Birthcontrolbitch Archive

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1	CMV: Consent is sexy Consent isn’t sexy it’s a necessity. Social intelligence, empathy, and self awareness are sexy. Gaining and assessing consent in a sexy way is sexy. Someone asking ‘can I have sex with you’ or anything along those lines is going to be a no from me 100% of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 03:30 AM
1	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? You’re clearly reading what you want to read. I have no need to ‘save face,’ I genuinely don’t care about you or your opinion of the dick I like. I also don’t coddle men-I don’t mince words to make anyone feel better about themselves. The 4 would have been fine, not ideal. But all he did was lay there. Didn’t even thrust back, which I find is necessary regardless of the size, whenever I was on top with every other guy if they didnt move it was equally underwhelming. I bought a 6.5 inch dildo onc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 08:05 PM
1	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? I’m aware that many women don’t like pencil dicks. That is coded as a female phrase to me. It is what it is. The 4 wasn’t a pencil, it was just the thinnest of what I’ve seen in proportion to the length. I think it could have been fine, he was just lazy in bed. Idk what your point is on the second half. Yes I am referring to the insertable length. Thats the only part I’m considering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 10:01 AM
1	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? The only one close to pencil, proportionally was the 4 inch, the 3 biggest had notable girth. The average one’s slightly varied in girth but not so significantly that I would be able to tell which one is thicker during sex. Pencil dicks to me are a turn off visually. So I would have noticed. Yes, I measured with hands for scales and dildos. I’m most used to 5.5 and 6.5 inch dildos and it’s easy to estimate up down and sideways from there. My friend got a 9 inch dildo as a gag gift, that’s how I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 09:56 PM
3	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? From personal experience, I have not noticed a difference in feeling of ‘fullness’ based on length. That will vary for different women. I’ve experienced various sizes between 4ish to 9 or 10ish. My best partner by far was solidly avg- 5.5/6. It was more about the shape than the size for me. He was also proactive and attentive. I’ve had below avg size definitively beat out well above avg sizes in pleasure. So my personal experience is consistent with the sentiments I’ve seen from other women. Whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 03:54 PM
9	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? You’re right, it actually is crazy. I’ve had a discussions about this a couple times with a particular group of friends. The women concluded somewhere between 5-7 is ideal, the further up it goes from there the less likely the sex will be enjoyable. The men could not accept that- kept trying pick it apart. Also, I’m sure you can guess which side introduced the topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 11:49 AM
1	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. I consider myself to have strong communication skills in friendships and partnerships. I would say that’s one of my best qualities. I still would never answer this question, because it shows that the person who asked doesn’t have the same standards for communication that I do. It tells me that the person who asked isn’t thoughtful or intentional with the words they choose. If you want to know what someone values in their self, why would you not just ask exactly that? It’s a better question. It l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 10:46 PM
2	What does "women don't like pushovers" even mean? You’re spot on with this! What I would like to understand is why so many men seem to feel like they can’t say no to things like this? Seems like favors, specifically? I’m almost starting to believe that there really is some biological drive to provide, manifesting as inconvenient trips to the boba shop/food spot whenever an SO has a craving.	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/22 03:09 AM
5	What does "women don't like pushovers" even mean? I’m really glad to see someone asking this question, because the phrase ‘call out bullshit’ is actually really vague and I think could be taken wrong lol. It means that if she says or does something that you take issue with, don’t be too worried about her liking you or being with you to address those concerns. Don’t go into every interaction looking for BS to call out. Instead, understand the qualities you’re aiming for in a partner, and decide on what your dealbreakers would be. Then try to lea…	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/22 02:45 AM
-1	WGTOW - why do some men resent this? You can ‘not need a man’ and want a good one at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 01:09 AM
3	What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings? And my point was that most women aren’t looking for these outstanding qualities that you think they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 04:02 PM
4	What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings? Most women don’t have six packs as a requirement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 08:30 AM
