BingQiiLing Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	is your goal one woman or multiple? After two failed relationships (one very long and one short) I think talking to one woman at a time is overrated. Ideally I’d like to have a rotation/ be dating 2-3 at one time. I’m speaking explicitly for the dating stage though. I have zero desire to be in a poly relationship.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 11:54 AM
2	What do women mean when they say they want a confident man? To help other young men not make the same mistake I did.	/r/seduction	04/07/22 12:56 AM
1	What do women mean when they say they want a confident man? Probably	/r/seduction	04/07/22 12:56 AM
6	What do women mean when they say they want a confident man? You’re asking Reddit for what confidence look like? That’s your first mistake. Get the ever living fuck off reddit, social media, and the internet. You won’t find your confidence here.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 02:55 PM
22	What do you do when a woman questions your manliness? I always agree. If you get mad or try to fight it you’ll look like a bigger bitch.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:06 AM
1	Girl keeps snapping me. You could also just ask her to help you. It sounds like you have nothing to lose at this point. Also if her snap score is that high and she is as beautiful as you say, then she is most definitely snapping several other men. Just say fuck it and ask her for help.	/r/seduction	02/07/22 11:28 AM
53	Just got absolutely rejected Take it as a blessing and a sign brother. You don’t need to impress someone who clearly doesn’t deserve your respect. She’s an asshole.	/r/seduction	02/07/22 11:05 AM
3	I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pub Is there a TV around? Talk about what’s on that. Is there a song playing that you know about? Talk about that. Is she wearing something that strikes you as interesting? Talk about that. As long as you don’t shower her in compliments like she’s a goddess, or talk about yourself incessantly, then you’re really free to talk about anything. Honestly don’t even say a word about how good/sexy she looks until you’ve began flirting. I’ve always said it doesn’t matter what you say to a girl, If she likes…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 07:36 PM
12	Never had a hookup in college. Need advice before senior year Simple. You don’t. It either happens or it doesn’t. Life will continue either way Good luck. -A guy who only got one shitty lay in college	/r/seduction	18/06/22 03:05 AM
5	How do I stop being a virgin loser? We’ll just from your second sentence I can tell that even you yourself see your own potential. Try to accept the fact that you are an anxious awkward individual. Own it. And still go out and talk to girls despite it. You will embarrass yourself and you’ll have several nights where you’ll cry from frustration. That’s all ok, brother. It’s ok to fail and it’s ok to not be the best at being social. What is not ok is calling yourself a loser for it and giving up. Don’t ever fucking do that part. Sto…	/r/seduction	17/06/22 08:41 PM
5	strangers in crowded bars You gotta be drunk.	/r/seduction	28/05/22 10:57 PM
1	It's depressing to me that oral is much less performed on women than it's performed on men and not because of male selfishness, but because men don't value female genitalia. Unfortunately for women, both those things you said at the end are true for most men out there. What’s even worse is that a majority of men lack the sexual experience to even know what the problem is. I personally love “eating out” and enjoy face sitting even more. It’s almost preferable to receiving. I will admit though this is mostly because of my fetishes. Not all men have to be cat eaters. You just need to find that one who does it well :)	/r/seduction	26/05/22 01:33 AM
2	My experience as a 20m y/o college student with over 60 partners in less than 3 years. Maybe I just have a skewed perception from so much OLD and the fact that I haven’t had any sort of genuine affection for years now. Thanks for the reply, stranger	/r/seduction	24/05/22 03:27 PM
3	My experience as a 20m y/o college student with over 60 partners in less than 3 years. Good for OP, but anyone who thinks he is not a major outlier is either in the same position as OP or lying to themselves. I spent my college years completely invisible to women despite “faking it till I make it” and going out to parties trying to meet people. Not even dating apps worked. I was 5’9 sitting at 160 pounds. So I wasn’t fat. Possibly just painfully average. Better advice for my brothers out there is to ignore your sexual desires and just work on yourself physically, spiritually, and …	/r/seduction	24/05/22 10:47 AM