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That last paragraph was key! Abundance Mindset. With alcohol and competition, the OP may find that she loses him in the shuffle or vice versa.
/r/seduction02/03/19 04:01 PM
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Lmao sorry I was at work and totally ignored the question. I personally have not. Are you at an intermediate level yet? That is you can consistently get numbers and dates from cold approach?
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:34 PM
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If you’re new, it’d be wiser to avoid social circle game until you’re intermediate. In the beginning you have no idea how uncalibrated you are and you’re going to lower your social status in the circle. For now I would keep it platonic and friendly. When you are consistently dating from day/night game, then you can hit on girls in your circle. Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction26/02/19 09:15 PM
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Check out an inner game course and then watch Daygame Blueprint. After that, approach for 6 months. THEN make another post. I guarantee your life and outlook will 180. Sarge On
/r/seduction25/02/19 09:00 PM
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Congratulations sir! Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction25/02/19 07:21 PM
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Deep Breaths. Good news is you are on the cusp of a breakthrough. Keep up the investment in yourself. Also, have you found a solid inner game product? I was at a similar point of frustration years ago. What finally kicked everything into place was finding a good inner game product. Also, what are you doing for approaches? Any daygame? Club/bar game? What model for your game are you using (Mystery? Lovesystems? London model?)
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:54 PM
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The mall is great! Also you can try college campuses, and downtown areas where there’s a cluster of shops and restaurants. Be sure to find a good inner game product and also watch daygame blueprint! Note: Use the Yosha stop from Blueprint, especially if you’re in a mall.
/r/seduction23/02/19 04:22 PM
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You ever think about day game?
/r/seduction23/02/19 03:28 PM
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I’m going to assume you were friends/acquaintances with this person, and you were just sending a fun/friendly text like “Hey I saw you at such & such place...” If that’s the case then no. She might just be joking or trying to spark conversation. Or she just might be neurotic.
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:45 AM
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This says nothing in and of itself. Having good inner game doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings. Having good inner game is more related to confidence and centeredness respectively, especially in relation to approaching, dating, etc.
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:40 AM
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We all come to this point in the beginning. Ultimately you have to make this decision yourself. A real question would be to ask are you just burnt out from reading too much game theory? From the emotional roller coasters of dating when new at game? If you feel overwhelmed or burnt out just take a break.
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:35 AM
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Omg yes!!!! Like bruh you’re in my head!!!! I just wish more people knew this! I have a buddy who I got into game, but he never bought into mindset. What’s crazy is that we both use the exact same outer game system... but he struggles and I thrive.
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:00 AM
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I would add one caveat to the idea of challenging negative beliefs about your ability to date: 1) Approaching in itself will eventually provide positive reference experiences to help you take on empowering beliefs. 2) FIND A GOOD INNER GAME PRODUCT: This is a great aid to getting rid of those bad beliefs Thanks OP for posting this! I was beginning to think I was the only person in this subreddit who still believes in mindset and inner game. Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:25 PM
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Social Anxiety is tough! Don’t worry you will get through it. 1) Check our Daygame Blueprint and a solid inner game product (check out datingskillreviews.com) 2) Consider therapy if anxiety levels are past manageable. Hypnotherapy can deal with it quickly and you would only need a few sessions to get over the anxiety levels.
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:16 PM
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Awesome response!
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:11 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:46 AM
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Welcome to Fight Club! ​ If you have any questions about your interactions or just game in general, this is reddit is a great resource! ​ Have to upvote you just on your courage! Congrats on the first day of the rest of your life ;) ​ Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:33 PM
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Daygame Blueprint is a course that teaches Daygame. Just google around for it. I would check out the reviews on datingskillsreviews.com to find a good inner game product. Unfortunately, my inner game coach retired and became a philosophy professor so I can’t recommend him anymore! Welcome to Fight Club!
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:25 PM
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Lmao (but no really, are they like that?)
/r/seduction18/02/19 04:31 AM
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Day Game and inner game focus. You work on those two areas and your life will completely turn around, trust me. Daygame Blueprint and a solid inner game product (like models or invincible). Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction18/02/19 02:32 AM
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Hobbies with Females: Large Jiu Jitsu gyms with several stars on google, dance classes, yoga, charity events (soup kitchen and animal shelters, etc) I wouldn’t do social circle for game right away though. Usually you need to get some experience, social calibration, and confidence before you can effectively game social circles. Social circles have higher consequences for women ( slut shaming, awkwardness, etc), so the stakes are higher. I would recommend doing cold approaches first to hone your f…
/r/seduction18/02/19 02:28 AM
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Honestly just sounds like burn out. Nothing weird at all.