0	Women want to join a saved game Well I think there are a several reasons for the difference. [I don't think it's fair to call it a 'double standard' unless you acknowledge that in interpersonal relationships double standards are natural and expected.] Important to note though, there are women who do do this. These women seem to turn into 'starter wives,' who get dumped/cheated on the moment her man realizes he finally has the status to attract hotter younger women, or a man doesn't reach his 'potential' and the woman works her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 04:40 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game Women still push to be with guys who earn way more. I genuinely don't see this playing out in real life. The only women I've seen chasing men who far out earn them are literally young girls looking for sugar daddies or women who flock to cities like Miami, LA, Vegas, NY, etc looking for rich guys. This is the mindset that's all over social media and these women don't have any shame with it. In every day life though? Women are going after men in their circles. Female doctors are looking for male …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 03:42 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game I came from literally the opposite of you (Lower Middle Class Black family in the US). I very clearly understand systemic oppression. I am privileged to have made it to where I am in life. I want a man who has the same qualities that I do, that allowed me to be where I am today. Most of what gets a man places in dating is totally outside of his control I truly do not believe this to be the case. [ETA: I don't agree that money is the only factor at play, plenty of poor men are in relationships] E…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:57 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game Maybe you don't, but there are men who do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:29 PM
2	Women want to join a saved game I explained what I consider to be the finish line in a different thread. You can be an RN at the finish line that wasn't a knock to RNs, most people aren't just looking for a career and a nice body when trying to find a partner. I don't at all agree with this idea that men need to be 'wildly successful.' Wildly successful men can still get divorced, and men with decent stable jobs are still dating and getting married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:28 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game ‘Ambition’ is used as a euphemism by women to mean ‘established’, but they just don’t want to be accused of rewarding privilege lol, I don't agree with this at all. I know plenty of women who say they want a man who is ambitious so they date a man with 'potential' but little to show for it. Then support him while he's 'looking for a job', playing video games at her house while she's at work. And I don't understand what you mean by rewarding 'privilege'. I don't think any woman is shying away fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:23 PM
2	Women want to join a saved game I never said those things were crossing the finish line, and if that's all you're looking for in a woman then your bar for women is in hell. You should probably fix that	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:16 PM
4	Women want to join a saved game Having a decent career and being situated financially, having a strong support network, working on yourself/physical and mental health/self care and development, figuring out exactly what you want out of life, etc. A lot of the guys I've met may even have most of those things but are stuck on the emotional/mental health part. Or may be fine there but are still in the 'casual sex' phase. Or are ready to date seriously but aren't established career wise or living on their own. And they seem to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:12 PM
8	Women want to join a saved game I think a lot of women 'wait at the finish line' because they already crossed it and don't feel like doubling back. Don't get me wrong, no one is ever done but most of the women I know don't really expect from a man what they don't have themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 01:25 PM
4	Women want to join a saved game I may be missing something but I feel like you might be debating semantics instead of sentiment? Ambition on it's own may not be enough to achieve all your goals but if you have what it takes to get you where you want to go that's all that matters. The only way to know for sure if someone has what it takes is for them to be established. I think the point is that if a man is ambitious but lacks all the other things you mentioned, he would have been weeded out already for not being established.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 01:22 PM
1	Men who complain or debate women on here, what is your endgoal? OP is a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 10:24 AM
12	The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners. Funny... a source you posted in a thread below fully supports her statement http://www.loveandrelationshipcenter.com/why-women-leave.html Women are no longer dependent on men for survival. Women can now command their own income and living allowance. In fact they are the main bread winners in many relationships. Their salary is more than that of the man. So they do not feel that they have to tolerate nonsense and put up with inadequate performance. They are not getting any benefit from the relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 04:42 AM
10	The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners. So younger women are more likely to cheat than older women? Neither are more likely to cheat than men. men are more likely to cheat than women as supported by the data from the recent General Social Survey which says that 13% of women and 20% From your source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 04:35 AM
6	The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners. I'd like to know as well, I think you're pretty spot on, actually. !RemindMeRepeat 1 day "Find out why the analogy is bad"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 04:15 AM
1	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. Then why are so many broke men in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 09:21 PM
0	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. It's not. AWALT is just what you've chosen to believe, so you'll ignore anything that doesn't suit that narrow viewpoint. I didn't pedestalize anyone? Nor did I say any one is a queen, god, or above reproach. I simply didn't pretend that most women only care about money. It's just not the reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 01:39 AM
