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The one I went to growing up was ran by a old old WW2 veteran. Amazing experience but it closed after he died unfortunately.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 09:04 PM
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My background: I grew up with a beta dad who was there but really didn't give a shit. He didn't teach me anything. Not even how to shave. 1.) I was often told I was "born shy" and it was ok. Fast forward today, I'm very social. For me, calling me "shy" was a excuse for me not having any self esteem or confidence. It gave them an excuse to not even try. 2.) There shouldn't be a "intervention cost" unless you are doing it wrong. Pulling a kid aside and explaining why he shouldn't do xyz shouldn't …
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:34 AM
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I've been in a few poly relationships. Think of it as a different term for plate. It's works out good if you accept that it won't be a LTR (besides being a plate). If you go in with anyother expectations, You're going to have a bad time. If you have any other questions let me know.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:47 PM
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Honestly at this point. Respect his wishes or not. It's not being Alpha or even Beta to refuse. It's just being straight up Bitchy.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 03:39 AM
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Respect his position. Not calling someone sweetie is not a huge deal.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:59 AM
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Hermes from Futurama
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:27 AM
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Ask him what would make him more comfortable with you. I'm not saying change your personality. I'm saying if he says "xyz actions" make me uncomfortable, you need to respect that. If you feel that he's too paranoid to reach an understanding, then the battle is already lost.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:04 AM
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Send one text after the weekend to fish for info. If she doesn't seem interested, let it die.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:54 AM
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Perception is reality. All your actions to him are indicating you want to fuck her. That's is his reality. No, it's not fair. But, you either have to adjust to appease him or expect conflict. Yes, I met one of my current roommates through a dating site. She eventually met someone else(I view her the same way I do my sister) and we all ended up being roommates. Her new bf originally was uncomfortable with me because how we met. I had to sit down with him man to man and explain my intentions and a…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:27 AM
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Keep texting. Observe the response times though. On the 3rd date, be less physical. Let her wonder what's going on and then hopefully she'll start trying for more.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:19 AM
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"I was thinking a date but it can be whatever you want"
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:09 AM
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The mind matters before the body. I know guys with large chest/muscular frames who don't project any sort of command presence or intimidation. But, A muscular guy who will look you straight in the eye? Makes me feel like he's not a guy to fuck with. I'm a linebacker build but people didn't really acknowledge it with any type of respect until I learn eye contact while talking, etc. It was the difference between being treated like a kid and treated like a man
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:06 AM
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Reject girl 1. She's already shown that she'll lose interest. She just wants to feel more wanted than Girl 2. Just stop texting or slowly phase out the conversation.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:53 PM
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Don't read "she likes you" as "she only likes you". Is she taken? Then there's nothing to be jealous of. Go out there and make an effort. Impress her and make it a exclusive relationship.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:46 PM
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Failure and rejection is part of the game. You improve your odds overtime but there will always be rejection. I have found that texting them the same night is best. Start a stupid conversation or something and keep it going. Get your foot in the door before it closes.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:43 PM
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However you wanna view it. Unless you were unaware of bf's existence, you are encroaching on his turf. You can laugh and do the whole "he's a beta!" Spiel. But, you are still on his turf and are asking for a confrontation(verbal or physical). Especially, considering you met on tinder. The fact that he actually messaged you and didn't just bitch to her tell me that he's not a straight up beta.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:33 PM
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Ask if it could get kinky too. Amplify
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:25 PM
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Stop calling her sweetie. I'd even go as far to say stop talking to her. Boyfriend has every reason to be concerned. Either way If you want to fuck her, be straight up with the guy. Don't play the "I was just playing around pouty face" game with him.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:16 PM
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Think if it like this: Even if you never work as a employee again, If you ever want to open your own business you still need people who will vouch for you. Especially in finances.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:04 PM
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Another thing: If you do take the job. Bust your ass. You need good work references if you ever have to fall back into a job.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:50 PM
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Yes. Try to build up a 6 month living expense fund that you never risk betting.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:41 PM
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Take the job. At least build up a small nest egg before you bet for a living. Suffer now and reap the rewards later.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:37 PM
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If it's temporary due to exams, I think that's perfectly fine. Be empathetic but don't let her play victim. Give her space if she wants it. If it's a actual longterm mental condition, decide whether or not it's worth it and act. It does nobody any good for you to stick around if you aren't willing.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:26 PM
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She badmouths you to her coworker. The coworker now dislikes you. A pissed off coworker can do alot of damage. Especially if they were there before you.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:15 PM
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My guess, she's either overweight or a single mom. If you were weak back then, she still views you as weak and possibly a good choice for a ltr. Basically, she's out of options and looking for someone to provide money, emotional stimulation, etc. Run away.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:13 PM
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Only do it if you are willing to risk a consistent paycheck. Look elsewhere or rub one out.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:09 PM
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I've done this a few times. Don't think/act like you are inviting her. More suggest that it would be fun and she should bring friends if they're bored. It not a sure thing, but it has worked reasonably well for me in the past. Just don't frame it as inviting or any type of date.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:04 PM
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So you didn't read the question? I asked how they would play it. I already have a plan. Looking for any tweaking advice instead of assumptions that my life is "shit".
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:41 PM
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This question seems specific to me.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:37 PM
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Did I ask you to plan everything out? No. I asked for fucking advice. If asking for advice is not "red pill", why the fuck does this subreddit exist?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:30 PM
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