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2

That voice in your head is your ego. Nice work learning to ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 01:25 AM
4

Don't talk about fight clu.. Er I mean the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:09 PM
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And... don't get married for gawds sake. Purple pill idealism is a recipe for divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:06 PM
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One, This is a question in the form of a statement, so this should go in ask TRP. Two, you said "quality woman"... they don't exist. There are only women. Three: the reason the SMV peaks at 35 is its the highest intesection of accrued success and physical attractivness. Men are success objects to women. Take 2 red pills, read all of Rollo's books, the side bar, and never call me late for dinner.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:05 PM
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Your blog was one of the first I read. Found it when I searched for answers to shit tests. Awesome stuff.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 02:26 AM
2

Did you follow the president ? You can get in on the eventual lawsuit.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 02:24 AM
1

Yep. Start planning your exit.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 02:07 PM
6

I can see your point, but also he is at work, so a relationship/seks is a no no. OP is still learning, so his weakness of confessing his "feelings" will go away.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 02:02 PM
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He was a massive leftist who wanted to breed white people out of existence... but other than that, yeah wonderful.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 01:54 PM
1

This is definitely an approach I can apply.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 02:55 PM
1

Yes. And also white Knight to get in her pants. Two. Also, maybe don't go at something like that directly with a BP. Be open to the idea that a direct statement will might trigger ego protection in the recipient. When you are telling people things that go against their adopted ego investments they are far more likely to be open to the message if you go 90 and they come ten. You don't go 100.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 01:29 PM
5

I recently hung out with a Red pilled friend who spins plates and his LTR whom I had never met. The things he said to her would have shocked the old BP me and I would never hung out with him again. Instead I observed exactly as you describe. He took he through many emotions. By the end of the evening she was so ready to plow him she was hitting him as a way to try to relieve some of the tension. It was quite interesting to watch.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:07 PM
1

Dude... you in the Minneapolis area?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:19 PM
2

Up vote for useful, concise, and not reading like an erotic novel.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 03:50 PM
3

Shit test failed. You got butt hurt and lost frame so she doubled down to run you off.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 04:30 AM
1

Grease is fine as long as you don't eat the suvar. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 07:32 PM
2

Dude... just stop paying. #negotiateddesire
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:57 PM
1

I didn't say it can't be used to "predict" I said "measure".
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 06:17 PM
1

It's a height to weight ratio... that's it. That ratio is going to be broadly accurate. .. cause most people (at least in the US) are fat as Fuk. But there are much better indicators of health, and just because something is widely known doesn't make it correct.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 10:08 PM
1

Also... BMI is almost total horse shit as a measurement of health.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 08:25 PM
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Here's mine: eat less often, don't pig out, stay away from carbs until you are ripped. Aka eating frequency, calories, macros.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 08:23 PM
1

Definitely have experienced this in life. This is one of the things I am going to try to instill in my boy as he grows up along with the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 01:13 AM
1

Can absolutely 2nd the withdrawal symptoms from cutting coffee. I was not bad but the headache was real. Also... coffee is hard on your stomach over time. AND I SLEEP LIKE A BABY NOW.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 06:44 PM
2

Yeah. Calories are not equal and calories in calories out has been disproven, yet the idea still persists. Still good info in the post.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 02:53 PM
6

Eating frequency is another big factor most people don't consider. Eating anything causes an insulin reaction. Eat less frequently = less insulin response.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 02:52 PM
4

My longest fast is 132 hours. Did that one about a month ago.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 08:51 PM
1

Yep. I've been fast g for months now. Takes the weight off.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:26 AM
1

Www.youtube.com that'll be $10...
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:34 PM
5

No thanks. They don't exist. You lost me at low ncount. My ex wife had an n count of zero when we got married.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:21 PM
0

Aside from your attempt at triggering your audience into reading this you haven't added anything to what is known in the manosphere. Granted, this was new to me at one point, but you gotta add something to this to add value...
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 03:39 PM
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Mod please delete. #angerphase
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:07 AM
1