2	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. If it makes you feel better, an overweight, unnattractive guy who puts little effort into his appearance and is rich, not because of a career/ambition but because he got 'lucky' in crypto, would still fit into the neckbeard trope unless he uses that money to better himself in other ways. And its not about capitalism. Men don't have to have money they just have to make something of themselves that a woman will value. They have to have some proof that they're capable, or fun to be around, or inter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 01:08 AM
2	What is Your Opinion About Fresh & Fit? If it makes you feel any better, I honestly feel the exact same way! I don't harbor any resentment towards men at all I just personally think living life for yourself is the most satisfying. I won't give any advice as I'm not the person you asked, just throwing my 2 cents in that it's okay to be single and be happy and it doesn't have to have anything to do with pills or the opposite sex.	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/21 05:51 AM
2	What is Your Opinion About Fresh & Fit? Are you happy being single? Do you feel like you're spending time doing things that are fulfilling to you?	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/21 03:51 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. This take doesn’t even have enough substance to be labeled conjecture. Wishing you well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 12:01 PM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Ah okay yeah, I don’t consider instincts or emotions to be in line with the meaning of values. Values are malleable and constantly evolving. They’re gained through learning and experience by definition. You can’t truly know the value of something without experiencing it (or the knowledge of lacking it), and you can’t decide your personal values without experience. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Value_(ethics) https://www.ethicssage.com/2018/08/what-are-values.html When you’re a kid you may valu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 11:36 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Which values would you say that humans are born with? If you wish to continue the convo, that is. No hard feelings if not! Edit: that about sums up my stance	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 10:45 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. We actually seem to be agreeing in sentiment but disagreeing on semantics atp lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 10:38 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Everyone decides their individual values but none of them are created in a vacuum. Whether you choose to reject a direct teaching in favor of something you learned or saw elsewhere, you weren’t born with that value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 10:28 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Humans aren’t born with values, those are learned, directly or indirectly. No, I was juxtaposing ‘social encouragement to wear make up’ for women with ‘social encouragement to be financially stable’ for men in direct response to the previous commenter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 10:21 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. That’s an oversimplification, individual values are socially influenced, not inherent. Either way, I don’t quite understand the relevance to the conversation? Some people choosing to reject societal expectations doesn’t mean others are wrong for conforming to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 10:04 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. How is that relevant? Yeah, scammers will scam I guess. If you truly believe make up is the reason men get taken for child support, I don’t have much else to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 09:04 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. So… you’re implying that a woman wearing make up costs a man half his net worth? Horrible take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 08:17 AM
15	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Ma’am, this sub isn’t ready for intersectional conversations! I went natural in high school and I haven’t stopped hearing what ‘others’ think about my hair since. I hate that people misrepresent the reasons why women (and especially black women) do what we do. The subtle, insidious (and sometimes overt) pressure to conform is not easy to overlook, and ignoring it can make our lives unnecessarily difficult outside of the dating context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 04:46 AM
14	Why do young women seem to like feminine looking men? Different women like different things, crazy right?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 04:03 AM
1	Why do young women seem to like feminine looking men? Funny. I’m bisexual and into those things you mentioned. I have a preference for Asian men as well, and I’m still not into the flower boy look at all. I prefer buff dudes. My straight friend who has never so much as flirted with a woman is super into the k pop look though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 03:45 AM
10	Why do young women seem to like feminine looking men? The post is talking about younger women so it stands to reason they like young men. Thinning hair is unattractive but women also like bald men, or men with full heads of salt and pepper or gray hair. Women also don’t require smooth skin, hooded eyes and wrinkles associated with healthy aging skin is perfectly fine. Most women prefer to date men within their age range.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 03:36 AM
4	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Women know the reception to not following a social norm. Women expect you to know when you look at them that they’re wearing make up. If women were being secretive and lying about make up usage then it would be deceptive. ‘Most men don’t care about make up’ Exactly. If they don’t care how is it deceptive? Some women do decide to stop wearing make up (and some never wear it at all) and they don’t care about the women who continue to wear it because again, we don’t do it to be more competitive for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:57 AM
9	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Socially encouraged or socially enforced =/= socially accepted. And deception requires intent. Women expect you to know they’re wearing make up. Men don’t expect you to know their car is a rental or that the words they’re saying are lies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:39 AM
