That is simply not your decision to make, and thinking that you have the right to make it for them is, in my opinion, wrong and unjust. Don’t think we will be able to debate this though, it will just be verbal pugilism which won’t benefit either of us nor anyone else reading so I’ll just bid you adieu and wish you well.
They weren’t facts though, they were an expression of your feelings that was based on your incorrect interpretation of what you read, and you haven’t actually debated anything. You are the classic example of playing chess with a pigeon - you just knock over the pieces, shit all over the board, then act like you won anyway. Quite embarrassing.
I haven’t made an excuse about anything. I haven’t made you aware of my opinions on the subject. I haven’t started a debate with you. So you actually don’t know anything about how I feel about what we’re all discussing here. I haven’t said anything about women, or privilege or porn so you’re assuming what I feel because I am a male. That is sexism. What I said was an ad hominem. On you. As a person. Nothing to do with your gender identity or views on this subject. Just the very essence of you, a…