/r/seduction18/02/19 02:20 AM
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I think I understand where you’re coming from. Try to sit side by side at the bar when you’re out for drinks. In the earlier moments of the date try whisper something in her ear a few times (1-3) to get her used to you invading her space. After you guys are “warmed up” just go for the kiss during a lull. If you’re feeling nervous, initiate the kiss on her cheek and then move slowly over to her lips.
/r/seduction18/02/19 01:57 AM
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No need to reinvent the wheel here. ​ I would highly recommend you watch Daygame Blueprint. It'll cover questions like these. Trust me, the approach isn't half as hard as it seems in the beginning. ​ Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction18/02/19 01:05 AM
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Not uncommon of a fear. ​ If you do daygame approaches, chances are you will never see her again if she rejects you. ​ Usually, if you compliment them and are confident, they will be flattered that someone stopped them to compliment and talk to them. Unfortunately, it's one of those things you have to see to believe.
/r/seduction18/02/19 01:02 AM
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The "who breaks eye contact first" thing is a myth. It's not going to make or break the interaction. The real important issue is whether or not you are approaching these women. Eye contact during conversation is more important than eye fucking someone from a distance (they may be wondering if you're going to harm them). ​ Use this video everyday for a month, once a day. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5w3cYtJekpw
/r/seduction18/02/19 12:59 AM
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I would recommend watching Daygame Blueprint and getting a solid inner game product. Great education course for a beginner/white belt. ​ These two alone will transform your life. ​ Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction18/02/19 12:53 AM
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See my above posts.
/r/seduction16/02/19 01:11 PM
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A course about texting
/r/seduction16/02/19 01:11 AM
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Check out Mark Manson’s book “Models” In it he talks about vulnerability. He says you know you’re invulnerable when you can openly talk about flaws and embarrassing situations. For instance a lot of PUA’s openly admit they are dating coaches to their lovers and that they once themselves had problems dating women. Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction16/02/19 01:01 AM
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Whenever you approach women in non-club, non-bar, and non-social Circle situations. Malls, and streets are best examples of day game.
/r/seduction15/02/19 11:31 PM
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You won’t have to worry about that. Girls aren’t dumb. They’ll know you’re interested. They’ve been hit on before. If she’s not attracted then she’ll friend zone you and could possibly act like she didn’t know you were interested. Unless she’s really out of your league, she’ll know that you are interested. You could ask anybody for coffee. She knows there is a reading you asked her.
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:59 PM
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The only way is too develop social calibration. To do that you need to approach. Also study these 2: Inner Game Product (a good one) Daygame Blueprint I have a list for a comprehensive home study course of game, but this is a great place to start for beginners!
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:54 PM
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A good way to classify social circle is someone you will see on a consistent basis. So co-workers, acquaintances, friends,etc would be under the wide umbrella of social circle.
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:36 PM
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Social media? Why didn’t you ask for her number?
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:06 PM
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So you have never done one before?
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:03 PM
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Welcome to Fight Club! Study the following: An inner Game Product (a good one) Day game Blue Print There’s more products I recommend for comprehensive game. But these 2 are a great crash course on meeting new people. Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:00 PM
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In theory that sounds like a great idea. The only problem is that in reality most of us never developed the level of social calibration and inner game that cold approaches and inner game work gives us. Unless you have those two aspects down already, you will probably just be friend zoned at best. Or just labeled “creepy” by her to your social circle at worst. Then again, I’ve never met you and only you know where you’re at with game. If you’re a novice/white belt... I would highly recommend avoi…
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:52 PM
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Avoid social circle game while you’re a white belt! Instead, cold approach and study the following: Day game blueprint, an inner game product, magnetic messaging, vin di Carlo escalation ladder, and Trace Loft “massage your date”
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:44 PM
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https://reddit.app.link/VaoKXyxIkU
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:41 PM
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Long Term Solution: Find a quality inner game product. Short Term: Bring/bribe friends to come (tell them there will be hot chicks there) if you can. Otherwise just do your best to force yourself to go. Your nerves usually get better after you get there.
