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Red Pill ExampleBirdoftruth/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 10:14 AM
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Red Pill ExampleBirdoftruth/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:21 AM
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Red Pill TheoryBirdoftruth/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:35 PM
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Field ReportBirdoftruth/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:18 PM
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Ask Red PillBirdoftruth/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:52 AM
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Ask Red PillBirdoftruth/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:30 PM
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Birdoftruth/r/askTRP03/12/14 03:43 PM
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Birdoftruth/r/seduction05/01/13 10:14 PM
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I think it he goes into it once, but the example he uses is with a girl you are already in a relationship with or seeing. If its some random club bitch lashing out on you in anger and is erratic, I cant recall anytime I've turned it around into her loving me, its usually just their disposition for the night and there's so many other girls I just move on to the next one who is going to love me
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:02 AM
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Someone said this once but I agree with them. it's best to go with a 10% rule. If you are getting introduced to a new group, agree with them 90% of the time and disagree 10%. Often times that 10% is enough to warrant respect that you need in a new circle.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 07:11 PM
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I agree man, especially someone else's reality. IMO the only way to have true empathy is to actually have been in a specific situation and have felt the same emotions. Then you know how that person feels. Deducing some facts into understanding why someone would feel a certain way will only go so far.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 10:17 PM
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why would you make a post warning everyone about a drug because you had a bad experience and then not tell everyone what that experience was? Seriously man, I am a veteran user of it and I've never had a bad experience with it aside from taking it with too much Yohiminbe.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 07:01 PM
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''Maxim #13: Calling a girl out on her lie accomplishes nothing.'' Absolutely, She will not care if the facts are litterally connected right in front of her. She is right in her mind or feels justified in someway. Don't tell her how disappointed you are in her or how she lost your trust. It doesnt matter. ''Maxim #13: When the love is gone, women can be as cold as if they had never known you.'' See tomassi's War Bride article. Women develop stockholme syndrome for their next lover. Its an evolut…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:03 PM
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See that is male solipsism too. Or just lacking in empathy or understanding for the female reality.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:38 PM
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The problems is you mentioned grand-kids which presumes one would have kids which TRP has provided no option for. The only options TRP provides do not involve tying yourself to a woman in any legal way which having a kid does indeed do just that.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 08:35 PM
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Seriously, this post broke down the dynamic precisely and really what happens. A lot of times it depends on how early you get out. If she beat into the lowest of lowly betas then you really need to just move on. But if you failed a bunch of shit tests but still had your shit together and the next Chad fucks and chucks her then you may have a chance. Either way, imo you should never get back as I believe its a personal lost on your behalf if you cant move on.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:28 PM
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I second Kaiji Season 1 and Season 2. Its about how to be a fucking winner when it counts.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:49 PM
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"You may think you are charming people with your natural talents, but they are actually coming to hate you" -Robert Greene
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 04:09 AM
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In other words, dont be a blue piller and take her back after she fucked you over
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:13 PM
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no, they do not allow anything they deem harmful to the common health
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:12 PM
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Your closest friends will never get with your girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:45 PM
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do you rmemeber the title of the article? I didn't do quite this, when a plate I had who was somewhat moving from plate to GF status fucked a dude and tried to hide it behind my back I just told her I wasn't exclusive to her anymore. I don't know why but she pretty much flipped her shit when I was honest if she asked me if I fucked any girls recently, I told her I fucked two girls in one week after I told her no more exclusivity. Girls be cray
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:42 PM
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It's frustrating to watch shark tank and see people coming on with a company that already has a year worth of sales and then for a $75,000 loan the sharks want 30-45% of the company. I would never give up that much of my company for that shit. And then I've never seen someone come on that got an offer which did not already have some proven sales secured for their company. It's almost demoralizing.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:08 PM
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The thing is though is that empathy is absolutely necessary to be a skilled machiavellian which requires a narcissist to feel and understand their opponents to aid in decision making.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:20 AM
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How much can you squat man. I've just started squatting and similar height to you and would like a good bench mark ps how long have you been working out?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:52 AM
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What you said can work but IME can can be a bit overkill if all the girl says is something as little as he's cute. I say this because I've had it where the girl saw it as a sign of jealousy by me automatically assuming she wants him. But like you said, it depends precisely on your tonality and where you are coming from Not knowing OP's background. To me its a lot safer to go with something short and sweet and humorous: "Yea I'd fuck him and not pull out" Edit: Just saw /u/Archwinger response, th…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 11:52 PM
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It should be: "Don't Lose" 2nd place is the first loser. No one cares about the losers or those who didn't win. What they care about are results and either you can procure results or you can't. Doesn't matter how. No one cares how many times you failed nor will you ever garner any pity for your failure. In the end, you either won and produced a valuable result. Or you failed and no excuse will make people respect or think any better for your failure.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:30 PM
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Though I never had a girl pull the "you wish" on me. some standard ones you could say that are a little more prosaic than situational witty pressure flips: "You practice that line on all guys don't you" or "Haha you project a lot girl (if she's half smart)" But once you calibrate to certain situations you can be more witty and go beyond the ones I just mentioned. Anytime you make a sexual comment and the girl tries to back out of the frame and force frame you, for instance, you say "Let's get ou…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:17 PM
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I've actually used it in that situation but just talk past it after you say it. Even though it doesn't make sense at a logical level, underneath the hamster she is wondering "what did he mean by that, why did he say that" Truth is there was no rhyme or reason. But confusion and mental dominance is a huge part of seducing a girl. Saying and doing things that oppose one another just feeds into their chick crack man. I personally like the Pressure flip better
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:41 AM
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I could only give the second one an example because I tested it myself to have worked. I've tried other things to a cold response like "I bet you do that to all the guys", "Hey do me a favor girl (point to my mouth) smile!", or just plowing with whatever. All with varying degrees of success. The honesty bit seems to catch them off guard for some reason, like they aren't used to hearing something like that out at night like it interrupts their thought pattern. Who knows. Its worth at try if nothi…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 03:31 AM
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The pressure flip is probably the most effective but challenging response to a girl who is quite the Machiavellian and strong frame. While we often call upon amused mastery to handle situations and indeed humor is a mature ego defense, amused mastery will often set someone who is hostile off in an even more negative down spiral. But if you can stop them in their tracks and get them to become self-conscious with a pressure flip, then you have won. Often times you can combine the pressure flip wit…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:53 AM
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In the wild Alphas are very transient, existing often for as little as 1 day at a time until the next Alpha takes over his spot. Same thing in our modern civilization, the next Chad Thundercock is right around the corner ready to give your girl the tingle she keeps chasing.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:59 AM
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This is what I don't get ab out TRP. Yes it is natural for a woman to feel this way. But anyone who has lived in culture where Christianity is deeply rooted will know that couples work through tough times and God is often the glue that holds them together in these times. Therefore it is possible for women to move beyond their knee jerk reaction.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:23 PM
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Dude please dont fall prey to her talk. This is the hamster talking. Remember, watch what a girl does, not what she says. She will say everything in her god damn mind to get you back, but it will all go right out the window (along with any remaining respect she had for you) once you forgive her and things go back to normal. Anyway man, you know your gut feeling is the thing to trust. I honestly would just cut it off clean without talking to her anymore. It's not a question of if your relationshi…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 01:39 AM
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It is boyish behavior to try to relinquish yourself of such responsiblity. A mature man walks about as a protector of the weak and seeks to make sure those weaker then him are ok.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 02:52 PM
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In Greek Mythology, Cupid (male God of erotic love and desire) told Psyche (the most beautiful mortal woman) she was never to look at Cupid and become aware of his identity for he was a beautiful God and wished this to remain a secret. Psyche's sisters believed she is with a hideous beast as told by the oracle and they convince her to kill him. Well one night she goes to Cupid's palace with candle and knife in hand. She shines the candle onto Cupid in order to kill him in his sleep but instead t…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:36 PM
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I once heard a psychiatrist say that anything becomes an addiction once it impedes other aspects of your life. Therefore if you are only spending 1 hour of your time on video games a day and you still have time to do other things you know you need to be doing then it is not an addiction and your fine. If your blowing 6 hours of your day on WOW and you are neglecting other areas of your life you now have an addiction on your hands and you need to withdraw from it. Replace video games with masturb…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 10:37 AM
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A girls game is to make you think you are her Captain save-a-ho. It is done by various means but usually by boosting your ego which guys are so easy to fall for: "Your cock is so huge" "The sex with you is amazing" "Your so big and strong" And this is just the tip of the iceberg. Theres nothing wrong with a good compliment, but just realize she was telling the guy before you and will be telling the guy after you the exact same things she tells you because feels creates her reality.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:28 AM
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Yup same thing happened to me brother. Solid frame and everything, Great phone sex and real sex blah blah. My constant noted was alcohol, the moment this girl had any sort of alcohol in her she became a raging slut. Without alcohol she was good with her "you're my capn-save-a-ho" woe is me. But with that alcohol chad was quick to pull her.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:22 AM
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amazing words of wisdom. This guy was way ahead of his time and TRP.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:19 PM
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most guys suck in bed im told, have had total party girls become addicted and bond very strongly with me so I almost could not get rid of them They are telling you that not because you are awesome in bed. But because they are trying to boost your ego more to make you feel good and to atleast keep you coming back for more if not tie you down i.e. Girl game. Whenever a girl is attracted to a guy who just plowed her, he becomes the guy who has the biggest cock she's ever seen who gives her the best…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 05:44 PM
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ITs one of the first articles I read on your site and I guess you could say was a gateway article that led me to your other articles. I've actually mindmapped a couple of your articles i.e. the components of Machiavellianism to help me apply your concepts. But I definitely liked it for its completeness and like what you said, distinct examples
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 08:17 PM
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Thank you for acknowledging my constructive criticism. I do understand where you are coming from. I think it is easier for guys with more experience to integrate your knowledge into their life as they understand their thoughts processes and behaviours individual to them. Where new guys are more lost and giving them anything to go off of is better than nothing. Almost like the difficulty of telling a newbie to just "Go natural" when going to pickup girls, versus giving them a routine stack.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:56 PM
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I'm going to be totally real about Illimitable Man's posts. I often get the sense that when I'm reading his posts that I am reading something profound and sophisticated yet well written and understandable. Yet after reading most of his articles I am kind of left asking myself "Ok what next" Like how do I actually take the next step to apply this elegant post that showed a deep understanding of women. I really wish he went more into the applications of his philosophical posts and Machiavellianism…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 01:43 PM
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Could you go more into on why Briffaults law is wrong. Interested to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:11 AM
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Thanks for posting the balanced view of it. What's the most up-to-date consensus agreed book of evo-psy?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:47 AM
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Come on man, but have you personally had experience taking either of these substances for prolonged periods of time. I can only speak from my experience in saying I have never let myself go past 3 days of use and I felt fine. Kratom I've taken 3 weeks in a row and come off fine. That's all I can speak about for myself. But you can't say with a straight face that every single user thinks he can keep the substances away but that they will eventually get to him. The horror stories online are just t…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 06:27 AM
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Then what is a crutch in your definition. Is it just a need for something or perhaps is it something considered bad? Are clothes a crutch because you need to wear them when you go out or else you won't be getting laid? If this is not the case why would clothes not be a crutch but alcohol would be. Do you see the problem with this? Usually the answer that follows this has some sort of moral tag line "Because it's cheating" or "You're not being a man." If you have some sort of different response I…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 06:21 AM
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nice dodge
