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ConversationBitchLetEmKnow/r/seduction26/05/22 06:22 AM
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He didn't seem too worried about you losing interest after ignoring you for 2 weeks. I have a feeling he won't care/notice if you start being aloof again. You've already shown him you like him so any pullback is gonna be seen as hurt feelings from you regardless.
/r/seduction01/04/24 02:48 PM
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Quite literally this. Especially if im on an app. If we're having good conversation but it's mostly staying on SFW topics, doesn matter if im sending paragraphs, im gonna get bored. On top of having one good but boring conversation, i have a bunch of other dudes doing the same exact song n dance with me and i gotta weed through the ones i wanna give the time of day for and then hope they can also give me good conversation and not eventually get bored. I chuck it all up as too much work and none …
/r/seduction02/03/24 11:07 PM
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Sounds like the problematic ones dont deserve a shred of respect but atleast they're leaving and you can carey your own. I hope the rest of your volunteering time is smooth once the problem people go.
/r/seduction18/12/23 03:57 PM
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women can be nasty Haha as a woman, can confirm. My Mom is the biggest bitch i know (nMom) and she gets it from her Mama. She's the same one who says she trusts no one and doesn't like "females." How old are these women? Are they from your country too or native to this island? Honestly if it's a power dynamic you're worried about too then I would be more concerned about resigning from the volunteer position and going back home. You're trapped on this island and they know it. I know the world col…
/r/seduction18/12/23 08:31 AM
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So reverse it on them. Quite literally make a scene. Women do it all the time. The best part about it for you is you dont even have to create much of a scene. Just elevate your voice just enough that others can hear you complain and show disgust on your face while making an active attempt to distance with the audience that you created watching. Now you have witnesses to the aftermath of an uncomfortable situation and they will be easily identified. Proceed with caution if you try this and make s…
/r/seduction18/12/23 07:42 AM
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You know whats worse than a woman hearing no? "You're making me really uncomfortable." The LAST thing a woman wants to be is seen as creepy, offputting, discomforting to be around. Aka things they think of men they'd rather not be bothered with.
/r/seduction18/12/23 07:18 AM
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Id rather not fuck my friends. Makes things complicated. I prefer OLD and fucking the ones who stick around as fwb
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:20 PM
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I mean, if it's just a date and nothing serious, no girl is gonna put you on their feed. Not worth the 20 million questions we will get from friends who follow us asking "who is thiiiiis? 👀👀" "is he your bf?" "How long have yall been dating??" Blah blah blah. Or worse, their unwelcomed criticism of the guy we're out with. Just like changing your status to "in a relationship" on facebook, instagram is no different if you share a dinner pic with a guy you're going out with included in it. Maybe so…
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:34 PM
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If you have to hesitate on whether or not to date her simply because of her weight, just leave her alone and stick with skinny/average ones. No one deserves to be settled for or have someone like them cause they decided to look past things they deemed "flaws".
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:21 PM
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I like this too but still on the tame end: "i like your eyes", "you have such a pretty smile" stuff that's more focused on my face and less on my body
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:49 AM
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As far as being on the receiving end of this question, i prefer to be called "cute" simply because I genuinely think i am. I don't think im "hot" or "sexy" unless i am genuinely trying to be and 90% of the time im not. Being approached with "Hey beautiful/sexy/gorgeous" are turn offs. They just feel like "big" compliments and compliments i hear all the fucking time nonetheless so it comes off as disingenuous. You're telling me what you tell every other girl you hit on. I'd sooner be more flatter…
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:44 AM
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I think you and OP would benefit more from girls wanting relationships than those wanting hook ups or attention. I think girls who don't vibe with your energy really don't want someone to settle down with just yet and y'alls personalities are the long term relationship type. Cold approaches would be harder to gage what women want what cause you don't know them but OLD atleast gives you profiles to read to kno where their stance is/what they're looking for.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:38 AM
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TL;DR: It depends on the person but yes it can be seen as a bad thing. Just like there is toxic negativity there is a such thing as toxic positivity. Being so god damn optimistic and upbeat about anything and everything it's damn near sickening to those who want to focus on the "reality" of the world: "life has its ups and downs. Ultimately it sucks but keep on trucking" kind of mindset. You are in no way bad for having this kind of personality, in fact, it's one a lot of us wish we could have. …
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:34 AM
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Appreciate it. Hoping for the best for you :)
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:08 PM
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Love how you seem to only respond to the very few comments validating the fact that you think her sudden lack of interest is because she's testing you. She's not. She's waiting for you to take initiative to show you're just as eager to make an effort to see her like she's been making with you. Reply and ask questions and reach out first = she believes you're interested and willing to make the effort Don't reply, continue to wait for her to say something else and hold out till she's done "testing…
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:41 PM
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I don't like concerning my life around someone else. The most i want is an fwb. Or NSA. while we're together we can do whatever but the minute we separate I'll do my own thing and they theirs.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:23 AM
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Gonna expose a girl code real quick so...sorry. But if you approach a girl to dance, whatever way you do, and she eventually and quickly gets in to a position to where she is facing away from you while dancing and the next thing you know a friend of hers suddenly and urgently needs her or suddenly wants to dance with her and uses her own body to block you off, she gave her friends the signal. A lot of women (myself included) are too nice to turn down men we simply do not want to dance with or if…
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:02 AM
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Instead of scouting them out and trying to "play the field" just treat them as someone you're trying to become friends with. Don't try to be the guy you "think" they're looking for. Literally be yourself. Ask her about what she likes or what she does in her free time and build conversation on that. Allow yourself to have differences and embrace them in conversation but obviously don't put her down for the things she doesn't like that you do. Don't be in a rush for anything and try not see women …
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:03 AM
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You know what women like even more? Confidence. And with that sentence you show you don't have it that much Confirmed. You are conceited everything I said before. There is a fine line between Confidence and arrogance. And you're WAY past it. I have plenty confidence in myself and my reply in no way implies otherwise but go off i guess. Good luck out there Dracula cause I'm sure you are absolutely draining to women.
