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Question for RedPillBillClam/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 09:57 PM
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DiscussionBillClam/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 01:41 AM
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It's not really encouraging debate or conversation, it's attacking, and I know that we all (red and blue) go after some people from time to time, but Scurve doesn't come off as the woman hating sycophant that I think you want him to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 03:26 AM
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Is your Username a Jim Gaffigan reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 12:11 AM
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Oil and Gas... Are you in geology?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 10:18 PM
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I'm pretty blue but even I gotta disagree with the shots fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 10:17 PM
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A 70 year old who enjoys the Matrix and making Midi mixes gives me an oddly pleasant mental image.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 10:16 PM
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You know, that's somewhat true, many interests can be superficial, but that's usually weeded out in the early dating process. We aren't our interests, though they may reflect our character.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 10:12 PM
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I'm going to throw rock climbing (not a team sport, I know) your way, as a suggestion, if you haven't looked into it yet already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 10:08 PM
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Have you thought about branching out a little? I get the whole issue with dead lifting but have you looked into team sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 07:50 PM
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I had to look up those last two words. Curse you for making me learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 07:39 PM
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I think you're looking at some activities a little superficially and it's hurting your explanation of what you're looking for. "Drinking" as itself is a very vague description, you could be into wine tasting, brewery tours, or just going out and enjoying time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 07:37 PM
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Answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 05:52 PM
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What's your point here? Can you tell me what you think a rapist looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 05:01 PM
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It's not, but what I see too much of is, "This is what I would have done," which every takes to mean they should make a list of why they'd be better at a situation than a victim. I've seen it in terms of rape as far as "I was taught not to respond to peer pressure in high school," and "I don't go home with strangers!". Some people here aren't suggesting precautions to help, they're suggesting precautions to show that they're supposed masters of their surroundings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 02:36 PM
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I don't know that I'd agree with the "arming" of potential victims. I've seen multiple people recently state that women should do more to avoid "these situations" ignoring the statistic that a mere 7% of rapes are committed by complete strangers. Assuming that if "Women would stop running off with strangers!" would end rape is shallow to say the least. Rape is a difficult crime to prosecute, both evidence wise and emotionally. Education might be the key deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 02:34 PM
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Yeesh, I am both sorry this happened to you and that now people are eschewing sympathy in favor of making a point so as to reassure themselves that they're in no way associated with these types.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 02:28 AM
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That is indeed a tough question, but what's the sexual situation in this scenario? Are we still talking about the bathroom scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:46 AM
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That is a great way to communicate clearly, but it goes into my other comment that you replied to about the fear factor involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:44 AM
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Are words the only way to signal that something isn't wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:27 AM
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Maybe, but keep in mind that some women see men as their number one threat, and telling one to do something he might not want to might be frightening in itself. Talking about consent is hard guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:26 AM
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You're right, I stuck to one point while Atlas was articulating another. Gavinok initially made the point that not all things are so binary as we on the internet make them out to be. Atlas than made the very binary reply that going to "someone's" home is "danger" and that all men are "Strangers". I did not articulate well that that itself is a very binary comment that is simply not true. I incidentally, focused too much on the "danger" part of the comment, which is indeed my bad. Victim blaming …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 01:24 AM
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I think I'm going to have to disagree with you. Only about 7% of rapes are committed by strangers, though that number is likely higher for assaults. I also feel like it's a deflecting argument, I do agree that there are dangerous situations, and I do wish certain people would make better decisions based on what I read into situations with the advantage of hindsight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 09:42 PM
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Eh, I would agree but wouldn't you think certain things shouldn't be considered "danger"? It's an area of interest that could get easily muddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 08:07 PM
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It's great that you had to reply to tell him that he didn't affect you, otherwise he wouldn't have known.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 02:59 PM
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Many BP's will agree that outgoing, healthy, and interesting men will have an easier time in engaging women in social situations. Many BP's will not agree that women are "plates" and that single moms are sluts. But go ahead and forget the color grey when you're making a decision between black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 06:50 PM
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TRP has a "cycle" of topics, and consent and false rape are one of those that shows up, for two months they'll look like monsters, and it will wind down with a few days of "If you say I'm sexist YOU'RE sexist!", and it will eventually wind down, and then they'll go on to the next thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 02:52 PM
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If the numbers err in some way, and truly all statistics and polls do in some way, I wish that TRP's would engage the "sympathy button" and stop using these surveys as fuel for their anger fire. It's been a long running theme that TRP's are more worried about being convicted of rape than they are about figuring out ways to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 12:27 AM
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Purple Pill has more highs and lows than any sub I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 10:20 PM
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It's not common. It happens, and has happened, but you'd have to establish millions of examples rather than the isolated incidents that you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 10:20 PM
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I can feel how 15 you are through my monitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 02:53 AM
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The definitions are too narrow, but I believe the purpose of them is along the lines of TRP's extensive use of hyperbole and using sharp dichotomy in order to establish "goals". Of course no simple definitions fit any one person, the internet wants you to forget the color "grey".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 02:52 AM
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He's not going here to debate, he's here to not back down from a blanket statement that represents millions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 02:47 AM
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I feel that you put on the blinders for what he just said, especially given that your initial point is that women's studies should prescribe certain choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 05:33 PM
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I don't 100% agree with that, there are people on one side who try and stand up for a lot of things, too many things really, before properly developing an opinion on them, this is true for the side that comes off as sexist as well, but it happens on both. On the other hand, if someone calls out "SJW" and uses it as a derogatory term, stop talking to that person. They have nothing to say and are just on the internet to "win".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 11:40 PM
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The Redpill needs to decide if it exists to help men with certain relationship techniques or if it's a pity party, and get rid of whichever one they don't agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:59 PM
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Is Chard a misspelling of Chad? Can we just spell it like "Chard" from now on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 08:14 PM
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Asking why BP's "Hate" TRP is you off to a bad start, you're assuming one entire group is at the opposite end of the spectrum. I'd like to to make clear what you're asking before really diving in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 08:09 PM
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I came here to read an article, and discovered that I simply want an Oreo Churro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 07:52 PM
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What Burger King are you going to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 07:50 PM
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incongruous I had to look this word up, curse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 07:45 PM
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You've gotta consider the content of said shit given.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:36 PM
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Strongly disagree, the number one thing that has annoyed me about the Red Pill since I learned about it is that it seems to be full of users that want to be victims, regardless of their actual hardships. Instead of recognizing that more than one group can be a victim, they instead use poorly made statistics and claims of the other gender being full of liars to dismiss their claims. Where as recognizing one groups hardship and trying to find ways to identify their own would have lead to more solu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 06:33 PM
