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And this isn't even 50/50. I had an electric bill way higher than my rent when things were messed up in my house last summer. How is asking someone to cover that big of a utility THAT YOU BOTH USE a fair ask. Additionally, it would not surprise me if she bought a lot of groceries and cooked. Did laundry. All these things that enable to be stress free that you'd have to pay someone to do or do yourself otherwise . I had a roommate once and we were looking for housing. Didn't have to look long. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:15 AM
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You're gonna stroll into 2021 and be surprised at how little you care in a couple of weeks. I've been with people like this and they used to have a more profound effect on me but now I'm just surprised at how easy it is for me to get the mourning out and care less. Right now it's just that post breakup yoyo feelings of questions and anger but once that's exhausted, you'll probably only be left with relief and then nothing towards them. I had ADHD and learning what RSD was taught me that I don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:10 PM
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It's honestly gotten to the point where it unnerves me when they seem to take a vested interest in the conversation . IMHO, this can be a great thing when it means that they value a person regardless of the dating aspect . However,some have become experts in taking this in the beginning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:03 PM
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I've been thinking about sunk cost a lot lately. Wasn't until I saw this that I even considered it applying to past relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:33 PM
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" Anyway, despite not being interested in her romantically or sexually, she asked me out last month. I was shocked, but I said yes. We've been dating for 3 weeks now and everything is going great, except we haven't had sex yet. I tried to have sex with her, but she said it was too soon. This made me a bit upset because I can't help but wonder how many men she had casual sex with when she was in her prime (18-30)." Omfg. I'd say this couldnt be real but who the fuck knows anymore ? I recently tri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:41 AM
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Wow. Similar to kind of what led me here. There was nothing I could do about it and the more I reminded myself of the fact that I literally need no one in my life who would entertain that shit or believe it , the easier it got. It still is a little hard at times, but it helped having just one person believe me. Our last phone call, he literally called me just to unleash holy hell on me and throw every single trigger I had in my face, ending it with a creative instruction on how to end it. He wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:27 AM
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Yeah my first love and I drove to the city an hour away to go to Olive Garden. It wasn't a holiday, he just wanted to take me on a nice date. He was a few years older than me and this was a first time thing for me. He showed up with flowers in nice pants , shoes and shirt. He opened the doors for me. It was nice getting away for a bit and talking all evening. It was nice....but I ALSO was 17 and this was an adventure for someone from a small town. Our first Valentine's, I was 18 and he picked me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:26 AM
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😁😆 let's be honest, it's leagues above actual McDonalds or a drive through Italian restaurant, but it isn't actually that good. Most chains are just aggressively mediocre and definitely not anything to write home about. Our small hometown got one not too long ago and people about lost their minds. My dad , who was a hermit for the last 20 years, started going to eat there in person. I'm happy it broke him out of his shell, but it's funny that it was an olive garden that did it . That said, if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:14 AM
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I wonder if we know the same person 😆 My ex from a decade ago knocked up some chick my best friend went to high school with. As such, she had a front row seat to the show. I had completely forgotten this until one day she sent me a screenshot of post the young woman had made and said "what the fuck??" They had a kid the same gender less than a year after the first. She had a baby shower 2 hour drive from most of their friends and family. She was so upset that only 8 people had showed up and proc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 02:46 AM
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....and then you spend the next few years apologizing for existing. Random acquaintance: hey, how are you ? Response: Oh, I'm cold . I'm sorry. Acquaintance: Dafuq? Why are you apologizing? Response: I don't know . I'm sorry. facepalm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:50 AM
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I kind of hate this month. It's damned if you do, damned if you don't. I didn't even realize it was close to Valentine's day until I saw all of these posts. I've been chatting with this guy and it isn't anything to mention other than the fact that he asked me out this weekend and I said I had other plans. He's fine . He knows how to dial the phone. Hes nice enough. He can hold an intelligent conversation and even present a challenging debate which I find enticing. I'm just not sure I'm ready for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:14 AM
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So live with chronic pain after a few spine surgeries that gave me arachnoiditis. I'm used to pain. I can usually manage it or look like I am. I don't know how many times I've been dismissed though. I was sent home from spine surgery undermedicated one time and my doctor sent me back to the hospital. I sat there obviously in pain but not making too big of scene. They pumped me full of enough meds to knock out a horse and I'm still sitting there awake with my blood pressure through the roof bc...…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:07 AM
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Yes. I have two guy friends that I've been close with for years . One is a guy I met when I was 17. Nerdy over the top dude who just honestly took care of me during a really hard time after losing someone I loved. Never crossed any boundaries. Let me be a mess. Solid dude. He introduced me to his friend eventually to try and set us up. I was annoyed that my coffee was ruined by this random dude. He chased. I caved. I dated him for 3 years. First love. Whatever. After we broke up, original friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:12 AM
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💥 I definitely get it . I'm a newbie as well. Haven't been in anything serious in years, but found myself still being controlled and manipulated by even "friends." It got crazier than with people I've actually had sex with. After a couple of weeks of feeling sad, confused and drained that someone could speak to me or treat me like such trash, I finally snapped. I burned the bridge in a pretty permanent way. He still tried to message me from a different service ...but I didn't entertain it. I did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:14 AM
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Setting the bridge on fire and dumping the only bucket off water off the cliff. Your words =setting it on fire so they know they shouldn't come back. Dumping the bucket = blocking so they can't worm their way back. I get that feeling . Your life is going to be a lot more peaceful without the anxiety of waiting around for someone to use you or treat you like crap. It feels good to burn those ties. Edit: grammar. I'm tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:04 AM
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I'm laugh crying at this. I was joking with my internal monologue that I should probably put on an OLD profile, "Strengths: I'm really great at being the woman you meet before you're with the one you're gonna marry. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:39 AM
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Well, I wasn't diagnosed officially until I was 25. So yeah , you can live with not doing anything about it. You can learn other coping skills to get through the day and figure out stuff on your own. I did ok until college. I was emotional, impulsive, and reckless but I did ok. Or maybe I was just very lucky that the dumb shit I did didn't have any longterm consequences. Eventually though I got to where I couldn't get through ok. Everything was hard and I started having really bad panic attacks.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:34 AM
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Yeah, OP is clearly not dumb . I've seen dumb and I've seen narcissism , and neither looks like a detailed introspective look at one's motivation. Therapy is not a bad word. It can really help us stop thinking ourselves into self-defeating patterns. Also, this does kind of sound like adult ADHD in females but obviously only a mental health professional could say. For me it shows up like , there's a lot I want to do and I'm passionate about but I couldn't focus long enough to do a good job finish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:52 PM
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Yeah ...it only gets worse from there. The non apologies get lazier and then you find yourself talking to a grown ass adult about what normal human emotions and respect look like. Then they stop even fake apologizing. Finally, it gets to the point that you are the one constantly apologizing while they're acting like like a spoiled brat with the emotional maturity of a 2 year old. Here's the thing though : if they recognize enough to know they need to fake apologize, they know they fucked up...th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:09 PM
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