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:01 PM
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“Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm”-Winston Churchill Per Aspera Ad Astra
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:49 PM
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Perfect! It’s not a big deal if you change plans then. If it was an hour from now that might require some calibration. But no worries, you’re fine if you change the plans. You’re expected to lead, and as long as she has fun she’ll give you a pass on anything you do ;)
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:25 PM
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Tell her you’re not into that.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:20 PM
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“Change of plans-we’re pre-gaming at my place then going to movie/comedy club.” How far away is the date? Today? Tomorrow?
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:20 PM
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Ooh... then pre-game at your place quick before going out. I remember in college days this wasn’t necessarily considered unusual, especially due to being unable to drink at bar.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:09 PM
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There's a quite a few different strategies and venues you can do. I'll give you the cheapest, most basic one I can think of. ​ 1) Drinks. Just grab a few drinks together. Relax, have fun, and explore the usual bonding topics (where she grew up, what her relationship with her family [cough cough especially her dad cough] is like, where she would like to travel/vacation, where she sees her career going, what college was like, what her past relationships were, etc. The usual date stuff. I would avo…
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:20 PM
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Welcome to Fight Club :) Take a deep breath. Forget the college themed time limit. You are young and you are going to have a lot of sexual adventures! How do I know? You came here for help. A lot of us, including myself, have a similar story. ​ I had emotional and behavioral problems that prevented me from connecting with women. A lot of us on here have had varying degrees of frustration with dating, but we found a way. ​ Dating is just a skill. Like any skill, you get better with practice and s…
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:35 PM
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I would not recommend approaching girls in your circle before you reach intermediate stage. It sounds like night game isn't your thing. It's not mine either. Daygame is a lot easier (less cockblocks from her female friends, and her orbiters, less logisitcs to handle, etc). The best strategy would be to "train" via cold approaches and get to the intermediate stage prior to pursuing social circle game. Here's a link to products I recommend if you are starting out (not sure if you are): https://www…
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:43 AM
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1)First off: check out “magnetic messaging” and Braddocks guide to phone game. 2)For the first date I would recommend using the tactic from magnetic, I.e. you only text on the days you are trying to get her out. The reason for this tactic is because ppl lose interest/excitement over an event when it’s in the distant future. It’ll be easier for her to be excited about drinks tonight than for her to maintain the same excitement 3 days into the future. 3) Take them out Sunday through Thursday. You …
/r/seduction13/02/19 10:35 PM
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Inner game training and consistent approaching. You did the right thing: no one is worth your peace. Sarge on brother!
/r/seduction13/02/19 10:19 PM
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1) Here are some recommended guides: Daygame Blueprint, Inner game coaching (check out Datingskillsreview.com) , Date against the Machine, Vin Di Carlo Escalation ladder, Massage Your Date, and Magnetic Messaging. Focus on Inner Game first and foremost (don't make the mistake that most of us do and put the cart before the horse by focusing on outer game first). ​ 2) Always ask for the number when cold approaching. This needs to become a reflex. I can't tell you how many times I thought the appro…
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:32 PM
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"After fighting, everything else in your life got the volume turned down. You could deal with anything." Fight Club quote. That's what cold approaching and the community remind me of. Congratulations my guy! Hope you are acting responsible with your new developing superpower ;)
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:14 PM
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Hey man, you have my prayers at this time. You're in a tough spot. Ultimately, only you know what's best for you and your situation. That being said, I would recommend the following: talk to your closest friends about it. Pray on it. Meditate. Go to therapy (this is a traumatic experience, so it's best to find healthy ways of dealing with it) if you can afford it. ​ Also some of the advice on here might be harsh sounding, but just remember we're all with you. We're all here because we want to ge…
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:12 PM
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OMG no, I am not trying to say that. What I meant to say is that usually when I go out to approach, I'll spend a few hours (2-3) and approach about 5 girls (I usually go for solo or two sets). Out of those 5 I can get at least 1-3 numbers consistently, some days, all 5. When I said, "get numbers consistently" in my earlier post, I didn't mean get every number. Just that you can get them, relative to the time you put in, on a consistent basis. Hope that clarifies things. But yes... I am considere…
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:05 PM
