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What is this source? It sounds like a high school student wrote it. Do we have any actual cited facts from the case? Is there a secondary article verifying that any of this happened? I'm all for pointing out injustices, but this just sounds made up, or at best, extremely unprofessional journalism.
/r/MensRights31/10/15 04:32 PM
3

What does this have to do with Men's Rights? This is just about a woman somewhere who lied. Edit: Thank you all for your thoughtful responses.
/r/MensRights24/09/15 02:34 PM
7

You've literally posed a hypothetical question to yourself, and then got angry about the hypothetical answer that you came up with. That's ridiculous. I am 100% supportive of men's rights, and I think that you came to the conclusion you did based on the kind of sexism (against men) that you have experienced in your past. I'm not accusing you of making a false projection with your assumptions, I'm simply saying that maybe we should deal with problems in REALITY, instead of inventing more to be pi…
/r/MensRights08/08/15 03:12 PM
2

I see your point, and I agree with you. I'm just saying, don't alienate your allies by telling them there aren't enough of them. Things are definitely changing, and I'm certain that, even with a long way to go, we can achieve something resembling equality for everyone.
/r/MensRights25/05/15 02:30 AM
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I truly do think you are underestimating the amount of moderate feminists that exist in the world, and on this site. I would consider myself one of these people and I completely agree with everything /u/LastArmistice said. It's possible that you've completely made up the idea of 5% because your personal experiences have led you to believe that, rather than any statistical facts. Just be careful how much weight you put into that belief.
/r/MensRights25/05/15 02:03 AM
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I think that's a bit unnecessary considering I withdrew my initial response, which was hasty, but at the time made a lot more sense. Common man, be nice. Also, I'm not quite sure I understand your use of the word, "brigading". I've never heard it outside of military talk and I'm curious how it applies.
/r/MensRights10/04/15 06:40 PM
1

When I originally commented, she was at -3 and there was no discussion to be seen. I'm glad things have picked up and both directions are being discussed. I'm certainly an MRA supporter, you can check my history. I just thought, at the time, that things were way lop-sided and I was trying to show my solidarity with the poster being downvoted. No hate. Continue on.
/r/MensRights10/04/15 06:07 PM
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The voice of reason and logic does not belong in this particular thread, I'm afraid. Ignore it and move along. There are a lot of MRAs who have a deeper and fuller understanding of gendered issues, but they aren't here!
/r/MensRights10/04/15 03:05 PM
3

When I first heard about this I was really disappointed that they didn't include more variety in the situations in terms of women being perpetrators/ men being victims. I don't think the concept is total shit, but it really is just one side of the story; and it's a side of the story that's most popular to tell. I hope that someone rebuttals with a similar video, with opposite gender roles. Looking past that for just a second, the concept that a bystander is helping the perpetrator is a very powe…
/r/MensRights07/03/15 11:21 PM
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Hmm. I'm really sorry about your experiences with trying to collaborate. That really sucks. I, too, have run into feminists who just don't seem to give a shit about false accusations and it's astonishing, as you say. These people are not worth collaborating with, because, you're right, there is no common ground. However! It is true that there are people out there who are certainly willing to see both sides equally (however they identify themselves) and I think that those people are the ones who …
/r/MensRights06/02/15 04:52 PM
2

It's interesting to me how the feminist side of this is trying to protect actual victims of rape from being told they made the story up when they didn't. There is a real problem with people not believing actual victims, and claiming that they were 'asking for it' based on their clothing or whether or not they were alone, or drunk/intoxicated etc. Here, in MRA, we have to fight to defend the accused because simply being accused of a crime does not merit a guilty association automatically. Essenti…
/r/MensRights06/02/15 04:03 PM
5

I think your biggest mistake is lumping all people who identify as "feminists" into your definition of the word. Yes, there are feminists who hate, who don't represent me, and who have used the word, it's history and it's members to do things that others in the group do not agree with. Largely, this is beside the point because you have something in common with ME and I have identified myself as a feminist. You and I want many of the same things, including the elimination of sexism, and a better …
/r/MensRights04/02/15 09:11 PM
14

Hi there, I'm both a feminist and a MRA, or an egalitarian I suppose, but I frequent both subreddits. I enjoy getting both perspectives, and I have certainly learned a lot from this sub (having only known the women's side of sexism). I appreciate it's existence, and I think more people should hear the other side of the story. I often find, however, a lot of women bashing, and a lot of people posting ridiculous things just to pick fights and have something to say. This definitely happens with the…
/r/MensRights04/02/15 06:41 PM
6