5	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. This is what I mean by intention. I truly don’t believe most women wear make up to attract men. They wear it because it’s a regular part of their routine. They wear it if they aren’t attracted to men. They wear it because they have eyes and like their own reflection better. They wear it if they’re going out with the girls. They wear it after their bf/husband says ‘I think you’re prettiest without make up on.’ They wear it because men and women treat you better when they think you’re well groomed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:38 AM
8	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. Certain female grooming habits are an expected norm throughout most of the world. Not lying. A big difference is the intention. Edit: not sure if you edited your comment but I didn’t see that second paragraph before- Men are socially encouraged to make enough money to own a nice car, not just drive one. Women are socially encouraged to wear make up, full stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 02:09 AM
26	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. I think ‘socially accepted’ is an understatement. I would say wearing make up is ‘socially encouraged.’ Beauty standards are pushed on little girls before we have any concept of what they mean. Our dolls have long thick eyelashes, lipstick and blush. We’re gifted lip gloss and garish shadow palettes with bright pink colors, perfumes, nail polish, etc. We play dress up and wear our moms high heels. We’re lead to believe that doing these things that make us beautiful is what it means to be a woman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 01:39 AM
1	Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractive This simply isn't true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 07:29 PM
4	Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractive All things are never equal, so I don't even see the point in that line of thinking. I could believe that at least 51% of women idealize a guy that's 6ft, although I haven't seen compelling evidence of that in real life, only on social media. There are much more compelling factors when it comes to attraction, height plays a small part in the grand scheme of things. Since we all agree that most women just want a guy whose taller than them, it stands to reason that the taller the guy the wider his …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 07:23 PM
11	Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractive I’d argue that the 6’ ‘preference’ is due to social conditioning more than anything else. Also that height can be a plus when combined with a whole package but it’s ultimately not as important as a lot of TRP makes it out to be. I’m not ‘obfuscating’ anything, nuance matters or else this sub wouldn’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 02:58 PM
1	Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractive I wish this take was discussed more!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 02:45 PM
11	Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractive I really don’t feel like a man being 6’-6’4 is that important to most women. Sure if you ask a woman what her ‘dream guy’ looks like she’d be more likely to say 6’, but most women still happily date men under 6’. I used to think I wanted a tall guy too until I fell for a guy who was 5’8 (I’m 5’6). I quickly realized guys closer to my height are better huggers and more fun to make out with, and most sex positions just work better. Men in the 5’8-5’10 range are my ideal. I personally haven’t met a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 02:24 PM
2	When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates. Do you think that every woman who doesn’t have sex with a guy right away is ‘withholding a bargaining chip’?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 11:39 PM
2	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? I wholeheartedly agree with everything you’ve said here. What I really meant about the gender war being one sided was just in regards to the original topic of ‘men approaching women’. I didn’t mean to imply that men and women aren’t at each other’s throats regarding other aspects. To that last point I’d just add that there are a lot of people who are making life’s problems all about one thing- further removing themselves from resolving/attaining that one thing. That also ties in to your point ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/21 12:19 AM
2	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Through reading your comment it seems like we’re still talking about 2 different things and making 2 separate points. I don’t think there’s a gender war I think there’s a one sided ‘assault’. And I don’t necessarily mean that literally. The men who are being creepy aren’t just the lonely guys. It’s men who are married and taken, it’s old men trying to fuck, it’s guys who are getting laid but want a ‘variety’. Even some men who aren’t lonely and lacking for women push inappropriately hard. I thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 09:54 PM
2	Why is being “her best” your responsibility? I don’t disagree with that at all. I just disagree with the conclusion of your original statement that women orgasm harder and easier with men they value more. My experiences vary. Maybe your experiences point to this because your anatomy is more suited to some women’s than others. Maybe your techniques worked better on some women than others. Those more accurately explain for me why some men have made me orgasm and some haven’t. Most women at this point aren’t having sex with men they aren’t in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:18 PM
2	Why is being “her best” your responsibility? I agree that women are more mental, removing the mental aspect also removes the pleasure. But I’ve done it with a vibrator while watching tv, out of curiosity. Based purely on the physical sensation. Ultimately unpleasant and not really worth the time it took but it happened and it was an intense sensation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:01 PM