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It's like you're replying to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 11:43 PM
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So you're never going to try to propose a solution to the list of problems you go on about because someone might criticize you? You literally want to complain about things that bother you but want others to solve them for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 03:46 PM
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That has very little to do with what I'm asking you to concede to, you might as well ask that no buildings get destroyed in the next Godzilla movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 05:17 PM
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If I could, which I did, would you concede to the fact that you may have cherry picked your link selections and that there might be a solution to men's issues that doesn't alienate mass amounts of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 12:43 AM
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I'm a fan of this. Awareness doesn't mean parades down the streets at all times. You can focus on an issue with a straight forward message and make sure it will get seen. Information is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 12:35 AM
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This seems a little on edge of playing the victim, when perhaps MR groups could work to bridge the gaps in some areas. There are gray areas that groups can all compromise on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 09:44 PM
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I don't agree with either of these articles/commenters, but I don't think that indicates a national outrage and resistance to the movement. I worked at a shelter for ages 17-25, it's a drastically under focused age group. I'm sure if I looked I'd find negative comments about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 09:43 PM
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So you're saying attractive women are attractive? Also, can we take a moment to celebrate Susan Sarandon?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 04:22 PM
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Maybe I could do more research for opening my mouth, but maybe we can identify one problem/issue at a time and see how it's being addressed by Men's Rights Movements?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 01:45 AM
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This is a recurring theme that I've noticed, even on the pill subs alone. People will bring up the ways in which men are affected, but really I feel that 90% of the time they're bringing this up to have something to complain about so that they don't feel guilty when they become aware that a woman has been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 01:42 AM
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So you do or don't get my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 09:16 PM
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Go to an actual comic book store Magic the Gathering tournament and get back to me on what you think a nerd is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:27 PM
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Celebrities tend to have a habit of dying in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 03:26 AM
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This is just a tribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:48 PM
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Cool, great, get out of the math point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:25 PM
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My honest opinion is that if there was a god of sex who decided to come to earth it was through the body of David Bowie in the 70's. I wouldn't attach a "pill color" to him, because honestly he probably would have crushed them all together and put them up his nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:25 PM
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I think it's a little stupid but that's also my opinion of Twitter as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 03:07 AM
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I think men and women are probably along the same lines of emotional feeling, except that men probably steer closer to "pissed off and/or angry" more often than women and call it "logic". Off the cuff opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 12:16 AM
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Crooster, upon reading this article I've summarized that you desire to be a pro-life asexual who is against government health care, is this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 10:50 PM
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Here's a link to an article from the university that actually conducted the study. It's use as ammunition is a little thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:54 PM
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The constant "crusade" for birth control is beyond just having babies, you understand that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:33 PM
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But you actually didn't name any, you essentially just said "these two things I've heard about,".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:24 PM
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moderate feminists can't claim to be for equality between genders when radfems are actively trying to harm men and getting away with it. I don't follow your logic. There's extremists in every walk of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 11:53 PM
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It honestly might not, but I'm seeing a whole lot of "Here's a thing I found! Why aren't feminists doing anything about it!?" Easy answer: You care about this more than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 11:24 PM
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It might not be relevant but I've seen a handful of TRP's complain about how the world is stacked against them in that male rape is an under acknowledged occurrence, and I can say with some certainty that those people aren't doing anything about it. So this argument being used against "Feminist" because they're not causing an uproar over an MTV "personality" seems a tad silly. And there are a few people in the comments section of the link who are speaking against this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 11:13 PM
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Do we have to go down this route?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 10:13 PM
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She's one of those "16 and pregnant" MTV girls Ohhhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:19 PM
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I do think it's very important to teach your kid proper money management, but I do see what might offend some people about this as well. Edit - This is a "16 and Pregnant" "star", MTV reality stars are not the best examples of human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:16 PM
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Do you think "Avoid single women because they're useless sluts" is a 101 course? Will it qualify as my humanities requirement? Is this something the GOP is debating about? What are Bernie Sanders views on "Crushing Puss"? Also it's "you're" professor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:13 PM
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The wording also doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:30 AM
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I'll agree that they're not looking to use women as cumdumpsters, but the issue (to me) is the entitlement of nice guys who get upset and generally become off putting when they don't get things they're way. It's along the lines of how we all dislike when a kid cries about not getting a toy in the store, it's unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:28 AM
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I think you've sort of created a romantic vision of what it's like to be a girl, and should also be aware that these aren't necessarily things a person wants. If you're in college, you also have opportunities to go to social events, that's essentially what college is, a four year social event. Does your major have an associated club? Are you interested in anything outside of class?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 04:29 PM
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If you do or don't want to get married, do or don't. I am and I enjoy it. It doesn't make me better than you, but it certainly doesn't make you better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 12:20 AM
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You literally just pulled out one of four points and accused it of being a straw man point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:29 AM
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OK, maybe you should go back and edit your opening statement to say this then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:10 AM
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And keep in mind that the whole "party" thing is just what makes the news. These organizations are also great outlets for community involvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 10:42 PM
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I don't think you've built a strong correlation in your view here. Most young men are raised by single moms? So more than 50% of males are raised by single moms? Are you sure about this? Are you sure you're not making something up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 10:40 PM
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If I'm not entirely sure about how much money is in my bank account versus knowing I have plenty of money in my bank account, I wouldn't feel so stressed out in buying those over priced drinks. Financial freedom is wonderful. I don't mean the ability to go out and buy a car at a moment's notice, just the stability in knowing that "x" nights of fun aren't going to ruin you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:51 PM
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Being financially well off would be a huge confidence booster in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 10:17 PM
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A bunch of virgins got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 10:17 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 10:12 PM
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I think there are levels of insecurity, some can be reasonable and some can be self-destructive. I'd also say it's fair for you to not want to think about or even hang out with your partner's exes. As for how it relates to the bedroom, I guess I'd have to say it's hard for me to relate to your personal situation. Six years into a relationship and I can say, personally, I don't really think about sex with old girl friends. Yes I remember it was different, some of it was fun, and some it involved …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 07:28 PM
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Stop the thread, it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 05:56 AM
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Yeah, can we please get back on subject and back to figuring out the wetness of water?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:03 PM
