, but women have it worse once in them. At the end of the day, women are also just more capable of piling on weight than men. They have a lower basal metabolism and most of them are smaller. So, in a sense it's not fair for men that women are fat, but it's also not fair for women that they are more calorically restricted. I'm sure in places …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:00 PM
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Yep, even if the sub had loser people posting on it, and frankly, no one can really know since it's reddit, the advice still seems okay to me. TBH I find it refreshing that women have made a community that is actually for women for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:30 PM
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Is it? Whenever I read posts about male looks the two consistent, immutable things that men complain about are jaw and height. Height is admittedly really hard to fix, but jaw is fixable. And I'm not sure boob jobs are all that common among the younger crowd these days especially now that asses are "in." I typically see people getting them if they truly have small As and/or you see cougars go in for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:07 PM
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Hmm yea that is probably your issue. You are in an entirely different demo. If you lived on the coast somewhere you'd meet way more women who fit your profile - older and younger. I live near Santa Cruz so it's just a whole different scene. But you know, the downside is you have to live with the fucking idiots in Santa Cruz and the Bay Area. You can never really win.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:05 PM
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Lol that picture doesn't link to anywhere, but googling Kurtwood Smith of Robocop demonstrates that he has no hair haha. Maybe you should just get plugs like Elon, every idiot is doing it these days. Where do you live out of curiosity? I bet that probably plays a role in your dating life re: weight. Also, idk what a bad man look is. I think most people would go in for someone who looks "bad" in the mean sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:57 AM
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Yeh, prolly a guy with a busted face lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:33 AM
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Then why wouldn't men want to get jaw surgery done? Women get boob jobs all the time, and for less benefit according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:30 AM
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I am a woman who mountain bikes at a pro level. There are fewer women mountain bikers because it's an "extreme" sport with a high amount of risk involved. Women are not innately drawn to that kind of thing. Gyms on the other hand tend to have tons of women. I am not sure where you work out that doesn't. Where I live, standard weight gyms with the cardio machines are about half and half, and yoga + spin classes are typically mostly women. Anyways, I'm sure on the apps there are likely more fat wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:29 AM
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This is too real. It's cringe when guys talk about spending money on appearance. Stuff like fillers and botox are 300-1500 every 3 months, alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:14 AM
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Pretty sure men will still reject a woman with a busted face. pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:07 AM
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I wonder what you qualify as significant. My own mother was a professional athlete with two "easy" pregnancies and even she would laugh in your face at the assumption that pregnancy doesn't change your body. Just because it doesn't mutilate you or cause some severe problem, doesn't mean there are no lasting side effects - I'm vain and I care about the sort of changes like saggy tits. If men could bear children I'd be happy to keep things "whatever," but they can't. C'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:06 PM
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Are you fucking dumb? How can you not know that pregnancy permanently changes your body? Here are all the ways pregnancy can permanently change a woman's body, since someone ought to educate you: For some women it tears the lining between their abs - in some cases it's just aesthetic, in others, actual organs can poke through (recti abdominis) It can tear your vagina, or permanently widen it. Most women have a slightly wider vagina post-childbirth It can deflate your boobs post-breastfeeding, pt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 05:59 PM
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Ruining your body for children, for one. Men don't do that. Only an idiot would bear children for a man who calls marriage a piece of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:03 AM
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Today it's consent, tomorrow it's how to have anal sex safely. What about, you know, math? Science? How to read and write? How this is even news is beyond me. The US education system has so many more crucial issues plaguing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:31 AM
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Reddit is peak embarrassing. Free stuff = the enslavement of other people's time and energy. People either believe in work, merit, and fairness, or they don't. Eventually, everyone is going to find out what happens when there are too many leeches on the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:31 AM
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Hahaha hot. No comment on women's n-counts but this is a great ad for Kameron.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:40 PM
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Daevabad Trilogy, kinda. Can't think of any with modern day Sheikhs though, hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:07 AM
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By your logic no one likes indie music or EDM because too many people listen to Drake. Sorry, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:03 AM