2	Why is being “her best” your responsibility? I’ll have to take your word for that. I’ve been with 2 men in my life that I love/d and value/d and neither were able to make me cum without putting in an effort to figure out/understand how to do so. And I still have my most intense orgasms with no input of a man whatsoever. I think if a man were to put in an effort to make a woman cum with a complete lack of physical desire on her part, he could do that. Probably wouldn’t be worth it for either one of them though. To your original sentiment, I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 12:47 PM
2	Why is being “her best” your responsibility? Because men pay hookers so they don’t have to care about making her cum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 12:29 PM
2	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Awh I love that you think I’m triggered just because you say so. I meant it when I said you can keep seeing women as gold diggers and leave us the fuck alone. Since you seem to be confused, I was talking about you specifically, not all men. I also love that you can generalize women but god forbid a woman does the same. You hate women who treat men bad so you accuse every woman you interact with of treating men bad to justify your hatred for them, genius! You delude yourself in thinking that ‘hat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 08:20 AM
2	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Not once have I even implied that I hate men, sugar foot. But here’s something that might turn you on a bit, since you’re so desperately searching for hate. I hate men that abuse women. I hate men that physically intimidate women into compliance. Is this doing it for you, baby? I hate men that excuse those men’s violence towards women with ‘but women are gold diggers, gotcha!’ Thankfully for me, most men don’t do any of those things. Just a vocal minority in an internet forum. Damn, I hope that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 07:33 AM
2	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? A. It’s not about attractiveness it’s about social intelligence. Why listen to men tell you how to ‘pull women’ and then call women unempathetic because it doesn’t work? I’ve seen interactions exactly like you’re referring to play out first hand. Men tell themselves if they are persistent enough she’ll give in. They ignore the fact that she’s avoiding his gaze, they ignore her attempts to back away from the conversation, they ignore her very visible discomfort because they think if they try hard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 07:18 AM
1	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Sorry sweet cheeks, I read the comment chain. I noticed that you refuse to contextualize women’s responses since that wouldn’t allow you to twist every response into ‘see? You hate men’. Just admit you hate women, makes no difference to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 06:23 AM
1	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? A. No, it’s not. A man will never be called creepy if he stops interacting with a person the moment he realizes they don’t want the interaction. A man will never get called creepy if he doesn’t try to ‘get away’ with behavior he knows makes another person uncomfortable. B. It took me a while to try to understand what you meant by this… I don’t think this concept is at all comparable to a woman looking for a good deal on material objects. I’ve never seen a woman get ‘weird’ or extreme over a good…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 05:43 AM
2	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Nope	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 05:23 AM
3	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Nope, not at all. Just using your logic against you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 02:42 AM
3	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Yeah, view us as gold diggers and leave us the fuck alone. Can’t dig the gold of someone who won’t interact with you, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 02:34 AM
5	How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public? Why is ‘leave me alone when I say no’ considered a weirdly unique set of standards? Yes, crossing boundaries is universally creepy behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 02:06 AM
2	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier That’s violence against men perpetuated by who? Also How is stating a fact ‘blowing things out of proportion’?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 01:51 AM
3	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier No, you said they don’t. Scroll back up. In any case, define what you mean by ‘need’? Because they’re doing it. Whether you feel they need it or not. It’s human behavior, not gendered. Some are just doing it in a self destructive way. And again, that is the specific subset of men that I am referring to. I’m not blowing the problem out of proportion. I live in the US, mass shootings are a regular issue, violence against women is an every day occurrence. Men with healthy emotional regulation aren’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 11:27 PM
5	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier No, men sharing ALL of their emotions with a singular individual is what I consider dumping their emotions on them. You’re making it seem like I think it’s wrong for men to share emotions with their partner, that is not the case. Obviously there is a healthy amount of MUTUAL emotional labor within a partnership- that’s not what I’m talking about here. You responded to the question ‘men don’t share emotions or use people as emotional outlets’ by saying they don’t. But they do. You’re just saying …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 09:36 PM
5	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier Because they can’t get a partner to dump, yes dump, their emotions on then men should just stew in it until what? They kill themselves or someone else? You are contradicting yourself by saying men don’t share emotions AND that they express anger when they feel it. Anger is an emotion. And if your emotional growth wasn’t stunted then you would be able to express it in other ways BEFORE it solidified into anger (and often times violence). Can’t conflate ‘sharing your life’ with emotional labor. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 08:48 PM