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:10 PM
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now your just taking the piss man and still down with the shaming nonsense.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:09 PM
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It's unsolicited beta advice. "There is no advantage to these drugs, they are simply short cuts to living with a crutch." Crab bucket beta comment right here. There are several advantages and the people I know who do use them seem to use them intelligently. But that's going off topic. To illustrate what I am saying, Do you think any collegiate athlete who goes from D1 football to the NFL is bothered when hears PEDs is cheating from the others who didn't make it to the NFL? Nope, he took his PEDS…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 04:28 PM
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I've taken it three days in a row but never more because I never gave in and never wanted to risk it. I always take it Friday and Saturday nights though. You're right though man, not everyone can keep shit at bay easily.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 04:16 PM
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Crutch is blue pill terminology. It's feminine shaming cloaked as a moralistic argument. Do you think my friends who pull girls all the time intoxicated gives a fuck about some random beta such as yourself who is stuck in a crab bucket reality. Nope.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 04:14 PM
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Hey man no offense but you're post sounds very puritanical. I am also an avid user of Kratom and Phenibut and I enjoy going on nights out with both in my system. But I also Day approach with nothing in me. I don't need either or both substances, but it does make the nights more fun. Anytime I hear someone say the word "crutch" I immediately thumb my nose. I know guys who have slept with dozens of girls going out drunk (aka normal society), and they are not walking around with an asterisk that sa…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 05:06 PM
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ah the all too prevalent shaming of men's game. The questions game has been in the community for years now and is great.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 08:39 PM
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Thanks man, Ill give those songs a listen
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:59 AM
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Any specific songs I could listen to that details their philosophy?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:18 AM
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black dudes who can nail white girls are regarded as high value among the black dudes. It's embedded in Hip hop culture.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:14 AM
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That can be said about anything. Anytime you have a hammar everything looks like a nail. TRP philosophy, TRP outlook. Feminist philosophy, feminist outlook, etc...
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:51 PM
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do you know why it is that sub attracts that specific userbase?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:06 AM
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Hey pencilneckbrah I don't really understand your comment or how it relates to mine. Would you mine elaborating on it. I think girls can bond from sex yes. But often girls from 18-26 are less likely to get tied down because they are still in the phase where they walked into the candy shop and have only licked the first lollipop without trying all the others so they pass up on the first one. Generally speaking that is.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:57 AM
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Why the hell is 5 the universal numbers all girls tell? 5 now mean 15 in reality. It's like they realize 5 is an acceptable amount so they lie about it. I was dating a girl once who was so adament about telling me her partner count and said it was 5. I know she was full of shit because I laid her so ez on a SNL in 30 minutes. And then another guy boned her really ez over the last winter break. That the 5 number just didn't make sense considering how ez this girl was to lay. She just never unders…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:59 PM
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There is no innocence anyway man. That is nice girl game and a tool to get your commitment. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:35 PM
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I somewhat agree with pencilneckbrah about this but moreso about bsutansalt's comment about self-control. We need to critically think here. It doesn't demonstrate a lack of self-control if indeed they know they are in the stage of their life where they are wanting to "explore their sexuality." They know what they are doing. It is a lack of self-control if they are trying to get in a committed relationship but just keeping fucking every dude on every corner. To me what it demonstrates about the g…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:30 PM
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nope, she was trying to simulate a rape fantasy, so she was attacking me "trying to escape." Yea I didn't really enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:13 PM
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Had my iphone charging on the wall with video record on
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 02:18 PM
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had my iphone charging on the wall with video record on
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 02:17 PM
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The absolute roughest sex I have ever had was with a hardcore feminist journalism major. Me and my friend pulled 2 chicks after the clubs let out from a kebab shop. It was a very persistent pull but essentially once the chick got in she wanted me to slap, choke, and beat her to a bloody fucking pulp. She then goes into my friends room who just fucked her chick and she told him I got too rough and was beating her. Then she comes back and seeks to be dominated again. You damn straight I recorded t…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:10 PM
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I experienced the same in Costa Rica. 1 for 5 Lay approach ratio.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:51 PM
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what happened to chad thunderock shirt
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:25 PM
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"About as lucky as someone catching AIDS"
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:05 PM
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shit breaks down a lot tho.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:58 PM
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To be fair, as a horny player I feel the same way as the girls he is describing. I enjoy fucking around as much as possible to get variety and not to get into a relationship. I guess the key is to just realize girls are doing it too and not get bent out of shape about how they are. Mainly girls 18-26 in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:50 PM
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Definitely, what I've noticed is the quality posts are indeed mostly coming from Vanguards, endorsed contributors, and mods. Once in a while a rare nonendorsed user will spring up good insight, but that's the key word--Insight. Just because a post has been upvoted to the top by anger phased betas doesn't mean there is any legitimate insight provided. If only there was a filter based on endorsed contributors it would make the experience more refined here and informative. The tl;dr requirements ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 01:58 PM
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Seriously. This is not how you swallow the red pill. You don't take the lowest of the low and say every girl DOES that and then whine like a baby boy. A red pill MAN realizes all girls have the potential to fuck you over but does not bitch about it, rather he makes sure to sleep with one eye open. THAT IS ALL. He does not get on some anonymous web board and bitch and complain and seek the Ada boys' from other bitter boys. He is stoic. He sees reality for how it is and accepts it. He sees the goo…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 11:35 AM
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I'd say its the equivalent to every girl having a plan B guy, or some guy that a girl knows would be a likely prospect given a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 07:12 AM
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I feel ya man, best thing I can recommend is getting into team sports and hanging out with the lads there.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 07:01 PM
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what ramifications if this story is matched?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:58 PM
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Swinggcat does not get enough credit. He fucking pioneered that men were the prize and created a whole system based on demonstrating that you indeed are the mother fucking prize (Prize-framing). Which is the whole basis of TRP anyway.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:42 PM
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Mark manson is too Blue pill imo. Good looking loser is the only one who I know that actually puts the most emphasis on working out and style.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:30 PM
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I'm maxed on my genetic potential. When I told my ex I used to be a skinny guy she said she didn't know that and she thought I have always just been a big guy. Lol. Never communicate how hard you work for anything or let anyone know your secrets to being the best at anything (except mastermind crews)
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:23 PM
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Damn straight man, The "soft" and "weak" facade of the female gender allows this deception of ignorance to play out to their favour most of the time. Even if she is not conscious of what she is doing, hypergamy doesn't give a fuck and still operates instinctualy regardless of conscious intent.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 01:34 PM
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Disregard females, acquire currency
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 09:07 AM
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yea why are you getting downvoted? I don't care how honest you think a chick is, that is their game to appear that way. AWALT means she can rationalize away any decision at a given moment.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 08:55 AM
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is net worth (i.e. debt too) also factored into alimony or just income?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 08:51 AM
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5-7% is about right. That being said, you can mitigate nasty responses by going for chicks who give you eye contact . They are more likely to at least be interested if not DTF. Gotta go direct on those chicks cause it's weird to go indirect on chicks who give you eye contact cause they assume you are lackin balls. But indirect is better for not getting eye contact. That being said, if you are a normal dude most chicks give nice responses even if they don't like you. The girls that give mean resp…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:08 PM
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You are right, great sex does not keep a girl at all. If I had to choose between either providing great sex or dread, I would take dread any day. Dread can be the groundwork for great sex, but not the other way around. In fact, great sex can lead to her telling you "Your the best sex I've ever had" or "your cock is the biggest" which drags you into the Capn' save a ho role making you think your special and saving this little innocent girl. Of course we TRPers know better then this, that this is …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 07:18 AM
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In fact, she's already downgraded herself by going if you want to look at it that way. Seriously, don't be a chump and let this slide. Downgrade to plate and start gaming new girls
/r/askTRP30/06/15 08:40 PM
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Depends on the context. I had a girl try to shit test me on something I was wearing. I just sorta stared at her for 5 seconds and then said "watsup." the vibe given off was that I was just aloof and something like that does not register in my reality. But I could see where you would need to address something like a comment in a board meeting a bit differently
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:31 PM
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Any advice for when she starts trying to force the victim frame onto the conversation? maybe power talk like "That's not how this works"?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:21 PM
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The girls only give the illusion of being more attractive. At heart the girl that looks like an 8 is still a 7 but power is relative I guess. It definitely depends on where you go, but most dudes are still not buff. Dudes that are buff tend to not be as socially suave as your jersey shore stereotype would have you believe. So its really about making the best of both worlds.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 06:11 AM
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aguy01 seriously dude. most chicks are just time wasters out for validation, being social, etc...Id say 5% are no hassle dtf chicks. That being said, Im still aware of chicks who may give some token resistance on initial approach "Oh no it's chad, lets ignore him to see if he's not chad and easily defeated"
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 06:06 AM
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I think it's pretty easy to be the top 10% guy. Most guys are just average and don't workout. Getting a nice body and being over 5'10 easily puts you in top 20%. Get style and confidence and you're top 10% now.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:02 PM
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Easiest places for me to pull are high energy dance clubs. Me and my wing go around just aggressively grabbing chicks on the arm. If they are receptive I aggressively escalate and usually get them out in 5-30 minutes. If they aren't receptive, NEXT...rinse wash and repeat. Bars involve too much extra variables.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:59 PM
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Whats funny is even when chicks blow you out and you turn your back to them but don't move out of "their space" it pisses them off even more. Double points if you turn your back and start talking to your friends or the next chick. It's as if they went "poof" and the party moved on else where
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:50 PM
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TRP has been the absolute most invaluable resource for me especially in regards to relationship management. TRP presents itself to me as mostly strategy while PUA brings the tactics. Most skilled PUAs are expert tacticians but lack the strategy aka the ability to rise above and see the battlefield beyond what is right infront of you. Most of my emotional development has come from being in a relationship where you must learn to handle your emotions better. SNL's are so transient and superficial i…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 05:05 AM
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nah I've actually gone 4 hours before. It's not so much a power battle of "oh she got my attention." In the end if I get it in and she gave me a lot of resistance, I value the sex a lot more. If I don't get it in and she got 3 hours of my time, it's more experience for me. It's like the path to mastery, after you do something enough times the major components become automatic allowing you to pick up on subtle things which can make the biggest difference.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:02 PM
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Yea it's more so 3 hours of figuring out where I can get with this girl. Some it's almost like a plausible deniability debate contest "I'm only taking off you're pants cause I want to see your legs and then you're going home." repeat for every article of clothing.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 08:57 PM
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I'll probably get downvoted for this post. You're advice maybe good for some people starting out. But man it's way to general. I've had over 30 SNL's over the last 1.5 year so I can speak from experience when I say there are all types of reasons and motivations for LMR and it depends on the girl. I've had it where I have fought for 3 hours and finally when I was starting to value my sleep over fucking the chick I hop off her to go to sleep and then she jumps on me and starts sucking my Dick. She…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:17 PM
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All girls worth having are already taken. Terrible defeatist mindset. Work the system to get to the top. But in the end...Never marry her.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 07:32 PM
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Im with you man, it just screams scarcity and lack of virtue. It's like what illimitableman said, just be aware that you not fucking a taken girl does not prevent others from fucking your girl. I'm even going as far these days as when a girl tells me at the club right in the middle of the seduction she has a bf I am walking away from her. Why? Because there's plenty of other pussy available to hit on that I don't have to fuck another guy over to get.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 07:21 AM
2