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LOL what? Look - hot people are always hot. Doesn't matter if they are feminine, masculine, strong, black, white, whatever. You're right if you're trying to prove the point that no one wants fat, unhealthy uggos with bad faces. "The preference for healthy, slim people is a monolith!" Brilliant, case closed. In the OP, they said that womanly men are going out of style, and I just refuted that point by pointing out that there are many women who prefer it, and many mainstream celebs/models who look…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:27 AM
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Yea and same goes for Cillian Murphy? What's your point? Literally the post is about how women don't like feminine men and their preferences are for someone like Chris Hemsworth, but realistically, you could show a woman a photo of Jared Leto and it's likely she'd say he is hot too. That has nothing to do with the statement posed by the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:47 AM
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Men push back on it because they feel like looking feminine means having to raise their own standards for appearance (and it sort of does mean that). It's a lot easier to just LARP a caveman. Everyone told me when I got older I'd prefer more manly men, but that never really happened. If I were single I'd probably prefer to just dominate some cute twink. Traditional masculinity is only attractive to me if the guy has the personality to go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:47 PM
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Well I don't find Chris Hemsworth particularly attractive. I mean, I'm not going to sit here and be like UGH he is so awful - I would assuredly date someone who looked like him - but he is not my type as far as attractive men go. I'm more into people like Cillian Murphy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:29 PM
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Well you said it yourself, that is civility not respect. I don't respect random people unless they give me a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:28 PM
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Delicate features, upturned nose, bow lips, slender hips, collarbones, narrow face. E.g. - https://ibb.co/nBb5tr3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:27 AM
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Maybe it's just introverts vs extroverts. I just love to mess around with people, and get messed around with, and I'm probably just kind of a shit stirrer. I mess with people in completely non-romantic contexts as well. I feel like I have a (sort of) boring job, and while I love my hobbies, they don't fill me up with desire and excitement - so if I want to have that in my life it's my duty to figure out how to manufacture or obtain it. I guess the difference is that I don't perceive it as a burd…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:18 AM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:12 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:11 AM
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Womanly men are out? No one informed me. Pretty sure feminine features on a lean man is pretty much the hottest thing on earth in my opinion. That, and bratty behavior in men. TLDR - Preferences are not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:08 AM
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Yea no one ever cops to these preferences IRL, and I think a lot of people don't even understand them until it's too late - then they're bored and can't articulate why things "just aren't working" I don't feel like I have a hard time finding dramatic, obnoxious men. It's harder for someone who is looking for the opposite: because like I said, people don't realize who they are or aren't honest with themselves about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:05 AM
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I can't tell if you're making a joke about videogames or not. The problem with sex is that for me it always gets boring unless my relationship with people is dynamic. I have to feel like I am running around after someone, or they are running around after me to stay excited long term. When I was in my late teens/early 20s I had a couple relationships that lasted 1-2 years and the sex always died around year one. I just can't get fired up about anything routine. And I get that some people are prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:47 AM
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Haha yea I am like you, except I wouldn't even mind dating a hot mess because my own life is in order. I've always felt like so many people have super sterile relationships, and I just never want to end up like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:44 AM
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So you respect every random stranger on the street? How is that expected? I don't know anyone who thinks that way. It's almost whorish to say you respect every single person tbh. What is the point of respect if everyone can have it. If you just mean common courtesy, then sure, fine. But realistically, expecting that everyone will be courteous all the time is also naive. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:39 AM
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Hahaha maybe it does. But my man, respect has to be earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:34 AM
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Tradcon isn't the axis being referred to in the OP. The OP is saying they don't want their relationship to be a battle (you could be in a battle in a tradcon relationship or any other form of relationship). I only brought up the income thing because I think a lot of men these days literally couldn't care less about actually having a dynamic relationship with another human being and want boring sex and a cheaper lifestyle, enabled by a woman, rather than something actually sexy, romantic, or exci…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:32 AM