12	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier Men are the ones saying they’re feeling more lonely, isolated, and committing suicide at a higher rate? So maybe that’s what makes it wrong? It’s not even that most men don’t share emotions or use people as emotional outlets. Many just express it as anger directed at other men AND women. Many are desperately seeking a woman to dump all of it on, which surprisingly some women feel is too much to handle by themselves. Obviously we all would want people we care about to be happy and never have an i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 08:09 PM
2	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Not to continue this argument, I just edited my earlier comment to respond to your edit. Good luck with whatever path you take and I wish you happiness in your choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:12 AM
9	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. I don’t hate anything. I just don’t want to. And I’m not going to make such a huge life altering decision out of some misguided sense of obligation to people who have never met me and aren’t alive any more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 09:21 AM
6	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Because I didn’t ask them to do that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 09:14 AM
5	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Realize that you decided that it’s your duty all on your own. Other people don’t assign the same meaning to their ‘bloodlines.’ As far as I’m concerned it’s just a string of people fucking that incidentally led to my existence, and nobody will even notice when it ends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 09:11 AM
11	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. Why not? Edit: I’m 27. I used to think I wanted kids, over time I started realizing that I was seeing it as an inevitability. When I hit my mid 20s I realized just how much of a choice I really have, felt like a huge weight off my shoulders. I hope that eventually if you have kids you do it because YOU want to, not because you think your ancestors want you to experience that ‘struggle’ or whatever. Your life can have whatever meaning you give it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 08:44 AM
3	The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scale It’s quite different. Someone just staring at you is neutral, you don’t really know why they’re doing it. Leering and ogling feel like there’s a malicious intent behind it. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman with that expression, but men look almost mean when they do it, as if they’re preying on you. It’s really uncomfortable, downright scary if I’m alone. I’m not fighting anything. Men who do it are shooting themselves in the foot because they don’t have a chance of attracting women with that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 06:42 AM
1	The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scale You keep ignoring the fact that men ogle regardless. I’ve worn jeans and a sweater and been leered at, baggy sweats, long flowing dresses. No matter where I go, no matter how appropriately I’m dressed for the venue, men will ogle. There’s no correlation for me between the amount of clothing I’m wearing and the amount of objectification I receive. The men who choose to do it will do it regardless, and the men who are respectful won’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 06:07 AM
4	The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scale I don’t see the problem here. People are allowed to wear what they want, you’re allowed to stare, they’re allowed to feel creeped out and call you out, you’re allowed to feel annoyed. What you can’t do is force people not to feel creeped out by creepy behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/20 05:56 AM
1	Woman gets offended by man looking at her on the bus. Woman loses it, man finds it and gives it to her. Because you’re already in too deep, my friend. And now that you’ve broken the internet argument seal this will either NEVER happen again, or it will be your life from here on out. Honestly though, I think we both know where this is going. Godspeed.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/18 10:46 PM
1	Woman gets offended by man looking at her on the bus. Woman loses it, man finds it and gives it to her. Lmfao, well suit up! I assume you have many more to come.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/18 10:36 PM
1	Woman gets offended by man looking at her on the bus. Woman loses it, man finds it and gives it to her. Honestly, 20 hours later and I’m still coming back to this thread because I love reading your arguments. You seem to be very well read and well spoken. Even as the goal posts are moved and the argument branches out you maintain your very clear and concise points. If you ever put out a podcast or something, let me know! I’d love to see you getting some well deserved support because this is just... astonishing.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/18 10:26 PM
-2	Woman gets offended by man looking at her on the bus. Woman loses it, man finds it and gives it to her. Yeah, I can see that. Equally disheartening for me, either way. This woman is definitely an asshole but generalizing an entire group of people based on her behavior is just uncalled for.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/18 02:05 AM
-7	Woman gets offended by man looking at her on the bus. Woman loses it, man finds it and gives it to her. Honestly, at first I felt like people didn’t understood anything you were trying to say in this entire thread and it made me sad. Then, as I kept reading I realized that maybe these people are fighting to support a racist comment, and I’m still sad. Using ‘their vocabulary’ when referring to how one woman is speaking to imply that this is how all black people speak... still can’t believe it’s getting upvotes.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/03/18 01:55 AM
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