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Do not try and bend the spoon, that's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth...there is no spoon. Then you'll see that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself. ​ Shit tests are overrated. This type of mentality creates a me vs her thought process. It makes it feel like your going to war. Game and sales tend to have a lot of overlap. When a customer says or does something awkward, you would just smile, laugh it off, or just politely acknowledge it. You could make a joke, o…
/r/seduction13/02/19 06:49 AM
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Basic Strategies: 1) Keep up the cold approaching. This is where calibration is built. The timing and the nerves of steel you develop from this will carry over to social circle game. 2) Obviously don't ask for her number if you are around other people, as this can cause her anxiety. 3) Your best bet may be to friend her on Facebook or IG first. I would recommend this as a failsafe. Only when your inner game and calibration are strong, can you bypass this and simply ask for her number first. Inst…
/r/seduction13/02/19 06:35 AM
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Recommendations: Texting: Magnetic Messaging https://www.datingskillsreview.com/magnetic-messaging/ and the Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game https://www.datingskillsreview.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-text-and-phone-game-love-systems-braddock-mr-m/ ​ Approach Conversation: Look at Daygame Blue Print and Rage Against the Machine (both former daygame.com products) ​ Dating Conversations aka the "Comfort Phase/Bonding Phase": Yeezus, that's a tough one. Honestly, your best bet is to get an inner …
/r/seduction13/02/19 06:24 AM
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1) Inner game. It's the missing link, I promise you. If you study Neil Gaiman's memoir, in a very subtle way, he states that one of the things he did to get good at game was get his inner game right. Mark Manson stated that if you can get the fear out of approaching and interacting with high value ppl (attractive women and cool guys) then the rest takes care of itself. 2) Remember that it's a numbers game. From a logical perspective the numbers are against us in the short term. We approach beaut…
/r/seduction13/02/19 06:15 AM
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Inner game deals with the inner psychology that accompanies game. For instance: Have a problem with approach anxiety? Inner game issue. Have problems with social anxiety in general e.g. you feel really uncomfortable or generally uneasy around high value males like your boss or you feel uncomfortable during pauses in a conversation with an attractive woman. Inner game issue. The best inner game training I received was from an inner game coach who is no longer in the community. He retired and beca…
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:50 AM
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Right on brother!
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:45 AM
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Not sure the context to this, but here goes my best guess: 1) Whether it's daygame or club game, I would recommend a direct opener. "Hey I though you looked nice/cute, so I had to come say hello. I'm Bishop.. " extend your hand and go from there. 2) Don't worry about being "flirty"; anytime you approach a stranger, there is implicit sexual tension. 3) Sounds like there might be a problem with keeping a conversation going. In that case I would fall back on the DaygameBlueprint model of assumption…
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:50 PM
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This was a great post! A few additional caveats: This might be considered "advanced" but I think it's doable, once you start to reach the intermediate stages of "game": public sex isolation tactics. I'll give you the best examples of this: At a bar (works perfect with the pool example) and at a movie theater. I've had sex in both locations with women on first dates. When you are at a movie, you can come up with an urgent excuses to leave in the middle of the movie (preferably, choose a movie you…
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:21 PM
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Lol! But what if this just made daygame easier? The fact that most guys are reliant on tinder and bars and social circles just makes it that much more of a romantic movie moment for her when a charming young man compliments her in the day time! Women, are not blind to the fact that most guys need alcohol and club setting, or need to hide behind a keyboard, before they can "shoot their shot". I think this greatly helps with the approach. It's not enough to counteract bad mechanics (like a high pi…
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:21 AM
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NoTeach9, I'm not sure if you mean your individual belief in this has died... or if you think males in general feel this way. I highly doubt the latter, because that's how all these PUA's make their money. It's the specific belief that you can convince a women you are a valuable mate, with or without looks, that is so marketable. That being said, it's well known that there are several ways to be and/or present yourself as attractive as a male that doesn't require facial beauty: fashion, social c…
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:11 AM
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Hahahha, this post was insanely amusing (pun intended). I know that when Andy Yosha left Daygame.com there seemed to be less value on the market. Yad himself is great, but his products are less structured/systematized so it can be harder to follow if you need structure to learn (like myself). Honestly, day game has always been niche though, even compared to game in general. Without a giant powerhouse like what Daygame.com once was, it's hard for this area to stick out and appeal to people. With …
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:00 AM
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