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I've said it a lot, but again, I don't think the "core" of Red Pill is all that bad. Improve your self-esteem and have better luck with women? That's not a unique concept. I just think they get too into the analytical side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:44 PM
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That's a sample of SOME women. What is attractive can be rather subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:32 PM
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Oh please, it happens all the time, don't demand a litany of examples. You yourself just said "Probably a good number of SRS users in TBP". What's so hard to believe? Eh, I'm also sure it's happened but it doesn't seem like something I notice too much on TBP. Not enough really to say that it's always like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:27 PM
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Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:09 AM
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Yeah, and once that male toddler is walking, into Syria with'em!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:20 AM
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Men are stronger than women, but what does that have to do with a woman's effectiveness? So far the argument keeps coming around to whether or not they can carry a man off the battlefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:19 AM
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Women are naturally weaker than men, but that doesn't mean they can't carry a person, which isn't the only requirement for combat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:18 AM
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Seems a little out there honestly. I may be wrong, but in times of crisis, my first thought isn't to activate the Bat Camera in my utility belt. Also ten seconds of film in what direction? Is this person aware of how many angles sex, or rape for that matter can take place? Raising awareness about what consent means is still the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:14 AM
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Hm, I gotta disagree with this. Again, going back to my "Blue Pillers don't think in that way" theory. For clarification I want to ask, what do you mean by low status?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:10 AM
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This is all personal/anecdotal, but from my point of view; some of the things that TRP's seem to think of as problems, simply aren't even on the radar for Blue Pillers. The core of Red Pill is a fairly common bit of advice, "Work on yourself and you will see improvement". Some members of TRP, especially the ones Blue Pill sort of poke fun at, take this to an unnecessary extreme, and are concerned about being called rapist, think white men are an oppressed people, and give out guides to tracking …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:04 AM
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aside from that it's a legitimate strategy that works so what other solutions do BluPillers propose that works better than TRP? What is TRP's strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 07:23 PM
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As long as it doesn't keep the best person from getting the job, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 06:05 AM
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What younger women on this sub? Last time I checked this sub was all openly red and black pills. The top reply here is a guy talking about his plate count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 01:36 AM
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What are you suggesting when you say I look past the superficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:27 PM
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Look past the superficial? So you're putting this discussion up so we can find some sort of secret message?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 08:37 PM
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Because this is a discussion, and finding out if we're talking about the issue as it affects everyone or how it affects some selfish twat, can help shape it and allow us to talk about the issue at hand. I've seen too many TRP's use examples of disenfranchisement of specific groups as a justification or defense of their own actions, without much regard to the group in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 08:19 PM
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What I should have said was I don't think it supports the argument that "bringing women into gaming is going to lead to more censorship,". I don't think it's necessarily actively being censored either. Not really since the "hot coffee" debacle, which had some over reacting, yet reasoned arguments against.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:31 PM
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I would say that you can safely ignore anything Sarkeesian has to say and live a fairly fulfilling life. Keep in mind she's also what we might consider an "extreme".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:36 PM
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I don't think GTA is the best argument for the case, because it casts such a wide net, and some of the calls for its banning are based on its extreme violence, and testing existing ratings systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:34 PM
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Who cares, they're welcome to it. I can't upvote this enough. One thing that always strikes me as odd here is the discussion and apparent worry of what "Feminist Think". Personally I don't go out of my way to discover what is going through the minds of a feminist blogger, but I wonder if people here do this to the extent that it warps their perspective of what a feminist is or can be. That's sort of a can of worms we should open on another day. But Going to the point you bring up of feminists as…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:32 PM
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I think that when Gary Gainax was working on Dungeons and Dragons he wasn't making it for "just boys". Yes, he was a man, and he developed this game with other men, but I don't think he meant to be so exclusive. My point being: Stop with the "Men built it!" argument. SOME men built it, those men being "not you", and you are in some ways appropriating as much as the women you think are "stealing" from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:22 PM
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There was a thread about appropriation recently, and I thought the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:20 PM
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I think we've come to an impasse on what might be classified as "nerd" now. While things like comic books, gaming, and such have more or less joined the main stream now, there are still kids who are more or less outcasts. Saying that nerdy things have become mainstream is fair, but if one were to argue that nerds are these "outcasts" or loners, I would argue that nerd culture is in fact the same as it ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:19 PM
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You're (almost) always off to a bad start when you start off poor, and I personally find programs that do their best to increase opportunities to students of lower income families interesting. There are numerous programs and studies out there, and I personally don't know which ones work best. How much does this call into question the concept of male white privilege? Again, is this nation specific? I'm sure we could find some parallels in a global, or even American study, but I think we have to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:04 PM
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Sometimes there is a lack of sympathy and reaching out to help people who I genuinely think are just feeling down in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 06:03 PM
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they want to take something that is already great and call it their own rather than building their own shit. You just described 99% of nerd culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 04:01 AM
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"Gamers" which is an idiotic tag, don't really have a real way to establish dominance, so this is what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:50 PM
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Gaming culture is weird in that I've personally grown up with it, and so many people who claim to be a part of it seem to want to keep it to themselves exclusively like it's their "precious". There are less accusations of who is a "casual gamer" nowadays, but it's still so weird for so many people to associate a product as their identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:48 PM
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As a result of games/CGI becoming more photorealistic I think this has very little reason to do with why women might have become more interested in video games, especially when you consider what titles tend to be more popular with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:45 PM
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And they all share this with you? That they want a baby and that it's their period?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:27 AM
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OK so does that relate back to what Thorlives said? Because we're talking about the idea of shaming and what insults might hold the same value, "player" was something I referenced because he said it as if it holds equal value to the term slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 11:16 PM
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I feel like you might be splitting hairs here to make a separate point not entirely related to what I said, and also you're still sort of confirming what I said. Guys, math is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 11:04 PM
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Is there a way to lock this and move his post to the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 11:01 PM
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I got 11/15, there are a few words I have to look up now! - Kind of BP'ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 10:56 PM
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I should have said influenced rather than enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 06:13 AM
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I didn't ask you to repeat what you're saying, I asked what you meant by what you were saying. Do you agree that some TRPs might blame shift?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 10:39 PM
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I'm starting to workshop the theory that these guys don't know how to deal with the fact that something isn't about them, so they have to ignore a good deal of statistics and go on about how things are much worse for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 10:23 PM
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Pure projection. What do you mean by that? Oh I don't know. Something about having my life ruined on a whim makes me pay attention. I don't feel like it's out of a sense of injustice though, I'm starting to think that some TRP's are so upset by the idea that women "get" attention from rape that they're blame shifting, or is this what you mean by projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 10:20 PM
3