Agreed. Interesting, but should be deleted because it does not relate this back to TRP. I'd invite OP to rewrite this as it could be so much better.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 12:04 PM
6

As soon as I read cuddled and no sex it was obvious.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:22 PM
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Whenever I see a book-length post I skip to top comments. Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:21 PM
1

Uh.... couldn't get past the first few sentences...
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:14 PM
1

Some pretty good analysis of this post. I agree with the posts and info them. Good opportunity to sneak a peek into female group dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 01:22 AM
36

I have little girls. I practice on them. Amazing how well kids can get you to loose your shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 12:38 AM
1

It's a good point to be fair, but this ignores the clear dualistic pattern of female sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 04:22 AM
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This idea has floated around in my head before... seems i wasnt the only person.I think I'll try it out.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 08:15 PM
2

You can train your face. Your face has muscles. Weight loss for a start, then swallowing correctly (90% of people swallow wrong), gum chewing, proper , and posture. Hell, your feet are connected to your neck via your facia. Look up Dr Mike Mew.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 07:11 PM
3

Coach C... my first exposure to game came fro. Finding his stuff...
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:05 PM
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Maybe read the sidebar or head back over to /relationships...
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 05:52 PM
1

This is exactly the point to be made. Things get muddled when external validation becomes an issue. The James Bond analogy is an oldie but a goodie... none of those chicks are validation for him. He bangs them because he wants to while he is out killing the baddies.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 12:03 AM
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Not for a minute... with no women I'd definitely want to be more prone to injury, sickness, arthritis, limited in my althetic ability, and loose a limb to diabetes...
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:59 PM
2

Pretty much sums up the failure of my marriage. I remember the various times I caved to the invitation to be fearful. I also remember the panicked feeling when I realized the power balance had shifted away from me.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:33 PM
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I agree, but also see a paradox existing here. I think it's the want vs need aspect that makes the difference... am I lifting because it's better for me to not be a weak fat fuk? Yes. AND I'm lifting to remove SMV barriers because I want to bang chicks.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:25 PM
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I'm back after a break. Mostly.caused by annoyance with the sht posts that were making this place unreadable. Glad to see things are being reigned in.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 08:49 PM
3

He didn't say where he was going...
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 09:55 PM
1

Yeah... agreed. I am getting close to being done here. Every other post is about looks or giving up/blaming.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:28 PM
2

Welcome. read the side bar again and start using paragraphs. Good to have you.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 03:29 PM
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Go away looks posts. Go away.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 10:24 PM
2

Go away looks posts. Go away.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:22 PM
2

Go to Amsterdam. Bang a prostitute. It will teach you a lot. I'm 100% serious.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:25 AM
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What garbage . Go read the sidebar incel.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:24 AM
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A Man can be many things, but a Woman will always be a woman. -Wayne Gretzky -Ninokun
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:04 PM
8

As Arnold said... "you never will."
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:38 PM
1

Exactly. That post was incoherent at best. Could not understand at all why it was upvoted. Been reading for a while and find myself reading less and less here due to the shift. Every third post is a looks matter most post.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 11:56 PM
2

Go away looks post, go away.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 10:51 PM
1

Omfg. This post sounds like a no fapper got high, read , Eastern Religion for Dummies, and decided to post on a SEXUAL STRATEGY forum.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 10:39 PM
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I Don't plan on having a girlfriend... a bottom bitch, maybe...
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:51 PM
4

Depends on what you want out of life. Subtlety vs direct communication is HIGHLY cultural. .. including subcultures. Subtlety, Honesty, and lies are tools. Withholding info is also a tool. True, lying can make you feel weak.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 06:51 PM
5

Class, repeat after me: "Observation and criticism are not the same thing." Next, criticism can be a very good thing. Is it criticism to say "hey those snakes there are actually dangerous."
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:17 PM
1

So I was about to drop a "now you are just ripping off Donovan Sharpe" and then I saw ops name. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 02:48 AM
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Not just cultural, the physical dymorphism is greater. Life, uh, finds a way.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:55 PM
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Agreed. The language you use about yourself and others programs your perception of your reality.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:08 PM
5

