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| 7 | How do I move on without getting angry at women everyday ?I looked at your picture. I agree with the other user who said you have handsome facial features, but your expression has a darkness to it. I don't think you need to get any surgery to change yourself, for what it's worth. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/25 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Stop caring, she starts chasingI think it's a sign of immaturity, I don't care about the gender. Either you care, or you don't. If you only start acting like you care because you're worried you're going to lose something, it was more about control than anything else anyway. I understand that life can be a bit more nuanced, but it's a red flag for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | should a man commit to a woman who already has children?You said "been there, done that" when it came to committing to single mothers. But you haven't. That's all I'm trying to point out. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 10:11 PM |
| 7 | should a man commit to a woman who already has children?How is going on one date the same as committing to someone? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 06:18 PM |
| 0 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞Just because I've researched this doesn't mean that I know everything. I asked them for a source because I was curious if they could provide that, wondering if there was something I hadn't yet heard of or something new. It's the internet, I don't need your permission on what I can talk about. And I'm over the bullshit narrative religious groups have been pushing that pornography addiction is at all comparable to drug addiction. That's not how addiction works. Pornography addiction is more akin t… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 03:35 AM |
| 0 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞Yes, someone else said it's like drug addiction, and I asked for them to back that opinion up. They could not. Because it is not like drug addiction. You're the only one derailing the conversation by saying that it's not the topic when I'm not even the one who brought up drug addiction. You are not "people", and you haven't called me out on anything. You haven't even made any point other than "porn not good" which I never said it was. I'm frustrated because you're a frustrating person lol. You'r… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞Everyone else? There are three people max in this conversation, and one of them brought up drug addiction, and it wasn't me. Just stop. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞I’m not upset, I’m confused at what it is you’re trying to accomplish. You’re coming off as sarcastic and condescending but maybe I’m just misinterpreting your tone. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞… The topic is clearly both. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞How? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞Do you have a chip on your shoulder or something? Did I hurt your feelings? I cant think of how. Literally all I did was ask for people to back up their claims and not spread misinformation, idk why that is upsetting you. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞Then act like it? Don't lecture about algorithms when the topic is drug addiction. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞"Chemically Addictive" is not the same as using algorithms. You can get "addicted" to literally anything if you overindulge in it. That doesn't mean that everything is addictive. There are different forms of addiction. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞A google search can turn up just about anything. Sources are what matters. I've studied this quite a bit, and I've found nothing to prove the claim that pornography is akin to drug addiction from a peer reviewed, scientific standpoint. I didn't say anything to indicate porn is beneficial to the mind, so I'm not sure why you're making that point. All I did was ask for proof to back up a medical claim. I think it's wrong to say that pornography is almost as detrimental as drug addiction with zero … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 03:41 AM |
| 0 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞With all due respect, pornography isn't chemically addictive, unlike drug addiction. None of what you said is proof, just opinion. Be careful when making medical claims like that. You're spreading misinformation. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/22 03:38 PM |
| 0 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞I would like to see some proof to back up that argument, please. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.You've got nothing to worry about my man! If she is the type of person who would get close enough to you to have that kind of meaningful sex, she's not gonna react poorly to your penis size. And if she does, kindly thank her for waving her red flags so freely and rest easy knowing you dodged a bullet. Also, if she also happens to be a virgin, don't worry if she doesn't bleed. Not every virgin bleeds after sex, so don't necessarily think there's something wrong if she doesn't. Sorry if you alread… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Please cite sound sources that "women don't know what they want" because I missed that finding. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.I see the wisdom in your words, but without telling him how to achieve that, it's not very helpful. People who believe they are inferior usually feel that way based on how they've been treated in life. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.I'm so sorry you feel that way. For what it's worth, I've been with men who are bigger than average, smaller than average, and average. In my experience, size was completely irrelevant to how good the experience was. In fact, most women I have spoken to actually prefer a man to be more average. And I've spoken to men who have large members who say that it's hard for them to enjoy sex because they're always worried that they're going to hurt the woman if they aren't extra careful. For me, the thi… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 02:18 AM |
| 2 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:I don't waste my time with throwaway accounts who need "evidence" that half of the world's population isn't a monolith, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 01:04 AM |
| 0 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:You're not OP, so you should stop talking for OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:02 PM |