I can pick up what you're putting down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:21 PM
1

History of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:19 PM
2

No, it really doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:17 PM
9

Isn't TRP about getting more and more one night stands and sexual partners? Is saying a girl is at fault for being "pumped and dumped" really fair? Fifty Shades of Grey and Sex and the City, really? Those are you're examples of what spoils women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:11 PM
1

How bad is your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:09 PM
2

But I like your posts :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:08 PM
5

I should be doing homework!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:06 PM
5

I see this reasoning a lot, "We're just using hyperbole to shake things up!," But I feel that TRP could learn the benefit of moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:04 PM
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I think you have to look into it on a larger cultural scale, men are perceived better the more sex they have while women are perceived as lesser, I mean isn't that a value that TRP's hold strong? Finding that girl with a low sexual count? Not dating a girl if she's been with too many guys? Getting your "plate" count up? Is being called a player really as dramatic an insult as being called a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:52 PM
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The wording doesn't help. "One of the main focuses of TRP is to help men gain confidence by allowing them to come to the understanding that women do no have to be placed high on a pedestal. This sort of 'person worship' can lead to an unhealthy relationship and doesn't do much to respect either person working in a relationship," If TRP talked like this I think there wouldn't be a Purple/Blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:43 PM
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I think you're looking more at the effect than the cause of some of these observations. You're observing that there are STEM programs for girls, but are you asking why those exist? No women aren't always presumed to be rapist even though many if not most cases of a woman raping a minor that I'm aware of involve the woman going to jail. RANT MODE ENGAGED Finally Why are you guys always so focused on rape accusations? For every "false rape report" out there how many real rapes are there? Are you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:37 PM
5

I appreciate these acronyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:23 PM
2

Generally when someone suggests "faking it" it concludes with "until you make it". And maybe it should be said that you don't have to go out and pretend/act, but maybe take small yet positive changes that might in generally increase your self-confidence or make positive outcomes that you desire. It's hard for me to tell what naturally submissive really is, as our natures can be greatly enforced by our immediate environments. Summary: I am not a Red Piller, why am I still talking, oh god make me …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:08 PM
2

I personally think we as men glorify our dicks more than women do. I think that maybe a reason there is penis envy is due to a lack of sexual understanding and education when teenagers might start exploring sex, but that's just a thought I just now thought of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:01 PM
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That is unfortunate. I will say though as a married grad student that finances are a thing any couple should and must talk about, and you can do some planning around that, which could influence whether or not you want to be married to someone. The article does state that the poorer employment rate does affect marriage numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 05:14 AM
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I was going to say because it's a pregnancy announcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:13 PM
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He's not sitting up straight and laid back in a couch and wearing a tight shirt, he's mostly just providing evidence that he doesn't know how to take a good photograph of himself. I'm not saying he's a perfect 10 for a guy, but how many people in here don't sit back in couches?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:04 PM
1

In her defense, we know she put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:04 PM
1