Im interested to hear your experience with the longest amount of time you have spent in a relationship and the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 07:06 AM
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woah woah wait so its possible to look too much like a bad boy? damn I think that may be my problem. I went with the hypermasculine look like being tall, muscular, graphic Tee (with sexy girl on it), leather jacket and accessories (dog chain, bullet). So you think that could actually push away good girls? I did initially to screen for DTF chicks but I'm trying to cast a bigger net now cause I found my retention went to shit and I stopped connecting with girls. On the flip side, I was pulling the…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 11:53 AM
1

Law 45: Preach the Need for Change But Never Reform Too Much at Once He completely ignored the culture, history, and boundaries of his group and acted without their unanimous consent. Had the white walkers not killed off a lot of their men would things be different? Maybe, but unfortunately that's not how things went down. There's a fine line between being a hero and a goat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 07:49 AM
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This was my reaction when I read that. Except I do think it is easier to spot. You'll notice stuff like her not sending you as many naked pics, or she is not as cute in her messages. The vibe will be off in some way and at this point you better do your damn best to spot any sort of trickle truths, projections, or comments about guys. IME if she mentions a comment about a guy who was hitting on her or asked for her phone number that is usually a shit test. But if she mentions just a general comme…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:26 AM
1

What are you wanting...If it's obvious then it's damn important. Most people keep looking for some hack or secret but the truth hides in plain sight.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:56 PM
1

Hey Red I agree with you man and feel it can definitely help get a deeper understanding. that being said, because these biological instincts are buried underneath layers of multiculturalism I find it hard to really know for sure if something can be explained through some biological instinct or something imposed psychosocially.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 05:38 PM
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I agree Human_ball_of_clay, It seems a lot more imaginative than actually based in real life events. The thing is, it doesn't matter for me what the hell happened 20,000 years ago that influences today. I give a fuck about trending behaviours in the here and now that directly or indirectly affect me and my dating life and how I can use that information for ideal outcomes.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:00 AM
1

Is a commitment ceremony like a wedding without a document?
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:33 PM
1

I've always listened to hip hop mainly (with some electronic and film OST's) but I've had to drop R&B cause shit is cringey as fuck.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:26 PM
1

Either what /u/Dzuari said. Or jump to the next chick asap...It will make you forget her. That being said, just having ONS's does not really make you forget about them, so consider getting in an OLTR
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:22 PM
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lol srs wtf did OP think was gonna happen when he posting about his unicorn that makes him feel special. Then he gets people seriously posting responses and he screams "Butt-hurt." It's only a matter of time before OP lets his guard down because he thinks his unicorn loves him for who he is and then he'll be right back on here saying ho he did all this "nice stuff" for her and she just didn't appreciate it. OP is the romantic, his unicorn is actually the realist disguised as a romantic.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 11:47 AM
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the moment the relationship ends, be prepared to see nothing but the ugly side of her. It's all her RAS focusing on the negative in an attempt to get over you, and as we all know girls get over guys in a heart beat where guys sucker over chicks forever.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 11:39 AM
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The last bit is what brings down your OP, if she does that behavior it means you wern't as special as you thought. In your words she makes you feel special and that's the game. But once she branch swings or for whatever reason it ends, all of a sudden you are not so special.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 11:33 AM
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There's a section in The Rational Male that explicitly goes over Nice Girl game. It's exactly that--Game. Because she distinguishes herself from all the other "sluts" you are now more likely to see her as relationship worthy and is a recipe for oneitis. More importantly, because you believe in the NAWALT, you believe you have found your unicorn and now have put a shit ton of value on the girl and are more subject to betafication because you are less likely to walk away. She treats you as her man…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 08:08 AM
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Hey man I don't really understanding the not interrupting the hamster. Is it like when a girl is unconsciously reacting?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:06 AM
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It makes sense though, An alpha who has his shit together and has options isn't really impressed by one woman. So it manifests in his behaviors as not giving a fuck for the girl and she now wants him
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 12:05 PM
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I'm guessing your fucking young girls right? This has been my experience, girls 18-21 don't want a relationship but do wanna fuck but get your attention as well. This is so they can keep playing their options to fuck other suitors. remember they just walked into this wonderful palace where they have all these options, why take the first couple that com in. Where as the typical process for girls who've already had their fill they want to progress things to a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:05 PM
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IME, while I don't like making generalizations, Amused Mastery is usually the optimal way of treating everything but the most disrespectful of shit tests/comments a girl can make. You just really aren't phased by anything. These people here suggesting to leave or make some serious snide remark are taking her remarks too seriously. It's just a shit test and a girl that needs to be bumped down a notch. There's a time for hard game, and it's not for some silly nonsense like this.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:26 PM
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This comment and the response from /u/imgonnabethegreatest are the only two comments that demonstrate amused mastery. The other ones here are too serious of a response. Remember, you aren't phased by what she's saying. It should just be funny to you and you should be playful right back. Getting up and leaving just because a girl threw an obvious shit test is way too reactive. WTF is up with people here taking this game so seriously. When she does something like this it's not personal and it's no…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:23 PM
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But that's not necessarily what you were originally saying, you said everything bad that happens to you is as a result of not having high enough value. Going back to Chad, if he gets with a chick that has bad boundaries and/or low self-esteem there is no value in the world that can stop her from cheating when the opportunity arises. I feel you are giving too much agency to men and not enough to women (common in TRP thinking). A chick with good boundaries is more likely to leave/cheat based on a …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:25 AM
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Very good notes. When me and my ex broke shit off, I was glad to get away from her because we resented each other so much. But for some reason like a month later after like fucking 6 chicks like these oneitis feelings started coming back like I missed her and shit. But like what Julien was saying with the RAS is totally right. She seemed like a totally different person and resented me so much more and talked down to me and shit. But that actually helped me move on even more because it repulsed m…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:54 PM
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A guy may need to persist in the beginning or so called "chase" her. But after she is hooked, he must maintain his prize status and allow her space to chase him.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:58 PM
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Yea but your mom will always be there for you. The same cannot be said about a girlfriend
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 11:47 AM
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Meh, but that's like being an alpha male 1.0. We can be better than that and just be honest about our intentions. That's what someone who has options and isn't afraid to walk away does.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 03:35 AM
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24 It's not that high, but in the last 13 months I've gotten 19 of those 24 and last week I got 3 SNLs, because I've finally figured this shit out so It's only going to go up. Am 24 years old.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:32 PM
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woah thats not really something worth nexting over
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:15 PM
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I don't agree. Them knowing your number can show how much leverage you have. You really can go out and get laid whenever you want
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:14 PM
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Yea man and obviously it's not that art or philosophy is bad. It's just it goes unappreciated by females. It's the old saying casting pearls before swine. My ability to extract themes, symbols, and archetypes from movies have never gotten any of my women's vaginas tingling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:11 PM
3