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Bro, this is cringe. If you're on a date and the person keeps looking at their phone, there are a million hot things you could say to flip the dynamic. If a woman isn't initiating, you can tease them about it. If a woman is asking for small favors, you can turn it into a sexy game and treat her like a brat. In order to be the power behind a relationship you have to control the interaction. I honestly feel bad for all the incessant whiners I see on here who literally take every negative thing tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:23 AM
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Yep, I see this IRL too with engineering types. There's nothing less attractive than some nerdy late 20s STEM-lord telling you that he's all about being nice to people, straight-forward communication, and low drama. This same person will have no clue how to flirt or banter, and will generally look down on women and men who seem to be having more fun by calling them shallow, manipulative or insecure. Like yea baby, I am a bit of those things, but I will own it, and I will have fun with it. If peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:15 AM
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Right on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:12 AM
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Actually, I think it's hilarious. I love complainers, and one-uppers, and people acting bitchy and petty. There's nothing I enjoy more in life than someone playing games with me that I recognize. I love it with friends, I love it with romance. I find it truly stimulating and pleasant. Some people like to act like they are too good for the drama, but ultimately, with conflict comes passion - and I'm not so old that I'm ready to give that up quite yet for a little peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 02:12 AM
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No, I don't agree. They are literally one of the only entertaining things in life. Not everyone wants to live under a rock, or wrapped in a blanket of perpetual comfort. People pushing you outside your comfort zone is what allows you to grow as a person - and it doesn't always have to be positive interactions. I think the only people who don't want power games are this generation of nu-males who basically just want to hang out, have boring sex, and get some chick to pay half the rent. It's cring…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:59 PM
2

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:11 PM
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hahaha I mostly just read this sub for your posts. TY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:44 AM
1

Lol I don't love all of Margaret Atwood's novels. I think The Handmaid's Tale is quite the LARP, and is a really thinly veiled excuse to dunk on men, especially conservative men. That being said, some of her work is really great. Oryx and Crake I thought was really interesting and prescient for its time (though I'm less sure about the other two in the trilogy). At any rate, it's possible for people to have some good ideas and some bad ideas. And I think this quote is one of the good ones. It's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 10:23 PM
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I still thought it was so funny back in the day when those chicks were shitting on his rape jokes and he bit back. I was so proud of him for not being a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:06 AM
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There's a bunch of drama going on right now over different rivers, if you google India China dam conflict, you will see what I mean. Last year they also had a military confrontation at the border in the Himalayas where India is building (or upgrading?) an airbase (indisputably on their side of the border) which China would prefer they not build/upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 01:11 AM
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Dude it's gonna be the throwdown showdown with India over all the dams they are starting to build. Hilarious. Not sure who I'm even rooting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:56 PM
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“Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:53 PM
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Haha what happened to Tosh, he was so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:34 PM
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I don't have to, and frankly, neither does any other at least moderately attractive woman. Sucks to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:54 PM
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Better to be a prostitute than unpaid. I never understand that insult. Haha - anything we do for you is in exchange for sex, that makes you a whore!! Checkmate!! In that scenario, it also means men are Johns, and which is more cringe? Almost everyone is required to sell themselves in some way or another. Maybe you sell your health to a desk job, or a trade. Maybe you sell yourself to a woman, and cave to her petty demands - not all exchanges in life are monetary. Whenever I hear men screeching a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:53 PM
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Idc if you don't believe me, no skin off my back. And just because I agree with the go club on math or physics doesn't mean I want to hang out with them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:48 AM
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haha whatever bud, you do you. 10 to 15 bucks is nothing, if it's a big deal to you, then it means you are poor, and you're right - you and I probably don't run in the same circles or have the same experiences of "reality" Also edit - I do want to fill my gender role? I spend a lot of time looking nice, and supporting the people I have been with. I run, bike, and do yoga which a hell of a lot better than most people do. It's just not realistic to go full trad in this day and age, only an idiot w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:03 AM