What benefits are there exactly? Because aside from checking a few extra boxes on my tax return, I'm sort of confused by what people are talking about when they say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:00 PM
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I think marriage will stick around for some time, you may see a rise in domestic partnerships and civil unions, but I doubt you'll ever see that soon an eradication of such an institution. This blogger was correct in that people are getting married later, people graduating high school and even college aren't met with the financial stability that they were once afforded, starting a family takes a financial commitment that we should all be aware of. This means that while the marriage rate may lowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 10:58 PM
2

Except the Jon Stewart defense is really just mirror for how shitty the media is. "Don't take me seriously, because I'm a comedian and you taking me seriously shows what a failure your institution is,"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:26 AM
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OK, I see your point, but for future reference the word 'abortion' means one specific thing. Abortion isn't some tool that women use to gain power over a man, you get that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:59 AM
2

Get a masters degree and two years of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 11:14 PM
1

So you're against abortion? What do you mean by financial abortion for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:25 PM
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Reproduction is indeed not a right, but I personally believe companies have more and more been following the trend of giving employees the bare minimum in order to get by. And while reproduction may not be a right, it is indeed a fact, and as a fact it tends to affect the woman more than the man. But we're sort of in the same ball park, it didn't used to take two adults working full time to keep the family in a secure place. And now the "out of high school job" has become the "out of college job…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:23 PM
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What I would really love is for America to get its head out of its ass about child care. Yes I also wish that certain businesses would take care of its employees/offer living wages, but these are such deeply entrenched problems in our nation that I'm not sure what an ideal solution would be. The work force has indeed changed in that families aren't getting along on a single income anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:20 PM
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Do you see what I'm saying though? Yes you can go out of your way to collect something, but you still haven't created much of anything in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:13 PM
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if you dig deeper If you want you can turn anything into something that supports your beliefs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnBMwPcRbVE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:06 PM
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An action saying you want a baby is adopting or giving birth to a baby. An action saying you want a dog is getting a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:02 PM
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Oooh, I like this post quite a bit actually. Full disclosure, my wife works at a pet store, is a nutrition specialists, and we both worked for a time at a wolf-sanctuary. Our first dog actually came from a man who was hoarding dogs that he was under the impression were dingoes, I can not stress how not made up this is. That being said, in the context of our two dogs, my wife and I call each other "Mom" and "Dad". I don't know how this started, but it is a part of our life. I'm the type of person…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 10:01 PM
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Neediness is a tough thing to deal with and I feel you, because it can get the better of you and you may find yourself committing to a relationship that deep down inside you don't really need or want. I've been in those relationships. You don't need to manipulate person to thinking you're not needy, especially if you still are, that's only something that can be good for self-sabotage. The person you need to "manipulate" is yourself. Based on your last sentence, you've got a lot of passion, and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:47 PM
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As pickup_Sticks said, men measure themselves up against a lot. I'm even aware that some men have penises that are too big, but somehow that can at times create a sense of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:39 PM
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If I were to suggest a hobby it would be an active one, not a passive one. Yes you might be able to click with someone over your fandom or collection, but that's not really an outgoing activity (generally) there are ways you can take some things and make them more active pursuits, but over all I agree with you on some points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:29 PM
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I appreciate this, but I feel like Purple Pill is too far gone for that to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:25 PM
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I see it as an older guy going out with younger women. Yes there's that little voice inside me that thinks you should date somewhat within your age, but it sounds like your friend is pretty upfront about their wants and needs. I don't know if I would say he's wasting their time, I mean I see your argument for that, but it's not like a woman's only goal in life is to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:14 PM
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I can understand the interest in someone who has had a lack of success meeting women looking into a plan/strategy that might generate more success. I may not agree with your wording, but I think I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 04:28 AM
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who controls the Frame here? The people who never ask themselves this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 04:25 AM
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What adult world do you live among?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 04:19 AM
1

Interesting points all around. I've definitely seen a split between "Genuine nice guys" and the "self-proclaimed nice guys" as you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 07:34 PM
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I enjoyed your definition. I definitely think there is a difference between a "genuine" nice person and the "negative" nice person. I'm surprised that so many people have taken this as a strictly negative concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 12:06 AM
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Wait... What water are you talking about? I don't think you can use your own personal anecdotes to prove that ALL water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 12:02 AM
1

What do you think of nice guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 02:40 AM
1

This question is a little late but what qualifies as a "Forever Alone" type man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 01:37 AM
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I think one issue that TRP takes up too much is what "feminists think,". Just like how a lot of people dislike the Blue Pill subreddit for picking out horrible Red Pill comments, the Red Pill goes out and does the same thing to feminist bloggers. A lot of TRP'ers come across as "Not wanting women to be more victimized then men," and by that I don't mean they're fighting for more rights for women or championing for their causes, more so that they're proclaiming that they have a right to feel vict…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:57 PM
3

Would you say you are Dyke Hard 3: With a Vengeance then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:51 PM
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She reported jewish posts as spam?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:50 PM
2

Ceramics as in art major?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:41 PM
2

God forbid someone else's view of a person conflicts with your perfectly crafted facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 06:29 PM
2

You understand that you're using anecdotal evidence right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 06:27 PM
3

If someone does just about anything with forethought malice of course it's a dick move. I do think there is a lot of hidden insecurities that make people do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 04:20 PM
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I'm with you on that, the next step which may be a "life time" goal is to accept that I can't always (or ever) change someone and "fix" that issue. I have a friend who is currently dealing with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:52 PM
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I don't think it's a great thing to do but I also don't think it's always a conscious decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:23 AM
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Got it, and sorry, just making sure I'm keeping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:19 AM
1

Is that in reference to using rational and logic in the dating scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 03:15 AM
2