I'm not so sure about FR's but I'm convinced a lot of the stories that generate karma are either made-up, exagerrated, or just a minority. There was a series of indian wives being found out as sluts and alpha widows by their "beta" indian husbands through a sex tape. This story kept getting rehashed and reposted until finally people caught on. I don't doubt that this happens a lot. Specifically there was a guy who claims to work as a bouncer for a high end Vegas club who witnessed girls being se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 11:16 PM
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whydid you delete your original post? Did the mods take it down?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 08:20 PM
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The realism perspective is being poisoned by whiny betas complaining about Double Standards favoring women. Or threads where a man provided for 20 years only to have his wife leave him after "all he did for her." This is all nice guy passive aggressive beta bullshit that is masquerading as Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:00 PM
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I dont have the link but there was a study that said the high partner count was just an association to marriage in stability but that neuroticism was the main causation. Is your girl neurotic? if not your good!
/r/askTRP02/02/15 08:47 AM
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Don't know why you are getting downvoted. Oh wait yea I do, ppl on TRP like to pretend a woman having a past is a kiss of death. You're absolutely right though, if a dude is doing everything right in bed (dirty talk, dominance, sex toys, etc...) + he's keeping his SMV. The girl isn't thinking about that one alpha she fucked drunk. She'll still have her fantasies though, but both should be living ou each other's fantasies.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 04:09 PM
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Yea, girls with higher levels of thinking have better boundaries to contain humans natural instincts.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 12:42 AM
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hey man i wouldnt chalk it up to the other guys game being better. Its quite possible this girl has really bad boundaries that on top of the fact that she most likely turns super slutty with alcohol use. Doesnt matter who the guy she is dating, bitch gonna slut it up regardless. Its just a cautionary tale to screen your women as best as possible. you can have max smv and she can be crazy for you, but if she loses her boundaries while drunk, u can count on being fucked over.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:02 AM
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Yea I honestly think OP is viewing this through a TRP lens that is not valid here. It's pretty common for neighbors to shovel each other's snow if they already started before them. Good gestures like this don't go unappreciated and the woman would most likely reciprocate later down the line, granted I don't know the woman. Asking for something immediately in return is just an asshole selfish thing. Do stuff cause you want to do it.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 08:09 PM
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Archwinger, where can I learn more about pushing? Im always pull on my pre-ltr and just weary anytime I give anything even though this girl is madly into me. It's like in my mind I'm losing value when I tell her I'll download this game for her or do Y.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 11:11 PM
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Alot of this EVO PSYC gets thrown around here without understanding and proper application. a lot of findings dubbed "universal" by evolutionary psychologists have often been found to be heavily influenced by culture. A good example is Hypergamy which is indeed cultural. A 2003 study in the Journal of Biosocial science found among 66,598 participants that there was higher male educational hypergamy in Portuagal That's right, the males were hypergamous in Portugal. The takeaway is that this stuff…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 10:34 PM
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What do you mean power talked the answers? Honest question
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 10:01 PM
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Doesn't the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene attempt to do this already on a meta level. That is, inducing feelings of love.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:59 PM
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Seriously man, a small aspect of TRP does dehumanize human relationships and as a result, people in the bitter phase of TRP blow it out of proportion and misapply the theory on a grand scale. "She only likes you for the hormones your stimulating in her." Yea so what at the rudimentary level it's not you it's oxtocin. The idea is to enjoy the magic and enjoy the show. But, metaphorically speaking, go to sleep with one eye open and maintain awareness of your SMV at all times. The problem is people…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:51 PM
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Me too brother. Was raised Christian but wanted to venture out. I have been on two Buddhist meditation (vipassana) retreats and while shila and prajna do provide ethics and good values for those to follow, the eastern ideas just never seemed to connect with me at the deepest level. For some reason, most likely being raised with it, I always seem to come back to connecting with the idea of the trinity and the sayings in the bible. I've come to the conclusion that there is there's def no winning w…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:38 AM
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could you elaborate on what you mean by hollow?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:01 PM
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7- Even if you live in a country with decent tax rates, keep any money you accumulate in another country. Your residency and your cash shall never meet. I'm not informed on this stuff but isn't that illegal? Like you have to eventually launder the money back over unless you move to that country
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:18 AM
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No matter how "Alpha" you are, you are going to make compromises. Compromises are always suboptimal. This is not red pill thinking. This is selfish Randian Baby boomer philosophy. Living in a civilized society is the product of compromise itself and is the result of centuries of effort of people who made compromises before you and I existed.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:48 AM
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Thanks mate, Yea it finally hit me when I started seeing in my own relationship that drama from my girl is like clockwork and comes around about once a week in subtle ways such as her complaining about wanting me to text her more and various and sundry. I looked at myself and realized I haven't changed at all and she's been getting the same me that she always has and that as a girl she just needs that emotional reassurance that I'm not gonna change. Now I look at every one of these instances wit…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:24 AM
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People don't realize what they can get away with. I was buying a Christmas card the other day and the queue was absolutely massive. I wasnt gonna wait in it so I just take out exact change walk past everyone. place it neatly stacked right next to one of the cashiers tell him its exact change and walk out. Not a big deal but they can process my order when they have time.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 07:29 AM
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I think you are on to somethinng. The first one I don't really think is a shit test. If they were just discussing the contents of the movie after he disagreed than that's ok. But if this "discussing" consisted of her trying to get him to change his mind than yes that is indeed the shit test here. OP needs to be firm in his decision making. She must accept the decisions OP makes or fuck off. You are dead correct on the second shit test and is the reason for this whole outcry. The movie has fuck a…
/r/askTRP21/12/14 11:34 AM
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Am texting her sometimes right before I go to bed. So I cut off the convo letting her know I'm going to bed.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:49 PM
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Your post has seemed the most reasonable. I don't mind going into relationship with her it makes the most sense for me and my growth at this point in my life. How do I go into this without losing hand as I said to the poster above, I have had SNL'd 14 chicks this year and never have I taken something past plate standard so I'm concerned about losing hand when I do stuff like pushing my boundary to talk to her later and stuff. Like I want to keep my value without losing status if that makes sense…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 10:03 PM
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very sensible response. How do I distinguish the two? I have a lot of experience, but only laying chicks. Not relationship. How do I cross the boundary without losing Hand.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 09:58 PM
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Thanks for response man. Yea the one when she was trying to get me to wait for her to go to bed was right after we were having a deep talk about fantasies over text. I think she as trying to see if she could catch me at a deep moment to pull me off. Me: nite girl Her: Or maybe you should wait up for me. It's the least I deserve ;) Me: Or maybe I'd rather leave you hot and bothered regardless of what you deserve was my response. My thoughts are since it's getting a little bit deeper and I havent …
/r/askTRP18/12/14 01:30 PM
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This speaks of dropping the L bomb. Not for DTR talk.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 12:50 PM
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while I agree with u in that i would rather have a girl who doesn't have that issue. its not a deal breaker for me as I am not an idealist like most here. It doesn't necessarily show a lack of passion and confining it to rules is pedantic and unreal. Many a relationship has been successful with men saying I love u. Like I said they still must work for it which is seen in her behaviors that please u
/r/askTRP18/12/14 05:30 AM
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I've always been of the mindset that waiting for a girl to give the DTR talk is weaker than the man having judiciously assesed her behaviors, decided on going into an LTR with her, and asking her out before she can DTR. While the guy will always have the final say, it comes off as her directing the relationship versus you leading. But of course if you don't want an LTR. Push it until DTR comes, then tell her you like how things are going.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 12:28 AM
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Yea some girls might not want it bad enough cause the fear of rejection is to them is ego shattering and a strong enough force for them to keep waiting. I've seen it. Not with me, but with a a girlfriend of mine who kept wanting him to say it but they finally broke up anyway. If she said it and they were gonna break up anyway now she has to deal with the shame of her putting herself out there and getting rejected plus no man. Her working for it is her being a good GF, giving good consistent sex,…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 12:22 AM
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You are correct about the first. The second is not universal. Some girls absolutely will not out of fear of rejection and want the guy to put themselves out there.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 06:55 PM
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I got caught before and won the conversation over. I'll post it here. It was from a girl who I approached at a bar and ran strawberry fields. She googled it and texted me the link the next day: Her: http://m.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/seducing-women-using-routines-the-strawberry-fields-test-5609537.html Interesting routine u got there ha Me: Please, I get all my lines from my grandmother Her::-P Ha whatever u say Me: Did it work? Are you finishing yourself off as we speak? Her: Umm yea did…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 10:15 PM
1

Most people don't realize that a good chunk of infamous people are that way because they had some polarizing approach that was infamous because it was so far out from everything else.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 05:48 PM
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Just to be clear are you saying dont apologize for the fight or for the abscence?
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:51 AM
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Thanks mate. Yea I'll go radio silent.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 09:24 PM
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I followed the soft next guide by Black Dragon "11. Contact her 3 to 7 days later LIKE NOTHING EVER HAPPENED. Just send her a text and say “Damn it’s cold today!” or “Hey that movie is coming out on Friday! Let’s go see it.” LITERALLY like NOTHING HAPPENED. If you executed the soft next correctly, she’ll resume the conversation and the relationship like nothing ever happened. Then proceed with your relationship. When you meet up with her again, you'll find her shockingly nice, happy, fun, and th…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 04:28 PM
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oh oops meant to reply to the user asking what application this has if any to life. sorry mate
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 01:54 PM
1

Like /u/Twice-Two-Makes-Five said. The enemy is in ourselves and must be crushed. But to answer your question, my uncle is an attorney in South Carolina and his daughter had a court date for a traffic violation. My uncle arranged for some fellow friends he had on the police force to distract the officer who was suppose to meet his daughter at court. The officer missed the court date and daughter got off scot-free. Crushing your enemy doesnt have to be outright brute force murder.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 01:12 PM
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seriously. I mean if she had such great dick ducking ability she most likely had done it before because it is quite a skill.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 10:02 AM
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But Im so glad it was reposted because I never saw this. Truly motivating.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:13 PM
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I think it is a TRP thing. They think they are more feminine and more traditional and not affected by feminized society. This may be true to an extent but AWALT and there's no shortcuts to being an awesome guy. I myself cant get attracted to asians. A combination of lacking in Tits, Ass, and energy that I want in a woman is generally not present in asian women.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 12:27 PM
2

If you care enough about your career mission and know youll get in than get those god damn tattoos removed.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:16 AM
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My grandfather was your typical racist womanizing southern who had a mistress known to his wife. She stayed devoted till she died at 83. She didn't leave him because she loved him and her children too much which were her words. Then again it would have been too hard for her to leave considering the 8 children she had. The N means Nurture Dependence. The more resources you have, the higher your SMV is, the more you better yourself the more they "love" you and the lower the risk of her acting out …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:04 AM
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I just moved to the UK from America. I can confirm, immensely uglier than American girls. 7's are uncommon, 8's are rare, 9's and 10's appears as often as a comet.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:02 PM
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Its insight into blue pill women (hence my BP flair). Increase awareness that your college chick may very well have an appalling lay count.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:47 PM
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question here bro. Been dating this small town chick I had a SNL with for a few weeks. Few things clued me into keeping her around. She's recently just turned 20, and has had 2 LTR's one 1.5 years who she gave it up to at age 16 and the other 2 years after. Apparently I laid her when she was 5 weeks out from the last one. She wasn't that great in bed and doesnt know how to suck dick well (fine by me I can teach). And she reached out to me after I sent her home first morning (most chicks wait for…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:26 AM
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wow I really like this guys demeanor. I've seen MRA men on news bits like this who seem bit way too outspoken and pissed. This guy was solid in responding calmly and like you said did not break frame.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:04 AM
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Yea hes still plugged in
/r/askTRP18/11/14 03:57 PM
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So true bro. Enemies can motivate you to be better out of jealousy or insecurity (the good kind). They dont realize it, but they are indirectly helping you out. Where if they appeared more common and less perfect (this in in the book), you would see them like yourself and would lead you back to contentment. Your friends on the other hand are most likely your friends because they accept you for who you are and you see them very similar to yourself. The only way this could motivate you to be bette…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 08:17 PM
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Here's the thing I actually like the girl nd dont mind considering her for LTR. However, this shit where she's just fishing for emotional shit like that I do not like. So in essence we do want the same thing but I think she just wanted some reassurance. But in the process of giving reassurance you go up on the beta scale. So It's pretty confusing. So how should I play it from here Yea man I am 24 and Usually don't deal with plates/potential LTR's cause I just fuck chicks for one-night stands and…
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:38 PM
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boom perfect thanks man.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:28 PM
1