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The whole post LOL? Isn't the whole point of this sub to come on here and have a big whine. It's fun to let off steam. And anyways, I don't contradict myself. TRP behaviors are sexy, MRA is cringe and un-sexy. I respect men who are either hot enough, or have the right moves to fuck women and bail. I don't respect men who are hella fucking angry at women or the law or society and all they do is talk to other neckbeards online about the unfairness of it all. They are just LARPing: instead of takin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:56 PM
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Haha maybe if you're chad. Too bad men are too lazy to even go the looks route. It doesn't hurt my feelings if guys don't want to pay. Really, I'm just trying to help the sorry lot on here that are under the delusion that a manic pixie dream girl is going to show up, bankroll dates, and have pornstar-style sex with average joe office worker and have an orgasm fantasizing over his 60k salary that he was too sly to divulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:45 PM
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At least if you treated women like shit, you'd actually be sexy. Unlike this pathetic whining haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:45 AM
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Well it's impossible to have 100% true gender roles nowadays. It's just an unacceptable risk for a woman. And at any rate, it would be boring just managing a kitchen and kids or whatever. You're right, I don't need or want that dynamic 100%. But you better believe that I'm also not interested in weak men or men who want me to lead and play the male role. I could go into more detail on what I mean by this, but I think you probably get the picture and are being intentionally obtuse. I'd even be ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:36 AM
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Haha what? I wouldn't want to date a rich guy who dressed like a hobo to avoid gold diggers. Conversely I could say you'd probably want to avoid a woman who had put out in the past and been burned and now dressed and acted like a nun to avoid sexual overtures. No one wants weirdos with baggage. I met my fiance playing world of warcraft when I was 18 and neither of us had any money. All I knew is that he had the same hobbies as me and was smart. So really, I didn't even follow my own strategy her…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:57 AM
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Hm well there are definitely fashions that could suit you haha, there is no such thing as a person who cannot become more attractive or fashionable with a little help. It is a bit hard to advise you specifically without more information, but I do think that having a nice wardrobe wouldn't hurt you with women, and certainly wouldn't hurt you in life in general. I see a lot of guys just kind of derping around with button downs from old navy that they got their freshman year of college and I really…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:45 AM
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You have enough interest in me personally that you are trying to woo me, not trying to make me woo you. For the record - I haven't dated in about 6 years, but in all the time I was dating I was never once asked to split a bill, even when I offered. If I did run across a man who'd been very upfront about splitting, it would have been a large turnoff, as he is bucking the social etiquette in a negative way, and not only would it lower his value compared to other men, but it would also indicate to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:38 AM
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Haha, true that. But traditionally men have either taken women by social coercion, violence, or the ability to provide (or a combination of these 3 factors). Never once in history have women been like yea, I really want to spend an evening paying for a guy's dinner and then suck his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:33 AM
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I am likely borderline autistic or even autistic, but I am not diagnosed for that, and at any rate, women don't demonstrate autism the same way that men do. My point isn't about whether or not people like the thought of it (of course people don't like the thought of it?), it's that whether or not they like it, it's how it is. Even people who say dumb shit like "I only go for personality" are still choosing their partner based on transactional criteria. There is no such thing as unconditional lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:31 AM
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Well it's a good thing that we screen each other out then right? I won't hate on that haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:27 AM
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It's not crazy at all lol. It's literally how society was run for basically all of time, until men in the first world started to lose economic leverage and complain over paying for a coke on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:49 PM
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LOL bro calm down. First off, it doesn't offend me if you want to call me a prostitute. All relationships are transactional at the core. When people try shy away from transactional nature of relationships it's generally women who get the raw deal. They will fuck when they don't want to, do chores for both parties, and still have to work full time because it's 2021. People like me are just trying to expose the fact that "equality" almost never applies to modern relationships. Ruthlessly vetting m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:11 PM
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I actually totally agree with you. Women with fewer options are okay with splitting the bill. Isn't that just obvious? The more options a woman has, the less willing she is to compromise. The same is true of men. If he's only been courting uggos, and a super hot person shows up on a date, he is assuredly more likely to pay. Whether or not a man values you is evident in his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:05 PM