I like how you talk about moving goal posts. Because you clearly keep doing so, so that you don't have to come to any agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 02:44 AM
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If you put yourself out there and increase the amount of women you talk to, you'll see results, that's not a revolutionary discovery. Working out and working on self confidence also help in the dating world, you can find this advice in many places online. Doing something that has already been proven to work while adding the worst terminology you can think of doesn't deserve a medal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 01:31 AM
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Aw, the weekly "I am not RP and will deny any claim you make that doesn't agree with my world view, also despite not being RP, I agree with literally every practice they put out," post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 09:28 PM
1

Why do you think Japanese Americans bounced back so much more quickly than African Americans? How does this reflect upon the current practices in grading and considering minorities for various college applications? Does it overall feed back into the discussion at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:19 PM
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How the hell does that make any sense? Why do you think that is? Have you looked into this question that you're asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:03 PM
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It's generally believed that an average white male has more opportunities to study for, review, and take practice SAT's. It's also a general belief that schools and their programs from high concentrations of minorities lag behind those with concentrated populations of white people. It's not always true, but it generally is. But when you see a score of say, 1200 from a white kid from Aspen, Colorado, and then a 1200 from a first generation vietnamese girl in Detroit Michigan, you might consider c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 07:07 PM
2

I see what you're saying, but going into the context behind this, you get why it's like this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:04 PM
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And it's statistically more likely that those serving increased jail time are black men, not white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:41 PM
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Though it's found that minorities typically don't have as many opportunities to plan for the SAT's as others generally do. And do more points get added to these scores?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:38 PM
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From an objective stand point, I'd say talk about ending it as friends. If I were in it? Be bummed about her leaving for a while and look for new relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:07 AM
0

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:54 AM
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You will never pass a baby through your penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:54 AM
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"Privilege" is all contextual. It's easier to be a straight white male. Who, other than a minority of homophobes, is saying it's worse to be gay? Probably gay people, I mean if you've been reading the news, which it would seem you haven't. Same Sex couples were given equal marriage rights nation wide in JULY, that's two months ago. In 2014 the state of Alabama proposed an amendment to ban same-sex marriage nation wide. Or the kids I worked with at the homeless shelter, who despite living in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:52 AM
1

Do they get penalized or do they not receive additional consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:24 AM
2

That's good to know that when you're saying all women will steal your semen that you're being inclusive. Good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 02:49 AM
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TRP is suffering from a poor signal to noise these days. I agree on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 02:48 AM
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If you're a white in America you generally do have an advantage, if you're a heterosexual, you have an advantage, and if you're a man, you have an advantage. You can of course still come from a poor background, have bad health, and so on, and yes these are all disadvantages that anyone can share, it's very true. I think that, and maybe you're not asking this but I'll say it anyway, to discredit someone based on race, even if they're white, isn't the best thing in the world, but to say that the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 02:47 AM
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I like where you're going with this and I'll have to come back to comment more (dinner time) but it makes me think of things like, the reaction to Cecil the Lion. Briefly though, part of sympathy is being able to relate to something about someone. "I went through this experience and I see that you wen through that experience,", and yes, when we form these "groups" we tend to make up antagonists in defense of our own cause. Feminism receives a lot of criticism, and I'm sure if you do an online se…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:51 AM
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Making the other person in the relationship my "life". It's not healthy, neither for you or the other person. I think this is what leads to a lot of "anger" phases. I wouldn't say I'm strongly a given pill, I work out because being "healthy" has always been a life long pursuit, and I have next to no game. I have been angry, and I definitely needed to take time to improve myself, and become my own person again. Deal breakers? Nothing too specific, I'm married now and I would say that "liking" is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:40 AM
2

I think you actually know what these things mean, but for some reason you pretend you don't. You're the one asking what manipulation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 03:18 AM
1

OK, so you've been browsing both an equal amount. Is the point of your discussion that the Blue Pill by expressing its views against the Red Pill in onto itself a form of negative speech? Because that's a valid point. Are you equating the level or context of hate speech from the Blue Pill to the Red Pill? Because I don't think that's a valid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:27 AM
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Honestly I almost feel like you're replying to another comment. What I'm saying is, is that it's perfectly fine to work on self-improvement, and that I imagine many blue pillers will agree with this. If you need to work on your confidence, going somewhere that expresses why women are so terrible, in my opinion, is not the best place to go to for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:49 AM
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Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:35 AM
1

Where is that being said on the Blue Pill? I'll agree that you should be yourself, but your happiest, "best" self, most people say that, it's not a revolutionary belief. If you're working out because it makes you feel better about yourself and because it gives you more confidence while talking to girls, no Blue Piller will call this out as a "bad" thing. But that's not just what the Red Pill does, and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:34 AM
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So you're suggesting that the Blue Pill doesn't like the Red Pill because they want to know who wasn't hot in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:28 AM
0

So do you think that if the offensive terminology weren't there that it might recieve more acceptance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:23 AM
1

I used to be one of you, so I pretty much know what you're about. You mean you used to be part of a group of people with no outspoken ideology who don't see why some people have such hard time understanding women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:19 AM
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I see more hate on the Blue Pill sub in a 10 minute browse than I do in an entire day on the Red Pill. Hmmm, I kind of doubt you did that 10 minute browse. You will see plenty of posts in the Blue Pill that are along the lines of, "Look at this idiot," because that is essentially its purpose, but I don't recall seeing a post made to villify an entire gender. I've noticed a few more of these "The Blue Pill isn't perfect" posts as of recently, which while true, seems to be coming from a place of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:16 AM
1

