BirdsLikeMeToo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Never EVER Text a Girl Everyday or Constantly... (Even if she text first) I doubt it was because you texted her back that she lost interest. Sometimes people lose interest, even if we do everything right - it's just not working for them. But I can appreciate the desire to understand why, so you don't make the same mistake twice. If nothing else, not getting too into the texting might be a positive because of allowing things to develop at a more natural pace, and to be guided more by the quality of the time spent together than by words..	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:56 AM
6	Never EVER Text a Girl Everyday or Constantly... (Even if she text first) Agreed!	/r/seduction	21/04/21 10:50 AM
23	Never EVER Text a Girl Everyday or Constantly... (Even if she text first) The friendzone isn't real. If you're into someone and they just see you as a friend, that's good old unrequited love.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 09:57 AM
1	(M20) Approaching a girl who is maybe underage Fair enough :) Hopefully she's not lonely but just enjoys kicking a ball around and having some quiet time anyway, but it's nice that you care!	/r/seduction	18/04/21 07:34 PM
1	(M20) Approaching a girl who is maybe underage You sound really sweet, and the way you describe it is pretty innocent. So from that I'd say sure, go strike up conversation! But... You're posting it in a seduction sub... Which might lend itself to a different view on things: Hitting on a (potentially) 16 y.o when you're 20 isn't fair game in my book. Her brain isn't fully grown yet, and especially if she's lonely, she's vulnerable.	/r/seduction	18/04/21 07:10 PM
1	How do I impress a girl over text? That's fair, progression is necessary	/r/seduction	27/03/21 06:44 AM
6	How the hell do you go from conversation at the bar or party to a hookup/fwb? If she's open to hookups, you just have to be there, flirt, gradually get physically closer (if she moves away, respect it) up to the point where a kiss seems reasonable. Grab small opportunities for brief touch if it's going well - like touching her hair/sleeve/asking to see her watch. Notice if she's doing it back. If she is, just keep going and it will be an easy move. Just don't rush it - if you're not sure she's into you, she's probably not! I've noticed confident guys usually make a move a…	/r/seduction	26/03/21 05:54 PM
3	How do I impress a girl over text? Focus on getting to know her, and allow her to get to know you too. So many guys underestimate the importance of showing genuine interest in their date and making a connection. Don't impress her, aim to make it a good experience for both of you :) Guys who put me at ease often shared a few anecdotes from their earlier life, allowing me some insight into their life before we met. Like "as a kid I was really shy, [example story], but these days I kinda love meeting new people, even though it's a b…	/r/seduction	26/03/21 05:45 PM
4	How do I impress a girl over text? As an introvert, a call with someone I never met would really freak me out! At least on a physical date there's stuff to do together, besides keep up conversation..	/r/seduction	26/03/21 05:37 PM