Another "looks matter most" post this time with more words. Sigh.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 06:03 PM
1

Indifference...? Not really. Keep working though. The goal is shrug-level ZFG.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 05:59 PM
1

Stop having expectations. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 05:42 PM
3

You have gained head knowledge. GOOD. Ignore those who call you out for immediately sharing it, AND their advice to put said head knowledge I to action is spot on. Remember: men do, women talk. Do.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 05:41 PM
3

Really... why are there all these looks matter more posts? Has no one heard of Johnny Soporno? Kids these days...
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 04:26 PM
3

Okay... oneitis. But to be clear this condition is a result of emotional insecurity and will only be cured by you fixing what the pua call inner game. Get yourself a good coach, like a Jonathan Heston (his book is on amazon ) and start facing your demons...
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:55 PM
3

Yeah. When my marriage was ending my ex kept blaming me for the "decision" she was making.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:09 PM
2

Sounded like a drunk entitled cunt.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:06 PM
1

Ever heard of Rollo Tomassi?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 11:35 PM
1

Of course it's irrational. He's talking about a creature that is NOT rational. Did you even read the post?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 11:15 PM
1

Yeah. I was homeschooled still raised internally blue pilled. I have a boy. It's a challenge. His 1st grade teacher is a soyboy. Facepalm. Divorce. What can you do.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:37 AM
3

Haha. Never heard of this. Just installed and you are right... several of them are not even talking. Lolz.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 03:37 PM
4

Ummm. Moisturizing like a man, yes. Makeup 'cause you got a red spot? NO. I thought this was TRP sub not TBP. Please.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:55 PM
1

Age... likely. But more possibly emotional maturity coupled with experiences. Can be had sooner depending. Also, I doubt any of the youngers that plugged back into the matrix had a good role model. And not everyone is Neo. Some are Cypher.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 10:47 PM
2

On feminists an "going too far " . I think the concept of the dialectic applies.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:47 PM
0

If you frame it like she is a helpless child and you dgaf if she feels helped or not... maybe.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:42 PM
2

Apologies are beaten into your programing from an early age. Work on your mental point of origin and take small opportunities to be a dick without saying you're sorry. It feels wrong at first, but gets easier. Ex. I mistakenly cut a line recently... saw what I did when I saw people walk up who were standing there. Focused on dgaf, and at lunch like a boss.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:40 PM
1

Hmm... perhaps use it with other women too around her. That should get the feelz going.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:28 PM
12

This thread just keeps getting better.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:24 PM
14

Alll of you saying it's just a bag don't understand, with women, the medium IS THE message. It's not just a bag.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:32 PM
2

"Psycho killer... run, run away!"
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:29 PM
1

Not bad. I'd read the "sidebar" more than once before I ever came here. Lots of the posters have clearly not read it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 10:29 PM
3

Don't reddit other than here... had no idea there actually was an incels sub.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 10:19 PM
1

Read Practical Female Psychology.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 03:57 AM
5

Lolz. Who wants to put money down on this?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:48 AM
5

Bpd, plus weak fucking, plus weak text after flips her into victim mode. Also, women are like the weather their moods change on a dime.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:14 AM
2

Interesting post. Im trying to keep an open mind. I interacted with TFA at 21 Con. GLO adds a lot of value to TRP, but this post reads like a post that says "that guys not alpha cause he's not ripped... btw hire me to make you alpha."
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:53 AM
1

Go away looks posts. Go away.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 11:09 PM
4

Cool review. I was there and probably met you. Agree with most of your review. Yeah, The Dark Triad Man is a pimp.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:05 AM
1

Sort of wonder who the guys are that up vote this. This post makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 07:41 PM
19

Not sure if you understand oxy vs. dopamine.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 03:06 AM
1

I concur, doctor do you concur?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:03 PM
7