This is the same for every ideological group though And you include TRP in that category right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 12:06 AM
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Hey Pem, bunch of good questions, so I'm sorry if I miss any. Do you think TRP is "emotionally driven"? If so, why? Oh god yes. You've got a lot of people who are very angry gathering in one place to be angry together. Once you get past that then you have a good amount of people trying to compare their confidence in themselves to another, which to an outsider, comes off as a sense of insecurity among a discussion group that shouldn't fear being insecure around one another. Doesn't it stand to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 05:42 AM
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I'm all for self-improvement and bettering the self, but would you agree that there are ways to reach this goal without using or demeaning others to raise one's sense of self-worth up? "Hey man, I know you're young and want to figure out women, but really just working on yourself is one of the most fulfilling life choices you can make," Like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 05:20 AM
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"trying to explain that is correct that men are responsible for how women behave and are obligated to perform heir duties as commanded, but a therapist shouldn't be so blunt about it" then sure. That's not what she said you dildo.|
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 08:05 AM
1

Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:56 PM
4

Those still in the anger phase need not reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:55 PM
1

That's not what she was saying though. She and several other people with experience with either therapy or therapist have said, "That's not what a therapist should say, you had bad therapists, you are legally in your right to report them,". Therapists have standards that also keep them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 09:36 PM
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When did you confront her with accountability of her own behavior? You've been the point of this discussion the entire time. She's making fun of you because she has approached you as a human would and tried reasoning with you,and you haven't considered a thing she has said. Hell, give me the name of your therapists and I'll report them for you, let the internet know to avoid these two. Due to patient-confidentiality you will stay anonymous and have done something to help others. If a month from …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 08:12 PM
3

Yeah, and I'm two weeks from retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:31 AM
2

What's the right course of action then? Wait it out, make a "splinter sub group,"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:28 AM
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No, they outright fucking said it. How difficult is that? I get that your white knight instincts are kicking in, but give it a rest. No, they didn't. You don't just walk up to people and go, "Hi I'm a therapist, all relationship problems stem from the male not being good enough, have you met my friend? He's also a therapists, he will tell you the exact same thing," This was apart of a conversation, more than likely two different conversations, more than likely conversations you had while in a th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:26 AM
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You are clearly displaying a harsh amount of low self-esteem and a complete lack of sympathy so that it seems you're not at fault so that you don't have to be accountable for your apparent lack of success. I've seen you declare that there are no such thing as "ugly women" which only serves you in the purpose that no women can relate to your personal anecdotes which you firmly believe only apply to you. So in turn people, women in fact, who feel they have had less advantages in life due to their …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 03:55 AM
2

Are you saying the world is against you or the idea of relationships are against you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 03:40 AM
2

I'm glad that TRP worked to make a positive impact on your life, but when I look at its front page, I see a lot of unnecessary attacks on the opposite sex. I think there is a stark contrast between those of you who come to talk about how TRP has helped you on the Purple Pill and those topics we can clearly see in the The Red Pill's front page that don't serve any purpose other than to degrade the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 03:38 AM
2

I started replying to you and made that its own post, but I agree that a man, or any person rather sees great results when they work on self-improvement that is also self aware, while still nurturing in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 03:31 AM
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I honestly see more "good" TRP'ers in the Purple Pill than I do in the actual sub, I don't know why this is. Sincerely every time I see a post here that essentially asks, "Why is TRP that way," there's always a reply of, "It's not all like that,". Every time I see this I go, "Yeah, that's true, at its heart, Reddit is just a sort of 'self-help' blog," Then I look at the number one trending post of today: "Single mothers are delinquent subhuman scum who you should avoid at all costs." So what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 03:30 AM
1

I'm not 100% sure of what you're asking. Are you stating that the media imposes unrealistic ideals of what men can become to women? Meaning that it's unfair to women or men? Shooting back a vague'ish response: Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 03:03 AM
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Two seperate therapists confirmed to me that all relationship issues stem from men not being good enough How did they confirm this belief to you, did you talk about past issues with women and they both concluded on this point, or did you ask them to confirm this and they humored you? Either way, you're way off track and self-victimizing, and you're trying to break apart relationships in a way that makes me feel that if you might need further help, because you're hurting and at the same time not …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 02:19 AM
7

Fruit! NOOOOOO!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 02:12 AM
2

Good question Miss Pearl. Going down the list. Sex, and a lot of these are sort of foundations that really help the love function in a relationship. Sex works with our confidence and knowing that our partner is interested in us in that manner. It can be nurturing or romantic thing, and it can especially be a fun, "this is just for you" type action. When my wife and I have high levels of stress and we're not connecting emotionally we connect less physically. I lucked out with my wife, as I am ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 02:10 AM
1

At what point into the date are you asking how many guys a girl has fucked? How insecure are you guys that you have to come up with a preemptive formula to determine the amount of guys a person has slept with before you even get to know said person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 09:29 PM
4

I don't know why someone would possibly come to this conclusion based on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:11 PM
1

As Happily Single said, if it's a site that allows you to adjust preferences or sort of "pre-screen" someone before making actual contact you will see numbers adjusted in a way that does not typically affect social norms. I'll go on by saying the old "We're all a little bit racist" line, but that being said I would never advocate for hateful relationships with people based on race alone. I personally don't think our online personalities take 100% stock in our real world ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:09 PM
5