This is an extremely poorly written article with no actual facts of the case discussed. It's hard to form an opinion one way or the other based solely on this source.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 04:24 AM
0

What if you just asked, "Can I help you/ Do you need help/ Is there something I can do for you?". If they don't want your help, that's their prerogative. If they do, well it's wonderful that you've managed to be in the right place at the right time. It's fine if they don't want your help. It's also a shame that you've had negative experiences while trying to do a good thing. I have a limited understanding of what it's like to be a man, because I'm not one, but I hope you find a way to be the per…
/r/MensRights26/07/14 09:14 PM
1

Did the original survey include a section on "not going to war at all"? I'm genuinely curious, not just being devil's advocate. I think that these situations are really difficult to read into from a purely gendered perspective. I'm certain there are many other factors that come together to create the results we see here.
/r/MensRights21/06/14 10:01 PM
1

What's the evidence for that claim?
/r/MensRights21/06/14 09:52 PM
1

Alternatively, it could show simply that women don't want to go to war, so they are against women being included in the draft. Is there evidence for or against this?
/r/MensRights21/06/14 05:28 PM
2

Fair. I meant they were the same in that they were automatic, acceptable insults to throw out at each gender that are never corrected by by-standers.
/r/MensRights18/05/14 11:24 AM
1

The label "creep" is to men what "crazy" is to women. I think that's interesting.
/r/MensRights17/05/14 01:45 AM
17

Apparently for facilitating t-shirt wearing.
/r/MensRights20/09/13 09:52 PM
0

Can you expand? Because I don't understand your point or it's relevance to my response.
/r/MensRights07/07/13 06:23 PM
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Hopefully he will be more cautious in the future and not put himself in that position again, or at least try to be certain the the friend is trust worthy. I am always certain my friends are trustworthy. Until the day they aren't. And who can tell what will happen on that day. I agree that people need to take responsibility for their own safety, but, by the same token, people need to take responsibility for being a rapist. I think that people are misinterpreting the new wave of anti-victim blamin…
/r/MensRights07/07/13 06:15 PM
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I have no idea what just happened there.
/r/MensRights14/04/13 07:43 PM
182

Your title is antagonizing, which won't help, but I like the poster.
/r/MensRights14/04/13 07:32 PM
1

You've misunderstood me. I'm not attempting to explain why women hit, I'm attempting to explain why they get away with it.
/r/MensRights14/04/13 04:36 PM
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Agreed. I'm simply pointing out that people (en masse) make those rationalities when women are the aggressors. It means that ALL women are weak small and subservient, and ALL men are not. It's putting gender in categories and forcing them to stay there. It's what has allowed women to get away with violence for so long.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 09:11 PM
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Just to add to conversation, women have been 'given' that licence to hit by being projected as weak, small and subservient. This idea is centuries in the making. Violence committed by women should not be condoned or dismissed any more because it "doesn't hurt", was a "girly punch", or because she attacked someone bigger and stronger than her. I suppose I'm trying to say that the dismissed violence perpetrated by women is (partly) due to the long-standing notion that women can't hurt anyone becau…
/r/MensRights13/04/13 08:46 PM
1

Agreed. And I do my best!
/r/MensRights04/04/13 08:51 PM
2

Ok I understand. So what do you propose?
/r/MensRights04/04/13 08:37 PM
5

I agree with you completely. And I will tell you, that I spend equal amounts of time defending it as I do questioning it, fighting it, changing it, and disregarding it. I trust you to take that same stance with your position as a MRA.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 08:28 PM
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You and I will have to agree to disagree because, while I don't necessarily think you are wrong, I think you are pointing a finger at a large group of people who mostly have nothing to do with this. And while I respect that you are free to feel your feelings and have your opinions on the matter, I think that blame, in any respect, is useless in achieving your goal. I think you are alienating a strong and useful ally by holding on to that blame, because not all feminists are like that, and they c…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 08:03 PM
1