| 0 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:They didn't deny it... what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:The fact that over 200 people saw this clown ass post and thought "hmm yes, this makes a good point, I shall upvote it" is so disappointing. You could literally do this about any population over any issue and find a handful of accounts claiming to be a demographic that will help you prove your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:Oh wow, you found under 50 Reddit comments by people claiming to be women to try and make a point about half of the worlds population. What astounding evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:15 AM |
| 7 | Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity.I've never met a single person in the 30 years I've been on Earth who thinks that male victims of cheating are "cucks" or a joke. How can someone interact with people outside of echo chambers on the internet and think this is a common held belief? I'm not denying there some awful people out there who may be that way, but it's an extreme minority. Most people look down on cheating and cheaters, and feel bad for the victim, regardless of their sex. I don't understand why so many people feel the ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?I was worried I was being weird and ramblely and oversharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?That's not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?You dont, what's important is how you react to rejection if it turns out to be unwanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?I know a lot of women can be awful and rude, I've seen it. But personally, if an unattractive guy politely approached me and then accepted rejection with grace, I wouldn't find him creepy at all. I'd find him impressive as hell and wish him the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?It's stupid to say unprovoked but I think it's a fair response to a guy insisting women only care about looks or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:24 AM |
| 4 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?And most sugar daddies only care about a girl if she’s pretty. How did you miss the point that bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 01:43 AM |
| 9 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?In my experience I've only heard women say that when guys insist all women care about is money and looks. Its indeed a clapback in response to brain-dead men looking to justify being mad at women. That said, if a chick is just throwing that out there at random, then that's concerning and seems manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Are you here to actually have a debate, or are you just here to bitch? People have given you really solid answers and all you're doing is ignoring it and whining about technology and you're right to make people uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?You have common sense and seem to view women as people, so that's probably why you've had more success than some of these other dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Hmm I wonder why you're having a hard time in the dating scene. Real mystery here. You'll just blame it on your looks though, won't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Not everyone uses Tinder for sex. I met my fiance on Tinder. We've been together just short of five years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Lol go touch grass, you've been on the internet too long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?I'm a lady. It all depends on the setting. If it's a social venue, hell yeah cold approach me. If I'm just going about my everyday business, please don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:49 PM |
| 10 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Oh I gotcha now. You're not dumb, everyone does that from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?When I made a Tinder account, not only was I putting myself out there as available, I made a short bio letting people know what I was looking for, which wasn't anything serious, just dipping my toes back into the dating scene. As a woman, it felt so much safer to reject someone online that I've never met than it felt to have to do the same in person. Well, I matched with the most amazing man. He started the conversation with our shared interests, something you cant do with a cold-approach. Our f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?And I dont even think Reddit agrees with that either. Dude probably just got lost in an echo chamber sub and based his entire opinion or Reddit from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Some women do. FIFY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:21 PM |
| 8 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Low value pilled man hereNobody ever said otherwise. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Low value pilled man hereThank you for sharing this. I’m not OP obviously, but I needed to hear it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Low value pilled man hereAutism thrives under routine. Even if you create your own, even if you block off vague hours to give yourself plenty of time to accomplish what you need, getting into a routine will improve your quality of life greatly. Otherwise we tend to really struggle. I’m a feminist who also has autism. Aside from a few differences, we have a lot in common. If you would be willing to have an autistic feminist friend, let me know. I’m down to chat any time in dms. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Low value pilled man hereHe admitted to having autism, so when he’s asking questions like “how” and people are being vague, it’s not translating for him. He’s not trying to be difficult, he just operates differently than people without autism. A lot of us thrive on blunt, direct, specific information as opposed to general blanket advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?I agree that we all compete but the majority of women I know (myself included) wear leggings on low effort days. If we wanna look good we wear something else. Leggings are just comfy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?My dude, I don’t look good in leggings, but I wear them because they’re comfy as hell. Not everything is a competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?You can’t base reality on memes, come on now. And unless if you have been a woman trying to attract a man, I don’t think you’re in the best position to say what it’s like and what a majority of men expect from you. I’m a woman and I am not some crazy to please creature. Neither are any of my friends. We just want a guy who is sexually appealing who we can connect with and who treats us kindly. My best friend is a beautiful, 5’5” 115 lb, intelligent psychiatrist. She’s dated guys shorter than her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?13 isn’t an uncommon age to start in the west... and also isn’t Brazil considered western as well? Though there are a lot of great singles in their 20s and 30s here in the States. I’ve never been to Brazil so I can’t rightly comment on what it’s like there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?Too true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?Lol they wouldn’t be able to handle the fact that I’ve had multiple opportunities to cheat on him with “Chads” and refused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?Depends on the time and place, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?Okay I think I understand what you’re saying now. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?Maybe that’s true nowadays but for most of history there was little women could do to get out of a marriage and refuse her husband. Up until recently it was legal for a man to rape his wife. Hell, it’s still legal in many parts of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?I don't know what you mean either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?Pussy has always had the power. Either I'm misunderstanding what you're trying to say, or that's one of the most ridiculous statements I've ever heard. Women have been treated as little more than property for most of history. This isn't uncommon knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?Unfortunately, almost all reasonable, loyal, not bothersome and satisfying women were taken back in highschool (or are lesbian). Ah yes, because high school relationships are so successful on average. You seem a bit jaded, my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?I feel like you could switch "men" with "women" and still have a valid statement. Who doesn't want loyalty, reasonability, sexually satisfying and not much of a bother/nuisance? Yet men and women settle for less. Regardless, the point I was trying to make was that what is seen as sexually satisfying is what has changed in recent times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do all women eventually settle?I mean, millennials have been of marriage age for at least 10 years, some getting close to 20. It's true that things may change as time progresses, but nobody can say for sure one way or the other. Edit: I didn't respond to your second point. I think you're putting too much value on looks and looks alone. Yes, people care about looks, I'm not going to pretend otherwise. But I think a lot of people are looking for something deeper than that. Shopping around doesn't have to be about looks alone. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 05:00 PM |
| 4 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?Women complain about street harassment but yet they all walk around in yoga pants or tights with their asses on display. Looking attractive is not a licence to harass people on the street. The way you worded it, it sounds like you think it's wrong of women to expect to be treated decently just because they dress a certain way. Am I reading you wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 04:40 PM |
| 7 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?What? No, just no. Women appreciate a man who takes time to better his looks. And there have even been studies showing that (regardless of sex) people are treated far better when they are more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?Nobody said anything about majority. You're putting words into this persons mouth, which isn't a sign of good faith when trying to have an honest discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 04:37 PM |
| 5 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?What I'm really curious about is if there have ever been any conclusive, valid studies proving these theories? I think that attractiveness is important to both sexes. I think both sexes are given impossible standards to try and achieve to be "the best." But I also think that at the end of the day, most people are just happy if they can find someone who they can connect with. And I've also seen how what is 'attractive' can differ greatly depending on personality. My boyfriend is not conventionall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Do all women eventually settle?Lol okay. I never even said anything about “the average anything” but you think what you want homie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 10:47 AM |
| 5 | Do all women eventually settle?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 12:17 PM |
| 75 | Do all women eventually settle?Men and women have extremely high standards these days. I don't really think that's a bad thing though. And being settled for is just as awful for a woman as it is for a man. But your claim that "all [women] think they can get celebrity like men who are not only an 8 or 9 in the looks department, but also well rounded in every other area" is just silly. Not all women think that. Sure, all women would like that. All men would too. Who wouldn't want that in a partner? The key is that not all peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do many western women not even try to conceal red flags anymore?Do you understand how ridiculous you sound when you over emphasize a point so much it derails what you were actually trying to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 03:30 AM |
| 9 | Why do many western women not even try to conceal red flags anymore?That's what you think having a sex life means, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Why do many western women not even try to conceal red flags anymore?Do not pretend that the only kind of abuse is physical, or that its only women who experience abuse Nobody was pretending that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do many western women not even try to conceal red flags anymore?I like how you're comparing a woman with dirty clothes on the floor of her own apartment with an unshowered dude with his cheese dusted belly hanging out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Why do many western women not even try to conceal red flags anymore?I met my boyfriend on Tinder and it's the most healthy, wonderful relationship of my life. We're getting close to 5 years together too! I get that the app has a lot of stigma, but it's not all bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Lied and got away with itThat must be a UK thing because I’ve never heard that term before. Pretty disgusting. | /r/PussyPass | 23/10/19 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Lied and got away with it‘Indecent images of children’ is a weird way to say “child porn” and I’m wondering if this wasn’t a case of anime images. Like loli’s and shit. I know that the UK also charged a man of being a pedophile because he liked twinks. Considering that twinks are not children, just small feminine men, I’m skeptical. If it actually was child porn that she was looking at, it’s fucking awful that she wouldn’t get time. | /r/PussyPass | 22/10/19 04:58 PM |