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only 1 date with a homeless, convicted felon who was 8 years younger than me and was fascinated with clown makeup (i.e. she was crazy). LOL sorry but this hella made me laugh. Your post history is a real mess you know. You need to grow your hair back (if you can), get more stylish glasses, and probably change up your clothes. You are not hella ugly or whatever, you just look like some guy who plays a bit too much D&D and is probably crippled by a complete inability to approach women in a teasing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:53 AM
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I'm under 30, I have more money than nearly everyone in my demo, and I would not take a man seriously who did not offer to pay in the early stages of a relationship. Thank god I'm out of the dating game, men today are so pathetic. Spoiler alert - It has nothing to do with the money, it's about the dynamic. Women don't give a shit about a 14 dollar appetizer, and they won't be sad if you turn them down for having expectations. That is entirely the purpose of the filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:36 AM
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my russian man is like that, but I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:05 AM
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Well, he's a bit too far haha. I don't want to date someone who wants to murder me. I just like conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:18 PM
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Lol that's funny - I like all the same looks as you, but personality-wise what repulses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:28 AM
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Well given that this sub is mostly referencing millennials or middle-aged men/women who live in or around urban areas, I'm pretty sure what you're describing is not at all the norm. Clearly the women are smarter where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:31 PM
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LOL what men do you know? I have practically never heard of such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:57 AM
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I'm saying that in the US, significantly fewer women work than men. Look at stats for women dropping out of the labor force in their 40s and 50s. While a lot of these women may work 40 hours a week doing housework, this is pretty unlikely, probably many of them are doing 10-15 hours tops. I.e. this unworking cohort of women drags down the entire statistic for women significantly. What this means is that if you are the median, younger, man-woman couple who are both aiming for middle class, odds a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:22 AM
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>Most don't have children Shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:09 AM
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Yea so basically, because more women don't work, if you're a woman and you DO work, you're probably getting fucked over. It's amazing how hard people misinterpret that stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:06 AM
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Their dating and relationship dynamics are awful. No one approaches at all, no one dates, no one fucks. My gen Z half siblings are weird and socially awkward. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 05:10 AM
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Talking to others is called having friends. I never had issues with men approaching me. All I can say is thank fuck I'm not gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:28 AM
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I'd rather never have sex again than be the one who approaches lmao. Imagine ending up with a man who YOU had to approach as a woman. Peak cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:12 AM
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She is right, u are wrong. Men like to say women are visual to try and blame women for their own laziness re: approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:45 AM
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Women play games close to as much as men do, they are just not good at them, invested in them, or serious about them. Yes, there are exceptions - but it is not the rule. So it's not that women don't play games, it's that men play games MORE. ps - RTS games and shit like DOTA2 is hard, you are more likely to see women playing shit like final fantasy or animal crossing. pps - Re: board games, that shit has gone mainstream in recent years. Seems like there are tons of women who participate, and eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:57 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 11:51 PM
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Men want what they haven't already fucked. This whole try before you buy thing is a surefire way to rack up your body count when wishy-washy men later say they aren't feeling it anymore. Never in any of my relationships did I fuck before I'd known the guy a while and were exclusive. I don't care about Vasopressin or any other reddit pseudo-science. If you're an attractive woman you absolutely don't have to put out if you don't want to, and probably shouldn't in order to cement long term prospect…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 09:04 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/hlj604/women\_arent\_less\_horny\_than\_men\_its\_just\_the\_fact/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=mweb https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/a2hefg/women\_are\_hornier\_more\_sex\_obsessed\_than\_men\_are/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=mweb https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/dz7v2h/women\_are\_just\_as\_horny\_as\_men\_its\_just\_that/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=mweb https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:58 PM