I think the reason I'm so steadfast on holding onto my feminist title is because that negative connotation is so strong, and in my opinion, so wrong. So thank you for hearing me out, because I certainly appreciate it. And I'm sorry for what you've had to go through, and I hope that over time we can create a society with as little of that as possible. Have an upvote! For peace, an' shit.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 07:20 PM
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I don't readily have any proof to either discredit or substantiate your claims, but I understand your point through sheer observation of society. I'm still not sure feminism as a movement is what you are against, or if it's the radical, misguided feminists who seem to be working at a level that the common person isn't privy to. Those women (and sometimes men) do not represent the movement as a whole. And I think it's detrimental to blanket all feminists in with a group that is clearly supporting…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 07:06 PM
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I just wanted to say as a feminist (and MRA) that it was difficult to read the article without being defensive at first, but that in the end, I agreed with a lot of what was said. I do believe that sexual aggression, both from men and women, should be treated equally. Women especially need to keep in check when they are exhibiting behaviors that they would deem inappropriate for a man to do. On the other hand, we can all use a real chill-pill and really assess if we're being sexually harassed, o…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:38 PM
2

I agree!! I'm sorry for what you've gone through, and I'd like to be clear that I find humour in the "man cold" of sniffles and headache and whining like it's the end of the world (men and women are both guilty of this, I just think men are funnier). I would never laugh in the face of someone who is actually suffering through an illness. In no way is that funny.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 06:48 PM
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Hm, I'm a woman so I've never been on that side. But I've also never actually made fun of anyone who was sick. I especially wouldn't gang up on them to make them feel worse about it. I just think the sentiment of the joke is funny.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 06:48 PM
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IMO the author has read WAY too far into the joke that is the "man flu", missing the point entirely. And that the concept of the "man flu" itself is actually hilarious. I understand that it doesn't represent all men, or even many men... it's just funny. I hope we don't lose our sense of humour about these kinds of things, because they really don't matter.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 03:15 PM
2

Both my prof and her assistant approached me and told me I was wrong, and when I got flustered in defending myself, they told me it was "ok to do badly on presentations" and that I would make up the grade on another assignment. I cried because I was frustrated about not being able to get through to them about a well-researched and thought out point of view, and because it was our first teachers college assignment and I had clearly flunked it. In the end, it didn't really affect my mark, but teac…
/r/MensRights21/03/13 03:31 PM
7

I did a presentation once about an article discussing violence against women. I made the argument that we should be advocating for violence against human beings because violence isn't a gender issue, it's a people issue. Anyway, I failed and ended up crying in the bathroom, but many of my peers saw my point so at least there was that. Be prepared to defend your stance. Defend it well, with understanding, integrity, and honesty. This happened at teachers college in Ontario, which was actually qui…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:48 PM
3

I would avoid the phrase "anti-feminism" as it might set a negative tone to the paper. You can certainly pose arguments that are anti-feminist (which is clearly encouraged), but I wouldn't suggest actually using that phrase. You want people to make connections and understand your arguments on a personal level, so pull them in your direction by first establishing common ground. women don't have it bad at all these days? Knock it off. We all have it bad. It's expressed differently according to gen…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:40 PM
6

It was patronizing, sexist and redundant.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:14 PM
8

It's best to ignore this kind of bullshit. It's just sensationalized, made-up shit to get people going. We know it's not true, we know it's not accurate. And those who believe it to be are too thick-headed to get through to anyway. Both genders do this; it's not a feminist thing, or a MRM thing, it's a stupid person thing.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 04:07 PM
6

This photo was clearly taken DECADES ago when it was likely far more relevant. The only relevance this has today is that it may inspire women (and possibly others) to reflect on past struggles with equality, and to continue pushing for what they consider their right to equality. OP is picking gender fights with this post and it is ANNOYING.
/r/MensRights09/03/13 08:38 PM
1

I hope you understand that by holding onto that opinion so unrelentingly, you are responsible for keeping the war going.
/r/MensRights10/02/13 02:54 AM
1

Now I can't decide if I want to be real, or not a thundercunt. Fuck me, right? Sarcasm aside, I would like it if you liked me. Or the idea of me and other feminists/people like me. Because we exist and are trying to bridge a gap that others have created.
/r/MensRights09/02/13 11:54 PM
1

You are disregarding the use of the word SOMETIMES in that sentence. One of those times is right now, this post. There are times when this is not the case, and I am right there with you in the fight. The only way to stop them is to make feminism a dirty word? In my opinion, that's a childish approach. Be greater than the misguided/bigoted/ idiotic "feminists" by not being any of those things, and stand your ground proudly. You will find more people behind you that way, I assure you. None of this…
/r/MensRights09/02/13 11:43 PM
1

