BirdmanGSO Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	First Post and [FR]: best night since moving to new city for grad school	Field Report	BirdmanGSO	/r/seduction	17/11/13 09:52 PM

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2	Just about ever girl I talk to says I look really innocent... Is that bad? Do I want that? I dont know if this is along the same lines, but in the past couple days I heard a lady friend of mine who I've had my eye on say that I wasn't enough of a player for her to be attracted to me. "Fine by me" i thought, I've slept with more of your acquaintences/friends/classmates than you know haha. It can be good cover for keeping you out of trouble in a social circle if your play your cards right.	/r/seduction	26/02/14 10:43 PM
6	Dealing with girls that ignore you until you move on? it's a non verbal shit test	/r/seduction	26/02/14 09:54 PM
1	Yes it sucks, but you shouldn't be afraid to tell someone no more, girl or guy, friend or "more-than." This is manipulation. Unlucky. Keep moving jack	/r/seduction	22/02/14 03:19 PM
1	Girls who voluntarily express their 'Haunted Past' or insecurities within the first few (or even very first) dates? can confirm. most recent past experience with this: got the whole story on the first dates after a few drinks and a really great time connecting and laughing. made plans to visit one another a few weeks later (due to geographical logistics). Agreed to split costs of travel. Total nightmare collapse of short relationship with all costs for travel falling on me. Red FLag.	/r/seduction	20/02/14 07:00 PM
8	Small Hands shit test shit test comeback of all time lol! try that, seriously!	/r/seduction	22/01/14 12:56 PM
4	"Putting the pussy on a pedestal." 3 ... best comment in the whole damn subreddit.	/r/seduction	22/01/14 12:54 PM
1	Is the 'why' worth knowing? agree to disagree. My experiences have been to the contrary lol	/r/seduction	29/11/13 02:34 PM
1	Is the 'why' worth knowing? I dont like to disappoint people, and I try to avoid conflict where I can. Not wanting to disappoint someone and avoiding conflict are one thing ... totally not communicating with someone is childish... If someone is coming onto and your not interested, especially after they invested time and energy, you SHOULD tell them.	/r/seduction	28/11/13 01:31 PM
4	Is the 'why' worth knowing? I agree generally with snwborder52 that selfworth has to be priority in order to deal with these kinds of things. But I disagree that describing the behavior of the "snow flake" as childish is devaluing. People who lead other people on during and after they have invested time/money/energy and dont have the balls/ovaries to fess up as to how they feel to the contrary are children. Respectful behavior towards those who are interacting with a person is the mark of an adult human being. Silence in t…	/r/seduction	26/11/13 08:42 PM
4	How do you turn girls that you are not interested in down gently? the same way a confident woman turns down an AFC, "Thanks for the offer but I'm not interested, have a good evening"	/r/seduction	24/11/13 03:14 AM
1	Achievement unlocked, FR f-close of my first (and probably only HB 10.) close with violence? intensity maybe lol?	/r/seduction	22/11/13 11:58 PM
1	First Post and [FR]: best night since moving to new city for grad school sounds good!	/r/seduction	22/11/13 01:52 PM
2	How do you pick up girls at the bar when you're alone? yeah man no worries. I've actually been going out by myself for about the past 6 weeks and that's kind of how I've gotten use to being out. The important thing is to warm up and have been social before you get to where you're going. if you're in any mood other than ready to meet people you've not met before its going to be awkward lol. but other than that, dont worry about being alone. It's actually kind of fun, you don't have anyone nagging or bitching about being somewhere they dont want to be…	/r/seduction	21/11/13 01:42 AM
1	How to become independent of the validation of others? Following off RadianHero ... make a list of things you want to get accomplished: (1) for the day (2) for the week/month (3) year. Get that shit done or as close to done as you can and keep track (by journal or whatever). Get in tune with what you like and what you want to do. The only person who has to appreciate what you are doing in order for you to enjoy it and feel good about it, is YOU.	/r/seduction	20/11/13 09:47 PM
2	How do you pick up girls at the bar when you're alone? going to a place where you would be comfortable w/o the intention of picking up someone always helps. You need to feel comfortable so that you can make approaches. if you aren't a regular somewhere or you're traveling or w/e, try to find an open spot at the bar, and make chit chat with those around you (including the staff!). You should only feel sketchy if you're doing something that's sketchy lol. It is NOT sketchy to have polite or informal conversation with people you dont know, unless they …	/r/seduction	20/11/13 09:19 PM