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"What is understood" re: Women's horniness is accurate. Arguing that women (except a few nymphos you heard about from a friend of a friend....!!!) aren't quite as horny as men (but still very horny!!!) is exactly what /u/SaBahRub is addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:56 PM
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I mean, idk how being in a bdsm community guarantees that. If you're doing group sex stuff then maybe not, but just identifying as part of the bdsm community and talking on online forums isnt gonna get you laid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:04 PM
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lazy is pretty much the same thing as weak in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 07:55 PM
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lol wut, bdsm communities are by and large full of weirdos and uggos. Idk where anyone would get that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 07:52 PM
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America subsidizes the world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:30 AM
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What studies lol, I'm genuinely interested
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:48 AM
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I mean nutrition is what it is - people who eat and live healthier will look less like shit than people who don't. Around 30 you stop producing certain amino acids and that gradually increases as you age. Even if you eat very healthy and go into it very healthy, pregnancy still tears the connective tissue between your abs. It can tear your vagina. Tear the wall between your vagina and ass. Who knows, maybe none of this stuff will happen to you as a woman (well, except for the abs thing, that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:10 AM
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Progressive culture lol? People blame women, but women are just marching to the orders of someone else. I'm conservative, but it sure takes an autistic person to stay conservative in a place where you just get hammered by anti-traditional messaging at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:04 AM
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Sex gets boring in long term relationships. You can't ever really get that initial spark back and I think people who say you can are just lying. You can still fuck, and change things up, it just becomes more comfortable and less titillating. But tbh sex just isn't a key motivating factor in my life. I'm very focused on building wealth and developing my hobbies, and partnering with someone who has the same wealth and the same hobbies. The hot fresh sex part I sometimes miss, but I miss lots of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:02 AM
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Yea, I mean, probably. I'm 29, married, and we're both making about 200K a year. We bought a house in another state to raise a kid at in a few years, because it's damn expensive in the Bay Area (and also a bad place to raise a kid): but I find myself feeling broadly ambivalent about the whole thing. I work out all the time, and having a kid will mess up my body. I enjoy biking on the weekends and playing videogames, and having a kid will put an end to that. While I trust my partner in terms of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:17 AM
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To be fair, datingoverthirty and relationship_advice are loser subs. You're self selecting into loser women by sampling those as "all women" the same way you're biased towards PPD women being "proud."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:54 PM
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uhhh idk who phoebe cates is so I had to google her.... I don't think she'd be considered "plain" by today's standards. The link in your second paragraph is dead so I can't comment on that, but I think Instagram is more about selling fat girls the "slim thicc" aesthetic than it is about imitating pornography (you could look like this too, if you just buy these tights....!). Men will follow all manner of hot girl accounts, I'm sure Miranda Kerr has her own massive following.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:21 PM
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So? Double standards exist for a reason. It's a win for men in your scenario (which is not the scenario I suggested), it's sure as fuck not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:28 AM
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There have been a million threads on other subs that are like "Women who approached a guy - how did that work out?" and it's always a shitshow. Men will just fuck and bail on a woman who is not up to par, whereas a woman will just reject the man. Anyways, it's irrelevant arguing about what lazy or timid men want and whether or not it's "fair." Attractive women will not ever pursue - why would they? Supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:53 PM
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larp more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:12 PM
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They're never done if the woman is hot. Supply and demand baby. Maybe if you're chad it doesn't have to be like that, but otherwise, welcome to the circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:08 PM
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Lol men say this, but if an uggo approached them they'd either pump and dump or ignore them. In their mind it's always some hot nerd (who doesn't know they're hot!).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:06 PM
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It's easier to be angry than it is to do the hard thing and fight for a better life. Maybe you're right, and you would have been better off sitting on a pile of cash alone, but no one respects the people who don't even try. The eternally cynical bachelor has everything in common with the angry feminist who has also opted out of dating, for her own reasons. You see a lot of people on here complaining about modern life, but really, there isn't all that much to complain about at the core. If people…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 08:55 PM