First, use paragraphs. Second, I think you are combining several things that are distinct and giving it one label. Women talk, men do, so I concur with your advice to not just sit around and talk about your feelings. Bro out, be a man with man friends and create something. If emotions and growth are discussed it's a good thing, BUT not the point.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 02:55 PM
18

Worked hard to cut processed sugars over the last year or so. Can concur with OP.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 02:50 PM
2

What is the name of said post?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 01:21 AM
1

Uh... wait a minute... a sexual strategy sub reddit for men is 80% about getting pussy? Omfg!
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 01:38 AM
116

Makes sense. My ex wife literally told me she felt like I was just someone else she needed to keep happy.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 01:19 AM
19

Perhaps the reason the ones you didn't want came home with you was because you didn't care? Thinking out loud here.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 10:40 PM
1

As a divorced father of 4... I walk away. I love my kids, but would also love to have the last 10 years back with what I know now. I, of course, did not know what I know now 10 years go... so I play the ball as it lies.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 10:33 PM
1

So... next you are going to tell me only looks matter...
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 05:20 PM
0

Didn't read, but respect for standing up for yourself about your writing. #NOspeakie
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 01:30 PM
4

Go read up on r v k and op. Also, your post makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 03:46 PM
2

Did this. Have kids from my failed blue pill marriage. I love my rug rats, but am happy to be free going forward. FULLY INTEND to take advantage of baby rabies crazies.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 09:19 PM
12

So happy I got a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 10:27 PM
1

Women are dopamine addics. Variety triggers dopamine. That simple. Af/bb is still true too.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:37 PM
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OP needs to sort himself out. Google "self authoring program" and get going on it .
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 11:24 PM
8

My guess is, aside from oneitis, the idea of another man porking "your girl" triggers nausea due to the posibilty he may empregnate her and you end up loosing your chance to leave behind a copy of yourself... a prime genetic directive.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 12:09 AM
1

Almost done with a 36 hour fast. Something something jucy burger? Anyone want to fill me in as I didn't quote get it? Tl;dr.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 01:12 PM
2

Really? You willing to speak the truth to a 70k+ employee company and endure what he is going through? I really hope your comment is sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:06 PM
1

Having a group of men to emote to is so key. I have a few guys that i can reach out to. Men process emotions differently and can both hold each other up and kick each other in the balls as needed.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 04:41 PM
1

Yes. I essentially fell apart as well. There is a deep amount of codependency that comes along with blue pill. And yeah. I agree , be the rock. Don't pretend.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 04:15 PM
1

This is absolutely the truth. My ex wife started shit testing me and my blue pill reaponse was to open up emotionally. Be vulnerable to other men. Women will run if you fall apart.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 04:10 PM
3

Not saying a woman can't manipulate or has children for specific self-serving motivations. AWALT and all, but to view having children as a hypergamic third stool leg is cynical. I'll think on your theory a little more though.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 01:28 AM
5

I find this theory a little on the cynical side... passing on your genetics is a biological imperitive.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 12:25 AM
1

Huh... that one I don't ever see myself enjoying.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:54 AM
1

During my co-dependendent blue pill marriage that ended a year ago my ex wife would tell me "sometimes I just want to be taken" . The blue pill version of me didn't understand that at all. We did some kinky stuff sometimes though. Thing is she didn't say I "abused" her or had an "unhealthy" sex life until the light switch flipped and she stopped respecting and admiring me... aka "I never loved you".
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:52 AM
1

One theme I have been contemplating lately is Descriptive vs. Prescriptive. If you are viewing MHN from a prescriptive perspective I can see how you would come to OP's view. I have always viewed MHN and similar as descriptive. When viewed as such it becomes much easier to see how you can move up and down rapidly and even coexist paradoxically on different levels depending on your experience.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 03:11 PM
2

I'm new here, and don't have lots of field experience, but I agree, LMR, you backed down so she kept escalating resistance levels. Decent to not let yourself get stuck in FZ. Also, you're learning so study up on LMR and push pull next time. Close it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:21 PM
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