| 2 | My Red Pill Detox has been simply having female friendsHow is that objectifying? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/19 04:03 AM |
| 3 | My Red Pill Detox has been simply having female friendsIt saved you from being an incel, which is a win for everyone. Btw, hopeless virgin isn’t the same thing as incel imo. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Can everyone take a chill pill and just let people live their life?Wait... there are people in their mid-20s who aren't bitter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Can everyone take a chill pill and just let people live their life?I completely agree with you, and I'm also someone who has lost my shit and insulted people. I take the slightest bit of pride in the fact that I only do it if they start the insults first, otherwise I'll keep it civil. And for anyone to say it's one side over the other, they're full of shit. I consider myself a true purple. I've had red-pill people spew emotionally fueled hatred at me just as many times as I've had blue-pilled people do the same. I will say, however, that this subreddit is NOT a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesNot really, guys talk shit behind others backs all the time. It's just stereotyped as a feminine thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/18 01:51 AM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates“People say horrible things about other people because people find a way to be horrible to everyone.” There, fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 10:12 AM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesNot just theoretically. Oddly enough, I can say that I’ve never met a fat girl who wouldn’t date a decent fat guy, but I’ve met lots of fat men who will not date fat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesYeah he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesWomen are applauded no matter what they do. Spoken like someone who has never been a woman. I’ve seen people say terrible things about single moms. “Can’t keep no man.” “Must be a whore.” “She probably strips for a living.” I’ve also seen people praise single dads. “Single dad’s empower their daughters!” “Being a single dad is so brave!” Etc etc. I’ll agree that there is a bias in the way that dads are treated vs moms, especially when it comes to family court. But to say that women are applauded… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesRp ideas about men/women are really just ideas about all humans regardless of gender, but RP tries to make it gender-specific. I couldn’t have said it better myself! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesActually, you’re wrong. My brother was a jock type, very athletic and handsome, so a lot of girls wanted to have sex with him. He’s a bit old fashioned though and wanted to save sex for marriage. I had a lot of people in high school tell me that my brother “must be gay” because he didn’t want to fuck them. I also rode the bus in high school and the guys would all group together and be very crude. One time one of the guys admitted that he was still a virgin and they nearly tore him to pieces, say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesThe same can be said about fat guys not wanting to date fat girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide ratesIt’s really weird to hear you say that you’re not arguing generalizations, and then you turn around and argue generalizations. You have a clear bias here due to your experiences with your wife. You’re making this about gender when your points are more about human nature than male vs. female. There are men and women who will settle, and there are men and women who will jump ship as soon as something better comes their way. The idea of a beta male not being as desirable to a woman is laughable. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?I applaud you for being the type of person who doesn't try to impose her beliefs on others, but there is nothing wrong with challenging yourself to try and figure out why you feel the things you do. I don't think anyone here is saying that you're worried those little old ladies are going to come back and get you if you don't "behave." The point is that they have obviously left an imprint on you that may be worth analyzing for self reflection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?That's completely fair, but your worded it as inappropriate to do as a wife. I would ask you to challenge yourself on why you think these things are inappropriate. It would seem that the little old gossips authority has affected you on a deeper level than you might realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?If anything it sounds like she made herself an ex haha. As in, it was her actions that lead to it, not that she broke up with him lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?... Um... yikes. Just cause a woman is married doesn't mean that she can't wear certain types of clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?I only agree with you on the front of that it has to do with the values the couple has. I don't think it inherently has to do with how serious the relationship is. Both me and my boyfriend are attracted to people of the same sex, and also people of the opposite sex. Being the way we are, it would be impossible for us to say "okay, we're only allowed to hang out with other people in groups. No more one on one time with any of our friends." That just isn't healthy. We're also very trusting of one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?No, it does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?Yeah, that sounds reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/18 04:52 PM |