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I've been with the same guy since my early 20s, not everyone goes through a slut phase. In fact, most women don't. I hate to spoil the revenge fantasy, but there will never be an advantage to not partnering off with another smart, high-earning person. Society will just become the haves and have-nots, which is what you're already seeing. Better off people will pair off and have families, and the trash will take itself out. If you can't attract the kind of woman you'd befriend, have children with,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:40 PM
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I have a secret for you - Reddit is mostly super young and delusional, and doesn't seem to realize that a whole separate SMV exists once people get out of their late 20s. If you stay thin and fit, and get work done here and there, it's no problem. That's the beauty of having money. PS men also get uglier. It's just the truth. The lead in 50 shades of Grey (a female fantasy) was 27. Luckily, most people who have some kind of stake in society realize that there are more important things than chasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:25 AM
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Yeh, except my fiance also selected me due to financial stability. We both make a lot of money. Does that mean men prostitute themselves too by your definition? Sorry bud but cash and prizes for sexual encounters is not the same as choosing to marry a high quality mate. Ppl can attempt to cynically conflate the two all they want, but it says more about the kind of women they associate with than the actual social reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 09:50 PM
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in one case cash is involved lmao this sub is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 08:58 PM
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mutual desire =/= payment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:52 AM
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There is a law enforcement presence around a lot of those sites. Just because they aren't shut down doesn't mean they are necessarily 100% safe to use. That being said, most countries have bigger fish to fry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:48 AM
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I guess I'm just missing how it's some kind of honor that a guy will house you in exchange for sex? As I said, guys could do it with gay men but they don't...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:22 PM
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Well, on endhomelessness.org, it says that 70% of homeless are men, and 30% are women, so it's not like there are no women, they're just less likely to be visible on the street. Also homelessness is heavily correlated with mental illness and drug problems which are more likely to be found in men (1 chromosome baby). How many 50 year old women do you know? Women don't get abandoned by their husbands when they are young and hot, it happens when they're like 47, kinda fat, and not at all cute. A fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:33 PM
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I dunno man, I live by SF and there are plenty of homeless women. Some even have children. There are more men, but there are always more men in the extremes of anything. You also have to wonder how many women dodge homelessness by being a whore, which isn't much of a step up. I'd rather just be homeless myself. And anyways, those people get bread, they just don't get a house or anything nice. Are we advocating now to give people nice things for being unwilling to participate in society? Why woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 03:49 PM
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Lol so get some money and hit the fucking gym. Cry me a fucking river. As if men are somehow kind and generous towards ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:35 AM
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SMV is reduced with age, regardless of gender. People can become wealthier, or savvier as they age, which elevates their perceived value - but if they had been just that wealthy and savvy when they were younger or beautiful, their SMV would have been higher. Just look at how women fawn over pop and kpop stars. The billionaire main character of 50 Shades of Grey is 27 years old - given that book was a fantasy for millions of women, they would have made him 40 if that were "peak" SMV. Even RMV fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:24 AM
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As if that makes what I said any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:10 AM
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Okay so, I can't respond to all your posts, but since you love me so much, I will respond to this one: Look - I get where your anger is coming from. I'm taxed over 40% of my income in the state of California - it's terrible. I'm conservative, in a city full of techno-liberals. I'm white, in a place where everyone is trying to fill diversity quotas. I hear you man, it sucks. But so many things in life are unfair, I try not to dwell on that stuff. It will just make you rage out and is not producti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:40 PM
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Men here clearly want the doting wife, the stable (decently paying) job that supports them both, the nice house, the cute kids, etc. without losing any of today's benefits (casual sex (or even sex before marriage at all), no religion, no social expectations, videogames whenever, weed, craft beer, MCU...). It's cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:26 PM
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You could have a face like melted cheese and if you went to a party and brought some drugs, just watch how fast it would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:22 PM