only 40% of people who contract herpes virus get recurring outbreaks. Everyone else the virus just hides in the dorsal column never to manifest in physical symptoms
/r/askTRP10/11/14 10:41 AM
1

that'd be cool if u want a chick with good qualities. honestly I just go for the movie at my place cause just wanna fuck and dont care about her ability to cook
/r/askTRP27/10/14 06:39 PM
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Yea man, been bodybuilding here for 5 years. Gotta nice body. It's not a necessity. Cause I'm a lot smaller than I was 1 year ago and I'm actually getting laid a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:39 PM
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classic car? or modern luxury?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 05:35 PM
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Look the big issue here is of boundaries not necessarily attraction. If a girl has good boundaries, which is what character is, she won't cheat if alpha Joe comes along and tries to woo her. The girl in question in this article clearly has been taught having boundaries is bad. She went to some Radical Honesty workshop which teaches people to let everything out with reckless abandon. This is horrible for boundaries. No one is entitled to anything from anyone so you should never feel the need to d…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:56 PM
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mismanaged expectations on behalf of the girl?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:57 PM
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Yea, when I think of 5 some, I dont think of all guys on 1 girl. This girl pretty much jumped on the defense on this one.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:27 PM
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I don't think their born bitches. I think they are Raised bitches. Somehow, someway along in their life, they realized being a bitch got them some sort of positive feedback whether it was attention/validation, a dress, a toy. Then they stayed bitches.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:46 PM
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damn that's some harsh shit. But harsh shit that is true. The more we get set in our ways, the less we experience. If its an old person that constantly sought new ways of thinking then it would be valuable, but we settle down easy.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:45 PM
1

Thanks for the reply, Ill check it oujt now
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:38 PM
1

Is there anything good or practical in Art of Seduction. I have heard mixed things
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:40 PM
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Devil's advocate: What if he critically thinks about your style of parenting and does not obey you?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 10:36 AM
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I've read them all except art of seduction. The 50th law did the most for me by far! Amazing book. Really put it in light how your everyday life is just a tame version of the streets and that all you do is just keep suppressing that fact.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 06:44 AM
1

glad we don't have those kind of people on trp
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:27 PM
1

Yea these guys are right, at some point you got to make it seem like she is of privileged to be on date with you. At the minimum, when she kept pressing tell her "Do you always ask these questions this early to guys?"
/r/askTRP19/09/14 05:00 AM
0

dude a body is 1/4th of the equation. Its mostly in the face. Which cannot be changed outside plastic surgery. A personality is much more malleable, though requires work. Which people here complain about having to do
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:21 PM
-5

wtf? Who are these men? Chicks who are below a 6.5 are invisible as can be for me. Too much self-respect to fuck below that, not to mention not enjoyable and a waste of time. This is getting ridiculous, guys bitching about how you have to actually be top dog to get the goods.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:53 PM
2

so? SMV is judged differently among guys than it is among girls. Just cause you think your a 10 doesnt mean she'll think you are cause you have to display certain intangible things that cannot be perceived by her without words
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:54 AM
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To be fair, fat girls are invisible to me and not even a blip on my radar. So I can't blame chicks for not acknowledging low SMV guys. HOWEVER, if their SMV is low as well then they damn well better get a realistic grasp on things.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:52 AM
1

wow I needed this laugh, I laughed for 2 minuts straight
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:31 PM
3

always wondered this myself
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:51 PM
1

pretty easy going for him or is it a war?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 10:08 PM
1

Wow thats some fucked up shit man. Brainwashing the kids to hate him.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 08:53 PM
5

He's been the general manager some different theme parks for the last 10 years, so I take it he just learned how to manage people in his years.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 06:18 PM
1

you are right (though your username would say otherwise). repetition kills the impact of anything really. Predictability is right there with it as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:56 PM
1

At night time, you can just put the insoles in some dress shoes with a big heal. Trust me man, makes a huge difference. You will get noticed a lot more
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:53 PM
3

Hmm interesting. Problem is the way she would say it would be more accusatory "You can make something yourself" "You just ate" or more defensive "I've cooked several times this week" When a simple no. Would do the trick. So you are saying when they do this just direct them back on to the question? Also how would this benefit a career setting? Isn't this just like passive agressive behavior which is really feminine?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:27 PM
1

any tips on how to communicate this?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 11:51 AM
3

I think one way, is to sense when you are giving too many fucks lately. Basically you are to be on the lookout if your typical patterns of decision making have changed and you are more accommodating to the woman then before. Remember, you are to be exactly how you were when you met her and went on the first 3 dates. But if things start changing. She will shit test you
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 11:17 AM
3

Wear height increaseing insoles. Adds 2 inches. Put those in new rock boots which can add 1-2 inches as well. Now you're 4 inches taller. After you've fucked her. Won't matter
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 10:44 AM
1

on windows phone to for 6tinder or alternative?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 10:41 AM
1

I agree, I've never liked the girl because she's displayed traits to me before that I've found undesirable.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:46 PM
11

totally. I've been out at night and there's been absolutely shit wasted chicks who have rejected me from kissing them. But a drunk girl just can't say no to sex lol!
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:38 PM
2

Yea man, still same blue pill culture here. There's a big oil industry in Scotland and where there's money there's Social hierarchy's and entitlement ensues...entitlement begets higher standards and higher standards leads to hitting the wall. It's sad man, I've met many 30 year olds in the club here who haven't been able to hold down a man, and it's no wonder why. These chicks just put out too easy and don't know how to cook. UK chicks in general are the ugliest chicks in the world. One theory I…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:41 PM
9

Lol, I am American living in Scotland and I think Scottish girls are just as bad as American. They drink and smoke more so are fatter and worst health. Equally as masculine as American females. Go back to Poland (not in a mean way), the girls are hotter and more feminine. About every polish chick I've met in Edinburgh and Aberdeen has been very nice. Would love a polish chick as a sidenote. I don't get a free pass for being American. I get blown out all the fukin time.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:56 PM
3

That's me being a bit colloquial and I could elaborate better. Going back to the meditation example. You: "Do you meditate" her: "Yes" [usually they go into more if not follow with] You: "oh really?" (or whatever to dig deeper) her: "blah blah 3 years, i'm spiritual yadda yadda" You: "Wow thats great, I like how your open minded and like to try new things" Pretty much gotta be genuine. It won't have the same effect if just on the off chance she mentions she went to paris last year and then you s…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:01 PM
1

yea dude lemme know how it works. The shit you make up while reading the hand can be golden as well. It really can be anything like those open ended cold reads "This line right here...It says...that some people think you're a bitch [pause for reaction, don't flinch, let her get riled up], but once they get to know you that you're actually a nice person.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:49 PM
3

Yea dude and you can switch it around. If the girl tries to be all nice and shit you can tell her "run away right now girl, you're not fooling anyone...I know you're not so innocent am I'm trying to be good tonight" [Note: don't do this if she thinks you have a GF like the above girl cause she'll think you're cheating and she's your new jumpoff]
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:07 AM
1

gave some more example above.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:32 AM
0

I still don't understand. Isn't sexual tension happening from the get-go you open? So you're not gonna fuck her on the club floor but you most deifnitely can fuck her later.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:34 PM
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If there's one thing that will get you laid with REALLLY hot chicks it's Push/Pull Push/Pull is the answer to any shit test. I did this last saturday when I went out. Went into a group of 7 guys and pulled an 8 hottie out. Shit tests rained all over me. She said probably 8 times "I'm going to leave now" My response pretty much every time "Yea you probably should, if you hang around me anymore bad stuff will happen" and everytime I said this she would just launch back in and make out with me. Of …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:21 PM
2

"Haha, someone's eager aren't they? Slow down there, I don't know you well enough to talk about that kind of stuff." nice line, hopefully won't have to use it but will be prepared in the event of a date Rather than tell her all the attraction killing shit. That whole line of questioning was a shit test to see if you have your shit together and to see how much value you place on privacy/your social network. The less you talk about social network the more they hamster it is so high value you won't…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:58 PM
1

is this in sidebar?
/r/askTRP01/09/14 06:00 PM
1

hey 33 stratgies of war has some good stuff too!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 08:13 AM
3

Yea, those books are excellent. 48 laws of power isnt how to be a sociopath, there's a lot of improving yourself and your image shit in there.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 08:13 AM
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I agree man, We can work to reframe our SO's past as "She didn't know" or "She is learning from her mistakes" but you do have to now cope with an undervalued commodity and deal with the ramnifications i.e. the possibility that 40 of her facebook guy friends liking her status' could be AFs from the past, that some of her close friends that you are friends with could have fucked her, and that she has a higher risk of promiscuity. A woman's currency is her body, a man's is his career. My ex was in …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:00 AM
0

moda is definitely not addictive
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:51 PM
2

modafinil is my main go to
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:38 PM
2

dude definitely, I hate getting numbers off of a casual conversation. It just makes it harder to go sexual. The way I avoid it. Cut yourself off before your about to start a new sentence "by the way whats your name" She says emily and you go "Patel [shake hands]...your really cute emily" continue forth with conversation. Fact is, every girl knows a guy starts a conversation with her because he finds her attractive so it's not gonna come out of left field and surprise her hitting her like a ton o…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 04:43 AM
5

Hey Tyler, I agree with what you were saying except one thing. I don't really think he should tell her that's not what happened. Could very well be what happened but he doesnt need to convince her nor explain himself. I agree with ignoring her, treating her like a child, or just plain outwitting here as this would be easy to do in this scenario just by accusing her of being jealous. But TBH I think best approach is ignore or more specifically "yea that is exactly what happened" with a half smirk…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 04:33 AM
7

You are in the army and you've had a history of cheating GF. Not new and part of the culture. You gotta lock down a realllly dedicated girl man. I mean one that doesnt mind you deploying 6-12 months out of the year. I hate generalizing but I have been involved with the airforce before and adultery is just part of the culture. It seemed like the only ones there who had decent wives were the pilots and some of the other officers. If she too was in the army, she would lose stripes for the adultery.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:27 PM
1

Absofuckinglutely I learned this the hardway Dan and recently. I posted about how the majority of my friends are girls because I am in the healthcare field and see them more than my guy friends. slowly, the gossiping started to creep in and then I had an opinion on everyone. Fuck that, I am now moving in with guys (onoly lived with 2 girls the past 6 months) and stonewalling the emotional boundary.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 01:47 PM
4