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:31 PM
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Telling a girl you had no more than a collective 5-10 minute interaction with that you've been "expecting her" is quite creepy, conceited and uhh whats the word...presumptuous? Unless you're fuckin Dracula I hope you don't talk to women you barely know like this. We just want conversation and not to be treated like a prize or an object. He took a gamble and put the ball in her court and she picked it up. So him being happy to hear from her would be genuine since im sure he was, which is why he h…
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:55 AM
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"I Didn't think I'd get this far..." Bro just have a conversation. Tell her you're happy to hear from her and start asking her shit.
/r/seduction27/06/22 06:32 AM
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Hard no. Depression doesn't come from a distorted reality but from actually realizing the severity of reality and how far gone the world is. Sometimes it's just a chemical imbalance and you fall in to a Depression for no reason other than "my brain made me" so it's hard to tell people what's wrong when you don't even know. You just know this is how you feel. Sometimes it stems from childhood trauma/abuse/neglect whether it be from family members, a childhood bully, a teacher etc. Thinking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:40 PM
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and was considered very attractive in China for some reason). In all honesty, it was most likely cause you are white and possibly blonde. They associate skin tone with wealth and white people are seen as "marrying up" in a lot of asian countries. A lot can give fuck all about looks so long as you look like their societal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:50 AM
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The fact she suggested another time makes me feel there is interest there but she is pretty vague. Her focus is definitely her finals so just keep it status quo and ask again after finals. If she is still vague or comes up with another excuse just take it as a loss. Atleast you still have a good friend :)
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:08 PM
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I agree with this opinion. Like yes there's always the initial attraction of physical appearance to pull you in to another but if they open their mouth and shit falls out with every word or they are super awkward, self deprecating, putting others down to lift them up, bragging, arrogance, etc. Those can easily make a person unattractive even if they are a 10. I feel like men don't realize this when women have the opinion of personality > looks. Looks will always be the first thing anyone notices…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:46 PM
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Tell her everything you want to do minus sex. If sex is the only thing you want to do, allude to it. Don't say it outright. Source: a girl who also plays the game/likes the chase
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:14 AM
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Thank you! Ill see if i can give it a try this weekend since I'll be celebrating a friend's birthday :)
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:55 AM
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I appreciate it nonetheless. I feel like I will have to make more of an effort with men i have an interest in cause i may not be their type so knowing how to handle rejection would be really nice for me. I know it'll probably be as easy as sitting and waiting but that can also be discouraging cause what if i get no approaches or worse, have to reject someone who approached me? This is why id rather see if i can make a move and not put it all on the guy. Sometimes men can be oblivious too when a …
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:08 AM
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I get the feeling she only asked you for social media (specifically IG) for follower count. So be wary of that going forward. Imo you don't need social media and its super healthy that you don't have it. But from a girl's perspective, no online presence can be a potential red flag. It makes us think "What are you trying to hide?" Especially if we are cold approached. Get IG if you like to take pictures. Facebook messenger (not the fb app) to stay connected to friends Snapchat to see what your fr…
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:11 AM
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Im a broken mother fucker. If you show too much interest it's a turn off. If you show no interest outside of basic conversation i assume you're not interested. So you have to have this balance of showing interest in sublte ways that make me have to guess if you're interested or not while not being overt about it. Following my lead instead of taking the initiative to move things along. For example, if someone shows me interest its a MAJOR turn off if they ever start a conversation with "Hey (ente…
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:31 PM
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My best friend of 7 years went after a girl that I was trying to get with even after I took her out and made out with her. So you made an attempt but feelings weren't reciprocated is all im seeing. He still respected you by backing off but if she pursued him even after he tried to keep his distance, you can't help that they just had more of connection than she did with you. Its hard to look someone in the eye and say "I like and want to date your best friend" without feelings getting hurt. So sh…
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:19 PM
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Tbh there's not too much to go off of based on what you've said. You said you've been unofficially seeing this girl for a few months. But in what way? Are yall just fucking? Is more like dating and no title has been added yet cause you don't wanna seal the deal just yet? What exactly is the dynamic between you two? More importantly, does she feel the same as you in regards to it? Did the friend know that this was someone you have been talking to for a while? Are they aware that you had feelings …
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:07 PM
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Boy who are you trying to SEDUCE?!?! fucking worry about being a good boyfriend to a girl not getting in to her pants. You are too damn young to be concerned with seduction.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:01 PM