How do you know when drunk is too drunk to consent? When you have to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:06 PM
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Hi there ThatOtherMarriedGuy, Coming in as a casul Blue Piller. Advice? Stop writing internet fan-fiction and talk to your wife like a normal person. She obviously isn't opposed to having sex with you you're just acting like you're not supposed to meet her even 1% of the way. God forbid you have to cuddle.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 04:10 AM
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Weird, because we were just talking about how that what it teaches is taught in loads of other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 03:23 PM
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I'm going a little off topic, but it still needs be said that those ideas aren't exclusive to TRP, despite your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 03:38 AM
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I hate to tell you this, but this is not an example of a good parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 01:01 AM
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Climb to the top of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:50 AM
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In courtship or in its original policy it may not advocate being a jerk, but you can see a lot of outright demonization in the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:29 PM
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I've come here before saying that I support the idea of people improving themselves, and getting results in things that they desire. Yes, working out and being successful can lead to more confidence, and with that, better opportunities with relationships. The thing is though, that itself is not a TRP exclusive philosophy. You can find this very ideal suggested on sites for women, people who just broke up, people with depression, and so on. Taking care of yourself, and loving yourself for who you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:26 PM
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I feel like I need an acronym cheat sheet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 08:07 PM
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I agree that it came off as condescending, but I don't think it was written with malicious intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:05 AM
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Some of the posts that were down voted to the bottom do seem kind of weird, I mean the reason for down voting them. The one we're talking about in particular, does come off as a little immature, and it's definitely not an award winning post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:03 AM
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Are you here to debate something, or have you already made up your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:50 PM
5

What did she go with instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 08:07 AM
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Wanting and Entitlement are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 07:25 AM
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You're really terrible at analogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 06:03 AM
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Kids start figuring out what they really want to be as early as middle school. Having options available isn't a bad thing and encouraging the idea that there are so many jobs out there isn't a bad idea either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:16 AM
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I do a little bit of STEM outreach at schools, and a big factor that is quite noticeable is a lot of young girls aren't told what it takes to get a career in science. There are still a lot of assumptions that science involves beakers and a lab coat. I don't doubt that girls aren't getting as much education in the field of math, but helping to explain that a scientist can be someone who goes outdoors and/or tags animals from a helicopter can help get a few people interested. So the main part, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:13 AM
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Did she apply for this scholarship or was this apart of her application process?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:02 AM
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I get what you're saying, and also thanks for having this awesome conversation. I would say, on the bitter thing, I mean this is cheesy, but the core goal of going TRP, which I think I see, but others might miss, is being simply happy with yourself. Not confident, but happy. Because from my experience, the best things come when you're just doing what gives you a good feeling. I've had times in my life where I went "Why not me?" quite a bit, and if you're using that as an excuse, you've got to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 05:08 AM
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I agree that talking shit on the internet is plainly what it is, and shouldn't be looked at beyond that. I can't tell you how much time I've personally wasted talking about shit that does not matter on the internet. And sorry, didn't mean to come off as making accusations, I just meant to say that we all kind of have our own gauge on what is and isn't horrible, and you're absolutely right in that, if it's sort of contained and not harming people in real life, then the word "horrible" should not …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 02:29 AM
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That I think, is elevating one's self so that they don't find any blame in themselves. "I was nice, I was a gentleman," what does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 11:41 PM
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Because those kids in the echo chamber call people fags, women sluts, black people niggers, gripe about shit in movies that don't matter, distrust just about all women and talk about hacking their phones, confirm that the world does owe them "something" and treat other people as being "less than them,". If we're going by the rules of "Well they're not physically doing anything," then we've moved the goal post farther back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 11:39 PM
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I'm jumping in a little late, but I've seen some stuff on The Red Pill that is perfectly fine, and about self-improvement, whether it be in health or relationships. If this was all that the Red Pill was about, it would be totally fine, and I doubt the Blue or Purple Pill would exist. However, it seems there are members who take up a flag (that no one asked them to take up mind you) who really treat this self-improvement as a mantra that makes them superior human beings. The truth is, staying in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 10:48 PM
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I've been hurt in relationships, and I think it's great that there is a place that someone might find some sort of moral support. I however, and this problem exists in a large portion of internet discussion group, think that TRP validates a lot of negative opinions, rather then help people realize sometimes that it's the way some relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 10:00 AM
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There is no there there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:38 PM
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I really like how you guys deflect and don't address any of the other issues I brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:34 PM
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So, promoting Nazi Germany policies is not vitriolic hate, talking about "getting rough with your women" is not vitriolic hate, taking out the contents of your wife's purse in front of your child to shame your wife for her "double standards" is not vitriolic hate, refusing to see the Mad Max movie because Women play a prominent role in it isn't vitriolic hate, not trusting women to the point that you think you should bug your own house hold isn't hate. I just want to clarify what this vitriolic …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 09:16 PM
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Doesn't the sheer volume of vitriolic hate present over at TBP make your toes curl though ? Keep this in mind. It's like someone pointing to nazis Then read the comments in this TRP post. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39kurj/germanys_birth_rate_plummets_germany_now_has_the/cs466h5
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 08:50 PM
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I've checked out the BP quite often, and it does "call out" some of the lesser posts of TRP quite often, I mean, recently there was a discussion on the Red Pill where members were talking about how much better Germany was in the 40's, you don't think that shit shouldn't be called out? What's really strange to me about TRP, is you guys are reading TBP, and you don't have any powers of self-analyzation, this is honestly something that baffles me about you guys. Are you reading into the common post…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 08:45 PM
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Give this person the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 10:39 PM
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I've seen two sides of it. The Red Pill - People who think they're owed something for holding the door open that one time, in an echo chamber. The Red Pill - Some people giving some practical life advice about how to be confident in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 10:38 PM
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Are we talking a Tom Selleck mustache? I don't freak out when my wife lets a few things go shaving wise here and there, and it wouldn't end the marriage if she had some hairy pits. As for the face, if we're talking a Chuck Norris, I would politely ask her to shave. If we're talking some light fuzz? Eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:52 AM
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