| 4 | What do you define as cheating?I agree for the most part, but there are some people who are overly controlling to an abusive level. Person A shouldn't have to cut off ties with all their friends of an opposite sex because Person B isn't okay with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you define as cheating?Personally, when it comes to the topic of cheating, I don't think that there is a "one size fits all" standard. I think it's up to the individual couple to decide what they are or are not comfortable with in their partnership. For example, I'm very open about my sexuality. For me, sex isn't a monogamous act. I have let my boyfriend know that he can have sex with anyone he wants, so long as he tells me about it so that I can have informed consent when I have sex with him. He has agreed and he too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?If an adult is so weak that they have to resort to trying to be 'popular' with elementary school kids, they probably shouldn't be a teacher in the first place. I think you're onto something there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?Weird. I typically browse reddit while I'm half-asleep in bed so I apologize for the misunderstanding. I could have sworn I was responding to someone who said that "guys don't care if their friends have weird girlfriends." Good job me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?Ugh, yep, shit just like that. I have a whole bunch of stories involving cruel adults. I mean seriously, what 11 year old is in control of the clothing they wear? It's not like they can get a job and go buy clothes themselves, they have to dress in what their parents give them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?Did you edit your comment? I could have sworn it originally said "guys won't care if their friend has a weird girlfriend" or something online those lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 01:31 PM |
| 3 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?Nope. When I was in middle school I had a boyfriend who liked me a lot. His friends picked on him for having a weirdo as a girlfriend so he broke up with me. I remember asking him if he thought that I was weird, and he had tears in his eyes and said he didn't, but that he didn't want to lose his friends. I mean, it was middle school, we were both kids and I don't hold it against him. Buuuuuuuuut you're definitely wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?Am I allowed to think I was a great person with seriously misguided and problematic views in which I have overcome? Actually now that I think about it... I was kind of a bitch. I justified it by only being a bitch to bullies. But damn, I was so mean to bullies. One kid had to pay me to leave him alone after I started treating him the way he was treating one of my friends. It would appear that as I had gazed into the abyss, the abyss had in turn gazed into me. Except I was a lot less badass then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 10:27 AM |
| 1 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?I'm curious, but in what country/region did you live? Also, what was the population of the school you attended? This may cause different experiences and I'm genuinely asking out of curiosity. So sorry about all the bad things that happened to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 10:20 AM |
| 5 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?You're asking people to google something that relies completely on people being willing to come forward. Typically girls bully in different ways than boys do. It was rare for me to be bullied physically by a girl, boys were the ones who would do that. But girls can be vicious in their mental/verbal abuse. I would take the boys who threw rocks at me over the girls who would pretend to be my friend only to turn around and use my vulnerabilities against me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 10:19 AM |
| 3 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?Relatable. I was never overweight as a kid, but insults about my weight were still common. A cow, a pig, a whale, a blimp... I was a skinny kid but constantly being told I was fat made me think I was fat for the longest time. I had some pretty serious eating disorders after that. It's so surreal to look at pictures of myself and realize how thin I was, the girl in the photos is not the girl I remember seeing when I looked into the mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 10:11 AM |
| 2 | What happens to socially unadjusted girls during childhood?Well, I'm a girl, and I was very socially awkward. I was homeschooled until 3rd grade, so I think that may have something to do with it. To answer your questions: Do they struggle to make friends? It's hard to say. I started public school in a suburb of Phoenix, so it was a big city with a lot of people, obviously. I found my own little group of friends and we stuck together. When I then moved to a small town in the midwest (age 12) I had a very hard time making friends. It took me about 2 years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?I have size H cup breasts. Unless if I'm wearing a turtle neck, my cleavage is showing. But it's interesting that you think you understand women more than women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?I can't believe you even bothered to keep responding to such a belligerent person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 12:55 AM |
| 8 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?You know it's nuts but like... most 18 year old guys don't go around screaming out rape threats to random women. At least not where I grew up! This dude's acting like an 18 year old, someone legally old enough to vote, is just a playful child. I bet you anything that if he did rape her, Lewis would wonder why she didn't do more to try and protect herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?I already wrote it out in detail, but one of the worst times I was sexually accosted, I was wearing sweatpants, a tank top, had very hairy pits, unwashed/unbrushed hair, no makeup, etc. Not quite what most would consider attractive! Trust me, it can happen to anyone! Furthermore, who on earth would consider peppermint-kiss "a beautiful woman" at the age of 11 when those guys were catcalling her? Your logic is very flawed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?When I was living in DCMDVA area, I had no car and had to take public transportation everywhere. I was sexually accosted nearly every time I went out. Most of the time it was something "harmless", like a guy exposing his genitals to me or catcalling me. The first time I felt genuinely afraid was when a man grabbed my wrist and shoved my hand down his pants, forcing me to feel his erection. The second time I was on a bus, standing, and a man pressed me against the back of the bus and began gropin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 12:39 AM |
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