I never implied that you should stop fighting legitimate hypocrisy, hate and discrimination. In fact, I specifically stated that I was 100% in support of that fight. My point here is solely that OP is creating an argument with this post that didn't actually exist. It is entirely possible that the woman in this photograph (or women like her) are against double standards in any form. You are creating an unnecessary divide when you see things in their most negative light.
/r/MensRights09/02/13 01:58 AM
1

I would agree, if what 'feminism' meant was something along the lines of "WE HATE MEN", and that people joined that group in order to be seen in that light, but that's just not true. Feminism, at its roots, is based in equality for both genders, and you will find that there are many like myself who truly believe that. I associate myself with feminism for that reason. It's a real shame that people have ruined it, but aim your frustrations at those who actually deserve it.
/r/MensRights09/02/13 12:00 AM
10

THANK YOU! I 100% support mens rights (I'm a woman). Some things I have read in this subreddit have really resonated with me, and encouraged me to think differently. But sometimes it can seem like fights are being picked instead of battled. What's IRONIC is a mensrights activist discriminating against all feminists for discriminating against men. Finding common ground and some degree of benefit of the doubt could go a long way.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 09:54 PM
2

Right here! And I can't be the only one. I ain't that special. To clarify, I'm not disagreeing with OP, I'm simply saying that not all feminists are like that, and those who are, are doing it wrong.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 06:23 PM
1

I think they are misusing the word "feminist". It's not about female power and dominance, it's supposed to be about equality. I'd hate to see the gender war continue just because some people, even a LOT of people, have been misusing that word, and choosing hate over compromise. There are plenty of feminists who are the kind of people who really do want to talk. Nicely.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 05:05 AM
0

I think it’s evident that the intent here is to provide unbiased precautionary advice to anyone (likely a woman) who may be feeling threatened/afraid/uncomfortable. I also think it’s really unfortunate that men have to go around feeling like perverts and felons at every turn. As a woman, I can only imagine how frustrating that is. But, as a woman I can tell you that it comes from a place of fear, not malice, that these accusations are made. I suppose what I’m trying to get at, is that this scena…
/r/MensRights22/10/12 03:04 AM
-1

Oh good, something new to fight about.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 04:28 PM
4

I agree, but it's the same way a woman dressed in a (sexy) maid's uniform turns men on by presenting herself as submissive to you. It can certainly be seen as degrading, but it is also an acceptable sexual fantasy in which both sexes partake.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 07:18 AM
0

Thank-you for bringing this up. This is not a gender issue, it is a violence issue.
/r/MensRights16/02/12 08:55 PM
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rogersmith25 is right though, that sort of sexism undermines the movement because now people think you're just a bunch of angry men lashing out and blaming women for their own rapes. It is not how you want to represent mensrights. We should be looking for common ground, not getting over-heated and spewing out disgusting insults. It is the same reason many people don't take feminism seriously; some feminists have lost their way and will make a passionate argument over any tiny detail, blaming men…
/r/MensRights27/01/12 06:19 PM
4

Not all women/feminists blame all men for the discrepancy in male vs female political candidates. It is a societal problem that women feel/believe that they should not/ cannot run for office. This society is made up of both men and women who hold various beliefs about the successes and competencies of women running for office. There is a notable difference between the number of males who run, and the number of females who run. There is a reason for this, so please do not ignore it. This problem,…
/r/MensRights27/01/12 08:19 AM
5

I am saying I thought these things in various contexts in various relationships with males. I can't really apologize to every person who I have insulted or offended by simply not thinking before acting. I was never a hypocrite in the obvious way, as it may sound by the rant, but I certainly have held all of the beliefs above at some point in time and am recognizing that it is just plain ridiculous. For example, one day I would assume my male partner would pick up the check, but on another day I …
/r/MensRights16/01/12 09:00 PM
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As a woman, I'd like to apologize for a few things. I'm sorry that I ever demanded chivalry, but yelled at you for 'patronizing me' by doing my heavy lifting. I'm sorry that I ever simultaneously expected you to pick up the check, but insisted that I be respected as a breadwinner. I'm sorry that sometimes I whined and complained about the existence of 'women and children first' as if we were weak and vulnerable, but then scowl at you for not giving me your coat when I'm cold. While it is certain…
/r/MensRights16/01/12 08:18 AM
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