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BingBongBashBoom/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/19 11:44 PM
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Fully aware of regression to the mean. Not looking forward to it, but prepared for it as much as I can.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:43 AM
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Maybe. She's tried a few times in the past. I've gotten this far. Hope to make things even better. But we all know women try and blown frames down. I mean what are shit tests afterall?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:42 AM
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Dude I wish you only the best. I hope things work out better than anyone thinks possible. I'll check out your post soon. But do you happen to have a link real quick? Otherwise I'll try and find it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:41 AM
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To you, what is the difference between negotiating desire and setting expectations? I believe I set expectations. Previously, I was negotiating desire. I'm not sure you understand the difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:40 AM
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She's not trying to find a way out. I hope you don't have someone who's trying to find a way out on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:39 AM
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I've got a life apart from my wife. But I do enjoy spending time with my family.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:37 AM
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Never threatened to take away her paycheck, or lifestyle. Offered to stick around and we could co-parent. I told her that if she was done with me then be done and go elsewhere. Maybe you don't approve of that tactic. But it's what I did and I'm happy with the results so far. Therefore the field report. Maybe I've got some dynamite. Maybe I haven't used it much before. But who consistently uses dynamite? I hope I don't have to often. And if it blows up, at least now I have more experience with dy…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:35 AM
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Sounds like you're asking me what I'm wearing.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:31 AM
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Nice dream man. Hope you never have to deal with the reality.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:30 AM
1

BetaBarbells
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:30 AM
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Nothing's permanent. I'm going to try and build on what we've got. And yes, I'm paying her bills. Like a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:28 AM
3

I know about hysterical bonding. I knew about it before I did the "nuke" thing. I even mentioned it in my post above. Go oak yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:27 AM
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Man, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I'm really trying to avoid the affair.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:25 AM
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You guys are so weird with the stats stuff. And it's not fear. I believe it's "dread" and highly endorsed here from what I've read.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:24 AM
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I'm not sure I even gave an ultimatum. I basically said she can start having sex with other people. If she's done with me, then just be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:22 AM
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Dude, I did not threaten to take resources away. I said I'd stick around and co-parent. We can still live together. All this projection is very interesting here, reading things that were never typed and only appeared in your brains.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:21 AM
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I'm celebrating even a small victory. It feels good. And I think it can be a step in the right direction. But I'll keep vigilant and move the pedestal down or bring mine higher. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:06 AM
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Glad I could provide some quality cringe for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:03 AM
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I like the cool shit idea :) And I hope things stay exciting and only get better. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:57 AM
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Grunt. Read. Side. Bar.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:55 AM
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Dude, never said my wife is physically stronger than me. But she may be stronger than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:27 AM
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You may be right man.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:25 AM
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Thanks man, I super appreciate the positive vibes. I do desire my wife. Why wouldn't I? She's the mother to my kids. I've spent 15 years with her. I do want to make it work. You're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:25 AM
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Thanks man for the well wishes. I realize I've got a lot of work to do. So does my wife. So do my kids. We'll keep on pushing forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:22 AM
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Yea, but mommy is the only mommy to my kids dude. Grow up.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:21 AM
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Never said I think this is permanent. Even the title says (for now). You guys really enjoy projecting the worst and interjecting your own insecurities in words that were never typed. Only thought by you when you read them.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:21 AM
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Thanks man, I realize I need to live here now. Just gotta remind myself often and keep my foot on the gas as they say. I feel like I might as well thank you guys even for a small victory. I realize the "war" is not over. But when is it ever over?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:19 AM
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Lots of projection there man. Never typed the word retard or idiot. Your wife spanking skills have been ego validated.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:18 AM
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Hey RedRanger207, I'm grateful for your thoughts here. Thank you. I'm not sure that I really care about negotiating desire right now, as I'm feeling like it doesn't matter. Why doesn't it matter? Because at this point it feels like setting expectations rather than negotiating. I would do that with a new woman if it came to that now. So instead I'm treating my current wife like I would treat a new woman. (Or as close as I can.) Basically, I expect to not be turned down for sex. I expect to have a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 01:52 AM
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I really appreciate the overall wisdom and advice that the red pill community brings. In the comments here, you guys seem super jaded and angry. I get it, but it surprised me. I'm happy with my results right now. I know they may not be permanent. But I mean, neither is a max lift in the gym if you don't keep working out. I may be wrong, but I do feel like things are taking a significant turn for the better and this can be a jumping off point to an improved relationship. Better results than I thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 12:58 AM
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