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Lol, all systems can fail. the US isn't even a purely capitalist system or even close to it, so fail is a relative term. All I meant is that if the US took a hard turn towards socialism, I think the average redditor would be surprised at the outcome (spoilers: it would not be like Norway). Capitalism can't be slavery if you're able to acquire capital and not work anymore/gain passive income. Slavery means you are a slave forever, and are incapable of improving your station in life. Indeed, there…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:21 PM
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I'm just saying the idea that women or men are "trapped" in a lifetime of corporate subservience is a lie and a strawman. If men are mad that women would rather work in HR 40 hours a week rather than date them, then that's their prerogative, but assuming everyone who has a job is miserable on account of having that job is an incorrect assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:14 PM
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What is your point? That some women in the past were able to overcome barriers to achieve great things? What does that have to do with the capacity for an average american woman to live a life that gives her choices lol? Like me personally, I don't give a fuck about flying across the Atlantic or whatever, I just want to be able to drink beer, do sports, and kick it. I don't think women in the 1800s were doing a lot of that. ps - you forgot Ayn Rand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:16 AM
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Yes that is the impression I tend to have. People here seem to want a world where women still casually fuck and they don't have to take any relationship responsibility (boring!)/raise a family (boring!)/go to church (boring!). I also remain unconvinced that life is somehow worse for the average woman. I think most of the women I know are not unhappy, which contradicts what I see posted all over reddit. The option to settle down is still available, but now you don't have to. Admittedly, it's hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:10 AM
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I dunno, I generally tend towards the view that a lot of people in the US are massive fuckups. How many people do you know personally who are in minimum wage jobs who have made a real effort (either within their job, via school, or some other kind of training) to escape that lifestyle and then failed to do so? Sure, 40 hours a week and you can barely survive probably sucks, but for anyone who gives even the slightest of fucks, it's a temporary condition (unless you are insistent on staying insid…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:02 AM
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I agree that feminism was a movement around labor, and not around actual women's rights or what is best for women. And I used to think that maybe women were screwing over the labor force. But after a lot of thought on this, I think having choices is as important to human happiness as having raw capital. I'm a bit of a bad example because I'm a high earner, partnered with another high earner, so we are "beating the system" so to speak, relative to the 1950s. But man, so much cool stuff is now in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:03 AM
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If men were the sole benefactors then women would be lining up for male prostitutes, but that is not the case. Women are the primary benefactors, passive or no, and modern men are, at this point, just trying to be greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:52 PM
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Yea the level of complaining about this topic is weird to me. There is this emerging obsession with "fairness" in relationships, which really benefits women in no way, as income is easy to measure, but sexual effort, chores, and logistics become a lot more nebulous: Men will stop trying with sex and chores (you literally see people on here discuss this all the time saying they only put effort in at the beginning), but you will still be working full time. No sympathy for men who feel like they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:11 AM
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Ya then we're in agreement. I think the genders work better when each party brings their own shit to the table. I also agree with things like fault divorce etc so I sympathize with people who are afraid to get married these days. I don't sympathize with the new breed of nerds I see springing up around me who just want to date a hot computer-science girl version of themselves. It's cringe and leads to disappointment on all sides when people realize that isn't reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:56 PM
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The answer to this is super obvious but it's like men collectively want to plug their ears to avoid the truth: Women bring more to the table outside of earning, so if a man can't at minimum bring equivalent earning to the table, there is no reason to partner off with them. It's rare that men are good SAHDs, and women typically wind up having to manage logistics, friendships, family, and all kinds of other crap. And also, who wants to pay a guy to suck their dick? Seriously lol, I think porn and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:24 PM
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Are you actually an indian programmer? This cracks me up because you sound just like one I used to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:29 AM
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It's kind of a joke when people say things like this. So what? She should let his dirty clothes and dishes pile up? Live in filth or mold if he won't clean the bathroom? Let his teeth rot out because he didn't go to the dentist? It's her living space too lol and she doesn't want to live that way... ps - even if men do clean, they want sex (or kinkier sex) way more than women on average, and don't have to deal with UTIs, managing BC, shaving, makeup, etc. "Egalitarian" relationships are for ugly …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:16 AM
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