Heh, more red pill truth confirmed. They would like you to be vulnerable. But they desire you to be the rock. Can't have both.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:43 PM
2

Yea dude, I would just pay attention to her behaviors (a good rule regardless). I wouldn't play into the whole "I'm just passive asian whose nice to everyone" cause emotions are universal and if she can't be bothered to respect you enough to not put herself in that situation than you can't change her and it's time to NEXT! But just be honest with how you feel. And then if problem is not solved-->Dread game
/r/askTRP24/08/14 01:41 PM
2

As I was reading what OP was saying, I was thinking exactly what kindlebluemoon was saying. Girls will most likely be able to pick up OP's friend is a bitter beta and sense there's something going on with OP. If this was a close-nit social circle and girls were saying he strives to be the center of attention, then that would be different. But his actions are what will be judged and girls can sense an alpha. 48 Laws of Power - Communicate through your work for it speaks more than the opinions of …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:37 PM
1

Yea dude I'd relax until she gets back. The fact that word has gotten out into community definitely works in your favor due to the collective nature of Asia. If he fucked off after neighbors telling him then there's a good chance nothing will happen. However, because he is socially awkward enough to stalk her after numbers change tells you to just keep a stern eye out for him. The fact that she can communicate to him in another language is disturbing cause less surveillance on your behalf but oh…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 01:29 PM
2

Exactly how Tony Soprano was able to hold down his domain. He had a therapist he vented to. Everyone else received only what they needed to.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:23 PM
2

You can show tenderness by being empathetic. You can also have some side-interests that may not be as masculine such as gardening. But there's never a need for the emotional vulnerability. This is weakness and a king could have no such a thing. Think more like Odin-King of Asgard, less like a Hugh Grant character.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:20 PM
1

I only ever saw my dad cry in front of me (and my mom) once and that was when his mom died. His dad died 2 months before but it was natural causes and was expected, you could tell he was distraught, but he held it back (I don't know how). When his mother died, it was unexpected and he cried for a few hours and then throughout the night. Never before or after and that includes being fired twice from the same company. This I believe is how it should be. I don't care how stoic you are, the death of…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:13 PM
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No no, it's not an issue of she has to look the other way. She MUST ASSERT her discomfort that him talking to her brings. There's no way for him to manage around it with "ok I'll stop but I don't want to lose you as a friend." Guys like this know how to weasel into a girls boundary. In hopes that he'll catch her in a vulnerable moment. Let's be clear. Most guys are not like this. But his behavior is quite concerning mainly that: a) You've voiced him he needs to fuck off and he has demonstrated t…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 12:58 PM
2

"warn him one more time if he does not discontinue conversation with your girl than he is agreeing to a punch in the face." Especially if he comes on your property again. Does she atleast not value him as a friend anymore?
/r/askTRP24/08/14 12:41 PM
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"He claims he is just a friend but i see his texts calling her cute and whatever. She changed her number and somehow he got it again and continued. " Woah. Yea that's some fucked up shit. So lets see here. Are you having to find her phone to find out these things or is she complaining to you about this guy stalking her? Is she defending the dudes actions when she says "just a friend." What I'm trying to get at here. Is how complicit is she in this. If she actually responds to his texts she is co…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 12:26 PM
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on the other hand. It is a womans job to test a man throughout his life. It is designed to keep him strong and the relationship less boring. Many guys here want a girl who is not going to test him. This is not what you want. If she stops testing him, things get too easy and boring. It shows a marked difference in SMV between the two, that of which hers is less. She does not feel confident enough in her SMV to test him. Three things is required from a girl to be a good mate (this is excluding hig…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 11:53 AM
0

Are we designed to be weak? I thought we are the yang, the hard. And any softness conveyed whether from femininity or the world is a result of passivity and is against our instinct? I agree though, femininity will seep in if not conscious.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 10:15 AM
1

interesting, I guess the one way to test the sock theory out is if her stuff never disappears than we know for sure that your possessions are being fucked with. Else, it is just pure sloppiness. Definitely agree with the last point, pretty rude to grab the keys without permission. She's just assuming it's now hers
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:52 AM
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What scares me is that: a) large sample size of 5,000 b) "However, 31% of women said they would be prepared to have sex on a plane with a sexy stranger, and a similar number said they could be tempted by a handsome neighbour." So nearly a 1/3 chance of a woman cheating if it is your typical hollywood fantasy moment. Hamster be on steroids yo. But I will say, there is no mention of distribution of age, marital status, history of partners. All important variables
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:29 PM
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Bro, yea you did the right thing. If anyone gets physical with you like that you have every right to respond with force. Don't let this "non-reactive" garbage sink into everything because their are times where your animalistic side is needed to deal with things.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:58 PM
1

could you go more into your experience?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:53 PM
1

that's a pretty dumb thing for her to lie about. But I like that what you did pretty much subtly said "If you try to fuck with me, I'm gone"
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:53 PM
1

the facial expressions part caught me. Anything specific i should know? Yea am definitely watching out for speech patterns now with like how I said it. Like I told the guy above, I lived with girls for the last 5 months and am not moving out. so hopefully this will help lessen the blow (though they arent really cool guys)
/r/askTRP20/08/14 02:36 PM
2

dude thanks, Ive been noticing this a bit recently about myself. I went on a trip with these 3 girls to rural scotland and they all bitched about each other to me. Then I reciprocated the things that annoyed me. I just wont voice my opinion next time One of the biggest issues is that my only two roomates have been girls as well for the last 5 months. So not only when i leave one group of girls, I go into another.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 02:33 PM
1

I do have male friends but I am around females more because Healthcare industry is mainly women and thats where I am 8 hours a day.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 08:19 AM
2

Chris from GLL would disagree Guy is in his 30s and dresses trendier than anyone yet pulls young hot ass.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 09:40 PM
2

lets be fair here. Girls who are sexually unavailable (in relationships, hates guys for the day, banging three other dudes atm, not in dating market, etc...) generally wont look around. How you dress and carry yourself has a huge part aswell. Which as you suggest, could be /u/metallica11 issue. But theres definitely no problem with them reading your mind. A girl isnt going to not look at you just because you are looking at her, if she is sexually available and you carry yourself well and maxed o…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 04:34 AM
1

big time projection
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:12 PM
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dude, exactly what I was thinking. and why I did not want to go to the public places. After I approached her during the day. We just kept in touch here and there trying to meet up. Then she sees me out at one of the clubs and I have a big social circle of like 12 people majority girls. She's all like on the D and shit. and then literally the next day she hits me up first thing in the morning if I would have lunch with her and her friend. I said "No I am going to Nero's cofee at 1am to do my home…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 07:49 PM
1

good advice. Yea man I don't know why I asked her why she did it. I've never done that before. Guess I'll just go radio silent from here until she hits me up
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:08 PM
-1

true that
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:01 PM
1

So if I've ticked off discharged and turned in the notes to the office. Technically they are out of my care. Can I say good bye and then toss it out there if she'd like to talk?
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:51 PM
1

great man, still learning. Thanks
/r/askTRP17/08/14 03:14 PM
0

you mad bro?
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:59 PM
2

Go out to the suburbs and walk down a sidewalk, find some shit. Proceed to eat the shit. Smile in the mirror theres the grin.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:13 PM
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geez didnt realize there would be a bit of resistance to this on this board. I'm guessing its the responsibilities or respect that comes in this job? In all seriousness, I'm not asking for some creepy massage routine to seduce some patient on the plinth. I'm single 25 year old just asking about how to give the patient a chance to keep talking to me if she desires without fucking up my job.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:05 PM
1

I agree on the first part. learn it the hard way. But when they are trying to re-route to what they want to do not what I want to do then I feel like I bitch hence I didn't want to go to dinner and then she doesnt do it.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:52 PM
0

does it seem unreal for a guy to meet people at his work?
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:48 PM
0

I'm sorry I don't understand, are you suggesting I am not serious in my post?
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:35 PM
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Is there anyway I can be of encouraging of that behavior from women without just saying "Man its shame my patients don't ask me out because I'm not aloud to hit on them" lol. Yea man to be honest it get tough sometimes. Majority of my patients are middle age. But ever once in a while I get chicks in their 20s or 30s. I was in my gym doing rehabilitation (as oppose to just a regular assessment) and I had this chick who was a 7 that I saw on once a week for ACL injur. I am doing Contract-relax PNF…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:32 PM
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If youre gonna tell OP he is wrong about his observations than it is you who needs to provide valid counterarguments. Saying "you're wrong" doesnt win debates
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 11:07 AM
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On top of that. Don't settle for a crappy dish. If the steak is medium-rare but you asked for medium. Politely have them take back the steak because you don't settle for anything less in life. Sounds lame. But little things like this add up.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:57 AM
1

thats a shame man and I appreciate your insight into this. I've always had a thing for them cause my first GF was Trinidadian and she was the hottest by far. But she treated me like shit. To echo your what you just said. This last girl I was talking to for a minute was a virgin 25 years old from from Guyana and second generation Indian. She was over here in the UK for oil and gas law (all funded by her parents of course). She told me her last two boyfriends cheated on her. She couldn't figure ou…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:29 AM
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I've never understood the indian mustache thing. Is it that fucking hard to shave it?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:16 AM
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dude its true but I dont understand why they are stuck up. They age worse than Bread.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:45 PM
2

I think that 2:1 rule is reactive. If your Alpha you do what you want and just replying to a text within a given time-limit is not going to reveal the beta inside. It will ooze it in other ways. If you're alpha. She'll know it and it won't be because you waited X amount of time to text back. That being said--I think it's fair to be observant when a girl has gone cold and you can call her out on it or just don't text back.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:27 PM
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thats some meta shit right there. I agree. Its inside out that produces clarity.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:20 PM
3

is this true? Not debating but I am not educated on this topic. Why do they get thrown out?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:53 AM
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Check out Dr. Paul Dobransky's MindOS program. Teaches you how to develop as well as screen character qualities. Is expensive but can be downloaded from places on the internet. Basically the gist of a woman's personality can captured in how good of boundaries she has. Picture a Big imaginary circle with all of you inside of it. Inside this circle is your personality, values, emotions, and reptillian instincts. A woman with a good boundary has a solid circle and while she may have shitty days or …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:18 AM
0

couldnt you have just saved a lot of time and money just doing a prenup?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:16 AM
2

do you mean like asking bigger and bigger favors of him?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:54 AM
1

they are at less risk for a peripheral fracture but they are still at equal risk for head trauma injuries such as a skull fracture and concussion.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:11 PM
1

while I agree texting is not the best way to communicate boundaries. I disagree that this was an emotional venting. If you think about how an immature boy/man communicates when he doesn't get his way, he pitches a bitch fit, yells, curses, and other destructive behaviors. If you have self-respect you assert when a boundary has been crossed in a firm way which is what I did here albeit through text as no other choice man.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:44 AM
1