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These "options" are only surface level attraction. Yes there will always be someone more good looking out there but she isn't trying to find a partner based on looks alone. Women will absolutely lose interest in an absolute 10 of a man if his personality is shit or non existent. They are with you because they like what they see AND they like who you are. Its a lot of work to get to that point with someone else and if a woman is getting to know other men and being secretive or whatever about it, …
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:12 PM
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Not trying to shit on you, but youd be surprised what men are willing to put their dicks in. Change cause you want to. Not cause you want to get laid. Take some pics of yourself where you truly feel pretty or have something nice on, get on tinder, badoo, hinge, bumble, whatever app you want and just put in your bio "virgin looking for her first" The men will come flying in. Albeit older, creepy and/or ugly men. But men nonetheless will come crawling to take your V. I am also fat, have skin issue…
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:34 PM
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Lmfao I dont recall claiming i was 🥴
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:13 PM
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Online its much more abundant to get an angry reaction towards rejection no matter how nice you are. In person if you try to be nice about it, some men will push cause you're smiling or making eye contact. All we're doing is acknowledging you and trying to respectfully decline. Some men don't get that hint and then we have to be mean or "a bitch" for them to leave us alone. Which can also result in an angry response. So honestly everytime a girl actually declines you instead of ghosting or going…
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:28 PM
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I don't want to fix him. He is a lost cause lol thats why i said i just want to give him affection. Some guys have walls built up cause of trauma or they've never had anyone show them physical or emotional, genuine affection. I think he has a little of both. This guy doesn't like his hair or face touched, insecure about his body (he's very skinny), Hates social interactions, very introverted and of course, depressed as all hell. But he lights up around me, is very playful, flirty, talkative, lau…
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:26 PM
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Lol I thankfully am not just sadly in a situation like hers. Mine will be coming to an end as well.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:05 PM
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Too many reasons to guess. The only way youll know is if you ask through the grapevine (other coworkers) or ask directly what's her fucking deal. Some people will not like you just because they don't like you. doesn't matter to them that they actually don't know you AT ALL. What they know is enough for them to not like you. I'd just steer clear of immature bitches like that. Match their energy or lack thereof.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:00 PM
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She...she's not quite a one off but girls like her aren't that common either. I get where she is coming from. Atleast if you're not one for commitment. If she's looking for a husband out of this UK guy then she's a bit dense. Especially if she really thinks he's not talking to other girls. I currently have a situation similar to hers but the difference for me is we are all aware that we will not be dating. One guy who has been in my life for a long time is literally happy with me just existing a…
/r/seduction23/04/22 01:51 PM
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The exception is not the standard. Regardless, hope it works out.
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:46 PM
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You literally answered your own question. Why are you chasing a man that doesn't want you? You said he flirted in the beginning, had sex a few times, and now he's dry. He isn't outright ghosting you cause he's made a connection with you and would probably feel bad. But he is being dry as fuck with your very direct questions and only replying one word a day which is another way men dodge or "ghost" when they aren't interested. This tactic is to make YOU lose interest. Clearly, it's not working lo…
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:12 PM
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I will admit, I am one who did this when i was younger but have learned better with age. It's still in the back of my head of something i see as a turn off given the context. When i was 14 i had a bf at the time who was older than me and to make a long story short, buncha shit happened of his own doing and I broke up with him. When i was breaking up with him he was crying and asking me "why" and it actually made me mad. in my mind i thought "jees im just breaking up with you do you REALLY have t…
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:55 PM
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Yeah you're boyfriends cheating on you. LDR always requires a lot of trust and communication. Why is he bragging about girls, wild nights and using emojis that reference sexual things (💦 usually is in reference to a girl being wet) and talkin bout "sore legs". I guess you can TRY to make the connection of his words with dancing but...this ain't it. Also...every 4am when he goes out??? Yeah...no. Also private twitter is sus but as an isolated thing, not a concern. Follow your heart and stay with …
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:58 PM
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Sex isn't always the end goal and your friend is the stupid one. Just cause you're on vacation doesn't mean it should be hook up city. Experiencing a person as they are can be just as much of an enjoyable experience and she may even like you more for the simple fact you didn't try to push or hint at sex. Ignore your friend. If she wants to get laid she can do so. Doesn't make you stupid for not even having it on your mind. You've left the mark of "a great guy i had an amazing conversation with t…
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:44 PM
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