Thanks for the insight. This could very well be the case. She said she is really feminine and submissive (a trait among polish women maybe?) and in that could very well be some passiveness and lacking in assertiveness.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 01:47 PM
0

A beta gets pissed and think he's owed sex in return of supplication. I didn't give a fuck about sex and truly needed a place to stay. Girl gave her word I'd have a floor to sleep on. Didn't have the decency to say no when I gave her an out or text saying fuck off. Feeling disrespected, I let her know with tact. Letting someone know you feel disrespected is not beta. to answer your first question. The fall wasn't necessarily dishonorable on friends behalf. It was her not letting me know I wasn't…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 10:35 AM
1

and apparently after 3 years of marriage, they are locked into the country as a citizen.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:27 AM
1

I think you are pidgeonholing him based on this post. He does indeed have posts aimed at advanced people. Check out his posts on killer instinct, Sense of Entitlement, and SWAG factor
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:14 PM
1

Yea not gonna lie, knew enough to approach them. Google translate text, first meet up would be there place since I was in hostel. Easy peezy. But to be fair, I am tall, white, and muscular, and supposedly that is valued a lot in those countries.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 12:46 PM
1

Any reason why you wouldnt date one? Would you ever have the mindset that girls in their youth may regret decisions they've made but can learn from them and have a more rigid picture of what their like and who their SO will be? This is not necessarily my opinion, but I've received this advice from an elder when I was running into an issue with this once.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:26 PM
1

if everyone avoids the CC alumni though than that will discourage the CC from existing which there goes my plates. You see what I mean though, I feel like TRP has these conflicting interest. Guys wanna fuck all the girls, but when push comes to shove and madonna-whore complex kicks in, they want the pure virgin to settle down. I am unaware how this can actually exist on a grand scale without, like what users below have mentioned, a good bit of men and women losing big time in the game
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:21 PM
1

I feel like there's enough resources to reach that level though. Working out, fashion consultant, leg lifts if your short, plastic surgery if your really fucked up in the face, Nice job to obtain wealth. If you want it bad enough you can have it. The CC can be reaped by more people than they realize. I myself didn't get laid until 18 but started working out at age 20 worked out and now age 24 I get to reap the benefits of it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:18 PM
1

Good points. Do you think the high SMV guys are considered to have high SMV relatively, as in it's always the top 20%, or do you believe that alpha is simply a category that once you fit in (by means of style, nice body, wealth, looks) then you get to reap the rewards regardless of the amount in your category.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:13 PM
1

but are we to feel bad for these guys. I mean I realize not everyone is born equally but if you lack the will power to be the best you than you're just digging a hole.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:05 PM
3

This was actually a really well articulated post. I want to see if I grasped it right the main problem is that riding the CC will cause most women to miss out on settling down when their SMV is at it's peak. Some may luck out by getting an alpha but most have to settle for a beta? That makes sense. I was under the impression that it was the girl's amount of partners in the CC that was the cause of them losing or something.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:03 PM
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Your prior analogy doesn't prove your argument. Saying Harley soley is a symbol representing lost masculinity of middle-aged men doesn't make it so. If you look at men in popular culture who are regarded as highly masculine like Hugh Jackman and Jax Teller, they are regarded as badasses and not balding middle age men. But it's cause they actually are bad asses, not because they have escaped the reality of their blue-pill life by way of their vehicles of borrowed masculinity. What I'm getting at,…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:06 PM
-3

nah, sport bikes are douchey and most women don't know the difference between a 250 ninja and a Ducati. A Harley is more bad ass and masculine
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 03:21 PM
4

Sorry dude, this is not the case. Just max out your sexual attractiveness and game doesnt even matter.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 07:00 PM
6

yea considering valtrex is extremely effective in suppressing cold sores that you can pretty much go your whole life and not worry about a flare up and infecting other people. I used to fear herpes to death until I found out that it is way better controlled these days than prior.
/r/seduction29/10/13 07:23 PM
1

That we desire to have the best genes (beauty) past down to our children? A basic understanding of biology is all that is needed. The male deer with the most majestic antlers gets the most sex--that is the basis of what I am getting at as far as beauty goes (not saying just having majestic human physical traits will get you the same thing) Survival is primitive and again goes back to biology. He who has the best features for survival (having a ton of money means you never have to worry about lac…
/r/seduction23/10/13 04:40 PM
18

Some points are good in this article but some are flat out wrong and has a lot of stupid pua notions mainly #1 that looks and money are social constructs and don't matter much (beyond grabbing attention). Hold the fuck up; this shit is deep rooted in our psyche and has nothing to do with social constructs (and does not make it any less legit even it was). Yea looks are put on blast in our media but regardless, a woman would rather have a good looking partner than an ugly one and has nothing to d…
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:01 PM
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Yea, no offense but I am a hot guy with good body (Bodybuilding for 3 years) and nice style and I screen these kind of girls out. I go for girls who give me eye contact and respond to me touching them from the get -go. Chances are they are DTF me.
/r/seduction15/09/13 01:13 PM
38

Not all girls will have that positive mindset though. So you kind of have to realize you are doing them the favor and in the long run they will be better off. Also That catch-phrase needs to be better clarified because there are some girls out there who will try to shame you for hitting on them a la they will be utterly rude and mean. I would leave them better off by calling them out on there rudeness and I maybe will even insult them for it. Typical community mindset: don't be reactive bro! If …
/r/seduction02/08/13 01:44 PM
5

We got a badass over here folks
/r/seduction14/05/13 10:59 AM
3

even then it depends on how hot she is. I wouldn't put out the effort for a HB 7 clinger. 7's are everywhere and any extra baggage DQ's them from the get go. Prolly would bang the 8 and dip.
/r/seduction14/05/13 01:31 AM
6

The same thing could be said about a girl who is too caring on the first date. It denotes a lack of boundaries and clinginess. There is no reason someone should be so open right from the get-go...unless they're a clinger.
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:55 PM
3

I hear Israeli girls are freaks in sheets...Is this true?
/r/seduction09/05/13 12:42 AM
8

he is graduated from harvard in Physics but does business now.
/r/seduction09/05/13 12:40 AM
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You displaced some of my words. What I said was you don't give up your emotional resources until you've gotten her in the sack. You went ahead and said vulnerable which you interpret as just putting your ass on the line. Obviously you need to be confident from the get go and can't be reserved until later When I talk to the girl, I don't view it as me giving up my power to allow her to reject me. Can she? Sure. But I see it as a numbers game and women don't like a man who gives up his power (this…
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:38 PM
2

Then why not just say confidence? When someone says vulnerable usually what gets thought of is someone being sappy and emotional or "opening up" and wearing their heart on their sleeve. This is the exact opposite of alpha. The alpha doesn't open up from the get go and only gives the woman access to his emotional resources as she earns it after putting out. So just be confident. Vulnerable kind of misrepresents what characteristic matters.
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:57 PM
6

all rehashed shit juggler said 10 years ago. Is there anything new under the sun in the pua community?
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:53 PM
3

Or you just say "hey this flirtiness with other guys deal, I don't put up with that shit" She does it again while you are on a date, you throw $20 on the table and say here is your cab ride home and you leave.
/r/seduction20/04/13 10:18 AM
4

Same here, except I dumped my girlfriend on a sunday in January, went out that friday and pulled a girl to my car and fucked her. Pretty liberating considering I just got out.
/r/seduction19/04/13 09:32 PM
6

If both are down then that's it. That's how pick-up is in general. If the girl is DTF, it ain't hard.
/r/seduction08/04/13 04:08 PM
1

I'm actually at wiregrass as a transient student to Georgia Military College. I have my Bachelors of Science in Marketing from UCF but getting my science classes now before I go off to Physical Therapy school next year. What do you do as a graduate student? Are you out at Remerton a lot?
/r/seduction07/04/13 11:08 PM
3

that's crazy, never thought I'd find someone from valdosta who is in this.
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:20 PM
3

Valdosta, you?
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:48 PM
8

"and that constant politeness definitely isn't upheld applied when we try pick-up girls." oh so true, Im in rural south georgia and have been blown out very rudely on several occasions. Granted I will admit I believe it is largely due to mass migration of people out of Atlanta that bring the big city attitude to small towns. But you will not get a free pass if they want to blow you out.
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:58 PM
1

Nick I noticed a lot of overlap with this and Dr. Paul's Mind OS. Is there any connection?
/r/seduction01/03/13 12:10 AM
0

Most times, girls won't set the sexual frame for you...You have to do that. And I usually don't let girls bring up sex, if she says something sexual I'll be like "hah we know what's on your mind" and change the subject...I bring up sex on my terms
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:18 PM
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japan and korea? please, those girls are as flat chested as can be.
/r/seduction25/01/13 10:16 PM
0

are you potty trained?
/r/seduction21/01/13 11:07 PM
3

I you go direct or situational you cant get called out
/r/seduction20/01/13 01:29 AM
5

Its called being a keyboard jockey. Seddit has been filling up with keyboard jockeys everywhere giving advice without real world experience to back it up.
/r/seduction16/01/13 06:13 PM
6

"I am almost never initially attracted to anyone, and I get freaked out easily." We got some damaged goods here folks
/r/seduction11/01/13 04:15 PM
0

And that means what to someone with rock hard principles?
/r/seduction10/01/13 05:39 PM
7

some guys have no standards, they think they have to push every set as far as they can even if they can't stand the girl. This is largely due to community programming but also out of neediness. IF you know who you are and you have high standards, you won't put up with this shit and you will take the girl home immediately.
/r/seduction10/01/13 01:23 PM
7

I don't see how OP had an "act". Most normal girls don't act the way she acted. Why "think you're being shit-tested" and try to jump through hoops when there are plenty of amazing women who do not treat a man this way?
/r/seduction10/01/13 11:58 AM
2

How do you get ur gf to be ok we an open relationship
/r/seduction20/12/12 01:50 PM
1

The way u do it is if she hasnt texted all the way up to the last 2 hours before the date she is gonna flake...so flake on her so she doesnt feel bad about it and you keep the power
/r/seduction20/12/12 12:35 PM
18

Only if you want to give a fuck about stuff which no fucks should be given about.
/r/seduction19/12/12 03:35 AM
4

there's no try, only do
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:53 PM
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curveball, I like what you have to say but I gotta disagree here. Having dealt with girls with boyfriends, a lot of times how they are describing their relationship (ie boyfriend is an asshole, controlling, etc...) is usually a projection and is a rationalization for cheating. You can try to see yourself as some knight in shining armor who will rescue her from her miserable relationship but you do not have an objective view of what is actually going on. You will only have one side of the story, …
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:33 PM
-1

Hey james I got into a relationship with a girl HB 7 I pulled at a club and have been with her for 1 year. I only feel like banging her twice a week. Is that because I view her as a 7 or does hedonic adaptation take over with men when they get in relationships and thus are not as horney than when they are single. Thanks
/r/seduction12/12/12 03:44 AM
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Until you get it in with any of these chicks I would consider this just having fun with a girl. Most guys that joke about sex are joking because they don't get any and they feel if they joke about it they won't be rejected because they have the joke aspect of it as a fallback. It is too easy, not risky, and doesn't require much boldness which doesn't really translate well into attraction. Some of the stuff you said can be classified as flirting and isn't bad. but joking about fucking doesn't get…
/r/seduction30/11/12 08:42 PM
57

OP better deliver!
/r/seduction29/11/12 10:41 PM
9

I dont understand peoples mindsets here. They get so sucked in to frames like this. The positive and more releastic of this situation is that the girl didnt want you to feel bad about her not being interested so she would rather you find out passively. It sucks but its true. So now instead of things feeling awkward, you should be a mutherfuckin rock that does not move when the wind comes. So just say oh hey i see you're not interested np have a nice day...at this point no line will fix the situa…
/r/seduction24/11/12 09:58 PM
3

So if he was in their league ge wouldnt be attracted to them?
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:01 PM
1

"Oh yea totally"...If you know you're not creepy than the way you say what I just told you to say will be one of rock solid confidence that doesn't necessitate one to explain himself.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:33 AM
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Then you must have never had a girlfriend...two of my ex's have told me about this and i didnt believe them so i asked some girls at work and they said that it is true.
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:40 AM
1

Mark i am in an interesting situation. I am 22 and didnt have much luck with women for a while and only got laid twice until i was 21. I then took a trip to costa rica got laid and got my shit together in the process. I came home and got laid within a month with hardly much effort. Like i said i could tell i had my shit together. Well now i am in a year long relatonship with that girl and i still have feelings of unfinished business...like i should still fuck around but i do like her a lot...wil…
/r/seduction07/11/12 04:07 PM
2

Be weary of NLP. It has its' uses but I find it largely dehumanizes people and interactions overall
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:34 PM
7

not really, I mean you can't really know someone elses situation. So there's no reason to even try to guess it, especially if it is to your dismay.
/r/seduction02/09/12 01:11 AM
13

First rule of fight club
/r/seduction26/08/12 03:10 PM
8

I see what your saying but your misconstruing what Im saying for being dishonest. Dishonest is usually a lie. But what I'm trying to convey here is not to lie but to have boundaries in your life. If I randomly met you IRL at a bar and just asked you how many girls you slept with, I have no right to that information. That is personal and if you chose not to tell me, than that would be a boundary you have on that information. Or if you are a white knight who feels he has to be honest with everythi…
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:16 PM
1

narcissistic? yea
/r/seduction20/07/12 03:36 PM
8

It's none of her god damn business what you've been doing all this week. You are not obligated to tell her you were going on dates and you are not being dishonest by not telling her that. Because think about it, did you tell her everything you did this week? How about the 6 dumps you laid in the toilet, the Breaking bad you watched on sunday, the dog you walked 4 times this week. You lied about all those by not telling her. You see where I'm going? Be selective in what you say, you are not an op…
/r/seduction20/07/12 03:34 PM
0

And I know a lot of instances where they cheat on their boyfriends
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:11 PM
3

What happened to a goddamn sense of brotherhood among men? Instead, it's this "I'm gonna fuck over whoever I can to get what I want." If you had a girlfriend, would you want people hitting on her and persisting to the point of rudeness and doing some sort of weird social engineering? No Start seeing the men around you as brothers and the next time you get the boyfriend line, say to the girl "Lucky guy, have a nice day" and walk off. That way you walk off with honor and respect and not some incon…
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:08 PM
3

Most of that list is covered (and in more detail) in Way of The Superior Man.
/r/seduction01/06/12 10:57 AM
4

He sounds like your typical nice guy.
/r/seduction30/05/12 05:16 PM
3

"More is always better." /r/Ratrace is over there----------->
/r/seduction02/05/12 06:18 PM
1

I wouldn't say passion, I would say a man who knows what his mission in life is (and acknowledges he is at least making an effort to follow it).
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:25 PM
1

Anytime something like this happens and tries to push my composure, I just make an observation "Wow you have a strong personality, I can tell you don't take crap from anyone"...Watch em light up
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:38 PM
1

plz, She was probably having a really bad day and took it out on OP. No excuse for bad behavior but any normal person who disapproved of someone being touched in a friendly manner would have just moved away or done a back turn. What she did had no decorum and probably made her friends look bad if others heard her.
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:37 PM
1

Whenever people put a label on people's thoughts like that I am very weary. There's no way to know what others think, I automatically assume they are looking at me because wondering what is this mysterious guy doing out alone? Is he an Omega male who doesn't need a group to support himself? How is it he can go out alone and still have fun?
/r/seduction30/04/12 11:50 AM
5

You sound like you have the entitlement spoken of in the article.
/r/seduction29/04/12 12:24 PM
1

Younger-Yes, Hotter-Probably, But Lower maintenance? I doubt it. In my experience, the younger women are more immature and have less integrity...Thus you will get the wrath of their torrid emotions. While the older are more calm and won't give you as much shit.
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:48 AM
5

I don't mean to be a killjoy but this kind of behavior isn't normal for a woman. One's gender is no excuse for sacrificing integrity. What I mean by this, is a woman being a woman is no excuse for bad behavior. When my girlfriend goes on her period, she makes a conscious effort to not take out her moodiness on me and I admire that in her. If she has a bad day at work or a bad nights sleep, she does not take out her crankiness on me. Yea she'll vent to me about her bad day, but she'll still cook …
/r/seduction19/04/12 02:10 PM
5

I agree with the older women comment. I'm 22 with a 29 year old GF and she has none of those bullshit insecurities and I get to do whatever I want without someone nagging me.
/r/seduction16/04/12 11:23 AM
12

Why you want some good Blow job tips?
/r/seduction09/04/12 05:16 PM
1

You smile before the approach (not a stupid grin, a small smirk) then when you get in the approach you stop smiling and let her work to make you smile.
/r/seduction01/02/12 12:54 PM
1

This. Mystery always said that the guys not smiling are the guys not getting laid. Who do you believe, Mystery who has been in field 1000s of times or lab rats who seldom got laid and chose the worst smile for attraction possible. I like the smile Lance Mason teaches. Like a half smile cocked to the side.
/r/seduction01/02/12 12:52 PM
1

How am I funny? like ha-ha funny or funny like clown?
/r/seduction01/01/12 01:51 PM
2

Fresh as a motherfucker
/r/seduction01/01/12 01:49 PM
1

Yes and that's it. People make too big a deal about making a conscious effort to be vulnerable. You don't have to as long as you are leading. As you said, just by merely approaching you are being vulnerable. But People confuse it with having to be all emotional from the get-go talking about your child-hood. Seriously that stuff is chick repellant and they don't deserve that deep stuff from you until they've earned your trust and respect.
/r/seduction28/11/11 02:17 AM
2

Guys I am honest when I say this is the worst advice a man can take. It ruins all the mystery about you that gets the girl attracted in the first place. It's better to have a never let them see you sweat attitude then wear your heart on your sleeve because you open up way too quickly when: A) They haven't earned it yet B) It shows you are emotionally clingy The whole opening up thing comes way wayyyy down the line. Keep certain parts to yourself that you never share to the girl and that keeps my…
/r/seduction27/11/11 03:18 PM
3

Don't know why you got down voted. Judging the competition (that you know nothing about) like that is just projecting something negative about yourself. The guy has a hot girl and he did something about it that you yourself can learn from. This is the mindset to have.
/r/seduction24/10/11 01:12 AM
-1

I like the old juggler one. "Hey that's cool I was in a relationship not too long ago, I killed her and went to jail but I'm out now"
/r/seduction16/10/11 02:55 AM
6

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that the girl you speak of was pretty immature. Most normal girls I know are not like that and just text whenever they get the chance.
/r/seduction15/10/11 06:06 PM
2

Guys I doubt he could have done it different any better. The girl likely considered him an orbiter and regardless of how he tried the kiss it would have been a rejection.
/r/seduction07/10/11 01:54 PM
0

"("Saw this and thought of you") - Is a little overdone." Not if you say "I saw the cutest little squirrel and it reminded me of you." Cause then your like ewww a squirrel? but he did it was cute...hmmm idk.
/r/seduction04/10/11 03:36 AM
1

Well first thing is you can't control what other people do. Realize this and from there it is a matter of preferring things and not preferring things. No need to attach a strong emotion to to the things you don't prefer as they are outside of your control.
/r/seduction29/09/11 08:20 PM
1

"Wouldn't you like to know" is better then "a gentleman never tells" because the latter puts too much emphasis on sex in a very indirect way.
/r/seduction26/09/11 01:19 PM
-1

Yea seriously, all these other comments in this thread are by immature boys. Be a man
/r/seduction21/09/11 01:36 PM
3

This is way too much. I am an American and was in Costa Rica and knew jack shit spanish. I would go up to girls in the day and say "Como Esta?" [How are you] "I think you are beautiful" if they understood that english they would be flattered, if not I translated it into spanish as "usted eres bonita." I then asked if they texted. Everything else was done with google translate over text game just building comfort and meeting up for a fuck. no need to complicate stuff.
/r/seduction11/09/11 02:42 AM
1

Why does everyone hate on RSD and tyler?
/r/seduction03/09/11 04:39 PM
5

I second this line. Except after you lay down the "are you interested?" don't let him speak and say "Nah sorry bro I'm not into that stuff" so it sets force frames him as gay.
/r/seduction14/08/11 03:55 PM
1

Where are you from. Because I am good looking, dress like a fuckin model and Direct does not work for me (in southeastern United States)...I find they are all grateful but it just fades right after.
/r/seduction11/06/11 07:15 AM
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